Is it odd that she doesn't touch me in public and barely has any photos of us on social media?
75 upvotes | August 7, 2019 | by ke3bsf6
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I've been with my LTR for 3 years now (I'm 32 and she is 26), living
together for 4 months (yes, I know don't live with them).

My LTR is really weird about any sort of PDA. I was at the gym with
her the other day, I was doing my thing and she was doing hers and I
quickly walked by her as I moved to the next exercise and I did a
drive-by butt pinch and she got bent out of shape about it. No one
could have possibly saw.

We were walking up the stairs in our apartment complex and she was in
front of me and I simply grabbed her waist for 2 seconds and kind of
squeezed and rubbed her back. She was weird about that too (because of
cameras in the stairwell).

Lastly, we were in the pool and she was in the corner and I swam close
to her and she got bent out of shape about that too.

We later talked about it and she basically said that she felt like I
was trying to make it known to everyone that we are a couple. It was
never my intent to make it appear that way, I'm just doing it to do
some kino throughout the day. I never saw this as any type of mate
guarding or anything. Everything I did was subtle and wasn't to try to
show the room that she is my girl.

I ended up giving her a beta DEER response and I apologized for making
her feel uncomfortable, just so I didn't have to hear her bitch about
it anymore. I literally fell right into her frame and her rules.

Now I feel like I have to walk on egg shells. She is okay with holding
hands in public, but anything more than that she gets weird about it.
Are some girls just like this and I have to accept it?

Also, a common trend that I see on social media is both guys and girls
in relationships are posting photos of themselves in their profile
pictures. I honestly don't give a shit about social media all that
much anymore, but I just find it odd that in 3+ years of dating and
being in an LTR, shes only every uploaded like 2 photos of us. There's
a few photos that I've uploaded of us and then a few from other
people's uploads.

She doesn't have much on social media to begin with, but wouldn't you
think that she would at least have a few photos within the past 3+
years?

Her Facebook profile doesn't show that her and I are in a
relationship, unless you click into her about me section. I've learned
from TRP to mirror what they do, so after seeing that, I made it so
you have to click into the about section as well to see my
relationship status.

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