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Screw her. She deserves every bit of it and worse
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 08:37 PM
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My 2 cents; fuck that bitch, she deserves every bit of it and more. Bring back stoning adulterous women, I’m for it. Might not feel right karmically, Jesus certainly would forgive his betrayers and murderers. I’m not Jesus. Fuck this 304s into the dirt. She deserves hell
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 08:24 PM
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It’s so much easier said than done, but I don’t believe you should want that. Indifference almost means you don’t care. To some level I was forced to become numb to survive the pain, but similar to you I find myself reopening all the wounds every time I see my ex or exchange our son. My ex profoundly destroyed me, but I am finding peace in the path of healing. It’s taken me too long to realize she was far from the person I thought she was. I am still just starting the process of rebuilding mysel…
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 07:21 PM
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Can you elaborate? What do you mean by turn on yourself?
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/25 04:08 AM
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I wish I had followed this advice. I knew it in my heart but couldn’t get over how fucked up what she did was
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/25 01:08 AM
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While I agree surrendering to acceptance of what you can and can’t control, now is not the time for surrendering. Now is the time to reach deep inside yourself and fight for your child and your self.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/25 09:46 PM
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Going through almost the exact same thing right now. 3 year old son, ex made up false allegations against me for control of the situation, brought a new man into our child’s life without my consent, constantly lying about me in court and in my professional circles. She’s doing everything she can to ruin me. At this point I have to wonder how miserable these women are to behave like this to the father of their children. These are the lowest of the low trash can women who do this. I have to believ…
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/25 09:46 PM
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Bullshit
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/25 02:29 AM
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I hate feeling like I’ve missed so much of watching him grow. I finally have some real time with him but it’s been really hard to adjust back and forth between being his dad on my own, and not seeing him more than half the time. I never missed a day of my son’s life until she blew up our family for this new guy.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/25 01:31 AM
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I know the feeling. My ex wife immediately brought her affair partner into my son’s life and they are raising him like it’s THEIR family. It’s bullshit and it constantly makes me feel so insignificant in his life. She’s literally tried to replace me with another man when I’m not a dead beat and have always been there for my son. I love him more than anything. I’m missing so many new experiences for him and watching him grow every day while another man plays daddy to my son. Also this man is extr…
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/25 12:12 AM
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Yes
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/25 12:10 AM
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Let me tell you something that might not be of any comfort, the judge doesn’t necessarily believe her. There is a low standard of evidence for restraining orders and it’s become very political for judges. It’s frankly pathetic. It boils down to the judges are cowards and they would rather cover their own asses and grant the order, not caring how it affects you. From their perspective if they denied the orders and then you went and killed your ex, they would be in the hot seat. This is a sexist a…
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/25 02:43 PM
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That’s such a cop out. My grandparents had 3 children by 24 years old, Married at 18. Any 24 year old has been a legal adult for 6 years and depending on life experience may be very mature or may have a lot of adult responsibilities on their plate. She didn’t sell herself as immature and she was the one who made the commitment to marry me and have my child. Yes I agree she is immature but saying a 24 year old has to be immature is a cop out and frankly is bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 02:57 PM
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Very true. There is a side to it as well where obviously we don’t know exactly how much our exes might be suffering on the inside. Just because it appears one way doesn’t mean there isn’t more going on behind the scenes. And in reality that isn’t what’s important in my life and going forward now. I just can’t help but occasionally be pissed that she left me in such a damaging way, attacking my reputation, dragged me through the mud with court when I was willing to give her whatever she wanted, a…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 01:04 PM
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It hurts sometimes still but honestly I’ve done quite a bit of healing and definitely know I am better off without her in the long run. My issue is this; it’s petty, but I don’t want her to be happy or for people to reaffirm her bullshit. She doesn’t deserve to be happy, she doesn’t deserve reassurance. You know what I mean? She’s an awful human being, she’s done awful things to me. She has lied and lied out her ass at my expense to make herself the victim and free herself of any blame in this s…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 12:54 PM
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Thank you for this advice. I am actually 35 but still young enough to build a new life. I do look at this as an opportunity, and I feel like I dodged a bullet of having to be with this lying shitty person. That being said, occasionally it still hurts that I don’t get to watch my boy grow every day, and that another man is there for so much of it, and that my son will never see his mom and dad as a family. It was the one thing I told her I didn’t want for our son before he was born and she promis…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 12:25 PM
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She was 24 when we got married. 27 when we split. Also as much as I wish I could take the who cares mentality, she has heavily involved her piece of shit boyfriend in raising my toddler. So what she is doing is affecting him negatively.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 11:59 AM
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Well when I met her I was working at the same restaurant as her. I moved on and this guy basically had my old job behind the bar. They would presumably go out for drinks after work and see each other at work more often and were all part of that work friend group.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 04:10 AM
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This is along the lines of what I was thinking/looking for. The only thing is I never really sought her validation. It was one of our issues. The power dynamic was always that she kind of loved me more than I loved her, until she didn’t anymore. She would always ask me “why won’t you just love me?” Even though I did in my own way, part of me always knew she was trash.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 04:07 AM
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Yeah I don’t think this is it but thanks for the input. She was constantly calling me daddy and papa bear and shit, I dropped the ball in other ways in the relationship but frankly I think the mistake was just choosing her to begin with. My sense of it is that she is trying to prove to herself and everyone else around her that she’s better off with him and made the right choice or whatever destroying our family. I even heard from my son that the new boyfriend is pressuring her to have a kid with…
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 03:51 AM
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How does that apply here?
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 03:34 AM
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No it is exactly her feels of sex. Don’t buy the bullshit that she felt mistreated. You sound like an overly nice and understanding guy, a doormat, and she’s taking advantage of that fact. You are blaming yourself when it was her choice. You just said that you were willing to put in the work to make the changes to meet her needs and she said “okay” and then said she actually couldn’t do it. She chose another man over you because she doesn’t see him as a pathetic doormat like she views you right …
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/25 03:00 PM
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This may sound harsh but for your self you need to understand. One thing you need to get through your head on a fundamental level, and it’s clear you just don’t see it right now, is that men and women think very very differently. Some of it is modern programming, some of it is biological evolutionary stuff. Think about 98% of human history for women. Women had minimal rights and relied on men for pretty much everything from protection and provisions. Women would bear children and raise them. Mos…
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/25 02:49 PM
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The stats say it’s mostly women breaking up families for their selfish reasons. While occasionally guys do it to, it’s been my experience and is my belief that most men who marry and start families put them before everything. Even when men do cheat (which I don’t support) most men aren’t willing to leave their wife and children for that side action. Whereas when women start seeing another man on the side, they convince themselves that it’s true love and that their husband is in the way of true h…
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/25 02:36 PM
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I will never understand how women can do this shit. My ex wife also did this. Cheated on me and then left me for the guy, then she has him around my kid more than me pretending they are a family. She deleted all pictures of me and tells everyone around that I was never involved in my son’s life when I was literally around every single day helping raise him and he is the light of my life. It’s sick.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/25 02:24 PM
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It’s deeply rooted in social media and media programming.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 07:42 PM
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At the 20 year old store? It ain’t that easy
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 05:27 PM
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This
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/25 08:14 AM
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Fuck that. Hit the gym. Stay off porn. Get healthy as fuck and be very careful about what women you let into your life
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 09:13 PM
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Why do women do that shit? It’s a horrid self destructive disgusting behavior. Attention? Validation? It’s pathetic.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 08:46 AM
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Yeah don’t be so sure you’ve gotten through to her. Feelings always win for women.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 08:22 AM
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Some things in life, many actually, can’t be measured by statistics accurately. Womans’ happiness is almost surely one of those things.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 08:13 AM
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This is so true. Fickle petty creatures
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 08:10 AM
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Thank you. I believe that now, the long game thing. What’s been eating at me is I could have already played this all very different. I had some good money stashed aside and ended up developing a severe gambling problem to cope and it’s only gotten worse. I have had 17 months to pull things together and I’m worried that I just keep misplaying it and now I’ve created so much debt and I’m so far behind that I don’t see a way to fix it. I’m afraid I’m going to end up a bitter loser and that will con…
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 08:03 AM
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Not good. Totally broke and worried I’ll never recover from the emotional trauma. My ex used the silver bullet method 16 months ago to cut me off from my son at 2 years old. Then she brought the man she cheated on me with into our old home and started teaching my son that her AP was dad. By the time I started seeing my son on court ordered visitation it had been 6 months of my son calling this new guy dad and he was taught to call me by my first name. Now I’m broke living back with my parents li…
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 07:42 AM
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I didn’t realize you were there. The story goes that Eve was the one who was tempted, albeit Adam knowingly took the fruit once Eve had as well. But as any man knows, women hold power over men, and the devil knows that the woman was the key to getting Adam to commit that first sin.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/25 04:00 AM
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While everyone is right about the financial motivations, women also experience higher levels of dissatisfaction in marriage. Statistically men are happier in marriage and women are not. Now I’m going to get religious for second to emphasize something I believe about the excessively high divorce rate of modern times. In Christianity, women are the original sinners. They were dissatisfied with paradise and everything it had to offer and wanted the one thing God told us we couldn’t touch. They took…
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 04:52 PM
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Cool story
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 01:26 AM
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I think I just fundamentally disagree when it comes to the habits of the sexes. Everybody lies sure, but women literally lie as a major currency. Women are the far superior liars, and the far more frequent ones to tell lies in any given circumstance. I also see women less impacted by their own lies, as in they don’t really feel guilty about lying. Whereas in the past if I am holding onto a big lie from someone I love or am close with, it eats at me. I truly believe men are the more loyal, more r…
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 12:49 AM
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I don’t believe the stats for a second. In my 35 years I’ve seen more women cheat and deny it til the day they die. The stats are wrong because most women don’t admit they cheated or don’t even call what they did cheating. Like my ex wife, who said she was done in her mind for a long time so it’s not cheating. Well that’s not how the world works. We were together, she told me every day that she loved me and even expressed jealousy and fear that I would cheat. Obviously she was projecting. My exp…
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 12:28 AM
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This gives me hope as I’m 16 months in and completely lost still. My ex immediately replaced me and threw herself and her family who once loved me into a new life intertwined with the affair partner boyfriend and his family. They are raising my kid to their the majority of the time. He isn’t a good guy from what I know about him and what he’s said to me. They both have told me to off myself and that my son is better off without me. I can’t even fathom dating. I’m still barely holding it together…
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 06:43 PM
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I don’t hear enough of that regret. A lot of the r/divorce posts are self validating echo chambers of how great life is after divorce. My ex immediately replaced me with her affair partner and they are playing family raising my son. She pretends to be very happy and has manipulated everyone of our old friends and her family and coworkers into thinking she’s some victim and she is much better off. I can only imagine what she really feels if she even feels anything.
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 12:50 PM
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100%. The insane part to me is that my wife lied in court with things I have documented proof are lies. Things I can easily prove she’s lying about. Even caught her in 2 relatively big lies during cross examination and it doesn’t matter. The courts do nothing. She got a slight talking to from the judge and then basically told us to both grow up and told her to leave her boyfriend out of raising my son for now. She completely ignored the judge and doubled down on the boyfriend’s involvement. I Fa…
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 12:18 AM
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That was the misleading part for me. I kinda took the red pill a few years ago and had some understanding of modern women’s nature. I did ignore some red flags with my ex wife, but one thing that made me feel she was different or safer is that her family seemed so nice. Her parents married for like 30 years, her grandparents on her mom’s side together for 60+ years. She did tell me straight up when we met that she never wanted to have a family but that just made me feel special for her going aga…
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/25 12:09 AM
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Yeah mine cheated with a coke addict who cheated on his own girlfriend and now they have been together for almost a year. She let him into our apartment within a month of me being gone and had my 2 year old calling him dad by the time I got some court ordered visitation. Super fucked up. The guy also called me and told me my kid was his now and that he could molest my kid and I couldn’t stop him. I called dcf on him and he was right, there is nothing I can do to stop him short of breaking the la…
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 11:54 PM
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That’s a whole other topic I’d like to hear about from men here, why do so many women cheat? Do you believe women cheat more than men? I do believe women cheat more than men at this point in time, and I also subscribe to the belief that while men cheating is also wrong, when women cheat it’s more final and damning. Women cheat and they are done with the marriage, whereas men might just want some sexual variety but they don’t want out of their marriage. Again I don’t think men should cheat for th…
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 10:28 PM
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I actually appreciate and would accept men and women here so long as the focus here is the male perspective and experience. The idea to me of this post is that the divorce subreddit is clearly not interested in men’s experience or opinions or having anything but a one sided discussion.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 10:12 PM
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What’s funny about that is I actually think the men who file divorce statistic is inaccurate. For example in my divorce I had to file to make custody an issue because she had used dirty tactics to get a false restraining order and was withholding my son. She didn’t file but she kicked me out and said she wanted a divorce. If I hadn’t filed divorce I wouldn’t get to see my kid. And it took me 3 months before I got a supervised visit. Thankfully now I have much more time with him. But to my point,…
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 09:09 PM
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When in reality I think more women cheat than men. They just don’t admit or take accountability. When my ex wife cheated on me to this day she won’t admit it was cheating, saying we were done in her mind for a long time. Like what
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 08:18 PM
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Difference between men who sleep around and women who sleep around. Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Hence why women who sleep around are called “easy” while men who get lots of women to sleep with them are called players or alphas. “A lock that is opened by many keys is useless, while a key that opens many locks is a master key.”
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 07:42 PM
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Very typical. I think it’s true that men are the real romantics and women are 99% whores in sheep’s clothing
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 07:10 PM
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So you like sloppy seconds, thirds, fourths, and fifths, and sixths, and so on.
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/25 07:09 PM
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They think they can do anything they want with no consequences because they can. Short of murder I have never in my 35 years on earth seen a woman be held accountable for any type of bad behavior. Murder is the only instance, and even then they will try to find a way to make her into the victim who had no choice.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 12:21 AM
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Same. They are 99% of the devil.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 12:19 AM
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Divorce takes all your resources. Custody battles take resources and then time with your kids if you get it. I don’t think a new woman is the answer. Actually I think the opposite is way healthier. Celibacy, time away from women’s bullshit, focus on your self and your kids. Focus on fortifying your mental strength and trying to let go. Control what you can and let go of what you can’t control. It sucks and it’s much easier to say than to do but that’s what I’ve been trying to do for the past yea…
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 10:08 PM
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Wish it were that easy.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 10:07 PM
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Same exact story. She’s a great liar and puts on a great front. She’s practiced her lies so much I actually wonder if she believes her own crap. Luckily I have a lot of proof of her lies especially when she has called me an uninvolved parent. My son is way too young to show him but I hope someday he sees her for what she is and what she did. (This is also breaks my heart because I never wanted him to hate his mom and I still don’t, but she and her affair partner are already trying to turn his li…
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 10:07 PM
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I am in a similar boat. Wife left me for a coworker and lied to get a restraining order and emergency custody. Immediately moved her coworker into my house and taught our toddler to call this new man dad. Took me 4 months to get supervised visits and another year before I was seeing my son more regularly. By this point the damage to our foundation has been done. This guy she’s dating is extremely disrespectful towards me and disparages me to my toddler. I am full of hate and anger. She betrayed …
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 10:04 PM
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I hate to break it to you, but she is for sure either seeing someone else already or has someone in mind that is interested in her. This is an extremely clear indicator. I’m sorry man.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 01:20 AM
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Yeah to be blunt you’re a straight up idiot. Men who date single mothers are apathetic bottom of barrel feeders. They destroyed a family and you think you’re somehow better? Of course you do, it’s an ego boost. You thought it’d be different with you because you were special. Learn from others mistakes. There’s a reason most of the male population echoes the truth that dating a single mom always ends badly. The best indicator of future behavior is past behavior. I’m sorry for your loss but you ab…
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 01:04 AM
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Better yet. Don’t find out what the more is. I learned from my situation and others that it doesn’t matter. Some things are better left unseen/unsaid/unheard. If you start digging she may resort to more desperate tactics. Just plan your escape, focus on you and be as amicable as you can be. Advice I wish I had gotten. I dug, I found the “more,” and all I got was an extremely difficult bitter expensive divorce with multi year restraining orders and months of not seeing my child.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/25 12:35 PM
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Hate to say it but the modern woman is a trash can.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/25 04:19 AM
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Fuck NO
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/24 02:02 AM
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Idiotic shitpost
/r/seduction27/03/22 03:03 AM
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Clickbait. Wisdomtree? Make a more self-righteous name why don’t you. Eat a slice of humble pie man maybe you don’t have it as figured out as you’d like to believe.
/r/seduction11/12/20 05:28 PM
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