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| 6 | The money is forcing me into reconcilliationJesus Fucking Christ man….that’s ridiculous.. sorry you are going through that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/08/25 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else just feel like a total pussy when it's almost all done?Fuck my life this is true. I’m a country fan…and sure it’s well known that country music involves relationships, but I didn’t recognize exactly how much until now. With that said, damn if I didn’t have an unexpected trigger. 2 weeks before the unexpected divorce papers, me and the STBXW were out drinking and I was trying to talk her into karaoke, bc she does sing good. She’s shy as shit, so she didn’t sing there but she sang on the way home. Couldn’t remember the song for the life of me…. Fast f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/25 11:34 PM |
| 9 | I married a single mom. Did I screw up?Get out dude. That is all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/25 02:47 AM |
| 6 | Wife filed out of the blue, but continues to act as if nothing has changed?Op…. As far as moving out of the house…Beware of the bullshit restraining order… I had read about it but I thought the stbx was better than that. Haha nope. In November 2024 I came home after drinking some and cooked me and the doggo some food. She came home, asked where my car was, told her I took an Uber home…put the dog up and we go to sleep (not together). The next day we both go downstairs about the same time, she says “it smells like gas in here”. I remember I was cooking, so I go to the s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/25 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever fall for someone again the same way you did your first wife?Still going through the divorce, but I had a gf officially for about 5days. We work together and have texted pretty much nonstop for 2 months. She broke up with her bf for me (not that I asked her to, at least not in those words) but went back to him a few days later. But what I came here to say was just how awesome those early relationship days are…the can’t wait to hear from them…she was amazed I set an alarm to text her in the morning before she went in to work…just the simple cute shit like … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/25 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Sex after divorce.Still going through the divorce. Randomly ended up talking to a girl at work about the same time as the stbx decided to get a bullshit restraining order. We haven’t got there yet, but I’m hoping we will. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Anyone walk away from the dogs in a divorce?I can 100% guarantee this is gonna be a major fight in our divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/25 05:53 AM |
| 1 | You'd think Donald Trump, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Ye, and other billionaires would make reforming the feminist divorce court system a top political priority....I mean you do have a point | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 11:44 PM |
| -1 | You'd think Donald Trump, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Ye, and other billionaires would make reforming the feminist divorce court system a top political priority....I feel like I’m a fan of eliminating no fault divorce…. not for religious reasons, but as I’ve told my friends, I feel like it’s fucked up that she can just decide she’s done, not tell me about it, I think we’re doing good…then I get surprised with a divorce, she gets half of everything, and I get to do precisely nothing about it. However, I’m afraid what would happen in real life if no fault divorce went away would be an increase in fabricated “cruel treatment” claims or the like which are usua… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/25 07:56 PM |
| 11 | You'd think Donald Trump, Elon Musk, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates, Ye, and other billionaires would make reforming the feminist divorce court system a top political priority....They probably either don’t care, or are choosing not to spend political capital on it since it’s a state issue. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/25 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Who all is spending Valentine’s Day alone?If that’s possible, it’s gonna be hard AF. Like I know that’s best, but like everything I’ve done - everywhere I’ve gone in the past 12 years has involved her. Probably similar story for most guys on here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/02/25 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Who all is spending Valentine’s Day alone?This is the first one by myself since 2012. She filed for divorce out of the blue in July. We’ve been living together since then. Civilly, I might add. Haven’t even gotten in an argument. But to top it off, I got the present of a TPO last week. Still trying to figure out how that works… apparently recent or not doesn’t matter. I generally hate commercial holidays like this one. But I can’t help but think about how she made me the best V-day gift ever back when we were dating. I had some stress a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/02/25 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Are any of you in this group on good terms with your ex?What is AP? I see that a lot in here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/25 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Uninstalled tinder this morning, I hate this stage of datingSometimes pussy is just pussy lol. Not a terrible thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/24 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Trapped into fatherhood…I haven’t looked in … well 12 years or more. Wife (for now) can’t take birth control because of blood clotting issues. She tells me this the first time we hook up. Being responsible and all, I wrapped it up. Like twice ever 🤣 It wasn’t even difficult to convince her . I believe I was like yeah fuck these. Her: ok Ahhh miss those days | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Trapped into fatherhood…Don’t most condoms have spermicide? Besides, if a girl really wants that…. It’s not like it’s difficult to convince a guy to put it in her raw. I know I’d fall for it. Probably repeatedly lmao. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 03:21 PM |
| 5 | "You should be over it by now"I’m sorry to hear this man. I feel you though, wife filed on me unexpectedly and needless to say I don’t want it. We’re still living in the same house as we wait for the process, I guess. But yeah, as I told my sister, I don’t see any way this ends that doesn’t involve me losing my sanity, other than us fixing our shit which she doesn’t appear she wants to do. We’ve been married six years together 12 , and even though I used to have to travel for work, in 12 years, literally have not gone more t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 02:11 PM |
| 1 | 1 Year Since FilingThey weren’t like this when we married them though | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | 1 Year Since FilingThat was my wife, but the switches when she filed. I mean she cheated the next day so not far off. But yeah, fucking weird….100% like I didn’t even know her | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 01:58 PM |
| 1 | 1 Year Since FilingJesus Christ man, I’m sorry you’re going through this. Out of curiosity, where in GA are you? We’re in Cobb. My wife filed on me unexpectedly, and it fucking blows. She hasn’t done anything but file, so we wait. I don’t want it, so I’m not in a hurry.. but she’s not doing any of the .. dare I say … crazy shit your wife has done. We’ve only been married 6 years but together 12… she’s come up with some crazy conclusions, but our wedding photos are still up in the house, we talk to each other every… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Feeling blah: ex wife won't take the kids.I swear to fuck women come up with some wild ass conclusions in their heads. (I mean I’m sure guys do too, but that’s not my point). The whole not good for the kids? Doesn’t that seems like the kind of thing she’d discuss with you (or them)…or at the bare minimum be able to offer like a outline of points of how she got to that conclusion? My wife (as i refuse to say otherwise until a court makes me) has not fabricated or made up anything- I mean yes A B and C happened. But then she comes up with… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 12:52 PM |
| 1 | A question for the massesJust a question about the line “I filed and there is no repair” Wife surprised me with news that she was thinking of filing- literally 2 weeks earlier we were fine (I thought). Anyway I “agreed” to separation and she filed like a week later- pretty much as soon as legally able. We’re both pro se and she really hasn’t done anything since and we’re at 5 months now. I don’t want it so I’m not in a hurry. Anyhow, No talk from her before about ending relationship. We had fights over the years (marrie… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 12:46 PM |
| 1 | I’ve spend $8K and just through temp orders….I’m terrified to read this. I’m doing mine pro se… because while switching jobs it’s hard enough to pay the mortgage and bills (which she has stopped paying but yet enjoys this nice heat and water we have in the house lol) I’m still hoping I can talk her into working things out. I mean we’re civil…even friendly, but we haven’t discussed anything of substance. The part I know will be war is the dog. She wants the dog and is planning to move back to CA (from GA). I said we should coparent the boy … | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 12:23 PM |
| 2 | I’ve spend $8K and just through temp orders….Damn $250/hr seems cheap for a lawyer | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Girl just told me she was trans after giving me headThat’s a fucked up thing for it to do. Beat the shit out of it. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/20 12:57 PM |
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