Take ownership of your women
446 upvotes | July 15, 2016 | by Archwinger
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If you want to have sex with women, you have to make sex appealing to
them. Because women have a lot of choices and only so much time and
energy they can give to you.

Like all humans, every woman you encounter only has 24 hours in the
day to spend, and only a certain amount of physical and emotional
energy to devote to any particular task. For example, you wouldn’t
expect a high-powered career woman to have much time to be a good
mother, keep a good house, fuck her husband six times a day, or even
be emotionally available to her husband for more than a few token
minutes each night. You wouldn’t expect a single mother, whose first
obligation is to her child(ren), to have nearly as much time and
energy to devote to being a good partner as a woman who isn’t
similarly burdened.

We all have our jobs, our families, our friends, our obligations, our
hobbies – shit to do. And the more shit we have to do, the less time
and energy we have for other shit.

This means that if you want a woman who is one hundred percent devoted
to the satisfaction of your dick, you need a woman who doesn’t have
any other shit to do. Obviously, this theoretical ideal doesn’t
exist in the real world, but the general principle applies: The more
you lean on your woman in other capacities (and the more you let her
run amuck inventing other work for herself), the worse job she will do
at being your woman.

If you try to be friends with your woman, that’s just less time
she’ll have to be a good woman. Many married men and guys in
committed relationships start to spend all of their time with their
women. They lose touch with their friends. Often, their women actually
insist on this, and the guys buckle, give up their friends, give up
their hobbies, give up their outings, give up their alone time, and
start spending every waking moment doting on their women. This is a
huge mistake. Having guy friends and independent shit to do is
critically important. I know that men are often touted as stoic,
emotionless, angry assholes who never get lonely, but that’s
bullshit. Humans are social creatures, and if you don’t have any
friends, you’re going to start talking to your wife or girlfriend
about what’s going on in your life and how you feel about those
things. It’s only natural.

If you don’t have friends and independent interests, you’re going
to start using your woman as a friend and primary social outlet, and
that’s emotionally draining for her. The more you lean on her as a
friend, the less time and emotional energy she’s going to have to be
your woman. Your woman’s job is to be a repository for your dick,
not your words and feelings. Women don’t want to be the dumping
ground where you moan about your day, your troubles, and your worries.
That’s what your friends are for. Or your dog. The more you use her
as your friend, the less you can use her for fucking.

Many men are shitty leaders. They don’t take ownership of their shit
and get their lives, and the lives of their women (and children if
applicable), in order. They often use their women as secretaries and
social planners. Once a relationship is in place, guys get lazy, and
the women start planning the events and outings, deciding who to hang
out with, what needs to be taken care of around the house or
apartment, and so on. It’s become a bit of a trope for women to
assign their men a honey do list, because their men are lazy,
disorganized chumps who don’t take care of anything unless nagged
into it. Most guys just don’t have any pride or initiative any more.

When your woman is your secretary, your social planner, your employee,
or maybe even your boss, she’s too busy managing shit and keeping
track of shit and taking care of shit to do a good job being your
woman. If you take care of that shit instead, your woman can focus on
being your woman and taking care of your dick. Women are limited. They
can’t handle the stress of two roles in a day.

If you’re constantly gushing your feelings and pouring your heart
out to your woman, you’re making yourself a very unfair burden.
It’s your job to attend to your feelings and your happiness, not
hers. Making yourself happy is your own job. If she has to tend to
your feelings and make you feel better when you’re down, like a
little child, then she’s your mommy. And there just isn’t enough
time and energy in the world for her to be both your mommy and your
woman. Her job is to tend to your dick, not your feelings.

The more you try to use women for anything other than sex, the less
sex you’re going to have, and the shittier the sex will be. A woman
can only relax and become truly passionate when she feels safe. Yes,
that’s something a feminist would say. I know. But to an extent,
it’s true. However, we at The Red Pill know what actually makes a
girl feel safe, and it’s not flowers, expensive restaurants, and
obtaining written permission before pecking her on the cheek. A woman
feels safe when she feels owned. Led. Like she doesn’t have to worry
about anything because her man has all of life’s shit under control,
and the tools to handle any unexpected shit that comes his way.

She doesn’t have to be his friend – he has plenty. She doesn’t
have to tend to his feelings – he knows what he wants and makes
himself happy, and even brings her along sometimes. She doesn’t have
to manage his life – he manages hers. A woman feels safe when
she’s well-led.

It’s important to note that leadership goes beyond basic
self-improvement and being a badass. You have to actually lead her. If
you have the greatest and happiest life imaginable and don’t need
her for anything but sex, yet you don’t lead her, she’s just going
to invent a bunch of bullshit to keep herself busy, and convince
herself that it’s important. That’s how badass guys somehow end up
with stupid bitches who can’t put their cell phones down for two
seconds, own ugly dogs that they treat like people, get drunk with
their slutty friends every weekend, and work suspiciously late hours
at their part time office jobs. If you don’t control your woman, she
runs around doing stupid shit to feel important.

When dealing with shitty men, women are bitchy. They set boundaries
and impose rules and requirements prior to sex. They find other things
to do with their lives and prioritize those other things over their
men.

When dealing with awesome men, women practically beg to be owned like
property. They just use whatever modern egalitarian words correspond
to that concept, and pretend it’s just a sexual kink, because
actually admitting that you prefer being a slave to an awesome man is
sacrilege in the modern world.

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