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Gecks_more/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 03:35 AM
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I’d try therapy before leaving if she chooses not to go with you get out now while the going is good.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/23 05:20 PM
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Hey man hang in there u did everything right. Sometimes you can’t please them all and unfortunately your soon to be ex wife is one of them that you can’t please. If what you’re saying is true which I’m sure it is you were the best husband and father and she clearly doesn’t give a crap. Just do your own thing take care of the kids and everything else will work itself out. Good luck
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 12:13 AM
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Yeah if it’s bank fraud you need to report it as such if not the bank may do it. Just do it she made her choice to screw you over by doing that so just do the right thing and report it. She’ll end up doing it to someone else again.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 03:06 PM
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Sure hit me up brother
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 06:37 AM
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I got married out of love but also to avoid my crazy parents
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 06:35 AM
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Like the repercussions minimal when it happens. Moving back home from Texas to California which will be great. I’ll be living with my mom and I have great friends. Sadly I’ll be leaving behind my friends here but I’m closer to my boys back home. Reasons I got married was I had dated lots of people for my age and I thought this was it and I needed to get out of my moms. Me and her our ok but she oversteps and treats me like a child sometimes. I’m a little impulsive so yeah got married to avoid th…
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/23 06:35 AM
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I’m a littler younger than you been married a little longer but yeah thinking of getting out. Just do you man go work, hang with friends and try to succeed in your career and potentially get a house. The females will come and go but yourself and your family and friends will always be there.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/23 02:36 AM
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Yeah man forget it if you ain’t enough personally I’d leave. Every human who tries hard deserves to be treated well especially by a spouse.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 02:03 AM
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Sounds like nothing with ever be good enough for her. You sound like a hard working good dad who for years tried and tried to do your best. It clearly isn’t enough. You gotta decide if you want to continue this or walk away. Honestly putting in all that you did working 3 jobs at one point and coming home at night and doing all that for your kids is better than most people and dads and if that isn’t enough then man I’d just move on but that’s me. You do more than enough so don’t let her say you d…
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 12:33 AM
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Well glad you got a roomate and it was amicable!
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 10:01 PM
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Cali is a two party consent for recordings so.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 03:42 PM
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Of course hang in there
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 12:44 AM
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Yeah I was a teen when my parents split. I realized quickly that my mom was nuts and I moved out. They’ll come around if not don’t take offense to it I know it hurts cause it’s your kids but they’ll come around especially if they get older. Just call them text them send them cards for birthdays whatever you can do.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 12:41 AM
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Yeah I was a teen when my parents split. I realized quickly that my mom was nuts and I moved out. They’ll come around if not don’t take offense to it I know it hurts cause it’s your kids but they’ll come around especially if they get older. Just call them text them send them cards for birthdays whatever you can do.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 12:41 AM
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How old are the kids? Honestly eventually they’ll go to your house. Kids are hot and cold they’ll come around as long as you were an ok dad which I’m sure you were. But think about looking into getting a new lawyer who is buddy buddy with the judge or judges like I said and smokes this jerk in court. Aka your ex. Best of luck man end of the day luckily you technically aren’t shacked up anymore with her.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 12:12 AM
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I’d get a new lawyer someone who might be buddy buddy with the judge or judges. Somebody who can get you a more favorable hearing. To me any judge worth there salt should be fair and if your ex isn’t following orders and isn’t talking good to the kids about you should go off on her.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 12:04 AM
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To add to this my dad was married to my mom for over 20 years he got the alimony cause they made him stay at home dad. He got way less then lifetime I can tell you that. I’d say he got maybe 7-10 years of spousal support.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/23 08:31 AM
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Dude went nuclear I like it! Good for u for contacting her hr lol. Good luck with the case!
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 02:36 AM
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Yep I believe it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 02:50 AM
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Well individual therapy I’m saying but yeah not saying it’s full proof. Some woman just always wanna be right. Sounds like my mom and dads story she already wanted to divorce they went to therapy anyways and the therapist sided with my mom even though she cheated on my dad. Lol not saying it’s full proof. Sorry that happen to u though my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 01:17 AM
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More therapy, less marriages and less toxic woman encouraging each other to leave there men.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 01:10 AM
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Yep no problem man
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 12:34 AM
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Bro get out while you can. I can speak from a different point of view. My parents were in a loveless marriage for over five years before they finally called it quits when I was 17. They were married for 25 years. It was hard when they split up but kids are resilient and me and my 13 year old brother realized how much happier they were apart. Do the right thing for yourself and the kids and just end it cause my parents fought all the time and it’s just better they will get over it cause kids are …
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/23 10:33 PM
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Bro time to go.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 03:25 AM
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Yeah it’s all about whoever earns more and men still earn more. Except my dad he cleaned house on my mom but that’s because he stayed at home taking care of us while my mom cheated so. My mom earned more too so.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 03:58 PM
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Nah don’t go back man. As much as u want to and the kids would she literally left and now she regrets it. U got out of your dark place and she will probably end up putting u back there again. Focus on u and the kids and talking to other ladies.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/23 07:48 PM
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Thx yeah probably keep ‘em there all I got.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 02:57 AM
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Sad the marriage failed and I don’t exactly have a job we’re I can live on my own here. So not sure if I can stay for the girl I like better.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 09:04 PM
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True probably
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 05:44 AM
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She’s back in Texas and we’ve only been here for less then six months I only just got my drivers license so I can’t file yet. Trust me I know I need to be the man and get this shit over with.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 05:33 AM
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Appreciate the comment bro
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 05:04 AM
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I have no money so she won’t be asking for anything. It’s just gonna be clean split we have no accounts together and we have no cars together and no house together. I’m also much younger then she is.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 05:04 AM
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No we separated when anything happened.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 03:54 AM
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