Lesson of pook 5: trust your gut... and my anxiety
8 upvotes | September 4, 2019 | by teabagabeartrap
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Hi there,

I wanted to ask for advice/experience on the topic of the
impossibility to discuss attraction and pook law 5. To the background,
I'm not married but it's concerning a LTR and I didn#t want to open
this in TRP, because I know I will get the oneitis shaming there and
thought I come here for maybe some advice.

There is this girl I see regularly, She initiates contact a few times
a week. When we are together she makes moves for body contact and
stuff like cuddling and kissing, which leads to sex.

Since I am red pill aware, I get a bad feeling every time she doesn't
do this. Before TRP/MRP I was way more relaxed about not having to
have sex each team we have time together and therefore surely looked
way lesser needy. Since I read the rational male and a lot of the
other books, I overreact on every sign, where I could interpret
something like a loss of attraction into.

I know it should be about me and not the woman I am with. The thought
is there, but my stomach won't stop complaining. I tried meditation
and excessive sport sessions (lifting, boxing, etc) which help for a
short time, but it just is falling back to old habits.

Now, something like a circle started. Me being a needy bitch, knowing
this is bad and feeling even worse. All "coolness" is gone at the
moment.

Has anybody any recommendation how to push through this?

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