The same way we were programmed to be betabux from birth we can also program ourselves to be otherwise 122 upvotes | May 1, 2017 | by J_AsapGem ------------------------- we're just placed into this world, with no knowledge or information about how anything works, so how do we become the person we are? The information that we were fed on how to live life when we were babies, we may not recognize it, but we're influenced by what we see constantly and the information that we are fed, society really did a great job feminizing men in today's society by using this same technique instilling within us all the fairy tale bullshit we've been fed since we came into this world.we're shaped by inherited tendencies and the environment. inherited tendencies are passed from the genes of our parents, could be shyness, boldness, aggression, etc. The environment we grow up in also plays a crucial role in shaping our personality, if a baby was raised in a feminist house hold he will be raised to believe he is not the prize, he has to work for the female's affection and whatever she says goes. It's things like these that shape our personalities, a personal example that shaped me into the person i became ( was ) was when i was a toddler and i liked a girl the kids in my class would say "OMG asapgem likes a girlll... " it's fucking stupid i know, but something as simple as that can shape your entire reality and personality it did for me, because of that happening i grew up suppressing feelings and emotions, found it difficult to express myself. But all is not lost! the same way we learned to become crappy versions of ourselves we can learn to become fucking awesome versions of ourselves also, and i'll tell you how. CONSISTENTLY FEEDING YOUR BRAIN OF THE PERSON YOU WISH TO BECOME - Have you ever found yourself listening to crappy music sometimes? like for instant young thug or perhaps you found yourself going to fast food restaurants constantly and you may not know why, why do we do this? our subconscious mind is extremely power and it adapts to familiarity that's how society programs us constantly feeding us with things as simple as advertisements fake news, radio stations etc , well guess what, we can learn to become whoever we want to be by consistent feeding our mind of what we wish to become. Consider learning to ride a bike at first we're horrible at it and we keep failing and falling but with _consistent practice_ we're able to master riding a bicycle and even eventually add a little finesse to it [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K9XCKP9KN7A], trust me these guys wasn't always this good, consistent practice is key! Here's a few ways you can train your mind to become the " ideal " person you wish to become * watch videos and focus on taking in all the information - i was a very dull person who seemed humorless at one point but what i did to fix this was watch a bunch of standup comedy constantly like everyday after work i would watch standup comedy, patrice o'neal, chris rock, etc and before i knew it i was developing a sense of humor and was able to tell jokes and not be boring. consistency is key! ( long way to go but it took me a few months of doing this to see some changes ) * Frame - can't stress enough how important frame is it took me a while to grasp the true meaning of this and how significantly it changes your life, this is what i did to help with my frame i'm seeing and receiving different reactions because of this as well and i recommend you guys do the same thing, get a pen and write down the frame you wish to attain in a notebook. ( i will give what i wrote as an example ) 1, how do you perceive yourself? i'm a very smart and intelligent person i'm bold and never back down from a challenge, overcoming challenges means growing and i'm ready to grow as a person 2, how do you think everyone sees you as a person? a very friendly person who seems comfortable and happy with himself and has a lot to offer. 3, how do you approach something you've never done before? if you don't take the risk you can't grow, if you can't grow you can't be happy, if you can't be happy what else is there? These are just a few things i've been working on myself personally, there's a lot more but you guys get the idea, read yourself the frame of mind you want to achieve and develop daily and consistently then eventually you will become this person, you have to believe deeply in whatever you wrote in your notebook as your frame, that's a major key in this. FAITH WITHOUT WORKS IS DEAD - You must carry out the actions that are necessary to develop the character of the person you wish to become, you want to be more bold? then be bold believe in yourself and do what you have to do to become that person, force yourself to be bold in a situation and if you keep doing this that's who you will become remember to remind yourself risk is necessary for growth and growth makes you happy before you do anything( you don't have to be but i do it ) it's like convincing yourself with compelling reasons why you have to do it. and by doing all these things together guys we develop a new personality and become that ideal person that we want to be, it's a lot of hard work but if you want it you will go after it, mindset and body must go hand in hand for you to become that ideal person you always wanted too,there's no way around it. Best of luck! _LESSONS LEARNED_ * Change your mindset change your life! * Your actions must coordinate with your mindset to become and develop the personality and character you wish to become * Consistently feed your consciousness with information so it can be embedded into your subconscious ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/42941