10 Reasons why the future of game is bright.
RedPillDad | August 21, 2020 | by RP McMurphy
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The SMP is pretty tough right now if you’re a dude
[https://redpilldad.blog/2020/08/19/women-behaving-badly-the-crazy-level-of-female-narcissism-and-what-happens-next/].
That’s just a fact. But some guys might have come away from the last
post thinking I’m down on women or game.

No.

Precisely the opposite. Indeed, I think that after we get past COVID,
the 2020s are going to be a great time to be a player and lover of
women.

One important note before we get to the reasons: as a red pill man,
one needs to learn to separate the negative aspects of reality from
the optimism of taking action. Because both are important and
necessary. Yes, you need to understand what you’re up against
[https://redpilldad.blog/2019/03/11/my-summary-of-the-red-pill-basics-10-things-all-men-should-know/],
why you probably shouldn’t get married
[https://theredquest.wordpress.com/?s=Dont+get+married], why you
can’t take what women say at face value
[https://redpilldad.blog/2020/06/29/rpd-takes-a-fall-power-talk-real-talk-and-other-lessons-from-the-life-of-a-boozy-writer/],
etc. However, at the same time, we can’t let adversity prevent us
from taking action and banging around on Twitter and YouTube saying
“women bad” as some guys do.

For example, in the last post I noted that many of today’s women are
extraordinarily narcissistic, obsessed with their phones, social
media, and false validation, and tend to be extremely squirrely and
flaky when it comes to dating.

All true.

But it’s also a generalization. Some girls don’t have social
media, or if they do, don’t care much about it. Many are too modest
to post scandalous pics for all to see and/or have private accounts.
And even the social media thots and strippers and OnlyFans girls–the
worst and most narcissistic–are still in play. I should know: I
dated a cam girl for awhile. And guys need to remember that
ultimately, girls of all stripes will reply to your texts and come out
on dates, assuming she likes you and thinks you’re an attractive,
high value guy.

It reminds me of last December when I went to a Christmas bazaar and
off six approaches got two numbers (two IGs as well, both worthless as
usual). Both those women continued to reply off and on through New
Years, and I ended up getting both of them out on dates in January.
Now, sad to say, I didn’t end up sleeping with either of them, but
given the bad logistics and more than three week time period between
set and date, the chances of either coming out were super low.

And yet they did. Both of them.

So yes, things can be difficult in this modern age–more girls flake,
and women are generally less reliable and more narcissistic–but that
shouldn’t prevent you from doing whatever it is you want to do with
women and living the sort of life you want to lead. It might require a
little more hard work than in the past, but if you’re not willing to
do the work, all I can say is that this lifestyle isn’t for you.

That said, let’s get to some of the reasons why I’m optimistic
about the 2020s and beyond.

1) THERE HASN’T BEEN A PANDEMIC LIKE THIS FOR 100 YEARS–IT WON’T
LAST FOREVER.

So of course the SMP is going to have a depression. People can’t
travel freely. Cities are empty. Night game is dead in most places.
Brutal, but…

THIS TOO SHALL PASS.

Make no mistake: at some point, the Gods of game will smile upon us
once again!

To be quite honest, the fact that any of us are getting laid and
recording +1s is quite astonishing in itself, and speaks to the power
of game. Because women are herd animals
[https://redpilldad.blog/2020/04/28/observations-on-female-patterns-of-behavior/]
who tend to scare easily, and fact is, a lot just aren’t going to
come out right now no matter how attractive you are and/or tight your
game is. Also, just as there are a lot of guys monk moding right now,
focusing on other things, many women are using the quarantine in
precisely this same way.

The good news: there’s a 547% greater likelihood your next
girlfriend makes a mean sourdough.

2) ONCE THE PANDEMIC HAS PASSED AND THE ECONOMY STARTS TO RECOVER,
THERE WILL BE AN EXPLOSION OF SINGLE WOMEN ON THE MARKET.

Right now, a lot of women are still hunkered down with whoever they
happened to be seeing back in March when the lockdown was announced,
or they’ve been seeing a guy in their social circle or familiar to
them in some other way. Additionally, many girls who were single when
COVID hit are simply not back on the market, either of their own
accord as they don’t see dating as a priority right now, or because
circumstances have forced them to move home with parents, away from
big cities or their university.

What this means for players is that the supply of women–women who
are single, or women who would either break up with and/or cheat on
their boyfriends–is currently far below normal levels.

However, when things do return to normal–meaning no more masks,
going to sporting events and concerts, clubs, cruise ships, that sort
of thing–we’re going to see a ton of women flood back onto the
market, having broken up with their quarantine boyfriends (people are
actually predicting a lot of divorces as well) or judging it safe to
get back out and start dating again.

Indeed, my guess is that for a short period of time, things get kinda
wild–I mean, think how long it’s been since we’ve been able to
go to a concert or a dance club or gather in any sort of large group.
Seems to me whenever that starts happening again (I have no idea, but
probably Spring to Summer of 2021), hedonism reigns for a period of
time.

3) MODERN WOMEN ARE EXTREMELY SEXUAL. 

They’re not afraid to show skin or get naked, even if it’s just to
take pictures. And they like fast escalation. Many will fuck on the
1st date [https://redpilldad.blog/?s=first+date+lay] or the same day
you meet them.

Now, the Tradcons may not like this, but we’re players, not a
purists. This is a hedonistic pursuit, not a spiritual one.*

Point is, once things get back to some semblance of normal, our
ability as players to get fast sex with lots of women is massive,
because today’s women don’t carry the sexual shame of prior
generations. I suppose if there’s one thing feminism and female
liberation have been good for, it’s that.

4) MODERN WOMEN ARE INTO KINK.

Along with fast sex, today’s women are the first generation where
lots of chicks are into rough sex, poly, BDSM, 3-somes, ropes, etc.
Like, teenage chicks make Tik-Toks joking about how they want to get
choked during sex. Which means that if you know how to fuck, how to
make use of toys, and how to be dominant, you’ll be in high demand.

And once you’ve gone that far, there’s a big beautiful world that
awaits if you’re interested, because in most metro areas, there are
sex clubs and parties you can get into
[https://theredquest.wordpress.com/free-book/] if you’re fit and
know how to source hot chicks. Link above is to RedQuest’s excellent
FREE book on how to do this, and I also highly recommend his blog
[https://theredquest.wordpress.com/] for guys who want to explore this
world.

I know that for me, this is definitely the next step: just need a
main, or some other girls interested in coming along. And daddy is on
the prowl.

5) WOMEN OF ALL AGES ARE TURNING ONTO OLDER GUYS.

As the deregulation of the sexual marketplace continues unabated, the
taboo against dating older men is melting away. Sure, you’ll see
white knights and older women, typically feminists, get upset on
Twitter or IG about older guys dating girls in their late teens and
20s, but two quick points on that:

	* Both groups pretend to get offended as a part of sexual strategy.
The white knights think women will see them defending their honor and
like them for it (most actually think it’s pathetic), and older
chicks know that if men in their 40s realize they can date girls in
their 20s, then why in the world would they want to date a 35 yo harpy
like themselves? We all know the answer to this question.
	* You know who doesn’t care: most girls in their late teens and
20s–I know this from personal experience as well as other players
who are friends of mine. Sure, some still think it’s “creepy” or
“icky”, but lately I’m even starting to seeing memes and GIFs
from younger women about how dating older men is the thing to do
[https://magnumlivelarge.blog/2018/12/25/the-two-romantic-dynamics/]. 

The takeaway here is that if you stay fit and fashionable, guys can do
well with younger women into their 50’s and perhaps beyond in
exceptional cases.

And the big reason why women of all ages are starting to turn onto
older guys is…

6) NOW THAT I UNDERSTAND GAME, SEX AND RELATIONSHIPS ARE BETTER. 

Better for me, and much better for the girls I date.

When I think back to how I was before TRP, before learning proper
game, before taking part in this community, God only knows how I ever
got laid–how bored the girls must have been with my droll
conversation skills and serious demeanor. How annoyed after I rolled
off of them without changing positions or ever really fucking them
hard.

Whereas now in my interactions and relationships with women, I’ve
learned to hold a strong frame, to be fun, flirty, and playful, to
build polarity and fill them with desire.

And in the bedroom I wield power and dominance, engage girls in
fantasy and role play–toys if she’s open to it
[https://theredquest.wordpress.com/2019/03/13/tell-your-girl-to-use-a-vibrator-during-sex-and-other-bedroom-tips/]–though
I can do just fine without, having learned new ways to use my tongue,
hands, and fingers.

For new guys, I highly recommend reading the Sex God Method
[https://amzn.to/3hhXoKt], but if I can give you one tip that
crystalizes how you should have sex with a woman it’s this: fuck her
like an animal. Ravish her. Her experience is predicated on your
enthusiasm–in losing yourself in the moment. So fuck her hard, like
it’s the last time you’ll ever fuck (think Roissy said something
to this effect–correct me if I’m wrong). If you simply do that and
that alone, her sexual experience will be far better–so will
yours–and a lot of them will continue to come back for more.

7) MALE COMPETITION IS MOSTLY GARBAGE.

You know who a lot of chicks end up with, whether through high school
or college, or the kinds of guys they meet at work or even on the
apps?

Soy boys who spend their days on SnapChat and Tik-Tok, dancing like
clowns, getting punk’d by their women, playing video games and
beating off to mom-porn. Guys who haven’t read more than five books
in their entire life. Who can’t lift a gallon of milk, let alone a
dumbell.

Fact is, modern society, especially American society, teaches men to
be feminized pussies who are afraid of their own masculine nature;
teaches men that lifting, dominance, confidence, and decisiveness are
all aspects of toxic masculinity. Moreover, they’ve been raised to
defer to women, to believe they’re smarter, more morally pure, that
the world is full of misogyny, and that rape culture and sexual
assault are rampant, when in reality: women–especially the young,
pretty ones–are the most privileged class in society and most
reports of sexual assault and rape we hear about have more to do with
a woman’s regret than a man’s violence.

If you don’t see this just look around. At the gym today I saw a
male 9–tall, ripped, and good looking–with a woman who was at best
a 6. And to the point above, a lot of young guys can’t even talk to
chicks, because all they do is stare out their phones all day and play
video games (another reason why women are starting to gravitate toward
older guys). I could probably write a 4000 word post on this topic
alone, but you get the point: if you’re fit and muscular, have a bit
of fashion sense, and have some idea of how to carry on a conversation
with a few interesting things to say, and live somewhere with a roof
over your head, you’re in the top 20% of guys already. Indeed–and
this again is a topic for another time–one reason I think the SMP is
so hard right now is that women have had so many bad experiences with
guys who can’t escalate or create polarity, can’t fuck well, and
have nothing else of value to offer that a lot of them see no reason
to bother.

Now, I feel bad for these guys, but if any of them actually want to
turn it around, they could be well on their way in 60 days if they
were willing to do the work. Understand and apply the principles of
The Red Pill
[https://redpilldad.blog/2019/03/11/my-summary-of-the-red-pill-basics-10-things-all-men-should-know/]–lift,
pursue your mission, read, learn game, and value process over
results–and get professional help if you need it. As always, my DMs
are open.

But unless the red pill goes wildly mainstream sometime soon, the fact
is, the majority of men out there aren’t even in the same league as
a red pill guy–that’s true even if he’s only been lifting for a
year or so.

Which means the girls are there for the taking as hypergamy starts
working in your favor.

8) I’VE LEARNED TO EMBRACE THE LONG TERM.

Red Quest has a good post about this–how you only see the tip of the
spear
[https://theredquest.wordpress.com/2019/02/07/you-only-see-the-tip-of-the-spear/].
And it’s been true in my experience. I got divorced in 2016, but I
didn’t really have my breakthrough in game until late summer/early
fall of 2018. During that time I lost a significant amount of weight,
read a ton of books and blogs–mostly relating to game or
self-improvement–and spent hundreds of hours listening to podcasts
on game or watching YouTubes of PUAs/dating coaches.

Long story short: I did a TON of work before I started getting laid on
the regular.

So remember, today is not forever, and as Lao Tzu notes in The Tao
[https://amzn.to/2YiUP3a], over time, water wears down rock. In
practical terms, this means that nearly every problem can be solved by
following a virtuous process over time. Not easy, but easier with the
perspective of knowing that it works.

This year has been a dumpster fire–no doubt about it–but again,
this too shall pass.

9) I FINALLY UNDERSTAND HOW TO PLAY THE GAME. 

Now it’s simply a matter of playing it.

Of course, like any game, I’m sure to make mistakes, experience
highs and lows, succeed and fail, but three years ago I didn’t even
know the rules. Going forward, I’ll continue to document the
journey, learn and develop new techniques, and make new observations.
I’m genuinely curious to see what’s around the corner.

10) HARD WORK, SKILL, AND PERSEVERANCE PREVAIL OVER CIRCUMSTANCES.

Always have, always will.

As I mentioned in the last post
[https://redpilldad.blog/2020/08/19/women-behaving-badly-the-crazy-level-of-female-narcissism-and-what-happens-next/],
there are a lot of challenges with regard to gaming modern women,
especially the most desirable among them who are young, hot, and
inundated with constant attention.

But fact is, chicks still want to fuck.

And what a skilled player can do for any woman in terms of
entertainment, excitement, and great sex goes so far beyond whatever
worthless validation she gets on IG or Tik-Tok it’s pointless to
even compare the two. You really think she cares about how many likes
she got on her last post when she’s lying on the bed in the puddle
of her monstrous, squirting orgasm, legs shaking, barely conscious,
exhausted after you fucked her brains out?

No.

Moreover, even most of the chicks with social anxiety are going to
have a moment where their sexual desire overrides whatever fear they
have of coming out, and she lands like putty, in the lap of a
benevolent player who can transform her into the sex kitten she truly
wants to be.

There’s no doubt that a lot of the energy we see in modern
society–particularly from feminists and trans-activists–is an
effort to deny biology, and particularly evolutionary biology.

Which is precisely why they’ll fail.

Because there is no narrative that trumps DNA. Women will always want
to have sex with strong, masculine men, and men will always want to
have sex with beautiful, feminine women. No matter how many female
action-hero movies they make, no matter how often they try to
normalize women holding power, the truth is that those women will
always be less desirable than the ordinary feminine girl who works as
a barista or nurse or pre-school teacher–something someone should
tell Tomi Lahren
[https://redpilldad.blog/2020/08/10/tomi-lahren-ladies-welcome-to-the-metoo-of-hypergamy/].

In fact, I’d honestly be quite surprised if we don’t see a
backlash against feminism at some point, as more and more women figure
out that it doesn’t make them happy or fulfilled or deliver any
other positive outcomes–it just makes them miserable cunts who are
less desirable to men. And remember: we’re about to see women in the
biggest generation out there–the millennials–start to hit the
wall, many of them rendered forever invisible to men and irrelevant to
society at large.

Only time will tell, but the point is that if you’re a red pill man,
just keep doing the work. Get in great shape, develop and pursue your
mission, and continue to engage women, learning from your mistakes and
sharpening your game. Because at the end of the day, if you do those
things, no amount of hard circumstances can deny the fact that women
will find you highly desirable, and you’ll have the game to go out
there and get them.

I won’t lie: right now isn’t a great time to be a player–but as
I spelled out above, there are a lot of really good reasons to think
it will be again soon.

_*I’d argue that hedonistic activities, like sex, can be spiritual,
as is eating a delicious meal, but the reason it’s enjoyable is
because of the physical pleasure, which brings us into the present
moment. Don’t misunderstand me–you should leave every woman you
sleep with better than you found her, but I find it a bit silly when
guys want to frame game as some noble mission. Again, this isn’t
religion. It’s pick-up and seduction. _

 
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