Odd story that helped finally move on from a coworker and GMOW 40 upvotes | August 1, 2019 | by thealleycatking ------------------------- Sorry if I have typos So Im gonna keep this short. I banged a coworker a few months back. I had feelings and wanted a relationship, but she didn’t want to do the relationship thing despite her feelings. Told her that was fine and we should stop. Three weeks later she tells me she got back with an ex for a 3rd time. About a month of work passes of constant bs, mixed signals, and pointless talking . One night I end up drinking with my friend at a bar and he tells me about this girl he slept with. We barely talked about it and then he put a picture of us on social media. The next day I go into work the girl I slept with comes and says “hey do you know ...?” And I replied yes. Apparently the girl he slept with was apparently the girl at works sister. Who I also matched with on tinder I believe before I slept with the coworker. Anyways I ask my friend why he won’t date her a few days later. He told me, “why would I date a woman who has no ambition, no goals, no purpose, lives at home, and is always depressed.” Once he said that I realized that the coworker that I was still fawning over was the exact same. I just had an episode realizing why I was chasing a woman like that.I pondered over it for the night wondering why I wasted my time. Few days later, or today I guess, I’m over her and realized how much time I wasted being “friends” with her and was there for occasional emotion support while she got fucked. I’m done with women and I’m going my own way. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/413787