Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shock

HazyMemory7 · 2023-03-27T05:34:44+00:00

Changed to CMV because post is not neutral

2023-03-27T03:46:03+00:00

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Delicatestatesmen · 2023-03-27T05:46:04+00:00

I worked at a rehab …women were the hardest to get to come in because of always a dude willing to take them in.

Willow-girl · 2023-03-27T11:21:25+00:00

She then suggested i do the same and see the world. But little does she know that I'm lucky to get one date in 6 months, we are not the same, haha. Most men cannot live this way.

Could a young gay man pull this off?

Sunshine12e · 2023-03-27T03:50:19+00:00

The average woman would not join a poly relationship just for a free place to live.

ashpr0ulx · 2023-03-27T02:45:05+00:00

is…. that the average woman? TIL i am way more boring than the average woman

Dstar538888 · 2023-03-27T05:42:42+00:00

that sounds exhausting at best and dangerous at worst.....

thetruthishere_ · 2023-03-27T08:38:08+00:00

Its basically a form of prostitution and the oldest profession in the world. You're really shocked?

Also reality, most women do not live like this.

Magnito-was-right · 2023-03-27T04:51:37+00:00

Her life sounds like a dream to you, but to most women it sounds like a nightmare. Very few women would want this.

Hard_Corsair · 2023-03-27T04:08:50+00:00

This is not an average woman. She may be average in terms of looks or whatever else, but her behavior is not normal. Even if the average woman could pull off this sort of lifestyle, the vast majority wouldn't because they'd (rightfully) be afraid of ending up murdered.

This is the equivalent of the guy with no college degree who makes 6 figures at 22 because he sells illicit drugs. Yes, the average person could make bank as a drug dealer, but the average person is also too averse to risk to explore that as a career option.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-03-27T12:17:39+00:00

So many people are missing OP’s point

Obviously not every average girl lives this way. He is saying that most average women today have the option to live this way if they choose which so many women and some men vehemently disagree with on this sub

TurtleDickSlap · 2023-03-27T09:54:18+00:00

Your friend is a prime example of "just because you can, doesn't mean you should."

Sufficient-Koala7204 · 2023-04-17T11:50:59+00:00

Not even remotely surprising.

000genshin000 · 2023-03-27T17:50:25+00:00

I think it's applicable only to western white women ( the most privileged group in the world)

solowng · 2023-03-27T03:44:37+00:00

She was very optimistic and abundance minded.

This is hard to put into words, but in sufficient quantity what you describe (to which I would add an extreme lack of risk aversion/inhibition) is essentially a superpower and if this woman possesses it she is not average.

I have a guy friend (coworker) who's like this: early 40s, in decent shape/not terrible looking, not destitute but far from wealthy/stable, short, and bald. The dude is a Tinder God, or more properly was because he just nabbed a very high value woman in his age bracket. They met while we were hanging out at the bar, hit it off in within five minutes, and they're married six weeks later. It's wild to witness.

AloneOnTheStrange · 2023-03-27T06:31:54+00:00

Priveleged people will always be blissfully unaware of this advantage.

Every dollar someone else spends on you, is a dollar you don't have to work for. It's a shitty backbreaking job you don't have to do. It's a decision between rent, healthcare, and fun, that you don't have to make.

Every hour you don't have to work is an hour you can focus on other aspects of life, like studying, fitness, or socialising.

I can't even imagine going into a strange new place, and being welcomed with open arms. Let alone having someone pay to have me there.

It's not even about the practical things, like money and time. But emotional things. You always enjoy going out, sightseeing, meeting people, because you're always welcome when you. You feel confident and happy, because no one's ever made you feel like you should be ashamed just by bothering them with your presence.

WYenginerdWY · 2023-03-27T03:02:12+00:00

This is not an average woman in any way, shape, or form bud. This is probably a woman you've undershot by a point or two on the attractiveness scale who is willing to essentially sell her sex life to unfaithful men in exchange for housing. I've met exactly zero women who behave this way.

wwwArchitect · 2023-03-27T18:33:02+00:00

So a Canadian woman is living illegally in the US (if staying longer than 6mo) and she has to accept a poly relationship just to stay afloat. Damn, she really has it all. Life is one big party wooo…

solstice-sky · 2023-03-27T04:27:14+00:00

What an absolutely tedious and exhausting existence to go on hundreds of random meaningless dates per year. Trust me when I say most women don't want her life.

FlyV89 · 2023-03-27T03:52:05+00:00

Why do you think "travel" phrases are so popular among women?

Have you ever met a dude who posts picks of him in fabulous landscapes with a phrase like "life is too short to worry about bussineses and making money, travel because the only thing you'll take to the grave is awesome life experiences"?

Of course not. Unless the dude is fucking rich, young guys have to work their asses off.

I've met lots of women like this, I used to be some kind of low-key rockstar in the under scene of my city, and I would travel to other cities and even countries to play too so I also met lots of "travelin' chicks".

It's some kind of lifestyle lots of women chose, yeah (not saying they are the majority, but there are lots of women like this) that is basically unnafordable and impossible to do for men.

And yes, some of these girls are really hot, but the majority of them are shockingly "meh" looking to plain ugly.

I met an uruguayan chick when I traveled to Brazil who was somewhat good looking, tanned blonde type, somewhat tall, but really wild, she lived near Angra do Reis, in a very top beach famous tourists go on holidays. She had her own place, spent her days banging dudes on the beach and never worked. She hanged a lot with other girls from other parts of South America and even a french and a spaniard girl who were doing basically the same as her. The french, the spaniard and the argentinian girl came from wealthy families thou, or at least they seemed like they had something to fall back on when the party years were gone.

I banged all of them haha, in a week. The other dudes that were with me had some with this group too.

This was years ago thou, I met her when she was 23 so now she must be hitting 32-33. We keep some contact through IG, she's pretty much fucked up now, back to her country, she really went down on the looks department, is a single mom and works a very low paying job. She told me a few months ago she hasn't gone on holidays for the past 6 years, so there you have.

Thing is, you're seing these chicks living their best lives without thinking about the consecuences they will bring on themselves in the future. Not that they are thinking about their futures neither thou, but yeah, these girls are not going to live these lives forever.

Basically, they are capitalizing on the most important thing a woman has, this is their youth, and they are wasting it like crazy.

It's like if a kid was born somewhat rich, enough rich to live a life well but not SOOO well, and he suddenly hits 15 and starts spending his money on stupid things, partying, doing drugs, not working at all or investing in a bussines.

As soon as he runs out of money, he's going to be fucked.

Well, that's what happens to these chicks, as soon as they start getting old and their looks are gone, the favours, gifts, expensive travels, free dinners and rent goes away, because male attention starts to flock to other younger, more good looking women.

And they wake up one day alone, broke and misserable and have to go to work like every other "man", with the difference that they start from 0, at 30, and that sucks.

And this is when they develop a serious attitude towards life you know, because of course, for them being "normal" sucks. They were in an awesome beach yesterday getting lots of free drinks from good looking rich dudes and today... They have to go to work? Jesus!!!

I saw this happen THOUSAND times with these girls, in fact, all these girls end badly and with some real issues.

There are men who waste their time and their money too, but the years gone hit men differently, we seem to have a softer landing and most guys always have a backup plan anyways.

Anyways, these girls are involved basically in prostitution, or at least low key, undercovered prostitution, but this shouldn't surprise anyone.

Most women are going to be involved in some form of prostitution at some point in their lives.

Lots of women are going to do "some traveling" (through some dick ridding) at least for a while, and we all know that right? Most of the women do it a few times anyways, and figure out this live is not for them.

This is the "exploring" phase most girls have, the "finding themselves, maturing and learning what they like and want", you know, that thing they all say. Late teens early twenties. 90% of them get stright after a few times thou.

For example, I'm "seing" (aka banging) currently a 23 years old... We "see" each other quite regularly, but she has an ex-boyfriend who's paying her rent and also "sees" another dude 20 years her senior who's married and lends her a car and gives her some money to pay for her tuitions (she's studying psuchology).

If you ever wonder why so many women get a diploma these days, it's because of this.

Of course this chick doesn't think she's a prostitute, she's just "open minded", and of course, this is not the only way women get a diploma these days, and yes, they have to study, of course...

(Thou I've also met a girl who didn't had to, she was born with a nice pair of eyes to "see" her teachers).

Even when girls these days are not dating anyone, they still need money a lot less than dudes. They can get into night clubs for free, have some dudes invite them some drinks, offering them a free ride, take her home, you know, carrying a pretty much average life while studying without the need of work.

Guys have it harder, basically if you're 20 and you're not rich, you have to do some to at least get a date or two a year. So lots of dudes drop off studies and go to work instead.

Because women today have most of their basic needs met they can afford to date around just for the social aspect of it (and the rewards that come with it) but if you look back in time lots of women were involving in prostitution too.

Why do you think so many women these days are convinced that women in the old times "got married out of necesity"?

Because, basically that's true. Back in the old days, women got married to survive. You can blame men and Patriarchy and whatnot for women's poor situation back then, but you know, they could have chosen to go work on the mines too right? Instead they chosed marriage... Which was basically prostitution, worded differently, with a different sociocultural frame, but prostitution at the end.

So basically, yeah, it's not hard for girls out there, no matter how feminists cry about inequality and all.

Granted, they have to be at least not butt-ugly, young, and of course sexually "liberal". No man is giving a woman money for free if she's not putting out quickly.

WilliamWyattD · 2023-03-27T08:58:12+00:00

She's basically soft whoring herself. It is understood that due to male libido and lower standards, women can get more dates more easily, and more fringe benefits by offering sex or the promise of it.

Dating is still probably easier overall for women, but to a great degree, the difficulty of finding someone who meets a woman's higher requirements balances out the fact that it is much easier to get men to agree to meet her.

neetykeeno · 2023-03-27T04:57:09+00:00

Eh. I had a male friend who fire juggled his way through a whole bunch of travel. Sounds only about as risky as what she's doing...sudden poly relationship to obtain housing and food sounds like a huge risk. Learn how to fire juggle, there's always boring ass people looking to impress friends by having someone interesting stay a week or so.

Or get ripped and learn how to suck dick. Old gay guys right?

daddysgotanew · 2023-03-27T10:14:31+00:00

Yep, and that’s an average fat chick.

I’ve dated some 7-8 chicks. Young, very attractive and thin.

Their phones never stop buzzing. Men hit them up all hours of the day and night, 7 days a week. They’re practically un-dateable unless you’re the best option in a 25 mile radius.

jah-roole · 2023-03-27T11:30:01+00:00

You should get a window into a 9 and that will totally fuck up your perception of things

ahaeood · 2023-03-27T15:26:01+00:00

I’m not going on a date cross country with a stranger just Becuz it’s free 💀💀💀💀 I can always make more money but I only have one life

SuperCrazy07 · 2023-03-27T19:20:18+00:00

I don’t know that this is the average woman.

Perhaps the average woman could do this, but most aren’t trading sex for trips and free rent.

Most are pretty boring working the same jobs as you and me. True, they have easier access to dates and sex, but they often struggle to get a relationship with the guys they want.

I agree with the above poster OP - if you’re an 6/10 man who will have NSA sex with any man who will buy you shit, you could probably get similar results. Especially in big cities.

baresquad · 2023-03-27T02:55:26+00:00

Let’s not pretend that this is the common lifestyle for average women though. Your coworker is capitalizing on a privilege that history and society has created for her, nothing wrong with that.

But for other average women there’s nuances and factors at play that don’t allow them to capitalize like your coworker leaving them with just as bad or worse dating experiences as average men.

Whnitallfallsdown · 2023-03-27T02:49:40+00:00

Imagine just blandly accepting current year. Your ancestors are rolling in their grave.

deadBeefCafe2014 · 2023-03-27T09:23:24+00:00

If you equate the end game of dating to be getting laid, then your view stands. She is on easy mode.

However, I’d hazard to guess that most people consider building some kind of relationship along the way to be of higher importance than getting laid on its own. It seems everyone struggles to find something genuine.

hazelinside · 2023-03-27T03:20:00+00:00

Definitely not the experience of the average woman, though interesting nonetheless

Flashy-Country-800 · 2023-03-27T04:52:08+00:00

There is nothing about this experience that is “average”.

bootyhunter69420 · 2023-03-27T13:20:57+00:00

The average woman's ego sure is something. They really think they are on the same level as top guys.

Deshaun-Kobe · 2023-03-27T02:41:53+00:00

Gosh if l were an attractive female, give up everything for this type of lifestyle

Where's my millionaire simp ?

UpbeatInsurance5358 · 2023-03-27T06:23:47+00:00

I think this woman might have been taking the piss.....

SteakhouseBlues · 2023-03-27T08:00:56+00:00

The sad truth

M_LaSalle · 2023-03-27T06:41:09+00:00

It seems illogical to post this as a CMV since I'm not sure how one would go about convincing OP that he didn't see what he saw. It may not be "Neutral", but reality rarely ever is.

I suppose I could say that this women may be atypical and that the number of women willing to trade sex in a poly relationship for living expenses may be less than OP supposes. That's about as far as any CMV post can go in contradicting OP's post and I do not know for certain that it is true.

Sofapilotuniverse · 2023-03-27T14:04:44+00:00

I also travelled the world other women find guys on the trips who organize everything for them like visa hostels directions etc. go to Australia and see the western girls traveling the first time they have a very rude overbearing attitude.

2023-03-27T14:38:13+00:00

She’s a degenerate waiting to get aids

woahisme111 · 2023-03-27T17:14:25+00:00

Most people, male or female, do not act like this. You're ghetto and wherever you work has ghetto employee women with no morals or standards

King-SAMO · 2023-03-28T01:54:35+00:00

Tell me that you’ve never picked up an Australian without telling me that you’ve never picked up an Australian.

social_mule · 2023-03-27T10:32:48+00:00

She's not your average woman, she's just a common prostitute. Do you honestly think the average woman is flying around the world on rich men's dime? Wait, this is PPD. Of course you think that.

The average woman is sitting on her couch binge watching The Handmaid's Tale.

Your friend is not the average woman. Of that much I can assure you. And if she's able to leverage her looks into free exotic vacations I seriously doubt she's as average looking as you claim.

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-03-27T15:20:49+00:00

How many more comments are going to say “most women don’t want that life” while ignoring that the OP is about this lifestyle even existing?

There is no male lifestyle that allows you to live rent-free. With housing being the #1 expense in western society, this is a big deal. If male rent-support were to end tomorrow, we might have millions of women homeless overnight. That’s a big deal.

Sorry I’m getting upset but get your heads out of your asses and address the core of OP, stop saying “I wouldn’t want this,” we get it.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-03-27T02:42:13+00:00

So she’s in the top 20% of women but to you she’s a 6/10

Badartist888 · 2023-03-27T06:33:33+00:00

If the average woman is going on 5 dates, what every week or two? with 5 different guys...

Then the maths suggest that men are out there getting a lot of dates. Just not you.

For every woman who hooks up with a guy there is a guy who hooked up with a woman.

I find it really odd. I'm a nerdy autistic guy, as are most of my friends. Most of us are married or in long term relationships. Most of us played the field when younger. Most of us have higher 'body counts' than our partners. Hell my bff is in a polycule with two women. We aren't anything special. We just treat women with respect and have no creepers or DV types in our friendship group. Most of us met our long term partners playing DnD or the like.

Fucking hell the bar is low on what women find attractive in men. The irony is how many things women hate that the 'manosphere' tells you to do or be. It's like influencers like that have a finical incentive to keep their followers dateless.

So 'most men' might be more a you and the men you spend time with.

RevolutionaryEye5320 · 2023-03-27T06:22:33+00:00

Get yourself out of this male victim mindset.

You just described the female equivalent of a young dude getting into a life of crime, likely involving drug dealing or insider trading or something, striking it big and living a fast life of luxury, high highs and low lows and insane risk that's all likely to eventually burn away even if you don't get killed/maimed first. It's the high-risk unsustainable lifestyle of choice for a given sex/gender, and it is almost guaranteed not to work out in the end.

As multiple women have pointed out here, a woman whoring herself out to random people to pay her lifestyle costs is a really good way to get conned, abused, trafficked, killed or at the very least have your life ruined with STDs, alcohol, drugs and other simple bad choices made through the gradually increasingly desperate and insane frame of mind that this kind of lifestyle creates.

For anyone who doesn't take that path, it's working your ass off just like you claim only men do, and the working world is where men get that male privilege in their favour. Don't kid yourself, stop trying to find excuses to say women get it easier and start helping redress the balance instead so we can help you with whatever ails you in return.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-03-27T03:30:24+00:00

I've seen some women line up multiple dates in a row. But I'm willing to bet there's some exaggeration in your post.

GlamSunCrybabyMoon · 2023-03-27T03:25:42+00:00

Got into a poly relationship? That’s not the average woman at all.

come_crawling_faster · 2023-03-27T04:13:54+00:00

Only problem with this post is that it is completely fake

bzl33 · 2023-03-27T06:52:22+00:00

none of this is shocking to me lol

SillyMushroomTip · 2023-03-27T16:45:14+00:00

Women live on easy mode

Katatonicsnake · 2023-03-27T20:11:27+00:00

Is that really so unattainable? I don’t live in the same continent as you, so maybe that’s it, but decent men I know don’t really have trouble finding dates like that. My husband’s best friend is a petite 165 cm tall engineer who is always approached when they go to an after work event.

I don’t mean to deny your experiences but I’m genuinely wondering if it’s truly that hard everywhere. Every man ever who has told me he struggles finding dates has been an obvious case, not average.

HazyMemory7 · 2023-03-27T07:00:22+00:00

The avg woman is 5'4 170 lbs in the US. 6/10 is obviously not average numerically as well. This is maybe a window into a the dating life of a girl who is cute but not 8/10+ attractive.

Salt_Mathematician24 · 2023-03-27T06:37:26+00:00

Attractive gay twinks can get this from rich "daddies", does that sound appealing to you?

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Safinated · 2023-03-27T04:14:46+00:00

That’s a highly motivated “6/10” then. Not anywhere near average

taimoor2 · 2023-03-27T11:56:41+00:00

She went on to tell me that she relocated from canada to the usa with $0 in her pocket and was able to get in a poly relationship and get her living expenses covered in nyc instantly. She was very optimistic and abundance minded. Life just a big party

So, she whored herself for a few days to cover her expenses. Young women can sell their bodies. How is this surprising for you?

Dating is different from what this lady is doing.

Drougen · 2023-03-27T15:53:57+00:00

Yep. I've known many women in my life who basically have never paid a living expense in their life. Some of them even have entire apartments / all bills paid without a dude even living with them or even being in a relationship / married to a dude.

That's why I always find it so hilarious when women say they're at a disadvantage compared to men when it's actually completely the opposite in a lot of cases. Nobody even talks about mens rights in general, it's a complete joke and you get instantly disregarded for even considering the topic.

MotleyCrew1989 · 2023-03-27T07:10:38+00:00

Wait until she gets older and reality hits her in the face really hard.

obviousredflag · 2023-03-27T08:38:10+00:00

Oh look! Sample size 1 = this is how the average woman lives.

luroot · 2023-03-27T04:55:28+00:00

She then suggested i do the same and see the world. But little does she know that I'm lucky to get one date in 6 months, we are not the same, haha.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♂️🤡

Rumin8ting_ · 2023-04-14T20:58:14+00:00

I cannot stress how abnormal and unusual this is

lost_searching1 · 2023-04-23T22:42:46+00:00

It only works if you’re pretty. Ugly women get thrown to the curb. Men on this sub are a bit delusional. It’s a if ugly women don’t exist to y’all and i have news for you. Ugly women exist and it’s not so much like this women describes. And there are lots of them.

Flightlessbirbz · 2023-03-27T13:32:24+00:00

This is not an average woman. Maybe average in looks, but most women would never choose this lifestyle or even be able to make it work. Sounds like she’s a “hobosexual,” which is almost sex work really, and it carries similar dangers. Men may think they would choose to be sex workers or use sex to get ahead if they were women, but the fact is that there are good reasons why most women don’t live this way. Plus, men really can too, if they are willing to have sexual contact with other men. But once again, they don’t, because it’s gross and dangerous. Not worth it to most people.

badgersonice · 2023-03-27T15:19:30+00:00

About 25y/o. 6/10 in looks. Cute and slightly overweight.

So… according to things men like, top 20%. She’s not fat, cute, and young. That’s not most women, and men will pay a premium for that,

note the emphasis on “pay”: she’s performing sex work. I don’t understand how you think it’s eye opening that a decent looking woman can sell sex. Prostitution has always existed. Always.

Slyfer_Seven · 2023-03-27T16:03:39+00:00

A 6/10 guy could easily do the same. Just, instead of some 3-4/10 poly couple, he would just mooch off some 3-4/10 desperate woman.

But lining up dates prior to traveling somewhere, no issue for a slightly above average man (6/10), thanks to OLD apps

JSears90210 · 2023-03-27T13:33:03+00:00

25y/o. Cute and slightly overweight.

She is 25 and cute. Men of all ages are willing to hang out with her for shorter term relationships. If she has her age range much wider she will have guys in their 30s,40s, and 50s, who are willing to take her out to dinner for a night or two because that money means absolutely nothing to them.

The issue is that most women do not want to meet random guys and spend time with them and maybe jump into bed with them right off the bat. Because she is so available she has a wide wide range of men to pick from.

Ok-Fix-4408 · 2023-03-27T14:20:28+00:00

Maybe she means you need to find a woman by paying for everything.

AstronautLoveShack · 2023-03-27T18:20:06+00:00

That is not an average woman’s dating life. That’s pretty unique in fact.

meshflesh40 · 2023-03-27T18:43:41+00:00

If you are willing to have sex with men, you can do the same thing.

It is easy to find a male sex partner no matter who you are.

Waste-Imagination-89 · 2023-03-27T21:10:36+00:00

Contrary to what many are saying, the equivalent is in fact an average looking, 25 year old male seeking male partners to support lifestyle choices and in both cases it will be older, more established males taking the bait. To compare it otherwise is being dishonest about who holds the power, who holds the most income and who is most interested in casual sex with an average looking 25 year old in exchange for lodging and/or party planning. If you expect oranges to behave like apples and are disappointed when they don't? You have only yourself to blame. And yes, also contrary to many here, engaging in that exchange is indisputably a prostitute/punter relationship and she's been really, really lucky to have evaded harm or she's bullshitting to troll you.

Green-Quantity1032 · 2023-03-27T21:19:26+00:00

I don't know, I wouldn't trade my life for a 6/10 woman.

cassowaryy · 2023-03-27T21:21:42+00:00

Yea she’s capable of that, but so what? Most men would f*** a decently cute girl if she let them. But would you ever take a woman like her seriously? Who just gives it up to a bunch of randoms for travel trivia? Lmao. Most men with any form of sense wouldn’t. In the end those actions decrease her chances of getting a quality guy she likes to commit to her.

Being promiscuous is the optimal mating strategy for males (across all species). For women, it’s an easy possibility but not the optimal choice/strategy. Commitment from a quality male is generally the best outcome, but certain actions push that possibility further away. There are many reasons why men don’t commit to hoes, and many times in life I’ve found such girls struggle to maintain anything worthwhile and constantly complain about their dating life down the line. Men and women are very different so you shouldn’t view her promiscuity as the “ultimate success” that it is from a males perspective. Just another girl giving it up easily and unworthy of special treatment because of it. Her actions scream “fun-time only” and make her more unlikely to find a quality relationship long term. Remember girls are the gatekeepers to sex, and men are the gate keepers to commitment/ marriage. We play different games, so no point in comparing

RocinanteCoffee · 2023-03-27T21:53:29+00:00

She went on to tell me that she relocated from canada to the usa with $0 in her pocket and was able to get in a poly relationship and get her living expenses covered in nyc instantly. She was very optimistic and abundance minded. Life just a big party

People like her exist but are rare. Most women have to work full-time. Many are working two or more jobs (sometimes while going to school). Most cannot afford to travel in this way, or as frequently.

She has survivorship bias. It's been easy for her so she thinks it's attainable to most people. Most women, even women who are a "7 out of 10" would not be able to have even a piece of her lifestyle even if it was their one goal in life and they put all their efforts into it.

RealAmericanWeasel · 2023-03-27T22:27:01+00:00

It’s easy to make a lot of money when you have a lot of money.

lolomotif12 · 2023-03-27T23:28:21+00:00

This isn't the average woman, it's your average slut.

Stunning-Spirit5275 · 2023-03-28T00:18:25+00:00

There's always a simp with cash to spend on a 304. If you provide a free lunch, there will always be a bums coming out to eat

Cardinal_and_Plum · 2023-03-28T02:15:02+00:00

This is definitely not an average woman.

beckabunss · 2023-03-28T03:56:08+00:00

This woman could have been murdered on so many occasions, anyone who decides to put their life in someone’s hands also means losing freedom

Nihi1986 · 2023-03-28T04:13:58+00:00

One of my best female friends, in her 30's, has plenty of simps and travels abroad almost every month, sometimes for free, sometimes paying just the plane ticket...he contacts dudes before visiting the country and they offer her a room...

Remy_me_me · 2023-03-28T20:24:17+00:00

On a somewhat relevant note, i know of a transwoman who said she had experienced both sides:

As a man previously, he/she had 0 matches on apps and 0 attention from women... pretty much was undesirable/unfuckable despite putting in the effort and listening to advice from women.

Then after her transition, she did get endless matches on the apps as a woman, but that came with a fair amount of creepy and inappropriate messages from guys.

HAVING SAID THAT, when asked to choose between life as an undesirable average man vs an overly-desired average woman, she said she would prefer having her current supply of matches on dating apps as a woman! At least there was something she could learn to manage and be somewhat consistently rewarded for.

(She even was bashing incels, redpillers, etc outside of this topic, but she still admitted to the above)

TheMedsPeds · 2023-03-29T02:04:03+00:00

Here is an anecdote to counter yours.

I have ALWAYS struggled to find a decent boyfriend. I got used a few times as a rebound in high school (not sexually never got that far, guys would hang out with me and we'd chat on AOL instant messanger). Finally, got a guy when I was 17 about to graduate high school. He was horrible, very unkind, never paid for anything (actually used to berate me for not spending money on him) dumped him after about a year or so. After that over the next year and a half, got ghosted on by two other flings. Got a second BF around 20. This guy was very dumb, nice, but dumb. Couldn't have had an IQ over 85. We dated, he couldn't hold a job for over 2 months, so was jobless more than not. I broke up with him right before the 2 year mark after I caught him flirting with some chick online. I got with my husband after that, I loved him very much but he had a drinking problem and never made more than $12 hour, I paid most of the bills and did all the cleaning, he cooked. He died when I was 28. I then met two guys off of dating apps, one turned out to be an absolute lying pyscho (lied about having a job on a farm, a working vehicle and his age. He was 22 not 25) then I met my current BF. He also was not working at the time but now works at a doggy daycare.

I def have not been able to "line up dates" like that. Maybe if I was in a large city and swiped (whatever direction accept it) on every dude, never tried that. But dating apps weren't even a thing until I was 22 or 23.

Here is the pic of me with very light make up and no editing for you to determine my looks number. But I have assumed I am about a 4:

https://ibb.co/tPjQtcW

https://ibb.co/K942w1V

If I am a 4 like I think, that puts me on the low end of average (4-6) and this is SO not my experienc as a tomboy goth chick with a nerdy personality while not being hot. Sure I am not saying I am like the incels, but if any other chicks experience close to what I did, I wouldn't say dick is falling in my lap and I will be 33 in May.

It's also important to note that not a single soul hmu after my husband passed. I had to download an app to go on a date. No man I knew became interested after knowing I was back on the market.

gymbronyc718 · 2023-04-05T18:05:36+00:00

If average women are getting gang banged every other Friday, why are so many of you dudes sexless? Wouldn't it be reasonable to assume that if every avg fattie was getting 20 dicks a week, at least some of those dicks would belong to guys like you?

Title	Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shock
Author	meshflesh40
Upvotes	380
Comments	531
Date	March 27, 2023 2:28 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
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