Men in your 40s - if you can turn back time, what do you wish you knew in your 30s? 239 upvotes | May 5, 2020 | by milkandweed ------------------------- As a man in my mid/late 30s who fucked up most of my 20s and 30s, I want to share 3 lessons I learned the hard way: * Don't waste time chasing pussy. Well, don't waste time at all. But pussy, in particular. Focus on improving yourself. * Be careful of the relationship trap, especially when a girl has higher SMV. This is a big distraction from your goals. There are exceptions of course, but usually only if you are 'dating down'. * If you are already in a relationship and it's great, that's wonderful, but if it's bad/toxic, stop trying to fix that shit or getting obsessed with it, just cut it out. I'd love to hear from those of you 40+ and beyond. Do you agree / disagree with these lessons, and do you have anything else to add to this list? If you can turn back time, or share advice with your younger self in your 30s, what do you wish you knew? ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/659890