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She went out with the same man a few times and had a Tinder profile, and you claim this is 'emotional cheating'. Whatever version of events she spun to you, I can guarantee it didn't go down like that. She doesn't respect you and will continue with this shitty behaviour.
/r/askMRP09/06/25 08:32 PM
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She's creating arguments with you, over petty shit that doesn't matter, in order to facilitate her going to chads for a few days. She's escaping her responsibilities and relieving her frustrations on chads face. It's not about you and her now. It's all about you and your kids. This place will help if you're prepared to do the work. Good luck.
/r/askMRP12/04/25 04:57 PM
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Emotional affair / physical affair.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 04:07 PM
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Serial offender
/r/askMRP26/12/24 11:29 PM
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Your drunk girl spends the night 'cuddled' to a drunk dude. Is this really what you define as an emotional affair? The information you received from her was only a fraction of truth from her guilty conscience. They fucked, have probably fucked before, and will probably fuck again based on her new attitude.
/r/askMRP26/12/24 10:27 AM
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No More Mr Nice Dog
/r/askMRP26/10/24 08:10 AM
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When we split, the kids were still young (9 and 7). It definitely had an effect on them, at least for a few months. She left the family home and moved with the kids into a rental property, as there was no way she could afford to stay. I explained to her how most of these family lawers operate, having watched some of my colleagues at work get financially ruined. I told her they would cash in at the kids' expense. She agreed to a mediation service (I'm in the UK), which is basically a qualified la…
/r/askMRP19/09/24 12:05 PM
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This. It's done, and it sounds like there's someone else. My situation was similar. Once this starts, it won't stop, no matter what you do. My stance became, "You know where the door is if you're not happy. And it's one way. " She walked, we sorted shit out and lived happily ever after (well, me and the kids are happy, her not so much).
/r/askMRP18/09/24 08:38 PM
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This is the cold, hard truth a lot of guys need to hear. There are too many posts on here about missing the ex, and 'has anyone ever managed to win her back', 'I'm so lonely', etc. She's not that innocent little princess you think she is, and the fact that she has been withholding sex from you for months and years on end doesn't mean her biological need has halted.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 04:07 AM
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December and January were a nightmare. 8 weeks of nonstop stress.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 08:44 PM
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I used to have to get drunk to deal with this shit.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 08:42 PM
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She got all dressed up ready to be fucked good, only to find him passed out. The next morning, she highlights his failure to get her off on a previous occasion. He interprets this as a comfort test and proceeds to cuddle her instead of giving her what she craves.
/r/askMRP28/06/24 09:56 PM
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It's not just the improved fitness either. When you get to the stage where you're care free and give zero fucks, you project that and the women love it. Especially if your only competition is a bunch of out of shape and miserable married men. Enjoy the boost, my man. You've earned it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 07:29 PM
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I gave up alcohol and developed a gym addiction. Now, I'm in the best shape of my life and attracting girls half the age of my ex.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 11:29 AM
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Just wait until one or more of these friends of your wife starts getting her back blown out by chad the impaler. Your wife will be hearing all the gory details, and then you will have a real problem on your hands. Are you the best and most exciting version of you?
/r/askMRP02/06/24 09:25 AM
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Dude, I know you're hurting, but taking your own life is selfish. You're leaving behind family who love you and that little angel you have. You can't leave him to navigate his way through this f*cked up world without his dad. Suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Accept the system is stacked against us men. There's nothing any of us can do about that. It sucks, but once you accept this, you can then focus on making the best out of a bad situation. Forget about money. Do the be…
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 09:08 AM
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She's testing you, and you are failing. Why are you even going to the gym at the same time? You appearing all butthurt over her behaviour helps her to justify the cheating. Ignore her and work out at different times. If other women are not flirting with you, then you have work to do, my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 02:44 PM
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u/CrazySanta7 is 100% correct. When they say they 'need space', they are doing bedroom gymnastics with some other dude (or dudes). So you think logistically she's not capable? Trust me, they can and will find a way. Women are much better at cheating and getting away with it than men. I'm guessing your bedroom has been dead for some time now, and I'm also going to guess she's told you, "I love you, but I'm not in love with you".
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 07:32 PM
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Your stance on feminism was a turn-on for her. By contrast, surely there's nothing more repulsive to a woman than a male feminist.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/24 03:40 PM
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I created a word document with all the nasty things she did and said to me during our time together, during the split and after the divorce. I used to read it from time to time, to serve as a reminder of female nature and how fortunate I was to have escaped prison. The one thing that always stood out for me was when she threatened me with "another man will raise your children".
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 01:27 PM
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The answer is not to waste your life chasing women and feeling the 'need' to be with someone.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 08:38 PM
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Yes, finding another Disney Fairytale Princess is exactly what we all need.....
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 09:44 AM
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I used to look forward to a good MRP roasting. I knew when writing posts from the depressed hell that I was living I was leaving myself open. But isn't that the point? I was in a bad place, confused and weak. I looked forward to the inevitable Mr Bad Guy Internet strangers ripping my weak ass bullshit to pieces. That's exactly what I needed.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/24 04:57 PM
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Similar experience here. I found married red pill and thought I had found the solution to my failing marriage. Done lots of reading, lifting and spewing my guts to the forum. After some initial success, I strapped on the headband and went full Rambo. I was probably a hybrid of John Rambo and John Matrix. I walked away to a backdrop of rising flames and didn't look back. Here I am 5 years single. I'm in a much better place physically and mentally. My kids are thriving too now they have a fully fu…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/24 01:51 PM
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Couples therapy? Really? She's keeping you on a hook while she gets her real 'therapy' from this other dude. You are her plan b in case it doesn't work out with him. Have some respect for yourself man. Start going to the gym, eat good food and avoid alcohol. Read some books, get a new hobby. Forget about her and her couples therapy. Once you get into a groove and start feeling better about yourself, you'll start to attact other women. Right now you are coming across as wounded and needy. Not att…
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 09:25 AM
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Take a hooker back to the house one night, tell that bitch she's just a friend. Don't even need to fuck the hooker. Or start staying out all night and tell that bitch nothing about where you are or who you are with.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/23 10:12 AM
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Definitely. She's got him exactly where she wants him. Simp City
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 05:01 PM
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She shall return
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/23 03:39 AM
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My man here knows what it's all about. Good job 👏
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 10:02 PM
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Did you put your big boy pants on like she instructed?
/r/askMRP14/07/23 08:31 AM
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Wow, you've got their lives planned out for them in your head, even down to them having sex 3 times per week when the kids are with you. This post is all she this and he that. You are obsessed with them. What you need to do is forget about them and what they are up to. Focus on you and your kids. Sort yourself out, get in good physical shape and show your kids how awesome their dad is. Or you could continue showing them you're an insecure, jealous and depressed excuse for a man. Increase your va…
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 07:00 PM
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8 months? Keep going and you'll see how peaceful your life is. All women are like that. Now it's just me and my kids my life is peaceful.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 11:20 AM
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Put it this way, if the shoe was on the other foot.... if you were the one forging her signature etc. Do you think that she would think twice and ask reddit if she should turn your ass in?
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/22 07:32 AM
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You cheated..... You're not the first and you won't be the last to do this. I'm guessing your sex life was non-existent, or else you wouldn't have even considered it. Perhaps your wife withheld sex from you? Well, whatever the case may be, as a man we have a primal need for sex. When this has been taken away from us, our mental health is at great risk and we can easily spiral downwards into a very dark place. I want you to forgive yourself for what you have done, because I know you're a good fam…
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/22 06:20 PM
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"I'm just not happy"...... join the club dude. All about damage limitation now. Keep yourself fit and healthy, do your best for the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/22 12:38 PM
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Since my ex moved out and we got divorced a few years ago, I've become very self-sufficient for me and my kids. I can cook, clean, do laundry etc. I think to myself, take away the sex, what exactly can a woman bring to my life? How can she enhance it? By bringing chaos, drama, silly mind games etc? Time away from my kids is spent peacefully and quietly. If I want sex, I go and get it. If I don't, don't. I've learned to enjoy my own company after long period of isolation, during which I've made a…
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/22 09:23 PM
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Sent you a PM.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 09:17 PM
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Where and when is this GNO? Asking for a friend....
/r/askMRP02/11/22 06:12 PM
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This brought back fond memories of my "this shit really works" phase before I went full Rambo.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/22 10:24 PM
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Why doesn't she move out and you get the house? She can walk away with half the equity.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/22 09:56 PM
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Sounds like you enjoy drama and chaos. Good luck with that. Also, this is 100% guaranteed to screw your kids mind up even more than it needs to be.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/21 06:42 PM
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She's testing you to see how you react. To see if it bothers you. You're failing. Simply don't give a f*ck and get on with your business. Don't give her the attention she craves.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/21 12:36 PM
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You think you can fix things. Try harder, change your ways etc. When you're in the midst of the chaos you are unable to see what's really going on. My ex used the D word as a threat as she knew it scared the crap out of me. I was prepared to fight tooth and nail to keep myself in her prison as I thought divorce would destroy the kids, as is what we are led to believe. Don't get me wrong, divorce is obviously bad for kids but not nearly as bad as watching their dad suffer as a pussy whipped bitch…
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/21 07:54 PM
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Do not sit and reminisce about the good times, shared Christmas Trees and ornament exchanges. What about the times when she would only lift her nose from her mobile phone to bark orders at you? You remember no matter how much you did for her, it was never enough? Walking on egg shells? I could go on and on but I'm sure you can relate. Going out of town to get sh*t faced? Great idea, I'm sure that will help with your depression.... you should avoid alcohol for the foreseeable since it appears you…
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/21 07:30 PM
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Enjoy your first red pill and welcome to the club. You need to experience female nature first hand to even begin to understand it. Read the Rationale Male by Rollo Tomassi and No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover. Get yourself to the gym and lift heavy weights if you don't already. This gets better if you work on yourself, I promise.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 07:49 PM
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You need to cut this bitch off. Tell her she needs to get her own place ASAP. Get DNA tests to confirm the kids are yours or not. As others have said, DO NOT have sex with her ever again. From now on the only communication you should have with her is for kids arrangements. Nothing else - she will just manipulate you. Might be wise to invest in sound recorders for your interactions with her. Do not enter into another relationship for the foreseeable future. Work on you - start working out if you …
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/21 07:59 PM
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To start off, I'm in the UK so no alimony to be concerned about. I remained calm, fair and decisive during the initial stages of my divorce. I remembered reading somewhere that it's good to display some blue pill behaviour when dealing with a greedy ex, her lawyer and all her cheerleaders, rooting for her in the court as she strips you of your assets. So I did just that. I managed to persuade her that it would be best to go through mediation services rather than straight to lawyers. I had witnes…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/21 08:32 AM
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You're her plan B, her back up while she browses the open market. Do yourself a favour and kill this thing now.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/21 07:44 AM
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PULL THE DAMN TRIGGER! Seriously dude, get out of this abusive relationship with damage limitation. You and your son will be better off in the long run.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/21 06:59 PM
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It doesn't need to hurt. You can use it to motivate yourself to be better. Transform yourself into the man your daughter needs you to be. She will be on the receiving end of your ex's shameful manipulation tactics too. Rise above it all, show your daughter how awesome you can be. Avoid alcohol, get to the gym and eat clean for a start.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/21 12:49 PM
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"Out with her new squeeze". You sound butthurt and your daughter probably senses this. Your ex most definitely does and will continue to play on it until you learn to give zero fucks about where she is or who she's with. Only message your ex for arrangements with your daughter. Nothing else.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/21 09:30 PM
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Same here, I just got flashbacks reading this.
/r/askMRP26/06/21 08:56 AM
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You should hurry up and drop the ILY, get in there before she does. Also quiz her about all these dudes she's allegedly been with and make sure you look super jealous. Seriously dude, you are on a slippery slope here, heading towards another failed shit show if this is your mindset. Fuck what your ex says/does and fuck what this new chick has done in the past. Do whatever the fuck you want man.
/r/askMRP31/05/21 06:30 PM
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Dress up as him and fuck her, let her live the fantasy. Tell her to say his name while you smash.
/r/askMRP31/05/21 06:16 PM
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This. SHE IS NOT YOUR FRIEND. As you will soon come to realise, she is more like your worst enemy.
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/21 10:05 AM
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Seriously, DO NOT get married again, you've been there and done that. You think it's going to be any better next time? Tell her under no circumstances are you going to get married again. If she says she's leaving, say ok there's the door.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/21 06:53 AM
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DO NOT do it. I was told the same when I was your age by men at work. I laughed it off, as that's what you do, right? Get married, have kids, happy wife happy life, retire with loads of cash and a big smile on your face? Now I'm divorced, my kids live with my ex and her new man half the time and I get to pay her for the privilege.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/21 05:58 AM
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I have two kids, ages 8 and 10. I don't allow them to play games too long - they get enough gaming time to have a bit of fun and touch base with their friends. They are involved in martial arts and the rest of the time we are all outside playing soccer, mountain biking, hiking, exploring rivers and forests etc. All the fun stuff I enjoyed as a kid and they absolutely love it. I'll be taking them camping to a big lake soon, where we'll build a fire and do some fishing. Honestly, they can't get en…
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/21 01:38 PM
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Dude, your kids need you now more than ever. My ex narcissist piece of sht wife is always using my kids as pawns as she knows that's they only way she can try to recreate the control she used to have over me. But guess what, I've showed my kids how fckin awesome I am now I've escaped her clutches and my time spent with them is amazing. I've remained single over 2 years now and life is great without some harpy making my life a living hell. I pick up chicks if/when I want and leave it at that. My …
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/21 03:02 PM
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What do you have to feel guilty about? Too many guys think it's all their fault the marriage isn't working, despite their best efforts to "fix" everything. Look at the divorce rates - the odds are stacked against you. The kids feed off your energy and if you are constantly embroiled in emotional battles with your wife, walking around in a state of depression, guess what...... Since my separation and divorce, the kids vibes have improved tenfold. No longer do they need to watch their dad walk aro…
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/21 07:44 PM
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Same here dude. I thought I was cruising but woke up this morning and had a reality check.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/21 07:46 AM
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This. Go bang the odd hooker here and there if you're desperate, cheaper than getting married again and your ROI will be better if you know what I mean....
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/21 06:43 PM
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What this dude says. Time to get to work. Most of us have been there.... it does get better. A lot better ;)
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/21 12:09 AM
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All her screen time = another dude. You cheated.... guess what, she has too. Bitter pill to swallow, probably red in colour. There's no going back now, accept that it's over and it's now time to work on yourself. Build yourself into a better man and your kids will be just fine... I promise. Roll around in pity and they will suffer. Damage limitation now. Read the books others have suggested, get yourself into good shape by lifting weights and eating clean. This is for the best. You'll be just fi…
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/21 12:06 AM
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Oneitis is a bitch. We've all been there.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/20 02:30 PM
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He's listened to his unicorn being rammed by another dude and blames himself for it. He also claims to miss her after everything. He's only 26 and it's f*cking tragic. The roasting is part of the process of getting his balls back. The guys over there will fix him. At the very least he should read the rationale male.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/20 09:50 AM
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Dude.... do us both a favour and copy this post over to r/askmrp
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/20 09:12 PM
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OP, this advice right here. Lift, Read and do not communicate with her unless you need to i.e. for arrangements with kids. She's playing you - time to put a stop to that shit. Don't tell her anything you are doing and don't give a fuck about what she's doing. Do not drink alcohol and do not fall straight into another relationship. It's easy to fall from one shit show into another (ask me how I know....). Take time out to work on you and your relationship with your kids. It may not seem like it a…
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/20 08:00 AM
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Let her go, she doesn't deserve to be part of your family anymore. Accept you stand to lose some resources, but in return you will have a tighter bond with your girls now they can relax in your home without their cheating mum creating tension. Now is a good time to work on you. Get yourself into great shape by eating clean and lifting weights. Be there to support your girls with life issues but also try to do fun stuff with them. Forget about your STBX, it's all about you and your girls now. The…
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/20 07:36 PM
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Exactly. Dads house is the fun house, where he can kick back and chill out with a cool fucking dude. OP just needs to make sure he is that cool fucking dude.....
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/20 02:05 PM
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OP does in fact need to warrior up. No new man permanently on the scene for my kids yet, but I know it's only a matter of time, especially in the current state of world affairs. Your post is spot on and I'll be coming back to it in the future for a reminder.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/20 02:02 PM
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10 out of 10. OP you should follow all of this advice.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/20 01:06 PM
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Use this time as an opportunity to forget about your ex and forget about banging new fucking poon for now. This is a chance for you to reset. No external distractions, this is your chance to look deep inside and discover who you really are. I'm guessing you don't enjoy spending time with the person that is you? What does that fucking tell you? I'm recently divorced too and living separate from my kids. How am I coping now in this current situation? I've forced myself to wake up at 5am every fuck…
/r/askMRP03/04/20 06:44 AM
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True, when I look back at my 22 year old self I would not have been very receptive to this type of advice. The only way, like you say, is to make all the mistakes and only then are we ready to learn and accept the truth.
/r/askMRP28/11/19 05:04 PM
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Similar timeline here too. I can only imagine how different things would've been had SBIII given me the same advice as OP when I was 22. OP, I suggest you read that original advice then re-read over and over again. If you can't sleep at night while your GF is being railed by American Chad, then read the sidebar material to help distract your mind from the thoughts of Captain America going ball deep.
/r/askMRP28/11/19 03:20 PM
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This. I'm in the middle of divorce right now and had similar thoughts about wanting a relationship with a woman who respects and desires me, at first.... then I realised I'd be going down the same road to ruin with that mindset. Forget about serious relationships with women, you're definitely in no place to even contemplate that. Look after your assets (as best you can) and get some younger pussy dude. Also, don't beat yourself up about the cheating.... we've all been dealt the same false realit…
/r/askMRP29/10/19 09:09 PM
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Man this really fucking resonates with me. Currently in the process of divorce and everything you say is the truth. I've spent the past few months alone and reflecting. Now I'm finally realising what a fucking rockstar I was and still am.
/r/MGTOW18/10/19 11:15 PM
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Follow your own path, you need to find your own way in life like the rest of us. You need to experience this shit in order to build a better version of you. It's fucking hard, but you will get there if you put the work in.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 10:35 PM
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Don't take her back, no matter what. She's decided you're not good enough for her. That's fine, time to make yourself too good for her and move on. You probably won't know if she's fucked someone else but I can assure you, she will have. It's what they do, speaking from a lot of experience.... AWALT. Don't get mad, or want to 'get even' and for fuck sake drop your ego. Oneitis is a killer, trust me I know. What got me through it was simple - military style healthy meal prep and hitting the gym h…
/r/askMRP09/10/19 09:53 PM
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She wants space... she wants new dick while stringing you along as plan B in case it doesn't work out for her. Accept that she's fucking other dudes, I've just had to do the same. You can dwell on it and feel like shit, or better yourself and find some strange to fuck. When chad has pumped and dumped her and she realises she's fucked up, she will probably come crawling back. I shouldn't need to tell you what to do at this point. This is your opportunity for freedom. What will you do?
/r/askMRP09/10/19 09:36 PM
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"I suspect a lot of people here aren't actually married. No matter the circumstances divorce is difficult." You come to r/askMRP for advice, then suspect a lot of people here aren't actually married? Most people here are either heading for divorce, in the process of divorce, or have already been fucking divorce raped. You're damn right divorce is difficult. In that case you should go and buy her some nice flowers then beg her to stay. Maybe shed a few tears too that will fix everything.
/r/askMRP02/10/19 07:36 PM
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You're right, she's already done her best to convince family and friends that I'm a piece of shit and has actually created some friction on my side. But all the people close to me know how events have unfolded and have seen first hand the narcissist in her. Also, when she first left I appeared happy and she did take every opportunity to try and fucking take me down. I'll move on with things now without being visibly overjoyed. STFU, with minimal contact other than logistics to do with the kids.
/r/askMRP01/10/19 09:20 PM
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I think he might cave too, definitely giving off that vibe.... then he will be in a whole new world of shit
/r/askMRP01/10/19 02:43 PM
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I've been preparing myself for months for the inevitable new dick newsflash. Well, as well as you can prepare for the thought of your once unicorn getting bent over and railed. I'll admit it did hurt initially when the news came in but my new, blonde, younger plaything happened to be on her way to see me. We had a lot of fun that night. Now IDGAF the ex is getting smashed, as I've seen first hand what's out there waiting for me. As for my value? Judging by the interest I'm now receiving I'd say …
/r/askMRP01/10/19 02:39 PM
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I misread it..... cheers
/r/askMRP01/10/19 02:18 PM
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Don't 'hope' for anything, if you want it put the work in and get it. Right now you're clouded with all the emotions and bulllshit. I was there too, fucking miserable existence. Also, remember you can't be friends with her, I tried the nicey nicey friend approach and it just fucks with your head and opens you up for even more manipulation. I wasn't hers, it was just her turn. Get that into your head if you value yourself. I didn't realise my value but now I do, and life is beginning to get prett…
/r/askMRP30/09/19 10:29 PM
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She discovered I had been texting another chick I knew before I joined Tinder, but not even any fucking involved and she completely lost her shit, trying to create all sorts of drama. Doesn't want me and doesn't want me to be with anyone else, go figure. I can totally see your point Red, great advice. I found out she was with a new dude the other week..... she has no idea I'm aware she's been fucking, I haven't mentioned it and have no plans to do so. Nothing to gain from that shit, AWALT.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 10:18 PM
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I thought my ex was a 9. I was hung up on the same shit. Now I see the next wave of 20-25 year olds and realise she's just made contact with the wall which will brutally decimate her over the coming months /years. I also found out she was with another dude (Chad Thunder Dong) the other week. She was likely fucking him and ready to monkey branch during the final few months of our relationshit. I had oneitis bad, but it's amazing what some fresh, young chicks, who love to take a load down their th…
/r/askMRP30/09/19 09:30 PM
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Similar situation here, my wife left with the kids a few months ago. I ramped things up with lawyers and managed to negotiate a decent separation agreement. I will pay her half of my equity which sucks, but it's a small price to pay for freedom. Kids were noticeably affected by it all and it sent me into a bad anger phase where I started drinking a lot and being a fuckin faggot. Finally got my shit together and started hitting the gym hard, getting my finances in order and doing lots of cool shi…
/r/askMRP30/09/19 09:09 PM
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Oneitis and severe blue pill beta behaviour has destroyed 3 long term relationships and I've been mentally fucked up at a deep level as a result. I had a girlfriend from age 13-16 that ended as you would expect. Next was from age 18-23 and ended in similar fashion. Now I'm currently in the hole of divorce and redpill rage after a 13 year relationship, 4 of which married. I drifted straight from one shit show to the next without giving myself time to heal and without any redpill knowledge. I have…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 10:16 AM
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I needed this.
/r/askMRP31/07/19 06:42 PM
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I'm definitely continuing to not own my shit and the pattern needs to be broken.... guess it had to come to this for me to truly appreciate how much of a fuck up I've been.
/r/askMRP31/07/19 05:49 PM
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I think she definitely has mental issues and in the beginning I did go Rambo. Now she's gone I'm seeing the true beast in her through the constant attempts at gaslighting etc.
/r/askMRP31/07/19 05:34 AM
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I see a lot of friends and colleagues around me who really need a wake up call. But I agree with others in that they really need to be in the gutter with nowhere else to turn. Most of them wouldn't take it seriously so fuck them, not my problem. It finds those who need it. I did have one friend come to me one night in a complete state of ruin. To see a grown man in such a pathetic state, the same state I was in myself not so long ago, forced me to intervene. I simply had a brief conversation and…
/r/askMRP18/12/18 08:06 PM
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This. I will tell you how good it gets when I start putting in the work required instead of coming here and acting like a faggot.
/r/askMRP01/09/18 01:25 AM
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I started with a beer gut, its almost gone. She knows I can fuck strange. Problem is I haven't been acting on the IOI's due to being a faithful faggot.
/r/askMRP31/08/18 01:56 AM
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5'9". I get IOI's all the time. My looks compensate for the lack of six pack. I have close to a four pack but lower area carrying some loose fat.
/r/askMRP31/08/18 01:54 AM
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Can't disagree with this.
/r/askMRP30/08/18 02:31 PM
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Needed this. Also, RZD?
/r/askMRP30/08/18 02:28 PM
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I will read Mystery Method again and pay more attention
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 12:19 AM
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I actually meant to post this on OYS but still getting used to the app
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 12:16 AM
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I take a picture in the mirror I see a high value guy that would be a big catch for a lot of women.....
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 12:15 AM
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You're right, I don't get it. I thought I did when I first came here but it's clearly not sinking in.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 12:11 AM
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It's not about being skinny, I feel I'm in the best shape ever. I don't care what they think, I care about results and a better life. Since that opinion from her friend things have deteriorated. It's becoming apparent I should give even less fucks and work harder.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/18 12:00 AM
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Having thought more about your reply... I don't give a fuck what my wife or her friend or anyone think about my appearance. I genuinely don't give a fuck as I feel better than ever. I do give a fuck about my progress being reversed as a result of something out of my control.... so, actually this highlights the fact that I give a fuck when I shouldnt. Another lesson learned about NGAF.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/18 11:53 PM
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Fair enough.... I don't so much give a fuck what her friends think, but her friend seems to have reversed my progress. Out of my control
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/18 11:35 PM
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She says I'm an asshole and that I have a bad attitude problem. She says since I've got in shape I love myself. She says I don't tell her anything i.e communicate every last detail about my life with her (too busy doing my own shit now - before I would be smothering her). She also says I leave the house all the time (not any more time than I have done in the past few years, but now its an issue).
/r/askMRP15/02/18 01:18 PM
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I've been a shitty drunk captain for years and the Dead bedroom is what led me here. But when I seen the entire movie the sex became less important. I've been focusing on improving me in the hope it may also improve all aspects of my family life. Working hard to be a better captain but it's going wrong somewhere.
/r/askMRP12/02/18 02:31 AM
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Asked ME to leave the house a few times because its more practical for me to do so, to which I said no chance. After all the bust ups this weekend I've remained calm and tried to comfort her, but she's still in the guest room and still upset/angry. I went out to wash my car the other day and she called saying why the fuck are you at the car wash do you not think you should be here, we need to talk (after we had just talked). She is communicating with her family constantly (she has 3 older sister…
/r/askMRP12/02/18 02:26 AM
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Great feedback from all. Thanks.
/r/askMRP14/12/17 12:43 PM
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