How do you get good at sex?
1 upvotes | October 18, 2016 | by empatheticapathetic
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I have a huge fear at being awful at sex. I'm 26 and have been with an
escort 3 times this year, no other experiences. A year ago I felt and
acted with real lust over my virgin oneitis but she dumped me for a
Chad before we could fuck and I found TRP.

Every other time before my oneitis I could never get it up with a girl
and was a virgin. I never really felt lust or anything the 3 chances I
had.

My 3 successful times with the escort have varied from awful to OK. I
had another 3 where I couldn't get it up. She's been awesome about
being so patient with me and helping me relax.

I pretty much see myself only ever Fucking escorts to be completely
honest due to having no sexual confidence, desire or opportunity to
fuck a real girl. The whole ideology of this forum about "fucking her
good" being the most important thing you could ever bring has killed
the idea of me attracting someone.

I think part of my lust towards my oneitis was because she was a
virgin and wouldn't have known any better. She pretty much bragged to
me how incredible this Chad she had met was before we cut contact in
an attempt to destroy me so I'd cut contact. I obviously did and it
killed my little self confidence regarding women.

I can tell from the escort she just hates when I come over, it's like
she's babysitting me.

How do I gain any sexual confidence? I'd love to see the escort
regularly but it's way too expensive for me. How long does it take to
get good at sex? I honestly only care about the validation and
experience factor of it. I want to have had sex for some period in my
life, then I'll get over it.

Should I just resort to BB game with a woman ready to settle down once
we're both 30 and get her to help me learn? Cheers
 
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