How to Get "The Right Kind of Attention" The Rules Revisited | August 16, 2012 | by Andrew ------------------------- My model for understanding the way a woman acts and dresses has always been something like this: the more a woman dresses like a slut, the more attractive she is; but the more a woman acts like a slut, the less attractive she is. In other words, the most attractive women are those who dress like whores [http://therulesrevisited.blogspot.com/2011/08/bigger-hoops-bigger-whore.html] but act like good girls. Impossible, right? Probably. But it is the ideal nonetheless, just like a woman's ideal is a man who is extremely powerful and physically attractive, yet in touch with his emotions and sweet - which also does not exist [http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2012/05/why-you-should-beware-of-romantic.html]. In any case, I was out the other night and I ran into a girl I'd met a few weeks before at the same bar [http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2012/03/bars-are-good-place-to-meet-guys-part-1.html]. We started talking, and somehow got onto the topic of how women dress... "It's simple for a girl" she said. "If you want to pick up a guy to get laid, or to make out, you wear a short, tight skirt and low-cut cleavage. But if you want to meet a guy to date, you..." "...wear something modest." I interrupted, somewhat smugly. "That's what every girl thinks and it's complete bullshit [http://therulesrevisited.blogspot.com/2011/09/wrong-kind-of-attention_11.html]." I was about to explain to her that good guys and bad guys alike are both equally attracted to a woman's body, and that behaving modestly is far more important than dressing modestly, when she cut me off: "Wait, I wasn't finished! That wasn't what I was going to say at all. I was going to say that you have to choose one or the other." "One or the other?" I asked. "What do you mean?" "I mean you either wear the short, tight skirt, or the plunging neckline - but not both." I was silent. I literally paused for several seconds, thinking about what she said. I was still somewhat shocked by the fact that she didn't buy into the absurdly false cliche that a woman attracts good men by pretending that good men don't have sexual impulses; but I was also intrigued by the nuance of her idea. It was honest, and it bore the hallmark complexity of truth. "Huh... That's really interesting." I said, pensively. "I actually spend entirely too much time thinking about these kinds of things [http://www.therulesrevisited.com/], and haven't thought of that before. You might be on to something." I paused again for a few seconds. "I need to think about it more, but I like the idea regardless. I've always thought that women are more attractive the sluttier they dress and the more modestly they act, but I might have to re-consider that now." The jury is still out. The girl won't return my calls either... RELATED POSTS 1. Sexy Versus Cute [http://therulesrevisited.blogspot.com/2012/02/sexy-versus-cute.html] 2. "The Wrong Kind of Attention" [http://therulesrevisited.blogspot.com/2011/09/wrong-kind-of-attention_11.html] 3. The Most Important Time to Dress Well [http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2012/12/the-most-important-time-to-dress-well.html] 4. There Is Nothing Modest About Loose Jeans [http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2014/02/there-is-nothing-modest-about-loose.html] ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/blog/The-Rules-Revisited/how-to-get-the-right-kind-of-attention.34596