Girl got pissed that I didn't pay for her bar tab on first meeting.
63 upvotes | January 26, 2018 | by fade2clear
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I met a bumble chick at a local bar. Most of the girls I've met in the
past agree to go Dutch on the first date or whatever. I honestly
thought it was common sense.

We actually hit it off and had fun playing pool, darts, and just
chatting. She was drinking pretty heavily. She had like 5 different
expensive mixed drinks over a 2 hour period.

Side note: At some point a group of her old work friends showed up. I
don't know if this was orchestrated but I really didn't care. We all
started playing pool and whatnot and having a decent time.

It's getting late and I'm ready to go. I had already made out with
this girl earlier in the night. I told her I was leaving so she walked
me out to my car, where I was going to invite her back to my place. So
we make out again, and right after she says "oh yeah, thanks for the
drinks!". I had cashed out my tab while we were playing pool. I told
her I don't pay for shit the first time I meet someone and I never
agreed to pay for hers. She was like "you're playing right?" I told
her no, said bye and left.

I'm not even sure how much her tab was, but I would guess >$40 and I
was NOT paying that. I did buy the wings we shared.

So she texts me the next day saying her card was "froze" and her
friends had to pay for her tab. I asked why did she come out if her
card was froze(i.e. didn't have money). "you invited me out" She
didn't respond after that. I could tell she was really into me before
I told her i didn't cover her tab.

Did I handle this correctly or should I have told her I wasn't paying
for her shit upfront?

I'll probably just meet girls at the park or something from now on.
 
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