Female blogger unknowingly confirms TRP principles to a tee.
1003 upvotes | August 16, 2018 | by crunk_cat
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Didn't believe TRP before ? Well read here
[http://archive.today/2017.10.09-233920/http://www.twentynineandterrified.com/good-men-gone/]
and take it straight from a real girl's blog. This article shows TRP
principles so clearly that I honestly would have thought its fake if I
didn't look into the rest of the author's blog and her twitter. For
context she is 29, single, and desperately wants to settle down; she
looks decently attractive for a 29 year old. There was a time where I
would have read something like this and felt bad for her; but with the
red pills lens on, I just laugh.

> I have been single for the past nine months. Before that brief
> relationship nine months ago, I had been single for about two years.
> That is a long time to be alone right? I take complete
> responsibility for that extended period of “singledome.” I was
> finding a new job and really I was finding myself again. I was not
> feeling confident or content with my life and I was scrambling to
> figure that out before I brought anyone else into my life.

2 years alone at your late twenties is so scary as a woman. Sorry I
chose to prioritize my career, money, and freedoms over men.

> My beeeautiful friend whom I shall call Em, is single as well. She
> has a far different dating life from mine. No two year treks of
> singleness for Em. Em hasn’t been lucky in love yet either, but
> perhaps she is more lucky in love than I am. She does at least meet
> men _SHE WANTS TO SEE_ more than twice. One thing I should mention
> is that Em isn’t exactly “looking” to meet anyone at this very
> moment.
> 
> Ok Em, ok.

Em is hotter than men and she can still pull chads, I'm kind of
jealous.

> Being single in your (very) late twenties is hard. A couple of
> months ago we went to a minor league baseball game, after a lot of
> rambunctious cheering I received a ball from a player with his phone
> number. Never one to turn down a baseball player, *wink wink* I text
> him and we all met up with him and his friends at a nearby bar. The
> night was long, hilarious and made absolutely no improvement to my
> love life. This brings me to problem number one of dating in your
> late twenties.

Turns out the baseball guy just wanted some ass and not to put a ring
on my finger. I still fucked him though.

> You are no longer 24.Being 24 and being 29 are vastly different. At
> 24 I was young, naive, full of hope and open to all possibilities.
> Cute and funny guy with no real job, ehh he’ll get one! At 29 I am
> cynical, low on patience and know exactly what I want.

At 24 I loved getting pumped by bad boys with no jobs, they even had a
ton of tattoos! I loved being obsessed with them and I expected
nothing in return; I was getting the tingles hard. Unfortunately I'm
29 now, cynical from being used in my youth, and I know exactly what I
want now: financial support and babies.

> Problem number two…
> 
> You are over meeting men at bars.Remember when you wore tight skirts
> and four inch heels every night to impress a bunch of men at a bar
> that were really only trying to sleep with you? Long gone are those
> days. It’s a win if you fix your hair at 29. Meeting the same
> intoxicated, over confident bachelors has lost its appeal. Not to
> mention there is still a crowd of 22 year old girls with tight
> skirts and perfect contouring at these bars. Who has time to compete
> with that? You work FULL time at a job you probably hate no less.

Just LOL. Wow....

I remember 24, when I wore my slutty tight short dresses and my
fuck-me-heels for a bunch of bad boys and chads so I can get railed
hard by the hottest one I could impress. I cant do that anymore :( At
29, its kind of too much effort to even make my hair look good now.
While I'd like to pretend that I don't like getting sexually used by
hot bad boys anymore, my real issue is that I just cant compete for
them anymore with some many hotter younger girls around.

All the education and career I prioritized in my youth ended up
landing me a job that I hate anyway. I don't like working, I want a
breadwinner.

> Problem number three…
> 
> You don’t have the energy you did when you were younger.It used to
> be easy to hit four social events in one weekend. But between work,
> the gym, sleeping and running errands you are struggling to make it
> to one now. Being a grown up is no joke! There is so much to get
> done all the time. You don’t want to spend valuable hours sitting
> at a restaurant, hoping an attractive man will walk through those
> doors and sweep you off your feet. You want to know where these men
> are going to be dang it!
> 
> AND SO DO I!

I feel so tired, busy, and "grown up" now, I'm not that girl anymore.
I'm so busy, lets be real I'm only keeping up with my gym routine
until I snag a provider. Why can't I just sit on my ass and wait for a
prince charming to sweep me off my feet ? Fine I know its not gona
happen, at least I want to know where and how I can snag a clueless
beta.

> AND SO DOES EM!
> 
> She just doesn’t know it yet.
> 
> I believe other women are feeling the way Em and I feel. So, I have
> decided to help you all out. I am going to do a lot of research and
> work for you. I have already read too many articles to count today
> on the best places to meet single men. Good single men. In addition
> to the research articles I found on the web, I have collected data
> on places and events good men go to. Basically, I just asked good
> men. They know where they go better than anyone right?

You think this is just me? I know my peers are feeling this way too
when they hit 30s. My hunt for the "good single men" ( read perfect
beta chump) is just beginning. Here is a blog to help other women land
theirs too.

EDIT: I had her twitter tab still open and decided to scroll all the
way. Look at these two gems here
[https://twitter.com/JayJacktweets/status/676860964243832832] and here
[https://twitter.com/JayJacktweets/status/572184190306807808] . Good
luck to your future beta chump !

EDIT2: Someone inboxed me this
[http://archive.today/2017.10.08-111943/http://www.twentynineandterrified.com/fifty-shades-of-choosing-the-wrong-man/].
This blog is gold, read the description for "the safe bet" she dated
while keeping what you read here in mind.

The guys she has dated:

>   The Safe Bet
> 
> This guy isn’t horrible. He is nice, he adores you in fact. And
> you like him because well, he isn’t a threat. He could never do
> better than you! Finally, after the beating your ego took with
> the player and the narcissist you can be the adored one. And no
> more worrying every time a pretty girl walks in the room. Then over
> time you will realize this man may meet lots of nice bullet points
> on your list, but you aren’t that into him and he doesn’t
> realistically meet your “top tier” qualifications for a
> husband, you just let him slide on account of the fact that he liked
> you SO darn much. He’s history.

DONT BE THIS GUY ^. IF TRP WASN'T CLEAR TO YOU, IT DAMN WELL
SHOULD BE NOW.

> The Player
> 
> This guy just can’t keep it in his freaking pants. He is charming,
> too charming, but usually equally stupid. He is hitting on you and
> your best friend at the same bar, in the same night. Yes, I actually
> dated this dude(several times). Has little going for himself except
> that he is a fast talker.

The guy she wants:

> Is it weird if I’ve dated these same types more than once? So let
> me describe what I am looking for in case you know him and aren’t
> in love with him yourself. He is tall, dark and handsome. Those were
> a given right? He is a super confident man, that likes to workout,
> loves to stay in, understands the massive amount of time I have to
> spend with my mom. Loves God, has a grown up job, wants to have
> children, doesn’t fit into any of the above mentioned categories.
> Must be driven in all aspects of his life. Bonuses: he is handy
> (good with tools) and funny.. actually funny may be a requirement,
> is my list getting long? Must be able to 1. love my dogs 2. handle a
> girl with a big mouth and a lot of attitude…my mom, obviously!
> Fine…its really me with the mouth and the attitude.

EDIT3: Replaced the two blog links with their archive versions in case
she deletes them. I want people to learn from this as long as reddit
is up.

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