Too concrete, too literal, take a step back.
26 upvotes | July 29, 2013 | by Whisper
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Have you noticed it yet?

Every couple of days, a woman wanders in here with a throwaway
account, and she's had twenty different sexual partners. Or she
doesn't want kids. Or she has a degree in engineering. And she either
whimpers that her life is over, or defies us to explain her in
particular, as if her very existence disproved everything we know
about men and women.

And it's not just the one-off, in-and-out posters, either.

YOU'RE TAKING THIS ALL WAY TOO LITERALLY.

The red pill is some information. Not instructions. And that
information is about basic principles, not universal specifics.

There's a basic red pill truth in effect here, and it's impacting how
you interpret the other information.

WOMEN ARE GENERALLY MORE SUBMISSIVE THAN MEN. Not always, not
entirely, but generally and mostly.

That's why you are all treating this as a list of instructions. It's
not. It's information for _you_ to use in figuring and planning out
your life. Yes, there things you need to do. Yes, you're inclined to
ask what you need to do. But, no, people who don't know you can't
figure out the specifics.

So if you don't kids, or you want a career, or you're not so into
powerful, dominant men... does that mean none of this applies to you?
No. Because none of these are the real principles we're really talking
about.

What are some of these basic principles we're really talking about?

 	* RELATIONSHIPS, NOT ACHIEVEMENTS, ARE WHAT MAKES WOMEN HAPPY.
That's why redpillian advice says things like "have children when
you're young", and "prioritize marriage over your career", and "don't
slut around", and "be sweet and nice, not sassy and competitive". 

You see, all of these things are intended to build you satisfying and
long-lasting _relationships_. With your man, with your children, with
your friends. And to persuade you not to sacrifice those relationships
for a career that will not fulfill you. This is why women get paid
less than men... because they make less sacrifices for their career.
And that's _good_ for them.

 	*
MASCULINE, NOT FEMININE, QUALITIES ARE WHAT WOMEN FIND ATTRACTIVE AND
FULFILLING IN A MATE.

 	*
FEMININE, NOT MASCULINE, QUALITIES ARE WHAT MEN FIND ATTRACTIVE AND
FULFILLING IN A MATE.

 	*
FEMININE ATTRACTIVENESS BECOMES HARDER TO ACHIEVE OR MAINTAIN WITH
AGE. MALE ATTRACTIVENESS DOES NOT.

Do you get the point? Stop looking for a precise set of instructions
on how to live your life. I know you're somewhat submissive by nature,
and precise instructions would be comfortable, but people who don't
know you cannot give them to you.

Instead, keep the principles in mind, when making decisions. Should
you move to another city with your boyfriend when he gets that better
job? Should you be receptive to that 40 year old guy hitting on your
22 year old self? Should you have the children you want at 23, or wait
until 35?

So let's not hear anymore of this "Look, I have an engineering degree,
none of this stuff must be about me at all!", "Oh, noes, I love a man
who refuses to even consider marriage 2.0! I must be doomed!", "I
don't want children at all, all your theories must be wrong, wrong,
wrong!".

Okay?

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