We've had our struggles. Tried to make it work. I felt I put in more effort to save the marriage during the last few months.

Weird shit happened over Labor Day weekend. I wanted to have a calm conversation but I had a gut feeling that something was really fucked.

Sure enough the text trail on our phone bill told the tale. Texts start at 4 am and go till 1 the next morning. They are co-workers too.

Me : "are you having an affair?"

Her : "no" but white as a ghost

Me : "Who is this guy that you are texting?"

Her : "I can't text my coworkers on the night shift?"

Me : "not 2500 times in August!"

Oh it's just emotional nothing has happened... she was at the beach last weekend so I asked if he was there. She said yes, she had one shot to tell the truth. She spilled the beans and I had her pack a bag and GTFO to a hotel.

Good riddance. I don't need lying cowards in my life.

Update: she's trying to come back lol!! The nerve holy shit. My email replies are scathing and no fucking way is she stepping one foot in the door. I'll leave her shit on the porch. Not a chance in hell that I forgive her. I'm going to erase her from my life.