The ugly feminist’s greatest fear.
Dalrock | July 3, 2018 | by Dalrock
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As I wrote back in 2015
[https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2015/02/28/riding-the-brake/], Sheila
Gregoire is clearly obsessed with sex and deeply conflicted about it.
When it comes to sex she and her readers have one foot on the gas and
the other on the brake. You can see this from her books as well as the
posts on her blog. There is a great deal of energy on using sex as a
weapon, including when, how, and why to deny sex. The other side to
this is all of the energy coming from the deep fear that they will
overplay this card and as I described in Frigidity and power
[https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2014/08/03/frigidity-and-power/], lose
their power. What if he watches porn, or even Game of Thrones while
I’m denying sex? Then my V will lose its power over him! How do I
overcome my own frigidity? If I’m frigid, my V has no power!

They’ve turned having sex into a Rube Goldberg contraption. But all
of this works because the audience is already there. They already know
how to use sex as a weapon, and they already have deep fears that by
doing this they risk losing the very power they are trying to wield.

Sheila has a recent post that touches on this deep seated fear;  what
if years of manipulation and nagging result in her readers’
husbands no longer desiring them sexually
[https://tolovehonorandvacuum.com/2018/06/mans-low-libido-relationship-issues/]? 
The post is a guest post by a sex therapist, and it has clearly struck
a nerve.  Click through and check out the comments for a jarring look
into the mindframe of the ugly feminist.  Then remember that
Sheila’s readers came to this place after deciding that they were
wiser than the Bible:

> 3 Likewise, wives, be subject to your own husbands, so that even if
> some do not obey the word, they may be won without a word by the
> conduct of their wives, 2 when they see your respectful and pure
> conduct. 3 Do not let your adorning be external—the braiding of
> hair and the putting on of gold jewelry, or the clothing you wear—
> 4 but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the
> imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s
> sight is very precious. 5 For this is how the holy women who hoped
> in God used to adorn themselves, by submitting to their own
> husbands, 6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord. And you are
> her children, if you do good and do not fear anything that is
> frightening.
> 
> –1 Pet 3 1-6, ESV

Sheila and her readers _just knew_ that the Bible’s instruction to
wives was the prescription for a miserable marriage.  What they
needed instead was a marriage built on carefully guarded feminist
equality.  If they only had equality, they would have a blissful
marriage.

RELATED:

 	* Feminists are ugly.
[https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2014/01/01/feminists-are-ugly/]
 	* A Tale of Two Beaches.
[https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2013/01/31/a-tale-of-two-beaches/]

 
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