The Power of RP Language 61 upvotes | February 10, 2015 | by jb_trp ------------------------- One of the greatest improvements in my life since swallowing TRP has been the growth in my _inner game_. I remember my old BP self, “falling in love” or “having a crush,” chasing after that girl, becoming friendzoned and then being “heartbroken” when she rejected me, etc. THE BP WAY OF THINKING LEFT ME MOSTLY POWERLESS TO THE EVENTS UNFOLDING IN MY LIFE. But now my eyes are opened. I understand how the world works—the ideas of SMV, hyperygamy, the wall, the cock carousel, AF/BB… It explains how the world _really_ works. Is TRP perfect in its explanation of all things? No. However, TRP is the clearest and best explanation as to why women are the way they are and how to have an effective sexual strategy. Understanding these truths has made me more powerful to take responsibility for myself and to pursue the life that I have always wanted. I BELIEVE THE BIGGEST GROWTH IN MY INNER GAME HAS COME FROM THE CHANGE IN _LANGUAGE_ THAT TRP USES. Simply understanding the world as it is, and then using _words_ that give me a course of action has made me more powerful in my sexual strategy. I have been, and am being, deprogrammed after years of being spoon fed Hollywood lies about “true love” and the Walt-Disney-happily-ever-after myth. For example, I remember my old BP self crying over the phone with my mother after a recent breakup (_cringe_). “You’ll meet someone else,” my mother tried to console me. “I don’t want to meet someone else!!” I sobbed over the phone. “But there are plenty of fish in the sea…” She responded. Her words didn’t bring me comfort and I proceeded to be a trainwreck. What was my problem? Why was I such a beta chump? I was so focused on my ex-girlfriend that I was an emotional wreck. I was powerless when we were dating, and even more emasculated after the breakup. I didn’t understand _abundance mentality._ I want to go over a list of commonly used RP terms that have changed my inner game. They should be compared to my old BP mentality to see the difference: “FALLING IN LOVE” VS ONEITIS -- Our bodies are wired to seek out mates and to bond with them. People speak about “falling in love” as if it’s something that just _happens_ to you. In a way, it does. Your body releases certain chemicals that cause you to become attached to another person. Redefining “falling in love” to Oneitis gives you an awareness of what is happening. It empowers you to make different decisions if your sexual strategy is to spin plates, etc. “SEEING SOMEONE” VS SPINNING PLATES -- “Seeing someone” makes it sound like your are Matthew McConaughey in some romantic comedy. You’ve just found a unique snowflake and life is full of endless possibilities. Let me tell you something: You aren’t Matthew McConaughey. This isn’t a movie. There are only a few ways your interaction with this girl will end up, and most likely they won’t end in happily ever after. “Spinning plates” is what it’s like. All plates fall and break eventually. You should always be approaching and finding more plates to spin (if this is your sexual strategy). “WE BROKE UP” VS NEXT -- “We broke up” is just like “falling in love.” It just happens, right? Not really. Sometimes a girl swings branches. Sometimes a plate decides she’s about to hit the wall and needs to settle down with her beta bucks. Or maybe it just isn’t working because your SMV isn’t as high as she thought—you failed too many shit tests. Whatever the reason, being ready to next a girl leaves you powerful in the relationship. _Always be able to walk away._ “THERE ARE PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA” VS ABUNDANCE MENTALITY -- I used to get really irritated when people would tell me, “there are plenty of more fish in the sea.” Usually it because I was so focused on that one “fish” that I was narrowly focused to see that there are so many girls in this world. They’re really not that special. They are not unique snowflakes that you need to fight for. Did you just have a LTR just end? Don’t feel sorry for yourself. Now you get to go out and fuck a lot of different women. Is that so bad? _Abundance mentality._ FRIENDZONED VS BETA ORBITER -- Were you oh-so-close to getting that cute girl in your English class? You guys talked and laughed, and had “such a great connection.” You would text her just to see how her weekend was going? But then when you told her you liked her, she (_gasp_) said she just wanted to be friends? What you really are is a beta orbiter. Your best bet is to cut ties and go lift. Anyway, my advice if your new to TRP is to just read. Read the sidebar, read the posts, read the comments (which often are better than the posts themselves). You have years of deprogramming to go through. Pick up on TRP language and use it to understand the world you live in. You will become more empowered for success in your sexual strategy. Oh, and go lift. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/29000