How to hold frame around drunk people.
3 upvotes | November 24, 2019 | by RPOpenUp
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Last night I went out together with my brother and some friends of him
that I know a little. Before we went to the city we stayed at my
brother's place and played some alcohol games, those ones where you
play to just get drunk. Now I'm not interested in getting absolutely
wasted and it seems like thats the only thing some of his friends try
to do to me. (by having certain rules that you should drink at certain
moments) Now I don't really enjoy this but just play the game along
drink some beer from time to time, not more then I normally would.
However there's this one dude getting annoying and when we head out he
starts pushing me out of the elevator and that stupid stuff and not
like in a joking manner, when I tried to step back in he pushed me out
kicking a bit. He was actively preventing me from getting in the
elevator. Later in the clubs my friends just wanted to go to some
girls that they know to just give free validation to which was also
boring. Now this might look like a complaining post but it frustrates
me to not being able to enjoy myself at those moments. How can I deal
with those situations without being fake and losing my frame? Cheers

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