“He was nice but average, unstimulating” The Red Quest | October 29, 2022 | by The Red Quest ------------------------- “A few weeks ago, I was staring a strange man in the eyes during an energetic coaching session. I’d met him just a few hours before; like nearly all men I’ve known for a few hours, he was nice but average, unstimulating; I’d introduced myself with a polite handshake and didn’t think much of it.” From this essay [https://aella.substack.com/p/this-practice-made-men-arouse-me]. For men, as you’ve read here at Red Quest before, “Boredom = death [https://theredquest.wordpress.com/2019/06/12/boredom-death/].” Most men are boring to most women most of the time. Are you ready to be different than most guys [https://theredquest.wordpress.com/2017/05/12/be-aggressive-and-do-better-than-most-guys-when-women-pursue-sex-even-men-dont-get-it/]? Probably not. The essay has other interesting, unusual material, like, “When I was 20, I went on a semi-harrowing OKCupid date and woke up the next morning in my date’s bed. I asked him how did you get me to sleep with you? He shrugged and handed me a book on pickup artistry, and I sat down on his couch and read it. Then I went and read more; I joined pickup artistry forums….” Almost no women ever ask such questions (most women are boring and predictable, but, if they’re young and/or hot, that’s enough… men and women are different). Fewer will accept the answers. Most women hate the idea of men consciously learning and deliberately practicing game [https://theredquest.wordpress.com/2019/10/09/women-hate-the-demystification-of-romance-commodities-artisans-and-the-game/], which is a shame, because it leads to better outcomes for them, as women _do_ like being competently seduced. But no one said life, or women, have to make sense, or be consistent. The knowledge about how to be non-average and stimulating is out there, for the guys who want to learn and use it, but most guys prefer being peasants, not wizards. ------------------------- Archived from https://theredarchive.com/blog/The-Red-Quest/he-was-nice-but-average-unstimulating.44657