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August 22, 2013
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I know this sub tends towards posts that are accusatory of women instead of men so I'm sure this will get downvoted, but bear with me. In my exper...		CMVgyromuffin238/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 09:01 PM
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wha wha i'll never be CHAD. wha wha I can't pull models from tinder whaaaaaaa. Like why should anyone give a fuck? I'll never be a billion...		SciencePut_Effort_Into_Life/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 05:38 PM
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PurgeRedditAccount57/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:29 AM
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So I was watching a Karen Straughan video the other day about the nature of the “disposable man”. I didn't really identify with this part of TRP i...		Discussionthro_away_2021/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 04:31 PM
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Why do men present some random drunkard cumming in you and leaving as a benefit to being a woman? I just don't get it, you don't get an orgasm...		CMVcheezypussy/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 02:00 PM
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For those of you who are unaware, Amber Heard accused Johnny Depp of abusing her a few years ago and the media had a field day with this up until last...		CMVit-was-your-fault/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 09:56 AM
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https://imgur.com/5506ly4...		Purge Week!bf_Lucius/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 02:05 PM
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nothatyoucare/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:02 PM
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PurgeCHAD_TDK/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:49 AM
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Sciencespacechicken1990/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 12:23 PM
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When discussing single mother I often read a narriative of: "She should have not fallen for "Chad" and made better choices for herself ...		CMVjanearcade/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 10:37 PM
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Purge week!OG_walrus/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 03:15 AM
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Imagine you're an A-list hollywood celeb. You could probably bang any woman you want. But for some reason, even with all the advantages given to y...		CMVSigma1979/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 01:23 PM
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passepar2t/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 08:23 PM
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Purge week!OG_walrus/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:05 AM
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Purge Week!OG_walrus/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:35 AM
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Fetuses are: -Under 6ft -Micropenis -weak chin/jaw -bald -no money ...		NYE Purge Post!CamoWoobie420/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:46 AM
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Purge week!lessfaterrday/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 05:44 PM
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Here's something I bet you don't understand if you've never taken a dick: sex =/= sexual pleasure if you're a woman. When men on this ...		CMVkissmetilyouredrunk/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 12:53 AM
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It's interesting to see some men here claim that not putting is trying to "train men". Most women dont want to be responsible for teachi...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 10:44 AM
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Purge - ScienceMercedesBenzoAMG/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 10:41 AM
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I have numerous times seen women try to use the social media hype of "dad bods" as an example of women having lower beauty standards for men...		CMVRobotemist/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 10:21 PM
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Facts and LogicJustanuglygirl22/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:18 AM
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PurgeCho_Assmilk/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:19 AM
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DisgruntledReddit007/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:04 PM
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Don't get me wrong. Female privilige does exist. As a woman, I can get a man to carry a heavy object for me just by smiling at him and saying &quo...		CMVPurplePlatypusBear20/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/20 06:05 AM
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Purge week!vyvanse_becky/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/21 11:18 PM
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This is something that rarely gets said, and is quite a touchy subject matter. Tons of women complain online that guys don't put any effort into t...		CMVshockedtrooper/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 08:54 PM
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This makes no sense to me. It's like conflating the Madonna/whore complex, and still coming up empty handed. I don't do hook ups or casual sex, and so...		DiscussionNoone_else_is_honest/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/21 08:06 AM
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There are many things these guys believe that don't add up. For example the insistence that every girl rides the cock carousal until 30 then looks...		CMVJokerWasATranny/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 03:52 PM
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We spend 1/4 of our lives bleeding out of our vaginas. Another 1/4 PMSing. We've got yeast infections, UTIs, pap smears, ovarian cysts, bloating, cram...		CMVshithappenslol/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:00 PM
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We've all heard about the situation in Ukraine if you've read even a bit of news or browsed reddit the last month or so. Ukraine since the dissipation...		CMVtrololol_daman/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 02:23 PM
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During a discussion on dating in another subreddit last year, multiple men were telling me that they couldn't develop an emotional investment in a...		CMVIveGotIssues9918/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 10:46 PM
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Society never calls out women when they want a tall guy even though it is a known fact that it is almost always because he makes her feel more feminin...		CMVLeJacquelope/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/20 11:25 AM
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The handful of women I vetted and spent time/energy on throughout my teens and early twenties either rejected me or preferred to ride the carousel a.k...		DiscussionKurkTheMagnificent/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 03:33 AM
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On this subreddit, I mainly see men and women divided into two groups: the scared and the angry. The scared men typically focus on divorce rape, being...		CMViamprosciutto/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/22 07:49 PM
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In my friend group of guys, we compliment each other all the time. If I like my friend's haircut, I'll compliment him. If I like my friend's new shirt...		CMVeffeteintellectual/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 05:11 PM
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ScienceOG_walrus/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 02:49 AM
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MEMEInfernovice/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:36 AM
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Purge Week!Almond_Master/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 04:52 PM
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Purge Week!bf_Lucius/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 03:25 PM
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Coincidentally, every woman that I know who loves to complain about how much they hate men all have a history of dating horrible men. It's one thing i...		DiscussionTheWhitestOrca/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/19 04:44 PM
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Psychopathy is not an inherently attractive trait; TRP attempts to simulate the positive aspects of psychopathy through both external and internal gam...		CMVPM_ME_UR_1ITIS_SNAP/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 07:45 AM
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Purgedumbsheetss/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:48 PM
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Purge Science!sootlord/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:04 PM
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Sauce - Young, Single & Childless: Women Who Earn More Than Men The truth of course is that women wanting men to pay for dates has fuck all to do ...		CMVToughAnswers/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 06:48 PM
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Hey all. Some time ago I went on a gap year in America (I am from Germany). And I noticed the way that american culture is set up is not per se inferi...		DiscussionSometus/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 01:43 PM
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There can and should be criticism where criticism is due, even against a whole gender if it's justified. However, claims like "A woman needs ...		CMVEstablishmentKooky50/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 05:21 AM
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https://i.redd.it/689wkdqx8c961.jpg...		Purge week!YoMamas_azz/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/21 03:59 PM
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We see so many people here complaining that the world is uncaring towards men, that women receive more support and that men are more likely to commit ...		CMV/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 01:36 PM
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I have been reading TRP on and off for years. And before TRP existed, there was the "male dating advice" culture originally started by pickup artists ...		NakedAndBehindYou/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 08:20 PM
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Research found that men prefer "nice" women (talkative, cooperative, peaceful, caring, compassionate): http://www.newsweek.com/study-finds-m...		DiscussionTotalBasturd/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/19 06:19 PM
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I see all these discussions about male sexlessness and what should be done and I wonder why does anything need to be done. Everytime there are guys sa...		CMVDeb8St8/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 06:56 PM
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Sexualizing themselves on social media to an insane degree, then at the same time getting super angry and indignant when a man has the audacity to sex...		CMVhypothememe/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 10:22 PM
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So i talked to my girlfriend this day on how we met, the first time we had sex and so on. She did not want to have sex on our first date, which i am c...		KomSaaDeHvie/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:53 PM
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The majority of the problems in dating now a days all boils down to the fact that women do not want to claim there gender role but they DEMAND men to ...		CMVAnthony-waltzs/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 01:56 PM
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Skyler_White/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 07:17 PM
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Would you rather date a pretty woman or an ugly woman? don't give me this "it depends" bs. in economics there's a phrase, "cete...		CMVsweatyapplejuice/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 07:02 AM
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One of the most common complaints I see from women on men's standards is that porn instills unrealistic expectations. For the most part, I agree. ...		CMVWeAreTheAggies/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 05:05 PM
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CMVBarefootPregoExpress/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 02:40 PM
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CMVMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:47 PM
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https://www.iflscience.com/plants-and-animals/researchers-tested-which-male-body-shapes-women-find-the-most-attractive-its-not-good-news-men/ Women we...		DiscussionTotalBasturd/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:24 PM
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Women are raised by their liberal parents to be nice and compliant. They're taught not to be aware of male nature, that can be predatory and nothi...		CMVSemibrokenbunny/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 09:06 PM
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https://www.forbes.com/sites/meghancasserly/2012/09/12/is-opting-out-the-new-american-dream-for-working-women/[link](https://www.forbes.com/sites/megh...		DiscussionAbhificaton_Shwarma/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:51 AM
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It is indisputable that a large majority of women have a preference that the man in their lives earn at least as much as they do and, ideally, even mo...		goldmedalflower/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 01:09 PM
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Men have created their own version of feminine and then brainwashed women into believing this is how women naturally act. That feminine means “vulne...		CMVRayRayGD/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 12:27 PM
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PurgeFlavFal/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 01:03 AM
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Thots may be annoying, vain narcissists but at least they do what most men would also do if they could; use attention from the opposite gender to stro...		CMVOverarching_Chaos/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 09:49 AM
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It seems like every time the issue of body shaming women comes to its always in relation to demonizing men for it. The weirdest thing is all throughou...		CMVskywater101/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 08:26 PM
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https://i.redd.it/jh3z7tvt1jx41.jpg...		brad penispixelatedlizard/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:33 AM
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"I'm a nice guy why don't girls want me?"..."Oh it's because they only date assholes." This train of thought allows th...		CMVl0T0T0l/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 02:33 PM
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Purge Week!kevin32/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 11:55 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/fp1jmz/were_men_told_that_being_nice_would_get_them_laid/flimm48/ I have seen men complaining about...		CMV/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 12:44 PM
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What are the reasons for and against mandatory paternity tests for all newborns? The usual arguments I hear for why they shouldnt be mandatory: The ma...		CMVComprehendDuel/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 08:00 PM
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Purge Week!ihatejanniiiiiies/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:50 PM
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DISCLAIMER: I just want to preface this by saying that this isn't a "wahmen bad" post, and that is not my intention regarding it. I apol...		CMVYouBanAway/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 01:40 PM
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Purge Week!wylaaa/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:01 PM
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DiscussionCopperstoner/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:57 AM
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Purge Week!Almond_Master/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 03:00 AM
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Before you call me a nasty name, hear me out. In recent years there's been a slew of female empowering, body positive campaigns to make all women,...		CMVMyrganGyrgan/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:15 PM
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So i came across this absolutely fascinating video - and i'm going to post 2 versions of it, one with commentary from a 3rd party as i think he pa...		DiscussionSigma1979/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 06:45 PM
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I am a virgin woman and I may be tight or 0 N count or whatever disgusting bullshit you call me but I am also a person. The reason I am a virgin is ha...		CMVNervous_Skink/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/20 05:54 AM
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Both genders want traditionalism when it benefits them. A man wants a woman who works full time and does a majority of the housework. A woman wants a ...		CMVBig-Menu-1559/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 12:34 PM
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This sub primarily focuses on social issues. Sex, dating, relationships, friendships are aspects of life that women have all the unearned power and pr...		CMVbanananutbranmuffin/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 03:07 PM
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Most men have heard this before “It's okay for men to be emotional” but the question is, is it really? Based on my own experience as well as the e...		CMVMayhem977/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 09:52 AM
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If he cums too quickly, he's ruined the sex. If he doesn't cum at all, his sex partner will get offended. If he can't make her cum, it'...		CMVExciting_East7365/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 02:35 PM
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PurgeJammerjamhams/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 05:31 PM
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Purge - ScienceDOSGAMES/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 01:34 PM
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ScienceAndesjack12/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:06 PM
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I recently wrote a 12 page paper in my college writing class on misogyny and misandry. I used trusted sources from academic journals and got an A on m...		CMVmusicmn22/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 12:43 AM
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I completely agree that if every guy a woman knows is a cheater, manipulator, abuser, bad boy, fuckboy, (insert all negative ascepts), then she's ...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 12:51 PM
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https://www.vox.com/conversations/2017/6/27/15873072/google-porn-addiction-america-everybody-lies The interview was made in early 2018 (important to c...		SomeTurdInTheWind/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:37 PM
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I've never contributed to any of these communities, apart from now. But I have lurked for quite a while and to be honest a lot of the commentary s...		CMV0100010001000101/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:01 PM
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A blind spot in dating forums is how your own attitudes toward the opposite sex are a form of self-sabotage. Do you really think a belief like "a...		CMVAntifaSuperSwoledier/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 09:44 AM
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Yet women do lie about their sexual history. They even lie about it in anonymous surveys. They lie about it to guys, especially to guys they want to b...		CMVAdditionalparties/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 06:54 PM
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CMVgeyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 12:03 PM
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So, this is something I've noticed over the past 10 years or so but straight women tend to freak out if they find out a guy they're interested in or s...		CMVYggdrasil93/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:47 PM
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Having an advantage in the dating world is arguably one of the best life advantages you can have but it is frequently understated ("boo hoo, men ...		CMVconnoisseurofathing/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 02:47 PM
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https://i.redd.it/eeqbtprdpkx41.jpg...		Scienceapplejaque/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:07 PM
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I often hear from men here that women or the gynocentric society expressly "lied to" them. I have never heard any woman in all of my life sa...		CMVGridReXX/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 12:42 AM
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Weird, isn't it? Drag culture, twerking, songs about wet pussies, Onlyfans... all of this is inescapable. Sex work and sugar daddying gets a green...		CMVJohnny_Autism/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:49 PM
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By now I'm guessing many here are aware of the audio that came out from what appears to be a couples therapy session involving Johnny Depp and Amb...		CMVking_of_red_alphas/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 09:46 AM
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This is with regards to relationship. For sex it's entirely different. A ton of women who complain about not finding good partners are only struggling...		CMVForeignHumor788/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 08:53 PM
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DiscussionRamboHoodie420/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:59 PM
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It's more often than not, men who say that men and women can't be friends and I think there are two main reasons a man (or women for that matter) may ...		CMVBagBoth/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/20 02:00 PM
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it's attractive for a man to be able to approach a woman with confidence."Yikes! Women will assume you want to sleep with them which is a tu...		CMVRomeo_Is_Bleedin/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:53 PM
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I was challenged in my view that the bottom 80% of men want a relationship. What makes me think the bottom 80% want a relationship and aren't just...		CMV-angels-fan-/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 03:58 PM
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A lot of us religious women have "rape" fantasies because we possess this desire to have sex without having to be morally accountable for ch...		CMViloveyoubutyou/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/21 06:52 PM
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And unfortunately I know that's not going to change anytime soon. There's going to be a few people in here who on about "muh beauty stand...		CMVDrinkItInMan11/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 01:06 AM
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PurgeIcyHotRoad/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 12:19 AM
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Many Red Pillers here are acting like middle aged men can marry virgin, tradcon women. I have seen Red Pillers say that they will fuck around until th...		NewStartOnceAgain/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:02 PM
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Sid_Insidious/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:47 AM
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It's the basically "the grass is greener" syndrome. One gender is not privileged over the other, it's that they have different advan...		CMVle_me_fucking_ur_mum/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 12:56 PM
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I always see this question and its responses take this course. A guy complains about the glaring disadvantages men have in the dating market and is im...		CMVHoosker-Doos/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 09:39 PM
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Women are gatekeepers of sex, while men are gatekeepers of relationships. This might have been true in the past, but it is no longer. Women are the ma...		CMVgeyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:26 PM
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I saw this thread a few days ago by a 23-year-old woman, and something stood out to me that wasn't addressed much in the comments: Making friends ...		Discussionneualgae/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 07:27 AM
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It is so weird. Drag culture, twerking, songs about wet pussies, onlyfans and all of this is inescapable. Sex work and sugar daddying gets a "you...		CMVRomeo_Is_Bleedin/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 06:28 PM
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Let's face it: testosterone is a hell of a drug. It can make you see god himself when you look in the mirror. That innate ego mixed with social condit...		CMVandidontcarehowufeel/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:55 PM
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We always discuss how feminism has caused women to rethink gender roles, but we never hear the same for men. I believe these last few years have cause...		CMV_Neon_Shadow_/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/21 07:29 PM
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The study is titled Mismatches in the Marriage Market by Lichter, Price, and Swigert. Lichter, Price, and Swigert (2019) stated that there is a lack o...		ScienceIntp-A1/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 03:01 PM
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I see a lot of people on here complaining about women and men having "unrealistically high standards" to the point where people are just get...		CMVbeefstue/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/21 07:29 PM
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Sciencejayda92/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 08:24 PM
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Sure a small minority of people are fortunate enough to have their first partner turn out to be their life-long marriage partner, but that is incredib...		CMV0seagirl/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 04:05 PM
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I'm having a formation of a thought that hasn't really formed altogether, so I wanted to see if I'm wrong about this. There's somethin...		CMVangels-fan/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 02:28 PM
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It's not that women give bad advice. It's that women give bad advice to men. Even to their own sons, a mother will give him dating advice that...		CMVRandomRedditGuy322/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:53 PM
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Maybe I'm being Captain Obvious here, but both men and women on this sub tend to be completely unhinged in their dismissal of the other gender'...		DiscussionSupermarketFun21/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 03:13 AM
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I regularly hear on this subreddit the following affirmations : Women trade sex for ressources / money / a relationship Women like sex less than men /...		CMVlepetitdaddydupeuple/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 09:04 AM
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You see online a lot of guys and girls look to get into more traditional relationships without being traditional themselves, they want to receive all ...		CMVDrinkItInMan11/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 11:57 AM
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Seriously that's it. I've been seeing so many posts saying women are happier than men while single. Men need women more than women need men ec...		CMVCanyadiigit/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/21 04:58 PM
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Purgecrackrocksteady7/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 11:44 AM
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From the moment I got on this sub, I've been seeing countless comments and posts from men (most of whom self identify as a certain "I" w...		CMVGood-Strong/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 03:14 PM
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The man must be significantly taller, physically stronger and make more money, and at the very least be as educated. This isn't up for debate, it&...		CMVPlayboycel/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/21 05:38 PM
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Inspired by this “article” Tinseltown's standards for women's bodies are pretty widely discussed (and condemned), and rightfully so But the standa...		DiscussionSmurfESmurferson/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:00 AM
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Anyone who has been around women a lot can confirm this. Women, especially younger female social circles have a extremely brutal vetting process when ...		CMVK0KSAL/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 12:56 PM
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Purge CMV!patorac63/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:49 PM
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It always confuses me when men here admit that guys will happily fuck nearly any and every woman and in the same breath criticize women for not “app...		Question For Mentwopeas3296/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 06:57 PM
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One thing I have noticed among my male peers is that the vast majority are very insecure about approaching the women they like, for countless reasons....		CMVSomeTurdInTheWind/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 10:53 AM
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Why is that? Why would men tolerate such a state? This isn't exactly a study from Breitbart or the Daily Caller. It's by a woman who is a prof...		Discussionifnotberniethentrump/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:54 PM
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something i find funny is when guys paint the women who post here as like evil harpies who don't care about incels or men. which is totally bizarr...		Discussionkandyapplez/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:40 PM
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Note: I am a 23 F, pink pilled af. I wanted to be clear on that because I'm sure what I'm about to say will be very relatable to red pillers, ...		CMVAnonPinkLady/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:56 AM
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People who view women as inferior, selfish, or manipulating will always have trouble with women. People who view men as stupid, sexist, or cheaters wi...		CMVBig-Menu-1559/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 10:09 PM
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This is inspired hearing guys here claim "Men cast wide nets and they still get no catch", and "We chase all types of women and we'...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 01:08 PM
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Women dont get shamed for hugging each other, cuddling platonically, even holding hands. So they can get physical affection via routes other than sex....		CMVlionhart280/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 03:16 AM
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Many women proclaim that only loser men care about N-count. It's not true. If the women themselves believed it was true, they would be freely adve...		CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 01:40 AM
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Thoughts? She explains that a SAHM (stay at home mom) is the most difficult to divorce based on her experience because they are paralyzed by fear and ...		Discussionjuicyfruit206/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 03:13 PM
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So I went through the wall sub for fun to see if it was actually that bad, and what do you know, it is! Half the posts on the sub are either women who...		CMVMimoxs/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 08:42 PM
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“What does this have to do with The Red Pill or Blue Pill”? This idea that beta males miss out on a woman's “best years” is stupid as fuck. Wh...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 01:49 PM
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I think much anger and hurt is displayed over this simple truth, because there are a lot of people who would prefer the opposite; there are women who ...		CMVShadow_of_Caravaggio/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:27 PM
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This subreddit is a masterclass in bad faith. The men hate the women and the women hate the men. Any 'valuable' discussion here will inevitabl...		CMVMy_IQ_is_60/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:53 PM
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Purge - ScienceCamoWoobie10000/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 03:27 PM
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Purge - ScienceDOSGAMES/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/19 12:53 AM
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NYE Purge Post!CamoWoobie420/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:47 PM
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More purge baitE-2-butene/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 02:55 PM
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In case you missed it, basement dwelling incel hip, world-famous comic Dave Chappelle, in his Netflix special Sticks and Stones, said: I don't care wh...		DiscussionZqx1/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/19 01:01 AM
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No one on this sub even mentions anyone in their 35+ unless they're talking about “post wall” women - which again are entirely judged on their sex...		Debatejigglypuff__0/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 08:41 PM
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I'm seeing a disturbing trend where men are attacked for simply having dating preferences. It's OK for men to have dating preferences for any ...		CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/20 10:26 PM
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Everyone loves to complain and being heard and they hate it when the person listening says that some people have it harder, this is case with the whol...		CMVrivetcitymayor/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 05:41 PM
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This sub primarily focuses on social issues. Sex, dating, relationships, friendships are aspects of life that women have all the unearned power and pr...		CMVmechanical_elves/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 06:00 PM
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The amount of times I've read on Reddit and other places online that "IF SHE'S DRY/TIGHT, IT MEANS YOU'RE NOT DOING YOUR JOB" is...		Discussionskywater101/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 07:36 PM
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Everywhere you turn, you see the narrative that single women are long-suffering angels whose dating pool is low on men that aren't fat, sloppy, in...		CMVSupermarketFun21/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 12:51 AM
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Women only want "chad" and won't give someone in their own league a chance. >They'd absolutely choose Megan fox over Amy Schumer ...		CMVYMaedchen/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 02:04 PM
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Prologue: (1) I earn plenty so this is not a personal vendetta, and (2) sure, it's feminism, so the tell that they would focus on women is right t...		CMVcommitteeless/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 07:53 PM
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Purge Week!PPD-Angel/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/20 06:32 PM
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I don't think there's a bigger complement to a man than being hookup material, if you are it means you're likely pretty hot and good enoug...		CMVDrinkItInMan11/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:02 AM
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Any discussion of TRP or the realities of dating for men are immediately shut down, posts removed and will get you banned from subs and downvoted/sham...		CMVHoosker-Doos/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 01:19 PM
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Purge Week!villarconstante/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 11:43 AM
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Original Post Where I found it Includes mentions of rape, abuse, violence, racism, misogyny, homophobia, child sex abuse, pedophilia, etc. Porn use: T...		Discussionthrowawaya_123456789/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/20 02:53 PM
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H Heterosexual women of a progressive bent often say they want equal partnerships with men. But dating is a different story entirely. The women I inte...		DiscussionCultistHeadpiece/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 02:31 AM
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Alexander and Fisher (2003) conducted a study to examine the effects of social norms on women's self-reports of their number of sexual partners. T...		Sciencepleantrees/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:27 PM
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This has been bugging me a ton. I wont wrute too much on it, but I feel like after talking to some women, they tend to be overly cautious around norma...		CMVidrinkapplejuice42/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 12:42 AM
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Even though us women don't like to admit it, a part of us is intimidated by men. We know that they are stronger and often taller. So when we dance...		CMViloveyoubutyou/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 04:54 AM
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You don't get to negotiate attraction. What you find attractive in a partner is for you to decide, not for your partner to decide. For example, if...		CMVRDelbson/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 10:52 PM
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A study by Eleftheriou et al. (2019) found that: The more facially attractive a man was judged to be, the more likely it was that participants were wi...		ScienceRSDevotion1/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/20 07:42 PM
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With women being allowed to exercise “my body my choice” where they get to have the ONLY say in who gets born or not, why isn't “my wallet my ch...		CMVtheogfrankcastle/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 01:44 PM
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Here's a link to the documentary about it: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ip7kP_dd6LU The gist: A lesbian woman named Norah Vincent created a mal...		Discussionwashington_breadstix/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 09:19 AM
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Does women thinking that “men command respect” prove Apex Fallacy? So for whatever reason women believe that men can just enter a room and command...		CMVDerekMorganBAU/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 04:00 PM
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How do you know if she is not treating you like a backup plan? She spends money on you, always responds to your texts, and makes you a priority in her...		CMVubermynsch/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 11:51 PM
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This is a subject that I just can't figure out. It seems to me that women that can't find a high value man to settle down with are just fine l...		Discussion-angels-fan-/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:00 AM
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I think a lot of men grew up with the idea that women are 'complicated'. Or they rationalised the idea that women are mysterious or hard to fi...		CMVOldSimpsonsisbetter/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 10:01 PM
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afflictuseternal/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 05:08 PM
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DebateEmortalrat/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:17 PM
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statistically, the amount of men that earn 80k+ under 30 is very small the average American man aged 20-35 earn 30k to 50k annually, anyone earning 80...		CMVMoneydamjan/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 12:28 AM
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r/datingoverthirty is the perfect example. The mods there will remove any posts they deem to be rule breaking, but that often wavers to fit their gyno...		CMVMrNobody512/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/21 08:54 PM
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So there's this idea amongst edgy redditors that "nice guys" are just being nice to get laid and that they're really entitled and in...		SupremeMystique/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/19 04:48 AM
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Vrangalova et al. (2013) conducted a study to examine the moderators of individuals' negative views of promiscuous women. It is commonly maintaine...		Sciencepleantrees/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 01:44 AM
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Here's some: Men - Say promiscuous women are broken, then seek to pump and dump non-promiscuous women thereby increasing the proportion of supposedly ...		MyLadySupporter/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 09:44 AM
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Purge Debate!Damesamegame/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:06 PM
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This is in response to the post trying to condition men to cater to the feminine imperative. The fact of the matter is, it would be irrational, disadv...		CMVItchyHealth/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 09:49 PM
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They're never going to agree to go out with you, so don't get your hopes up. But to be confidently approached and asked out by an ugly man is ...		HeRoped/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 06:28 PM
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Forget the Handmaid's tale when we're already going back to the era of matchmakers and arranged marriages. Except this time it it isn't yo...		CMVRomeo_Is_Bleedin/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 12:47 PM
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Ofc being physically attractive and having games some kind of matter for both genders but from what I noticed, there are no real rules in dating, ( an...		CMVdalia-chan/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 01:12 PM
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Found this sub from a post that showed up on popular. Wasn't really sure what you're about so I sorted top/all time and also some of the new posts. Wh...		DiscussionArgandr/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:20 PM
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Dating is already hard enough as it is. It's even harder in America when you're an average weight person attracted to average weight people. T...		CMVJohnOnAWall1/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 06:40 PM
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So after all the posts about how it is/isn't a good thing to be seen as husband material and it's better/worse to be seen as a fuckboy. The pe...		CMVSpread-Em-Plz/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 02:55 PM
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Your ideal lover should NOT be your standard. Your ideal lover is SUPPOSE to be unrealistic. It baffles to when guys here whine about “but women set...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 01:22 PM
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I read an interesting post in the thread entitled "All men are misogynists" (I don't agree with the thread title btw) and it spoke about...		DebateBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 06:01 PM
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Whenever I hear women say "I'm not attracted to hot guys, I kinda like unconventional looking guys like Adam Driver" I think; darling, I...		CMVK0KSAL/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 12:09 PM
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phantomholiday143/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 06:43 PM
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The title is self explanatory. Women love nice guys. The problem is men who think they are nice are just passive doormats with zero self esteem. That'...		CMV1Here4Bach/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 01:41 PM
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Purge Week!sootlord/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 05:04 PM
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So I keep seeing over and over, with this N value thing, that it's MEN who are slut shaming... But upon reflection, that NEVER happens in real lif...		CMVCirc-Le-Jerk/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:16 AM
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one gender can easily get someone to ask her out no matter how attractive she is. one gender is expected to have their partner pay for the date. one g...		CMVNotAnExploit/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 07:48 PM
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I'm big on gender equality. I think men and women are just as self serving and shitty as one another. We all are very self interested, we are the cent...		CMVjbo99/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 09:04 PM
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Peacheslikeyou/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:08 PM
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Since it appears to be "n-count week" again, I figured I would dig up an old comment that remains one of my favorite statements ever made ab...		CMVwashington_breadstix/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 03:39 AM
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I've read plenty of articles from various sites proclaiming that porn use is destroying our youth, making them less interested in real relationshi...		CMVPhilip8000/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 03:53 PM
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Introduction If you live in the west there is a good chance that you have been fed this narrative that women are at a disadvantage, and that men have ...		CMVsorebum405/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:12 PM
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https://i.redd.it/tcfqe9gvwps31.jpg...		PurgeChewedandDigested/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/19 02:48 PM
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I've lived a full life that some people would describe as short. However, I have experienced a lot in my time here on earth. It's surprising h...		CMVGrave_Heresy/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 01:15 AM
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There's this common belief that a man who doesn't want a woman who is more successful than him just shows that he is “insecure” or “intimidated...		CMVMayhem977/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 11:26 PM
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Note: For this post, I am referring to "simp" by its proper definition: a guy who thirsts over girls heavily and thinks the way to their hea...		CMVhellotrillions/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 02:25 AM
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I was reading a passage from the book “The Elementary Particles” by Michel Houellebecq and the following passage really stuck out to me. “Withou...		Robert_de_Saint_Loup/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:59 PM
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What the title says basically. If you're going to comment or try to argue on dating then you need to at least attempt to put yourself in the other par...		CMVREEE_XD/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 08:40 PM
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A recent thread discussed women approaching men for a relationship. Basically, a lot of advice from women was not to do it. But if women find there ar...		CMVLaytheblameonluck/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 11:50 AM
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Men need to be raised to be neutral towards women collectively rather than the standard model of seeing them as a "Lady" or "Princesses...		CMVgoneaway2thewind/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 09:58 PM
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I used to be depressed and fat. I lost a lot of weight and suddenly many men want to date me when they didn't before. Should I be bitter and say &...		/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/21 06:17 PM
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It's fairly simple. Guys go about their lives approaching women they like. Either because of how they look, or how they act. We have the "tak...		CMVgeyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 09:20 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6679165/ "Overall, it appears that individuals, particularly men, who use pornography more often als...		CMVhoustongradengineer/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/21 07:35 PM
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Purge week!Ultrashitposter/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 01:20 PM
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I have been on this subb for less then 10 minutes and have read multiple "most popular" posts that basically write about how you should use ...		CMVgeyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 01:49 PM
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(Prince charming just being the colloquial term for a top 10%, high value man.) It's the very rare woman that actually deserves prince charming, and i...		CMVfwoketrash/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 10:42 PM
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To be honest this would clear up a lot of confusion and stop any potential paternity fraud someone may commit, and save others from years of being use...		CMVthoughtfulsoul10000/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 01:57 PM
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These are two sides of the same coin. Guy meets girl and wants to have sex with her. She might know he's slept around but he says it was failed re...		CMVleaving2night/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:11 PM
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Years ago, when I was at my first internship, I was having a casual conversation with a female coworker on my team. We got to know each other a bit, a...		CMVbanned_by_cucks/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:12 PM
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social media and online dating have destroyed the dating market as we know it. i'm not sure if there is a way to recover at this point. the hyper ...		CMVstill_alive11/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/21 04:18 PM
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Just a few days reading the threads on the purge showed most of these women's true colors. Countless discussions derailed by women with homophobic...		DiscussionKid__Chocolate/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:48 PM
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Ive seen certain stories like this on reddit and I'll admit I've had similar experiences from asking out women. Boy Meets Girl, Boy Asks Out Girl, Gir...		CMVMajorian420/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 10:26 AM
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I'm actually surprised by the amount of women I run into in both online and real life that attempt to virgin shame me and call me a “misogynist” j...		CMVMayhem977/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 01:10 AM
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The dating market is a fierce competition and uphill battle for men. Women can just be themselves and they'll do just fine attracting partners bec...		CMVEcstatic-World9272/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 01:38 PM
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I'll keep this short and sweet. Most women / BPers here seem to think that RP chants “just go lift bro” as some sort of covert contract wherein th...		CMVHeckleandChide/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:46 PM
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I've sure you all have heard the redpill saying that "men age like wine and women age like milk". I'm here to tell you why in my per...		CMVRomantic_Asexual/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/20 07:23 PM
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As a guy who graduated in a biology-related engineering degree and actually worked in microbiology research, I get annoyed every time I hear a redpill...		CMVlepetitdaddydupeuple/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 08:18 AM
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We've all heard it, guys who are creepy/inappropriate, or who won't take no for an answer. We live in the age of #MeToo after all. So why does...		CMVSlashCo80/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/19 01:24 PM
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A common trope on PPD (that most people will agree with, it's not really an RP/BP issue) is that a lot of women will go on dating apps like tinder...		CMVSigma1979/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 05:42 PM
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TRP has lost its underground status as a secretive community, it's already on its way to mainstream status. It's not 2010 anymore, with platforms like...		CMVNDN2004/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 07:17 PM
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This is the essence of all my PPD posts. This is it. Lol at TRP being made to attract certain women. Wrong. It's made to put men up on the games t...		CMVDerekMorganBAU/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 07:17 PM
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I think the blue pill side underestimates the number and red pill side overestimates it. The optimism of more mainstream relationship advice and datin...		DebateHennythepainaway/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/19 10:34 PM
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Credits to u/kissmetilyouredrunk for their based comment. By far, with no competition, the easiest way to get men to understand how women feel about s...		CMV_pineapplylemon/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 01:14 PM
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I also think men tend to overlook the fact that women are much more easily turned off and disgusted/repulsed than men are. In other words: men are oft...		CMVtnais/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:51 PM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/975925/us-tinder-user-ratio-gender/ I'm just... whoa. Like I knew that men probably outnumbered women on there but...		Torridtwenty/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 04:19 PM
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i'm tired of hearing men say things like "i'm not shallow at all, I'll fuck a girl as long as shes not 300 pounds and bald. on the ot...		CMVsweatyapplejuice/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 11:40 PM
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Purge Week!Skyler_White/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:09 PM
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If you listen to people arguing about gender issues for long enough, you notice that bitter men and bitter women tend to have the EXACT same gripes wi...		CMVIveGotIssues9918/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/22 09:11 PM
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Everyone has read articles stating that women are still not treated as equals by their husbands, how they still do a majority of the housework etc. Si...		CMVBurdensomeCount/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:16 PM
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I see older generations today (50 years old and above) often criticizing young people for their late life development. The young get married later, an...		CMVSomeTurdInTheWind/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 06:47 PM
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There's nothing wrong with having high standards and this goes for both men and women. There are some people who don't mind being alone that m...		CMVTheBestRebirth/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 09:01 AM
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There's a post every other day on mainstream subreddits like /r/TrueOffMyChest espousing body positivity for shorter men, men without muscles/6 packs,...		CMVAbnormalBias/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 09:06 PM
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We all know that women are the selectors when it comes to the mating game, however I often see women blame/insult/judge men who struggle to find a par...		CMVAgainstGynocentrism/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:39 AM
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*Not all men* So women in the west are often accused of being 'career driven feminists' and told that the 'real' reason there are prob...		CMVDiamondLilyD/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:56 AM
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While patriarchal ideas should be combated, there needs to be some nuance here. It's important that the message "treat women like people"...		CMVNo-Border680/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 03:38 PM
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If you look at literary accounts of prostitutes throughout history, a common theme amongst them is that they have to prostitute themselves out of nece...		CMVrawnute/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 02:35 PM
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Ive noticed that women are pragmatic when it comes to dating. They want to go and fuck and have fun when it suits them, then settle down when it suits...		CMVDerekMorganBAU/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 01:07 PM
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https://igotstandardsbro.com/ Here's a sample search: not married white at least 6' 1" tall not obese earning at least $55,000 per year (...		Discussiontux_pirata/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:09 PM
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Almost all of these dating problems would go away if people just followed this rule. Let me explain. If you're a woman and you only have sex with a gu...		alphadawg94/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 12:53 AM
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Relationships get comfortable, we all know that. That's why there are stages. Most men get the girl they want with effort and most importantly mak...		Discussioniseeyouxo_/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:38 PM
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Response to the "hypocrisy" thread. It's not hypocrisy, women want to be seen as sexually arousing to men that they find attractive. But...		CMVDerekMorganBAU/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 10:33 PM
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Sex is the best indicator for a woman's attraction level. If she doesn't want to fuck you she isn't attracted to you anymore and the chanc...		CMVCommanderOfTheDeath/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 11:24 PM
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Like the title reads. Most these individuals (both types) are not mentally healthy. Empathetic and codependent individuals have poor boundaries and dr...		CMVLadyofblades/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/21 09:36 AM
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I keep hearing this myth: Sex is easier to obtain for women, relationships are easier to obtain for men. People think this follows from the fact that ...		CMVSupermarketFun21/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 12:09 AM
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Men usually think very straightforward. So the idea of a female friends might seem pointless to some guys, since "you're giving your attentio...		CMVogsimpology/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 05:43 AM
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Many RPillers act as if women only choose to work because they "envy male success" or something along those lines. They act as if most women...		CMVLovesAnEngineer/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 02:47 PM
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**Disclaimer - I am a Red-Piller myself. Now I know the standard archetypal dark triade is popular on TRP, and I've known some of these people in real...		DiscussionAskerman97_returns/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 12:42 PM
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Try dating a women, you got to bribe her on a first date by paying for her time. Nope in the gay world, we split that shit quick. He is not going to p...		Discussionjadedbyhypocrisy/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:13 AM
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Based on every scenario I've seen, ever, it's ALMOST never about the money or looks themselves. It's a guy who is on a track, on a mission...		CMVogsimpology/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 11:54 PM
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I've noticed recently during discussions in my other threads that a lot of men don't quite seem to believe or appreciate the fact that I, and ...		CMVNarrow_Bridge5804/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:17 PM
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Yesterday's thread on Texas' new law got me thinking, why don't I ever hear men complain about the lack of male specific birth control opt...		DiscussionAny_Conclusion_4297/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 05:35 PM
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Either get a hoe, or get a wife. Stop trying to make the hoe your wife. If your main goal is sex, then what the fuck are you doing getting married? Ma...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:10 PM
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I noticed a lot of men can't stand to be alone. Not only that but they're desperate to get married and start a family. They don't cultivate relationsh...		CMVbelowAverageChump/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 02:32 PM
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And the best way to deal with that is to make yourself as sexually appealing as possible. If a woman stands in front of you and talks to you and think...		CMVArtistic_Guest4386/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 03:33 PM
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I see this very frequently. An unattractive, sometimes even extremely unattractive, woman posts on social media and the comment section is just filled...		KaoticGenius/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:02 PM
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Women in general here dont know how to flatter their relationship and their S/O it is TRAGIC. “My bf isn't the biggest or most attractive guy but he...		CMVDerekMorganBAU/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 02:57 PM
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Note - anyone who AGREES with this PLEASE respond to the AUTOMOD (green auto moderated response headed with “Attention.” Do NOT respond directly t...		CMVHoosker-Doos/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 06:39 PM
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For example, if all I do is watch Jerry Springer and Maury, I'm going to think all Americans are combative trashy people who never know who father...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:02 PM
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(all my experience feel free to dispute) Women are allowed to have physical preferences. Tall, dark, handsome etc. If a woman won't date short men...		ShortPromotion2/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/21 04:14 PM
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Parental investment hypotheses regarding mate selection suggest that human males should seek partners featured by youth and high fertility. However, ...		Sciencepleantrees/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 03:19 PM
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Purge Week!geyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 02:21 PM
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I need help connecting the dots here. For the legit, true HVM... the guy who has all his shit together, is extremely kind and generous, the guy who ob...		Question For WomenBass_howlow_can_u_go/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 05:11 PM
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I noticed how often I'll see debates between men and women about whether or not nice guys get laid. Often I've noticed the one arguing that th...		CMVSpread-Em-Plz/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 01:47 PM
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I'm not going to outline how it's morally messed up. If you are unsure just tell your SO and see how he reacts. Pragmatically however it doesn't work....		CMVomegaatlas/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 06:18 PM
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I recently found a TikTok video posted on Reddit which featured a girl cleaning her boyfriend's apartment. She made it clear it was his place that...		CMVAskingThrowaway55555/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/21 12:48 PM
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Before I start. Here's some sources for what I'm about to say https://slatestarcodex.com/2015/01/01/untitled/ https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/...		CMVForgetaboutthelonely/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 09:49 PM
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I don't mind spending money on my fiancée. If we agreed to just go out after work, I'll take her to a fancy restaurant if I feel like it. I d...		CMVgeyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 06:27 AM
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It's something I've seen mostly with women, but some guys do it too - the absolute refusal to admit that "my side" can have it bette...		Discussioneldritchfloormop/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/19 09:44 AM
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As multiple studies suggest, sexual history does have an effect on marital stability, contrary to what high n count women say. And so, Men should stop...		CMVVisible_Seesaw4853/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 03:09 PM
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I'm not talking about spineless betas feigning kindness to get laid. That narrative was cooked up by feminists aiming to once again deflect and dimini...		CMVHoosker-Doos/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 03:15 PM
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What they want If they're dating around, looking for a relationship, and simply not finding any long term success, it's most likely that they...		CMVgeyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 12:11 PM
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I'm a fairly fit guy and in good shape (5'10, 170lbs) but somewhat average-homely facially, and I like my ladies slim to normal, but it seems ...		EffectiveBlackCat/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 04:05 PM
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When women tell men to "be better," or express how poorly men are behaving and treating women, they're talking to these men, the men tha...		CMVTheBookOfSeil/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 09:09 PM
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Being fit is a universally attractive trait and it could also be a sign of good health. Just about anybody can become fit(barring any outliers) throug...		CMVMasonMan1234/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 10:39 PM
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Women want/love sex just as much as men. But they specifically want it from top men. The top men, who women lust after, know how much women enjoy sex ...		CMVTheRabbitTunnel/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:29 PM
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In current day western society men and women have about an equal amount of individual issues and disadvantages. For men I'd say the following are most...		CMVMonteravela/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/21 09:07 PM
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I see that all the misogynist subreddits are either banned, quarantined, or really niche. This is good because hatred is unacceptable, especially when...		DiscussionPizzaPieSimulator/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 06:54 AM
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This is a common trp trope I see repeated on here and it has no basis in reality in my opinion. There isn't a single women I know who has gotten into ...		CMVGullibleClassic1/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:07 PM
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Disclaimer: Before we begin the thread I want to bring up that in the context of this discussion I would prefer not wasting any time on discussing men...		CMVvoteronly12/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 09:45 PM
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repost - last one got removed This is an all too common frustration I see on this sub and a point of such contention that we should probably have a li...		CMVredditthrowaway1478/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 06:44 PM
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I have often wondered why FDS allows zero discussion. Even the other, FDS related subreddits don't allow any male participation or discussion. Whi...		CMVnameuser9876/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 10:03 PM
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Source here In 2018, it was recorded that a whopping 28% of men and 18% of women between the ages of 18 and 30 hadn't had sex in the previous year...		Discussionchesapeake_ripperz/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 12:36 AM
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EDIT: Okay, negation achieved here. There are some other honorable mentions throughout the thread and I might reply to a few more if they're interesti...		CMVtripleundone/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 01:43 PM
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https://sci-hub.se/10.1007/bf00287767 We propose a two-part generalization about sex differences in entering into and giving up romantic attachments: ...		purplepilldthrowaway/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/20 10:23 PM
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It seems weird alot Western men on here get mad that women want to settle down after 25, when she's "Hit the wall" and now wants a "...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 02:54 PM
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Hey all. I am noticing a lot of anger and frustration here. But while other people blame it on something like one thing in particular, like one politi...		CMVRenkarem/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/21 07:39 AM
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A lot of men often claim that they would not establish an LTR with a woman that has partaken in casual sexual before. However, they are aware of the f...		CMVSimple-Craft-9577/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 12:05 AM
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Like it says the average man in America's life is so vastly different then the average women's and vice versa that emphasizing is hard. Some examples ...		CMVthatguyfromrichmond/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 06:41 PM
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I am a 6'6 decently facially attractive guy. Currently aged 33. I haven't had problems attracting any women, at least for the last 5 years sin...		CMVkalaposok/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/21 03:10 PM
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It baffles me how women think they do not play a role when it comes to "toxic masculinity " (I do not like that word, but for the sake of th...		CMVPM_ME_UR_BIG_DIORAMA/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 04:45 PM
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TRP and FDS is different because both strategies aim to achieve different things of course. I read a lot of men and female you-tubers bashing FDS and ...		CMVAnthony-waltzs/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/20 02:04 PM
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Pages and pages and pages have been written around here about the flaws of women and their role in modern dating. The wall, n-counts, hypergamy, etc. ...		CMVTotalTravesty/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:12 PM
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Tl;DR at the bottom Everytime I see dating advice here, or in Theredpill or in Seduction, I get anxious, depressed and end up angry. I know that there...		CMVNovatonavila/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:21 PM
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Question For Womenfakeaccount687/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 01:51 PM
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It's crazy to me how often in these conversations, you could change "she" to "he" and the statement would still be true. Reading this sub is very ente...		CMVthrowawaylessons103/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 03:15 PM
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This is an extension of my previous post. Women are, by nature, attracted to masculine, dominant traits. Just as men are attracted to feminine, submis...		CMVHoosker-Doos/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 04:04 PM
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Traits that are most commonly liked in men (by women) are: dominance assertiveness confidence That turns women on. When women say "I want a sensi...		CMVgeyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 06:23 AM
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Over the past weeks i've been browsing the Female Dating Strategy subreddit and I've found it quite interesting because it's one of the fe...		CMVRandomKeyForgePlayer/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:08 PM
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Friend-zoning would require of the other person to suffer. If one person wants to be a couple, and the other one doesn't, the only option is to sa...		CMVHenry_Blair/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 08:11 AM
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For the women that have a set rule that they're going to wait, I think a lot of the frustration that men have during dating with being stringed along ...		CMVtheogfrankcastle/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 11:14 PM
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The reason I say women is because I'm a man dating women, don't nitpick. If any woman you're trying to date isn't as enthusiastic abou...		CMVgeyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 10:01 AM
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I'm tired of hearing about having a "Hot girl summer" or lyrics like "Fuck his best friends" I have been the shoulder to cry o...		lion_lin/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/19 03:38 AM
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me and all my friends have a low view of women. we also get laid. ​ in fact when i didn't get laid and was an inexperienced virgin i had a ...		CMVeverybodyhatespiss/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 08:09 PM
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I came across this tweet and it's shocking to me that women can't understand why men don't like women multi-dating. If a woman is continui...		CMVRepresentativeSwan1/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 05:35 PM
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I understand not liking Golddiggers who only care about money, but it seems men get mad when there's ANY importance on money. Yes, the rich nerd is go...		Question For MenLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/21 02:50 PM
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I'll give a bit of background info about myself, I'm UMC and grew up in a UMC area with pretty well off classmates / peers. However, it seems ...		DiscussionThisIsMyAccount146/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/21 12:06 AM
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With the GirlsDoPorn thing going down, and there being plenty of other similar sites where girls basically do one porn video for around $ 2000 or so i...		DiscussionMaximedius/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 12:09 PM
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the double standard of interest today is: it's bad if a woman frequently seeks casual sex and has a high body count. it's not bad if a man fre...		CMVsweatyapplejuice/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 01:49 AM
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A lot of men complain about how terribly alone they are, we all know this is a problem. The incel rhetoric seems to focus a lot on a desire for sex, a...		CMVAnonPinkLady/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 01:09 AM
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In case you haven't been following along, a user asked red-pilled men how comfortable they are with sharing emotions with their partner. The repli...		CMVtemporary85107/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 11:48 AM
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This is what the other topic didn't have the guts to flat out say and why being “husband material” means nothing. How many husband material men ha...		CMVDerekMorganBAU/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 04:01 PM
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In this context I'm going to say high N-count people because I think this applies to both men and women. PUAs, Sluts, serial daters in general. Wh...		CMVgoneaway2thewind/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 07:23 PM
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Personality and character are not the same and men often think of character when they say personality doesn't matter I have two guy friends that I kno...		CMVrivetcitymayor/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 02:56 PM
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Norm MacDonald's corpse didn't even cool off before he got dragged as a"sexual predator" on twitter,for apparently hitting on colleg...		CMVRomeo_Is_Bleedin/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 01:00 PM
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I think a myth that is often perpetuated is that somehow very attractive women must be callous, but in my experience, the really pretty ones tend to b...		CMVmentalthrowaway3/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:16 PM
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It's funny, I browse PPD and I see terms like “pornsick” mentioned whenever porn use (by a male) in a relationship is brought up. It implies that ...		Debateyoooooooooooodaddy/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 01:11 AM
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Not sure if people here are familiar with first and second causes but a first cause is the original cause for an event happening while the second caus...		CMVTheBookOfSeil/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 04:24 PM
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Did I get that right? So we have this "sexless" men problem. Of course these guess talk about sex but every-time we say get a prostitute the...		DiscussionMuh_Sympathy/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:27 PM
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The modern world is wonderful. We have machines that do washing for us and a good amount of rights. I can have my own money and a job and get an apart...		CMVazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 01:04 PM
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Leaving aside for the moment the details of how one could encourage/enforce sexual restraint in a gender fair manner in today's non-religious, no ...		CMVWilliamWyattD/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 01:02 AM
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A significant amount of men here think that women use men for being their “emotional tampons”. Urban Dictionary defines “emotional tampon” in ...		CMVrivertorain-/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/21 07:45 PM
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Following my recent post i would like to highlight an issue that i have seen affecting dating and everyday life pretty badly, in many modern societies...		CMVEstablishmentKooky50/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 11:40 AM
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https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1948550615584196?journalCode=sppa In two studies, single, heterosexual, female participants received simu...		Sciencepleantrees/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/20 10:55 PM
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I've been down the rabbit hole today watching trashy "Paternity Court" shows on youtube. In one episode, a woman lied to one of the men she was sleepi...		CMVGhostofB/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/19 08:16 AM
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It's cringey to see western men idolize countries like Russia, when it actually has extremely high rates of male alcoholism and suicide , not to m...		CMVNewStartOnceAgain/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/20 01:25 PM
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The human mind is frankly obsessed with attaching ideas, forming links and creating labels. People also love to form distinctions between "good" and "...		CMVQuiet_Cod_726/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/20 08:24 AM
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Fairchild (2010) conducted an online survey on perceptions of sexual harassment (possibly as far as sexual assault) incidents of (N = 1,277) relativel...		Sciencepleantrees/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 07:20 PM
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Imagine a middle-class dude whining every day about how he will never get to drive a Lamborghini or dine at fanciful places or enjoy the riches and lu...		CMVRainbowsAreAmazing/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 12:40 PM
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I've seen so many arguments this week about how men here really don't believe women can be sexually aroused by personality, and women who really can't...		CMVZonkey_Zeedonk/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/21 12:59 AM
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I'm a fairly fit guy and in good shape (5'10, 166lbs), and I like my ladies slim to normal, but it seems that wanting a slim or healthy weight...		DiscussionCynewald/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 10:16 AM
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Especially in rich western countries. But poor countries are starting to catch up as well with western influence. Why do you think men and women are h...		DiscussionSUS_pended/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:57 AM
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There is a tendency in the modern world that blames men (toxic masculinity, rape culture, patriarchic oppression ect... ) for all hardships that women...		EstablishmentKooky50/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:13 AM
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I work in a gym and recently I had a chat with a female regular who is single and a good pal. Recently we were chatting about her dating prospects wit...		Artistic_Guest4386/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/21 04:13 AM
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Height is a classic example. You don't just need to be taller than her, you need to be taller (i.e. more dominant) than other men. The biggest ass...		Manletangelo/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 10:59 PM
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Why tolerate any ounce of a man (even if you truly desire him) standing his ground when there are hoards of simps out there willing to grant your wish...		CMVProtomize/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 03:52 PM
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Short version: Men don't understand that making sex and sex appeal their top priority affects what type of women they observe and associate with, ...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 10:07 PM
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Study: https://ifstudies.org/blog/promiscuous-america-smart-secular-and-somewhat-less-happy I found this study fascinating, because normally these two...		ScienceMolasses_Humble/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 08:51 PM
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UPDATE: Some good responses, some silly ones. Two more thoughts. 1) No one can agree on what redpill is, advocates, or embodies. To some it's basi...		CMVbadinternetbad0111/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 06:23 PM
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Ah yes, the most age old question men and women can never come to a consensus on...Amazingly, nobody is really able to articulate exactly WHY men and ...		CMVredditthrowaway1478/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:48 PM
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​ "Men rated as less attractive earned 9% less than those with average looks; those who were rated as handsome earned 5% more than those c...		DiscussionJohnDoe9564/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 10:47 AM
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Oh the hottest girl in class didn't love you after you faithfully orbited for 3 months? Good. ya shallow prick. You're a 5 you date 5's. O...		DiscussionWill_Stephenz/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/20 09:08 PM
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Women hate the idea of their future husbands giving another woman money and men hate the idea of their future wives giving another man free sex. If Pl...		CMVTheFearlessBoi/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 10:03 PM
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This is quite possibly the most overlooked and unfair advantage women are given a pass on. They are basically allowed to completely disguise their app...		CMVHoosker-Doos/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 10:51 PM
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Usually men who get raped, get raped by other men. But there are cases where women rape men. It almost happened to me when I was 10 years old. I didn&...		Discussionyunghulkbro/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/19 12:03 PM
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I've spent a lot of time reading the manosphere and pink pill subreddits. I've also seen some posts claiming either TRP or FDS is ineffective ...		CMVsocjalizmzwyciezy/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 04:01 PM
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I've always stayed far away from these communities; red and blue. But recently became the target of a middle aged man, Rollo Tomassi, who sent his twi...		CMVXintani2/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 01:54 AM
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Apparently a portion of people below the age of 30 think a man inviting a woman over for a drink is a form of sexual harassment. And this mentality ap...		CMVEggonTurdaryen/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 09:59 AM
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The initial study which found the alpha beta social structure in wolves was tried again and found to be deeply flawed. Even if that study was accurate...		CMVPretend_Dependent_60/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 01:59 AM
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For example take one of the biggest redpill ideas Hypergamy…If two guys were to go on stage and one of them say “women are bitches who are always ...		CMVJohnDoe_Rip/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/22 04:26 PM
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I thought this exchange between u/Narniafox and u/GenZedEd was interesting, it was in a post about what women bring to the table regarding relationshi...		DiscussionSowClips/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 10:32 AM
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For all this talk about “toxic masculinity” and that “it's wrong to teach boys not to cry”, I personally think that teaching young men to embr...		CMVMayhem977/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:05 PM
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It's so difficult to sympathize with redpilled/blackpilled dudes for one reason: how on earth is it some shocking, devastating, groundbreaking revelat...		Question For MenWeirdstuntedcel/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:42 PM
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Online dating is, in my opinion, one of the greatest reasons people are so dissatisfied with the current dating scene. First thing you see, and base 9...		CMVgeyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 07:00 AM
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Tldr: If men hate that women think highly of themselves for just being women, have better standards for women than “Just not be fat” and “give u...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/21 04:17 PM
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https://archive.fo/xFG8a reported that marriage rates reached a historic low in 2018, with only 6.5 people out of 1,000 getting married — the lowest...		DiscussionGrand_Duty/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 04:32 AM
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With the exponential rise of sexlessness among younger men I truly wonder what long-term effects this will have on society? We already know that half ...		Discussiongymletethnicel/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/21 04:34 PM
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Rare moment of some self-awareness from the meme sexSlootando/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 01:25 AM
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"Women's “I don't want to do this” response to sex is much more assertive than their “I don't want to do this” response to needing to lo...		CMVkissmetilyouredrunk/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 04:38 AM
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I believe there is such thing as "Too Much Going On For You" syndrome. I really do. When you become convinced that the opportunities are endless, you ...		CMVShinobiKrow/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 03:36 PM
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I've (31M) had female friends all my life, and some girlfriends. None of them have been boring to be around. We do the same thing as I do with my ...		DiscussionWhoAmIEven2/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 07:10 PM
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I am seeing this statement all the time and I wonder if I am the only guy who cares about those things more than I care about her physical attractiven...		Discussion1291abcd/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 05:43 AM
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yayy purge week, now i can post without the red pill admins coming after me! <33 this purge week bullshit where theres no rules has really shown ev...		Discussionchilumibrainrot/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 02:24 AM
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Reddit (specifically TRP, FDS, and this sub) has this idea that the opposite sex is incredibly toxic towards each other. This isn't true in real l...		CMVfishboy0099/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 01:08 AM
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For starters no no self respecting man never mind a high value man would stick around for the treatment the FDS handbook encourages reader to employ. ...		CMVImGonnaZoom/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:31 AM
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This is rewritten from a post I made on /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates I won't lie, I'm not as big of a fan of this version. but I was asked that I ...		CMVForgetaboutthelonely/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 05:34 PM
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This doozy of an OP generated over 1000+ comments. It asked, "Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitme...		CMVGridReXX/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/21 07:10 PM
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Simple as the title really. Over the years I've lurked in a lot of subs over reddit and found SO much contradictory “advice” from women on this si...		CMVP-o-o-b/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 09:45 PM
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I lurk here, and I see so many redpillers make this mistake by equating marriage to 'gambling.' But this appears to me to be a misunderstandin...		CMVDesperateTraffic3164/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/21 12:04 AM
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TRP is self-reinforcing cycle. They assume that women are AWALT, but they also use tricks that work best on AWALT women and make normal women run away...		CMVFleischpeitsch/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 07:41 AM
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Summary here with comments from the author: https://www.psypost.org/2021/07/college-women-value-physical-attractiveness-in-their-sexual-partners-just-...		ScienceAntifaSuperSwoledier/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/21 06:13 PM
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This is more apparent in men, since men and women are different in their sexual nature and female arousal is not as straightforward. But women who mak...		CMVPierceTheEye/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:34 AM
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I was speaking to my female friend who works in criminal rehabilitation. One of the people she works with was behaving quite erraticly and I asked her...		ShortPromotion2/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 11:18 AM
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Conservative estimates place roughly 1-in-5 women getting married nowadays as having had Double Digit Dicks prior to marriage compared to 2% in the 70...		CMVMerryVegetableGarden/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 06:00 PM
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So my post is inspired by this post. I personally think that said post confirms the entire AF/BB theory discussed in theredpill and purplepilldebate f...		Question For Womenrich_man_88/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 06:57 PM
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I see the same conundrum happening, where a woman will not be happy with her current love life because she is getting ignored by the guys she does lik...		Discussionabcdxyzx/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:58 PM
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Also women: "Dating is so hard! I have to sort through all these losers to find a decent guy!!" ...		Discussionwashington_breadstix/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:09 AM
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Maybe the problem is not that women have high standards but that the average man doesn't do enough to be attractive. What is considered "aver...		CMVNewStartOnceAgain/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:18 PM
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I have heard it many times "you (men) don't want an intelligent woman because you are just intimidated, you can't handle her" or &qu...		CMVEstablishmentKooky50/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 10:34 PM
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Personally, I don't shit on single mothers as people, it could happen to anyone. But as a 25 year old man with no kids it's just not ideal for me. The...		DiscussionCaveman_44/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:25 PM
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First off, I want to preface by saying I'd consider myself Red Pilled. I think the Red Pill's general tenants educate guys on a bunch of stuff...		CMVBecretAlbatross/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 12:34 AM
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For the longest, I've read this sub with a confused look on my face. “Why tf are all these men acting like having a high n is the norm?!” In the e...		CMV_pineapplylemon/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/21 12:44 PM
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I hope mods have a sense of humor. Ok we get it. You're the living embodiment of /r/lewronggeneration but instead of boomer superiority you're...		Question For MenYoureNotAverageLoser/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 03:53 PM
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I promised nudes for a purge, and I'm a man of my word but since no one wants to see them I'm safe from being penis shamed....		Purge week!SonicBackScratcher/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 04:18 PM
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In developed countries around the world the birth and marriage rates are at an all time low and dropping further each year. There's a general air ...		CMVWrasserman/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:02 AM
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Men and women face very different challenges when it comes to dating. For men, it's accessibility. Simply getting a date can be challenging for a ...		CMVcherryapp/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 05:05 PM
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Good fucking does not automatically mean good relationship. ​ Too many people are dating their fuck buddies when they shouldn't. It's a...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/21 02:17 PM
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This is something I've noticed lately. What do you think are the reasons for that? I personally struggle to come up with one. The only thing I can...		DiscussionCarkudo/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 01:27 PM
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Oftentimes on Reddit, you'll see people complain about how men are being radicalized by other radicalized men; oftentimes, incels or people they c...		DiscussionBanned_BY_SOYMEN/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:40 PM
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I have always thought the AF/BB was the most interesting theory proposed by TRP/manosphere, mainly because I do believe there is some truth to it. How...		CMVBrownEyedGringa/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 04:53 PM
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As a single woman in my 20's who has dated lots I have one piece of advice to men out here. With women, it's all about how a man makes her feel in his...		CMVcoyavenue/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/20 09:36 PM
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I'm guilty of it without knowing. I've told a woman that I wasn't interested in a relationship and she spent the next 6 months attempting to get one o...		CMVxFallacyx69/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:06 AM
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From my perspective, being childfree is incredibly common for people under 35, especially in cities. The reaction from parents / media is that it'...		CMVfriendlyfun147/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 04:21 PM
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Men are often shamed and called shallow for their preference of a women having a lower n-count. “It was in the past!”, “I was just having fun wh...		CMVtheogfrankcastle/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 03:00 PM
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I specifically mean their appearance. Even the men who exercise often and have a good body, oftentimes don't present that in their fashion choices...		CMVogsimpology/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:53 PM
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Purge Science!LowCreddit/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 07:21 PM
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For all the threads about how women "don't care" about how hard it is for men, I don't see a lot of descriptions about what form tha...		Gravel_Roads/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 09:13 AM
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Yea, you can definitely catch some hotties as a below average looking guy, but you gotta know how to. I personally am able to compensate with a lot of...		CMVgeyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 12:58 PM
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Women on FDS and PPD talk about “effort” and how men do not put that much effort into dating women. But one thing women do not answer is why some ...		CMVJaylen-Gads/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 11:45 AM
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Everyone is looking for validation and attention. A man who hires a woman for dates, prostitution and sugar babies (i.e. undercover prostitutes) is se...		CMVPickleLine/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 11:53 PM
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MORNING. WOMAN WAKES UP IN HER MILLION DOLLAR MANSION. SHE FINDS GREY HAIRS IN HER BED. THEN SHE LOOKS AT HER BEDSIDE MIRROR AND SEES HER FACE IS FULL...		PurgeMystery_Tragic/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/19 12:55 AM
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You always hear about ‘Men act entitled to Sex and its accepted!' ...But is it? The only time a sane man acts entitled to sex is if he's been taking...		CMVhypothememe/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 06:09 PM
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I would prefer if this was a discussion but I'm making an affirmative claim, so... yeah. Basically, if you are below the looks threshold many wome...		CMV_Neon_Shadow_/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:06 PM
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The vast majority of attractive women are taken. Those who aren't generally don't want to be bothered even by men they are attracted to. This gives me...		CMVHoosker-Doos/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:59 PM
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Almost every dude has met a girl out, vibe was legitimately strong and exchanged #s/socials, hit her up the next day and nothing. I know the diff betw...		CMVHoosker-Doos/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 05:32 PM
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Toxic Masculinity refers to harmful cultural standards that are placed on men, but most of the focus seems to be on how men contribute to it although ...		DiscussionFleischpeitsch/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 06:02 PM
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This post is really as simple as the title says. I wanted to see what others' experience has been. I live in a high population area in Texas and r...		Slitelohel/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 01:48 PM
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I honestly think one of the worst problems for men right now is sites like this. They go online and hear that only 20 percent of men get 80 percent of...		CMVWarm_Treat_4770/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 01:38 AM
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>men drop out to play video games Men are responsible for women ending up alone in life. >men tune in and attend college Men are responsible for...		CMVJohnny_Autism/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 05:39 PM
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https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/06/090626153511.htm Woman have more different standards for men amongst themselves than men do for women. &...		CMVcowfishAreReal/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 12:57 PM
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Purge CMV!Critical-Guidance-45/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 09:36 AM
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28% of men cheat. Of that 28% 60% admit that lack of intimacy as the root cause of thier cheating. That means that only 11.2 of men cheat for reasons ...		Rough_Collections/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:22 AM
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Saw something over on FDS about men being unreasonable for wanting a woman who can cook when they can't change their own oil, brakes, etc. It got ...		Question For Mencast-away-ramadi06/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 02:24 AM
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She swiped on you. She finds you attractive. What you say shouldn't matter after that point. Why should I have to be all clever and come up with c...		CMVChadThundagaCock/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 09:02 PM
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CMVboeing747-420/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 08:12 PM
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why is it even mandatory?...		CMVubermynsch/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/19 12:02 AM
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Dave Chappelle has a great bit about how men would live in a cardboard box if they could still screw women: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=s5hu7o2Q62k ...		CMVExciting_East7365/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/21 12:36 PM
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https://www.boredpanda.com/keanu-reeves-not-touching-fans-photos/ Basically, there are lots of photos taken of Keanu Reeves where he isn't touching hi...		cxj/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/19 04:22 PM
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Someone who didn't date or hookup in high school or college and now around in their late twenties are putting themselves out there. I've read that thi...		DiscussionSufficient-Ad-3586/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/21 10:05 PM
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This applies to the dating world especially but also everything else in society. Because men have to be the pursuers and active initiators due to cult...		CMVFormal-Falcon2937/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/21 01:59 PM
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A Fuckboy is someone who pretends to be really into a girl so he can get in that girls pants. Fuckboys lie to get pussy. They act like they are open t...		CMVDebate8tate/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 10:32 PM
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Just seems like that should obvious to most but the way men on here complain I just don't know. I mean dating is about attraction so why is it such a ...		YveisGrey/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 05:23 AM
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Apps like Tinder and Bumble are basically gamified hypergamy simulators. Most men really have 0 business being on them and they'd probably be doin...		CMVConsistentSeaweed214/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/21 08:13 AM
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This is often said by men who want sex easier and more frequently, regardless of whether they want to form a relationship with the woman or not. An im...		CMVNoCardiologist8249/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 12:36 AM
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The title is very self-explanatory: Women no longer have to be in forced monogamous relationships, dictated by the community and the surrounding cultu...		CMVHabil13/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 05:44 PM
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I don't know if this study from January 2022 has been discussed here or not. But everyone on the internet keeps telling me, the one who asks shoul...		ScienceRubber-duck7203/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 07:40 PM
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***In short, how can the same woman believe BOTH: A. "insecure", "misogynistic" men are the only ones who would care about a high ...		DiscussionLie-Equal/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 12:43 AM
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There's a growing attitude around reddit that men who wind up with abusive girlfriends / wives brought it on themselves. And while I'm sure th...		DiscussionOncefa2/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 12:33 PM
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The blatant misogyny and misandry on a lot of these threads are pretty annoying (AWALT and AMALT posts stand out). Because for the most part, I can ta...		CMVInertBrian/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 02:37 PM
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In our society as women age they tend to lose the ability of dating certain types of men(also lose their overall dating prowess) even if they had lots...		CMVBlackGriffin_1/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 06:09 PM
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Somehow, whenever a woman says she wont orgasm its the mans fault and when he vant get it up its because he watches too much porn or something. I have...		CMVStandard-Inflation10/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 09:34 AM
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For me, it's that women care about looks as much as men. Men just care about other things less than women do. ...		Discussionjespteins_blackbook/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:52 PM
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In OLD i see a lot of women profiles stating that.. 'if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best'.. In respons...		Discussion12inchbamboo/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 08:50 PM
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Harvard study by Alexandra Killewald: As she puts it, Expectations of wives' homemaking may have eroded, but the husband breadwinner norm persists. Al...		ScienceToughAnswers/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:04 PM
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If women are no longer valuable as partners to men past 30, how is it prudent to spend their 20s investing in and committing to men? How is it prudent...		CMVquestionasker012/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 07:43 PM
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It seems like women do not understand why men do not want to be a safe option. They do not think it matters because they are with them and that is all...		DebateLounly/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 05:22 PM
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I think male sexuality is generally seen as being worth less than female sexuality. To the point that when a man and woman have sex, it is seen kind o...		DiscussionOncefa2/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 03:43 PM
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CMVcritical_of_dating/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/21 08:52 AM
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Pretty much the title. A lot of people have their own opinions as to what constitutes valid dating advice, which mostly amounts to a squabble between ...		CMVTheBookOfSeil/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 11:36 PM
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Many of my female friends say that they feel approaching a man in a romantic sense would emasculate them. I've found this odd. My male friends don...		caboltonabolto/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:07 PM
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All throughout grade school and college we're taught men are malevolent, abusers, liars, manipulators, and rapists. We're taught that men have...		CMVYouRanAway/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 05:32 PM
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I wish I was only talking about Peterson or inkwels but recently the notion that young ADULT women are still incapable of making decisions for themsel...		CMVRomeo_Is_Bleedin/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:58 PM
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"Life isn't fair" is the go-to dismissive response people make to issues that they don't care about or don't want to solve. When...		CMVWonderful_One_9763/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 01:35 PM
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Humans evolved living in tribes of about 150. Maybe you see a few stray people every once in a while from another village or whatever, but mostly what...		CMVToughAnswers/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 06:58 PM
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The exact time this happens is affected by genes and other factors. It's usually your 30s, because prior to this most people can survive on cheap vodk...		DiscussionNoone_else_is_honest/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/21 12:29 PM
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For any of you who follow Rich Cooper (Entrepreneurs in Cars) on YouTube, he says this phrase an awful lot. I don't know whether he coined it hims...		DiscussionBumblingBeta/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 12:52 AM
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So y'all don't want sluts. But you also want women to fuck you in three dates or less. So how do we balance this? How do we fuck our dates in that tim...		Question For Menazngirl7689/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/20 02:40 PM
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Let me tell you, if sex is the only highlight of your relationship, that's not the greatest relationship. Sure, sex can be amaizing. It can change...		Discussiongeyejoe7/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 09:25 AM
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Article discusses how the match group will soon allow uses to run background checks on potential matches. "This means Tinder users will be able t...		Discussionpeteypete78/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/21 02:46 PM
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I think one of the most underrated reasons for why we see an influx of socially and sexually stunted men has to do with the demonization of the male e...		Discussionbanned_by_cucks/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 09:50 PM
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It's important. Focusing only on physical looks is how you end up perennially sexless. Sure don't look like an ogre. Strive to at least get to 5/6+. M...		CMVGridReXX/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 08:37 PM
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It's very easy to find well-adjusted laidback women who appreciate a good man, HOWEVER she's not the super hot party skank thirsty for dick. I...		DiscussionLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:27 AM
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This is based on the comment made by u/igzgshcjv. Shout out to him. Just yesterday I had a woman try to convince me that men are equally harsh and jud...		CMVMentleGentlemen098/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 05:59 AM
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My argument is that women raise their sons to be "nice guys" (I'm talking about the stereotype). A large number of boys are raised with ...		CMVShauyy/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 05:05 PM
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Something I've seen repeatedly is that when a guy notices that a change affects his attractiveness, he attributes it to confidence or something li...		CMVOssac123/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 03:11 PM
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Purge Week!TheWolfGirl23/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 03:21 AM
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You see the sentiment on here constantly that women have no sympathy of sexless men because sex is all men want and it's meaningless. I think the majo...		CMVThrowRALonelyFan/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 01:30 AM
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Hi I believe all child should have a dna test at birth to confirm the parents of the child. Data has shown between 3% and 10% of men are raising child...		Debateiwasneverherehaha/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 05:24 PM
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I was speaking with my friend who is studying gender studies in college, I studied Education but have always been interested in gender issues, hence w...		Discussionlivs4drpepper/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/21 07:47 PM
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Women in western countries more specifically America are not having "less SEX" than men. Why do I think this? Because they are having sex wi...		CMVJaylen-Gads/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/21 07:48 PM
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I see a lot of claims on here that women "dont want casual sex". I don't believe this is true. I think women, especially young women, ac...		CMVnewzalrt883/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 06:17 PM
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Is it not a mainstream opinion that: I. married women put forth more hours of effort than their husbands, II. married women are unsatisfied with divis...		CMVLie-Equal/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/21 09:06 PM
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You can't calibrate attraction... Even if you decide to give Mr 5/6 outta 10 a shot....a woman still won't be viscerally attracted, she won...		CMVArtistic_Guest4386/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 07:05 AM
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Red pilled man here. Given that TRP is about teaching men to protect their self interests, FDS isn't really that bad of a source for women. I pers...		CMVBecretAlbatross/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:07 PM
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By this I mean, they don't have that friendly chemistry or "best friend potential" that is honestly an essential component for a serious...		CMVP-o-o-b/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 03:26 PM
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Personally I'd rather eat nails than approach a western woman but that's just me. After reading a now deleted shitpost about a woman who refuses to ap...		DiscussionIron-Giant1999/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 10:06 PM
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I start off by explaining alot of women will say that their bf/partner is not handsome but he's got an interesting personality,he's funny, hardworking...		Question For WomenSherdyRavers/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:44 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/feb/03/quality-over-quantity-gen-zs-sex-recession-looks-more-like-an-upturn 40% are incels. "The Au...		Discussionredditaccount119/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 07:37 PM
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I wouldn't hesitate. If I could retain my testosterone and focus without the endless, suffocating, desire to have sex all the time, I would jump at th...		DiscussionMyLadySupporter/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:49 PM
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To start off, just know that this is coming from a Gen Z guy living in the USA. My general perception is that misandry is on a major upward trend in s...		Discussionscrubbucino/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 01:52 AM
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A good friend of mine who I suspect to be mildy autistic(or aspergées) introduced me to red pill. He has gotten really into it and seems to have help...		DiscussionCYKAblyaddd/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/20 03:38 PM
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He said that they had a great connection up till that point, where all attraction disappeared. it sounds like they had a mild fight over social norms ...		DebateAllInWithAces/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/20 04:39 PM
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Lots of men say that women should be more empathetic and friendly towards men, that women are often rude to men etc. I have seen women respond that th...		DiscussionTheBestRebirth/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:17 PM
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I couldn't put my finger on it why this sub changed so much over the last few years. It used to have pretty interesting discussions between "...		DiscussionKoalaAccomplished395/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:31 PM
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They may not necessarily be in the majority but there are plenty of potential loyal, ambitious, caring and quality partners. The reason dating is so d...		CMVnasuits90/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 12:01 PM
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All these n count discussions always have guys talking about how they would never seriously date a high n woman and when questioned about how they cou...		CMValluringjustice/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 12:26 PM
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I notice a lot of mutually incompatible RP statements where no matter what a woman does or says, it's shitty somehow. If she makes money, she's a ball...		Question for RedPillof_all/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 09:00 PM
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People who got lucky dating don't know what TRP/FDS is, they never needed to. And even if they were aware of it there's no reason they should or even ...		CMVgoneaway2thewind/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 12:26 AM
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Obviously I have my biases, but I feel that this sub (mostly) agrees on the rise of sexlessness, inceldom, deadbrooms, social anxiety, etc. are on the...		CMVThe3liGator/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/20 06:28 PM
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It's Going To Be Really Hard To Find a Date Female Tinder usage data was collected and statistically analyzed to determine the inequality in the Tinde...		CMVghostinthepost/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:42 AM
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I don't know where men here came up with the notion that "Chad gets harems". No one had harems because they were hot. Most women are not...		CMVLillthOfBabylon/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 12:10 PM
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He then drops the fact he happens to be a 6'7 tall white guy who looks like this: https://imgur.com/a/MDAovSk ​ https://www.reddit.com/r/da...		Discussionkeeleios/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 12:31 PM
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I'm curious, if I thought an entire group of people were shallow, judgemental, cruel, intellectually and emotionally inferior, I sure as hell wouldn't...		Question for RedPillyesnoyeee/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:01 PM
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