New RP'er Seeking Guidance
4 upvotes | May 2, 2014 | by trustingoctopus
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Hello fellow RP'ers. I swallowed the pill about two months ago and
have been devouring the content located on the subreddit since then. I
would like some candid advice.

First, me. I'm 19 and in good shape. I'm shipping out to college in
three months.

The Situation: On my college visit (overnight stay), I lived RP as
much as I was capable. In the smoky deluge that was campus I acquired
the number of a hb7/8. Haven't seen her since, but we've been texting
regularly since that night (she initiated, on my order). Lots of
innuendo, flirting. Good stuff. We're probably going to meet up this
summer when she's on my coast. She'd be about 2hrs drive from my
place.

I have three questions. 1) Is it wrong to offer to pick her up and
bring her to my place for a few days? Is that going to lead to me
appearing weak?

2) She goes (did go?) to a Jesuit (all-female) high school, so I am
not sure how experienced she is. I am aware that this is a good thing.
My question is how to respond to her declining sex on grounds other
than being a virgin. (I must state that I have no intent to go too
far...I had a friend do that this year. Not a good time.) How do I
deal with that shit test (I assume it is one).

3) Is it better to be hooking up before college begins or to wait
until I'm on campus? (This is largely food for thought) I know
hypergamy will come into play (I will be joining the freshman class in
the winter, will be overseas the first semester), so I am curious as
to whether or not this will help or hurt my ability to turn her into a
plate/ cautious LTR material (down the road).

Thank you for your input. I've learned a great deal from my brief time
here, and I know I will continue to do so.

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