Sex after divorce.

Impressive_Camel_151 · 2025-03-21T23:25:01+00:00

After being faithful for 18 yrs. I was apprehensive about “getting back out there”. I took it slow and when women found out I was free. And had been faithful until the divorce decree was signed?!!! I didn’t even have time to think!! 😂 All kinds of wonderful women hmu! I’m not gonna lie today’s my 50th birthday and I’m always been kind of ugly, but I have a 30-year-old girlfriend who is smoking and all I did was let the game come to me.

tvicl69BlazeIt · 2025-03-21T13:55:19+00:00

Sex is a beautiful thing meant for a husband and a wife.

DeepAnt8165 · 2025-03-21T11:35:34+00:00

There are people meant for sex only, not for marriage.

Glass_Raisin7939 · 2025-03-21T11:14:31+00:00

How'd u find the new woman? Where? Did u know her already? I'm kind of struggling with this. I don't even know where to start.

engineered-chemistry · 2025-03-21T11:01:31+00:00

When you find someone that has the chemistry and vibes that match, fuck it’s amazing. Really made me wonder what I had been missing my whole life. I’ve never been the type to literally get butterflies but it’s awesome when you experience it and even a little scary.

I’m dating a woman that’s same age as me, kids the same age and lives within 30mins away. Super independent, was the bread winner too and we can talk for hours and hours just enjoying each other’s company and then have sex till we are both too tired/sore to keep going. She had to take a 2 day break from sex to “heal” last week hahaha. Chemistry and fire is real. I’m not one to chase pussy just to get laid but if she slips falls and lands on it I’m cool with that. That type of sex isn’t even worth the minor amount of effort comparatively.

So many of us feel like there’s zero chance of ever being truly happy after a divorce. Divorce is hell regardless of who initiated it or the reasons. Gotta go through it to understand. When you are finally OK being alone and not give a shit that vibe is immediately sniffed out by women and they love it. Be authentic and a bit vulnerable and good things will happen eventually.

LonelyNC123 · 2025-03-21T08:30:37+00:00

I don't remember what it is like to have sex so I can't relate.

dnjag01 · 2025-03-21T04:15:43+00:00

Still going through the divorce. Randomly ended up talking to a girl at work about the same time as the stbx decided to get a bullshit restraining order.

We haven’t got there yet, but I’m hoping we will.

petropath · 2025-03-21T01:50:12+00:00

You didn't lose your wife pal,you lost your turn 😂

Subtle-Catastrophe · 2025-03-21T01:48:51+00:00

After the divorce, the ex wife and I are both on board with a purely sexual relationship. She booty calls me once or twice a month. She was a total little sl00t the latter years of our marriage (after her tubal ligation, I'll give her credit that she waited until she couldn't get pregnant any longer), and the only reason we split was because I decided, "fine, I'll be the same way." The fact I had a lot of success caught her right in the feels.

She's still a smokin' hot little minx, though, which is why I'm down for it.

SingleCouchSurfer · 2025-03-21T00:35:47+00:00

I’ve been separated since October ‘23 and haven’t had sex since. It’s fine but it’s pretty boring. I’ve only enjoyed my own company only a couple of times. I don’t want a relationship just some healthy sex. Might be hooker time.

redwzrd · 2025-03-20T22:26:47+00:00

6 months here. But I haven't really tried to find anyone. Before my ex I had a bunch in rotation now I feel like I'm not that guy anymore. Still want to jump on everythingbi see but also kinda just don't want to deal with anyone right now.

Hour-Jellyfish-7205 · 2025-03-20T20:41:57+00:00

My ex was pretending that she was only sleeping with me but time and stalking proved that to be a lie.

Ok_Builder_3285 · 2025-03-20T20:20:18+00:00

Good for you. My ex was similar except that she was only sleeping with other people and not with me. One day I hope to have sex again, but it's not looking promising.

Nothoughtiname5641 · 2025-03-20T18:03:57+00:00

I kind of LOLed at this...

HourWorking2839 · 2025-03-20T17:37:44+00:00

FUCK MAN...

Nyoobwsb · 2025-03-20T17:25:47+00:00

What the fuck

dharma_van · 2025-03-20T17:12:49+00:00

Well, fuck.

Unmagic8Ball · 2025-03-20T16:44:52+00:00

As soon as my STBX heard I wanted a divorce she was ready to get all 3 holes filled at once. She went from never wanting it to wanting as many random dudes and she can find.

I haven't been with anyone yet, but thats ok, I'm waiting for the right time. Right now the kids are my priority.

itoocouldbeanyone · 2025-03-20T15:59:21+00:00

It is nice. I’m still trying to get more comfortable. A new person is great and the vibe matches what I’ve been missing. But it’s also a smidge odd being with a new person. Damn nerves and mental hang ups.

Grafixx5 · 2025-03-20T15:47:34+00:00

I was told it was a big and important part of the relationship. But I guess it just wasn’t with me because I know she’s been having multiple EAs and PAs.

Xan-Diesel · 2025-03-20T15:00:49+00:00

All for you ... for *now*, right?? I'm kidding - I know what you mean. It's a major violation to incorrectly believe that intimacy is just for you. Happy you've been able to correct course.

Subtle-Catastrophe · 2025-03-21T01:40:08+00:00

https://www.international-divorce.com/peru_family_law

Doesn't look great.

Maybe contact: https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/International-Parental-Child-Abduction.html

funky-dancing-midget · 2025-03-21T14:00:16+00:00

It will serve as a portal into hell. Trust me.

Title	Sex after divorce.
Author	Hour-Jellyfish-7205
Upvotes	105
Comments	46
Date	March 20, 2025 2:57 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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