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| 6 | Do you generally heed the advice that your father (assuming he has your best interests at heart) gives when it comes to interacting with men? Why or why not?never had interest in men who arent obsessed with me and treat me like a queen...i personally never understood how you can be in love with someone who doesnt love you (--> unrequited crush) let alone treat you badly also, i never dated conventionally attractive men and never went for guys every woman wanted my parents are a bit weird (artsy, alternative) pretty sure that formed my taste in men, they also always loved me unconditionally so i guess thats the reason emotional unavailable men never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 10:42 AM |
| 15 | Do you generally heed the advice that your father (assuming he has your best interests at heart) gives when it comes to interacting with men? Why or why not?Neither my mom nor my dad ever gave me dating advice, i also never asked...im thankful they werent involved in my love life, the only "rule" my mom imposed was that the guy i dated either had to have a job or went to school/uni i always dated decent, kind men so there was never a need to intervene i guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 08:36 AM |
| 2 | If you had the option to get plastic surgery at little to no cost would you?ive looked trough tons of befor-after filler pics and imo the results are very mild at best and pretty much invisible at worst (thats why people go and refill their face all the time and all that happens is you getting a moon face bc all the filler obv doesnt stay were its injected and you start looking like madonna https://media.allure.com/photos/63f51eac1ffc1787089386be/3:2/w_1928,h_1285,c_limit/madonna.jpg ), the migration is very real and all famous ppl who have defined jawlines or cheekbone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Older men dating younger women: A youngish woman's perspectivevery likely these men hate women in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 07:00 AM |
| – | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?since every woman seems to have a story like this (either they know somene or it happend to themselves) i assume the stats about what happens after pregnancy are wrong tbh...it seems the complication numbers are way higher than studies make them out to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/24 09:18 AM |
| 44 | Why did so many Modern women decide they don't want kids?just google "i dont find my wife attractive after pregnancy" and read a bunch of posts...tons of men are grossed out by their post pregnancy wives bodies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/24 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreyeah but try executing that rule in a full club, jjust bc something isnt allowed doesnt mean ppl dont do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 10:40 AM |
| 4 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymorei see to many secretly filmed vids of random people doing random things to think im too boring to be filmed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 10:40 AM |
| 3 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreeven if its illegal i wouldnt feel comfortable when dancing somehwere nowadays but i assume younger gens deal with it better bc they grew up that way and are used to might get filmed anytime anywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 09:49 AM |
| 18 | Women complaining from not getting approached anymoreOne group of ladies started to record him. millenial here and just like you i LOVED to dance when i was a teen/young adult but as soon as someone would start filming me id be off the dancefloor...being (almost) alone on the dancefloor is one thing but ppl filming you like you're a dancing monkey makes the whole thing SO unappealing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/24 07:18 AM |
| 1 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.its always cute when ppl compare magazines and VHS casetta with whats available now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.yeah i wouldnt advise men to be financially dependant on women either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 11:41 AM |
| 12 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.i cant prevent a meteor but i CAN prevent becoming financially dependant on someone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:11 PM |
| 21 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.Not to say that traditionalism or leaning traditional is always bad. yeah, i also wouldnt say its ALWAYS bad but relying on another person when it comes to essential things like i.e. income is very VERY risky and i think most parents wouldnt advise their children to do so...heck, all the homemaker moms i know advised their daughters to get an education. Men just dont realize that older women talk to their daughters and granddaugthers in a very different way, many men dont know the suffering of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 12:58 PM |
| 39 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.Traditionalism only works when you pick a winner of a man. and even then that man could leave you abuse you cheat on you die end up disabled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 12:31 PM |
| 17 | Traditional relationships are not the nightmare for women that people make them out to be.Rather risk being plated by Chad and recover from that while having a job and an education then getting cheated on by my husband without the possibility to leave without being financially ruined and living like a peasent Also, ending up old and alone is by far not the worst thing that could happen to a woman and most women know that. Also, considering the fact that most men die befor women, most women end up old and alone anyway (ofc they have friends and pets but that doesnt count on r/ppd) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 12:28 PM |
| – | Ladies, listen to men when they tell you about how they view women agingalso, theoretically you can always be the "younger woman" ...redpillers act like men in their 50s arent interested in women in their 40s, they all project what they at early to mid 20s find attractive, they dont consider what normal men in their 40s, 50s, 60s etc want...why? BC pill spaces never consider the lives of people past the age of lets say 35. I personally think one reason fo that is that many of their BS theories dont hold up if you apply them to middle aged folks and older... They alm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:53 AM |
| 2 | The Wall is really when men are less horny and don’t need to tolerate annoying women.its just an old myth that hasnt died yet, befor smartphones and high speed internet men indeed were hornier cause they didnt have the ability to look at boobs and stuff whenever they want...now with porn and everything, ofc men are less excited by the female body | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 07:39 AM |
| 1 | What could men offer as a bargaining chip that would convince you to change your ideology to some degree?men also have to work for relationships way harder than women do (except for the 10% of REALLY attractive guys) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:39 PM |
| 1 | What could men offer as a bargaining chip that would convince you to change your ideology to some degree?yeah men have to work harder bc women dont want men as much as vice versa...thats what i said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:13 PM |
| 2 | What could men offer as a bargaining chip that would convince you to change your ideology to some degree?thats pretty new tho...gen x men and boomers (and even older millenial men) didnt need that much validation from women (makes me think of the "doesnt matter, had sex" phrase that was around yeeears ago)...seems like modern men want princess treatment, question is...why would women offer that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 11:21 AM |
| 2 | What could men offer as a bargaining chip that would convince you to change your ideology to some degree?unattractive women (for whatever reason they might be deemed unattractive) just rather stay single than date men they dont find attractive ...the whole issues stems from the fact that men find a wider range of women attractive than vice versa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?because there are way less single fathers bc most men dont want full custody and are perfectly fine with 50/50 or less...bet there are way more uninvolved fathers than uninvolved mothers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?mothers complain all the time that everything is too much and many of them are depressed AF...idk one mother whos not struggling with handling all responsibilities while i know tons of dads who think "going to work" is enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 08:21 PM |
| 5 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?pretty sure my greatgrandparents had vastly different values than i have | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 09:20 PM |
| -2 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?would you be impressed that other ppl are able to walk if your dad was in a wheelchair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 08:40 PM |
| 10 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?your kids are not your legacy...what do people know about mozarts or goethes parents? literally nothing...their legacy lives way longer than children ever could! Heck most ppl dont even know the names of their greatgrandparents let alone their lives stories ...children are great and all, but they arent YOUR legacy, they their own ppl and nobody thinks about the parents of ppl who did amazing things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 08:33 PM |
| 13 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?why are they impressive? most moms do that on a daily basis and nobody gives AF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Can you name any culture where rape is normalised? And is that culture successful? rape doesnt need to be normalized culturally to happen, it just needs to not be punished harshly and there are tons of countries were women have very little to no rights, just google it if you dont know Morality only applies to beings at a particular level of consciousness where they know the difference between right and wrong. so therefor nature isnt moral...it cant be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 10:44 AM |
| 7 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.Because a civilisation where rape is normal can't survive for long since rape is against natural law. pretty sure tons of people have been the product of rape in former days and yet we're still here, even nowadays rape isnt that uncommon in various parts of the world...heck even today hardcore christians are very opposed to abort rape babies It does, which is why humans have morals since they're an expression of nature. sure,thats why animals eat their babies and shit xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:19 AM |
| 11 | Men, especially in this sub go to extra lengths to justify their dependence on women, which is sad especially considering how indifferent women are towards men.why would "nature" care about rape? "Nature" doesnt have morals, "Nature" doesnt care about humans well being, nature just "wants" to keep the species going...thats why pregnancies still suck, because it works "good enough" to keep humanity around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 06:54 AM |
| -1 | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..most women want a man which can lead if necessary but is also flexible enough to let her lead if she thinks she better at a certain thing...so, its not about leadership, its about being a competent adult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..most men dont want to lead, actually most people dont want to lead and arent leaders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..Do you realize that more women would have a traditional marriage if they wanted to?I know many men here want to believe that women thirst for strong men to lead them but that is simply not the case. Also, many men simply dont want to lead, especially not when there is no reason to do so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:24 AM |
| 2 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesit's not just that bad behavior is not tolerated, many people just don't want to be friends with people who cheat, steal, lie etc...the moral failings of people in their youth are often quickly forgiven (and large friendgroups are often built in younger years) but the same people often don't change when they are older and then the moral failings get worse because the circumstances become more serious...cheating on your HS boyfriend is one thing, cheating on your husband with whom you have two ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Women have no right to complaint about men who leave for younger women..Men are just raised to be completely incapable of leading their household. difficult to convince women that you should run the household if she works as many hours as you and has her own money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:11 AM |
| 0 | We should have a SuperMarriage concept where divorce is not an optioni dont want to argue pro super marriage, i want to show how dumb it would be if smth like that exist bc it wouldnt prevent ppl from breaking up, but other than divorce it would cause an even bigger mess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 10:02 AM |
| 2 | We should have a SuperMarriage concept where divorce is not an optionThis would just hamper a man's future relationships. why would the guy tell his GF he's already married? Men lie about this stuff all the time, also, some women dont have a problem with dating married guys how would they take never legally being able to marry that man on top? tons of women date men that are never going to marry them, also, i think if this weiird supermarriage would be a thing supermarried ppl would date each other, just like married people have affairs with other married ppl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:46 AM |
| 4 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesYeah, you can either have a big friend group and look away when your friends do shitty things or you judge them for it and get excluded... i think thats one of the reasons people start to lose friends in their late 20s, not the only reason but you def become less tolerant as you get older while the shitty people stick together bc they benefit from a "judge-free" environment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:15 AM |
| 2 | We should have a SuperMarriage concept where divorce is not an optionWhat is in this for men? Men would benefit from this because, according to the OP, there is no divorce, but a physical separation is possible without any consequences, that way women cannot insist on maintenance or child support. You could just leave your wife and have a girlfriend, you can move away and live a whole new life, you're still married on paper but you dont have to take care of your wife in any way or form. All you have to do is not beat her up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:12 AM |
| 3 | We should have a SuperMarriage concept where divorce is not an optionSo this super marriage just opens more doors for people to opt out of their responsibilities if they dont feel like it anymore ...gotcha SuperMarriage can't force people to have Loving, tender, intimate relationships exactly! So whats the benefit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:51 AM |
| 3 | We should have a SuperMarriage concept where divorce is not an optionYou can separate all day long and still remain married. Whats the point of being married on paper but living the life of an umarried person? Or like, whats the upside? Its way worse than getting divorced....imagine a guy leaving his wife whos been a STHM her whole life and she cant get divorced so he doesnt have to pay her shit? Same with alimony, ppl wouldnt have to pay shit for their children, they can just up and leave and start a new life without any repercussions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:47 AM |
| 3 | We should have a SuperMarriage concept where divorce is not an optionthere cant be a law/rule without a consequences of violating said law/rule...i thought the only way out is death? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:31 AM |
| 12 | People here say that women have no empathy for men but I have noticed that men have 0 empathy for divorced men unless they're divorced themselvesthis is less about empathy and more about having backbone imo...many people dont condemn the behavior of an individual in a group of people simply bc they dont want to ruffle some feathers...it sucks and its the reason some people leave big friend groups. The ones that stay are the ones that never stand up for anything. Big friendgroups arent a place where people are held accountable for moral failure And ofc not all friendgroups are like that, but MANY are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:27 AM |
| 2 | We should have a SuperMarriage concept where divorce is not an optionand what would be the punishment for seperation? no one can force you to not leave physically even tho a piece of paper prohibits it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:22 AM |
| 2 | We should have a SuperMarriage concept where divorce is not an optionAnd the benefit of that is what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 07:04 AM |
| 4 | Women hate other womentradwife influencers are a whole diff kind of evil bc they try to lure women into getting rid of their jobs and being dependant on their husbands while they themselves work as influencers (many of them make a huge amount of money)....they arent "Trad" wives, they work and have an income | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 11:27 AM |
| 4 | Financial emancipation is not a convincing explanation for why women have become more selective in recent yearsi was agreeing with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 11:56 AM |
| 4 | Financial emancipation is not a convincing explanation for why women have become more selective in recent yearsno they think "why would i burden myself with more work for a man i dont even like or want to touch" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 11:52 AM |
| 8 | Financial emancipation is not a convincing explanation for why women have become more selective in recent yearseven a good man is way more work than no man so ofc women dont settle for average men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 11:50 AM |
| 7 | Financial emancipation is not a convincing explanation for why women have become more selective in recent yearsThey could have great relationships if they wouldn’t pass these men up. Being with a man you're not interested in is FAR worse than being alone, imgaine having to sleep in a bad with a guy you dont find sexy...big yikes! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 11:48 AM |
| 5 | Its insane how much status a beautiful woman can give youcaring about what other people think does not mean you're a narcissist, humans wouldve never survived if nobody cared about what anyone thinks...the people who claim they dont care what everyone think are often times the ones who care the most | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 11:39 AM |
| 11 | Its insane how much status a beautiful woman can give youWho gives a fuck about what others think. lol MOST people?! I dont say thats good but acting like NOBODY gives AF about what other ppl think is ridiculous...so many people do various things just to impress other ppl. Thats why ppl dress stylish, buy stylish cars, show off on social media...its the most normal thing a human can do you acting like thats SO weird is actually even weirder than trying to impress ppl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 11:14 AM |
| 8 | A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same?just look how fast widowers get remarried compared to widows...its not fundamentally untrue, men need women, they dont want to live without them...they even die earlier if they dont have a woman in their lives...very very VERY few men (that arent gay) can be happy without a woman in their life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:58 PM |
| 2 | A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same?ah ok, thanks for explaining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 10:50 AM |
| 1 | A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same?The manic-pixie dream girl trope has done so much damage to men's psyche in what way? can you elaborate on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 08:28 AM |
| -1 | A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same?so you're offering being a roommate she can take care of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 08:00 AM |
| 10 | A number of women are creating co-housing situations and supportive communities.The women in these communities live pretty happily. Why aren’t red pill men doing the same?because men need women to fulfill all their needs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 07:57 AM |
| 0 | Attraction to money and status is NOT real attractionhes not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Attraction to money and status is NOT real attractiona normal guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 01:18 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopnot really | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Attraction to money and status is NOT real attractionthats not a 1/10 wth are you smoking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:45 PM |
| 8 | Attraction to money and status is NOT real attractionWhat this "status" refers to is your social status- your position in the hierarchy of your social circle- rather than societal status, your position in overall society. ppl here will never get this, i preach this here since years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:45 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopVery sorry that happend to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:42 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopEight children being considered normal is insane! Thats 6(!) years of pregnancy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:39 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopyeah and these people who choose financial stability over children didnt really want children to begin with ;) its like me saying id appreciate having a cat if i had a cat sitter, someone payed for everything and i just have to pet it for 2 hours a day...do i really want a cat if i require these conditions to get one? prob not its also cute that you think im the stupid one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:34 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopyeah, its not such a suprise if you think about how boomers and silent gen people treated their children and what has been considered normal in the past | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:33 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopi like that approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:32 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopwell...cant stop ppl from sharing their experience in this day and age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:31 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopbringin a child into this world is always selfish wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:30 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopim not saying its a good or bad idea, im just saying most peole who want children go for it ...it doesnt even matter if its stupid or not, just showing that most people who really want children simply have them...seems like thats how the human body/mind works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:29 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopso you're saying people simple dont want that many children (since now with birth contorl having a child and deciding how many you want to have is a conciouis decision) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:25 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopBesides, how sensible is it to choose to have children you know you won't be able to properly care for? well, teh ppl who cant afford it breed more than the ones who actually can so yeah, i dont think ppl who say "i cant afford a child" really want children...the may like the idea to have a child someday but they dont really want to start a family, if they would, theyd do it...tons of poor folks proof that every day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:22 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopIn places with lots of births women generally aren't expected to work on top I'd being mothers. very true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:19 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopI agree with you, i also think having children doesnt sound as appealing especially to women. And even the women who want children usally want 1, maybe two. But the days were many women had 5+ children are forever gone imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:16 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopSo, yeah, it is the money. so whats the reason for low birth rates in the other countries? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:14 PM |
| – | The birth rate discussion combined with the belief that the reason is financial must finally stopif financial unpredictability plays a role in your decision to have a child to the point that you end up childless you never actually wanted a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 12:12 PM |
| 2 | A good way to incentivize more women to have children. Would be guaranteeing that women could continue to chase their dreams as well.we have that in many countries in europe and birth rates are still low AF...in some countries even lower than in the US with worse conditions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Women: What are some things women today need to do better for long term relationships?in my experience women mostly do this and men just ignore it and call her a nag...then when the woman has enough and leaves hes suprised and "didnt see it coming" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Are women "witholding affection from men"?these men should also get used to the idea that nobody owes them honesty and that they will often be lied to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 10:58 AM |
| 3 | Men do peak in their 30s, just like TRP says - Just not with the women they wanti think we need to differentiate between physical peak and finanical peak cause these two happen at different ages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 01:39 PM |
| 3 | I don't buy the narrative that single, childless women are the happiest groupmostly women tho...seems like women regret parenthood WAY more often than men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 10:19 AM |
| 10 | Korea is the future of western gender relations- and that's a good thingim amused by people thinking women actually wanted to have 5+ children (like their grandmothers had) and act like thats whats normal and now women act weird when in fact i belive that women would always have opted for 1-2 kids max if they had the choice...i think the whole "all women have these maternal feelings and look forward to babies" thing should be investigated again, i know too many women who dont give a shit about children, like, so many its not just "your circle" or a small percentage.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Can the “Men peak at 35” delusion finally endExcept that this is the experience of all the men I know in their 30's so you think thats an experience the majority of men has? lol, its not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 07:25 AM |
| 3 | Korea is the future of western gender relations- and that's a good thingThose countries are not like South Korea at all. It’s a bad comparison. its a very good compariosn, SK is just ahead...also many euro countries compensate with immigration...they would be on SK levels if it wasnt for immigrants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 07:25 AM |
| 5 | Korea is the future of western gender relations- and that's a good thingThey’re not having children because it’s too expensive. wonder when this stupid take will finally die... money is not the reason women have less kids, look at sweden or other euro countries with 3 years paid parental leave and all that stuff...the birth rates are STILL lower then ever, meanwhile women in third world countries pop out kids like its nothing ...what makes birthrates plummet is women having a choice and women being able to support themselves without a man...thats simply it...when wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 07:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Young people in general just don't want commitment, male or female, beautiful or uglythey at home gaming and chatting on discord, to me its very understandable its mostly old folks going out, young people (zoomers and younger) dont value irl interaction that much since they get a glimpse of that via discord | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 06:44 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Young people in general just don't want commitment, male or female, beautiful or uglybc its mostly old ppl who want to meet irl...zoomers are fine with discord and video calls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Can the “Men peak at 35” delusion finally endIm 42 and I've never been out with a woman over 30. I dont think Im coping. this is not the flex you think it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Can the “Men peak at 35” delusion finally endwell...if a woman who's been fat during her 20s and suddenly loses weight in her 30s claims women peak at 30 you wouldnt say shes correct either no? only because YOU do better at an older age, doesnt mean thats universally true...most people dont look better when older unless they looked like shit when younger...doesnt mean the general peak of ppl is in their 30s or 40s, just that said folks didnt use their potential earlier (i.e. taking care of themselves and shit like that) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 01:39 PM |
| – | How many People would cheat if the PERFECT Man or Women would try to get with them, i really want to figure out this dilema, and how brutal the reality is.only correct answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 09:45 AM |
| 2 | Women secretly hate other womenWomen hate some women and like some women, just like men hate some men but like other men...idk any woman who literally hates ALL women, thats just ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 08:02 AM |
| 11 | Women secretly hate other womenI remember in the Barbie film the daughter saying, "even women don't like other women," and Barbie and the mother just awkwardly exchanged looks because they knew it was true. and we all know that if it was in the Barbie Movie it MUST be true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/24 08:01 AM |
| 8 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menofc the risk of a younger guy leaving you for someone younger than you (to him age appropriate) is a "fear" woman have when dating younger...the risk of that being higher is a nobrainer... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:35 PM |
| 1 | "50% of marriages end in divorce" but divorce rates are the lowest they've been in 50 years, which one is it?its just anecdotal and i have no data to back this up but i currently see irl that younger ppl tend to have kids younger again ...i might be wrong tho but it seems gen z isnt as opposed to marrying and have kids young as millenials were...prob bc they had gen x parents who did better than boomers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 12:06 AM |
| 2 | Madonna/wh*re complex is why so many marriages end up being sexless.how is it now? did he change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Madonna/wh*re complex is why so many marriages end up being sexless.they lied | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 11:39 PM |
| – | So uh... how about that fertility crisis huh?no we actually cant and you also wouldnt find a majority who would want this ..thats just some redpilled/blackpilled mens dream, nothing more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:58 PM |
| 11 | So uh... how about that fertility crisis huh?there is no solution...population will shrink, some people will suffer, the end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 05:26 PM |
| 3 | So uh... how about that fertility crisis huh?swedish citizenship doesnt mean you're not an immigrant...its a country were its rather easy to get a citizenship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 02:47 PM |
| 2 | So uh... how about that fertility crisis huh?how many ex wives do you have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 02:43 PM |
| -1 | So uh... how about that fertility crisis huh?yeah but only bc Japan and South Korea dont like immigration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 02:39 PM |
| 31 | So uh... how about that fertility crisis huh?the function children are having in this day and age has changed, they arent a necessity anymore in terms of survival, they are (sorry for the lack of better words) a hobby. there is also not much of a reason to have more than 2 or 3 children (and most people i know irl dont have 3 children, theyre alread a minority, most people are very satisfied with having 2 children or having just one). ln former days you needed children for labour and many of them died. But if you want to be a parent and do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 02:16 PM |
| 14 | So uh... how about that fertility crisis huh?yeah it will take another 5 - 7 years til people realize most women simply dont want to have that many children...if women have a choice, they dont have 3+ babies...people act like women are eager to be pregnant all the time when in fact most women are totally fine with having 1-2 children birth control & womens financial freedom is what makes birth rates go down, nothing else edit: just talk to older women who had 7 children or smth, most tell you they wouldnt have that many children if they ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 10:28 AM |
| -1 | I would rather be single than settle for a man.No one gets everything they want in a partner. i pretty much got everything i wanted in a partner (and even more in some areas) and so do many people i know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/24 07:10 AM |
| 1 | What's with the huge popularity of polyamory and open relationships at the moment?weird in what way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 05:50 PM |
| 4 | The wall is real and provable with statisticsso why would "honry young guys" be a bad thing if you just want sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisjust dont be friends with women if you dont want to then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?yeah women are friends with social outcasts, physically disabled men and so on...my mom has a guy friend in a wheelchair (old guy, around 70) and he has tons of female friends who go shopping for him, go to the docotor with him and shit like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the scriptdoing it for a) a discussion and b) clicks to generate views to generate $$$ for the videos they made so they care about it...seems were on the same page | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:43 PM |
| 6 | Followup to the 'all women are 10's' discussion. How women outside of PPD respond to women declaring themselves 10's (or less than 10's) and how women punish you for not following the scriptif someone asks you to rate yourself they sure as hell will have a reaction...men who wouldnt care how you rate yourself wouldnt ask you in the first place why would a man ask you how you'd rate yourself if he doesnt care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:35 PM |
| 4 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisLooks most people are not monogamous if alternatives are legal. the alternative IS legal, nobodys forced to live monogamous ...wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?you really think no men out there are friends with women bc they acutally like htem ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:17 PM |
| 5 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisi think the men who say this are porn brained men who fantasize about weird sexual gang bang shit with their favourit porn star and project that onto women "i wouldnt mind fucking XY Onlyfans Girl who also fucks tons of other dudes as long as i can have sex with her as well so ofc women feel the same way about Chad" they idiots and too far gone to be saved every time men here make some weird ass assumptions thaht make no sense about how women operate they're projecting...other exmamples of that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:08 PM |
| 4 | If men want more casual sex from women why do you support/vote for policies that will discourage thisthats like claiming men have no problem sharing a pretty girl bc hookers have varioius male clients and the men dont care...wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Consequences for high status menlol no, i wouldnt, tons of you guys exist, but if you read through the comments youll see many men see women as more than holes and have friendships with women they deem unattractive or at least that they dont want to fuck...but hey, how would you know, you arent friends with women :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?ii feel sorry for you, thank god many men arent like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:59 PM |
| 4 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?see...you think if you arent attracted to someone there is no other reason for you to interact with them bc being friends or aquantances doesnt even come to your mind while women think ..."im not attracted to him but we get along great so maybe we can be friends bc i really enjoy spending time with this person" being friends with someone is not "using them"...people who are friends actually enjoy their time together you prob will never understand why some women and men are friends bc you cant co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:56 PM |
| 4 | The best way for men to weed out superficial women who are using them is to get separate orders on dates.thats the perfect first date bc you can dip anytime you want without anyone having spent alot of time/effort...idk why anyone would have fuckin dinner with someone youve never met, what if the person is awful? way harder to leave than when you just went for a walk the whole dinner date thing always came off very weird also, im suprised so many people are comfortable eating together with a stranger, im not saying eating dinner is intimate but idk, eating a whole dinner with someone i dont know an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:53 PM |
| 10 | When maneaters and womanizers come across one another what usually happens?the biggest female "whore" and the biggest male "whore" in my former friend circle had nothing in common, barely interacted and certainly didnt hook up...its not like they disliked each other, they just werent interested in one another at all they also werent each others type lookswise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:38 PM |
| 2 | Consequences for high status mensome guys will say he's made it pretty sure the vast majority of guys (and women) dont think dating a stripper is having "made it" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Consequences for high status menHe’s alarmingly perfect on paper. I wouldn’t blame anyone who thought he was catfishing. most ppl are damaged in some sort of way and dont want a perfect partner bc at the end of the day its about how your partner makes you feel about YOURSELF...and if you arent as "perfect" as your partner its an ugly mirror you look into daily..hard to appreciate a perfect partner if the trade off is hating yourself thats why hot ppl should date other hot ppl, accomplished ppl should date other accomplished pp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Consequences for high status mentldr Men dont like women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?Women are way more extroverted when compared to men, and get hit on by more aggressive men. So women won't pick up on any subtle hints a male friend would send because she's used to men just being direct. women do pick up on said hints, all women know which of their friends tries to get in their pants, they ignore it on purpose to not make it awkward | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?dude you just said women have no value for you if they arent attractive and you cant fuck them lol wtf are you even trying to proof, tons of men out there like women for more than their bodies, but men like you will never understand that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:05 PM |
| 9 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?men like him act like having compassion for other humans and valuing connections beyond sex is a weakness when in fact it saves women from dying old and alone (unlike most men) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:00 PM |
| 5 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?Women don’t realize most of the attention they get is just cause guys wanna fuck em haha. which shows just how much women value their fellow human beings compared to men and also explains why tons of men end up old and alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 01:59 PM |
| 6 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?my mother has a guy friend whos in a wheelchair and trust me that man profits so much from having female friends, he'd be fucked if he'd rely on his male buddies (which are either dead or just not up to taking care of someone) same goes for gay men, they also dont want to fuck women and have no problem forming bonds with them also its not that ALL men are like that, but MANY are...i mean to each their own but if you cant function anymore for whatever reason you're in trouble if you dont have wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 01:56 PM |
| 17 | Does the "friend zone" mainly consist of males? If so, why?Women don't seem to have the same impulse, at least not towards me. bc they dont find you attractive getting friendzoned is emotional connection without sexual attraction...men have a hard time comprehending that a woman can have a emotional connection with someone they deem unattractive...thats why men tend to be mean/cold torwards ugly women...for men sexual attraction and emotional connection mostly go hand in hand (thats alos why they say men and women cant be friends, they project their own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that most people cannot lower their standards biologically?people who say they cant lower their standards simply havent been exposed to many ppl irl, if you talk to tons of people you'll notice so many people are attractive bc of various things id say claiming you cant lower/change your standards is a take from chronically online pornbrained weirdos | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 02:52 PM |
| 2 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.you'll always miss out on SOMETHING, you cant experience everything...if you buy car A you miss out on buying car B, C, D etc...if you stay single you may miss out on having a great relationship, you could also miss out on being abused tho...you cant make ALL the experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 02:49 PM |
| 1 | You can't change what you're attracted to. But most people can compromise on certain preferences.well, they never actually did tho, men irl always preferd skinny women...a skinny woman as such an easier time attracting a man than a fat /slim think/ chonky (whatever the hell you want to call it)...idk one skinny woman who has an issue with attracting a man (no matter how old she is)...but ive seen too many chubby/fat women single and sad about being single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Those raised by parents/caregivers who didn't conform to gender roles, how did that affect your attitude to dating and the things you're attracted to?men on ppd think they want smth like that bc they've never been in a relationship with a woman like that (or any relationship at all)...nobody wants to be in a relationship with someone they cant respect (even the guys that keep these women around to cook and clean and shit arent attracted to it, thats why they treat them like shit) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Online dating has permanently damaged the way we perceive and value others, both online and offline.the world now is better for ppl than it has ever been | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Online dating has permanently damaged the way we perceive and value others, both online and offline.the planet is not overpopulated, that whole idea came from a book "the population bomb" and its been debunked many times | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringknowing a bunch of stuff doesnt make you eloquent, tons of nerds know a shitload of stuff but still are bad conversationalists...to get good at talking with people you have to actually talk with people...its not even knowledge that makes you a good conversationalist lol, its lots of other traits that come from being around people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 01:24 PM |
| 5 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringnobody is universally interesting to everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringmen who are good conversationalists are not boring...being a good conversationalist comes from being outgoing, experiencing stuff and most of all talking to people...that alone makes you a non-boring person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Online dating has permanently damaged the way we perceive and value others, both online and offline.They’re not really options on online dating its called illusion of choice and evn tho most of them arent "actual" options it appears that they are hence why people cant choose bc they fear smth better is around the corner also women getting attention when going out is not the same thing as getting bombarded with messages and seeing hot guys who seem to want to date you 24/7 every time you log into a dating app or instagram Just adding some more men on social media or online dating does not chang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Online dating has permanently damaged the way we perceive and value others, both online and offline.Decision Paralysis With 80,000 different drinks options, how do you ever find your favourite drink? If you took a diligent approach and tested every single coffee drink, you’d end up spending 109 years trying two different Starbucks drinks every day. Clearly, you’d be dead before finishing the experiment. Choosing between numerous options can be daunting—so much so that consumers shy away from the process altogether. To avoid the difficult choice, they might settle for water instead. It's not qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Online dating has permanently damaged the way we perceive and value others, both online and offline.yeah, the "adaption" will be less humans in general, tons of men who dont reproduce and artificial wombs (not saying thats good or bad, just saying that we are on our way to find a solution to reproduce without having to rely on men and women as couples) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 11:07 AM |
| 0 | Online dating has permanently damaged the way we perceive and value others, both online and offline.there werent as many incels in the 80s...the weird kids of the 80s were rather normal compared to the weirdos of today just compare it to furries...sure 1 or 2 furries have existed in the 80s too but nowere as many as there are today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Online dating has permanently damaged the way we perceive and value others, both online and offline.weird guys back in the 80s were hella normal compared to incels today...way more men where normal and way fewer men were considered unattractive/weird...being forced to go out and interact with people more turned alot socially weird men at least so normal that they can meet and talk to women...nowadays, way more young men just avoid all that. Even in the 90s and early 00s the weirdest people were relativly normal compared to the tons of weird people nowadays...you couldnt be as weird/antisocial … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Online dating has permanently damaged the way we perceive and value others, both online and offline.oh yeah they will distance themselves but not to go back to the old days, there simply will be a new thing that replaces dating apps, like idk, an even better matchmaking app that operates differently.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 10:54 AM |
| 3 | She has to like you morebet all the men in the deadbedroom sub are exactly these type of guys...its prob better for the whole family (if you equate better with not getting divorced) but idk how good it is for each individual...i think its best if noone loves the other more but both people are equally crazy about each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 10:47 AM |
| 9 | Online dating has permanently damaged the way we perceive and value others, both online and offline.yeah but in former days people had to choose from the couple of people they knew irl which was a rather limited amount of people, not from a pool of people who are all over your city/country...befor social media nobody saw that many grogeous faces of "everyday life people" irl...i personally think seeing too many pretty faces all the time fries your brain (not just on dating apps but on social media in general, we are bombarded with stunning people who are supposed to be everywhere) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 02:00 PM |
| 5 | The "Wall" does indeed exist, but only for women who have built it themselves.people here act like women dont need a career and stuff but if you 35+ without a decent "adult" job (and you dont have an explanation for said lack of "adult" job i.e. if you're having children) people precieve you as weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Does the concept of "LMS" - Looks/Money/Status need to be abolished and thought over?money matters = \ = money arouses women sexually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 10:35 AM |
| 1 | The "Wall" does indeed exist, but only for women who have built it themselves.stuff like that wasnt even available | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Does the concept of "LMS" - Looks/Money/Status need to be abolished and thought over?rich people talking about how unimportant money is is like chad talking about how overrated sex is or bella hadid about how unimportant looks are and that pretty privilege is bullshit...the lack of self awareness is honestly hilarous and just proofs some of the prejudices ppl have against ppl with money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 08:35 AM |
| 2 | How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't?its adorable you think like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 01:00 PM |
| 0 | How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't?The vast majority of men will absolutely take a woman who make it easy every day over a woman whose difficult and plays games ahahhahahaa yeah sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 12:30 PM |
| 5 | How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't?well cuz it decreases their attractiveness to men dude...so many men like a competition and want to win women like a prize | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?just look at old black men, old asian men and old white men, its very obvious who ages better.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?me saying that black and asian people age better is not an opinion, its a fact, the skin is different, thicker, like...this is scientifically proven | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 02:35 PM |
| 1 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?there are always some beautful older people but the vast majority is not, especially not among white men ...some black men and asian men look ridiculously good for their age tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 02:23 PM |
| 1 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?has some physical attraction as well see this magically disappear if an older guy is a bus driver or jobless or smth like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?as a european woman id say men here age just as badly as anywhere else (and the farther you go east the worse it gets), the only men who have some sort of advantage when it comes to aging comes through genetics and by that i mean race | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 02:16 PM |
| 2 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?10% is still very uncommon and its very risky and often ends in a shitshow Those with a 10-year gap were found to be 39 percent more likely to divorce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | If men’s carnal first choice is younger woman, would you expect older men to be women’s?nobody here ever said a small age gap is weird or unnormal ...what kind of weird strawman is that now? Shit an age gap of +/- 5 years isnt even noticable, nobody cares or has ever cared | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeand still look mid 30's at 47 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 01:33 PM |
| 4 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifehollywood...and who was/is in charge there...right, old men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 01:31 PM |
| 8 | Q4M - Why do some men look down upon women who are single and child-free?its never happy women who look down on single childless women tho so we all know why they do it...happily married moms are usually not the ones who get bitter and mean torwards single childless women, they have a "you do you" approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Are more and more women choosing to stay single into their 30s?chad also likes relationships once he reaches a certain age...being attractive =/= not wanting a family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 11:22 AM |
| 25 | Are more and more women choosing to stay single into their 30s?high-powered career women idk i think the redpill overestemates how many "girl bosses" there really are out there...tons of single normal non career obsessed women who just earn a good living just dont see a benefit of being with a man they arent 100% attracted to (and i mean, why would anyone be with someone they arent attracted to if they dont have to?)...they're just regular woman, they arent "career obsessed" or anything, they just have good jobs bc they had good educations and therefor can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck?most of these men woudlnt go to war if they werent forced lol, also ask the mothers and fathers of these men if they would sacrifice their child for their country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck?communism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck?women realizing they dont have to sleep with unattractive men if they dont want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Why do people pretend the only thing men had to offer was a paycheck?The individual woman does not put the well-being of a nation/people above her own well-being if she has the choice no living creature would do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the Men's First Love Theory is true? If so, shouldn't more women want inexperienced men?what you're mentioning happens very rarely tho...when people are younger its mostly the women leaving, hardly rememeber a guy leaving his GF when we were all in our 20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/24 10:09 AM |
| 1 | The future of Chinas population and the gender discrepancydidnt expect to read this here but ding ding ding! This is the correct answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/24 12:27 PM |
| – | Woman really don't like most men sexuallythe same islam that claims sperm comes from place between backbone and ribs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/24 07:26 AM |
| 2 | The wall exists.Older women go for even older man...a 40 year old is still the younger woman to a 50 year old man and that man usually cant and wont date women "in their prime"...so ...it doesnt really matter if shes less hot than she was at mid 20s since shes not competing with 20 year olds, shes competing with her age range | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:24 PM |
| 2 | The wall exists.we get older and older while also aging better...a 60 year old person now is very different than a 60 year old person 50 years ago...heck even now more and more people get to 100 years old, that was rather rare not that long ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 02:17 PM |
| 7 | Why does Polyamory get so much hate here?99% of the time they are not just "not hot" or "average", they outright disgusting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 09:32 AM |
| 5 | Why does Polyamory get so much hate here?yeah, nobody cares what they do personally, its when they start "preaching their gosple" that people get defensive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 09:31 AM |
| – | Most men are not that bad looking, makeup and fillers just skew people's perceptionstoo much effort is a turn off too tho, i can see that its hard to find a middle ground as a guy in 2024 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 08:58 AM |
| 5 | What advice would you give a "high value man" who is struggling with dating?i think he meant "not many guys ARE like him" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | How do you avoid desperation and despair as you get older?and thats not a bad thing...if love wouldnt be conditional it would be worthless. I want to be loved under conditions, i dont want my guy to love me if id kill his cat or slap his mom...unconditional love is for small children and pets, everyone whos physically capable of doing bad things with a malicious intent should be loved conditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/24 07:08 AM |
| 5 | How are average looking men in this day and age supposed to meet women?Unironically this i feel like women in their 30s/millenials are more present and open in mixed social settings. because when we were teens, that was the only way to meet boys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:08 PM |
| – | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes.thats like saying "if i was skinny with a pretty face and huge tits id be a 10" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:54 PM |
| 45 | Why are some women into 'bad boys'Like if Margot Robbie was a drug addict and has a history of violence, most men still wouldn't want anything to do with her, right? most men would still gladly bang her, many would still be in a relationship with her and some retards would wife her on the spot even if she was a junkie with no teeth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:20 PM |
| 4 | Are women not getting approached anymore?Are you giving the guys you want to be approached by IOI's? Sure some guys approach without a woman sending some sign but usually the woman sends a smile his way or blushes a bit to give the guy "green light" to approach...are you doing that? do you smile in a cutsey way torwards the guys you want to be approached by? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:17 PM |
| 7 | Are women not getting approached anymore?Same here. Bump into me at a grocery store, help me pickup my oranges and overly expensive avocados, tell me I have pretty eyes with a cheeky smile while you're done putting them back in my basket. now imagine a guy you arent attracted to/ an ugly guy does that? how would you react? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Should late bloomer men insist hard on "starter girlfriend" status or not?i dont think men respect women that go swinging with them in the long run when they start out young...if he finds a woman whos willing to do that with him he prob dumps her by the time he wants a wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Should late bloomer men insist hard on "starter girlfriend" status or not?I’m simply speaking from a place of experience that stepping out because of FOMO isn’t worth it. im not saying its worth it, im saying its very possible thats whats about to happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:34 AM |
| 5 | Should late bloomer men insist hard on "starter girlfriend" status or not?Finding the love of your life and fucking that up because of “FOMO” is beyond stupid. its cute you think that woman is the only love of his life and its adorable that you think people dont cheat on people they deem "the love of their lives" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Should late bloomer men insist hard on "starter girlfriend" status or not?if he thinks about whoring aroudn now and never does it that thought wont go away, itll only beecome stronger... ofc nobody HAS to cheat, still many do, even people who never thought they could do that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:28 AM |
| 7 | Should late bloomer men insist hard on "starter girlfriend" status or not?if he doesnt find out the hard way he'll have FOMO forever and will ruin his marriage at some point by cheating on his wife...if children are involved he traumatizes a child (or multiple children) and his wife with that behavior, then he eventually loses his house (maybe even his job bc he'll start drinking or not showing up to work or smth) or he stays in a now broken marriage with a resentful wife and will continue to cheat on her with various women...why risk all that BS if he can whore aroun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:24 AM |
| 8 | Should late bloomer men insist hard on "starter girlfriend" status or not?let him do it or he will get resentful and cheat on said good woman in his 40s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Ladies be honest, how many of you are truly interested in dating an older man?i just didnt run in circles where much older guys ran idk how old you are but 15 years ago it wasnt that easy to meet older people, with online dating/dating apps that changed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Why are so many girls wanting to have traditional marriages again?So conservatism and traditional values are ironically the edgy thing now. they dont actually DO it the old school way tho...its just an aesthetic...like everything else. For example all these trad wife influencers who brag about being SAHW and encourage women to not work while making BANK from their social media accounts...these women all have a job that pays very well and their job is to tell young women not to work ...Justpearlythings comes to mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 08:04 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.then why do I owe her the same obligation to her comment. 🤔. you dont, idk why you even chose to answer her and not ignore it if her comment was such bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:56 AM |
| 9 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.she asked why you even want a woman, you telling her that you dont want a woman bc you're gay wouldve answered the question ...also if you post on reddit you should expect to all kinds of comments | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:08 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.the difference is prob that you have an active social life and friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:06 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Dating for most men gets easier at 30 because they lack the sexual experience to realise , women's standards and desires for a relationship, marriage shift out of necessity.you couldve just said "im not interested in women, im gay" and that wouldve answered the question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 09:05 AM |
| 5 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?all your examples sucked lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?then why do you bring up celebs as an example of a "normal relationship"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?more men are looking for a relationship than women and thats true til people are in their 50s idk what you're talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?its funny that you think hollywood stars have NORMAL relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?And depending if you can find a single man over 30 because most are taken. that issue starts around 50 and even then the numbers are rather equal...around 70 men start dying out of the dating market | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 03:04 PM |
| -1 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?It’s women who are jealous of these relationships that say age gaps are bad. you do realize women can always be "the younger women" right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?Chris Evans, who’s in his 40s, recently married a 25 year old woman and as much as he’s loved by his fans in spite of generally not being “problematic”. i had to google him to know who this is so no idea who talks about it but i havent seen a discussion about it online at ofc not IRL Leo DiCaprio is often criticized for exclusively dating women in their 20s when he is currently pushing 50a read the last sentence i wrote...i already said 50 year old people dating 20 year old people will NEVER NOT… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 02:54 PM |
| 6 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?only if one person in the relationship is at an immature/influenceable age (what age that is varies from person to person) <-- and its very normal to find shit like that weird nobody cares if a 90 year old person dates a 60 year old person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 02:25 PM |
| 10 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?most age gap relatioinships arent judged, most people dont care...there are outliners that are judged or some which make people gossip, idk why people here (not you) try to normalize these said outliners...some shit is weird and thats just that...50 year old pepole dating 20 year old people will never not be weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 02:23 PM |
| 12 | Why is when it comes to age gap relationships, people assume there must be an agenda with the couple?How big an age gap are we talking about? Because everything +/- 7 years is of no interest to anyone and is often not visually recognizable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Debate: free romantic love has failedWouldn’t everything in your life be easier if you were married to someone who you didn’t 100% love but they were totally agreeable and helped provide economically? Why would that be such a bad thing? because touching the dirty clothes of a person i dont love is gross...because cooking for a person i dont want to fuck feels like useless work bc i dont need help in any way or form...what usage would a random guy livingin my house have for me? Id cook, clean etc for him but for what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 12:07 PM |
| 4 | Having a list of positive traits/achievements isn't enough for successful dating. You can be shy and sensitive if you are "extremely masculine" in other categories e.g. martial arts or riding a motorcycle... you have to somehow compensate for your femininity with masculine activities/characteristics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 03:48 PM |
| -1 | Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women?its funny to see how little you care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 07:18 AM |
| 0 | Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 07:13 AM |
| -3 | Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women?dude you're just not a good person and now you try to rationalise the shitty things you did to ppl, its not that deep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 03:54 AM |
| 1 | The talking point that "older men prey on young girls because older women are less willing to put up with their bullshit" misses the mark.i agree but its not realistical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 06:01 PM |
| 4 | The talking point that "older men prey on young girls because older women are less willing to put up with their bullshit" misses the mark.happy 30+ people arent on r/datingoverthirty ...thats why you dont hear from them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?Ironically, my mother gave me more "red pill" style advice than my dad or grandfathers ever did. its not that uncommon, many women/mothers try to shelter their sons from having bad experiences with women ( just like some dads get all angry when their daughters are dating) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:12 AM |
| 0 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?Women have lost some of the traits that make them desirable to men, it is true, however they have gained traits that enable them to be real partners, which I think is more valuable to most people. i like this approach | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 07:09 AM |
| 5 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?sorry for your loss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:52 PM |
| 8 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?thats a typo lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:41 PM |
| 9 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?What does "literally every old man" mean to you? i dont take the "literally" serious cause you didnt talk to "literally every single old man on this planet" so idk what it means you folks need to learn to experss yourselves properly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?ok so you didnt answer my question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?so did your grandfather tell you how its better now for young men in terms of dating and marriage or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?so did you grandfather say that to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:27 PM |
| 26 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?its common for women...every woman i know has a grandma, mom or aunt telling them to get an education and to not depend on a man and how much better things are now for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"does this count for men and women? im genuinly curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:20 PM |
| 9 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?did he say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?sorry for your loss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 04:14 PM |
| 9 | Did any of your grandfathers ever tell you how much better men have it these days in the same way women's grandmothers did?yes, that affects all of us but I mean specifically as a man...like, something that makes you exceptionally glad to be a man now and not 80 years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"Maybe because we know our lives are 10x better at least than our grandmother's were and while they aren't perfect it's better than it's been for us in recent and not so recent history? never thought about that but SO many women have grandmas who tell them how good they have it now that they dont have to have 10 children and can get a job and a education...do men have this? i doubt it. I doubt many (if any) grandpas tell their grandsons how much better things are now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?try to become self-employed, not everyone is good at being an employee :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"im saying way fewer women want to actually end their lives compared to men, even if more women attempt to do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"Women would die more often from suicide if they had the balls to go through with it and used methods that actually are lethal. exactly! Women dont really want to die is what im saying, most of them dont go through with it, most of them dont use a method thats likely to kill them...thats what men do, thats how hard men dont want to live. Thats why i find it weird redditors here laugh about women taking anti depressants on a higher scale than men while men rage quit living if they dont get the lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:11 PM |
| -1 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"Alive to suffer more? i mean with that attitude the suicide rates make sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:10 PM |
| 0 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"and i meant you dont think there are many women who "attempt to kill themselves" for attention? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"im not a man but if youll be here long enough youll know what i mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"I find it funny that they have to take so much anti depressants while their lifes are so much easier. maybe if men would use anti depressants instead of ropes around their necks more of them would still be alive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:05 PM |
| -1 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"You can't move on from a breakup if no other woman is interested in you. so all these MGTOW dudes are lying? This is also why women commit less suicide. Their lifes are literally better across the board. unless we talk about the usage of anti depressants and aging, then all of a sudden older women are miserable and old men are thriving | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:02 PM |
| 0 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"But more women attempt suicide. Seems like your pills do not work that well. you ever considered that might be on purpose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"Men don't think women are more miserable. most men here do belive women are more miserable once they hit a certain age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Men need to stop using Suicide Rates in the "Oppression Olympics"off topic but its funny that guys here make fun of women for using twice (?) as much antidepressants while they just off themselves all the time...like, is getting help gay or smth? Also funny that they think women are more miserable while they head --> bullet themselves on a regular basis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?It was a word made up by someone who couldn’t understand why alcoholic’s non-addict wives weren’t “getting better” and “becoming healthy” along with their husbands. do you have a link to that study or just tell me how to google for that, this is VERY interesting...or could you elaborate on that topic abit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 02:28 PM |
| 15 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?didnt they have parents? I always ask myself "what was their parents marriage like"...these people learned this attitude towards relationships somewhere long before they were even able to read, watch TV or use a cell phone...a lot of things of what you see here are actually the mistakes of the parents and the result of generations of neglect (mental and or physical), abuse, isolation, blame, gaslighting and so on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 02:20 PM |
| 6 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?It always amazes me when people speak in absolutes when it comes to people's subjective feelings, especially with such a conviction The sentence "I know that I know nothing" comes to mind, it beautifully shows that intelligence/knowledge requires admitting that you CAN'T know certain things and also being wise enough to admit that. You still have a long way to go, but you probably don't recognize it because your ego gets in the way Kill your ego and experience enlightenment. Have a blessed day :… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 02:13 PM |
| 2 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?thats the thing, all other options would make them way more miserable...best partner for a codependant person is a codependant narcissist ...they still toxic but it works for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:57 PM |
| 9 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?you do realize many people make money with activities they actually enjoy doing right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:54 PM |
| 40 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?As for losing a job the longer you are at a job the more experience and value you gain which helps you get another job. and even a shitty job is better than a shitty husband... at a shitty job you can at least "clock out" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:51 PM |
| 25 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?What I hear is, I hate my job and wish I could do something else for a living. you know who really wants to sit around and do nothing all day...clinically depressed people. People are wired to "do stuff" ...we all are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?I guess this gets more philosophical but I don't believe they are actually happy. the prob not happy 24/7 (i mean, who is) but the ones i know are prob in the happiest relationships they ever been and would be miserable with "normal" partners Or I suppose they may be happy but they aren't fulfilled or content. i thought that too, trust me, was mindboggling to me how anyone could enjoy this but you know what i learned, i just projected my own shit onto them and thats it, my needs are not their ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:46 PM |
| 29 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?Sorry, I was more thinking divorce than death of a partner. even a divorce is often times way more life altering and traumatic than losing a job I was more considering that you mentioned "I'd rather not depend on anyone", but that you failed to recognise that work also means depending on someone else The process of finding a new job is easier than finding a new man, feelings are not involved, the conditions for getting the job are largely clear in advance, the expectations of my boss are far fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?A codependent pairs up with a narcissistic or an addict and they just crash and burn together. i agree with you, its not likely those two pair up, but if they do, they seem to do great (and by great i mean great according to THEIR standards) narcissists can be codependant too and ive seen this constellation about 2 times now, and both people dont seem to be unhappy ...the codependant feels safe because the narc likes control and the narc feels happy bc they have constant supply of a person that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:36 PM |
| 6 | Women narcissistically define "maturity/adulthood" based on how they tend to behave and "immaturity/childishness" based on how men tend to behave.Just because you're uncomfortable doesn't mean I'm doing anything wrong. perfect example that you dont understand what "maturity" means...its not about "right or wrong"...its about considering other peoples feelings (and feelings are often times irrational) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:30 PM |
| 28 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?Most people cannot afford not to work anymore. most people always worked (male and female) only a small percentage of women (Upper class & upper middle class) could afford to not work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:28 PM |
| 12 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?no one actually likes working 9-5 five days a week for 40 years. some people do actually | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?Codependency is not healthy even tho i agree with you i think codependant people should just pair up with other codependant people, even tho it often comes off unhealthy to the outside world (on the other hand, how many peoples relationships are 100% healthy?) it seems to work for many of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:19 PM |
| 45 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?You can get a not respectful working environment as well i dont have to lie in bed with my disrespectful boss tho, i dont have to cook his meals, i dont have to see his face in my sparetime, i dont have to deal with his family, i dont have to care for him when hes sick etc its also way easier to leave a shitty job than to leave a shitty marriage (where you're emotionally invested and everything) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:16 PM |
| 45 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?mindboggling that you even compare these two death of a spouse is a life altering traumatic experience and in no way close or comparable to losing a job Nothing in life is certain. If you live your life being too risk averse, you may be less likely to suffer, but you'll also be less likely to thrive. Some things in life are certain tho, its certain that i need food in my belly and a roof over my head. Having a job/having an education is the most normal thing in the world and wont hinder your a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 01:08 PM |
| 39 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?from what ive noticed, almost all people dont "hate work", some people hate their job yes, but almost all people are fine with being obligated to do something | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 12:51 PM |
| 87 | Women : would you rather be rather be "forced" to work or be forced to marry ?I am forced to work right now and i 100% prefer this over being forced to marry I'd rather rely on myself than someone else. It's not that I don't trust other people, but you never know what's going to happen, anyone can drop dead at any moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/23 12:25 PM |
| – | NO, "average" men are NOT having sex "all the time"just google " gen z drinking less alcohol" ...tons of articles come up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 03:19 PM |
| – | NO, "average" men are NOT having sex "all the time"there ara studies on the alcohol and drug usage, the differences are noticable, just as there are way less children on the playgrounds or outside playing on their own...not everything is a "subjective feeling" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Guys complaining about no dates/marriage perspective. Do you realize how cool is being single?collecting stuff doesnt count as a hobby imo, its just buying random shit you dont need | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Guys complaining about no dates/marriage perspective. Do you realize how cool is being single?only expensive woman hobby i can think of is having a horse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Why is the birth rate plummeting in western society and what should be done to fix it? Who should be held responsible?yeah and they started to help with work as soon as they could walk, wasnt unusual for children to have full time jobs and not going to school | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Do you think there are more men willing to be house husbands or more women will to have house husbands?oh most men are able to do these things...like, theoretically, they just refuse to do them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 10:55 AM |
| 5 | Do you think there are more men willing to be house husbands or more women will to have house husbands?wanting it and actually enjoying it when living it are two diff things...they also cheat way more than housewives...not that negates anything you say, just wanted to share this piece of info There is a 5 percent chance for wives who are completely dependent on their husbands to have an affair. But there's a 15 percent chance for husbands who are completely dependent on their wives to cheat. This is especially true for men. Munsch says when a man's masculinity is threatened by not being the bread… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 10:54 AM |
| 3 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to bedont be sorry, its easy to overlook stuff like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to befair point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 04:07 PM |
| 6 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beAlthough I think that can just be a degree of "trauma compensation", where one expects themselves to be alone, and thus not feel loneliness when they are. Similar to "monk mode" from how I see it here from time to time. yeah i just answered that comment and say again, i dont think its a trauma response but pragmatical thinking...when im single i COULD meet a man who understands me to whom i feel a connection but when i stay in a good relationship where i feel lonely the chances of meeting someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:37 PM |
| 3 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beAlthough I think that can just be a degree of "trauma compensation", where one expects themselves to be alone, and thus not feel loneliness when they are. i think its more of a "id rather be single and have the option to meet someone who understands me than waste another year with a person i dont feel a deeper connection"...at least that was my reason to break of "good" relationships, i didnt want to waste time i could be single and meet a better partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:36 PM |
| 7 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beThat sounds like a millionaire saying they feel poor because they are not a billionaire. if a millionaire hangs out with billionairs alot he prob feels poor even tho its objectivly not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:27 PM |
| 6 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to bethen wouldn't it make greater sense for women to reach out socially to attempt to get this emotional connection? great relationship where you feel understood > being single > shitty relationship where you feel lonely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 12:14 PM |
| 4 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingI have slotted into a social group primarily for people in their mid-20s. Nobody has batted an eye. do you not heat how weird this sounds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 12:08 PM |
| 6 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingMy first escort told me that I look surprisingly young, that I look like a 30-year-old. so the woman you pay to have sex with told you you look younger? Even without exercising, surely you can't tell me that a Millennial 40-year-old looks like a 30-year-old Boomer. the VAST majority of 40 year old men dont look better at 40 than they did at 30 let alone 20 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 11:53 AM |
| 6 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingand men are the gatekeepers of relationships. this is only true if you're a top tier man, if you're an average joe you arent the gatekeeper of anything also the age when men hit their "prime" seems to go up and up the longer im here on this sub...it usually was 30, now you're telling me men reach their peak desirability in their 40s ...wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 10:08 AM |
| 11 | Most advice targeted at men here is to make them wait until they are too old to do anythingyou also missed out many experiences that cant be recreated at an older age...some stuff cant be postponed, thats especially true for many experiences you have in your child and teen years...you're old(ish) for a very long time but you're young only one time and its not even a long time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 10:03 AM |
| 28 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beAlthough most can get unlimited casual sex if they are reasonable looking. But most crave committed relationships no thats what men are looking for, women crave committed relationships with people they have an emotional connection with, that goes for friendships too...women have way higher standards and need more from people to not feel lonely than just "being there"...for men it seems its easier, they hang out with the people available and are fine with a woman they get along with, they dont ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 08:13 AM |
| 12 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beyeah, i dont think most men experience loneliness in the same way, i dont think they tend to feel lonely when in a relationship (and their friendships dont seem dependant on much beside one common hobby and literally just "being around each other enough"), at least ive never heard of a man feeling lonely while being with a woman (some mentionoed experiencing "boredom" or smth like that, but not loneliness)...would also make sense when i think about all the guys who thought their relationship is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 07:34 AM |
| 9 | Women are only “loney” if they choose to beSome of my loneliest times have been WITH people. Maybe men dont experience loneliness in the same way, just think about guys doing shit together, many times they dont talk much, they're just are around each other. Maybe for men, the physical presence of a woman is enough to not feel lonely, and they're projecting that onto us even tho for women, just having someone around doesnt change much when it comes to loneliness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?good thing almost no woman has to be alone if she doesnt want to be alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 07:06 AM |
| 2 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?i know its not a 100% accurate comparison but nuns dont look very unhappy, they're another representation of single childfree women not many people have on their radar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 06:04 AM |
| 1 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?My sister, for example, met her now husband when she was 34. She was fairly sure she wanted children, but recognized at her age and being single it might not happen. She intentionally only dated guys who were serious about relationships, who wanted to settle down, who wanted to get married and start a family. i bet its not even THAT much harder (than regular dating) to find such a guy tbh, tons of men in their 30s want families and want to be fathers ...i think many men are actually more despera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 03:34 PM |
| 3 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?bc thats not what you're feeding your algorithm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 03:12 PM |
| 2 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?have you ever talked with older folks? being 80+ isnt that great in general, most of them dont seem very happy no matter if they had children or not...very few are actually happy at that age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?mioand some women with families are miserable, some people are happier with a dog, some give the dog away and are happier without a dog...yeah there are statistical facts but they dont say much about the individual... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 03:07 PM |
| 4 | 60% of Millennial women are already nearly infertile. And 80% of childless women regret not having kids. Is this why more women are crying on TikTok than ever before?dont tell them, they wont belive you anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 03:04 PM |
| 3 | The real wall is the fertility wallhow many of these couples exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 07:46 PM |
| 8 | The real wall is the fertility wallyou think men who look for younger women all look for mid 20s women? You think a 45 year old man who wants a younger woman is going for early 20s and not mid 30s? Do you even talk to and see ppl irl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 03:48 PM |
| 7 | The real wall is the fertility wallMost men that age can date women 10 years younger without difficulty this is simply not true, always amazing how casually you guys here state straight up lies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 09:38 AM |
| 0 | Are college educated, stable career men really having dating problems?if you're a guy and you want children/a family (like, in the near future) you'd be better off with a woman late 20s - early 30s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 09:22 AM |
| 8 | Why are there so many of you still struggling even though you make good money and have a successful career ?jeff bezos met lauren sanchez when she was 47 and he was 52...you can always be the younger woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Radical individualism is what is making dating so hard for everyone nowadaysIf I didn’t care how it would affect others, I’d have offed myself a long time ago too. this just shows its not just kids who give people a reason to not off themselves no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 08:26 AM |
| 1 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholeBirth control...pregnancy sucks, even for the women who really want kids they mostly dont want more than two (even just having three kids is kinda weird nowadays)...having 5+ kids aint normal anymore and most women will prevent that if they can | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 11:42 AM |
| 1 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholei think its simply birth control and women not being thrilled about being pregnant...i think the majority of women still want children and accept pregnancy bc of that but they arent thrilled about being pregnant often...all the older ladies i know who had 5+ kids said they wouldnt have had dthat many kids if theyd have had a choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 11:40 AM |
| 7 | The reasons for women to want marriage and children are often outweighed by the reasons not to, despite children being necessary for society as a wholenot being pregnant and having to push a child out of your vagina but still being able to be a parent sounds pretty awesome | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 11:35 AM |
| 10 | current dating climate in 2023always funny when women say they want /dont want XY and some guy assumes he knows better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?i prefer delusion over nihilism but hey you do you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?if you think its better for guys to think "im a victim and i cant do anything to change my situation" thats ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?its obv his fault but its your fault if you let it beat you up forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?if you say you cant control most things in life you accept to be victim of youe circumstances most of the time arent you embarrassed by being a victim all of your life? Is being a victim that great? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?how is "the world is out there to get me" a fine mindset? it leads to depression and bitterness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?You have zero control over them. its not a good mindset to think you're ALWAYS the victim of your circumstances...its also VERY wrong and the "easy way out" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 01:17 PM |
| 5 | There isn't any issue with women being career focused as everyone should be self sufficientbecause being dependant on one person is risky while being dependant on your skills and education is pretty safe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 12:16 PM |
| 11 | Do you actually think dating was better in the past?As a teenager yes there was internet and social media, it wasn't such a huge thing yet though, and dating sites were not popular yet. People hung out together all the time. So much more socialization was done in person. I had sex with girls that would never swipe me on Tinder. the best days were in the short period of time when the internet was soley accessable on the Computer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:58 PM |
| 11 | Too much about high standards but what do they really mean?You are no longer only competing with other people but with the "single life" of the individual person and for many people , being single is very comfortable these days (even though they complain about being single!) You video call with your friends or text every day to get your dose of socialization, you get the validation that you used to find through conversations with people through likes/upvotes. You can order food at your leisure and have top food delivered to your home. If you feel like h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:32 PM |
| 5 | Do you actually think dating was better in the past?IDK if it was better but meeting potential partners irl was easier since you HAD to go out and meet people to get to know someone beacuses your only options were going out and doing something or sitting at home watching TV with your parents/alone i havent dated in forever so I actually have no idea about dating per se, meeting potential partners who are an actual option (not someone you see on IG that lives 5 h away) was way easier tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/23 01:25 PM |
| 7 | CMV: There was never an expectation to have sex early or to have an "active sex life". Who came up with that?the aids scare has never actually made people not hookup from what i remember in my teen years...aids was everywhere but eh, people still hooked up...talking about early 00s tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 09:11 AM |
| – | Is anyone else amazed at how impactful the internet has become on attitudes to sex and gender?Let me at least kinda know what was going on in my old hobby with new releases. watching someone else playing the game i want to play would make me feel even more depressed idk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Women know their 1-10 value for the most part, and know where they fall in the sexual marketplace. All of this "I don't rank people's value" is just a virtue signal.Personal 'tastes' vary greatly among people. i mean, i think that used to be more true in former days when we havent been saturated with stunning faces 24/7, i can see that changing tho...especially for younger people who have grown up with IG, seeing stunning people all the time since their formative years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Women know their 1-10 value for the most part, and know where they fall in the sexual marketplace. All of this "I don't rank people's value" is just a virtue signal.“Too good looking” is also a comment on compatibility It means, "He has too many female admirers than a less attractive man who I still find attractive, so it's not necessary that I risk becoming just one of many if I can find a slightly less attractive man with less choice i still consider hot" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:27 PM |
| – | Is anyone else amazed at how impactful the internet has become on attitudes to sex and gender?i still dont understand the appeal...guess im just too old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 01:24 PM |
| 30 | The question you never want to hear as a young man or at any ageDo you not want your partner to know anything about you? not even a partner, i ask people about their jobs i have no intention to hook with as well...it just says alot about a person and gives you an opportunity to start a conversation without getting to personal too soon, next Q would prob be if he/she has any children or what they do in their freetime...many ppl here just never had normal conversations with normal people and it shows | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 12:58 PM |
| 50 | The question you never want to hear as a young man or at any age"What are you studying?" "What do you do for a living?" or some variation thereof. most normal question you get as an adult by literally everyone you talk with for more than 10 minutes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Why is drama so widely appealing / why is being level-headed often considered boring?Reddit is not a reality or norm (women told me that). So it's just a very small minority. suicide rates are higher for men tho...especially single men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Why is drama so widely appealing / why is being level-headed often considered boring?They don't but ok. oh they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:28 AM |
| – | Do women reap most of the benefits of a relationship being single?I hate to break it to men here, but women generally aren't gonna wanna date the guy catcalling them or just ogling them in the street l most of them are very low EQ...they cant fathom women dont value the same things they would value...if you listen to what men complain about women, its almost always a projection of their own fears (i.e. dying alone, being old and undesirable etc) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:18 AM |
| – | Do women reap most of the benefits of a relationship being single?because they projecting (like always)...they dont get said approval thats why they think its so valuable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:16 AM |
| – | Do women reap most of the benefits of a relationship being single?I think that most ordinary women are similar in that way. most people over the age of 30 are like that no matter the gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Why is drama so widely appealing / why is being level-headed often considered boring?Women pretty much lacks the ability to entertain themselves, It aways need something external. youve clearly never talked to older women and men...women do all sorts of shit in old age, men sit at home or drink themselves to death also check out that one post where a woman asked men what they would do if they'd never find a GF/wife...MANY men straight up said they think about suicide (never heard a woman saying they think about suicide bc they cant find a BF)...many men basically live for womens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Women will always die aloneAs a millennial, I think I'm going to die completely sedated with a VR headset on my head, virtually dancing to Kesha's song "die young" Could be worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:34 AM |
| 0 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!People that work desk jobs have it rough I guess. nah desk jobs are great, some people are just always complaining | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:25 AM |
| 4 | A big deal about dating is that it feels like work for men, and work is never fun!But that implies men don't put much effort in their appearance at all many men dont Women are more likely than men to brush their teeth twice daily; less than 50% of men do so. https://www.richardsondentistry.com/articles/why-men-are-more-likely-to-develop-oral-issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 10:22 AM |
| 3 | How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women?whats also a reason that chubby women are better in bed is that men dont have as much performance anxiety if they bang a woman they dont think is stunning...having less performance anxiety makes sex better for men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/23 08:55 AM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceif i end up with tom salleck im fine...no need to worry also lol at pointing out spelling mistakes, what are you, a 40 year old karen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceso you tried to come up with an ugly/gross dude and you picked TOM SALLECK whos one of the rare dudes who looked good well into his 50s? Yall wish you looked like tom salleck lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 02:53 PM |
| 5 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to facemisery likes company | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 12:11 PM |
| 6 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 12:09 PM |
| 5 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceI don't know what you want to hear, that you're an exception? that you are special? What should I do with your individual anecdote that I can't verify? And even if it were true, there are ALWAYS exceptions to EVERYTHING. But that doesn't change a generally common situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 11:53 AM |
| 2 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceThere's a difference between "feeling good in your own skin" and "overestimating your worth"... I want to achieve the former, but I realize through your comment that I'm more likely to produce the latter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 11:49 AM |
| 1 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to facei assume he does or else he wouldnt like it so much...if ur a normal adult over the age of 30 talking to early 20 people is a pain in the ass you avoid as much as possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 11:46 AM |
| 3 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceofc he does, thats why he's on this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 11:07 AM |
| 3 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceI finally see what they (red pullers) meant when they said that things women are attracted to in men come with time then how come many men slay all through their teeange and young adult years while being broke? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 11:07 AM |
| 15 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceWhy not do the same for older men? never met an older man (talking about 40+) who looks good enough to give him a serious compliment tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:55 AM |
| 31 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceman i really need to stop complimenting older men bc i feel sorry for them bc it seems to get to their heads | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:48 AM |
| 0 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceJust the banal conversations alone and the 24/7 mobile phone usage would turn my brain to mush. why do you think he's any different himself if he gets along well with early 20s women? He's probably just like them....let them have each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:47 AM |
| 3 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceOnce again insanely rare situations that do not happen for the majority of men or women. Most men do not make enough to be a sugar daddy the idea that every 30 year old making 40k a year has a 20 year old sugar baby is untrue. age gap relationships in general are pretty rare, i dont think SB arrangements are that rare when it comes to relationships with 10+ years age gap | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:42 AM |
| 6 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceyou’re not pulling us when you’re in your 30s either. sugar daddy situations...(sometimes even without the guy being aware of it since men are delulu enough to think these women actually love them) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:23 AM |
| 23 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceA man aging into his 30s is very different from a woman aging into her 30s. Anyone with even single digit IQ can tell you that, so what’s your secret to having an IQ lower than that? Cuz I didn’t think it was possible anyone who knows older women and men irl (form work or family i.e.) knows the "men age like fine wine" shit is BS...all you need is having eyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:21 AM |
| 8 | As a man that’s getting older it’s literally impossible to not smirk at the problems my female peers are beginning to faceHe said in his 30s he said hes approaching his 30s so i assume hes somewhere between 27-29...being able to attract 24 year olds as a late 20s dude is just...idk, normal, the age gap isnt even big...attracting 18 year olds is also not the flex he thinks it is...all hes describing is just the norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?“Telomere length and epigenetic age are cellular markers that independently predict mortality, and both appeared ‘older’ in women who had more pregnancies in their reproductive histories,” Calen Ryan, lead author of the study and a doctoral student in biological anthropology at Northwestern, said in a statement. “Even after accounting for other factors that affect cellular aging, the number of pregnancies still came out on top.” https://www.healthline.com/health-news/having-a-baby-can-age-you#Ea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?idk what else i should tell you, its a proven fact that pregnancy ages you faster, same goes for all the pregnancy and post-pregnancy symptoms...if you choose not see any of that good for you, doesnt change reality tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?Most women look fine after a pregnancy. they do but many of them looked better befor pregnancy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?When you become pregnant you just magically become ugly or something ? Lol what. pregnancy ages swomen faster and yes often times they are less attractive after pregnancy The only thing that really happens to women after pregnancy is that they just get fat. thats simply not true, pregnancy can cause a variety of things from losing your hair or teeth to your bodyshape changing (i.e. ribcage doesnt shrink back)...you obv have no clue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 08:40 AM |
| 2 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?men arent pregnant... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 06:44 AM |
| 1 | High school and university are the best times in life to meet the opposite sexOf course, dating is easier these days, everyone has the same “references”. That's why young women are easier to date (also applies to young men), the expectations are still very low if you haven't achieved anything yet. But when you're older and have achieved something, you measure people by your own achievements. It is easier because it is not yet so easy to tell who is a loser and who is not. Everyone is just at the beginning of their life/career, bad habits are not yet so obvious and everyon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 07:07 AM |
| -1 | People here are too quick to dismiss men's lived experience when they tell you many average men peak later in life.grow to be much better in their 30’s (in general) than women do. yeah i dont see that tbh...if you go from 3 to 5 ur still a 5 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 02:31 PM |
| – | CMV: There's absolutely nothing wrong with being a "deadbeat dad" if you make intentions clear from the startbeing honest about your bad intentions doesnt mean said intentions arent bad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:00 PM |
| 1 | People here are too quick to dismiss men's lived experience when they tell you many average men peak later in life.well...better doesnt equal good if you go from a 3 to a 5 its not that big of an improvement if you look at it from an outside angle...sure, for people who know you personally it might be a huge upgrade, its prob not that big (or not even noticable) for people who dont give a fuck about you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 11:26 AM |
| 5 | Since more women are working now than ever, and casual dating is more acceptable now than ever, will we see more “trophy husbands/ boyfriends” in the future, are we already there, or would women argue they would never tolerate a lesser man long term?good looks get old fast if he istn able to contribute in any other way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:47 AM |
| – | Treated like shit for being a handsome guy.all these letters but no link to a pic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:39 AM |
| 3 | Age gap relationships (18f, 20+m)im curious ....how old are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:13 PM |
| 11 | Age gap relationships (18f, 20+m)Madonna fucks a 20 year old in her 60s and it's girl power nah she still a creep and nobodies really defending her...you're just making that shit up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:12 PM |
| 11 | If you as a 30 year old man can’t be friends with 18 year old guys you have no business dating 18 year old womenyeah...and i thought the "the wall" discourse was boring wonder what the next "hot topic" here will be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:51 PM |
| -1 | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?lol ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:27 PM |
| 12 | CMV : If you’re the guy she had to lower her “unrealistic” standards for the you’re forever on thin iceits prob the first relationship were they both feel secure and safe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:13 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dieI'm well aware of what parenthood actually is Your description of what it's like to have a (newborn) baby at home doesn't show that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:08 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dieoh it def existed and exists to this day, ive seen it many many times when staying over at friends places lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 12:07 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dieshameless I work with babies plug here idk what that means | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:50 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The fact that surrogates are mainly used by women and gays show that men's threats about artificial wombs are not to be taken seriouslyI'm more concerned about it for predatory/pedophilic reasons. pretty sure it wouldnt take long for a law to be installed against single men adopting such babies...cause thats obviously what would happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:27 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dieI'd much rather have the challenge of raising babies. Using my ADD to it's fullest potential to try and entertain humans who just recently obtained object permanence 😮💨 the hard part about being a SAHM isnt that its challenging, its that its very repeptitive and boring, thats why many SAHM end up depressed...its not like being a mom is highly mentally challenging in the way a mentally challenging job might be, its hella boring, repetitive, you get not much out of it the first couple of years be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:20 AM |
| 8 | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?Good luck my friend, wishing you the best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:03 AM |
| 18 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dieWorking a location-dependent job 9-5 Monday thru Friday and having a boss is miserable. im a woman with a 9-5 job (tbf i like my job, my coworkers and my boss) and id never ever trade that for being a SAHM. Working an office job is SO easy compared to taking care of a human | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:01 AM |
| 16 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to diewell, all i can say as a woman is that if i had the choice id rather support a family financially and be a dad than doing the mom shit...going to the office 8 hr a day is SO SO much better than being at home watching a child and doing chores. Honestly, being a Dad and Husband sounds awesome, being a mom...not so much Wish i had a wife | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 11:00 AM |
| 20 | CMV: Most married mothers are not working 40+ hours a week , that is a myth that needs to dienot that it matters for this post but imo working 40 h a week is way easier than taking care of a child 24/7 and being a SAHM ...like, the role of the classic dad (works, comes home to dinner and a clean home, plays an hour with the child and then chills infront of the TV) sounds WAY more appealing to me than the role of the classic mom (being with the child all the time, doing chores every day, being in charge of everything related to appointments and social activities etc) the mom might not be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:34 AM |
| 18 | Rejecting men with a lie or in any vague or non-direct way that isn’t just “No” or “I’m not interested” is spineless and does legitimate damage to the male psyche.they cant fathom how dangerous men can be for women...many simply lack empathy and emotional intelligence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:09 AM |
| -7 | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?why not trying to find a woman with aspergers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:06 AM |
| 9 | Have you given up before properly starting dating? And why?this was very sad to read, i hope you're doing better now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 10:06 AM |
| – | Has social media affected your views on marriage and motherhood?Oh yeah, i always felt women lied about pregnancy and childbirth (i could never grasp how birth can be a great event, that you instantly forget the pain you had during birth and that everything bounces back to normal like it was befor 100%)...now i know many of them just flat out lie(d). Mothers who talk about regretting their children was a bit suprising for me at first, but thinking about it more it makes tons of sense when thinking back about my own childhood and how some childhood friends ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Why women come to r/PurplePillDebates ?Mostly bc im bored at work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/23 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid players? How long are most players willing to wait to have sex and then leave? And does withholding sex manage to screen out most players? Are there any other personal ways you have found out?dont date strangers / if you date strangers look through his social media i.e. if all comments under his pics are from women forget it only date guys that show you openly that they like you and care about you in a genuine way date guys who make it clear that they want you exclusivley date people who seem like genuinly good people (people who care about their friends and parents, people who value loyalty, having standards etc) witholding sex doesnt work because he'll just get sex somewhere else… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 12:21 PM |
| 0 | Anyone here regularly visit sex workers?Most people sell their performance and with it a skill that they had to learn, often times for a long period of time...i always find the "we are all just whores" excuse funny tho...we all know its not just a job like all other jobs, the simple "how would you feel about your daughter/mother/sister doing that type of work" question usually throws ppl back into reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?idk, if you're a 5'2 man and you've been treated by ur mom like royalty i think dating can be depressing, same goes for ugly/obese women who been daddies girl all their life if ur hot then i think its not that big of a deal, i do think you end up being disappointed by almost all partners tho (at least that what i see happening irl with ppl and opposit-sex-parents like that, nobodies ever good enough...bc nobody will love you and put in as much effort as you're mom/dad) the most well adjusted peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?But she's pretty capable and I think it was just her sharing appreciation for me (I hope lol) nah she was serious...ive seen to many men with overbearing mothers who do the same thing (its more common with moms and boys tho, thats why so many men are disappointed with women, their moms set the bar way too high) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Does the fact that many children are raised in fatherless homes explain why most women want a tall man who 'protects' them? Are they seeking to have the father they never had?I find women looking for a “daddy replacement” tend to correlate with women who were spoiled by their fathers agreed...its the same for men with overbearing mothers (happens way more often than vice versa) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 11:00 AM |
| 4 | Are people who are against age gap relationships expect men to be casanovas?well...you're experience doesnt negate hard facts that can be proven with various statistics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Most women with green flags are boring and men don't actually want them.Where do I find a low activity woman fellow introvert like me who just likes to watch TV, surf the web, hang out and chill, and play video games all day? what about work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Are people who are against age gap relationships expect men to be casanovas?then why does the vast majority of women date men their age or really close to their age +/- 3 years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Are people who are against age gap relationships expect men to be casanovas?check out r/AgeGapRelationship...there you see pics of average every-day-life people in age gap relationships, prob gives a more realistic picture of what people in age gap relationships look like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Are people who are against age gap relationships expect men to be casanovas?always hilarious when men here compare regular guys and themselves to leonardo dicaprio | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Are people who are against age gap relationships expect men to be casanovas?and can we really expect most older men to say no if a woman asks them out though, that they think is attractive? women arent automatically hot bc they younger; hot women are even hotter when they younger but mid or ugly women arent, young fat women arent, plenty of people dont have a massive glow up/glow down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 12:24 PM |
| 2 | How would you feel about an "All men are handsome" campaign?I wouldnt feel too much about it bc idc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 10:08 AM |
| 6 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?Just because a phenomenon exists does not mean that it affects all people, it does not even mean that it affects a majority or a large number of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:57 AM |
| 6 | Men are projecting the whole 'alpha widow' thing.It's just a silly highschool crush that he seems to still be idealizing. nah sounds obsessive AF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Men are projecting the whole 'alpha widow' thing.ikr! Sounds awful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Today’s female dating strategy will lead to a demographic collapse of liberal progressives and a future where women are treated as second class citizens.they never have to experience pregnancy, birth, breastfeeding and all that fun tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Hyperawareness of the current state of relationships and dating is bad for an individual's mental health (especially men)damn...i changed my mind, cant argue when someone brings out the farcry quotes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Hyperawareness of the current state of relationships and dating is bad for an individual's mental health (especially men)yes you can | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:04 PM |
| 0 | Hyperawareness of the current state of relationships and dating is bad for an individual's mental health (especially men)if you say so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:21 PM |
| 9 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?the US is huge, the majority of the US aint hardcore christians | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Hyperawareness of the current state of relationships and dating is bad for an individual's mental health (especially men)he might never escape this feel and thus instead of running away his brain uncosciously decides to become overly fixated on the matter. i mean, you have control over your thoughts, its not like you cant control what content you feed your brain, but yeah ofc it takes effort to get out of that blackpill depression hole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:11 PM |
| 16 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?well...thats your opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Hyperawareness of the current state of relationships and dating is bad for an individual's mental health (especially men)Trying to “un-know” something after the fact is probably just 100x harder than not learning in the first place. sure its harder, doenst mean its not possible, for all examples that cemented your current view there are examples that disprove them (although they ofc are stupid to you cause you have the opposit view)...what you need for that is an open/empty mind | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Hyperawareness of the current state of relationships and dating is bad for an individual's mental health (especially men)But either way you’re really saying the same thing. That ignorance is bliss and that there’s a mental burden to know “what lies behind the curtain” so to speak. Its the exact same idea behind the saying “some things are better left unsaid” as well. It’s a universal truth. Because life isn’t inherently positive in many ways. So the more you learn about the world, the more you learn about the dark sides of things. "ignorance is a bliss" has a very negative conotation while what im saying is that a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Hyperawareness of the current state of relationships and dating is bad for an individual's mental health (especially men)ryhmes with hope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 02:06 PM |
| 0 | Hyperawareness of the current state of relationships and dating is bad for an individual's mental health (especially men)You’ve just stumbled upon the origin of the famous saying “ignorance is bliss”.. 😂 only that im saying one should consciously choose to be ignorant instead of being ignorant because of lack of knowledge...we are overinformed and therefor lack faith | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?why dont you go for the girls you are actually attracted to, girls you actually want to be in a relationship with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:31 PM |
| 17 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?christianity in the west is being a christian on paper and celebrating christmas, very few people actually belive in a christian god, let alone the sins mentioned in the bible or heaven and hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?like they belong to the same family. arent we all one big family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:23 PM |
| -1 | Hyperawareness of the current state of relationships and dating is bad for an individual's mental health (especially men)The harsh reality is well, i think you dont have to accept "the harsh reality" if you dont want to, thats the thing about faith and belief...i personally rather be a happy fool than a suicidal sperg who "knows whats up" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:19 PM |
| 66 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?I don't know what culture you come from, but in the western world nobody encourages you to stay virgin anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?so you chose the girls that thorw themselves at you so you dont have to work for it, even tho you're not that attracted to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 01:04 PM |
| – | How do you estimate proportion of vlountary and involuntary solo men?Generic treatment is "he needs me more than I need him" , therefore he needs to deserve her, and she treats him for granted. Chasing and courting dynamics is about valuing woman more than man. so you mean women in a relatinshop with a specific men, not random women who interact with random men i.e. in public, at work etc? Like, you're specifiically talk about how women treat men IN RELATIONSHIPS? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?so you always purposly targeted women you knew were drawn to you bc you're the best they could get? And if yes, why did you do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?well, its sad that you think about yourself like that, a bit more self delusion wouldnt be bad for you imo...maybe you should look up sucess stories of people with the same physical traits as you to see that all these terms of "average" and "below average" and shit like that dont mean anything actually I think it's good to have a proper assessment of yourself highly disagree, just like atheism doeesnt make you happy but just miserable people who can belive in something are happier and more fullf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:54 PM |
| 10 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?doesnt mean you know their n count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:48 PM |
| 25 | Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense.exactly, and then couple these mid looks with a lack of personality, sense of humor, career etc...the expectations of men are kind of ridiculous sometimes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?idk how you look like, i also dont think its healthy to think about yourself like that. You prob look fine and even very attractive to some women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?i think people rate the attractiveness of other people based on their own attractiveness when it comes to average, above and below average...(we all can identify stunning people, with the average stuff, its more personal imo) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:38 PM |
| 40 | Men should be able to get someone at or near their level of attractiveness, and being told “it’s not a points/bartering system,” “you are what you can get” or that “no one is obligated to date you” are simply deflections and gaslighting nonsense.Men tend to overestimate their looks, so many cannot estimate their value, however, the value is determined by the potential buyers (women), not the seller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:36 PM |
| – | How do you estimate proportion of vlountary and involuntary solo men?Still average woman treats average man as shit. how does the average woman treat the average man like shit on a daily basis? like, what does she do? Give some examples | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:28 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?Dude,why you did the Women dirty lmao (and the 40 year old man lmao) see the issue is, you say i did them dirty, others say the 40 year old woman looks too good to be 40, all thats happening here is that we see how attractive the posters are when we look at the reactions torwards the pics. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/16fs14b/comment/k03obzp/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:24 PM |
| – | How do you estimate proportion of vlountary and involuntary solo men?Disagree. Men who kill women exist, but they are not average. This is anomaly. there are still WAY more men who kill their women (or women in general) than women kill men men are way more dangerous for women than women are for men, for a man, a bad date is that the woman is uglier than in the pic and that he has to pay, for a woman, a bad date ends in rape and/or murder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:23 PM |
| – | How do you estimate proportion of vlountary and involuntary solo men?If men are desperate, they are easily replacable and would tolerate bad treatment you do realize that (pn a global scale) men treat women way worse than vice versa dont you? men rape and kill women on a daily basis random women dont treat men shitty because they are desperate/lonely/undesirable (unless you think rejecting a man you arent interested in is "shitty treatment") lonely undesirable men are lliiterally invisible to women, women dont treat them badly, they hardly notice they exist but y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Men have leverage, but it is not always as obvious... and a dark prediction for the futureit's not the nefarious ill will of man it's the reality of nature and still it stopped happening once society decided that women have rights...funny isnt it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:06 PM |
| 12 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?many of the girls you will have casual with wont have had many partners its funny that you consider lying about having had a relationship but think these women couldnt be lying about their N-count...not saying they actually are lying, but being so confident in beliving random peoples info like that while being a potential liar onself is a special kind of...idk, trustfulness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:04 PM |
| 6 | Men have leverage, but it is not always as obvious... and a dark prediction for the futureits "organic" for as long as men can opress women and treat them like livestock, once women have a choice its not organic anymore...so was it ever organic...i doubt it, women just never been free like they aare today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 12:00 PM |
| – | How do you estimate proportion of vlountary and involuntary solo men?So it does look like men are getting used to solo-lives and the excessive demand from men is dropping. Probably if men get less "thirsty" existing imbalance in the value of men and women in relationships might be fixed. Men dont get more desirable if they are "less thirsty"...them being "less thirsty" doesnt suddenly make women appear, also women dont experince male thirst that badly anyway (if they want to avoid it; sure if you have a big social media presence you prob get DM's from thirsty m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?or the people are more beautiful were i live compared to the people were you live | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?well, im glad im not living in the same reality you live in then :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:38 AM |
| 2 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?Most people are 5 so it would make sense that the most people you see are 5s yeah i dont think thats the case but hey idk about the uggos who dont go out, i only can rate the people i see on the streets and most people under 30 look good imo...only idk 15% ugly people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:24 AM |
| 0 | Why do so many guys lose their edge in a relationship or platonic friendships with the opposite sex, but when being with their bros their drive and ambition is still kicking in, where as with most women this doesn't really seem to have a strong deteriorating effect?cool, you're different/special...doesnt mean what i said is untrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?well, then you need to find a girl who's never going to get with a mentally stable guy looking like you and who looks past the red flegs bc shes too suprised you're actually into her...you're probably not attracted to her tho, also, for some men doormats are a turnoff so if you arent a control freak, get off on being superior or have a small ego/issues with your masculinity or smth like that, you prob wouldnt be satisfied with her in the long run (and i dont mean "doormat = being submissive"; i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?yall look like prince harry to me...sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many guys lose their edge in a relationship or platonic friendships with the opposite sex, but when being with their bros their drive and ambition is still kicking in, where as with most women this doesn't really seem to have a strong deteriorating effect?it also answers you're OG question...idk i just think its funny when ppl here ask Q they clearly know the answer to, just to act smug in the comments...but hey, whatever floats your boat :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship?i see people in this attractiveness range all the time, they aint special | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:13 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?At least us British guys are considered attractive... nobody even thinks about you tbh...at least not in europe, maybe in the US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:12 AM |
| -1 | Why do so many guys lose their edge in a relationship or platonic friendships with the opposite sex, but when being with their bros their drive and ambition is still kicking in, where as with most women this doesn't really seem to have a strong deteriorating effect?so you're asking a question you already know the (prob almost only single correct) answer to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:11 AM |
| 0 | Why do so many guys lose their edge in a relationship or platonic friendships with the opposite sex, but when being with their bros their drive and ambition is still kicking in, where as with most women this doesn't really seem to have a strong deteriorating effect?women being into social affairs and men being into their pursuits if you already know the answer why do you ask?...like, this right here answers your whole post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?i live in europe, that helps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:03 AM |
| 21 | Why do so many guys lose their edge in a relationship or platonic friendships with the opposite sex, but when being with their bros their drive and ambition is still kicking in, where as with most women this doesn't really seem to have a strong deteriorating effect?But why, does this seem to happen to men mostly? because male friendships revolve around stuff they to together or at least next to each other...ppl get lazy as they get older tho so men lose their drive to do smth after work that requires extra effort while all women need is a place to sit and talk Edit: i also think many men just socialize to meet a woman, once they're done with that they stop doing it...idk why, im not a guy, but many men seem to not really like people in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 11:01 AM |
| 12 | Q4M: what does the average man and woman look like?Average 20 year old man https://c8.alamy.com/comp/TTMWXJ/smiling-20-year-old-man-stands-confidently-at-sunset-on-trail-TTMWXJ.jpg Average 30 year old man https://www.shutterstock.com/shutterstock/photos/1584500566/display_1500/stock-photo--years-old-guy-on-brick-wall-1584500566.jpg Average 40 year old man https://previews.123rf.com/images/lisafx/lisafx1003/lisafx100300127/6713354-portrait-of-a-friendly-average-forty-year-old-man.jpg?fj=1 Average 20 year old woman https://previews.123rf.com/image… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 10:59 AM |
| 7 | Is it ALSO a red flag if a man has had casual sex but never a relationship? So I'm wondering, what about a guy that has had sex but never been in a relationship because he never wanted one? Would women find that a turn off? depends on you, if i as a woman think i could easily replace you with a guy who's had relationships i wouldnt bother with you, if you are the greatest guy i ever met i prob would try to ignore it and give you a chance...if ur just a regular dude (idk, 6-8 in attractiveness, decent job etc) i would avoid you and find a similar guy with a diff dating… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 09:25 AM |
| 7 | Men have leverage, but it is not always as obvious... and a dark prediction for the futurebecausee women had no choice, harems were full of literal slaves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 08:15 AM |
| -1 | Men over-estimate their attractiveness?they're projecting their fears onto women ...most of the prejudice men here hold against women state are actually fears and thought processes they hold themselves and project onto women (i.e. being old and alone or overrating their looks, claiming women only care about looks (obsessing over height) when its actually men who care way more about a womens physique)...its interesting seeing what men in the pillosphetr have to say about dating and how they view relationships cause they way more vocal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Older child free men are rarely miserable.middle aged =/= old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 07:39 PM |
| 35 | Most men simply want women at or even slightly below their level of attractiveness, or just one who isn’t overweight. Most women feel entitled to men way more attractive than them and meet a whole laundry list of criteria. The whole “neckbeard wants supermodel” narrative is fictional projection.this comment made me laugh irl ...thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Older childfree women are rarely miserablenah its bc birth control exists and women have a choice now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 04:19 PM |
| 41 | "Alpha fucks, beta bucks" is now an obsolete strategy, which makes dating even harder for menOr its getting obsolete bc less women need a "beta bux" bc money is not an issue for them since they earn good money themselves good relationship > single > bad relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 04:14 PM |
| 6 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singleidk if its because my uncle is childless but i always found he treated me diff than people with children treated me (talking to me in "childspeak" and stuff like that), i always loved my childless uncle, he was cool and just treated me like a mini adult (basically like everyone else minus swearing, drinking and smoking, talked to me about taxes and politics at 12 and i LOVED it even tho i didnt understand shit, he tought me alot)...ii also always felt like i could tell him anything bc he didnt h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 01:40 PM |
| 14 | Older childfree women are rarely miserablebc they're projecting their own fears onto women, happens here quite alot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 01:19 PM |
| 27 | Older childfree women are rarely miserableThey have a menagerie of pets to "make up" for not having kids. im not disagreeing but the women with and the women without kids i know treat their pets like family. (a woman i know who basically has an animal shelter at home currently bc shes obsessed with saving animals is a mom btw) Only childless women get shunned for it tho, even tho id say MOST women childless or mothers treat their pets like "children"...and now that i think of it the men do it too...very few people in 2023 have pets for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 01:13 PM |
| 5 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singleim not a single guy, i just have eyes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:20 PM |
| 4 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singleidk why that matters but ok lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:10 PM |
| 4 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singleaccording to your comment history youre 41 and childless so yeah, pretty sure i know enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 12:05 PM |
| 8 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singleI don't understand why it's so surprising to some people. ii think its because people are "used to" what they see irl...so if you have an unmarried uncle or aunt or smth like that its not so alien that some people never marry, have children etc...but if you come from a family where there are no such cases and its always have been you, your parents and thats it...everything other than that life will come off as weird | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:39 AM |
| 6 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singlethats not true at all but its obviously what you want to belive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:37 AM |
| 9 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singleI know several attractive guys in their 40s who still don't have children and regularly date girls in their 20s im not saying they dont exist, they are a minority tho, men who want kids usually dont wait til they mid 40s to impregnate 20 year olds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:29 AM |
| 10 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singlenah, attractive guy that wants family won't commit to a 40yo woman, unless they already have kids the attractive single men (who wanted kids) in their 40's in her dating pool already had children and are divorced | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:09 AM |
| 7 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singlelonely & elderly in an attempt to combat the effects of people being alone as they age im from europe and we have that and id say its 70%+ old ladies, old men dont join such things, heck most old men dont even have friends the old ladies seem to do fine tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 11:08 AM |
| 16 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singleits mostly projection, men here project their own fears way to often onto women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:53 AM |
| 10 | Discussion : I’m starting to see the first wave of attractive hit forty voluntarily singleand what it means for men. alcohol abuse video games porn hookers depression suicide (thats not necessarily a new thing tho, go to small scrufy bars and look whos in it, its always 90% old single dudes and a waitress in her 50s) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 10:52 AM |
| 6 | Is the birth decline really only women's fault?if you ask older women who had lots of children, almost all of them tell you they didnt want that many (or none at all) but didnt have a choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 11:30 AM |
| 2 | "Does The Wall Exist?" Yes Lady, dating options change over time.Are there women, who don’t partner or don’t partner again after divorce/break up? Sure but not because they can’t find someone but because they don’t want to. i wholeheartly agree with you, its even more true if they are widows. Many divorced women also are open to dating and relaationships but refuse to ever live with a man again (because men are so much work) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 11:13 AM |
| 1 | "Does The Wall Exist?" Yes Lady, dating options change over time.Oh guys come on……I don’t even need to look any further than my own family. many families consist of women who have been married since forever i personally dont know how that is either since i grew up in a family more similar to yours, im just saying there are families where the sons and grandsons never seen women being single (let alone being single and older) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 11:12 AM |
| 2 | "Does The Wall Exist?" Yes Lady, dating options change over time.they prob dont have female relatives or friends/coworkers (many of them are in IT; very few older women in that field) and just know their mom, its prob worse if they have a dad that makes fun of the moms looks or smth like that (many such cases)... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 09:40 AM |
| 7 | "Does The Wall Exist?" Yes Lady, dating options change over time.people who insist on the wall existing and being disastrous for women prob dont have IRL examples like you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?if you read a bit through relationship advice for women (on the internet in general, not just reddit) alot of ppl advise and suggest praising your boyfriend/husband even for minor things (not just to get him to do that more often but over all to make the relationship better) because men need to feel and need to be praised for what they do...i guess its also a reason many men are very attachted to their moms, often times way more than girls to their dads, its bc moms praise their boys alot and me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 02:11 PM |
| 6 | Nightclubs are not the right place to meet womenidk one woman whos active in a hobby group whos under 50..idk where that "hobby group" advice came from but it always seemed weird to me...the women i know who have hobbies have stuff like, a garden, a horse or they knit or bake cakes or smth...none of them is in a group for that kind of stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:52 AM |
| 18 | Nightclubs are not the right place to meet womenit can have on one's psyche being called/considered a creep after every approach nothing worth having comes easy you either conquere your fear of what other people think of you or you're not approaching girls, thats your options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:45 AM |
| 33 | Nightclubs are not the right place to meet womenWhat can men do? stop giving a fuck and approaching women when and where they want to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 09:42 AM |
| – | DancingIt's maintaining her. its not your lack of dancing that drives girls away...also maybe stop dating out of your league and try finding a girl that fits your persona and lifestyle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 08:55 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?its definitly not, its a internet culture thing because most of the web is english speaking...but its interesting to think thhat in some countries ppl leave shit like that to the internet while in others its normal in every day life...like, i live in europe, im very aware many things i read on the internet are not a thing in my actual life i.e. women calling men daddy...its so outtaworldly that people actually do that that it would make me cringe if i hear it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?i think this is a country specific thing cause its def not a thing were im from (europe)...ive heard americans do it and some spanish speaking women like to call their men "papi"...but beside that, idk, i dont think its THAT common...at least not were i live (never heard anyone call their husbands or BFs something they would call their fathers) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?many want to feel/appear useful without doing too much for it, its like fat women who want to be called sexy and beautiful without putting in the work people are lazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 08:48 AM |
| – | DancingAnd it annoys the hell out of me that not dancing can be reason enough to not land the girl or to get a very annoyed girlfriend. try to find a different circle, tons of men get girlfriends without dancing, i personally dont even like guys who dance (i think it looks funny, even if they are good dancers, exceptions are couple dances like waltz or smth)...you're overestimating how much this matters honestly like...im not a metalhead but do you think these MF's dance? hell no, same goes for TONS of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 08:42 AM |
| – | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manExcept we do! some do...many dont | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 06:20 PM |
| – | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manAs someone who is from third world country. Its common knowledge. Earn in a western country and spend in your hometown. Yes, there is poverty, lack of healthcare, safety issues but if you have money none of these issues affect you. then why arent you people leaving once you made enough money? i hardly see people going back, all they do is bring their family here, all immigrants i ask dont want to go back, especially not the women..ive nothing against that btw, we need immigration, the more the m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:14 AM |
| – | CMV: In nearly every metric we can measure in the west, the average woman is outperforming the average manOne solution is to make money and build a life in the west and then find love and create a family in a non westernized country thats an option for men, for women well...they prob wont accept the way they treated in non western countries once they had a taste of western lifestyle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 07:12 AM |
| 2 | Women should be a compliment to a man's life, not the focusits not my dating strategy, im just saying these people/couples exist and for some of them its working | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Hypothetical scenario: You have to make the first move. Namely, verbal move (or an explicitly romantic physical move). How/what would you do?well...then you have your answer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Hypothetical scenario: You have to make the first move. Namely, verbal move (or an explicitly romantic physical move). How/what would you do?well...its so unrealistic that i cant imagine it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetical scenario: You have to make the first move. Namely, verbal move (or an explicitly romantic physical move). How/what would you do?thats very unlikely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Hypothetical scenario: You have to make the first move. Namely, verbal move (or an explicitly romantic physical move). How/what would you do?Imagine if no signs or IOI's worked in getting a man interested in you. No playing with your hair, or smirking, or eye contact would work. if nothing works i just give up and look for another guy who gets my IOIs, if a guy doesnt get a single hint, chances are high he's just not interested | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Women should be a compliment to a man's life, not the focusyou clearly never seen two codependant people in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 02:05 PM |
| 2 | As women earn higher income, they want an equal or higher earning partner. But as men earn higher, they want a more attractive partner. This will make women more and more single overtime.Like are you ok / fine if he makes less than you ? if you make lots of money as a woman..."less" can still be a pretty decent amount of money, if he has other qualities too even better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 12:32 PM |
| 3 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womennot all kids support their parents, check out the book/movie "we need to talk about kevin"...and i know thats an extreme case but many kids move aboroad, many dont actually like their parents (or vice versa) or treat them badly, many just want the parents money etc...im not saying these are good reasons to not have kids...i just think both extremes ("my kids will be forever with me" vs "kids will abandon you") are delusional, having kids is a risk (even bigger for the woman) and it can turn out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 12:08 PM |
| 0 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womendepends on the situation, if you die age 35 in a car crash and ur dead instantly you def miss out on the bad later years of life without suffering something equal beforhand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Women should be a compliment to a man's life, not the focusWomen who are into being mommies for their partners are way fewer than older/more mature men who are playing as daddies for their gf's. they do exist tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Women should be a compliment to a man's life, not the focusyou just have to decide whats more important /easier to achieve imo...is it easier to find a codependant woman, or is it easier to change what im attracted too...id say for many men its easier to find a codependant woman than to change themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 09:49 AM |
| 9 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenLiving longer is a pretty good benefit. life is not that great after id say 80 ...not a huge flex to live til your 95 honestly...ive seen very few ppl enjoying their life at that point...being old sucks even if you're healthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 09:46 AM |
| 7 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenand are super lonely because their kids are adults now with kids of their own and don't have time to see or call grandma every day being alone in old age as a childless person might suck, but being old and alone even tho you have a huge family sounds worse (and visits once every couple of month would NEVER make up for feeling rejected and "left alone" by your own children) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 09:43 AM |
| 11 | There are no benefits to having kids as a womenThat said, a lot of men I date/know seem to really want to have a kid with me and it's funny because I joke that they're the ones with that desire more than me... id want a child too if i was a guy, not just one, a couple...working and earning money is hella easy, being pregnant and risking your health and all that stuff is scary tho...i personally think the only reason birthrates are dorpping is because women are now able to prevent unwanted pregnancies, imo most women dont want to bear alot of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 09:40 AM |
| 7 | Women should be a compliment to a man's life, not the focusTons of people (men and women) are codependant and would be happy in relationships with other codependant people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Men don't actually love women, especially when sex isn't involved.also if you find a person who truly loves conditionless, that person would love everyone (speaking of a hypothetical extren that isnt realistic) and the love of said person isnt worth shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:44 PM |
| 0 | How to avoid being 'boring' to ladies?maybe you simply enjoy the company of boring people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 01:55 PM |
| 3 | How to avoid being 'boring' to ladies?One of the most interesting people I know is what you’d call “boring” i mean, you're autistic...not many ppl would find a person with not a single interesting thought whos not interested in anything "exciting" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Is a man's height only important nowadays because of social media and dating apps?What I don’t get is why can women be insecure about their bodies and plaster it all over social media etc but when a short guy displays ANY doubt about his height it’s “ee so unattractive when a short guy is insecure about their height” because men LOVE insecure women while women HATE insecure men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 09:48 AM |
| 6 | How to avoid being 'boring' to ladies?The problem is, boring is subjective people always say that but imo its not very subjectiv, boring ppl know they are boring and they are boring to 99% of ppl, the only ppl who can tolerate them are equally boring ppl like, a guy whos very into DnD is not my type of guy but i can see that he has a passion and isnt boring, same goes for i.e. horse women...def not my type of woman but i can see that they arent boring...then there are ppl with no interests, no hobbies, no interesting thoughts etc...… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 09:45 AM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractivemany men have baby rabies too in their 30s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Society right now has a serious masculinity crisis, but not the one you think: I believe the real culture war is productive masculinity vs performative masculinity and this is probably where the red pill theory of last guys finishing last comes fromisnt that quote from game of thrones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | The men are better looking at pool parties than womensome guys yeah...not the majority tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/23 07:28 AM |
| 6 | The men are better looking at pool parties than womenbecause gen z is not that old yet...oldest zoomer is 26 while the oldest millenial is early 40...for a fair comparison in terms of hairloss you have to wait at least til the oldest zoomers hit their 30s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/23 10:03 PM |
| 3 | You Can’t Truly Love Your Partner If Height Is A Dealbreakeryour wives a lucky woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsno, you need HRT, couple of surgeries and a good wig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 01:47 PM |
| 4 | You Can’t Truly Love Your Partner If Height Is A Dealbreakernothing changed (brainwise, she also still has a human face), just her body ...like this https://www.the-sun.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/6/2022/11/heidi-klums-21st-annual-halloween-772125036.jpg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 01:46 PM |
| 2 | The girlfriend role is superior - Men should try to become girlfriendsIn my opinion, being the girlfriend is superior to being the boyfriend in every way. Imagine being asked out, taken out, being paid for on dates, being more likely to be perceived as the innocent one during conflicts, being able to open up emotionally, ugly crying while still being perceived as cute, not having the same financial burden on you, feeling protected, being the more passive one during sex, getting most of the compliments, being the passenger seat princess, while having almost no risk… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 01:29 PM |
| 19 | You Can’t Truly Love Your Partner If Height Is A Dealbreakerbut would you love her if she was a worm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?need men for what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?They all think they deserve a Henry Cavill type of men to settle down for them i dont think women actually think "i deserve XY"...they just think, "if i cant have what i want i dont want anything" and stay single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:14 AM |
| -2 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?One per day. Insanity. if you lower ur standards you can do that too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:12 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?afterwards. after what? if they were content with being single in their 20s and 30s what makes you think they suddelny dont like being single in their 40s and 50s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:10 AM |
| 14 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?But they can't be happy with a good dude because he's not the X5 Chad. because having a man is alot of work compared to a car or smth else, every woman who ever lived with a man is prob aware what that implies and is not willing to put in for a guy she doesnt even want to look at let alone have sex with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?The modern era certainly has changed who women find attractive more options = pickier women (OLD changed the game forever) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 10:16 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?If these women genuinely found peace with that, I think they'd find regular men more attractive. thats not how attraction works, if it would work like that women wouldnt stay single and just get with the guy whos available...they usually dont do that unless they want a family or smth else As a man, I can want Kendall Jenner all I want, it doesn't mean I was actually ever on her level. yeah, men choose shitty relationships with women they dont actually like over singledom all the time, women dont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: If “settling” is bad, why should women “lower their standards” and “be less selective/picky”?I don't think it's as much about "lowering their standards" as it is understanding who is a realistic match for you. but wouldnt that make guys "beta buxxes"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?But the some of you that realize this really seem to take a certain glee in knowing this. well...its prob hard to not be smug if you read incel and sexist stuff on the internet every once in a while | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?and if my aunt had a dick she would be my uncle... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 06:30 AM |
| 2 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?Since when did straight edge mean veganism? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straight_edge The straight edge subculture emerged amid the early-1980s hardcore punk scene. Since then, a wide variety of beliefs and ideas have been associated with the movement, including vegetarianism and animal rights.[5]_130-40-5)[6] While the commonly expressed aspects of the straight edge subculture have been abstinence from alcohol, nicotine, and illegal drugs, there have been considerable variations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:36 PM |
| 0 | CMV : Plenty of average looking young men are not in relationships, young women just perceive above average men with women as averagethis is about discussing reality. reality is men dont decide whats average and whats attractive when it comes to looks, women do..or well, men sure can decide whats average and what is not, it just doesnt matter tho also if we talk about "objectivly average" the guy would prob be between 35-45 agewise, 5'9 ft and has around 100 kg, we all know thats not what men talk about when talking about "the average guy"...so what the hell are you all even mean with average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:24 PM |
| 4 | CMV : Plenty of average looking young men are not in relationships, young women just perceive above average men with women as averageso basically, what you perceive as average is not average/above average for women...thats fine and all, but why does it matter? you're the one selling the product and want to attract buyers, ofc the seller is convinced by the quality of the product, it just doesnt matter if nobody wants to buy his shit tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:52 AM |
| -1 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'OP's point is that a lot of the time, the guys who get laid a lot are genuine misogynists and view women as inferior beings whose only purpose is to be used as cum dumpsters. how would women know this if these guys dont talk like that infront of women tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'and that it has nothing to do with his height or looks idk with whom you talk but i hear ppl say looks being the issue (with height being the no 1 issue) 8/10n times, after looks on sec place is "lack of social skills" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'The common theme when a guy is unsuccessful with women is to shame him as a misogynist actually, i see more ppl claiming hes prob ugly...like, WAY MORE often | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:45 AM |
| 24 | Men who have sex with a lot of women are usually even more misogynistic than 'nice guys'that women in the real world don't really care so you complain women arent pissed about the shit men say in private where they cant hear them? obv these guys behave differently when women are present | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 11:22 AM |
| 2 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?Male social intelligence is the ability to rise to the top of the dominance hierarchy. exactly...men need to be able to socialize as well ...it just seems ppl often equate "being social" with "being social the way women are social with each other" which is very odd...i assume ppl who do that never seen their dads or brothers or other men in general having friends and socialising in male groups...if you look at all boys environments its not the autistic introvert whos on top of the hirarchy, its … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?doesnt make him fuckable tho which is the core problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?all incels, autists & basement dwellers will be happy to hear that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:37 AM |
| 2 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?they wont | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:28 AM |
| 3 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?thats alot of words for saying "men have lower standards for women than women have for men" it wont change tho, like, ever...men simply arent that picky bc they hornier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?Masculine men are not well socialised 😂 id say not being "well socialised" is more of an unmasculine men problem...incelish, autistic gamer guys arent socially intelligent at all while many outgoing men who are precevied as masculine are very good at talking and interacting with people...i actually would say being socially intelligent is a core trait needed to be precieved as "masculine"...and i dont even men being extra extrovertd but knowing how to behave in different social situations...its h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:21 AM |
| 2 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?from an evolutionary POV its very imporant that men and women behave like that, i get that it must be frustrating for boring men tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 10:13 AM |
| 7 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?the thing is, women dont need to provide much beside looks (whcih often times just means not being fat) and a somewhat nice personality...men mostly dont demand that much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:46 AM |
| 12 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?yeah...mens provider role never went away, women now want men to provide different things tho... we can get food and shelter ourselves, now we need men to provide excitement and validation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:41 AM |
| 5 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?That is exciting enough for most. For women, it doesn't work that way. yeah and i think many men cant grasp this bc they cant grasp the fact that what they find attractive does not work vice versa for women...women have this problem too obviously...its basically a "men are from mars women are from venus issue" "If i dont care if that hot blond chick is entertaining, why do I have to be entertaining?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?Increased cost of living has made being a provider you get the provider role wrong...women still want men to provide, they just want men to provide different things ...in former days it was "food and shelter", now that women can take care of that themselves they want "excitement and validation" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:36 AM |
| 13 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?the thing is, most men dont care if women are boring, many men are totally satisfied with a woman whos boring but attractive to them (id even go as far as saying men prefer boring women)...like, only because women want excting men doesnt mean men have the same standards for women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?"I thought after we got married, you would stop playing video games." yeah thats my point, hobbies like gaming (especially gamging actually) dont make you more attractive to a woman (except for the few pro gamers who actually make bank prob) while other hobbies do...if your an overall good husband ofc a woman will tolerate occasional gamging, doesnt mean she thinks its hot tho (wich other hobbies def can be) i dont think young men should spend considerable amounts of their free time gaming, a co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 09:22 AM |
| 6 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?thats not even related to what straight edge means straight edge besically means no drugs, no alcohol, no cigs, being vegan & no promiscuity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:57 AM |
| 3 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?I'm sure most women here would agree that they find the fact that a man has a passion for anything no matter what it is i agree to about 99% but ive seen many dudes really having a passion for gaming (they addicted basically) and no woman finds that attractive...i personally think women especially love men who are passionate about something outside of her direct sphere of influence i.e. the garage or smth...i mean its just a gut feeling but the women i know who adore their men the most have men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:54 AM |
| 5 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?Straight edge was a part of the punk subculture and men in these subcultures did fine dating wise bc its way easier to date in a small niche environment; also i met a couple straight edge dudes when i was younger and even tho they were not appealling to me they def were not boring...not possible anymore btw, the internet and social media ruined that for good...everything is just an "aesthetic" now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?look at ppl you find interesting and try to find out what makes them interesting to you, then do what they do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Genuine question: Do you think in today's society, do men have more or less social ability to get away with being boring, vanilla or ''straight-edge''?Men have never been able to get away with being "boring" they prob did in extreme situations i.e. after a war when there were significantly less men left but i agree, under normal conditions, boring men never had it easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:44 AM |
| 13 | Would you rather have sex with a fat 20yr old or a fit 50 yr old?agreed, most fit women around that age i see look more like this (imo OP posted literal bodybuilders and i dont think very low body fat in women is healthy; you have to have seriously low BF to get a sixpack) https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4430444/We-proof-woman-bikini-body-50.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Men do care about a women's careerUnlike women a where a man's career can increase his attractiveness it doesn't increase a man's attraction to a woman. then why are there more erotic job costumes for women i.e. sexy police officer, sexy nurse, sexy construction worker etc...never seen that shit for men, im genuinly asking btw...im really wondering why that is if men dont care about womens jobs.. also, what a person does for a living says alot about that persons personality, its not like a job is a random thing ppl choose, it sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 07:34 AM |
| – | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manIt’s like women saying they’re not “submissive” and won’t fix a man a sandwich but they’ll get down on their knees and suck and fuck whenever he wants. That’s actually MORE submissive than fixing a damn sandwich lmao get help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 01:04 PM |
| – | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manyou cant grasp the fact that many women laugh at them behind their backs eh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manWhen I say on her radar, I'm more or less saying she's putting you in a box in her mind. yeah i put these guys in a box...in the same box i put the sloppy drunk guys...the "avoid at all costs" box...many women do, you only notice the ones that arent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manEh tbh if a woman calls someone a fuckboy that pretty much means you're somewhat on her radar. being "on her radar" is not necessarily a good thing tho, the sloppy drunk guy who gets touchy after 3 drinks is on womens radar too...so they can avoid him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 12:00 PM |
| – | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a mani know one fuckboy in his 30s that used to slide into DMs of a couple friends/acquaintance and they all exchanged screenshots and made fun of him, one even thought about sending the vids of him wanking to his company, none of them fucked him btw | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever seen or experienced a relationship that broke multiple TRP rules and still managed to be fulfilling and sexual ?I’ve never been unattracted to him because of this I tried to comfort him and felt sorry for him. i dont think trp claims men are NEVER allowed to cry, from what ive seen even redpillers always say the not crying rule only counts for minor things, not a parents death | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 09:46 AM |
| 2 | A question about Beta Buxing and marriage in former daysthey stayed bc they didnt have a choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:59 AM |
| 1 | A question about Beta Buxing and marriage in former daysbut what if you're ugly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:57 AM |
| 1 | A question about Beta Buxing and marriage in former daysin the past women did not ride the cock carousel and then only settle for a guy why do you think they didnt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.lol no they arent, they crumble bc the quality sucks, dafuq are you talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 05:54 AM |
| 3 | A question about Beta Buxing and marriage in former daysfor many men respect = obedience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:26 PM |
| 1 | A question about Beta Buxing and marriage in former daysi think thats just your personal definition | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 01:18 PM |
| 2 | A question about Beta Buxing and marriage in former daysif redpill men dont want to be desired for their ability to provide, what do they want to be desired for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 10:25 AM |
| 3 | A question about Beta Buxing and marriage in former daysPerhaps some men would be happy with that. many men in former days got that kind of deal and many redpillers use numbers and statistics of these former days to make a point about divorce, children, women being more nurturing etc if unattractive men cant find women who desire them sexually but also dont want to be desired for their provider qualities, what are they hoping to find? What do they want to be desired for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 10:09 AM |
| 2 | A question about Beta Buxing and marriage in former daysFor beta buxing (BB), the man would actually have to be a beta. Being a provider doesn't mean you are one. oh i agree being a provider is a great thing and a very respectable and important position in the family, it just seems redpilled men dont want to be desired by women for being a good provider | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 10:04 AM |
| 2 | A question about Beta Buxing and marriage in former daysThe path to getting what you want, if you are not naturally gifted, is difficult whether it be learning seduction or game, i mean, wouldnt it be easier if these men would give up on wanting to be sexually desired but accept that they are desired for other things, especially considering that men in former days seemed fine with that arrangement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 10:03 AM |
| 4 | A question about Beta Buxing and marriage in former daysThe more classic red pillers look at how sexual dynamics work, accept reality for what it is and themselves for who they are, and forge the best life they can for themselves on their own terms. assuming thats the case there must be some redpillers who accept that they are "betas" who are desirable for women because they "provide" something and who came to the conclusion that the best deal they could make would be a woman who appreciates their effort and is caring and nurturuing (regardless of we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.just google "ghost cities" in china, this isnt a problem of land being finite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:35 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.Except that statistically you probably are more repulsive than your father (or mother). In 1960 the rates of obese and overweight (which includes the obese group) folks were 10% and 20%, respectively, in the US. Today those numbers are 40% and 70% (!), respectively. So, the average person in the US today is considerably more repulsive than the average person was in 1960. statistically your father was also stronger and had higher T-Levels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:32 AM |
| 6 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.its not like every man got a wife in former days either but they also didnt have reddit to let the world know they pissed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:17 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.It also means that there's a sizable amount of angry and lonely people that society has to deal with im pretty sure people were lonely and angry too, there just wasnt a way to express it the way it is now same with elvis marrying a 14 year old and many ppl claim it was normal back then...it wasnt fucking normal back then either but ppl didnt have social media to let the world know what they think about it, all they could do was ranting to their neighbours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:16 AM |
| 3 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.Then sex crimes go through the roof. porn, video games, drug addiction, prositutes and suicide will prevent that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 09:11 AM |
| 1 | CMV : Your parents could mostly buy houses easily, you can’t. Your parents found partners and had families, you can’t. It’s normal.We just acting like TV, video games, and computers didn't also exist back in the 80s? The internet was also a thing in many households by the mid-90s. they did but you didnt have them with you 24/7 and the internet back then was very different (nobody uploaded pictures or videos) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:27 AM |
| 10 | Let's swap the sexes in the debate over going out to nightclubs/bars alone if you're taken.and sexparties you lost me here...open relationships cannot be taken seriously | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 10:27 AM |
| 8 | Stop trying to save menI don’t even know who Andrew Tate is lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 08:47 AM |
| – | I do not wish to date anymoremaybe she just wanted to do smth and was bored at home...then smth better came up and she ditched you for another thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:09 AM |
| 2 | 30+ year old women can be just as attractive as a 21 year oldyoga doesnt make/keep you fit/skinny and aerobics/dancing arent that popular among women...sure some do it but not many | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 08:47 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?you can feel an "instant spark" with a guy whos not 6 ft, not rich, etc...spark isnt dependant on that...the individual woman has to find him attractive tho and i wouldnt advise women to date men they're not physically attracted to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 08:12 AM |
| 1 | About mothers and wives/girlfriendsthats not what i asked....i asked about men who had great mothers themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | About mothers and wives/girlfriendsAlmost impossible. can you please elaborate on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 02:22 PM |
| 2 | About mothers and wives/girlfriendsAre my standards too high or too much?!🥲🥲 hmmm...i think the woman you're describing has options so it depends on if and how much better you are compared to her other options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | About mothers and wives/girlfriendsYes and no. I have lots of standards (not unreasonable but lot of them). can you elaborate on those standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:43 PM |
| 2 | About mothers and wives/girlfriendsYes, but won't/may not be in one soon. why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | About mothers and wives/girlfriendsYes. It took some years of changing every single aspect of myself and my life and a lot of vetting. A lot. what aspects of you have you had to change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/23 01:32 PM |
| 18 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreethere's always one NLOG who thinks (s)he needs to mention that (s)hes different...as if we dont know this doesnt apply to all men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 08:33 AM |
| 1 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?Nothing...i see them daily, they out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:29 PM |
| – | The struggles of ugly women are dismissed. Try to debate that.Fat does not mean ugly. kinda does tbh, just like at a certain age "old" means ugly (talking about really old folks tho like idk 80)...iit doesnt mean ugly, but it does mean "unfuckable" for most ppl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:20 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Would you rather date a woman that has had a long term relationship with lots of sex or a woman who has had a handful of short term relationships with not much sex?Since when did people start caring about how much sex a women has in a relationship? The sub (and the redpill) exists since quite some time, ppl run out of topics, thats when posts like this come up, after the "age gap discussion" (befor that the main topic was "the wall") i wonder what the next big topic will be, prob the "downfall of the redpill" or the "mainstreamification of the redpill" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 11:23 AM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?Status is mostly dependant on ur social environment...if ur the TopWizard of some DnD club ur on top of the social pyramid but i personally as a woman whos not into DnD couldnt care less about it...so, it will mostly depend on your environment, just like it is now... "universal status" like i.e. film stars have it are a diff topic but most ppl dont ever get to that level of success so i dont see much reason talking about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 09:37 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?But the intelligence and work ethic required to get a degree and career in trains is valuable to women. yes...his money! tons of old rich guys out there with hot young women...you think a hot mid 20s women is actually interested in an old 50 year old rich men? Its his money...his ability to create wealth...how he does that doesnt matter to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:52 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Half your age plus seven should be implemented to protect young adults from old peoplemany of them are, doenst mean we need a law to prohibit that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Half your age plus seven should be implemented to protect young adults from old peoplebut what do they need protection from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:27 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Half your age plus seven should be implemented to protect young adults from old peoplemandatory pet ownership for 50+ year old ppl could solve this problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 12:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV : “Looks don’t matter” is not a common theme in culture. It’s the opposite.Ppl really need to learn that the world and ppl dont owe them ANYTHING, not even truth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 12:24 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Half your age plus seven should be implemented to protect young adults from old peoplereddit blows it out of proportion, irl not that many ppl care and even the ones that do care judge you for hot 5 minutes until they go on with their day. Ppl really need to stop needing THAT much valdiation from strangers irl and on the internet for personal life decisions...this is ridiculous...even if ppl judge you, so what? Let them judge ...if you make unusual life choices you'll get judged...if you dont want to be judged you have to conform to the status quo...thats the rules, always have b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 12:22 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Half your age plus seven should be implemented to protect young adults from old peopleprotection from what exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 12:21 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?your comparison is idiotic BUT many euro countrys have laws that force companies to do so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 12:13 PM |
| 20 | CMV: Half your age plus seven should be implemented to protect young adults from old peopleMy issue with that is that the age gap is way too huge, so implementing half your age plus seven will protect these young people from old adults since it makes it illegal to date people who are younger than allowed. "protect them" from what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 12:10 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?but how the person is answering tells you alot about the values of said person and what they deem important | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 12:02 PM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?*smth more to offer to women if ur an expert on trains and make alot of money out of it ur knowledge is essential for gaining money, ur knowleege about trains isnt essential to women tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Thought Experiment and Question: how much of "enforced monogamy" is actually just "enforced heterosexuality"? How many relationships would exist if genuine romance was the only thing to create them?Most bi people end up forming long term relationships with members of the opposite sex. really, id have thought most bi men are actually just gay...from what ive seen, no matter what gender you are, if you love dick and vag, you normally prefer the D over the V | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 10:51 AM |
| – | CMV: Most men should pursue casual sex, not serial monogamy.TLDR: Casual sex offers men several benefits, including freedom from commitment i dont hear many men complain they cant fuck a diff woman every day, i do hear them complain about not finding relationships...maybe you overestimate how many men dont want comittment, cause from what ive seen and experienced, plenty of guys of all ages would love to have a loving relationship also, bc you mention reduced heartbreak, men catch feelingns frorm ONS too you know...men get played too, men get ghosted and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 10:46 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?When I think about all this being a loner isn't so bad after all. i think in former days (befor the internet exist) ppl had a bigger purpose for each other, nowadays you socialize on the internet and dont feel the need to go out, i saw it with my younger sibling, she didnt go out anymore bc discord + gaming was her substitute and it was just easier...i get it, i get ur point, i just dont think its good (objectivly speaking, maybe for you its better than spending time with actual ppl) but sometim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 10:42 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?well...then that shows you what this person values (which imo tells you very much about said person), i would answer this question differently tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 09:37 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?no | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 09:04 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?if you cant see my point just ignore my comment ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:55 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?you cant really seperate a personality trait and a service since the latter normally stems from the personality traits a person has. a women with a caring personality will provide stuff for her man i.e. bringing him snacks now and then...her personality is directly correlated to "what shes offering"...same with being humerous/entertaining...having a funny personality will lead to "entertaining ur partner in the relationship" which could be viewed as a "service someone provides" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:54 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?if having a sense of humor and the ability to take good care of another person are "nothing" ok...i disagree tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:49 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?Some of these girls are borderline retarded, and yet they have men showering them with money and validation. some men have not more to offer than their money, i unironically think vapid pretty women and vapid rich men are perfect for each other bc they are the ying to their yang | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:32 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?It is character traits these are the "things you bring to the table" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:24 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?again, if you feel that connectiono randomly without it being tied to certain traits of that person good for you, most ppl dont work like that tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:23 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?It’s not normal to ask someone, “Will I find you funny?” no but its normal to state " i want a man who makes me laugh" or "i want a caring woman who i can see will be good mother" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:23 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?No it’s not. It’s about what they create together not what each “brings to the table”. if thats all it takes to be loved by you fine, most ppl require more from their partners tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:05 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?When two people love each other it brings positive, fuzzy, euphoric feelings. That’s what they hopefully both “bring to the table” for one another. that feeling is tied to something that person provides tho i.e. being funny...you dont get that fuzzy feeling for random ppl, you get it for specific ppl doing specific things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:01 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?Original comment said it makes it seem like a "business transaction" and i statet that there are more things someone can bring to the table beside hard physical things (i assume the original commenter was refering to money or other physical goods when mentioning "business transactions", ofc my assumption could be wrong) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:00 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?thats IMO also why many ppl cant appreciate the love they get and treat their "great loving partners" like trash (i.e. loser husband who treats his wife shitty even tho she does EVERYTHING for him), you can only appreciate what is "earned" (and im not talking about making millions or being a superstar or anything but that ur partner holds you accountable that you do your fair share) ...if you're a homeless drug dealer who lies and steals and is dishonest with everyone and you're still loved by y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:57 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?We all bring something different to the table. and whats wrong with knowing and verbalizing these things? Whats wrong with a woman being a great cook knowing that she is exactly that, and whats wrong with proudly saying that? Whats wrong with a man knowing that hes great at keeping a house intact or fixing your car and being proud of that ability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:49 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?thats just your personal assumption, I wouldnt assume that if i was being asked... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:47 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?if we put money and looks aside ur partner still provides SOMETHING (just as yourr friends and family)...what are these things? Do you enjoy that ur husband/wife is funny, well, thats something they bring to the table, do you like that ur wife/husband is way more organized than you, well, thats smth they bring to the table too...if someone has NO TRAIT you appreciate, what seperates them from literally everyone else? wouldnt that mean you could love literally ANYONE? and wouldnt that make having… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:39 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?i think people who know their strenghts and weaknesses and are secure in their abilities wont be offended by a question like this... its ppl who feel they dont have anything to offer (not saying they really dont have anyhting to offer, most ppl have something to offer) and ppl who only think about what a partner can provide physically are offended with this question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:36 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?also i think most ppl tend to jump to quickly to the assumption that its always about what you can offer "physially" i.e. money or being hot when in fact there are so many traits someone can brirng to the table i.e. being good at organizing things, being funny, being able to make reasonable decisions, being a caring person etc...there are TONS of traits someone can bring to the table...but all ppl think about is materialistic physical things...i think the question is legit if understood and answ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:34 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?Friendship =/= relationship. For a friendship it's natural that the only requirement is just to be a cool and interesting person to be around or whatever. thats not the only requirements friendships require, at least not for all ppl...some ppl may have friendships llike that but most ppl expect more from their friends beside "being nice"...if "being nice and interesting" was enough everyone could be ur friend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:30 AM |
| – | Why is the question, "What do you bring to the table?" so offensive to some?but then why do you love someone? (because there must be a reason why you love YOUR wife/husband and not every woman/man out there) If its not certain chararcter traits or smth else they provide that nobody else provides that makes you drawn to them. If you dont care at all you could basically fall in love with random ppl 24/7 since you dont care about ANYTHING the other person can provide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 07:19 AM |
| 5 | What is your age and what age do you find most physically attractive in women?me thinking: stop judging the old guys who call themswlves chad with 22 year old GF, they could be a high value husband material men I had a threesome with her and another girl her age on Monday and i will meet with a hot 19yo next weekend for sex. nevermind... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 07:40 AM |
| 3 | Now that we live in an era where women work and make their own money, why is a man's money/career still so important for women?Bc it was always more about status than actual income | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 03:15 PM |
| 1 | From my observation, the standard of beauty for men is a lot higher than the standard of beauty for women.never met a short woman who struggles bc she's short | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 08:38 AM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?no whats a normal day in her life like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 05:22 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?she doesnt do chores and stuff like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:05 PM |
| 0 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?i didnt ask if shes happy...i asked what you think an average week(end) in her life looks like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:03 PM |
| 0 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?i agree...thats why i think its odd when one makes claims like "without a family you cant be happy" when its very different for each individual | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?so you agree that there are ppl who can be happy without a family | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?im just saying there are tons of ppl out there without families for various reasons i.e. nuns/monks...i just think its weird to assume these ppl are automatically unhappy just bc they chose a diff lifepath | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:52 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?True happiness comes from relationships and memories. You miss out on some of the pleasurable relationships and memories when you don't have a family. Just like if you never made any friends and just stuck to your family. so ppl without families can never be happy? so i.e. no monk or nun is ever truly happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:50 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?OP an alien who doesn't understand what ppl do in their homes lol i do understand that but i want to know what men think women do all day when they single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:44 PM |
| 0 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?why is me asking what men think a day in a womans life looks like a weird post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:44 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?i didnt claim theres an issue, i asked what men here think an average week in this womans life looks like | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?i didnt ask about her happiness...i asked about her schedule...what do you think does a average week(end) in this womans life look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?thanks for answering, yeah that sounds pretty accurate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?thanks for answering :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:17 PM |
| 2 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?you didnt answer my first nor my second question...i asked how an average day in the life of an average middle aged woman look like, since you couldnt answer that i thought i ask what an average day of a young woman look like, you didnt answer that either. I didnt ask whether shes happy or not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:16 PM |
| 3 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?thanks for answering :) also... ur life sounds lovely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?then why do you answer to this post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?Thanks for answering :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?At this rate. She’ll never be able to retire. So I don’t know. Probably depressing at 70? whats her life currently? How does a regular day in her life look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?other men here were able to estimate it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:10 PM |
| 6 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?All middle aged working women i know start around 07:00 and work til 15:00 or smth (idk one single person who works 12 h per day regularly, 8 h is whats normal) but i live in Europe ...the rest is accurate imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:09 PM |
| 2 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?thanks for answering :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?ok what do you think younger women do all day? like, what does an average week of a younger woman with a job looks like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?Hey stereotypes exist for a reason, tons of women prob have the hobbies you think are stereotypical womens hobbies ;) Ur spot on when it comes to yoga, piliates and hiking i.e. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?but what do you think older women do all day? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:38 PM |
| 2 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?BC i want to know what men think women do, i am a woman, i know what women do...i want to know what ppl of the opposit sex think i do | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:37 PM |
| 0 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?This description matches me and a ton of women I know, and our day-to-day lives are all different. Ok can you give an example of one of the women you know? Ppl arnt that different imo, they go oto work 6-10 hours a day, they have to eat, they have to clean etc...most stuff is pretty similar average life of average ppl aint that complex that you cant summerize it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?Can you elaborate on what you think an average week(end) of said woman looks like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:27 PM |
| 2 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?thanks for answering :) Can you give examples what her hobbies are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:26 PM |
| 0 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?My Question isnt about happiness, i want to know what guys here think a week in an average older womans life looks like So, what do you think does one week(end) in an average older womans life look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:25 PM |
| 0 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?So what does ur mom do all day? how does her life look like? Can you describe an average weekend of ur mom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:18 PM |
| 3 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?i want to know what men think her week looks like (like, she gets to work, then she gets home and does what? what does she do on the weekend? when does she get up, when does she go to bed? does she cook? etc) not if shes happy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:17 PM |
| 1 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?Ppl might be complex but most average lives of working ppl look pretty similar, at least from what i hear from what coworkers do on weekends and stuff...everythings pretty similar | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:16 PM |
| 3 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?I just want to know what men here think the average life of an average older woman looks like how is this bait? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:11 PM |
| 2 | How is the life of this 45-year-old woman according to you?what do you think does the everyday life of a 45 year old woman look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Would you date an Onlyfans model or a woman in the Sex work industry?One woman said the day she mentioned turning 27 on cam and someone commented referring to as a 'milf' she considered the game was up. why did that made you break up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 10:28 AM |
| 0 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?seeing young ppl struggling and complaining i dont even know how much harder it actually is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 10:12 AM |
| 3 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?why do you assume more older women want relationships than older man? From what ive noticed its mostly the other way around...men are way lonelier than women especially in old age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 10:11 AM |
| 2 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?its bc men cant imagine not being driven by sex, i dont even mean that in a snarky way, they literally cant bc they full of Testosterone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 10:04 AM |
| 9 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?its a revenge fantasy that isnt based in reality, all ppl who know a bunch of 50+ ppl know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?Yeah fair, i didn't see the 'pump and dump' bit (still can't?), huh, me neither, thought it was in the Post, maybe i misread it or OP changed the original post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Would you date an Onlyfans model or a woman in the Sex work industry?why did the relationships end? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 09:56 AM |
| 3 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?OP didnt talk about committment, OP said men wont pump and dump women once they hit mid 40s...and thats clearly not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 09:17 AM |
| 7 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?even if ur uncomfortable being single chances are high ur even more uncomfortable being with a person you dont like its not always happy vs unhappy...sometimes its being unhappy vs miserabl, a person can be unhappy about her single status but still know they'd be WAY MORE miserable with an incompatible partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 09:16 AM |
| 10 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?i dont get why ppl cant comprehend that being with noone is better than being with someone you dont like/find attractive (no matter whether ur male or female) becauses thats how 99% of ppl i interact with and who are single feel (no matter what age or gender)...nobody wants to be with someone just to have someone, never met a person who settled bc they were desperate...even tho some ppl here claim settling down happens all the time, i dont see it Edit: If id be single and feel unbearably lonely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 09:10 AM |
| 12 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?why do you assume there are that many men who desperatly want to get married? From what i see kids and marriage arent the top priority for younger women AND men...tons of guys are fine being single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 09:00 AM |
| 5 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?If you take my mom as an example, she dated a guy about 7 years ago, by that time i was mid 20s living my own life...you think the guy cared my mom had an adult child? Children dont stay toddlers forever.... Edit: She always dated guys who were fathers themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 08:20 AM |
| 5 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?i know alot of 35+ year old woman and you trust me thats 100% not true...its just a revenge fantasy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?Do y’all think there will just be a bunch of 40 year old women in thefuture who are single and still sleeping around? Or do you think theywill eventually hit the wall and have to settle with their true level (no more chads from tinder for the average female)????? the women who want children will settle in their late 20s to mid 30s (and then get divorced in their late 30s mid 40s), the ones who dont want kids will stay single til they find a guy who meets their standards (which sometimes means th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 08:00 AM |
| 12 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?They will live out the rest of their miserable lives from 40-85 and die blaming men never taking accountability for a single thing in their life. idk how much contact you have with older women...i have alot, my moms mid 60s and single, my grandmother is mid 80s and a window since a couple of years...believe me when i say, older women aint miserable or alone (sure, some are, just like some ppl are always miserable no matter what age)...my mom and grandmother have large groups of friends, visitati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Are most western women going to marry most western men in the future?when they realize the hot Chad's don't even want to pump and dump them anymore why would hot chads stop pumping and dumping women just bc they old...have you seen tinder experiments with older women? They might not get LTR'd but they def can find someone hot to have sex with also idk if youve ever talked with older chronically single women but if she made it mostly single to her mid 40s she wont settle, she will just stay single til she dies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 07:29 AM |
| 0 | We don’t talk enough about the “Settle Down” woman enoughthe whataboutism is kinda cute ngl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 01:00 PM |
| 2 | We don’t talk enough about the “Settle Down” woman enoughwomen aint cars tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 12:59 PM |
| 2 | We don’t talk enough about the “Settle Down” woman enoughmore likely these days that the “hotter” a woman is the more stuck up and narcissistic she’ll be. yeah bc she has more options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 07:35 AM |
| 3 | We don’t talk enough about the “Settle Down” woman enoughi thought its bc the hot chick has more options and the men dont like competition when its about long term partners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 07:34 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.if they can they divorce them, dead bedrooms happen if the woman cant leave | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 04:58 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Contrary to what most on here believe, it seems much harder for men to get a long-term relationship than to hook-up.stable income alone doesnt get you hook ups OR relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 03:01 AM |
| 1 | In complete honesty…what exactly do most of you on here want?saw a vid of gerbert wearing a dress and cat ears, that dudes not normal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/23 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?People do still have the type of gatherings you mention. You just have to find the right groups to be a part of. This takes effort. thats his point...it used to take way less effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?you dont need a burger, you need two sixpacks, two friends, a blanket and some music | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 06:26 PM |
| 26 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?idk i hung out with more ppl when i was younger and broke than i do now were money aint a problem Having no money never made me not go out and hang out with ppl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 11:44 AM |
| 7 | Men who advocate for trad relationships, what do you expect your relationship to look like in the future?women only dont care if they dont like their man and even then its humiliating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 10:41 AM |
| 2 | ALL men who want to date should go to the gym and take care of themselves, and women are reasonable to demand that.mens standards are lower tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 08:38 AM |
| 3 | ALL men who want to date should go to the gym and take care of themselves, and women are reasonable to demand that.they arent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 08:37 AM |
| – | Ladies, how would you describe the difference between being a doormat and being submissive?For me personally its basically the same thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 06:52 AM |
| – | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?A man's "wall" is him not becoming something. i agree but id argue this is true for all ppl as they become older and cant rely on their looks anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?exactly! BC many of them had to compensate their physical shortcomminga with other stuff i.e. rapping | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 09:37 AM |
| 2 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?But supermodel Chad HAS to work out. Supermodel Chad HAS to be physically active. Supermodel Chad HAS to diet. Those are things he can talk about yeah with his male friends...if ur workout routin and what you eat is all you can talk about it gets boring pretty fast...i think this is why many average men say dating got easiier once they got older...investing in ur personality i.e. hobbies, reading, developing an entertaining personality pays of in ur 30s and 40s and once you hit ur 50s its basica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 08:15 AM |
| 0 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?excusse me but George Carlin Lous CK Bill Hicks Dave Chappelle Chris Rock Bill Burr Keviin Heart are pretty damn ugly lol, just to name a few same goes for MANY actors/actresses and musicians (look the hot rockstars of past days like david bowie, and keith richards, they were fuckin ugly) we deem entertaining when you compare them to photomodels...how many actors or comedians look like this https://previews.123rf.com/images/curaphotography/curaphotography1311/curaphotography131100001/23487963-cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?only at work i have the opportunity to interact with ppl from the age if 20 to 50 and these arent ppl i chose to hang out with, i HAVE to hang out with them...using coworkers as examples is far better than using friends ps: you assumptions say alot about you as a person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 08:03 AM |
| 4 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?But I'm curious what amount of effort is reasonable thats like asking for a "reasonable" price for a picasso painting...the reasonable price is what ppl are willing to pay, you dont have to pay for picasso, you can pay 15 € and buy a painting on etsy too...the choice is 100% yours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 08:00 AM |
| 5 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?I'd rather live single than be with someone who doesn't respect my time or energy but it feels now like I'm searching for a white whale or a unicorn so...you dont actually rather live single? You just want to put in less effort while getting the same/better outcome? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?when you start talking to older ppl whos looks cant carry the whole weight of a convo anymore (talking about an age were none of them is hot anymore, so like, 60+ ppl) you realize the "dumb blonde" trope exists for a reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?if you look at i.e. stand up comedians and truly entertainging ppl, how many of them are 10s? and do you really think it has nothing to do with the fact that these ppl had to develop some sort of thing to be able to compete with more attractive ppl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?only in younger years....when ppl reach their mid 40s and later nobodys hot anymore and all ppl have been thorugh enough BS to appreciate good company...developing a personality def pays of when ur older but til you hit at least 30 ppl are more shallow and yes i get it that ppl here on this sub dont think past the age of idk 40 but if you hit 40 there are good chances you still spend at least another 30 years walking this earth ...and you wont be hot while doing that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?Hot men are rather bland too, every guy i know who can play an instrument is a strong 7 at best. never seen a guy looking like a model playing the drums or being funny... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:37 AM |
| 2 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?true but take a look at the truyl entertaining and hilarous ppl...90% of the time they arent conventionally attractive, just look at various entertainers from musicians to comedians, its mostly ppl who dont fit the common beatuy standard...they had to do smth to stand out...its honestly common sense less attractive ppl have to put in more effort...sure, many will fail, but the uggos who make it and achieve an entertaining, alluring personality outshine thee hotties almost always (in terms of bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:21 AM |
| 2 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?ive been friends with attractive women, i have very attractive female coworkers and its true for almost all of them, they are very nice ppl btw and not stupid or anything, but they are...bland (that goes for the above average male coworkers too btw)...im also a woman, i look decent, im slim and have a cute face, i get along with most women and im not bitter or anything...idk why you would assume im a lonley biitter guy or that ivee never been friends with an attractive person, you project so muc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:12 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The absence of celibate life paths kind of sucks.I do actually agree, we do need a celibate life path which is not religiously informed and is socially accepted/ applauded. how would you get there withought religiousity? whats the benefit of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 06:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?ugly ducklings are the sweet spot (for men and women)...ugly while young so you had the feeling that you need to have a little something to stand out (be it humor, able to play an instrument etc) and then getting hot at a time where you lived long enough as an unattractive person who had to work for it...the karen trope imo are mostly women who peaked early, ppl who peaked early imo tend to grow into the shittiest adults (these are also the ppl who claim High school is the "best time of your lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Why do very attractive women have boring personalities?im nothing like Op and still think objectivly attractive ppl are less funny/interesting/eloquent/opinionated etc than ppl with an edge...funniest guy in my office is a 160 cm guy with a beer belly, dude is hilarious...it makes sense, ppl who dont fit the standard beauty requirement need to work harder to get the same kind of attention, sure many unattractive ppl end up bitter and boring but the ones who put effort into their personality outshine the hotties by far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 06:45 AM |
| 3 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalnonono men with college degrees marry 21 year old waitresses | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 04:59 AM |
| 11 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalyeah by their logic going to college would be her downfall but staying dumb, barefoot and prego is her living her best life XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 12:00 PM |
| 11 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocritical...so, what some random tradcon a-hole on Youtube says is automatically red pill dogma? most redpillers talk like that dont act oblivious...but everytime someone has a valid point suddenly "thats not what the redpill is about"... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 11:59 AM |
| 12 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalWhy would she need college when she could spend her early 20s pregnant and as a SAHW? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 11:34 AM |
| 15 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalits even more hypocritical when you remind urself of the tons of guys here complaining that their moms never learnd them to be chad and a bad boy. They blame(d) their poor moms for trying to teach them how to be a decent man and claim their moms turned them into betas while they themselves make boss babes out of their daughters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Do women sabotage each other?1.have various friend(groups) that arent attachted to each other 2.have only 1-2 close female friends (that arent friends with each other) Have a gender mixed friendgroups Edit: I personally never got along with women in large friend groups for this reason...i have 3 female friends + a sister that like each other but arent friends with each other | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Do women sabotage each other?women in a group always want to maintain a basic level that they all correspond to (this is determined by the majority). women who don't match this level will be boosted/crushed until they match the level again the nail that sticks out hammered down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 01:41 PM |
| 31 | Just out of curiosity what is the purpose of girls night out ?idk what other women do but my "girls nights out" is me and my bestie getting hammerd on her couch gossiping about all the ppl we know | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/23 07:18 AM |
| 1 | CMV:Passportbroism,not the BP,RP or BlkPl is the solution for men to become happy.im just saying all the examples of reasons men have you brought up dont negate the fact that there is a very.obvious comon denominator | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 05:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV:Passportbroism,not the BP,RP or BlkPl is the solution for men to become happy.but they all want to fuck women that wouldnt look at them if they werent poor xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Studies saying women are "happier single" than men are extremely misleadingIf men really were that awful then the vast majority of women would be celibate, but that's not the case. Clearly most women disagree with you. thats whats happening right now lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 07:06 AM |
| 1 | You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guyI think most 35 year old women are on instagram and the ones that are socially savvy and particularly attractive would for sure appreciate a man with a well curated image. being on instagam and posting on instagram are two very diff things i also dont know why being attractive has anything to do with social media presence if you live a normal life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 01:56 PM |
| 2 | You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guyyou do realize tons of ppl (older women i.e.) dont use social media the way young ppl use it...i highly doubt a hot 35 year old woman is impressed by a 40 year old guys insta ...at least i myself and the women i iinteract with daily wouldnt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 06:46 AM |
| 5 | You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guyif fucking a bunch of 25 year olds til ur retire is the goal then i can see having a big instagram site is being helpful/necessary | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 04:26 PM |
| 11 | You need to have a popping Instagram account to be able to date successfully as a guysocial media presence gets even weirder the older you get...imagine being a normal 40 year old dude with a "poppin" insragram site...that would be weird AF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/23 02:06 PM |
| -1 | How do you explain successful men that end up marrying sluts?cheating doesnt make you a slut imo...high n count does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Interracial couples observationnot even moderate muslims work like that xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Interracial couples observation. They are usually the best deal for submissive wife and domestic service yeah, if ur a muslim urself, preferably from the same country (they racist af), many dont even like converts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Interracial couples observationif they immigrants try fending off 8 cousins; worst case scenario they throw her off a balcony and dont even try to get accepted by her parents; youd have to find a girl whos willing to abandon her family AND is willing to hide from them (cause they sure as hell come after her, often times 20-30 ppl) you better off with asian women from western countries bc they a) not as aggressive as eastern euro women (although i know thai women who beat their husbands) and b) not as religious as middle easte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Interracial couples observationnah im european and grew up with tons of migrants from eastern europe ...they guys are abusive too btw, a slap in the face during a fight is not that big of a deal to many of them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | The Myth of the 25-Year-Old Brainwell, seems liike ur an adult now, congrats or smth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Interracial couples observationlol, good look with eastern euro women, they eat western men alive ...come home late, get a glass ashtray thrown at you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:58 AM |
| 3 | The Myth of the 25-Year-Old BrainNo one’s talking about you. its useless, he doesnt understand that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:50 AM |
| 0 | The Myth of the 25-Year-Old BrainI asked out girls my age they said no, but at 30 I'm suppose to ask them out at my age now? No... nobody cares if you date ppl +/- 5 years older or younger (which is the norm)...its large age gaps that are forwned upon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:49 AM |
| 0 | Do women really want commitment?yeah i was talking about old school SAHW, new school SAHW dont start out as SAHGF either tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 11:46 AM |
| 6 | Do women really want commitment?Commitment from an unattractive male is pretty worthless unless he's the one paying for everything in the relationship. if i havea job and make enough money myself his money doesnt outweight the burden of him existing in my space | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 10:53 AM |
| 5 | Do women really want commitment?women being eager to bear tons of children again even tho they're educated and are able to work and support themselves is less likely than artificial wombs doing the baby production...sooner or later baby making wont involve men and women anymore, thats the only logical consequence of all thats happening right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Do women really want commitment?First, how do you think the stay-at-home moms started? They started as stay-at-home girlfriends, but that's not even what the trend is about anyway. nah SAHW got married befor moving in together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 10:50 AM |
| 0 | Do women really want commitment?since most men die befor their women, most women die without a man anyway ... also... we all die alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Dating women your own age is easier in your thirty's is a lie.i mean i personally dont understand how going back home makes you see ppl from ur teenage years automatically but i guess that makes sense...its just odd to me bc i never had a similar experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Dating women your own age is easier in your thirty's is a lie.its cope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Dating women your own age is easier in your thirty's is a lie.A few girls that rejected me in my 20s when they were hot, hit me up now they are hitting 30 and have kids and 30lbs extra fat wanting to settle for a career man like me. ive read this quite often here, how does that happen? I personally never heard of men or women who hit up ppl they ditched 10-15 years ago to try getting with them now...like, im not saying ur a liar, i just dont see how that plays out irl, or do you still hang out with the same ppl after 15 years? Cause tbh... beside 1-2 reall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 07:35 AM |
| 6 | Got a window into average woman's dating life. It was an absolute shockwhat i learned from this sub is that not all ppl are impressed by the same things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 07:12 AM |
| 2 | The internet has effectively killed romancenot just porn, its everything. When i was a teen i havent seen tons of pics of lets say...the maledives. You had to go to a library or book store to find pics or find a tv program or movie that played smth about them, i didnt know shit about most things i now can llook up in a matter of seconds. I can only imagine how boring the world must be for ppl who grew up with smart phones, youve seen it all by the time ur idk , mid 20s...thats frightening, the whole magic of discovering shit in ur life i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | The internet has effectively killed romancebecause men usually want to be loved for what they do/are able to provide for their families...not for how they look (thats how women work) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 03:01 PM |
| 3 | The internet has effectively killed romanceI think what the internet killed isnt romance per se but the likelyhood to find something special and unique. Not just in a person but also when it comes to i.e. traveling and finding a new hiidden cafe or discovering a nieche store in a city youve never been to...with the internet almost all of that is lost forever. The internet makes you feel like youve been everywhere, talked to everyone and that youve seen it all... The feeling of novelty is kinda dead imo, and the internet (especially socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 02:57 PM |
| 1 | If A GF Can Post Bikini/Half Naked Pics, Can Her BF Like Other Women's Pics as well?If she puts up with it he can do whatever he wants | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 02:35 PM |
| 3 | A relationship in which the man is only a placeholder and the woman cheats on him (AF/BB) does have any downsides for the woman?Downside is shes not attracted to him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 11:59 AM |
| 9 | Q4M: Do you find close orbiters to be a huge turn-off? Q4W: Have orbiters impacted your dating results?women do this with female friends all the time so im not suprised womena ct like that with male friends too...its men who think women treat male friends different when in fact, they treat em like one of the girls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Aside from "Women's standards are too high or No more good men" Why do you think YOUR single?what interests do you have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Aside from "Women's standards are too high or No more good men" Why do you think YOUR single?im curious...what are your standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 06:54 PM |
| 0 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womensure...nothing like that is happening -.- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenim a millennial too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:22 PM |
| 7 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenBut, reading an actual history book instead of propaganda brochure would also be awesome. dont even need a history book to know fathers sell their daughters, its happening currently in various countrys were women dont have rights...you just have to look at third world countrys...and dont even get me started on forced genital mutlations, forced abortions, forced pregnancys, domestic violence and rape...number one threat for women have always been men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenwhy are you playing LoL then...ur too old | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Where have all the good men gone?4) Never compromise and paradox of choice - This point is a bit more of a commentary about our current societal structure than it is about the male/female dynamic. Both parties are told to not settle. "Bro she's fat", "Girl he's short." Now these are obviously extremes but should illustrate the point; we've been so conditioned to never settle for relationships that we pass up the "good options" waiting for the "perfect" options. Dudes want the tradwife while being 5ft midgcels and women want the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenand ppl wonder why zoomers aint fucking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:11 PM |
| 14 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenah yeah the majority of men who could treat their woman however they wanted to bc she was considerd his property treated them properly LOL...hard to belive when i look at how men treat women now even tho tons of stuff is illegal nowadays...just looking at countrys were tons of fathers literally SELL OFF their daughters lets me know ur statement is bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:09 PM |
| 8 | Men are not oppressed by women, they feel entitled to womenI'd even be willing to guess that most men in history were abusive to their wives. pretty sure thats true if we look at how many men treat women nowadays where tons of stuff is illegal now(i.e. hitting ur woman) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Where have all the good men gone?"why men nowadays are agressive or just respond to women in a snarky way?". men nowadays are less aggressive than ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 03:04 PM |
| – | How has your relationship with your mother impacted your view of women now?ofc not...if he could do it himself he doesnt need her...duh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.everyone does, no maatter what age, this dudes just weird...ppl ask each other what they work all the time (outside of dating as well)...a job says more about a person than their earning potential | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.god that poor girl, imagine having a dad like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Why did you get divorced?wtf did i just read | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Do men need to be needed in a relationship?nope, i hate feeling needed, it stresses me out, i def want to be desired tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hassome stayed together, some didnt, but nobody stayed broke, all ppl grew up to be normal well ajusted adults | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | What female body time do men actually like??yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasBut if you have to make a choice between 2 decent looking guys (like 6-7) one broke, and one normal (not rich, just normal), I guess you'd still choose the one who is not broke. there are tons of other factors, also, i wouldnt even want to date a literal rich guy, a guy who has money...great, a RICH guy, no thanks, im not rich, i dont come from a rich background, i have nothing in common with rich ppl, if hes old money rich i wouldnt fit in with his family, if hes new money rich hes prob still i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.I do KNOW the names of great grandfathers, and more I'm well aware of the names of many people across my lineage's timeline. I also have nothing to say about regular people, as my family is filled with greatness. its always annoying when ppl clearly are the one 1% of an example yet they act like they are the norm and you are the delusional one...but yeah, ur the exception, not the rule, and only bc its important to YOUR family doensnt make it universally important for everyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasAt that age most women don't look for marriage. But over 30 is a bit different story. yeah, over 30 as a woman who wants kids and you dont already have a guy youre attracted to you have two options stay single or date a guy ur not attracted to...more women then ever are single....make of that what you will i personally would prob date the broke hot dude even at 30 (and prob try to change him lol) then the guy im not attracted to, there is no age where i see myself dating guys im not attracted to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasidk why we even talk a bout these women since i already excluded them in my original post since OBVIOUSLY hookers and sugar babies are after ur money, they outright say so so ofc for THEM its the one important factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hastinder is full of hookers, scams and influencers too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasBut lack of money is very important, in that it can be a serious obstacle to anything. if ur hot and 22 i assure you being broke as only a minor influence on getting layed...ive been 22, ive seen hot broke 22 year old guys going home with gorgeous girls, ive seen them getting into relationships with them...also, broke ppl dont stay broke forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasI've often found them on Seeking looking for sugar daddies, so to me it's very common just like BDSM is common for ppl in the bdsm scene, for normies tho, its very uncommon and not something you see or hear daily | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasi mean, looking on such apps when trying to meet women is like going to a brothel and wondering why there are only hookers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend/Husband Material Men Getting Less Than What Other Guys GotThis is because men can compensate for appearance to some degree with other things. Women cannot compensate for appearance. If you want a desirable man you have to be attractive, there's no getting around it. yes, its getting less important tho since women now make money and work too...the playingfields sorta even out in the western world...in poor countries you prob still can look like shit but find a cute desperate woman if you have enough money, not that easy in first world countries...i thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasim saying ur overestimate how many young women are really willing to sleep with guys they're not attacted to because of money but it depends on location, i give you taht, in poor countries you def find more women like that...thatss why our brothels here are full with girls from eastern europe and youll prob have to search a very long time to find one who actually speaks the local langugae ...but sure, these women exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:19 PM |
| 0 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasSo ya call them all hookers if you want they havee sex in exchange for money, they are prostitutes, its not like i call em that bc i want to shame them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What female body time do men actually like??Edit: also my overall point was that beauty trends come and go. yeah idk i dont think so, i think they're pretty much the same since forever, they vary by idk +/-5 kilos (which is personal preference anyway since no trend will apply to ALL ppl)..so yeah, the difference ur talkinga bout, i dont see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasAny man can potentially date overseas. To ignore this is to deny reality. why would i put that into consideartion if not even the majority of men put thata into their consiideration, only a very very small percentage of men actually do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | What female body time do men actually like??nah its not, its just fat womens cope, it was always the same thing that was considered attractive...bodyfat between 15% and 25% with an hourglass shape https://d1lfxha3ugu3d4.cloudfront.net/images/opencollection/objects/size4/88.194_SL1.jpg https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/b/b5/Egyptian_-_Standing_Woman_-_Walters_2216.jpg https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/d/d0/Figurine_of_Meres-Amun_at_%C3%84gyptisches_Museum_Berlin.jpg/220px-Figurine_of_Meres-Amun_at_%C3%84gypt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:56 PM |
| 9 | Boyfriend/Husband Material Men Getting Less Than What Other Guys Gotnice story but when i look around irl i rarely see hot guys with mid/fat women...if one gender is hotter than the other in a couple its almost always the woman, its VERY RARE that a hot guy dates an uggo...so rare that i look twice when i see it and mostly its a fat woman with a poor foreign guy (refugee or smth) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasmaybe you should make a tiktok about it ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hassome were, some werent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasi dont do tiktok, im too old Have an even better day!!!!!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasyeah i mean you can talk about dating in Senegal or Parkistan...make a post about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:34 PM |
| 6 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it haswhy is lady and the tramp about a male stray dog and a female rich dog? are we arguing movies now or? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasur funny | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasnot in the western world tho, and we on this sub dont debate third world country issues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:23 PM |
| -2 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasWhy make the post if you’re not open to actually having your view changed? Would you rather live in a world you believe to be true but isn’t instead of the reality in front of you? i personally think im the only person in the universe and all of you are just phsical manifestations of my imagination/subcounciousness to teach me a lesson...so you as well are just a fragment of my own subcounciousness trying to show/teach me smth, prob abouthow little "stats" and "facts" actually matter and that i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:22 PM |
| -3 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasyeah i dont read all that sorry...have a nice day ...also idgaf about such stats, many of them are wrong when you compare it with irl experience...stats are good for hard facts like "how many ppl are married, divorced etc"...self reported stats that ask ppl "how do you feel about xy" are pretty meh and imo often times wrong... its also a lazy way of debating (another reason i wont read this) was fun talking to you tho :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasWhen your standards are the top 0.1% of men, it's just an excuse to be single. They're lying, they don't really care about $500K, they will lower than number when they are ready to stop hanging with Chad. yes! if chad comes along and makes 150 k a year it wouldnt matter and shed hop on his lap in a second, and also if a guy she deems ugly comes along and makes 500 k shed still ditch him redpill men always claim women are chidlren but then take everything they say dead serious ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasjust read the comments ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasMoney works VERY WELL on certain girls. as i mentioned, gold diggers and prostitutes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasThe attractive men have no intention to ever marry or be in long term relationships. stopped reading here bc you started with such a immensly dumb statement that nothing intelligent come after this have a nice day :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Has dating really got worse, or is it always been the same?always sucked for some ppl, incels werent lamenting on reddit 15 years ago tho...social media and porn prob damaged womens and mens expectations quite a bit tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:03 PM |
| 3 | What female body time do men actually like??doesnt even matter what the men you like likes, all that matters is how many options he has and how desperate he is (kinda joking, kinda serious) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasi wholeheartly agree but didnt even want to adress that bc they wouldnt belive it anyway when i say "i dont even want to date a filth rich guy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasi think money matters more in extreme conditions/environments...i.e. in very rich circles (not talking about LA wealthy ppl but old moneny rich) and very poor circles..all women who are somewhat i the middle economically i.e. most ppl living in the western worl (well off on their own ) are way more flexible in terms of demands when it comes to money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | What female body time do men actually like??imo it never really changed, skinny/slim (bodyfat level between 15% and 25%) was always the ideal in the western world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasso? shouldnt money matter even more there bc one must assume some young broke women would hang there and try to bag a man with cash? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:45 PM |
| 0 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasmost posters here arent averge income guys living in third world countries (were money has an actual leverage bc ppl are poor AF) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasidk in which world small guys with money (not talking abouut literal billionairs mmind you) do better than tall broke guys but all short men should prob move there since it must be so much better for them then the actual earth were we living on right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:41 PM |
| 0 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it haswhy dont you follow ur own advice then and just ignore my post ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasGold diggers and whores are still women, no matter how much you try to demonize them. Seems that money doesn’t play as small of a role in dating as you suggest ofc money plays a role to women who are after money lol wtf are you trying to point out here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasThat’s a bit different from what your wrote in the OP, implying that only gold diggers like money only golddiggers and whores will ignore the disgust they feel torwards a man(and trust me, women are disgusted by men they arent attracted to when thinking about sleeping with them) because of money...thats what im saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasif the heart surgeon looks like this https://c8.alamy.com/comp/B72J1Y/average-forty-year-old-man-in-a-humorous-pose-pointing-at-you-isolated-B72J1Y.jpg ill take the broke dude and he can play CoD at my place | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:25 PM |
| 2 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasThought expierment, pick up a date in a 05 Camry, take her to Waffle House and a nice picnic date at the park watching the sunset. Then magically her memory of the date is erased, have the same guy pick up a the woman in a lambo, take her to nobu and a nice candlelight view after watching the sunset if the guy in the lambo is old fat and gross he would attract the women who are in it for the money (gold diggers and hookers)...all the other women will just say no thanks and move on (belive it or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it has"To say that women are only money-hungry gold diggers": strawman in the very first phrase of the very first sentence. its not a strawman, many men here think and talk like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasIf you think men who believe money has a lot of influence in attracting women are just "ugly losers who are coping" i have a question for you, how did they conclude then that women care so much about money? t im talking about guys who say money is THE MOST IMPORTANT factor and that you can compensate all other shortcommings with money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasMoney isn't everything, but it is still a qualifying factor. Not having money is an automatic disqualifier (for relationships). i knew too many broke (but attractive or at least somewhat attractive) dudes with girlfriends for that to be true...also...broke ppl often times dont stay broke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasMoney makes it so easy to pump and dump women between the ages of 25 and 32 by “promising” the “relationship”. if ur attractive but if youre 5'5 ft, skinny fat with a shitty jawline money will only get you hookers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Money does not have the influence that many men here believe it hasofc you compare urself with a billionaire and not just a "normal wealthy" guy XD you ppl are hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.. Wealth is negatively correlated with fertility. YES! the more comfortable ppl are, the less they reproduce!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.it doesnt fix anything, look at europe, look at all the countries with GREAT benifits for women and men (paid parental leave, money for parents etc)...and the birth rates are LOWER than in the US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:39 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A girl liking your money is a good thing not badI kinda get it. what can you do with a broke dude? Sit there and watch him be poor? if he's hot and fun to be around there are tons of things i could do with a poor guy, also doesnt mean he stays poor forever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A girl liking your money is a good thing not badif all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:24 AM |
| 4 | Obsession with control is evident in this subI keep hearing women say that men are praised for having tons of sex but where? in redpill circles...not irl tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:19 AM |
| 5 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.Way the opposite, people think I'm a millennial lol 😂 prob bc the oldest millenial now is 42...ppl on either end of a geneneration often times feel and behave closer to the gen befor or after them...im a younger millenial and my sister is an older gen z'er, we have more in common than she has with young gen z'ers and i have with older millenials. the gen x'ers i know are 50+ and from my personal experience many ppl who are now between 50 and 60 kinda suck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:17 AM |
| 5 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.all gen x'ers i know are lethargic smartphone addicts with no actual skills in dead-end jobs who are way too obsessed with their kids...the boomers in my life are fun tho...i personally dont get the boomer hate on an individual level, gen x'ers are so much worse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:08 AM |
| 8 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.the expectations for parents are also way to high...boomers thought their job was just to keep the kids alive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:05 AM |
| 5 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.this is also smth that gets overlooked alot imo! Life in former days was comparatively boring | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 09:57 AM |
| 23 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.Might as well be a single mother, at least then you don't have to pick up his mess as well as your childrens'. And most men are like this IME. This is a large part of the problem. i think this is the real reason for the high numbers of single moms compared to former times, its just easier doing it alone when ur man is no help at all but an additional burden and i agree (frrom what i see around coworkers and friends), most men dont make a womans life easier | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.many redpillers dont want to be with stacy...they WANT TO BE stacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 08:19 AM |
| 3 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.& start a family to continue their legacy & help grow the human species. the legacy thing is always funny to me, i dont even know the names of my great-grandparents (and i just asked around in the office, none of my coworkers can name all 8 of their great-grandparents)...its also not like most ppl are royals with long ass family trees...most ppl are normal average ppl with normal average relatives who never done anything great (not even on a small scale)...there are tons of (great) reasons to ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.It's not nearly as simple as throwing money at it. no idea how often this needs to be mentioned befor ppl stop the "women need more help then they will make more babies" bullshit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 07:52 AM |
| 1 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.idk women who want money so bad they get with men theyre not attracted to ...thats all...maybe poorer women act like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 04:33 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.money doesnt make my.pussy wet dude...and i have my own money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 08:58 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Respect is is the main thing men desire besides sex. Desire for respect explains every RP talking point that desire for sex doesn't.yeah you get basic level of respect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 08:57 AM |
| 4 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.i doubt most women would ditch a hot 35 k guy theyre actually attracted to for a 100k 5'7 dork (bc thats what an average joe looks like) but ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 11:55 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Respect is is the main thing men desire besides sex. Desire for respect explains every RP talking point that desire for sex doesn't.i think ur mixing up being respected and being admired | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 10:40 PM |
| 4 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.this might come off as cope since many here seem to think getting rich or getting a rich guy is the end goal for everyone but i swear not all ppl (men and women) are that obsessed with money and wealth...im comfy with earning slightly above average and take the hot 35 k dude over the rich average dude anytime | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 09:42 PM |
| 4 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.im very curious what effect the steroid usage of many young men nowadays has when they get older ..same goes for fillers and all that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 08:05 PM |
| 7 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.children grow up fast and being a "stepdad" to a teenager/adult is not that big of a deal...not saying you should date single moms if you dont want to...just saying single moms aint single moms with babies and toddlers forever...at a certain age (around 40-45 i guess) children aint that big of a deal anymore ...also considering the fact that by that time many guys who dont think of themselves as single parents might be a single dads themselves and maybe even notice by then they klick better with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 08:01 PM |
| 5 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.well its about getting to know a person...thats often times not that exciting and shouldnt have to be exciting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?oh ok then i agree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?idk what to say bc idk if you're trying to disagree with me bc you met a younger woman who likes old ppls music | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 02:35 PM |
| -1 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?So… you’re data doesn’t hold any weight in this convo idc ive seen way too many stats being BS when looking at what i see IRL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?what men want when you ask them = / = what gets men interested / arroused subconsciously tons of men are head over heels over women that are mid at best but have features that i.e. remind them of their mom or smth...even if a guy says XY woman is objectivly attractiv if you show him a pic, what gets him going in the bedroom, what makes him feel all warm and lovey dovey, what makes him feel at home can be VERY different from what he said is the best possible option | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 02:18 PM |
| 11 | Are men happy to be in relationships with women around their age?its not even the "im old" feeling imo , its just nice to connect with someone over a shared experience and with a younger person many such "common experiences" dont exist...its not about feeling old bc the same applies if your partner is much older...you cant relate to them on the same level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Questions for women. Men should pay attention.who claim that women don’t make it obvious enough might need to talk to someone. tbf many of them prob never got any IOI's sent their way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Questions for women. Men should pay attention.Indicator of interest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Questions for women. Men should pay attention.If im attracted to him thats prob the reason i invited him or went to his place in the first place so yes; if im not attractd to him and i notice hes attracted to me and about to make a move i make sure im never alone with him again never been in that situation; no idea how i would end up in such a situation the first move is usually me showing some sort of non verbal (kinda subtle) agreement that being flirted with is acceptable i.e. eye contact + smiling in a shy/cheeky way...so technically i … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Question about the nuclear familyAnd that's definitely an issue, too. Multigenerational housing is probably the ideal solution, either with inlaw units or multiple homes per property. But those are both less common and more expensive. I don't think I could live with my mother 24/7 either, but in a living situation like that would be totally doable. My parents are 3 minutes away though, so still works out. this whole thing only works if one person (the woman) has no choice but to stay, as soon as the woman is the mans equal (mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Question about the nuclear familypregnancy is a very big part of having a kid id say, and breastfeeding isnt a piece of cake either all the time... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Question about the nuclear familyyou loose when having kids and women are choosing not to lose that yeah i agree, although aslong as we dont have artificial wombs women still have to birth the children and breast feed (most women do but yeah yeah i know they technically dont HAVE TO)...how could anyone help women with that? Look all im saying is its not lack of help that makes women have less children, its them having a better education and a choice, and it seems when women have a choice, they choose less/no children...i dont t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Question about the nuclear familythe country i live in does offer all this and birthrates are lower than in the US | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Question about the nuclear familyeven in egalitarian housholds women have more work/stress when it comes to kids, also...pregnancy and breastfeeding are two things that have a major impact on ur body and no man could jump in for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Question about the nuclear familyso you’ve got to make it more appealing to them and got to encourage men to step up in their role of parent so women don’t feel their taking on all the responsibilities we already made it more appealing with maternal leave and more money for women with kids, free kindergarden and stuff...and still, ppl dont have more babies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Question about the nuclear familyYeah the poorest families that restrict their women by shackling her with kids, no wonder when woman have the choice they don’t want this maybe if we say it 20x more often the "we need to give ppl more free stuff to motivate them to make babies" will get the memo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Question about the nuclear familyfree healthcare for pregnant women, months of maternity AND paternity leave, free childcare and laws for employers to do flexible working, better education in school for boys n girls about being parents. i live in a country in europe were we have all of this and even more and our avrage birth rates and marriage rates are lower than in the US...you can see that all over european countrys, the ones with the best healthcare and childcare systems (which are also the countries were women have the hig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 12:01 PM |
| 6 | Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire?There’s plenty of men who pursue, get into relationships and have sex with women they know for a fact do not desire them and it’s weird. kinda reminds me of men having a fetish for being degraded/screamed at/insulted etc and shit like that (which is basically just what you described in an extreme sexual form) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire?what does she do to make you think she lost attraction ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 11:39 AM |
| 5 | Why do women have long term relationships with guys they don’t physically desire?i think ur right and this is a huge factor! Its prob not the only reason but imo its a big reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Are women choosing to be single because it's easier?initial attraction can and does fade...even if the guy didnt bb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Are women choosing to be single because it's easier?i think you underestimate the amount of women who were never really attracted to their husbands to begin with in former days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Are women choosing to be single because it's easier?Is modern technology, and the culture it creates, artificially amplifying female selectivity beyond what it needs to be? being single is just easier than in former days...the whole "dad sleeps on the couch" phenomenon you prob know from old sitcoms is i.e. pretty much gone, why did it exist, bc divorce wasnt an option...and thats just one example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 02:16 PM |
| 10 | The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guysIf women were so scared about their security they would be the majority in open carry permits, they aren't you do realize men harm and kill women DAILY right? its not smth i made up, there are crime stats out there and shit XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 02:37 PM |
| 3 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?nope, never said that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 02:09 PM |
| 3 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?That doesn’t help your point at all, a couple adopted those kids. Are you against adoption at all? yes, im against men (gay couples or single men idc) adopting children ...like, very against it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 02:07 PM |
| 5 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?also where i live way more ppl want to adopt children than there a children up for adoption, its basically impossible (here and in many other european countries) to get to be picked as an adoptive parent if you are single ...too many straight couples with awesome lives/jobs/houses want to adopt children, a single man is the last person you'd give a child to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 02:03 PM |
| 5 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?Bc of stories like this https://nypost.com/2023/01/20/couple-pimped-their-adopted-sons-out-to-pedophile-ring-report/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 02:01 PM |
| 7 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?I think it should be easier for solo men to adopt thats a VERY bad idea for OBVIOUS reasons and will NEVER happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 01:59 PM |
| 9 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?im always for self improvement...i just think its not working like it used to work anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 01:30 PM |
| 3 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?piggyback riding for short distances bc its more environmentally friendly tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 01:21 PM |
| 3 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?there will be Dacia level Sex Bots too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 01:18 PM |
| 5 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?you cant get taller with effort tho...i googled, in my country only around 25% of men (we havent even considered age here so the number when it comes to actual dating is even lower ) are above 180cm / 5ft 9. Being tall has always been a bonus but now with online dating its just the new average | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 01:17 PM |
| 11 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?i want 4 sex robots infront of an ancient roman chariot instead of a car then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 01:11 PM |
| 14 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?no matter what pill you are it should be obvious at this point that dating has become harder for men who arent really attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 01:03 PM |
| 9 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?who would they pair up with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:57 PM |
| 5 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?i think the word ur looking for is delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:51 PM |
| 3 | The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guysif you're afraid of women ok...most men arent tho bc a woman is not a physical threat to a man in 99% of the cases | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:50 PM |
| 1 | The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guysjust stop dating if women are so horrible and stay single...women do it to...buy a dog or smth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:48 PM |
| 9 | The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guysif you think women are equally dangerous for men (in terms of physically harming the other perso))n as men are for women go on and think that, its OBVIOUSLY not true tho and i dont debate bullshit like that also if you as a man are afraid of some woman it says more about you and your ability to defend yourself than about the fact that women are dangerous to men (on a physical level) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guyswomen rejecting guys bc they ugly but not telling them they do it bc they ugly is not a "blackpill truth"...ppl (men and women alike) knew about it and did it since forever, its called telling a "white lie"...only spergs nowadays who dont go out and touch grass are suprised strangers outside lie to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:44 PM |
| 21 | TRP is slowly becoming more and more mainstream, what is this going to mean for the future?Nothing, more men will be addicted to porn and hookers they pay for the "girlfriends experience", more women will stay single and buy a bunch of cats, and someday we all gonna die and the universe stops existing..the end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:42 PM |
| 7 | The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guyswomen arent a physical threat to you when you reject them, the fact that you want it to be equal just shows that you're not able to put urself into other ppls shoes ...many men here lack that ability so its not suprising men here dont understand that hurting a mans ego could mean he harms or even kills you..either way, it doesnt matter, women will almost never tell you the truth when they reject you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:40 PM |
| 13 | The pregnancy risk is certainly true but overblown as an excuse to reject average guysits dangerous for a woman to reject a guy and actually telling them its because they "ugly" or "short"...you do realize alot of men physically harm or kill women bc of shit like that also ppl dont owe you honesty... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Men don't build eachother up when it comes to dating, as a result most of the complaints by red pillers/incels/MGTOWs may as well get de-legitmizedThey do build each other up by virtue of not coddling each other. If a dude is fat and broke other men will tell him get off your ass and hit the gym, get your shit together. which is a 100x nicer and more useful than what women do, cause many would hype up the fat ugly chick to just "embrace her imperfections" to make sure shes no competition...thats WAY more evil than getting bullied a bit imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 02:45 PM |
| 7 | Is It Ever OK To Romantically Approach A Woman On An Online VideogameImo its acceptable to approach a woman (and men) EVERYWHERE...strangers on the street or wherever are not entiteled to "not be talked to" (yes even at the gym)...if you cant deal with strangers talking to you stay at home | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Is status that powerful in attraction?Insane ppl often (very often) are drawn to other insane ppl ...there are tons of insane women out there too ...ppl are attracted to what feels familiar, if you come from a crazy family crazy ppl feel like "coming home" 90% of the time ppl told me about their "crazy spouse" somewhere along the story they acted crazy too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 07:46 PM |
| 14 | Of the guys that you have been with, what percentage were Chads ?None They were the Chad of my social circle tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:45 PM |
| 3 | The Red Pill Lies/ exaggerates the Evils and Problems Women Allegedly causeLesbian couples have disproportionately high rates of domestic violence. they just call the cops more often bc women are bigger snitches | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:28 PM |
| 1 | "Age of consent" is a social construct that depends on country.keep whining you cant assault literal teens creep...idc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | "Age of consent" is a social construct that depends on country.yikes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Do older women have less value in the dating market than younger ones ?thats the same with all ppl...most women would prefer jason momoa over steve from accounting but they are realistic...ofc MOST ppl choose the BEST option if they actually had a choice ...DUH | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Shannon sharpe talks marriage with Onco Chico says “ he would find a partner earlier in life “No idea who they are and what point ur trying to make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/23 08:24 AM |
| – | Where can a Hispanic man successfully geomax? [READ POST]You could be successful in the poorer white countries of Europe. The local girls will like you eastern euro folks are racist AF what are you talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Observing Tribal Behavior and Mating Patterns>Though I’ve been to ‘a nice’ retirement home. It’s a very sad existence. assisted suicide ...if im too old to take care of basic things like going to the bathroom life sucks anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/23 10:17 AM |
| 8 | It is very risky for a woman to be traditionalits like when they say "oh but you can get fired from a job too" when you mention the possibility that a man could leave you for someone else and leaves you with nothing...like getting fired from a job and getting cheated on and left by a guy you loved is the same thing which has the same emotional and financial impact on you...its ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/23 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps between men and women have been shrinking. How does the Red Pill explain this?way less tho and they often times are already married and have children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps between men and women have been shrinking. How does the Red Pill explain this?its mostly men without money and status or education (many of them cant even read) that immigrate tho...whom are they going to impregnate? western women? western women sometimes pair up witg sec or third gen immigrants and they basically westeners at that point, just brown | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 05:02 PM |
| 0 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableI just saw a lot of frustration out there and thought my story could help. help with what? you're just advertising mailorder brides, everyone knows they exist...sorry but i dont think you actually try to help anyone (and you virtue signalling about is pretty weird as well) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:13 PM |
| 0 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptableno im questioning why some men are very eager to get men they dont know to do the same thing as they do without benifiting from it...its weird AF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptablebecause nobody likes to see how rich foreigners exploit the poverty of their own country and their own people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 01:11 PM |
| 0 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptablewhy tho? if you do it for urself fine but why would you want other men to go that route to? like, why do you even care? Its very alien since i cant imagine caring what other random women do out there and who they are dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:42 PM |
| 1 | For more traditionally minded men, dating other cultures should be more mainstreamed and acceptablethe ppl who shame it the most are prob the local men (and women) in said country (rightfully so imo) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:38 PM |
| 8 | Age gaps between men and women have been shrinking. How does the Red Pill explain this?also its usually not the young 10's who are willing to have a relationship with an older guy but the 3's who dont get validation and attention from their same-aged male counterparts...so the younger women men could get at idk 50 prob looks the same as the chick he didnt want when he was her age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/23 12:24 PM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...This whole argument of “ohh it used to be so different. “ unless where talking about arraigned marriages there has never been a time in history where wives were just handed to men. Some level of effort has always been expected. That spinster auntie who can’t find a husband or quiet uncle who keeps to himself, always existed social media just makes it seem like a new phenomenon cause people are able to communicate more. this is a very true and important fact i overlooked!! They're way more visibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 08:30 PM |
| 2 | No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-termgood for you...ur an outliner tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 05:03 PM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...i did but i only wanted to answer what you said befor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?yeah but getting from absolute shit to less shitty isnt that much of an improvement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 04:22 PM |
| 3 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...i already said they contribute on a societal level...jesus christ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 04:22 PM |
| 3 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money? i personally would find the approach ur stating more normal (its very odd to me how many men here whine about wanting to get validation when i remember back when i was younger all guys cared about is having sex, not if the woman worships their penisses) than the guys here trying to talk themselves into younger women thirsting after 55 year old dick so if men fuck women in exchange of money wihtout caring if the woman finds them attractive, good...at leas thats sustainable and you aint kidding … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:48 PM |
| 3 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?more mature doesnt mean being mature, being smarter than you were at 15 doesnt mean ur a genius now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:44 PM |
| 3 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...and still many women say "ill do it on my own befor i deal with your lazy ass one more day". so if its so awful being a single mom, how awful must the marriage have been | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:43 PM |
| 3 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?i think many men here are projecting bc they think "hey i think that 55 year old woman is hot so ofc women feel the same way about 55 y/o men" not realizing mens standards are far far FAR lower for what they consider "fuckable" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:38 PM |
| 3 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?once they date them they realize they aint more mature (same goes for women btw) ....old ppl are not more mature bc they old and dating them a couple of weeks shows you that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:37 PM |
| 3 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?ofc he wasnt, and i think many women only find out about it after already dating him, thats why i would be more interested in stats of how long these "relationships" between 20 year old women and 40 year old men last, we know the marriage stats (and they show a very clear picture but i really would like to know how long it takes til young women feel "the ick" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:33 PM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...money has value in the sense that now having a job and making at least the same amout the woman makes is now the bare minimum so yeah it still has value, not alot tho sure ppl still marry and reproduce, especially in non western countries lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:31 PM |
| 2 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?lol fair point that doesnt sound positiv xD i mean i didnt try to make a point for or against age gaps, i just thought its interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:23 PM |
| 2 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...if you have an average job and get some alimony for the kid youre not in a bad position often times (i know being a mom sucks in the US but in westernn europe the Gov has you covered)..i know alot of women with an average income that raise a kid on their own, they get gov support, they get alimony from the baby daddy, kindergarden is either cheap af or free...money aint that big of a deal for millenial women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:21 PM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...i think women nowadays are well aware that you need a guy for MAKING baby but not for actually raising a kid (espeecially not if the guy is no help but just an additional burden) many single moms are single moms bc they have more freetime once the burden of having a guy around falls off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:19 PM |
| 3 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?that depends on ur circle, in the artsy scene you can have status and be broke, you folks here have a too narrow idea of what "status" means...having statuts means having status in XY environment under XY conditions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:16 PM |
| 6 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?its funny that guys here try so hard to tell themselves that many young women find old men physically hot (i also think ther are FAR more younger guys who genuinly find some old Milf hot compared to women thirsting after an old dude even if hes in shape, simply bc mens standards are way lower) when i was younger i fancied older men IN THEORY for a short period of time (i thought alan rickman was super hot for example) but thinking about actually having to touch his old ass gave me shivers, i can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:15 PM |
| 0 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...you actually belive this? women dont want to do manual labour and men dont want to stay at home and be the mom...like, if a huge amoount of ppl would actually want that id belive it but from what i see women prefer comfy offices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?idk i only saw one comment of a woman posting pros and cons, it didnt seem heavily leaning on either side thats why i liked th epost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...the amount of ppl in poly relationships goes up as well but i still dont consider these weirdos when debating broader phenomenons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?https://www.reddit.com/r/AskWomen/comments/26dzr9/ladies_who_have_dated_men_10_years_older_or_old/ this might give a bit of insight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:57 PM |
| 4 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...These sort of posts tend to pit the archetype of a successful, independent, career woman against that of the loser man i dont talk about "career woman", i talk about women with normal full time jobs, most ppl have normal jobs, neither most men nor most women have "careers" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:53 PM |
| 0 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...yeah idc the 12 SAHD that exist dont matter for this convo, men and women aliike arent fond of the idea that men stay home (also mosst ppl cant afford one person not working, doesnt matter if its the woamn or the man) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:52 PM |
| 4 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?oh yeah old ppl are way harder to deal with than younger folks (not just as partners but also as coworkers or friends, they arent as flexible), men and women alike | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:52 PM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...the amout of stay at home dads is so damn tiny that i dont even discuss them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:48 PM |
| 2 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?And age is not an indicator of wisdom. and many women learn that after leaving said age gap relationships, there tons of reddit posts from women regretting dating much older men in their 20s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:44 PM |
| 1 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?no, his STATUS...money and status often go together but not all the time, you can easily have money but NO stataus at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:41 PM |
| 3 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...i have mentione often times now that men do alot on a societal level,im questioning how men contribute to relaationshps with women tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:39 PM |
| 3 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?a 21 year old woman who has nothing and works at mc donalds will be impressed by a guy owing his own house who has a stable job where he earns relativly good and a nice car, not ALL 21 year olds (duh) but youll finde a 21 year old 4 whos despereate for attention...just look at age gap couples and tell me these ppl are the creme de la creme of the dating pool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:38 PM |
| 4 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...When men gather to meet for a common goal we're called extremists what would be a common goal you would want to fight for? you cant even state what men actually want beside some vague words like "being heard"...what are your concrete demands? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:36 PM |
| 7 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?> How much status, influence, and connections does the average man who is over 40 have? more than a 21 year old woman who works at mc donalds, he doeesnt need to have alot of it to impress a woman who has way less and is too inexpeerienced to know he's not offering THAT much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:32 PM |
| 10 | What do men in age gap relationships have to offer the women besides money?status, influence and connections (its not maturity and/or wisdome if you ask me, older men and younger men arent much different when it comes to maturity and shit like that) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 02:27 PM |
| -1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...among gen y and young gen x men arent breadwinners...thats boomers and theyre retiring and dying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:54 PM |
| 0 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...you think individual ppl are thankful for what the collective does? xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:53 PM |
| 3 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...but the woman cares about how much she herself earns ...and if ur husband complains about work all the time while you yourself work too and earn equally much (or more)...how much empathy does the wife has for her husbands complaints? I do get that its not the same but if you yourself work its a diff story than if ur husband provides the whole income... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:38 PM |
| 3 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...so you think mens dating situation would improve if women would listen to them? How would listening to these men make these men more attractive to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:36 PM |
| 2 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...yeah i think theres a lot of truth in that statement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:34 PM |
| 4 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...100% agreeing with everything you say here. i just dont think alot of men are aware of that, you sound more like an outliner than an average guy i like your comment tho! Very wholesome and positive :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...ive heard it IRL too in various forms | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...So men do the vital and hard work for less pay while being demonized while women get the cushy and easy jobs for higher pay while getting praise. its hard to not resent someone who complains all the time about having to work when you yourself work just as many hours AND earn equally much or more tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:21 PM |
| 9 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...i think its very funny so many guys mention a burlger ...like a burgler takes away ur stuff when ur at home, that almost never happens...robbers dont want to fight you, they want to steal ur stuff while ur on the bahamas XD all the other stuff you mentioned is valid tho, maybe some women do need protection from spiders and bugs and see their guy as their protector | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:15 PM |
| 2 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...If you the only value as a man is your ability to spend your paycheck on a woman, then you are fucked. thats the main thing guys mention when someone asks them what they bring to the table tho.... "i make XYZ figures" many men say they dont want to be valued for what theyre able to provide i.e. money, but when you ask them what they can provide they cant name a single thing beside that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:13 PM |
| 6 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...when women were supressed and wanted to be heard they vocalized what they hate and formed demands that could be fullfilled i.e. being allowed to have jobs, buying houses, being able to vote etc...like, there were actual demands women wanted to have, what would these demands be for men? (obv it needs to be smth that can be changed by a collective i.e. a country/gov/state, not smth that needs to be done by the individual woman) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:11 PM |
| 2 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...How much does the modern woman rely on systems and the fruits of cooperation and hard labor of groups / teams of men? Between cars, man-made buildings, and utilities like electricity and running water, probably 10-20 times a day. yeah, i mentioned that in my original post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 12:09 PM |
| 5 | How difficult is it to date after college? Particularly if college dating was not great for you.lol youre the second poster who says its way better once you got older and both posters were women! Very interesting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:56 AM |
| 6 | How difficult is it to date after college? Particularly if college dating was not great for you.he pays prostitutes now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:55 AM |
| 3 | How difficult is it to date after college? Particularly if college dating was not great for you.just wait til you find out how many ppl hook up at work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:52 AM |
| 5 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.women aging faster than men and become ugly by 30 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:50 AM |
| 4 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...females need for validation is perfectly taken care of by social media and dating apps, they dont need a boyfriend/husband for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:41 AM |
| 2 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...Yes! It is freeing but prob also terrifying for men who cant offer much beside having a job | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:32 AM |
| 4 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...so...men want women more. Glad were on the same page | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:26 AM |
| 4 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...Because men are generally more active and willing to take risks when it comes to dating? This was the case even in the days when no male roles were delegated to the state. Even then, men mostly courted women and not the other way around. so men do want women more and are more eager to find women than vice versa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:15 AM |
| 5 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...ok and what exactly would men change once they feel heard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:14 AM |
| 6 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...yeah..."while they have SMALL kids" (so they leave work for around 2-5 years)...millenial women and young gen x'ers go back to work once the kid is in school/kindergarden | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:07 AM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...If men are able to vent without being shamed, called names, and actually listened to, all this wouldn't be happening, but they are not. being listened to by other men or women? also if women would listen, what would men change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:05 AM |
| 4 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...Adoption of a child by a man is an interesting topic. idk how it is in your country but where i live there are waaay more ppl wanting to adopt a child than there are children up for adotption so if ur a single person (man or woman) youll NEVER adopt a child since there are too many couples who want to a opt one and they obvioiusly are picked first ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:03 AM |
| 5 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...and work myself to the bones so that women (who make up most of the employees in government) and their kids they got through insemination can have a great future. women work too, very very VERY few women are SAHM/W | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:01 AM |
| 13 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...And women don't need men, women want men. then why is there a "male loneliness epidemic" and why are women opting out of dating in general more and more? And why are men 60% -80% of all dating app users if women want them so much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 11:00 AM |
| 7 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...men make most of the money and provide most of the protection. not among millenials and young gen x'ers...also, what do they protect women from? none of the women i know ever mentioned being in a situtaion where they were glad their boyfriend/husband "protected" them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:59 AM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...Society visualizes men's labor to society to the point that men are devalorised as husbands and boyfriends. so what do men do about it? (since women seem to simply opt out and men are lonley [talking about the "male loneliness epidemic"]) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:57 AM |
| 3 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...In a society where men's labor is readily buyable cheaply, it's hard to understand what are men needed for on an individual scale. Read my original comment for more detail on this. To summarize, if men were not contributing to society as they should, you'd be able to buy nothing cheaply, or not have anything to buy at all, and you'd have to pair with a man to get them directly. im not saying men dont contribute smth on a societal level (i think i mentioned that in my post), i just dont see them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:52 AM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...Because what I'm seeing is men do just as much chores and taking care of their kids while working longer hours (because full time doesn't mean equal time) and driving longer commutes. thats simply not true and proven to be false time and time again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:50 AM |
| 6 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...As soon as it starts to be more often also a man + a child, this concept will completely fall. that will NEVER happen, society knows (men and women alike) that its not safe to give i.e. children who are up for adoption to single men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:49 AM |
| 7 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...Nurseries, kindergartens and schools are provided by the state / society. Sick people go to hospitals. Old people are cared for in nursing homes. In the same way, delivery of cooked food is increasingly being used. And household cleaning is becoming more and more automated. So make no mistake, even the female role is gradually changing from individual to society. even if ur childs in kindergarden and ur mother is in the hospital there is additionnal work to that and that work is done by women mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:48 AM |
| 10 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...those are all things that happen once every couple years (if they happen at all)...do you really think being there if smth like that MAYBE happens outweights all the daily shit women do compared to "maybe having to fight a burglar"?as for broken toilets and stuff like that, very few men nowadays are skilled to actually repair that and many ppl men and women just call a guy and pay that guy! Every example you gave is a "might happen one or two times" example if it EVER happens, and is very differ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:47 AM |
| 1 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...i think its more than just chores tbh, even if he helps having a husband is prob more work than not having one...i do agree tho that women should look for a guy who is willing to do basic domestic stuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:37 AM |
| 3 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...This is what men are telling themselves that women don’t want to work in these fields. you can look at job and college statistics to see that women dont want to do manual labour, you also could use ur own eyes and look around how many women work on construction sites or garbage men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:36 AM |
| 11 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...Men don't want to be worshipped. But we do want to feel appreciated and not told we're obsolete every fucking day. but what do men do to be appreciated? Like, what do they contribute to a relationship where the women works full time, does all the cooking, cleaning and looking after the kids, the whole family management etc.? Respect (above basic level respect you have for everyone) needs to be earned, what do men do to earn that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:34 AM |
| 3 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...ften times men pay more bills and have more working hour and commute time. thats honestly not what im seeing among millenial and younger gen x women, they all work full time (bc life is expensive). The ones who work part time are almost only women with very small children (they go back to work after a couple years tho, full time) Also im not saying men demand women to do that, but they also aint helping much (and still benifit from the extra work, even tho they dont demand it [they often times d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:32 AM |
| 2 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...there are various staitstics and irl examples that show that women do more chores, take care of the family (not just the direct family but also the family of her spouse), do more planning and basically manage the whole household ...additionally to working often times the same hours of men...what do men do on the other hand? like, sirsously, often times men only mention how much they earn and what sort of car they drive to get women...what else do men have to offer to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:20 AM |
| 3 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...I myself (im a women) used to work in a recycling plant,did the forklifts, the baler, helped crushed old TVs and pressed the buttons. you're an outliner, most women dont want to work a job like that (even if they could do it) women still refuse to take many jobs even tho they theoretically could do it i.e. ive never seen a female "garbage men"... so like many male dominated fields the push the few women out into the office. the majority of women prefer that over doing the actual work outside tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 10:13 AM |
| – | Not being able to rate yourself objectivelyppl still get insulted by being called "not attractive enough"...even if you say it in the nicest way possible...idk what else to tell you...ppl dont like being called unattractive/not attractive enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:58 AM |
| 7 | The role of men in modern society and how much they actually contribute to women's lives...There are a vast range of construction vehicles that are only operated by a person pushing buttons that person is usually a guy tho, also, if you look at construction sites you still see tons of men working there, its not like everything is done by machines, you still need humans doing alot of things | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:55 AM |
| – | Not being able to rate yourself objectivelyyour calling them ugly with extra steps and they know what ur doing ...thats why they get angry...you act like you're smart bc you sugar coat it but ppl dont want to be called ugly, not even when someone sugarcoats it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:29 AM |
| 14 | No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-termwomen do almost all of the chores, they take care of the family and kids, they basically manage their husbands etc...what do men do beside earning money and mowing the lawn once a week? im genuinly asking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:28 AM |
| – | Not being able to rate yourself objectivelyPeople need a reality check, but as soon as you give it to them, they get all hostile, defensive and their ego starts playing. so you tell ppl they ugly and then wonder they get mad about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:23 AM |
| 12 | No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-termif the woman has a job, what does a man provide tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 09:11 AM |
| 23 | Everyone blames the men in age gap relationships, but women keep participating in them.i tihnk bc its the new hot topic ...couple month (a year ago) the hot topic was "the wall" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 08:54 AM |
| 1 | WGTOW Evidence?sex workers exist (even in countries were its illegal) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 07:31 AM |
| 1 | WGTOW Evidence?if thats her standard and shes happy alone if she cant get that type of guy why should she put up with a guy shes repulsed by? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/23 07:28 AM |
| 1 | People dont chose what they're attracted toIn fact people change what they are attracted to throughout their lives. I've personally experienced this. How and when did it change? Im just curious ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 11:12 AM |
| 6 | WGTOW Evidence?why would a woman put up with a man she doesnt want? wtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/23 06:16 AM |
| 3 | WGTOW Evidence?or the ominous cat lady | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 06:41 PM |
| 6 | WGTOW Evidence?she cant get the man she actually wants tho and has no need to put up with a guy she doesnt want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 06:40 PM |
| 10 | Not only does the D.E.N.N.I.S. system work, it should be the ultimate blueprint for any man seeking to date women casually.yep...romance is dead for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/23 06:38 PM |
| 0 | Study finds that being muscular does not increase attractiveness for short men.silly me thought they went to war bc they had no choice and were forced to do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | What’s your prediction for dating/relationships/marriage in the next few decades?nah, social media wont go away and since social media is still there ppl compare themselves to not just their direct peer group but to literally all ppl on the planet which leads ppl to always think they one swipe away from a better match...there is also no push back, ppl are more online then ever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 02:19 PM |
| 3 | What’s your prediction for dating/relationships/marriage in the next few decades?why marry a robot if its already yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 02:16 PM |
| 10 | Does equality prevent divorce?yeah but thats not what this post was about...if you want to talk about that you should make ur own post ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 01:15 PM |
| 7 | Does equality prevent divorce?You can only minimize risk, not eliminate it 100%..but if a man is afraid of paying lifelong alimony to his ex-wife, marrying a woman of the same economic class who has a job (that she likes) is the better choice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Does equality prevent divorce?She can stop working, earn less or stop growing in her career. guys can (and sometimes do) that too...life is risky, thats what makes it fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 01:05 PM |
| 13 | Does equality prevent divorce?we dont talk anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 12:23 PM |
| 16 | Does equality prevent divorce?the guys who lament about being divorce raped are usually the same guys who want a SAHW ...if you and ur wife both earn money divorce rape is not that much of a thing. From what ive noticed irl thats the case nowadays anyway (because life is expensive but also bc not all women really like doing nothing but chores and dealing with the children) and what some guys deem "divorce rape" is actually alimony for the children (if there are any) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/23 11:53 AM |
| 3 | Do you think mothers are confused as to why their now grown nice guy son has yet to find a partner?you think thats common? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 11:55 AM |
| 5 | Do you think mothers are confused as to why their now grown nice guy son has yet to find a partner?how many dads are able to do all that themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Do you think mothers are confused as to why their now grown nice guy son has yet to find a partner?dont apologize, i wish it was longer, id be interested in a post about that actually! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Do you think mothers are confused as to why their now grown nice guy son has yet to find a partner?made me laugh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 09:57 AM |
| 0 | When men are unable to get a wife, ultimately they will resort to betraying their tribe, this is how Ephialtes betrayed spartans, it is because he couldnt get laid.they dont get nervous...they commies, they knew the outcome of their one child policy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/23 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Women in their twenties: Would you be okay with a 10-year age gap?im not talking about "being used for money" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Women in their twenties: Would you be okay with a 10-year age gap?hey agree to disagree...all im saying is rhat know lots of women who ditched men with (more) money for various reasons..it doesnt have the leverage ir used to have if ur not literally rich | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Women in their twenties: Would you be okay with a 10-year age gap?if you have tons of it sure...if ur an average man with an average income ur money doesnt mean much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 07:38 PM |
| 4 | At what age is it a turnoff for a man to have never had a girlfriend?And yet, a lot of women here claim that the reason men can't get laid isn't their physical looks but their awkwardness and personality not all men who are single for a longer period of time are single bc they awkward, all single men i know are single bc they didnt find a woman they really liked for example ...i personally dont know one person IRL who's single and miserable about it, all of them have options, theiy just dont like their options and choose to be single instead (none of these ppl ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 12:25 PM |
| 5 | Where are all the good men? South East Asia...i know a couple of guys who married thai women and brought them to their homecountry (europe)...one is currently suing his wife bc she attacked him with a knife. The woman i know also married a european guy and has a friend circle full of thai women with euro men and boy, these women treat their men like crap Edit: and all of them built houses in thailand for their wives families and have no say in what is done to/with the property (since afaik only locals can buy land there) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 10:37 AM |
| 13 | At what age is it a turnoff for a man to have never had a girlfriend?the latter is far better!! (at least for me personally) Being single for 5 years isnt odd to me so i dont have much of an opinion on it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 10:25 AM |
| 9 | Do too many “unpaired” men cause societal instability?that's not good for society. its great for forming an army tho... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 09:59 AM |
| 3 | Women in their twenties: Would you be okay with a 10-year age gap?money no longer has the effect it used to have since women make their own money (and often times outearn the avg male)...even as a sugar daddy you have to at least look somewhat decent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 09:57 AM |
| 23 | At what age is it a turnoff for a man to have never had a girlfriend?Depends on the reason he never had a GF...if he never had a GF because he's a player its a different story than if he never had a GF bc hes idk socially awkward or smth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/23 09:54 AM |
| 2 | A list of what pets a woman owns says about heri personally want a small dog bc its much cheaper, less work and less gross and bc i can carry it in a bag and still enter stores and shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 09:44 AM |
| 3 | Single men have the lowest use of antidepressants of all groups categorized by sex and marital status.what about suicide rates tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/23 08:16 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?becommig a nagging pain-in-ass-GF is a process...rome wasnt built in one day also i said they're in relarionships...i never said they're in good loving relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 01:20 PM |
| 1 | The Definition of ‘The Wall’ for Women’s Dating Attractiveness to (most) Meni know such cases too but they a) arent the norm and b) degrees are not a 100% indicator of social class i googled a bit, australia def has classes (like every country) so having classes that def influences dating but hey...if you think you all the same down under good for you ...lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Women focus on careers because a career is a good investment, a man generally isn'tthats why the whole SAHG(irfriend) thing is exceptionally weird...you dont even have the safety of marriage...ur just wasting time playing house as an adult | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:46 PM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?nah they all had nagging pain-in-the-ass GFs, and when the relationship ends they usually end up with another nagging pain-in-the-ass GF | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Above average looking (but not top tier men) have a harder time with datingdude compared himself to a marvel action hero (actors train for that alot and are on roids)...i mean...maybe take it all with a grain of salt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | The Definition of ‘The Wall’ for Women’s Dating Attractiveness to (most) Menshe'll move on far sooner...she'll move on when the ick has become unabarable and the next SD in line is early 40s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | The Definition of ‘The Wall’ for Women’s Dating Attractiveness to (most) Menthats not true for any country bruh...i agree the US is more rigid but even here in europe most ppl with degrees date and marry other ppl with degrees...irs not even soley about Intelligence imo but simply similarities...and yes...men values that too and no...men arent actually turned on by the degrees of women (duh) but they appreciate a human with similar experiences (just like all humans) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:29 PM |
| 9 | “I see average couples everywhere” Okay, what exactly do YOU think think an “average” couple look like?the world is still run by boomers and old gen x ers ...they more relevant to whats happening globally than genz and millenials...and gen x isnt even that old...the youngest gen xer is 42...they will "shape the world" for the next 20 years...then slowly millenials will catch up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:07 PM |
| 6 | Anyone in a fulfilling relationship with someone they didn't find physically attractive initially?damn...i feel bad for the chick ngl, if thats what being with a hotter guy looks like its so not worth it ...cant you break up with her and date ur looksmatch so she can find a guy who doesnt do the power play bc of her face? that so sad :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Anyone in a fulfilling relationship with someone they didn't find physically attractive initially?björk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 11:57 AM |
| 1 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?from what ive noticed...the guys with nagging moms end up with nagging GF...didnt see the overcompensation thing...in general i saw irl way more men dating a version of their mom then going the other way to overcorrect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 11:45 AM |
| 4 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?there prob are none lol... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 11:43 AM |
| 42 | “I see average couples everywhere” Okay, what exactly do YOU think think an “average” couple look like?ppl over 30 date too...ppl date at all ages | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 11:32 AM |
| 5 | Women need to submissive to men and cry to us so we never leave them, like when Sakura cried to make Sasuke stay, that is true lovetop comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 04:54 AM |
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