Those Three Little Words
639 upvotes | October 18, 2017 | by atticusfinch1973
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Before you think this is going to be about something romantic and
wonderful, have you been to this sub? I'm writing a simple post about
the most important three words you can use in any relationship, dating
or otherwise to establish a dynamic, make women want you and have the
best time you'll ever have:

I'll Handle It.

This is the automatic answer to things like making plans, being asked
to help with something by an LTR, or any other scenario where it is
required that a decision be made and action be taken.

There are major benefits to using these three little words. First of
all, whatever is getting done is getting done by you, under your
control. Therefore whatever restaurant you want to eat at, colour you
want to paint the walls or activity you want to do the woman is simply
along for the ride and will enjoy it. They will also appreciate the
fact that they didn't have to make a decision. You're taking a
leadership role in the relationship and are assuming the captain
dynamic.

In a work situation it shows leadership, the ability to work
independently and any boss or manager will highly appreciate that they
don't have to keep an eye on you or your work.

Of course, the other component of this is once you tell people you're
going to handle it - actually handle it. Over promising and not
delivering once an expectation is established is suicide in pretty
much any situation. And you have just destroyed any credibility you
might have had in establishing your authority.

Comments and additions welcome. If there are a better three words that
you can think of, fire away.
 
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