You Are Responsible for Your Own Romantic Happiness 
The Rules Revisited | May 23, 2012 | by Andrew
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 I tend to stick to "how to" or observational posts rather
than motivational ones, but everyone needs a kick in the ass once in
a while. Here is a link to an important post, which men and women
alike should read: 

> http://www.rooshv.com/before-sex-after-sex
 The author, Roosh [http://www.rooshv.com/], makes the general point
that men and women both need to make an effort if they want to keep
a relationship interesting or attract someone in the first place. This
quote captures the main idea: 

> _Instead of working towards real change to increase their value,
> most twenty-somethings instead whine about how life isn’t fair and
> how bad their luck is, as if there is a concerted effort by the
> overlords of our universe to keep them single and unhappy. You are
> responsible for your romantic happiness, and no one else. If there
> is a problem then get off your ass and do something about it, no
> matter how many years it takes to solve._
 If you are dissatisfied with your love-life, and are reading this
blog, you no longer have the excuse of ignorance to mask your
laziness. Contained in the growing number of posts
[http://therulesrevisited.blogspot.com/p/all-posts.html] are dozens if
not hundreds of concrete steps you can take towards attracting a
man. You may disagree with some, but if you are a regular reader, you
can't pretend that you disagree with them all. Make a list of the few
that you think will be most effective and start today.

If you can't do that, or can't take some other concrete step towards
self-improvement
[http://therulesrevisited.blogspot.com/2011/12/self-improvement-takes-time.html], then
you deserve your own fate. Enjoy being single.

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[http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2012/05/we-have-shared-responsibility.html]
3. Why You Should Beware of Romantic Movies
[http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2012/05/why-you-should-beware-of-romantic.html]

 
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