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r/Divorce_Men is a subreddit that addresses the unique challenges facing men during divorce - from custody to assets, finances, attorneys and social issues.

March 14, 2014
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crowexplorer/r/Divorce_Men24/06/21 05:01 AM
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MartyMcFly7/r/Divorce_Men08/03/21 07:07 PM
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soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men07/05/21 03:04 AM
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To my ex wife who just wants us to be friends. Thank you for the "Merry Christmas" text message - but I wont respond. Not with bitterness no...
someoneelseiknow/r/Divorce_Men24/12/20 09:43 PM
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I would have went to my grave comfortably miserable. It really was a one sided marriage. All her no me. "happy wife happy life". Far from it...
soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men27/05/21 12:59 AM
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oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men14/06/21 01:20 AM
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yourcarlosdanger/r/Divorce_Men21/04/21 11:16 PM
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Discarded me. Thought her and AP would blackmail me and extort me 💰💰💰 (dude lost job). I hired a lawyer and let them have it and come at me. ...
TheBoyBand/r/Divorce_Men01/12/21 06:04 AM
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This suicide thought stuff has to stop. As someone from the other side. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE BEING FUCKED BY THE SYSTEM\WIFE\ET...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men13/04/22 02:02 AM
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Remember men You don't miss her. You miss an idea of her. You miss a Version of how she use to be. Remember your pain, Remember your anger, Remember t...
bigtony199077/r/Divorce_Men13/01/21 10:13 PM
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Just wanted to say that and thank you for your stories. All of this is really sad and eye-opening....
iwasanacidbaby/r/Divorce_Men14/05/21 06:15 PM
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oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men20/06/21 01:04 AM
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hello. i [34M] am in the middle of a divorce from my wife. she is a stay at home mom. we initiated the divorce a year ago in march 2020 and are still ...
jazzbaygrapes/r/Divorce_Men16/02/21 08:05 AM
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bigtony199077/r/Divorce_Men18/07/20 05:59 PM
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soopirV/r/Divorce_Men25/09/19 02:43 AM
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I am just so upset at how much money was stolen from me. I lost about $150k of my self-earned net worth at 34 years old. Together since 2010, Married ...
boosted1234567/r/Divorce_Men17/04/21 10:37 PM
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Ain't that the truth. ...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men20/01/22 12:25 PM
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The next time you are at a convenient store\gas station.....watch how many men walk out on a random Tuesday at 4 or 5pm with a six or twelve pack. I w...
soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men01/05/21 03:47 AM
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Spending my life with this person, yes. Marrying and signing papers? Huge NO. ...
oldskoolflavor/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 03:15 PM
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Hello, if you are newly separated I highly suggest you heed this advice. When my wife dropped the bomb that "she didn't love me anymore and c...
No_Committee8461/r/Divorce_Men03/01/22 06:03 AM
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Sankronized/r/Divorce_Men12/06/21 11:58 PM
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I thought it was for the best, to not split up the family, I was wrong. I have loved her since the moment I saw her. I have loved her every minute of ...
CommunicationNo2297/r/Divorce_Men08/12/21 10:42 PM
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I was granted an extra night to take my boy to see fireworks, he's 4. Had to ask to spend extra time with my child, hard to imagine such a thing but t...
NoEntertainment3490/r/Divorce_Men05/07/21 02:06 PM
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lindabelcher95/r/Divorce_Men30/09/19 01:13 AM
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oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men16/06/21 12:42 PM
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MisterEdGein8/r/Divorce_Men08/09/21 04:03 PM
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AlistairVigier/r/Divorce_Men10/08/21 05:25 PM
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SilverZ71/r/Divorce_Men23/06/21 12:42 AM
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Alucent/r/Divorce_Men01/08/20 12:22 PM
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Hopefully this makes a few of you laugh. I'm divorcing my wife after less than 2 years of marriage. She cheated while I was traveling for work, li...
Imaginary-Till7271/r/Divorce_Men17/03/22 04:45 AM
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As the title suggests, get out right when the mask falls. Don't think it will get better. Don't listen to the opinion of family members or friends. Ge...
TrollCityBlunder/r/Divorce_Men17/04/22 10:51 PM
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divorceddad2019/r/Divorce_Men09/12/20 10:27 AM
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oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men16/07/21 02:08 AM
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schmodependent/r/Divorce_Men30/01/20 12:25 PM
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My ex racked up 125k with a legal team on par with OJ. Thought was going to give me the bill. Judge assigned me zero fees. Have to savor the small win...
JonathanApple/r/Divorce_Men28/01/22 01:34 AM
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Women are innately the most SELFISH, SELF ABSORBED beings you can find. True, you have some sweethearts out there, it they're rare, and even then the ...
Focus_On_A_Check/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 06:54 AM
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I was a stay at home dad who never lied, drank, cheated, once in our 29 year marriage. That's not a misprint. My wife made $350k per year. We had ...
TastyWheat67/r/Divorce_Men20/02/22 02:04 PM
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Been final for 9 months now.......but have been on my own well over 4 years.   It's hard waking up in a king sized bed with an oversized warm...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men31/01/22 04:59 PM
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This one always bothers me. After my divorce I have dated many divorced women and have stumbled upon a common theme. They always tell me in the most n...
DivorcedConfused/r/Divorce_Men20/06/21 03:45 PM
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crowexplorer/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 01:45 AM
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I ran into a friend who recently got a new black jeep with green accents. He told me he finally convinced his wife and "wore her down" in or...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men27/06/21 05:47 PM
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Never again....
medic4401/r/Divorce_Men02/03/20 06:54 PM
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Flesh_Pillow5/r/Divorce_Men09/11/19 08:04 PM
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kordeliakuthbert/r/Divorce_Men12/06/19 04:52 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/ofv2wx/we_dont_miss_our_exs_we_miss_what_should_have_been/...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men07/07/21 11:41 PM
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So... this is my second divorce and it hurts worse than the first. The lady I am divorcing now is not a bad woman, she means well but she is like an a...
killtheruse/r/Divorce_Men26/04/21 05:06 AM
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I just changed the empty toilet paper roll…THE RIGHT WAY. I just put a Neil Young record on the turntable…AND TURNED IT UP A LITTLE LOUDER THAN US...
Thinkingtoomuch101/r/Divorce_Men16/11/21 04:33 AM
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I joined this sub 3 years ago when my wife of 7 years and I split. It was a relatively "easy" divorce with only a single minor involved. Whi...
zensoma/r/Divorce_Men18/08/21 07:38 PM
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What does it mean for you? If you have kids, you pay 30-40% of your income in Child support until the kid finishes their university (usually 22-23 yea...
Funny_Wolverine_9/r/Divorce_Men03/09/21 01:28 AM
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Most modern women don't care about honor or integrity. They only care about themselves and money. As I read most of these divorce posts, many men ...
Candid-Relevance-333/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 06:20 AM
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I'm a woman lurking here so I can gain insight and help a couple men close to me fare better in their split. I just wanna say… (Good) Men are WONDER...
Celebrate453/r/Divorce_Men04/01/22 07:08 PM
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When my wife and I first agreed to divorce, I was scared shitless as to how I was going to manage on my own. My life as I'd known it for over 25 y...
MartyMcFly7/r/Divorce_Men27/07/21 06:16 PM
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Since my other account was banned for "hate speech and violence" figured I'd put this back up for visibility. The next time you are at a...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 08:54 PM
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My ex cheated on me. Then turned full victim and somehow blamed me for it. Worst of all some friends and family in our group actually began supporting...
soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men22/05/21 05:08 PM
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It has been nice coming here for quick boosts knowing that others are going through similar situations. Knowing I'm not alone has been helpful in guid...
WistfulIntent/r/Divorce_Men15/12/20 11:09 PM
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All women have done was waste my time and my money. Just needed to vent this off my chest. ...
BlessedAFx777/r/Divorce_Men04/12/21 04:02 AM
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So it was finalized friday, now I'm a free agent. We split the house 60% to me 40% to her because she was having a torrid affair with some clown. ...
One-Donkey-9418/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 03:08 PM
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underdog1568/r/Divorce_Men27/07/20 06:07 PM
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I could go without hearing that for the rest of my life. I used to be sympathetic to women who would say this, but now I have no idea if it's true or ...
WartimeDad/r/Divorce_Men23/02/21 04:20 AM
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Not sure about now but 20-25 years ago and beyond..... I was sold a bad bill of goods. When I courted I was told to treat her like a princess\queen. A...
soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men12/05/21 05:45 PM
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AAh-__DuuuWhot337/r/Divorce_Men18/06/21 08:39 AM
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My wife left me 3 years ago this week. From the time she mentioned she wanted a divorce (4+ years ago) I was for arguments sake a failed business owne...
divorceddudes/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 07:10 PM
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I posted yesterday about my wife of 16 years having an affair with my neighbor. Since I found out 2 days ago, I've been crushed and terrified…until ...
Least_Winter9632/r/Divorce_Men21/08/21 07:07 PM
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I was overly ambitious. Thought I was Superman. Got 50/50 custody, got into a $2000/mo mortgage, add to that a $1500/mo alimony... thought I'd keep ea...
wirescraper/r/Divorce_Men04/12/19 10:27 PM
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My narcissistic wife has finally crossed the Rubicon. Last night, after two nights of sleeping at my parent's I decided I'm staying home. She told me ...
BlowOut1995/r/Divorce_Men23/10/19 12:55 AM
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It's really helped me understand that I'm not alone. So much so that it appears that my situation isn't uncommon. It's pretty normal. ...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men31/05/21 01:54 PM
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She will come to her senses and this will resolve itself. The system will protect me. I can remain passive and just defend until this is over. Taking...
pegleg_legal/r/Divorce_Men14/07/21 03:57 AM
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I am 4 years post divorce and I have to say it has been a ride. It was an emotional roller coaster that I was not at all prepared for. I feel that I w...
someoneelseiknow/r/Divorce_Men16/02/22 08:42 AM
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My STBXW dropped kids off earlier than holiday court order on Christmas Day. This was a pleasant surprise that I'll gladly take given I thought I wasn...
walkingdisaster4046/r/Divorce_Men30/12/21 02:28 AM
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jakeup58874/r/Divorce_Men20/05/20 02:13 AM
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I'm in one of the largest cities in the country, full of beautiful women and I have no interest. I'm not sure if it's tied to the divorce ...
heading2pdx/r/Divorce_Men27/01/22 02:55 PM
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I wanted to say thank you to everyone in this group. I'm 28 years old who is currently dating but avoiding cohabitation and marriage and not looking t...
Someaznguymain/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 01:21 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/rhy11a/just_a_note_banned_from_rcoparenting_for_telling/...
SwamiSweatSocks/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 07:24 PM
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oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men09/07/21 02:54 PM
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crowexplorer/r/Divorce_Men27/06/21 02:44 AM
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I have been lurking here for a few months and I figured it was time that I share my story. Like many of you, my wife decided three months ago that she...
kls1042/r/Divorce_Men28/06/21 02:19 PM
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This is going to be long but won't even touch on the horrors of being with this person. My friends and family all say I should write a book about the ...
Going_Blissfully/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 07:56 PM
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soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men09/05/21 10:42 PM
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oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men24/06/21 02:41 AM
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Nearly 13 years to the day we got married, in fact. I wanted to say thanks for all the advice and tough love that folks dole out freely on this sub, i...
askingforafreddit/r/Divorce_Men10/02/22 03:53 AM
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Just a reminder. I just seen a post on here about a man going through divorce and asking our permission to download tinder. Listen, if you've just got...
BlessedAF777/r/Divorce_Men22/08/21 01:01 PM
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Hello gentleman. I'm here to give update on the protective order I was served. It was dismissed due to lack of evidence provided. She was also cau...
Imaginary-Set-9678/r/Divorce_Men15/10/21 03:30 PM
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neptune_p_g/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 11:51 PM
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Rich Cooper says this several times in The Unplugged Alpha. Certainly was true in my case. ...
Chip512/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 09:35 PM
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Put a GPS tracker on the STBXW's car and led me to her Dick providers house. I staked out the house for 5 fucking hours. See them walking to the parki...
canival9885/r/Divorce_Men18/01/22 10:57 AM
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Went to the counselor and she spun the following tale: That I have been emotionally abusive for years. That she loved me once but mostly has felt stuc...
AdministrativeJob521/r/Divorce_Men06/11/21 01:48 AM
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I cannot stress this enough. You may be hurt, you may want to take the high road, be a better man, set a good example for your children, think you can...
opiewaan/r/Divorce_Men06/04/21 05:49 PM
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I have been participating in quite a few posts here over the last 6 months or so..... Just thought I'd mention here that the day has come and it&#...
Jonger1150/r/Divorce_Men08/07/21 01:57 PM
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Boys, getting to the gym and working on yourself is the most important thing you can do. If your depressed, training will help lift that feeling. If y...
invalidusehername/r/Divorce_Men30/11/20 09:21 PM
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misfit---/r/Divorce_Men30/06/21 10:28 PM
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I've posted on r/relationships, r/marriage, and even r/divorce. And I got crucified on there for the things I said about my wife and my marriage, even...
KVPxMAS/r/Divorce_Men28/04/21 05:28 PM
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TLDR: Stay away from Single Mom's, and having kids in this day and age is high risk. A California Father writes in a private Facebook group: In Ca...
Funny_Wolverine_9/r/Divorce_Men17/01/22 02:15 AM
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So I'm a pretty private person on social media and didn't make a public announcement, but my divorce was finalized yesterday. I just sent a few privat...
Lazylerner5447/r/Divorce_Men02/11/21 06:18 PM
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Im sitting at my desk at work right now after a rough morning getting my daughter to daycare. She's 5 and a half and still using pullups. I spent ...
CantCopeAnymore24/r/Divorce_Men11/08/21 02:12 PM
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You have survived everything you've gone through up to this point. The best day of your life is still yet to come. There are still people you haven't ...
ManifestingQueen_/r/Divorce_Men26/04/21 11:03 PM
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Context: I've been married to my spouse for 4 years now.. we both have no children, we do not have any purchases/mortgages together, my wife works par...
throwawaydev7602367/r/Divorce_Men03/02/22 12:41 PM
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Just got my attorney's bill for last month: $4492. It's more than I even made last month. (Most of that was fighting for my right to live in m...
MartyMcFly7/r/Divorce_Men09/06/21 02:29 AM
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"American men are 8.3X more likely to commit suicide than women post-divorce, and are 2.4X more likely to commit suicide than their married count...
Audisans/r/Divorce_Men02/02/20 07:32 PM
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Just found out my wife had been sleeping with her boss for 3 years. Lots of people knew. I kinda knew. Put on weight, no affection, never around. Neve...
HoldinOn15/r/Divorce_Men03/01/20 06:03 AM
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Gentlemen, We are all here because we are preparing for, going through or just finished a divorce. I am tired of being sad and heartbroken and angry. ...
Superderp210/r/Divorce_Men30/11/21 08:02 PM
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soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men10/05/21 07:12 PM
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No matter what. No matter that she tells you you did nothing wrong. No matter that she tells you she wants it to be amicable. No matter that she tells...
GodammitSmalls/r/Divorce_Men30/05/21 09:34 AM
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I was just curious if anyone else had this bizarre experience. After I discovered my wife's affair and confronted her with the evidence She initia...
Aggravating-Ad-5793/r/Divorce_Men15/06/21 02:21 PM
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What this lady did...49,736 points•1,496 comments•submitted 1 month ago by Thryloz to r/iamatotalpieceofshit914913(function() ...
W221S63AMG/r/Divorce_Men23/06/21 02:33 PM
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I got some meaningful advice from a friend when I was really struggling with handling my new divorced reality. Some backstory, in the span of about 90...
breeboop/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 06:04 PM
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Look, I get it - we are/were all pissed and hurt and angry. And we can't always keep our temper or not act out. But please do everything you can t...
pegleg_legal/r/Divorce_Men22/02/22 02:09 AM
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Funkytown1177/r/Divorce_Men05/04/19 02:50 AM
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skaelee/r/Divorce_Men26/07/21 06:07 PM
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We were married for 8 years and 362 days and she waited all of 6 fucking weeks to be "Facebook official" with some fucking guy. I hate her and I want ...
thenarcostate/r/Divorce_Men26/10/21 09:43 AM
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May be it's just me. But, I have noticed a pattern whenever a man posts something in divorce sub, it hardly gets any response. I noticed one OP postin...
One-Wait-8383/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 05:09 PM
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I wanted to write something here for everyone that was once like me. 14 months ago My wife hit me with Divorce. I was devistated. I came hear and trut...
matywon/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 07:59 PM
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You can't help someone who is broken. No matter how much love you pour into a bucket full of holes. It wasn't for lack of trying though. (21 y...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 11:47 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/tadzqv/proverbs_313_do_not_give_your_strength_to_women/...
BlessedAFx777/r/Divorce_Men09/03/22 06:21 PM
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CS/CS/SB 1796 — Dissolution of Marriage > Here's a Summary of Bill the Family Court attorneys are up in arms. Presumed 50/50 Custody = Big Re...
InAJam_SoS/r/Divorce_Men21/03/22 11:50 PM
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I purchased my house in a very rapidly appreciating market prior to marriage. Although my ex asked, hinted and outright demanded to be put on the titl...
AtmosphereOk6378/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 04:18 PM
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BIG Facts. ...
Focus_On_A_Check/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 01:18 AM
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Hey Fellas I am a year out from my ex-moving out. My divorce was finalized 12/2/20. 3 kids, divorce was a total shock and surprise. Writing this for w...
metzgie1/r/Divorce_Men11/01/21 01:46 PM
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So today I stopped off a Dunkin' Donuts in the morning for a quick breakfast. Saw a rather attractive woman subtly eyeing me but didn't make any menta...
Protomize/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 05:43 PM
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I got the message from the Ex today that she is now cohabitating with another man. A family court judge turned me from a father to a visitor in an ins...
InAJam_SoS/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 11:56 PM
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I am seeing a beautiful girl I am falling in love with, but after reading the stories here I know i'm living in delusion. The upkeep cost, revealing c...
iwasanacidbaby/r/Divorce_Men30/10/21 02:54 AM
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She wanted to come back and “fix” things after the devastation and turmoil she left behind. I said…Fuckkkk youuu! Your biggest mistake was allow...
TheBoyBand/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 10:34 PM
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42M and in the middle of my divorce. We decided to divorce around Thanksgiving, and I think both of us were so excited to move on to our next phase of...
relationshiptossoutt/r/Divorce_Men27/12/21 11:28 PM
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Imagine... we are all saving $200+ today and getting to kick back tonight. ...
DarthLaterz/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 02:47 PM
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Well, caught the wife cheating. She's a stay at home mom even though our daughter is in school, refuses to get a job, and sleeps all day. I do more of...
funk205/r/Divorce_Men19/01/22 02:44 PM
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"SB 1796 will be transmitted to Gov. DeSantis very soon. We need our supporters to contact the Gov's office and express support for the bill....
InAJam_SoS/r/Divorce_Men07/04/22 09:05 PM
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I've been posting here a lot. Sorry about that. I just feel like I need to talk to somebody about all this stuff. The brief rundown of the last fe...
SingleISuppose/r/Divorce_Men10/01/20 02:58 PM
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9 months separated. Divorce still pending. STBXW has a new boyfriend. It feels like yesterday that my life was destroyed like an F5 tornado passing th...
plasticlunchbox/r/Divorce_Men20/05/20 04:31 PM
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http://www.familylawexpress.com.au/family-law-news/familylawcourts/precedent/mother-loses-custody-after-preventing-judge-takes-girl-away-from-selfish-...
LawExpress/r/Divorce_Men21/05/21 09:11 AM
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I found out from my lawyer that, as of the 2nd of this month, I'm officially divorced. Thus ends a 21 year saga that culminated in my (ex) wife ha...
Meatros/r/Divorce_Men28/03/21 12:24 PM
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Do not move out of your residence! Do not move out of your residence! Do not move out of your residence! Just because she wants you to do so, Don't! S...
TheRealKishkumen/r/Divorce_Men22/07/21 09:43 PM
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I'm just curious. I'm 1/1 (been married once and now officially divorced one. You can put a 0.5 if you're going through the process of divorce. Also f...
rsmiley77/r/Divorce_Men20/04/21 04:39 PM
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This is my first time posting, actually it's my first ever Reddit post. I've been lurking for awhile and some of things I've read here have been incre...
mojothebarbarian/r/Divorce_Men09/07/21 02:45 AM
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My time alone is my time. Should I date or hang out.... great. I'm sure we'll have a fantastic time. Probably better than with my male friends...
soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men10/05/21 04:51 AM
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Everyone knows the actor Alec Baldwin and his famous Trump impersonations. I had no idea until yesterday that he went through a bitter divorce almost ...
25_years/r/Divorce_Men01/08/21 01:41 PM
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I got the news last June, and had a far worse 2020 than most others... there were some very bad times. But they ended. I got finalized on the 12th of ...
KnownDistance/r/Divorce_Men05/05/21 01:50 AM
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Fifteen years of date night every Friday. That's almost 800 date nights. Every Friday for that long. When we first separated Friday's were not...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men19/07/21 01:51 AM
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so, ill sum it up as best as i can: we have two little girls, 5 and 6, we divorced when they were 3 and 4. so its been a while. She got with someone w...
awesomeroy/r/Divorce_Men15/04/22 10:46 PM
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I've been posting here for a while as I work through my divorce, but I got word today that it's a done deal. Signed and finished. I'm fully divorced n...
relationshiptossoutt/r/Divorce_Men22/01/22 01:07 AM
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This quote is straight out of the narcissist handbook bc it's more about her and what you do for her, rather than making you believe she misses you. O...
KnownLedgesIsPowder/r/Divorce_Men14/03/22 05:58 AM
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My wife left me last August, I was active here months ago working through the pain. Finally early this year I got back online and started dating again...
thiefzer0/r/Divorce_Men06/04/22 12:03 PM
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I tried to save few, but they wont listen. Thanks for saving me from marriage guys. Most of them are getting married "because she wants it"....
Sorgenkind13/r/Divorce_Men14/01/22 06:28 PM
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Article here: www.cnbc.com/amp/2019/11/18/women-are-still-lagging-behind-men-when-it-comes-to-saving.html Per the article women save at a rate less th...
azwildcat74/r/Divorce_Men01/01/22 04:25 PM
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Women don't. After months of reading and listening to "experts" both from male and female sides... I have come to terms with the followi...
Brokenbyher2019/r/Divorce_Men06/04/20 06:23 AM
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My wife of 20 years left me this past Thursday, a day before Valentine's Day. She packed most of her things while I was at work... she even took the d...
rrockman/r/Divorce_Men15/02/20 12:51 PM
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Yesterday was the two year anniversary of my divorce. Here are a few things that I wish I knew three years ago and what I have learned since then. 1. ...
adapt2grow/r/Divorce_Men30/09/19 07:59 PM
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I never realized how much I gave up in order to make my marriage work. It was a gradual chipping away of the actions that made me feel loved and good ...
mercybull/r/Divorce_Men14/06/21 08:28 PM
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Two days after serving my stbxw and on week two of no contact I receive a message: “Emergency, please contact me.” Me: The children are under my c...
TheBoyBand/r/Divorce_Men17/07/21 04:35 PM
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skaelee/r/Divorce_Men22/04/21 05:23 PM
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She left me when I was in my late twenties when I had no real assets to lose half of or enough time in the marriage to get an alimony case started. We...
Protomize/r/Divorce_Men07/09/21 04:05 PM
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The wife and I decided to divorce about 2 weeks ago. A few days later, she sends me an embarrassed text message apologizing because she'd bought a...
relationshiptossoutt/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 05:44 PM
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I am not the OP here. Just posting a link to another subreddit. Wow, so much of this resonates with me and, I'm sure, with other men, too. https:/...
25_years/r/Divorce_Men25/11/21 02:48 PM
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Its worse than you think - you don't want to know the FULL truth, trust me. Emotional affair...haaaa right, you don't want to know. Push the p...
warrior_up/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 09:53 PM
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Recd a copy of the signed judgement today from my attorney. It's been a long battle from beginning to end and I am happy things worked out. I'm in NY....
Lemon-law/r/Divorce_Men28/10/21 02:48 PM
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I have never posted before today but I have nobody to talk to and I've had a rough weekend. Please be kind. As background, I am a professional with mu...
1DecentMan/r/Divorce_Men18/10/21 12:01 AM
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Big win today! I just assumed that I was going to get crushed because “female bias of the court” but my lawyer and I came up with a great case. ST...
SpiritualEnema/r/Divorce_Men04/08/21 02:34 PM
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My situation is a little different in the sense I was dealing with a covert narcissist. Anyway we've been divorced for a short while now. I was th...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men01/06/21 08:52 AM
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Finalizing the mortgage and quit claim deed on the house tomorrow with the lawyer. No children. I'm 38, she's 34. We were married 6 years, tog...
Metallicatica/r/Divorce_Men10/06/21 05:18 PM
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She wanted an amicable divorce, she said. Best for the kids, she said. Maybe we can still be friends, or even get back together later, she said. This ...
sexytimeinseattle/r/Divorce_Men16/10/19 08:25 AM
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Fellas.........a wise man I know has a quote. "Every day above dirt is a good day" I'm here to tell you that....IT DOES GET BETTER. Reme...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men21/02/22 03:27 AM
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Hey all. As you get stronger and proper out of the marriage and see things for what they really were…. What are your top 3 new rules for your new re...
behold20201/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 11:33 AM
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So this might be a long post. The reason I am posting it is to tell you about my journey and the road to redemption, and to help others that are in a ...
NewJerseySmiles/r/Divorce_Men23/07/21 03:36 PM
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Unfortunately, in Dec 2019, just before her breast cancer diagnosis, STBX decided to have a bit of a fling with one of the blokes that she works with....
Tomo201070/r/Divorce_Men11/06/21 12:49 AM
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This is why marriage is a joke.: Divorced for Working too much (Dailymail) She divorced him because he worked too much and missed a holiday 20 years a...
cloudburr/r/Divorce_Men15/06/21 11:18 AM
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My 6 year old son said to me today while out on the lake “I'm just sad daddy that I won't get any more camping trips with you and mommy together aga...
fixingmedaybyday/r/Divorce_Men15/08/21 02:23 AM
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Welllll as the title says; as of today I am officially divorced. Married 10 years and 3 kids. Separated for a little over a year. Looking back I was t...
chimera1337/r/Divorce_Men29/02/20 02:50 AM
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So the slut face STBExW lived with me for 11 years and didnt help pay for anything. We have a pre nup which she is now challenging. I have offered her...
hustlors/r/Divorce_Men30/10/19 12:32 AM
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UnitedParents4C/r/Divorce_Men27/03/20 09:05 PM
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I am not a divorced man, rather a woman married to a man who is divorced. Not to sound cliché but I really despise his ex wife. They were married for...
Tiny_Cricket89/r/Divorce_Men29/01/20 12:38 AM
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I was separated from my husband a year and a half ago, divorce final almost a year now. Everything was fine, no lawyers, mediation one time as require...
Ok-Forever/r/Divorce_Men30/04/21 10:18 AM
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Yesterday happened to be one of the best days I can ever remember. Woke up and drank a pot of coffee, worked for about an hour or so preparing my week...
metzgie1/r/Divorce_Men08/11/20 01:34 PM
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One of the most powerful lessons I learned during my divorce recovery: This lesson has no limits to where it can be applied… Want to lose weight? It...
TheRealCaffeineMan/r/Divorce_Men25/01/22 01:01 PM
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I live in the Bible belt in SW Missouri. Every man I've helped I either know or am close to their circle. I'm somewhat familiar with their fam...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men06/04/22 06:51 AM
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That was hard. She wants a counselor but I said no, it's too late. I feel like the worst person in the world. She really dug into me about what she...
LostAndFound1stTime/r/Divorce_Men15/12/21 03:47 AM
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Mickwillie/r/Divorce_Men17/09/21 01:12 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/qy99z2/if_theres_anything_thats_caused_more_pain_and/...
heldoglykke/r/Divorce_Men20/11/21 04:37 PM
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Wife left 3 weeks ago to "be her true and authentic self" and then showed up at my house drunk that friday saying she missed me. I asked her...
Grey_Bear_40/r/Divorce_Men06/10/21 12:48 PM
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Men must learn effective communication skills and develop themselves because some men have actually hanged themselves due to their spouses and girlfri...
extramanhood/r/Divorce_Men28/05/21 02:27 PM
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Bipolar_investor/r/Divorce_Men20/01/21 08:32 AM
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I'm at a loss. ...
GreekGodDadBod/r/Divorce_Men07/09/19 01:13 AM
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UnitedParents4C/r/Divorce_Men30/03/20 03:51 PM
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I thought I'd follow up with everyone here since it's been almost three months since I posted my story: Who's Got Two Thumbs, The House, C...
GrayCalf/r/Divorce_Men12/11/19 06:03 AM
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After one year of dealing with false accusations, stalking/harassment, and stolen money, it's over. She tried everything in her power to ruin me and I...
Webofshadows1/r/Divorce_Men31/07/21 10:13 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Burst_of_Joy...
25_years/r/Divorce_Men21/07/21 08:39 PM
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I hate that the majority of US women over 40 are practically obese. I tried. I can't do it, and I won't settle. I don't necessarily want a younger wom...
schmodependent/r/Divorce_Men25/12/20 06:28 AM
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I've always been "current" on my child support. I use quotes here because they've always taken it right out of my goddamn checks, bu...
strutt3r/r/Divorce_Men10/12/21 02:22 PM
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So one morning I got up and notice the house hasn't been cleaned in weeks,because she obviously stopped cleaning along with other things so I decided ...
skaelee/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 05:56 PM
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Divorced Men of Reddit: If you been through a unpleasant/terrible divorce already, would you consider getting married again? ...
Single_Dads/r/Divorce_Men18/09/21 01:14 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/rue0kh/just_was_told_by_my_wife_of_30_years_that_she_has/...
de-spies/r/Divorce_Men02/01/22 05:07 PM
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When they were little, dad was awesome, goofy, fun, etc... Now that my two girls are a bit older (12 and 15), not so much, they typically come to my h...
Dat_Steve/r/Divorce_Men14/01/22 06:01 PM
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I paid the attorney and the ball is rolling. Now, my wife is acting perfect. Letting me focus on my work, helping with the kids without complaining, a...
PushinNShovin/r/Divorce_Men03/03/21 04:40 PM
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Biblically speaking....Jesus said “How could you worship two gods at the same time? You will have to hate one and love the other, or be devoted to o...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men08/06/21 05:01 AM
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I don't blame them for their ignorance. I too was once oblivious to the throws of infidelity and divorce. The thing is that you think you'd ac...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men12/06/21 05:13 PM
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Place cameras in the main living room area and or office\computer room. This is for everyone's safety. Namely yours. In the event that an argument...
soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men05/05/21 12:22 PM
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If anybody on here see's divorce in future because when you know YOU know its in your gut you just don't know when and you are lurking. START working ...
TheBoyBand/r/Divorce_Men12/07/21 11:01 PM
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I went from having zero parenting time with my daughter to having full custody and parenting time with her over the course of 10 years. The details of...
Audisans/r/Divorce_Men11/01/20 06:00 PM
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Gentlemen, Married 17 yrs, 4 kids. I'm 37, she's 36. She's been in a self destructive spiral for 6 months and it's gotten really bad. We separated in ...
Least_Winter9632/r/Divorce_Men04/12/21 03:11 PM
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My daughter, 6, came up to me today and spontaneously gave me a huge hug and whispered in my ear “you're my favourite person in the whole world”. ...
burninglass19/r/Divorce_Men11/09/21 05:11 AM
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STBXW and I have been separated for about a year, going to be starting the formal process soon, but scrolling through TikTok and reflecting on our 10+...
Ashcorp56/r/Divorce_Men11/11/21 09:33 PM
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I am going through divorce and I was thinking about it and came to these thoughts … you may add/argue it… — women are encouraged to file divorce...
chakamaki/r/Divorce_Men20/11/21 07:44 PM
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My children are in virtual school and today the teacher asked my 6-year-old son what he's happy about and his answer was "I'm at my dad&#...
SingleISuppose/r/Divorce_Men19/09/20 03:50 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCiou-plwSw8bS2CkTQ57B4Q...
25_years/r/Divorce_Men18/07/21 12:52 AM
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Went pretty much as far into proceedings as you can go including sitting for testimony for two days. Spent ~20k. Divorce was final Jan 1 2019…. Mone...
rsmiley77/r/Divorce_Men01/12/21 08:30 PM
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When we separated, we had a really good relationship. We agreed on all the custody issues and schedule, no lawyers needed. Then, about a year into sep...
toooldforthisnonsens/r/Divorce_Men21/01/22 04:26 PM
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I see a lot of posts on here talking about getting over wives who cheated. The days ahead will be long and tough. One thing that may get you some clos...
rsmiley77/r/Divorce_Men22/02/20 03:40 AM
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She cheated. I didn't know she cheated until about 3 weeks ago. It just reopened everything. I was over her, I AM over her... it's just knowin...
SingleISuppose/r/Divorce_Men10/06/20 01:48 PM
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I posted this in r/Divorce the other day and someone asked me to share it here. I was surprised at the responses it got as I didnt think anyone would ...
Froggies_courting/r/Divorce_Men17/11/19 12:07 PM
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I'm in the car with 3 of my friends. We're driving 6hrs home from a concert in Cali. I had a blast all weekend. I talked to my son Twice a day...
NO_PRND/r/Divorce_Men24/11/19 10:10 PM
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Can I file a complaint for Domestic violence which happened 10 months back ?0 points•56 comments•submitted 2 months ago by Ok_Entertai...
5w3ggy/r/Divorce_Men26/05/21 03:27 PM
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https://people.com/music/kelly-clarkson-divorce-pay-husband-brandon-blackstock-200k-support-month/...
rsmiley77/r/Divorce_Men28/07/21 03:27 PM
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Today is the day. The judge says that she wants this case closed today so it is about to be complete. We recovene at 1030 for final hearing. It's ...
SleepyTobi/r/Divorce_Men17/06/21 03:16 PM
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Just a thought I had. It's been over 2 years since my ex said she wants a divorce and we separated. We were in a loveless marriage and stayed in it ju...
MyNewNormal808/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 05:08 AM
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TL;DR I am rattled by the abrupt change in my wife's personality when she declared she wants a divorce. She says this is who she has been for a lo...
MakeItSoQ/r/Divorce_Men08/05/21 02:22 PM
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crowexplorer/r/Divorce_Men24/06/21 05:03 AM
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aaronbond1990/r/Divorce_Men09/08/21 12:14 AM
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Once you leave the futon you NEVER go back to it. It's kinda like an old job you cut your teeth on.   Why would you ever go back to being com...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men18/10/21 12:08 AM
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So I was doing laundry, something I never thought I'd be doing at a laundromat after all those years of marriage, but something that has become quite ...
Thinkingtoomuch101/r/Divorce_Men11/02/22 08:02 PM
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I'm separated for two months after 13 yr marriage , wife cheated yadi yada. Last night I went on my first date and TBH it was really nice to have the ...
justanotherjonathan/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 11:03 PM
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Double messages, so just asked the STBX to terminate (2nd time, separated since Oct, said wanted to terminate Mid Nov, but talked into one more try). ...
Gattsama/r/Divorce_Men25/01/22 11:19 AM
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Nailed it. Family Court Fiasco "Judge Thomas Moukawsher has admitted that Connecticut Family Court is corrupt as all hell, a stinking cesspool th...
InAJam_SoS/r/Divorce_Men13/12/21 03:07 AM
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I'm speaking from my own personal experience and the anecdotal experiences of many others. The family law system isn't optimized to determine ...
Mountain-Jackfruit-9/r/Divorce_Men29/11/21 05:24 PM
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Women be like: all you care about is money, and then turn around and sue you for more child support or alimony even though they decided to leave and y...
TheWritePrimate/r/Divorce_Men28/02/22 02:52 PM
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The way she cried during our first big argument. The way she held me close telling me she loved me. The letters we wrote. Telling her father I was &qu...
Extreme_Ad7547/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 02:42 PM
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45m, 35w, 5yo kid. I thought I married the love of my life. From the outside we looked like the perfect couple. After our child was born, she changed ...
Falafelluvr1976/r/Divorce_Men20/03/22 03:10 PM
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After being divorced for more than a year I'm seeing a significant number of my married friends excluding me from activities. Couples going campin...
AirSailer/r/Divorce_Men25/04/22 02:16 AM
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dis·​sim·​u·​late | \ (ˌ)di-ˈsim-yə-ˌlāt : to hide under a false appearance My philosophy in approaching high-conflict, contentious divo...
pegleg_legal/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 08:34 AM
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You believed at one time..... "Yes dear" "Happy wife, happy life" The great Patrice O'Neal once said....."my happiness is...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men29/05/21 08:55 PM
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I married the wrong woman. She ruined me. However, I do have a 7yo son which I am thankful for. Hello community...
eyoung_nd2004/r/Divorce_Men19/02/21 06:41 PM
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I pay $500 in child support a month, 70% of out of pocket expenses, one kid, 50/50 custody. Get along cordially with the ex. Love my kid to pieces, wo...
MYNAMEMANSIR/r/Divorce_Men19/05/21 10:42 PM
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Marrried 3 years. Hated every single minute pretty much. No children. No assets other than a bank account with a few thousand in it. What are my damag...
drnkngpoolwater/r/Divorce_Men09/06/21 06:59 PM
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Dropped my kids off at their mom's today for the start of a two week vacation. Private lake, cabin, fishing, swimming, rowboats, fun. I want on th...
SingleISuppose/r/Divorce_Men12/06/21 09:34 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.the-sun.com/news/3313239/chicago-cubs-ben-zobrist-estranged-wife-julianna-4m-affair/amp/?fbclid=IwAR0oM-pn4f6ij6TpoX7...
rsmiley77/r/Divorce_Men20/07/21 12:09 PM
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Hey fellas, Wanted to follow up on a the two posts I did pre and mid divorce. It's been almost a year since we separated and 6 months since the co...
Sankronized/r/Divorce_Men17/04/21 04:50 PM
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Been an long road for all of us on this sub, I just landed the job of a lifetime, new girl (still little weird for me) that's been good company and wh...
warrior_up/r/Divorce_Men30/12/19 10:10 PM
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Hear me out. For 10 years I've used whatever body wash was in the shower. Last night I bought a soap meant for men. I left the shower feeling like...
SingleISuppose/r/Divorce_Men28/12/19 06:52 PM
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Hi Im new to this sub, I hang out over in r/DeadBedrooms and the r/HLCommunity sub. Im 38 my wife is 43, no kids. We both have good jobs, she makes mo...
TraditionalTackle1/r/Divorce_Men19/12/19 08:05 PM
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But his wife doesn't want him to. So he keeps making excuses why he can't come. The rides happen twice a week and take two hours each. Dude is in pris...
dadmacintosh/r/Divorce_Men07/11/21 10:45 PM
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As off 8:45am SAST I am free, free from this marriage that drained me and turned me into a emotionless drone. Life can now start afresh! Stick to your...
za_eagle/r/Divorce_Men05/11/21 08:44 AM
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That's it. That's the post. ...
SmartHomeDumbGuy/r/Divorce_Men20/09/21 05:23 AM
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All, I recently finished testifying in a three day custody trial, and it was brutal for everyone involved. Despite the mother of the child being a deg...
thefudmaster/r/Divorce_Men25/08/21 07:23 PM
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To those who are mired down in anxiety, darkness and uncertainty, please hear me that you will get through this and you will be happier on the other s...
Yukonhijack/r/Divorce_Men29/04/21 04:58 PM
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My nights have been getting worse since the separation. I just don't understand how someone who you said Yes I want to spend the rest of my life w...
kdm20_/r/Divorce_Men16/05/21 12:05 PM
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ACEsFather/r/Divorce_Men16/01/21 05:08 PM
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We have been married for 4 years, my wife (30F) is the one filling for divorce and I'm (33M) the one that was trying to fix the relationship. I ha...
ct3747/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 05:00 PM
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To note for this: In my state, there is no separation. You are married until you aren't. No "taking a few months to sleep around and find you...
bramlugh/r/Divorce_Men22/06/20 03:02 PM
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The divorce was 10 years ago. I'm sorry things didn't work out with your mom and me. No, she's not the same person I married, she's changed. She's try...
mayihaveatomato/r/Divorce_Men23/02/20 05:17 AM
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TL;DR at the bottom. After my ex and I split, she took the kids and skipped town a year ago, I found myself in this community looking for support and ...
swhitney186/r/Divorce_Men04/07/19 02:24 PM
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I know it was wrong. Look, she left me for another man... a coworker. I was angry. I felt betrayed. She said she didn't leave me for him. She said...
SingleISuppose/r/Divorce_Men26/02/20 05:00 PM
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A coworker of mine said this in regards to women and marriage and I cannot help but agree “They want the perfect house in the perfect suburban neigh...
bigtony199077/r/Divorce_Men20/07/20 03:04 PM
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Get a lawyer. This is one of the most distressing, important things you are ever going to go through. Your future with your children is at stake. Your...
GodammitSmalls/r/Divorce_Men07/07/21 10:27 AM
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Just happened to me. Used tax refund money to pay off last of divorce bills. First thing I bought? A new mattress… it's silly but throwing out the o...
rsmiley77/r/Divorce_Men07/02/22 11:01 PM
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Its been a year since the divorce was final. After 2 years of abuse and a lot of shit it thought it was all over. It was not, I suffered from depressi...
brian114/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 11:25 PM
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Relationships probably have a 99% failure rate. The first loves of anyone who've had relationships are no longer together. Subsequent relationships af...
Protomize/r/Divorce_Men12/01/22 12:41 PM
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Sorry gents, just can't live with the pain. It's not even just divorce.. it's life, life in general. Concentrating feels impossible, been in bed 3 day...
Malaine1/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 02:10 PM
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We've been married 8 years last November, 2 kids, 8 and 5, it's been about 8 months, since she flipped the switch on me for good. I'm “not worth any...
GreasyRid3r/r/Divorce_Men05/02/22 07:23 AM
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Not all women will divorce grape you. But all women have the capability to do so. Even when she seems so perfect for you. Have a nice day gentlemen! ...
Protomize/r/Divorce_Men01/02/22 01:12 PM
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The most common mistake we make is holding out hope for some amicable resolution when the only way to keep it "amicable" is to surrender to ...
pegleg_legal/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 09:40 AM
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Hi there, I've lurked here for a while and am glad to be part of this community. I'd like to share this with some of you as it's a bit vul...
Malaine1/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 05:32 PM
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I've been away from my ex since 2019. Divorce was FINALLY over in Nov of 2021. I was able to keep my house, kids are 50/50 etc... It was financial...
Stabinzee/r/Divorce_Men14/12/21 07:01 PM
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Seriously, I've locked in hard to lifting. Going to the gym 5+ days a week, cleaning up my eating and tracking my macros. I think a big part of it...
SadDivorceName/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 04:40 PM
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Don't fall for the manipulation. ...
BlessedAFx777/r/Divorce_Men28/11/21 05:42 AM
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If you tell yourself you're a failure… If you think you're unloveable… If you feel you've lost your identity… If you think you can't go on witho...
CoachBob19/r/Divorce_Men23/09/21 12:47 PM
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Crosspost "And they say Fox is no good… Would post in r/murderedbywords but they dont allow videos :/" from /r/PublicFreakout:Posted by Nonconsensua...
Flogginga_dead_horse/r/Divorce_Men18/08/21 09:16 PM
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A lot of guys here are solid men, others are boys that are particularly fond of an Asian bean beverage I will not need to mention the name of, and lac...
ProchinaMarxist/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 12:05 AM
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I'm not sure if the mods are aware but there have been several pro-mens groups which I will not name banned on Reddit. Be careful what you post he...
kapriece/r/Divorce_Men05/08/21 05:09 AM
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In another chapter of the never-ending saga of bullshit from my ex wife, she decides to follow the herd again - and post a meme to her instagram. (I d...
NWAustinDude/r/Divorce_Men21/08/20 06:11 AM
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rorykl1983/r/Divorce_Men27/07/21 10:42 AM
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GodammitSmalls/r/Divorce_Men24/07/21 09:04 PM
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If the "work" that SAHW did was really that hard or valuable, it would be divisible asset and compensable in divorce. If she gets 1/2 of my ...
sexytimeinseattle/r/Divorce_Men23/04/21 03:55 AM
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Beware of all you are posting and putting into text and email. You should be to the point. No emotions. To the fucking point. Little did I know my ex ...
soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men26/05/21 01:32 AM
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https://geeks.lk/bill-gates-breakup/...
Nisal_Prabashana/r/Divorce_Men03/05/21 10:37 PM
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The first day I met with my lawyer to start the paperwork I came home , and tried to discuss what my stbx thinks custody would look like . She left th...
redditburner4me/r/Divorce_Men14/06/21 11:46 AM
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Has anyone experienced this? I'm 33, reasonably fit and fairly good looking. Going out with women has never been a problem. I'm kind and thoughtful. S...
rbllmelba/r/Divorce_Men08/01/21 10:34 AM
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6 months after the divorce was final and 4 months after I refinanced and bought her out of the house, she still hasn't signed the title paperwork. Fir...
letak2018/r/Divorce_Men21/04/21 05:42 PM
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My situation is a little different. My three daughters are all adults. One is a college grad in the work force, the middle is about to finish her Jr. ...
RunningOutTheClock71/r/Divorce_Men09/04/21 01:25 PM
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Fellas.....I just completed 5 tours of active duty. Not really and I mean no disrespect to anyone in the military or that has really been through that...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men27/06/21 06:03 PM
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oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men06/07/21 12:44 AM
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She's the secretary at my dentist. We always maintained a really good relationship, even after the fall, and honestly, I didn't want to go thr...
Metallicatica/r/Divorce_Men02/12/21 09:20 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/u3hq5w/5th_anniversary_of_my_divorce_not_sure_why_i_even/...
VintageSheppard/r/Divorce_Men14/04/22 01:36 PM
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So my birthday is 12/21/90 and for my 31st birthday I found out my now ex wife slept with someone else while we where separated. I thought the separat...
Lazy-Philosopher-947/r/Divorce_Men22/12/21 11:58 AM
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I'm the only one that didn't know about my wife's affair. My son (17) and daughter (14) knew about it but didn't say anything. I wonde...
anonuser637373/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 07:27 PM
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Sending out good vibes to all the dads going through this. I'm here going through it too. We're not alone but we will rise and conquer fellas....
fullsteamahead44/r/Divorce_Men19/02/20 04:10 AM
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UnitedParents4C/r/Divorce_Men03/07/20 12:33 AM
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Greetings Reddit. New account as I don't want this tied to my usual SN. I have finally decided to get out. I (37m) will be filing for divorce against ...
Lemon-law/r/Divorce_Men02/01/20 12:37 AM
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UnitedParents4C/r/Divorce_Men29/04/20 10:51 AM
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So me and my ex got divorced last March. We were married six years and have two kids together. Today is my daughter's fifth birthday, and it's the fir...
dirtycochise/r/Divorce_Men29/09/21 07:51 AM
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I have a good job, I have no kids, I'm sick of this relationship and I want out! We have a small house that we bought together and a dog that I lo...
Blueboat2/r/Divorce_Men10/11/21 05:21 PM
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So last night I was watching my Flyers lose haha and this commercial came on that I've seen a few times, but it really hit home last night. Dude w...
Ok_Cucumber_3402/r/Divorce_Men11/11/21 12:10 PM
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Been divorced a while now. Quick history, my ex is the one who filed and destroyed 23 years of marriage. I except my part and through lots of council ...
EmotionalDamage7024/r/Divorce_Men13/11/21 05:10 AM
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This is targeted to the moderate to high conflict divorces where finances and custody are at stake. Give without getting. I see a lot of this, especia...
pegleg_legal/r/Divorce_Men20/09/21 09:05 AM
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after she announced she wanted a divorce this past sunday, my wife now sleeps with the bedroom door locked. I have never in my life or marriage touche...
AdministrativeJob521/r/Divorce_Men02/11/21 04:36 AM
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skaelee/r/Divorce_Men16/09/21 01:41 AM
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TL;DR I bought a girl OF and wife left me. Married 2.5 years when she left. She blamed everything on me. We are still married but separated. Turns out...
ManKind__/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 03:50 PM
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Can anyone relate? I'm having trouble coming to terms with the fact that I am going to be better off without her. That our relationship really was...
disjt/r/Divorce_Men11/10/21 01:29 PM
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I don't understand women sometimes 😂 you don't want us to be together ,I'm abusive and toxic but you want me to come to your family's home for than...
skaelee/r/Divorce_Men21/11/21 07:46 AM
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It's been over 4 years so se our separation and 2 years since our divorce. We get along well, but only because: 1) We have 2 sons and we both don't wa...
dukecharming1975/r/Divorce_Men23/02/22 03:20 PM
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Hi all, my wife [23f] and I [25m] started the divorce proceedings last year after having been together for over six years but married for less than a ...
patently_pleasant/r/Divorce_Men04/02/21 03:33 AM
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So I'm lucky enough to have met and fallen in love with number 2. She really wants to get married, and in a moment of clarity I realize that I wil...
Data_Fan/r/Divorce_Men28/01/21 02:16 PM
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Hello everyone, My name is Stephane, I'm a divorced and single dad of 2 kids, with full custody. It's been a long journey, separated 3 years, ...
TheDivorcedDad/r/Divorce_Men15/01/21 02:46 AM
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After everything you helped me with I grew enough balls to leave. I drove down to a friend's house in Baja. I've been gone for over a week. Af...
cmcjet/r/Divorce_Men21/07/21 11:36 PM
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Gentlemen, I am now two weeks out from my mediation and finally calm enough to discuss. Without going into a Novel of grievances, these are the things...
mercybull/r/Divorce_Men20/07/21 08:47 PM
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This week is my first full week in my own rental. Walking in true freedom after 7 years of hell. Long story short.....wife of 15 years cheated on me. ...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men19/06/21 03:51 AM
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Title says it all. I'm sure many of you are here or been here before. Married 12 years, known her for 20. 3 amazing children. Shes basically failed at...
CashComplete8980/r/Divorce_Men11/05/21 02:15 PM
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I've made significant progress in this divorce journey. However, even now, over a year later, I like many others, still experience an unexplainabl...
oktyca/r/Divorce_Men19/04/21 03:40 AM
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crowexplorer/r/Divorce_Men27/06/21 02:47 AM
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Fight, don't quit, be the warrior you once were. I've had it. So many friends / colleagues alike that have been ass raped and have other men raising t...
warrior_up/r/Divorce_Men05/02/20 12:43 AM
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Men, don't let yourself feel shame or guilt. My stbxw was abusive. Yes we had good times. Yes I empathize for her likely hurting behind no contact. Bu...
yeehaw1005/r/Divorce_Men19/02/20 06:08 PM
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Stay strong brothers ...
bwar23/r/Divorce_Men15/12/19 04:31 PM
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CrazyBagpiper/r/Divorce_Men26/03/20 02:25 AM
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Michigan 2 children, 11 and 5. 50%/50% split on custody Divorce is filed, breakdown in marriage Legal representation Stayed in my home and let her lea...
mr_brownstone777/r/Divorce_Men05/03/19 06:44 PM
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After just over a year our divorce if finally final and signed off on by the judge. It started off pretty brutally and my ex ended up firing her lawye...
random_topix/r/Divorce_Men06/11/19 03:17 AM
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The following text is a sample taken from this article which is just one of many articles on the subject. Are you frustrated with your ex-wife's attit...
LowerFars/r/Divorce_Men26/03/22 09:09 PM
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If you're in Ohio, call your people. Get this passed. Share with friends. Equal Shared Parenting Bill Bill introduced by a Dem and Republican. Eve...
InAJam_SoS/r/Divorce_Men30/12/21 04:59 PM
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Im Divorce abd could care less about my ex wife , but the Dating game in 2022 has changed im 30 now and fuck theese hoes think there the shit because ...
joserodeiguez92/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 10:58 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/ry9x6q/as_a_man_who_never_wants_to_get_married_is_it/...
Kingofthehood2/r/Divorce_Men07/01/22 03:26 PM
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It's sure nice to be on a business trip away from it all. Beer in hand, solitude on the mind, and feeling like I can definitely do this. Just a bu...
trashy615/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 05:14 AM
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I think today is going to be the first day of my next chapter. I've been moping around, feeling like I'm going cold turkey on an addiction and...
DaveAtlanta/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 11:30 PM
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Crosspost "What a legend." from /r/WhitePeopleTwitter:Posted by burniskfdsgdfh | 14 September 2021 | Link...
WorkingItOutSomeday/r/Divorce_Men15/09/21 12:26 AM
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MisterEdGein8/r/Divorce_Men01/09/21 10:23 PM
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So after having the police called on me for the second time over a fight over my daughter ,I was informed by the nice officers that DCFS might get inv...
skaelee/r/Divorce_Men10/11/21 01:31 AM
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I am deeply moved by the many tragic stories I read here and on other subs, and it has moved me to share the truth about about bonding and attraction ...
pvd183/r/Divorce_Men08/10/21 10:08 PM
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My ex is a narcissist. And the worst kind. The covert. So any attempt to show depth on her part is selfish and is to lure you into conversation for he...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men21/10/21 05:31 PM
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*final When in doubt, rub one out. There can't be enough said about post nut clarity but it's true. Many are going through a war.....or just m...
soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men20/05/21 09:18 PM
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Hello my fellow brothers. Just had a restraining order court case today against my ex-wife and I was the defendant of course. Clearly this was an atte...
Protomize/r/Divorce_Men29/04/21 09:27 PM
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Hey guys. Literally just found this sub like 5 minutes ago since my mind is going crazy. Been married to my ex wife for two years now, together entire...
RaiTheLight/r/Divorce_Men06/06/21 05:11 PM
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I had worked hard!!! FOR HER to have everything, Was almost debt free. She walked with affair partner two months ago and i'm starting to see what a fi...
TheBoyBand/r/Divorce_Men11/07/21 02:55 PM
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Always fun having a wife that talks in her sleep and calls out the names of other men. Same names showing up in my phone bill logs. ...
Curiouslywastingtime/r/Divorce_Men14/05/21 12:53 PM
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She finally getting served and im excited AF! “I love you but not in love with you” Next breath: “But I wanna keep you as a friend” She fucked...
TheBoyBand/r/Divorce_Men13/07/21 10:20 PM
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Anybody else enjoying their Valentine's day in some peace and quite? :) Not worrying about this over commercialized social construct! Buy gifts and di...
urz8080/r/Divorce_Men14/02/22 11:05 PM
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It's finally here. I've made it. I was married July 2015, and it ended yesterday. 6 and a half years. About 3 years ago, I had the divorce pap...
CantCopeAnymore24/r/Divorce_Men16/02/22 04:20 AM
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We had an agreement in mediation regarding custody. I'm still stuck in the home while she argues over money so no temp agreement. The guy she's boning...
anonymizered/r/Divorce_Men13/02/22 01:24 AM
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Men who stay in their marriages out of guilt are unlikely to actively engage in the kind of relationship behaviors that would increase a woman's feeli...
HaloJonez/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 08:28 AM
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Funny how a STBXW who had multiple affairs during our 10+ year marriage thinks she's the victim in this divorce. We did our 1st (and maybe only) m...
DearInsect9258/r/Divorce_Men14/01/22 03:37 AM
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Working on a divorce. Wife is playing nice once I brought up that I'm getting a lawyer instead of doing our own paperwork like she wanted. Going throu...
Ethrowaway88/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 04:28 PM
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My wife and I decided to get divorced about a month ago. We talked to an attorney and came up with a plan. We wrote up our divorce agreement together....
relationshiptossoutt/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 03:09 PM
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Been divorced since March of this year. The things I'm enjoying again with my new found freedom -Quiet -freedom to spend my money without nagging -Bei...
bigtony199077/r/Divorce_Men25/06/20 10:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PublicFreakout/comments/r241k6/man_tries_to_pick_up_his_son_from_his_exes_house/ ...
crowexplorer/r/Divorce_Men26/11/21 01:40 AM
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This is my first post ever here on Reddit. 2 months ago my wife told me she was filing for divorce after I confronted her about her lies about her rec...
DearInsect9258/r/Divorce_Men31/08/21 06:43 PM
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Borderline personality disorder. I thought I would feel relief and happiness after this divorce. For some reason I only feel emptiness and pain. What ...
seita2905/r/Divorce_Men27/08/21 11:49 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/rbi1zs/i_have_one_foot_out_the_door_after_25_years_just/...
CoachCWC/r/Divorce_Men08/12/21 03:57 AM
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Typical story - together 11.5 years, married 7.5. She changed a TON over the past year, withdrew emotionally from the marriage, I called her ass on it...
azwildcat74/r/Divorce_Men17/11/21 03:56 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/qwvm5u/freedom_thats_all_i_wanted_to_remind_you_all/...
oldskoolflavor/r/Divorce_Men18/11/21 06:03 PM
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Today I thought about who I would be without my kids. They are the reason I clean the bathroom, shop for groceries, learned the very detailed decorum ...
rockhoppernostopper/r/Divorce_Men20/04/22 05:27 PM
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Have any men after the divorce just truly can't stand women anymore. After years of abuse and watching other couples were women abuse their husbands a...
Global_warning_/r/Divorce_Men02/02/22 12:19 AM
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So 6 months after filing, we went to mediation the other day. I got everything I asked for, not that she didnt try to screw me over, but her lawyer th...
therealcapthowdy/r/Divorce_Men03/03/22 07:29 PM
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I feel so betrayed. Since we split I'm having trouble opening up to people, I'm very closed off, and have no interest in being vulnerable ever again. ...
BlessedAFx777/r/Divorce_Men31/12/21 02:27 AM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/sg802m/anyone_here_want_more_kids_but_are_afraid_of_the/...
Protomize/r/Divorce_Men30/01/22 12:14 PM
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It's crazy how if you've been on this subb for a while you start seeing the same story told 100 times. But as it's happening to you, it...
Grey_Bear_40/r/Divorce_Men06/03/22 10:02 PM
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Hey guys, thanks in advance for reading. This is my 1st Christmas alone. Backdrop: married 26 years, 3 kids (all early 20s, out of the house). Divorce...
ZimBamBoodleOoo/r/Divorce_Men25/12/21 12:11 AM
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Apologies for this rant in advance. Been with my wife for 20 years, married for 14. Three months ago I had major surgery and she did nothing - literal...
kor_hookmaster/r/Divorce_Men18/12/21 05:34 AM
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We agreed to coparent and all, but due to my job having a 7am-3pm schedule, I can't really see him during the week. It's too early to take him...
roopy_b/r/Divorce_Men26/05/21 12:44 PM
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SwamiSweatSocks/r/Divorce_Men28/07/21 03:08 AM
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I was married to my wife for 5 years, together for 8 and she asked me for a divorce over the summer. She said she was unhappy for the last two years w...
ej2424/r/Divorce_Men03/01/21 02:16 AM
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Nearly every post is brigaded with them. I feel sorry for their ex-husbands! ...
WartimeDad/r/Divorce_Men28/12/20 04:38 PM
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I refuse to be a victim of post divorce BS. I wanted to go to Berkekey after HS to study law, but it wasn't the time, I just wasn't sure what would in...
TheBoyBand/r/Divorce_Men12/07/21 03:33 AM
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Spousal support is finally over, I'm making good money, savings are good. I'm a homeowner again, life is really good. I came home today, fixed...
roypdx/r/Divorce_Men24/06/21 03:28 AM
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I am newly divorced but every time I close my eyes to sleep I can't help but dream of her. I feel so broken all the time and worthless. As a man I did...
Romeoville21/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 05:53 PM
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I've been suffering trying to keep my family together I finally realized there's no point. My soon to be ex is just not the person or never will be th...
Cusetown11/r/Divorce_Men03/07/21 10:14 PM
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New to the group but I think it's wonderful this group exists. I got divorced almost ten years ago and I still think about it but not nearly as much. ...
umrum/r/Divorce_Men17/12/19 08:06 PM
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UnitedParents4C/r/Divorce_Men19/03/20 11:43 AM
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Currently in my state's 3 month “cooling down” period after filing for divorce. I just realized that I'll just be at my family's house and don't h...
megatron37/r/Divorce_Men27/11/19 02:24 PM
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bigtony199077/r/Divorce_Men17/07/20 04:26 PM
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Hi, to start I am not the man in the situation. I am his wife. We just recently went through a very stressful situation involving child support and I ...
Tiny_Cricket89/r/Divorce_Men13/06/20 03:55 PM
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Society tells me I'm not allowed to be alone and be okay with it, but maybe I am okay with it. Anyone else run into this kind of feeling? Did it p...
Runningoutofbacon/r/Divorce_Men06/01/20 10:13 AM
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I can't help but wonder what's the big deal with marriage and monogamy. We meet someone, feel a spark, express the need to connect and share, make lov...
anjinsan90/r/Divorce_Men18/11/19 12:03 AM
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Long story short, after 23 years of marriage my STBXW asked for a divorce. No abuse or even major disagreements led to this, just her feeling that I m...
sonotdoingthis/r/Divorce_Men21/10/19 01:51 AM
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For you, or if you have a friend or family member going through the abusive family court system in IL. Share it with grandmothers who aren't able ...
InAJam_SoS/r/Divorce_Men08/02/22 11:16 PM
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He is absolutely getting torn a new one. Months ago he was labeled a cuck bc his wife opened up about cheating on him. There were murmurs that she was...
KnownLedgesIsPowder/r/Divorce_Men28/03/22 08:44 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/t4c960/im_going_through_the_divorce_process_now_and_i/...
Lifewithoutanylimits/r/Divorce_Men01/03/22 04:45 PM
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It's over. After she moved out in October 2019 and filed for divorce in October 2020, we are officially divorced. We're splitting time with th...
Crafty-Hovercraft788/r/Divorce_Men28/02/22 04:23 AM
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We got married nearly 10 years ago. She (split 2 months ago) always admitted I was a great father but would say I'm a terrible husband. I worked m...
WorkingItOutSomeday/r/Divorce_Men13/03/22 01:25 PM
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Apparently; the argument is that he needs to be with his mother during the academic year for consistency - because I don't discipline him enough, ...
Adventurous_Draw_834/r/Divorce_Men16/01/22 11:50 PM
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The timeline of my last three-four years... :: removed wall of text to replace it with::: Trying to have a child at what I thought was the pinnacle of...
mpellas/r/Divorce_Men24/12/21 05:50 PM
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I have observed many situations where a man suffered for years after divorce, often (at the end) committing suicide, while a woman a few weeks after t...
western_poet1/r/Divorce_Men23/12/21 07:36 AM
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I'm nearly 6 months into the sepperation and after months of crying and anger I've noticed a change in me. For months I've been crying, but it has all...
Dodzer89/r/Divorce_Men05/01/22 01:01 PM
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I think my marriage is coming to an end me and my wife had a fight last night and she told me she was only with me for the kids and obviously because ...
Scumblebutt/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 01:36 AM
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I'm no Buddhist but some of the stuff is gold. Even to this day, I still catch myself expecting that she's going to hold herself to some type ...
pegleg_legal/r/Divorce_Men13/12/21 03:00 AM
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STBXW needs a better job or she's gonna be living in a motel with our 4 kids after we sell the family home and split the profit to go our separate...
One-Donkey-9418/r/Divorce_Men08/04/22 05:02 AM
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Came across several articles were men who found out they were not the father by dna years later, but still had to fulfill existing child support becau...
Slowplay23/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 03:45 AM
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Hi gents, a couple of months ago I was having a very hard time grieving my marriage. I reached out to this page for moral support and I got some reall...
Dodzer89/r/Divorce_Men09/12/21 02:22 PM
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My ex wife accused me of cheating for no apparent reason on a daily basis. The one day I walked away to the guest room. She followed me and then close...
Numerous_Beyond2263/r/Divorce_Men11/12/21 04:06 PM
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This was my first Thanksgiving since the divorce (3.5 months ago) and my first long stretch with my two kids (9 and 12). I was concerned that I might ...
kls1042/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 03:52 AM
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Basically, as the years go by (after the divorce), do they eventually become calmer and hate you less or re-focus their bullshit on something else? Ju...
pissed_off_elbonian/r/Divorce_Men17/09/21 03:43 AM
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So my STBXW is hoping that we can be friends when all of this is said and done. We have kids and I know that being friends means we can coparent more ...
throwawayballa/r/Divorce_Men24/05/21 10:12 PM
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That's it. That's the vent. I can look at my spreadsheets 6 ways from Sunday but it doesn't matter if she isn't willing to walk away from some value o...
ThrowawayAndstuff001/r/Divorce_Men28/07/20 10:10 PM
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1_CAN_I_NO/r/Divorce_Men18/02/21 12:06 PM
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capn_KC/r/Divorce_Men14/02/21 04:39 PM
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MyNewNormal808/r/Divorce_Men21/07/21 09:17 AM
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Or another I should say. Another in an endless line of weekends that never ends until you end it. Fucking love this society man! The more responsibili...
newalltimelow/r/Divorce_Men18/06/21 10:19 PM
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Completely, irrevocably done. The judge ruled today and dissolved our marriage. Just waiting on the official paperwork now. Not sure how I feel yet......
SleepyTobi/r/Divorce_Men25/06/21 03:12 PM
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After recently revealing she wanted a separation, I decided I would divorce my wife. It's been difficult. But one thing I just realized, after a month...
mariman420/r/Divorce_Men07/07/21 08:49 PM
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I'm not sure but I always find subs like this. The wild west of honesty and not being censored. Not overrun with bots\trolls\shills. This little s...
soph_a_loaf_/r/Divorce_Men01/05/21 05:19 PM
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Hi all, I'm new to this sub. Sorry for the length of this post. I wanted to tell my story to give those of you going through this some perspective...
roypdx/r/Divorce_Men27/02/21 09:47 PM
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Ok. Need some advice, guidance and reassurance. Married 23 years total. Two boys that are 23 and 19 the older is still “finding” himself but clean...
Prior_Perfect/r/Divorce_Men07/06/21 12:15 AM
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It's incredible the lies you hear through the grapevine... my mentally unstable ex has been living in poverty with me (bills paid, 2 cars, nice house,...
trickymw/r/Divorce_Men25/04/21 10:23 AM
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A man is not born from his mothers womb and then just is. No, a man is made, he is molded and reformed from pain, turmoil, blood and sweat. Do not def...
Brokenbyher2019/r/Divorce_Men16/09/20 05:27 PM
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It's been about a year since my stbx wife dropped the bombshell that she wanted to separate. I have found the threads on Reddit such a help as I have ...
roxburgh54321/r/Divorce_Men20/07/21 11:05 PM
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My wife left me a month ago. I was completely shocked and immediately tried to see my toddler. She also put out this bogus Protective Order so I could...
h4yn0w/r/Divorce_Men19/06/21 01:04 PM
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What are the odds? Her first child wanted to spend more time with the Dad but allegedly dad didn't want to. I'm begging for more time with my child bu...
divorced_dad_670/r/Divorce_Men05/07/21 12:27 AM
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I think she is salty at the fact that she can't just pick up and leave me since she has no career due to her own doing and life choices. Staying h...
tigerteam6/r/Divorce_Men11/02/22 10:58 PM
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Sub says it all. Been cross posting if you want to see the rest but honestly fuck all of this. Being the guy in this is fucking horseshit, she just st...
rain56/r/Divorce_Men31/01/22 08:37 AM
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I don't have to tell the OGs here this. Take at look at this. These are the comments of XXs out there. I was browsing TT and came across a video o...
kapriece/r/Divorce_Men23/01/22 02:22 AM
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Section 1 of the 14th Amendment of the US Constitution. " All persons born or naturalized in the United States and subject to the jurisdiction th...
Jbr74/r/Divorce_Men27/12/21 03:14 PM
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Today is my birthday and the last child support payment. We go 50/50 in the new year. ...
teacher2lawyer/r/Divorce_Men14/12/21 10:19 AM
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ABrownLamp/r/Divorce_Men18/01/20 08:20 PM
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I've been spending most of my time to get busy like bees. The storm will past and the land will be ready for a new life! A New Hope! ...
samk002001/r/Divorce_Men21/05/20 04:01 PM
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I'm a frontline healthcare worker in the ER, seeing COVID patients every shift. My ex managed to get paid leave from work during the pandemic, ostensi...
MRSAfulFate/r/Divorce_Men04/04/20 09:43 PM
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Like clockwork. I'm 47. The early days, I had a lot to atone for. I was angry, telling, loud, mean, distant and not a great husband. But for the past ...
TheJacka_lope/r/Divorce_Men25/10/21 11:31 PM
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Official papers finalized today. I still can't believe it. Part of me is still connected to some parallel universe where we are together and happier t...
fixingmedaybyday/r/Divorce_Men14/10/21 04:35 AM
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I so fucking miss my family life…. Doing things together and separately and coming back together again. I miss looking forward to someone being home...
fixingmedaybyday/r/Divorce_Men12/09/21 02:30 AM
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Mods, delete if its not cool. I did reach out and havent heard back. Ive created a website for men going through a Divorce. It has a private groups fe...
michaelrhodes1977/r/Divorce_Men08/12/21 03:59 PM
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My STBXW (50) has a friend who is also getting divorced. She's fairly average but gets plenty of attention on the apps and has dates lined up ever...
MartyMcFly7/r/Divorce_Men09/08/21 06:42 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/r2gyq5/thankful_for_coming_across_this_group_youre_all_a/...
oldskoolflavor/r/Divorce_Men26/11/21 06:41 AM
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How do you overcome the thought that you wasted you life? 52, married 25 years and contemplating D. Updated: I have read all the replies and thanks. I...
SteelRidge/r/Divorce_Men16/11/21 09:36 PM
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My soon to be ex wife is a narcissist. I made the mistake of trying and trying and trying to get things to work instead of spotting all the red flags ...
maybebionic/r/Divorce_Men16/10/21 03:14 PM
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Getting the keys to my own place on Monday. Ordered furniture, got an appointment made for setting up my internet connection and worked out a schedule...
Duchesst/r/Divorce_Men29/04/22 10:28 AM
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Just because her behavior is so outrageous, a normal person wouldn't believe it. I know I am not alone. ...
djallits/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 03:11 AM
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My wife for months has agreed she doesnt want alimony but after a disagreement she's going all out because she's spiteful. So im wondering, si...
No_Committee8461/r/Divorce_Men18/12/21 03:12 PM
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My wife had an affair with a married man whose kid played on the same team as my kid. Their affair went on for 1.5-2 years (yes i must have been naive...
anonuser637373/r/Divorce_Men09/04/22 03:45 AM
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Subreddit divorce_Men has more than 4k members; subreddit Divorce_women has just only 500 members. Subreddit Infidelity has much much more posts about...
Ok-Scallion-2508/r/Divorce_Men30/05/21 05:53 AM
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bigtony199077/r/Divorce_Men10/08/20 04:40 PM
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I know two men.......one married 6 times. YES FUCKING SIX! I know another married SEVEN. Fellas.....I married one time. Was married 15 years......then...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men06/06/21 03:36 AM
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So I'm getting a divorce, my (thankfully) soon-to-be ex-wife decided to donate and throw away all of my stuff. Including all of my clothes, Xbox, ...
mattledz/r/Divorce_Men15/05/21 05:45 PM
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Although this isn't a true sock day, I am still treating it as such. Today I officially moved out of my home. I filed for divorce in september of ...
crxblcl/r/Divorce_Men19/07/21 09:19 PM
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Look fellas. No matter how much you process things. No matter how much you try to make sense of it all. Their software is written to take care of them...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men16/06/21 02:30 PM
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I just want my wife back. I want to hold her again. I want to be able to see my kids and her all at the same time. I hate this so much. I should be st...
dillinone/r/Divorce_Men12/10/20 09:06 PM
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Thanks for reading. Married almost 5 years but together more than double that time. We're all still living in the house. I don't want to share my stat...
fooled-Me-Twice/r/Divorce_Men17/12/20 03:06 PM
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I turn 45 today. Waited all day for my 10 and 8 year old to call me. Of course I don't expect them to know, but I was confident my ex would get th...
dutch75/r/Divorce_Men21/11/20 10:48 PM
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Howd did you guys get through a divorce you that you didn't really want? If so how did you survive going through it with very little support of an...
New_Flounder6372/r/Divorce_Men04/07/21 02:47 PM
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MrKatUK/r/Divorce_Men30/06/21 05:24 PM
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As the title says, my wife informed me last night that she wants a divorce. We have two kids in elementary school. This all came out of the left field...
ireallydontknowffs/r/Divorce_Men17/02/20 01:22 PM
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bigtony199077/r/Divorce_Men30/06/20 11:56 AM
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Scooter444/r/Divorce_Men18/07/19 10:18 AM
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Me 39m and her 39f. We are still cohabitating until the ink is dry as I will not leave until I have 100% ironclad agreement on custody and visitation ...
NO_PRND/r/Divorce_Men21/12/19 10:27 PM
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I get off at 12:30am. She's always asleep at that time. I am going to uber to the airport and fly back to be with family. The abuse ends now. I love h...
yeehaw1005/r/Divorce_Men17/12/19 12:10 AM
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UnitedParents4C/r/Divorce_Men24/04/20 04:52 PM
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For the first time in a decade I am buying a gift on Valentine's day without the person I'm buying if for complaining about spending our money...
SingleISuppose/r/Divorce_Men14/02/20 08:12 PM
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Jeez...even when money is not a factor, rich couples are getting divorced! Remember these stats: 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 80% of all divor...
Funny_Wolverine_9/r/Divorce_Men12/04/22 02:13 AM
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"She would never leave me." Yes she would, and YES she will. Your marriage certificate is not a proof of ownership. "She'd never d...
redveinlover/r/Divorce_Men18/04/22 02:05 AM
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Mostly venting: So together for 17y, married 12y (13y this June). Separated since 10'21 and I filed 2/1/22. She's a stay at home hose wife wit...
Gattsama/r/Divorce_Men16/04/22 08:02 AM
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Guys, I'm struggling today. Since I moved out, I see my kids on alternate weekends and every midweek. About 35/65 split in my ex's favour. Tod...
rbanksy/r/Divorce_Men02/03/22 06:34 PM
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Mod's, please feel free to remove this if you feel this is inappropriate for this subreddit. But i wanted to make a post that talks about a perspectiv...
KnownLedgesIsPowder/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 06:07 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/tl280b/how_do_yall_feel_about_ever_getting_married_again/...
diggalingDee123/r/Divorce_Men23/03/22 05:13 PM
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Is what many men out there can only dream about while their wives fk with their heads or they're under her threats. Freedom. Learn how to embrace it a...
oldskoolflavor/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 09:16 PM
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Hi I'm just in a confused state. My wife has been very hard with me through the last 4-5 years of marriage. I had financial difficulties early on and ...
Next_Requirement_867/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 12:53 AM
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So the drama continues....she went away this weekend by herself to "think". Comes back on Sunday and says she wants to "talk". Smi...
AdministrativeJob521/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 03:36 PM
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Gentlemen, I want to wish you all the best on your journey to self recovery and I am praying for each and every single man in here. I've been on this ...
bigtony199077/r/Divorce_Men07/04/21 01:14 AM
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This morning, my ex again served me with court papers. We were just in court, a few months ago....about this exact issue. This evening, I made an offe...
MNCPA/r/Divorce_Men14/12/20 04:54 AM
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Just felt compelled to pay it forward to those in the beginning process of divorce both administratively and emotionally. It can be such a torturous p...
TNwhiskey901/r/Divorce_Men13/12/20 01:39 AM
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Freed from being comfortably miserable. Although, I didn't know I was at the time. Once the awakening came.....it was like Andy Dufresne......I tu...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 05:29 AM
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I'm a 30 year old male one year after divorce finalized. I was able to keep the house. My retirement account with 110k was left untouched as was hers....
Agua91/r/Divorce_Men26/07/21 03:27 AM
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General rules: If you can afford a lawyer, you should hire a lawyer. If the other side has a lawyer, you should have a lawyer. If you're going pro...
pegleg_legal/r/Divorce_Men22/07/21 09:01 AM
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This has been the worst few years of my life. Married for 10 months of pure misery, then filed, tried to reconcile, and now waiting for the System to ...
No_more_BPD_2020/r/Divorce_Men31/12/20 09:36 PM
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Why is it that women, specifically mine, that can turn off a marriage like a light switch. She moved in immediately with almost no issue and I'm tryin...
marksamillion/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 01:17 AM
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I (34m) just left my husband (36) after we were married for 3.5 years. This has been the hardest experience I have ever had. He had serious mental hea...
GRW1429/r/Divorce_Men21/11/20 12:03 PM
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Transaction cost? Necessary evil? Vampire? Sadist? Feel free to delete - mods - if this is not okay. Background: I fell into divorce law in 2008 when ...
pegleg_legal/r/Divorce_Men01/07/21 02:35 AM
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I'm 44m she's 34f. Got together at 28m and 18f, married 15 years, six kids. Currently travel nurses LPNs (the lower paid kind) and I would still have ...
jasonb197719/r/Divorce_Men18/02/22 03:54 PM
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That CRINGESSS e👏🏽v👏🏽e👏🏽r👏🏽 TIME at… “BuT Its Da MooThER of YoUR ChIlDREeN” Its like FUCK HER!!!!!!!!! #vent lol ...
TheBoyBand/r/Divorce_Men20/12/21 03:52 AM
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Guess it's just closure......this Christmas will mark 7 years in total dealing with all of this. Been divorced since April. Funny enough my son no...
oli_21_/r/Divorce_Men21/12/21 03:51 AM
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I'm 2+ years into a contentious divorce with third attempt at mediation coming up, judge's order. I'm emotionally, physically, cognitively and financi...
walkingdisaster4046/r/Divorce_Men24/03/22 02:38 PM
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I made it here gentlemen. I moved to AL with my Navy buddy. We already got the garage decked out to a living space, his kids and woman love my beagle ...
gg2ezpzlemonsqz/r/Divorce_Men05/01/22 12:56 AM
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My child's mother wants me pay her that much. It is only for child support. I feel like that's really high. I do have a large income but that ...
Slowplay23/r/Divorce_Men01/04/22 01:56 AM
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/r/Divorce_Men/comments/ti60wf/got_my_divorce_papers_in_the_mail_today_im/...
midnightSabre/r/Divorce_Men19/03/22 10:00 PM
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Been married to my wife since I was 22. Married in college. Helped her through her phd and 3 days after her dissertation defense she says she's done a...
mossminker23/r/Divorce_Men10/03/22 01:32 AM
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Thanks guys. I can't really offer much to this thread other than to stay the course, fight the good fight and you will come out the other side. I ...
JustOkIsOk/r/Divorce_Men16/05/20 03:58 AM
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I've been divorced for a while. and mostly, I'm fine with it. Just settled, you know? But today...I caught a whiff of the perfume she used to ...
skipness_/r/Divorce_Men16/07/19 07:02 PM
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I've struggled and let myself be made out as the bad crazy one despite her cheating on me, aggressively. Thank you for helping me realize I'm not craz...
CKRuss/r/Divorce_Men14/09/19 10:37 PM
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I have a positive outlook on the year ahead. I know it is going to be a tough year, but I see it as a year to fix things that are wrong in my life. Un...
JasonButIGoByJay/r/Divorce_Men11/11/19 03:50 PM
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“I love you but not in love with you” is so mindblowing. I got fed this line followed by… “I think its time we divorce, But I want to keep you...
TheBoyBand/r/Divorce_Men04/12/21 08:25 PM
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We have a toddler. She has the more stable career although I do bulk of housework/child rearing. Thing is this- she is drinking right now and admittin...
AlbumSixForever/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 04:17 AM
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Just joined this sub because I'm going through divorce for the second time. I'm a 43 year old man and have been with my wife for 11 years. Tonight is ...
chuckart9/r/Divorce_Men21/09/21 01:07 AM
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I'm a year into a separation/divorce. She asked for the separation and immediately moved in with another guy and left me with the kids. Came crawling ...
DWiens3/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 02:23 AM
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I'm not even sure where to start. Met my wife 9 years ago, we have two young boys 4 and 2. Ever since we met, we talked about me working as the sole b...
helpamonkpls/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 09:59 PM
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Hi folks- got a long one here but I hope it can help anyone to see the positive in what are inherently difficult and painful decisions many of us had ...
ChillaxBrosef/r/Divorce_Men22/03/22 06:09 PM
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And it just came flooding back. Got control over myself before getting to the office but it's lingering. Time to buck up. ...
pegleg_legal/r/Divorce_Men11/02/22 02:04 AM
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My worst fear seems to have come true. My wife has been fucking with a guy from my daughter's soccer team. I am so livid right now that my heart a...
anonuser637373/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 07:17 AM
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Anyway, really thankful for this group. I tend to write these really long messages because I use this place as a venting space lol. I often feel so st...
Gattsama/r/Divorce_Men28/04/22 10:24 PM
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At this point I'm left with nothing, all I want to do is get back at her. Should I contact this guy and let him know she's cheated before and try to r...
hamandhash/r/Divorce_Men22/02/22 02:45 AM
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As the title says, I was given an ultimatum now from my boss to get my shit together and put 100% in and fix stuff that can't be fixed or find a n...
heavyiron382/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 10:59 PM
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TL;DR: When your lawyer tells you "no" LISTEN. It's their job to protect you, especially when you don't like the answer. I'm 58....
SilverknightFL/r/Divorce_Men06/02/22 04:01 PM
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Not sure about you but it took me a long time to break this bad habit and it still creeps in from time to time when dealing with the ex. Asking permis...
pegleg_legal/r/Divorce_Men25/01/22 01:26 AM
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Well, after all the mediation, agreeing on 50 50, her going back to every other weekend, back to 50 50, to waking hours only but nearly every day, to ...
dranic/r/Divorce_Men28/01/22 02:17 AM
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When I started the divorce petition and proceedings, it was my goal to be as generous and gracious as possible. Maybe I was being naïve. The STBXW ha...
CaliDude75/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 02:34 PM
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I had an acquaintance from the former church my wife and I went to (she's still nominally involved there) reach out to me, and wanted to talk. For...
CaliDude75/r/Divorce_Men27/02/22 04:46 AM
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Is there any gift that keeps on giving more than marrying (and the eventual divorce) of an immature and irresponsible narcissistic woman? ...
banguitar/r/Divorce_Men10/03/21 06:20 PM
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. Hey folks, I'm a 49 year old dad from Finland and I started the divorce process just yesterday. My wife knew that I was doing it. We've got ...
BoredOrhu/r/Divorce_Men26/05/21 11:01 PM
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So long story short. I met my ex wife when I graduated college. At the time I moved to a much bigger city and moved in with my dad to save some money....
Boring_Cancel/r/Divorce_Men21/02/21 01:06 AM
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Hey, I couldn't be any more excited. They day finally got here and I'm happy about it. I'm moving to a studio apartment and I am buying a ...
BoredOrhu/r/Divorce_Men04/06/21 01:06 AM
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Right now, I'm sitting outside my garage and smoking a bowl. I'm enjoying these moments I have of peace and quiet. 🤙🏻 Edit: I will be adding com...
without-worries/r/Divorce_Men01/02/21 09:11 PM
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My partner of 5 years left me. We have been separated for some time now but I still do not know if there was infidelity or not. All I know is I felt l...
sithrowaway2/r/Divorce_Men11/06/21 03:59 PM
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Long story short I was married for almost 20 years. My wife decides to get a job at the local community college and within a few weeks, she's full...
divorcehelpneededpls/r/Divorce_Men14/05/21 12:17 AM
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Here I am again thinking I need to help her, difference is that I am finally realizing that I don't have to help her with anything, considering she pu...
trickymw/r/Divorce_Men08/04/21 10:24 PM
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Hey guys - Be sure to take a moment to care for yourselves. It doesn't matter if you are pre-divorce, going through it right now, or after divorce...
MNCPA/r/Divorce_Men23/11/20 03:34 AM
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Guys, I'm afraid she is going to win everything. Her abuse was harsh and relentless in the marriage. Now, after divorcing me in the most behind my bac...
WartimeDad/r/Divorce_Men25/11/20 10:12 AM
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Gentlemen let me provide some guidance. If you're going through a messy divorce, don't post it on Facebook. Even if she/he is blasting y'a...
Alucent/r/Divorce_Men04/07/20 10:34 PM
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I had the kids this morning. My son said something about how it would be nice if all "four" of us (mom, dad, him and his sister) could be at...
SingleISuppose/r/Divorce_Men24/01/20 03:14 PM
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I have been struggling with making a decision on if I should stay or go for months now. In the past she has verbally abused both of our children and I...
JasonButIGoByJay/r/Divorce_Men20/05/19 04:08 PM
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Remember the kids. Always remember the kids. Despite your struggle and your feelings towards your ex, save face for the kids. A year ago I had to pick...
divorced_dad_670/r/Divorce_Men16/06/19 12:23 PM
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I won't make this a long read because. Honestly, I was you, I wanted the long read to justify my reasons /feelings etc. I was in a relationship with s...
riotgear84/r/Divorce_Men05/01/20 06:54 AM
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