Croatia #4 – Facebook game on an insta-date girl Krauser PUA | November 27, 2010 | by krauserpua ------------------------- UPDATE: Video added Here’s some more facebook chat. This girl was a street pickup on my third day in Croatia who then went off to collect her two friends and returned for an instant date_._ It went ok but she’s mostly unavailable for the boyfriend and we never had a day 2. So this is Long Game [https://krauserpua.com/2010/11/18/long-game/]. The first chat was two days after the instant date, while I was still in Croatia: Me – oh no! it’s her!!!!! Her – hahahaha…    and what are you going to do now? xd Me – I thought first I’ll say some simple things    to relax you  _[I’m in a funny mood so I go into a weird meta-game]_ Her – oke..I’m listening..xd tell me… Me – Then when you are relaxed, I’ll make a couple of jokes Her – haha..oke.. Me – Then I’ll gradually include some sexual innuendo Her – haha Me – Then, when you are quite excited, I’ll arrange our date Her – hahah..I told you that I have a boyfriend..  _[this is where I decided it’s gonna have to go to Long Game]_ Me – You’re not gonna be my girlfriend. I’m only here one week  _[but I try to go the Short route anyway]_ Her – I know that..hahah..but he’s gonna be mad if he find out that I’m meeting somebody else… Me – That’s his problem. Anyway, by the time he finds his gun I’ll be on the flight home_ [frame him as jealous of me]_ Her – hahahahahaahhahahahaha…you’re right..hahaha… Me – What you doing now? Her – I’m talking with my stupid friends..and I’m angry now on them.. Me – The ones I met? Her – no…  [girl 1] and [girl 2] are nice.. XD Me – It was nice to get some sun today _ [don’t let her vent about her friends, snip the thread]_ Her – yes..It wasn’t raining today for a change…I hate rain… Me – I went to Hemmingway cafe by the town hall. Was nice Her – woow…super….I’m glad for you.. Me – Is that sarcasm, woman? Her – hahahahha..no…why?? xd Me – it sounded like it Her – i’m not sarcastic…don’t worry… Me – ok, +10 points for you Her – hahahahahaha…I’m so happy now….aaaaah… Me – THAT was sarcasm Her – hahahahahhaha…yes…hahahahahah…:D:D Me – So tell me a secret Her – which secret? I don’t have secrets… Me – Sure you don’t…… Her – so why did you ask me that? xd Me – C’mon – a secret…. Her – tell me yours and I tell you mine.. Me – You promise? Her – yes..I promise.. Me – ok, ask me ONE personal question Her – hmmm…tell me what is the most important for you  on the woman, how she looks or her character?? Me – That has a complicated answer  _[make her wait]_ Her – hahaha..never mind..tell me… Me – wait a moment    … Her – ok..haha Me – ok…    I’m a man, so obviously I am only interested in pretty women    It’s the first filter    But because of my job, I meet lots of beautiful women    So I have learned not to be too impressed with beauty    The main thing I look for is confident femininity  _[screening frame, pre-selection]_ Her – hmmm..that’s interesting…    In what way?    because you only  mentioned  appearance…xd Me – Femininity is a way of moving through the world. It’s an attitude    not appearance Her – whatever you say…You’re right..xd I must listen to you…haha Me – My turn… Her – ok..xd Me – What is the most embarassing thing you ever did? Her – hmmm…let me think..    I lied to my mother once that I was with my friends and actually I was with my boyfriend…I was watching her in the eyes and lied…but I didn’t know that she already knew where I’ve have been all day… Me – ooooooh, I’ll bet you were very timid around her for a few days after that  _[showing social calibration]_ Her – I didn’t speak with her for a mounth…she was so made at me… Me – Was this a long time ago? Her – a year ago… Me – women! _ [framing women – and thus her – as childish and thus me as more mature]_ Her – hahahaha…. Me – I’m watching kickboxing on TV. I love it Her – hmm..I don’t like such a dangerous sport…xd Me – My favourite fighter is on next    Anyway, let’s do the coffee tomorrow. I might be in Budapest on Saturday Her – hmm..I’m not sure….because I’m working tomorow…. Me – boo Her – XD Me – When you finish work? Her – at 8 pm.. Me – It might be possible. Her – hmm..I don’t know..my parents are very strict..If I don’t come home on time..hmm…that wont’be good..xd and I’m scared..hahah….at 8 pm is dark outside…xd Me – yeah yeah yeah…..    we’ll meet for about 2 hours    I need to sleep too! Her – haha..I know… Me – so are you gonna buy some phone credit? Her – yes..some day…hahaha…XD Me – hang on….     hey Her – ey..xd Me – had to help my friend…. _ [mild DHV]_ Her – ok..     that’s nice..xd Me – I’m going to bed soon. Find a way to contact me and we’ll sort something out Her – ok.. xd    goodnight Me – sleep well Her – you too I leave it at that – though she’s attracted she’s basically telling me it’s not enough to overcome her boyfriend. Fair enough. Two weeks later I reopen her, when back in London. Again this is the full text, so these two conversations are 99% of our contact since the date (the remaining 1% is light text chat) Me 23:11 – Have you been stealing motorbikes again?  _[she’d just tagged herself in a photo straddling a superbike]_ Her 23:12 – hahahah…no…that’s mine..xd Me 23:12 – Really???? I don’t believe you  _[she responded in playful mood, so I run with that]_ Her 23:13 – hahah.it’s true.. 😀 Me 23:13 – No. This is you on your bike  _[tease to build attraction – always worth doing early in each chat]_ [https://krauserpua.com/2010/11/27/croatia-4-facebook-game-on-an-insta-date-girl/pink-motorbike/] Badass Her 23:14 – hahahahahahahahahahaha    oh no..you catch me…that’s not nice..xd    😛 Me 23:14 – 😛    My motorbike is awesome _ [being a proud boy, playfully childish and confident]_ Her 23:15 – hahahaha..xd Me 23:15 – But if I let you ride it, you have to wear the matching costume  _[mild future projection, where I set the rules]_ [https://krauserpua.com/2010/11/27/croatia-4-facebook-game-on-an-insta-date-girl/my-bike/] a Krauser 10 Her 23:16 – hahahha..you are crazy..  _[IOI]_ Me 23:17 – If we had a race, would you cheat?  _[set her up as naughty, which is consistent with the original approach and helps a little in unlocking the inner slut [http://www.realassanova.com/2010/11/unlocking-womans-inner-slut.html]]_ Her 23:17 – no..I always respect the rules of a game..    😛 Me 23:18 – Cool. What you doing now?  _[enough attraction, move into comfort before it fizzles out]_ Her 23:19 – nothing…I watched tv but it was boring..so I’m now doing nothing..just    sitting and relaxing..  _[telling me she has time to talk and is easily hooked through lack of better things to do]_ Me 23:19 – on a friday night? _ [make her qualify on popularity and excitement]_ Her 23:20 – yes..well it’s freezing outside..XD it’s snowing..xd  _[bingo]_ Me 23:21 – haha. Okay, I believe you    you’re NOT the lonely girl with no friends 😉    Hasn’t started snowing here yet Her – 23:21 – hahahahaha..ok..it’s better without snow…xd Me 23:23 – What are you wearing?  _[fuck it, I’m bored. Let’s just throw in the sexualisation]_ Her 23:24 – :O why are you asking me that? xd  _[shit test, but clearly not offended]_ Me 23:24 – you answer first, then I’ll tell you  _[dominance]_ Her 23:27 – well I’m wearing shirt,pullover,and trousers..and socks..hahaha Me 23:27 – boo! not sexy at all 😦  _[release]_ Her 23:28 – hahahaha..it’s cold..xd    i’m sorry    hahah Me 23:28 – hmmmmmmmmmmmm    what colour are your panties?  _[call it and raise it, based on how well she took the last question]_ Her 23:28 – omg..hahahaha…  _[IOI]_ Me 23:28 – ( if it’s not a personal question )  _[joking about the pretended lack of calibration]_ Her 23:29 – well it’s very personal..xd Me 23:29 – tell me anyway 😉 _ [dominant]_ Her 23:30 – hahahaha…imagine something..I wan’t tell you ..:D  _[nice answer, she’s ok with me thinking of her sexually but is playing coy]_ Me 23:32 – big, white…. like my grandmother wears _ [release the tension entirely, returning to a tease]_ Her 23:33 – noooooooooooo :S    hahahaha  _[it hits well]_ Me 23:33 – I just tried to find a funny picture    I google image searched “furry underwear”    and the results….. :O    I’m shocked….    maybe I should turn “safe search” back on  _[transition away from her into general stuff, to keep tension down for a while]_ Her 23:34 – hahahahahhaha..maybe you should..xd    what did you find?  _[I’d hoped to lure her into asking this]_ Me 23:35 [https://krauserpua.com/2010/11/27/croatia-4-facebook-game-on-an-insta-date-girl/furry-underwear-man/] Be careful what you google Her 23:36 – hahahahahahahahahhahahhahaha    omg    that’s ugly..hahah Me 23:37 – that was one of the least shocking photos Her 23:38 – hahahahhaha    i believe you..    hahah I let it die with this. The only purpose of the second chat was to establish myself in her life as the guy she responds to on facebook. I was surprised how far she let me push the playful sexualisation. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/blog/Krauser-PUA/croatia-4-facebook-game-on-an-insta-dategirl.27853