He wanted to be exclusive but without a relationship. Make it make sense. 141 upvotes | April 14, 2021 | by kittycakes22 ------------------------- Guy I was seeing is exactly what I'm looking for, and we have a lot in common. He wanted to see me often, was very consistent in communication, took me on a date, etc. Then he all of a sudden said that he wants to slow things down, and that he's not looking to commit to anyone for a very long time since he got out of a relationship in November. He asked to be exclusive, go on dates and continue our connection but a relationship would be out of the question and not what he's looking for. I said then and there that it's possible I could catch feelings beyond that, and I said no. It was so hard, because he's so attractive and he's everything I would choose in a guy but it wasn't meant to be. I'm happy I cut it off, but at the same time it's hard because he is my producer for music I am working on with my band. He said he can keep it professional and I can too, but is there any advice moving forward? I want to make sure I did the right thing. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/post/792228