| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 34 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself? | Rant | DeepAnt8165 | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 03:12 PM |
| 16 | What made you drop the hammer? | DeepAnt8165 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 11:17 AM | |
| 10 | How did you secured your finances ? | DeepAnt8165 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 12:55 PM | |
| 9 | Divorce strategy | DeepAnt8165 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/11/25 01:56 PM | |
| 3 | Where to live? | DeepAnt8165 | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/25 01:21 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Divorce strategyWhy the last one? What's the benefit of debt thru divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/25 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Ashamed of my inability to get over what caused the divorce. I’ve become so cruel. I need to get this off my chest. I’m not a good person anymore.Didn't you have to pay alimony? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/25 11:56 AM |
| 0 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?Probably there is true in what you are saying but I married a woman, not a man. That's why I'm asking. Is not a generic question, I wonder if my stbx will change at all after the divorce and find a job or if she will do anything on her power to avoid going to the work force. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/11/25 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?It makes sense. The reason I was curious about that it is because she may get most of the custodial share. I was trying to see if she would find a job, just live on the money I will be forced to give her or she may roam thru the shelters in the region. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/25 07:44 PM |
| 7 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?Well yes, but I didn't marry a man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 11:16 PM |
| 6 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?Sometimes they can't, not all the guys are down for that | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 11:15 PM |
| 10 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?The background is divorce a stay home mom who chooses not to work | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 10:41 PM |
| 4 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?That's what I thought, how can she even afford to live like that. It is a shame. I'm sorry you married her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?Sorry about that dude. That sucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 10:33 PM |
| 3 | Gentelment, how long does it take to a divorced woman to realize that her life has changed and now she has to be accountable for herself?I absolutely agree | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/11/25 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Told my wife of 15 years that I was considering divorcing her.My situation is a little similar or slightly worst. 2 kids and homeschooling mom. The lawyer already painted me what is going to be the outcome and I got the same response when consulting the ai. But a lot is going on, my kid got very sick early this year, I was about to file when that happened, a complete shift of priorities out of nowhere. He is better now, but still has to go to the doctor every 3 months. My wife doesn't care about how hard it is to make it to the end of the month and have a … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/10/25 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Men that were cheated on- How on earth did you ever regain your sexual confidence?Get Viagra. That helps big time | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/25 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Wait to file?I heard that there is some sort of advantage to the one file first. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/25 04:58 AM |
| 4 | Should I ask for alimonyI think so, yes do it. She makes enough for it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/25 01:24 PM |
| 5 | Ex-Wife never posted pictures of us or our son when we were together. She has been posting regularly with her new boyfriend who she cheated on me and left me for. Any ideas why?Yes, crazy nonsense | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/25 04:41 AM |
| 13 | Recent text from ex-wifeShe is running low on money, but who knows! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/25 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Is Alimony permanent?Depends your state | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/04/25 07:04 PM |
| 7 | Its happening and im devastatedShe is a sorry woman, well... You need a strong support circle, reach for positive relatives and true friends. This is going to happen thru stages, now you are on the beginning stages and it may get a little worse before it gets better but it will happen sooner than you think. You need a job, somehow bring something in to pay rent and buy food. If you don't have enough for rent then look up for your parents and ask them to stay with them while you can save for buying something later. Your recove… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/25 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What made you drop the hammer?That's the other disturbing thing is that there are females out there that would share a man between other females as long as they don't have to work. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/04/25 03:17 AM |
| 2 | What made you drop the hammer?There is community in reddit called: homeschoolrecovery With kids begging to go to public school because of their isolation, also homeschooling moms are very possessive and toxic, pretty much they want the kids to have their mindset and with the excuse : he/she is learning on his/her terms let the kids to stay illiterate until that late in their life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/25 10:16 PM |
| 3 | One Week Away and She Now Decides to ContestYep, all the money that could be used in some other more regarding stuff now has to go to courts and lawyers. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/25 02:48 PM |
| 3 | What made you drop the hammer?So sorry to know that, what a shame of a woman. Hope you will see your kids soon my man. That buddy of yours a complete loser, who would be picking up a woman who has 3 kids already. Hopefully the kids are attending school now, that is not a relationship that is going to last. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/25 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Filed and servedTalk to your lawyer about how to protect yourself in case of false allegations of DV. You may need to record all interactions with her at all times as long as the law allows you. Probably you will have to move out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Coparenting appWas she a stay home mom? | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Together 10, married 5, separated 3, should I give so to be ex anything.You should get divorced asap, because the longer you stay the longer you pay alimony. Sounds like she makes less than you. Is not good to drag this stuff for too long. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Feeling worthless.It is more common than you think | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 10:49 AM |
| 3 | Toxic, Horrible, SepticStart talking to a lawyer, understand what your rights are and be careful with the money in the shared account. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/25 06:20 AM |
| 3 | Toxic, Horrible, SepticNo, bad advise. Before doing any recording he should ask a lawyer under what circumstances is legal to record. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/25 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Nothing but the TruthCongratulations, so pretty much you represented yourself? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/25 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Sharing nudes posted on OF in self defenseYou need another lawyers. In a contested divorce you have to have a reliable lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/25 01:05 AM |
| 4 | I’m so closeI'm in a very similar situation like yours, it takes a while to get the strength to tell yourself: enough is enough without being upset. I hope you and everyone being unhappy in a toxic relationship find the strength to leave now and for good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 04:53 PM |
| -6 | Are there any tangible steps being taken to change divorce laws?The redpill is not nonsense, there is valuable wisdom in there. We should start a petition to the government, backed by a lot of us, the only way to change things is thru action. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/25 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Stroke victimHave you talked to a lawyer? Don't tolerate abuse, part of all that wealth is yours. You just need to understand your rights better and don't stay where abused. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/25 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Stroke victimActually dude, this change is going to benefit your health. Congratulations 🎉. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/25 07:14 PM |
| 12 | Can't live anymoreSounds like you are suffering from a break up from a person that did the right things to own you. Part of growing old it is to come up with the realization that in life nothing is granted, that everyone has a price, good times end and nothing last for ever. Loneliness is a bitch, you have to find a support circle, friends, relatives or even previous relationships. Probably you will have to move, traveling is so powerful to distract your mind. Then, rebuild what is lost, get in shape, learn new t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/25 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Why are you and mommy not gonna be married anymore?That situation is really bad, but you are doing a great job holding the true to keep your daughter mental health strong. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/25 11:48 AM |
| 3 | How did you secured your finances ?I'm glad you didn't suffer a more significant loss in that accident. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 06:17 PM |
| 2 | How did you secured your finances ?Probably you regret not filing for divorce earlier. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/25 05:45 PM |
| 11 | Got punched in the faceCall the police and if you still have the bruce go to the doctor and get it treated, I know is not physically necessary but all that paperwork is something you can use against her | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/03/25 10:33 PM |
| 3 | To those broken by their divorceThere are anti divorce comments, probably made by females. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/25 04:39 PM |
| 7 | Sex after divorce.There are people meant for sex only, not for marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/25 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Tell Me It Gets Better Afterwards?What are the drivers for this divorce? Who initiated it? | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/03/25 12:48 PM |
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