Weekend Field Report: more sets and a cherry on top +1.
RedPillDad | July 26, 2021 | by RP McMurphy
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When I got the text, I told Mr. Pips: this is code.

Code for: let’s hang out today. Soon. Now.

I did get her out and it was lovely, but let’s start with the other
stuff.

Saturday was solid–one of the only days I can be assured to get
volume in the city anymore. My client, Mr. Pips, was in good form, and
with that we headed to a Farmer’s Market. On the way we opened a few
different people. Always good to stay in state and start being social
and talking to anyone and everyone you can.

Once there we scoped it out and decided to do a few laps. As soon as
he left, a beautiful young woman came sauntering my way. I opened
direct and she stopped to chat. I stacked on the her white dress and
her fashion sensibilities. Vibing was short, but she never hooked.
Solid game, but when I went for the close, “no thanks.” Wished her
a good day and moved on to the next.

Quick point on that: remember when you’re doing this, you should
make her day. You are bringing magic into the world and a good
approach should be a GOOD experience for the girl. Many are going to
say no or have a BF or whatever, but regardless, I always wish them
well and thank them for talking to me. Mr. Pips even told me, several
times: “you’re just naturally friendly and it doesn’t seem like
anything other than a casual conversation.”

Exactly how it should be. Good game doesn’t look like game.

Funny enough, right after the white dress girl a local day gamer I’d
gone out with before
[https://redpilldad.blog/2021/06/04/field-report-day-game-with-new-wings-a-crazy-sdl-and-a-date-to-nowhere/https://redpilldad.blog/2021/06/04/field-report-day-game-with-new-wings-a-crazy-sdl-and-a-date-to-nowhere/],
BAV, and a new guy came up–they’d seen the set and were hitting
the same area. We chatted a bit and then I headed off to do a few more
sets. Had one girl who didn’t hook–not a crazy blowout, but she
didn’t stop either, so meh. But the next girl was money.

Ms. Mousy was a cute brunette from the midwest. I opened her telling
her she had an East coast vibe going. We talked for awhile on various
topics, centering on spirituality and yoga and the like. She kept
noting how surprised she was that I stopped her, but asked me a lot of
questions, hooking strong and giving the number without a second
thought.

Then for some reason I went on a streak of pussying out. First it was
alone, then with my client. Not that I wasn’t approaching–I was,
and getting good reactions for the girls generally–but I could just
kinda tell that a lot of them were going to say no or have a BF; some
of it was approaching in groups and not being direct enough with the
girl I wanted to close, etc. So basically I/we had several more sets
(probably 3-4) on our way to the next spot, but I didn’t attempt to
close, so I’m not counting those, because I was being a bitch.

For beginners and Mr. Pips, it was good: most of the day game we talk
about isn’t the close–and in truth, most guys have the hardest
time opening and just having a cool conversation, so that’s where a
lot of the focus lies initially. But for me it was ridiculous–I was,
as some guys have said, “letting them go.” And that’s bullshit.
The only reason you should “let a girl go” is if she’s actually
moving away and doesn’t stop, OR if she mentions in the set that
she’s married or has a BF. Otherwise: close. Even if it’s a shitty
set and you think she’s going to say no–because the truth is, YOU
DON’T KNOW until you ask. I’ve gotten laid off shitty sets where I
thought I had no chance, and so have other guys.

So, as the cliche goes in sales, always be closing. If you don’t try
to close it doesn’t count as a set (unless she blows you out or
leaves mid set). If she stays to the end, ask for the number. Always.

Anyway, we headed down to another area I call “The Cut” where
there are a bunch of touristy restaurants and shops and street
vendors; typically pretty busy on Saturdays and Sundays. We found a
good rendezvous spot in the center and again, took turns doing some
laps. On the plus-side, I think it was good for Mr. Pips to do some
sets on his own, without having me there to open or taking the
initiative. On the downside, I couldn’t see or observe what he was
doing, so we could only talk about it after the fact.

I ended up doing four more sets in that time: two IGs (meh–although
one was from a smoking hot young redhead who made me think of Mr. V),
then a number from a vendor selling paintings. Super cute girl, but I
haven’t heard anything from her, or either of the IG closes. The
other set was a cute Latina who was into what I was spitting, but then
when I tried to close: BF.

Sunday we hit another Farmer’s Market, and pretty quick I did three
approaches. The first girl was a stunner–super thin, auburn hair,
green eyes. I opened her complimenting her necklace and stacked on how
she had a mystical aura and I could see her dancing the forest with
wood nymphs on warm summer evenings or some shit like that. Actually I
probably wasn’t even that clever, but along those lines. We vibed on
the Tao Te Ching and had a lovely conversation, but she was from out
of town, and despite my redirect, wouldn’t give the number.

The next girl was a little Latina carrying flowers, so I dredged up my
old line, “hey, pretty girls shouldn’t have to buy their own
flowers!” She laughed and stopped, but seemed a bit nervous. I
continued to be pretty direct and eventually she just said, “I have
a BF” so I wished her a nice day.

Third set was a dreamy blonde in a pink dress. She was looking at
handbags and I told her they wouldn’t match with her bougie purse,
which she thought was pretty funny. I stacked on the food she was
buying and asked what she was going to make for dinner–indeed, what
would she make for a handsome man coming to dinner?

It was then she held up her hand to show me a massive rock of a
wedding ring. Alas.

Mr. Pips did well to open a few girls there as well, though like me he
didn’t have any luck taking a number.

From there we drove to a cool shopping area/street in town with lots
of thrift shops and cheap jewelry stores–both because it’s a good
place for game and also because Mr. Pips wanted to maybe get a ring or
a necklace, and I wanted to check out some T-shirts.

I ended up doing four more sets, none of which are particularly
remarkable, other than one absolutely spectacular NY style blowout
with the chick rushing past me like I was street trash.

BUT THE DAY GAME GODS SMILE UPON RPD!

One thing about day game that always seems true is that the girls who
hook and give a number, tend to hook really strong. I don’t mean the
haphazard number guys get that the girl is just giving to get rid of
them or end the conversation–I mean the ones where she’s genuinely
engaged, asking questions, and in awe of the boldness of the approach.

Such was the case with Ms. Mousy. When she sent the reply to my
initial ping text, I knew shit was on, so after my session with Mr.
Pips, I set up the date. I got there a little early, then got a table
on the street–not ideal because I couldn’t sit next to her, but in
the end that wasn’t a problem. We each had a drink and some chips
and guacamole, then I paid the bill and suggested we go for a walk.

Now, here was my little trick: I needed to charge my phone (I really
did actually), did she live close enough I could drop it by her place
and plug it in while we walked? Yes, absolutely, not a problem. The
lucky thing was that it was far enough away I had time to hold her
hand, then pulled her in for the kiss, and by the time we got to her
place I don’t think there was any doubt if we were walking
anymore–although, get this: she says before we enter, “we’re not
having sex tonight.”

“Slow down turbo I just need to charge my phone.”

We went in and I pushed her up against the wall, holding her hands,
pinned on either side, and we made out for awhile. She suggested
putting on some music, so I let her do that and sat down on the
couch–after plugging my phone in. We sat and talked and made out for
awhile, but then I pulled her on top of me and clothes started coming
off and then she said something like, “OK, goddamn it we can have
sex.”

With that I carried her into the bedroom and laid her on the bed, took
off my shirt, and then pulled her skirt off. We fooled around in our
underwear for awhile, her hand on my dick, me fingering her, and then
it just became too much for both of us and I spread her legs and got
on top of her. We did that for awhile, then I had her get on top,
which she seemed to really like, then turned her around doggy, then
finally finished back in missionary.

We cuddled after that for a bit, but she had to work early and I had a
lot of shit to get done today (like writing this field report), so
after probably half an hour or so, I took off, feeling rather
glorious.

Lovely girl I’ll definitely see again. A little older as it turned
out, 32, but the golden rule is would you have sex with her, and the
answer to that was a resounding yes: she was a petite little thing
with medium, but firm breasts, a slender body, and a nice ass. No
complaints here whatsoever.

Anyway, if you’re interested in doing some live infield stuff
[https://redpilldad.blog/coachingrpd/], whether you’re already a
client or not, hit me up! It was super fun meeting and gaming with Mr.
Pips in the flesh, and he definitely got better–took the number of a
chick who was 18 being the most eye opening thing of all! If he
continues on the path, he’s going to do just fine.

NOTES:

	* Overall: I did 23 “good” sets (probably opened at least 35, but
as I mentioned I didn’t try to close all of them, and btw I have 29
left to do for the July Century Club
[https://redpilldad.blog/2021/07/01/thejulycenturychallenge/]), and
Mr. Pips did another 12-15–he’s fairly new to the actual practice
of day game, so that was really good for where he’s at. Collectively
we took five numbers over the weekend (including one he took on his
own, outside of our sessions), plus another four or five IGs, and then
I was able to convert the one lay. Again, volume can be difficult here
if you’re wondering about the numbers, and as for only five phone
numbers, that’s weird–I have some ideas on why that might be, but
that’s for another post. TL;DR–I’ve noticed post COVID that
I’m getting fewer numbers than I used to, and I think a big part of
that is that so many girls still have boyfriends.
	* Mr. Pips is a bit older of a guy, but the point I had to make to
him repeatedly is that he’s IN THE GAME with much younger women. So
if you’re a guy in your late 40s or 50s, don’t weasel out just
because she’s young. Like, if you’re pretty certain she’s
underage, then yeah, move along. But if she’s 18-24, go talk to her
and find out. I will grant that an older guy’s swing zone is more in
the 25-40 range, but some number of those younger girls really like
older guys…problem is, you’ll never find out if you don’t
approach.
	* Got many if not most of the sets I did this weekend, recorded, so
once I get the audio quality sorted out, I’ll share those with
clients–always useful to hear what other guys are doing, as well as
useful for my own improvement. If you’re serious about this, you
NEED to be recording your sets.
	* One thing about where I live is that while the volume is sometimes
brutal, a point my client made on several occasions is that girls will
at least stop here and talk to you. In some places, like NYC where
he’s from, that IS NOT the case–and it makes me wonder if I’ve
been gaming on easy mode? Not that day game or cold approach is ever
easy, but girls being reasonably friendly and social makes a BIG
fucking difference when you’re trying to do this stuff.
	* I didn’t have high expectations for the last street/shopping area
we went to, but it was actually really good–lots of cute young girls
walking around–so much so that I’m currently finishing this in a
coffee shop here today, hoping to get out and run a few sets when I
finish. It’s always worth trying new locations and revisiting
others, especially if you’re always chasing volume as I am.
	* An aspect of my game that I’m not sure other guys employ–but
the should–is talking constantly to lots of different people. I
throw compliments at girls or sets I’m not interested in or where
logistics for having a conversation are bad, I talk to shop owners,
waitresses, people dining on the street–whoever. When I’m out and
about I want to be in state as much as possible, which means being
social and alpha, always.
	* Last point: look at where we went to run game–farmer’s markets,
tourists traps, and a shopping street/district. Too many guys are
doing pure street day game, and if that’s what you’re doing,
you’re missing a ton of sets, including easier sets where the girl
is in a store or coffee shop or park or in line and she’s already
stopped. These are also places where people go simply to go out–to
see and be seen–and that’s a much different vibe than trying to
catch people on the weekday commute home. Day game means talking to
girls during the day, not on the street, a distinction not enough guys
seem to make.

 
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