Caught volition spouse lying - possible infidelity
10 upvotes | December 30, 2019 | by Neilio_Heilio
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Squat 265 lbs Bench 185 lbs Deadlift 335 lbs BF 25% - still fat,
weight’s coming down weekly.

Wife is a volatile pothead. She’s becoming increasingly unstable and
is difficult to predict. She admits to having some sort of disorder
but self medicates with weed she buys off of her half brother (whose
related to her by her mothers affair). She has the pothead “smarter
than thou” persona and assumes everyone is beneath her and is
extremely short tempered. I would have thrown her in the trash heap,
but I have a 15 month old with her. I’m a Canadian currently on
visitor visa here in the USA and don’t want to leave my baby girl
with her as I know she’ll just dump her on her mom while she works
and fucks off.

I caught her lying about her outing on Saturday. She claimed she had a
dead battery and asked me to leave her alone as it’s been the worst
night ever. Fabricated elaborate story having one of her friend’s
boyfriend’s front the bill as she had no money.

Long story short, I investigated and I’m 100% it’s a lie. I
didn’t call her out on lying, but her friends boyfriend is an
acquaintance of mine and I texted him a thank you and offered to pay
him back. He didn’t respond as he had no idea what I was talking
about and contacted his girlfriend who in turn called my cunt-wife.
She calls me in furious temper that I embarrassed her by discussing
“money issues” with a friend.

The only reason why I held off on calling her out is that she needs to
sign my sponsorship documents for me to get my work permit and PR.
I’m on parental leave (we get paid EI if we take time off to take
care of a newborn) and she’s been declining on and off (pending on
her mood swings) to sign them.

I need those documents signed and I’m stuck. I’m staying cool, not
engaging her and letting her blow up.

Need advice

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