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That would be enough to cut her off. She may be focusing on you/husband because of unresolved issues. I wouldn’t want her around my husband or my child because who knows what will come out of her mouth next. She may even be living in some fantasy world where she’s a bigger part of your life than in reality.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 09:11 PM
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She sounds very immature and mentally still in “high school” trying to find connections with people through idle gossip.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/22 09:10 PM
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I met my husband through his sister; we worked together in the school system.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/22 12:06 AM
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I would try to put her on a schedule. Mom call me at 11,3,6,9 so we can keep track of your symptoms and meds. Maybe if she knows she’s getting the attention from you at those intervals it can help quell some of the fear she’s having and the anxiety she’s exhibiting. I don’t think I would move her in; that would eliminate any boundaries already existing. Set times and dates for when you’ll come over to her house. She can have a fit about it if she wants but right now you have to be the parent and…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 04:47 PM
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This brought back memories of riding around on my first boyfriends bike. I needed this thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 11:47 AM
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Yes. It may help him have a self realization and change. It may not. Either way yes I would. However I wouldn’t continue any relationship friendship or otherwise with someone like that.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 12:52 AM
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I don’t accept men who have that as their objective.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 06:02 PM
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There are more high value men out there than this one guy. HVM don’t have multiple relationships at once. That, makes him not a HVM. Also, he has an apartment. Not a huge home. There is no mention of anything about him which leads me to believe he is HV and she isn’t just desperate. Raise your standards.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 05:00 PM
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First, examine why you think you can’t do better than this.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/22 04:59 PM
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I don’t suggest she leave him. I said I wouldn’t have stayed with him upon the initial discovery. In fact my advice is the exact opposite which is now that you decided to make it work, it’s best to just let this one go and try to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 02:26 PM
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Downvoting my personal preference seems weird but whatever makes them feel better. A deal breaker for me doesn’t have to be a deal breaker for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 10:29 AM
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Is it still on the internet? Where is it even at that it’s posted ? That’s very strange.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 04:31 AM
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I wouldn’t have stayed with him once I found it tbh. Now, I would delete it and try to move on. You’ve already made your choice to stay with him so best to let it lay.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 04:30 AM
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I prefer they out themselves as intolerant and bigoted so I don’t need to participate in their subreddits. It’s helpful that they call themselves out that way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/22 03:52 AM
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I agree, asking her to go form connections with other men who share her interests is just setting up for disaster.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 12:06 PM
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It sounds like you may have rushed into marriage and motherhood without really considering what you may have to put on the back burner. Counseling both together and on your own would be my suggestion, work through your feelings so you can come to some middle ground. I love to dance. I spent a lot of time dancing before I got married and my husband absolutely cannot dance. I asked him before we dated if he could two-step and he said he could. He cannot. Does it suck that I’ll never have a dance p…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 12:05 PM
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That’s so sad just a few hours ago you were posting about him and his silly accents.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/22 02:32 AM
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He is a domestic abuse survivor.
/r/AntiFeminists12/09/22 05:42 PM
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You gave him an ultimatum and showed him you weren’t the woman he thought you were. Next time don’t date around and focus on just one guy at a time. E2a: you also seem to be looking at this potential relationship through rose colored glasses. There is no way of knowing how things would have really worked out. It’s better you stay friends.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 05:24 PM
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There seems to be a real uptick in RP on TikTok and Insta as well as Tumblr. Younger women are subscribing to these ideas in droves.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 05:18 PM
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We can only hope.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 05:17 PM
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Teaching is a very feminine career.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 04:33 PM
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I want an Alpha / Traditional male that will lead so I can follow.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/22 05:21 AM
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If he was serious he would have made you his wife by now.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/22 09:07 PM
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What’s important is you’re realizing you deserve more than this. There are high quality men out there who will see the high quality woman in you; present yourself as what you want them to see and how you want to be treated.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/22 03:00 AM
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This seems like you are his friend and maybe even gopher (sending you to an event for note taking?). The short of it is; he isn't interested.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 02:35 PM
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Yes I joined because I fear for my son’s future. I don’t understand how any mother of a male would not be concerned. Edit: I also have daughters and don’t want them to fall into the heinous trap being perpetuated by society. I saw my brother abused and with very little resources to help him and his mental health he turned to suicide and succeeded. My husbands ex wife and how she systematically ruined his life with no repercussions.I’m tired of it and I won’t sit idle and watch it keep happening.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 11:11 AM
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I think it’s great you have an open communication between you that says a lot about your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/22 02:52 AM
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This is all very sweet but no where in this does it say he wanted the same RP lifestyle as you do.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/22 12:07 AM
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Not all men can be the RP men we want, need or expect them to be. It sounds to me like you wanted a traditional RP relationship and he didn't know he was in one? Does he also want this particular lifestyle or is this something you just thought he would naturally become after marriage? I think the best thing to do would to have a discussion with him about what type of future and marriage you two plan to have. It's entirely plausible that he just can't be this type of spouse and your expectations …
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/22 12:06 AM
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You’re not mentally unwell, he is. If I were you I would seriously reconsider this relationship.
/r/RedPillWives27/08/22 02:32 AM
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Good. I’m glad you guys have been working through things. I hope you get the best outcome possible.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/22 11:11 AM
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Get an earlier flight home and leave him a hand written letter. I sense there is some underlying reason you’re afraid to just tell him the truth. Are you afraid of him or in danger ?
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/22 02:48 AM
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