Is It A Bad Idea To Stop Initiating Sex Entirely?
15 upvotes | November 1, 2019 | by loveisconditional
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Whenever I initiate, my girl will either enthusiastically go along
with my advances, or she'll sometimes just comply with some starfish
sex. I'd definitely prefer her enthusiasm, but really I'd just like to
fuck her and I'll still take that if she submits to it.

Unfortunately, just semi-recently I've found out that me still fucking
her during star-fish really upsets her and makes her self-reportedly
feel used and uncared for. She claims to have lost comfort with me as
of late and all I've been getting lately is starfish sex.

So my question is, would never initiating on my part, and allowing her
to only ever initiate be a smart move (given that she actually
initiates at some point)? I want more than starfish, and yeah I'd like
to keep her comfort with me as she's outright said she's lost a good
degree of it lately.

I probably shouldn't have done this, but I did verbally agree with her
to not initiate for a few weeks and only allow her to do it when she's
pining for it. Hopefully she does (it'll show her true attraction
towards me). Anyhow, what do you guys think, would doing this be a
wise way for men who remain attractive (if that is me) to stop having
issues over sex? Would it be a bad idea if I did this beyond a few
weeks? Just looking for some input here.

I have of course been lifting, my frame still needs some work, have
been lifting 11 years now before I ever found TRP. Am working on
improvement in all areas of my life.

EDIT:

So far I've got nothing from posting here. Responses are all: "DO THE
WORK" "FAGGOT" "SHE ISN'T ATTRACTED TO YOU" "FRAME FRAME FRAME"
"RREEEEEEEEEEE"

Great help guys. Frame. Isn't attracted to me. Cool shit. Anything
else?

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