So this just happened... 19 upvotes | November 21, 2019 | by DeanMaverick13 ------------------------- Things were finally starting to turn around. Family running smooth, I am doing well in the gym, wife has almost got the toddler weaned and hormones balanced which means aunt flow came back. 3 months later, in fact a week ago we went out for some drinks, nachos and cigars. Got home, had the indoor Olympics before sleep. She missed her monthly and the test came back positive today. A third baby... It's my fault for being irresponsible. I get it. But damn, now I feel like my life is on hault for another two years. The last baby really did a number on the marriage. He has not been a laid back kid at all. I'm just trying to get my thoughts out I guess. I don't know what I'm going to do. I'm not a bunch of kids in a minivan kind of guy. I feel guilty for the regret. I don't even know if my marriage can take another sexless, stressful hiatus so soon. But, I still have to own my shit. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/296165