Are you still faking it, even when you've "made it"? Find the voice that makes you love yourself.
34 upvotes | March 2, 2015 | by trumpill
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I know you're faking confidence. I can practically smell it. My ears
and eyes are very sensitive to the breakable beta bitch in the bar
that's practicing his new PUA seduction techniques. It becomes clear
that the girl he is seducing is going along with it because she just
wants a cheap ride for the night.

But she still gives me her number when I walk up and ask for it. Why
does she do that when you've done such a good job at playing the game
with her? You opened a bunch of sets, you walked away at one point to
tease her, you were seen openly flirting with all sorts of girls in
the bar... you did everything right.

But you're still not that guy that has girls swarming around him to
hang on his every word. Why? What does he have that you don't?

He has confidence in his self. He honestly, truly loves himself. He
loves every word he says, and every action he takes. When he goes to
touch a woman, it is not with his arm, or his hand, or his fingers, it
is with his whole body, the whole of his internal energy is being
directed towards this person, if only for a brief second. There is no
denial, no turning back. He is in it to win it with every single thing
he does and every word he says. He doesn't take an action if he does
not love that action.

That love for himself pours off of him to all others around. You pick
up on it yourself. You can't help but look at what he's doing, trying
to study his movements, his actions, to place what it is he is doing
that entices people to him.

If you are in love with yourself enough, you can walk up to anybody
and have a conversation about your favorite potato chips that ends
with the other person thinking that they just met their new best
friend. You can walk up to a girl and say, "You are beautiful, I'm
buying you a drink, come talk to me." And she will follow, because
your self love is commanding, it is intriguing, and it is so sexy that
she wants a piece of it.

How do you achieve this self love? I recommend meditation, and
actually talking to yourself. I literally looked in a mirror saying,
"I love you" until I found a voice that I couldn't argue with. There
was no wavering in the confidence in that commanding voice that I
found. I stretched my vocal chords hard to find it, and I practice it
every day as much as I can. It is becoming natural, and has instantly
jacked up my frame. I am now stronger than the sum of all of my
accomplishments, experiences, and knowledge. It now matters not what I
do, but how I feel about myself.
 
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