**Realization** Gay men are not just like straight women
8 upvotes | November 1, 2019 | by Rano_Ali
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I'll preface this in saying, I think I may be RP'd but I still have
shit in my life to sort out. While trying to figuring out who the hell
I am, I am seeing a difference between women and men.

I'm a fairly fit guy now and only got this way after working through
some serious baggage I picked up being in the scene and from
childhood. I also had pre-hypertension about a decade ago and it was
my wake-up call.

I make it a mission to set a challenge for myself everyday and to go
balls-to-the wall and make that goal happen. Doesn't always work and
some days I feel like I wrestle mental demons, but a nice workout
helps me chill out and face another day.

Female family members and former female friends comment and coo over
how great I look and I must have all the guys/girls after me. At
first, when I was shallow as fuck, it was nice now it comes off as
banal chit chat, especially when they ask me to write up a plan and
methodology for them. They balk at the HARD WORK IT INVOLVES or bit!h
about doing a diet or restricted eating.

It just made me see that when it comes to hard work, like Patrice
O'Neal said (paraphrasing) _Women do not want to work hard. Women want
to wait at the finish line and then ride on top of the guy into the
sunset_

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