Natural Game Vs. Scripted Game (Which Is Better?)
Red Pill Theory | April 12, 2019 | by Avery
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NATURAL GAME VS. SCRIPTED GAME (WHICH IS BETTER?)

A LOT OF GUYS DON€™T WANT TO USE SCRIPTED LINES OR TECHNIQUES WHEN
INTERACTING WITH WOMEN BECAUSE THEY DON€™T WANT TO COME ACROSS AS
FAKE.

IT€™S TRUE THAT THE FIRST TIME YOU TRY USING A CANNED LINE, IT IS
GOING TO BE UNCOMFORTABLE, AND POSSIBLY EVEN AWKWARD. BUT THAT€™S
NOT ALWAYS BECAUSE THE LINE IS INAUTHENTIC TO YOU.

Think of the protagonist in your favorite movie. Does Marlon Brando
seem inauthentic when he’s portraying Vito Corleone? Does Brad
Pitt seem inauthentic portraying Tyler Durden in Fight Club?

Of course not.

 [https://redpilltheory.com/2018/02/06/attract-women-charisma/brad-pitt-fight-club/]

Actors learn to completely transform their personality, and they do so
without sacrificing authenticity. We are told that trying to change
ourselves makes us ‘fake,’ but this is misleading. Realness
isn’t about what you do or say, it’s about _how you feel
about what you’re doing and saying_.

Anything you do to expand your personality is going to make you feel
uncomfortable at first. For instance, the first time you approach a
girl in a bar you will experience stress. And that stress can make you
feel like you’re doing something inauthentic to your personality.
(Maybe you’re too shy for cold approach or perhaps you’re an
introvert who should avoid bars.)

Is approaching women ‘unnatural’ to anyone’s
personality? Of course not, approaching women is only uncomfortable
because it’s outside your comfort zone.

 [https://redpilltheory.com/2019/03/31/how-to-exude-sexual-magnetism/caleb-george-144977-unsplash/]

 

Truthfully, anything you do that requires conscious effort will come
across as inauthentic. Whether you’re learning how to hold strong
eye contact, how to use physical touch in your interactions with women
[https://redpilltheory.com/2018/09/06/kino-escalation-how-to-attract-women-with-physical-touch/],
or how to change the tonality of your voice, you can expect it to come
across as a bit forced at first.

This creates a frustrating paradox: if you try to change your
personality, you will come across as inauthentic, and therefore,
unattractive. But if you don’t try to change your personality,
you will be unable to improve yourself or your results.

The solution to this paradox is to_ understand that you can change
your personality, but you’ll get worse before you get better_.
Accept that although discomfort sucks, it is an intrinsic part of
growth.

 

When you try to tease a girl for the first time, it might come across
as inauthentic. But that’s only because you’re not
comfortable with teasing women. If you continue practicing despite the
initial awkwardness, you’ll eventually be able to consistently
use teasing to make women burst into laughter.

It’s not a particular line or behavior that makes you seem
‘fake’, it’s the discomfort you experience when using
the technique – with practice, anything can become authentic to your
personality.

NATURAL GAME VS. SCRIPTED GAME (WHICH IS BETTER?)

PART 2: EXPANDING YOUR PERSONALITY
 [https://redpilltheory.com/2019/04/12/natural-game-vs-scripted-game-which-is-better/matheus-ferrero-209688-unsplash-2/]

Using scripted techniques allows you to try things you would never
have attempted otherwise.

For instance, a lot of men believe that women get creeped out when a
guy directly states his sexual interest. If someone who holds this
belief were to try using a direct opener like,“Hey I thought you
were cute and I had to say hi,” he would discover that –
contrary to what he previously thought – women often respond very
positively to a direct compliment.

Therefore, simply practicing a scripted direct opener could
fundamentally expand your understanding of female psychology and
change the way you interact with women for the rest of your life.

Similarly, let’s say you were to use a scripted line to tease
women. For instance, when a girl tells you she’s from Ohio, you
might tease her by replying, “You would be from Ohio.” With
enough practice, using this line would show you that,
counterintuitivey, saying something that’s mean on a surface
level can actually make women respond in a very positive way.

There are a variety of different emotions you can tap into when
interacting with a girl, but by default, MOST OF US ONLY HIT ON A FEW
OF THOSE EMOTIONS. We might be comfortable with being friendly and
agreeable, but we’re not comfortable with being dominant or
sexual (or vice versa).

Scripted techniques act as training wheels so you can create an
emotional impact you otherwise wouldn’t be able to. Then, once
you realize that women respond positively to something like teasing or
a direct compliment, through practice, you’ll get a feel for the
underlying principle behind the technique – _and you’ll be able
to come up with your own ways of hitting that same emotional note._

Learning game this way is an example of the learning model that starts
with unconscious incompetence. At first, we don’t even know that
something like teasing, showing direct interest, or holding strong eye
contact can attract women (I.E. we are unconscious of our own
incompetence.)

 [https://redpilltheory.com/2019/04/12/natural-game-vs-scripted-game-which-is-better/1_wqz9hug8pwf2ke0eqe3-yg/]

Then, we become consciously incompetent: we have learned that a
particular technique can help us attract women, but our attempts at
using it are awkward and somewhat ineffective.

Third, we reach a point of conscious competence: now we can use the
technique and get good results(I.E. teasing) but it requires effort to
do so.

Finally, we reach unconscious competence: we are able to tease a girl
or hold strong eye contact or come up with witty lines without any
conscious effort – it flows through us spontaneously (like when our
muscle memory takes over in a sport).

At this point, I don’t use many scripted lines or techniques when
I approach women, but that’s only because I practiced using
‘scripted game’ tactics until I was comfortable enough with
them that I could naturally create the same emotional impact without
needing a specific technique.

NATURAL GAME VS. SCRIPTED GAME (WHICH IS BETTER?)

PART 3: WHEN SCRIPTED GAME BACKFIRES

 [https://redpilltheory.com/2018/02/07/demonstrate-higher-value-without-looking-like-tool/mystery-2/]

Although learning scripted techniques has its advantages, it is
important to be aware that it can be overdone. If your entire
interactions with women become nothing more than a rendition of a
script, you’ll likely come across as robotic: women will sense
there’s something ‘off’ about the way you interact with
them.

However, if you never try doing things that are ‘unnatural’
to you, you won’t change, and therefore, your results won’t
change.

Your conversations with women should mostly flow naturally, but it can
be useful to learn a technique to work on a specific sticking point
that you have.

For example, you might notice that your interactions are too friendly
without much sexual tension. In this case, learning techniques that
will add sexual energy to your interactions can be useful.

Alternatively, you might notice that you’re good at attracting
women, but you never actually bring them home with you. Thus, learning
a specific strategy for pulling you can overcome this roadblock.

Ultimately, the idea of ‘natural game’ is meaningless: you
cannot improve your game without doing things that are unnatural to
your current personality. What makes you authentic is your degree of
comfort with what you’re doing, and yes, many of the behaviors
that women find attractive will be inauthentic to you when you first
try them, but through practice, anything can become natural to you.

PS: Here are a few examples of specific techniques you can learn to
get better results in game:

Teasing:

Approaching Directly:

https://www.patreon.com/posts/24368162 (In this premium infield
compilation you will see examples of me approaching women both
indirectly and indirectly.)

Holding Strong Eye contact:

> How To Create Sexual Attraction With Eye Contact
> [https://redpilltheory.com/2018/11/26/how-to-create-sexual-attraction-with-eye-contact/]

Changing Your Vocal tonality:

> How To Seduce Women With Your Voice
> [https://redpilltheory.com/2018/11/30/how-to-seduce-women-with-your-voice/]

Seeding The Pull:

 

 

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