What do you think of TRP's "spin plates" advice and how does it apply to gay men? Tops and bottoms?
7 upvotes | February 16, 2020 | by y22kthrowaway
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As a gay bottom who has read a lot of red pill theory, I feel like I'm
at a loss with what to do in my dating life. As someone who is
receptive to dominant men who like to fuck around, I feel totally
disgusted with myself. I'm afraid I'm incapable of ever maintaining
feelings for a single man. I absolutely loathe the mind and power
games both parties on opposite sexual poles have to play just to keep
each other in check and make sure that the flame of desire doesn't
ever go out because the man in the relationship cracked in a shit
test. TRP preaches men should be spinning plates, and women should be
trying to raise children. I never want to raise children. I think
being overly promiscuous is dangerous and gross. I've found myself
withdrawing from society as a whole to the point where I am pretty
much a hermit, but I often find that I am very lonely most nights. I
just feel like I am at odds with my nature. I don't see the point in
being with people when attraction between sexes is so fickle, and it
is made many times worse between gay men. I have tried changing my
nature to become someone who is not submissive but it feels fixed. I
have also never come close to developing feelings for another man if
hot sex isn't directly attached. I feel like an insufferable bottom
faggot because I am one. What is an insufferable bottom faggot to do?
Should I just start fucking random men until I develop an irrational
attachment to someone who knows how to hold frame? Even though he will
quickly grow tired of me due to the Coolidge effect or whatever and
move on to his next hotter looking plate? This all just seems like
never ending madness to me.

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