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Sending pics to the neighbour's... she's for the streets man I'm sorry. Nit the woman you married... and dont do anything to please her like sleppnin the same bed. That's cringe man. Have some self respect. In the new year plan your escape from this woman.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 05:30 PM
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Ah yes... some of them truly are community property. Better stay away so uou dont get a disease.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 01:59 PM
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Step one.put your pay into a new account she cant touch so she can't clean you out.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/25 01:54 AM
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I read here many reasons to leave. If she ignores going to therapy etc just pull the plug. Heck a dead bedroom for 7 years is reason enough. You dont need her permission to leave. Life will be a wake.up call for her as she will need to get a job etc and actually have to do housework if you leave her. I see no downsides. Gotta look out for number one as no one else will. Your current life is draining you. It will ruin your health eventually if you dont change
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 02:09 AM
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Only way to stop all this is get a vasectomy... dude created this child so hes rightfully on the hook. Never trust a woman bottom line.
/r/MensRights15/12/25 08:11 PM
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Lawyer up if she has resources she will have to share them... depending on the laws in your country of residence
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 01:58 PM
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She wanted sex....just not from you... they all.do and say this... while banging Chad on tinder doing monkey double back flips
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 01:54 AM
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Belize seems nice
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 09:01 PM
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Amen the system needs to be changed... esp foe alimony 100%
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 07:15 PM
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Alimony is for the wife. He didn't say he paid child support or not... but ya alimony is punitive. She needs a job now
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 03:34 PM
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I had to do it as well as ordered by my separation agreement for child support. I got a 300k 15 year term life policy. Not cheap at 80 a month
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 03:32 PM
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Cant preach morality to the courts.... just have a talk with her and dont bring men around the kid unless it's a serious relationship 💯
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 02:13 PM
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Its always the same... she wants sex just not woth you. Let that sink in... I was in the same situation as.you in my marriage. Dead bedroom and no affection. Been single 10 years and much happier. Women shouldnt make you happy they should be a compliment to your life. If they are not then it's time to leave.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 07:56 PM
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Only a female would get all but hurt about this.... client.dose t care who came up with what.....inky need one presenter at the meeting
/r/MensRights13/11/25 02:09 PM
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Major drawback of volunteering to be with a single mom with kids... getting estranged from the step kids after a divorce. It's really not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/25 06:59 PM
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They just want the cash and prizes once they discard us...
/r/MensRights07/11/25 09:47 PM
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Sandman was on splc hit list... lol
/r/MensRights05/10/25 12:45 AM
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Lot of bird hands in that sub 100%
/r/MensRights22/09/25 02:06 PM
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Georgia is almost as bad with granting bail to anyone than ontario canada...
/r/MensRights08/09/25 04:47 PM
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This is the way
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 04:18 PM
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Open a new account and put your pay there so she can't touch it. Rule number 1. Pay for bills and that's it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/25 04:18 PM
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Only takes one wife to ruin a man. You dodged a bullet multiple times. Might not be so lucky this time
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 09:10 PM
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Why is it groups catering to men and or boys is considered controversial... when women have all these spaces they can go and no one calls them controversial... such a double standard
/r/MensRights13/08/25 09:43 PM
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Haha funny. My ex got like 5 dogs and never got them fixed cause they didn't have the money and the dogs have gotten pregnant 3 times... cabt make this shit up... I took one of her cats tho and we are buddies...
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 04:42 PM
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5 years ago yo...
/r/MensRights09/08/25 07:06 PM
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That's a long a marriage... i was the same. Took 5 years to be able to move on. Dating too soon is just delusional. If you want to date just dont do it seriously till you have don. the work. Ie counselling etc
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/25 07:45 PM
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They ain't getting any more of my money...
/r/MensRights03/08/25 02:25 PM
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Bad bad nonna and pappa
/r/MensRights02/08/25 09:25 PM
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She got a huge payout from hockey caanda before the criminal trial... likely millions
/r/MensRights28/07/25 09:49 PM
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Tell her she needs to get in board with Dave ramsay babybsteps or your out.... your. Otherwise gonna bail her out like mommy and daddy did..ramsay would likely say you are not financially on the same page..and that's not good for a future marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/25 01:25 AM
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Bragging about her income and status to us plebs
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 10:49 PM
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Dosent hurt to talk to your lawyer for sure
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 01:34 AM
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Prolly only really look at your income once you are considered the payee. This won't likely change anything on your end
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 01:11 AM
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Alimony in this situation should be outlawed... dude live in his car for F sakes
/r/MensRights09/07/25 01:53 PM
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There no guidance to men that say you have to date.. I did for many years and all it git me was single mommies with issues you just mentioned. I'm much happier single being a lone wolf.... im not looking but wouldn't object to meeting someone in person and OK if I never meet.someone. Just be comfortable in your own skin. Do your own thing
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/25 10:23 PM
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Good choice mate... old is dead as well. Meet in person or nothing. Ir just get a cat and a dog and chill
/r/MensRights07/07/25 01:01 PM
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Todays women aren't like our grandmother's... plain lazyiness
/r/MensRights04/07/25 01:39 PM
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If wife never has secs that's reason and enough to leave. The cheating is just icing on the cake
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/25 03:27 PM
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Men pay more than half the taxes... we need to be able to use this hospital too!
/r/MensRights26/06/25 08:29 PM
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Naw dude it his time with the kids cant allow this or he will lose his parenting time if she does a midification
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 03:21 PM
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That's bs frankly. Many many dads are completely capable of effective parenting.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 01:45 AM
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Lay down the law. Your time is your time she should respect that. Maybe move farther away so she's not tempted to go to mom's as it's close
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 01:44 AM
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Feminist speak for man is garbage. I will not read this dribble
/r/MensRights17/06/25 12:34 PM
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You sponsored her and her son therefore you are responsible for them likely cannot make a clean break with this. Lawyer up
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/25 12:28 PM
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Only lonely time in my life was when I was married for 14 years... women got it wrong. Mist dudes are doing FINE without them and they hate that.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 11:31 PM
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So many women just plan on leeching off their husband while.telling us they want a real career... it's a huge misrepresentation and dishonest in my opinion.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/25 03:40 PM
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Sell or bust... do not do any private deals. She will take advantage of you. She already is as you are paying rent and half the mortgage.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/25 02:44 PM
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Can confirm..one woman i dated said I was too nice and wanted some dude to fight with. Cant make this up...
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/25 10:30 PM
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I got called an incel by some lady in FB. It was glorious.
/r/MensRights03/06/25 12:46 AM
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Dude shoulda stored it as cold cash in his freezer...
/r/MensRights02/06/25 11:06 PM
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The whole western world is infected
/r/MensRights02/06/25 01:23 PM
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Commieformia strikes again...
/r/MensRights01/06/25 05:24 PM
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It's not underground anymore it's all fairly mainstream now. No need to put labels on everything. Many dudes are staying bachelor's for a reason... I know I am.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 02:03 PM
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Epic story bro. Had us on the edge of our seats... you got that clown 🤡 to back down. Nice
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 08:52 PM
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Stay away every night. Kids come first. If she can't accept that than move on. Set a boundary like I'll call you at a set time for like 5 min. Skip the texting. It's a time waster
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/25 05:29 PM
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If she tells you rhe number multiply by 3... that's rhe real number. Women don't count one night stand either
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/25 03:52 AM
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pOrN isn't cheating...
/r/MensRights17/05/25 07:49 PM
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Exactly! There is many options to pay for it if you want it. Don't see women ever having to pay for sex. They always have dudes in there dms
/r/MensRights07/05/25 11:06 PM
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Single mommies... that's all I got to say. No way I'm ever helping to raise another man's child... she can up and leave at any time and your step dad relatioship is over forever.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/25 08:05 PM
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great insight benji! i dont trust anyone i havent known for years especially women. there true colors come out in time or until they get the ring
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/25 12:30 AM
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I see lots of leather necks and leather chests... so unattractive. Wayvto much fun and sun in there youths.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 02:31 PM
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Ya total BS. Must be a left wing rag that equates being cinsetvative to far right... conservative in canda is like republican light compared to usa... all parties want to preserve our social programs etc. PP for the win baby!
/r/MensRights25/04/25 05:44 PM
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Exactly... they don't want average dudes that's for sure
/r/MensRights23/04/25 03:41 AM
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Why bother... most women don't want most men including incels...
/r/MensRights22/04/25 10:54 PM
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Glad to see a.man get a win for once... good job!
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 06:28 PM
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So women's lounging around is ok i guess...
/r/MensRights11/04/25 12:56 PM
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Lawyer up now dude...
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 02:28 PM
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Man... my ex called me loser too. It really hurt me at the time. Now stuff flies off me like teflon. Gonna learn to ignore here and and at least let her know she's being a total bitch....
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 01:00 AM
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Looks like a C word...
/r/MensRights02/04/25 11:18 PM
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Yup I never have my whole life. Met my ex wife through a friend... then dated from online dating sights. I never chat them up to risky this day and age. Plus women only want hot guys to talk to them. Not average mid guys like me.
/r/MensRights28/03/25 04:21 PM
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She dosent seem like the type of person you should get serious with and potentially want more children. Her true colour's have come out... how does she not like a 2 year old? He's done nothing to her....she's a pos...
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/25 09:43 PM
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Wear a body cam in case she tries to do a false accusation
/r/MensRights24/03/25 11:16 PM
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I've been in the same boat. One woman dumped me cause I did t ever really yell at her or start fights and was respectful. She admitted she wants a bad guy to fight with her. F that I'm out.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 05:56 PM
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He got mom pregnant at 11??
/r/MensRights21/03/25 01:50 AM
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Where i live in canada cohabitation for a period of time is the same as marriage... never move them in...
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 09:33 PM
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I've gone my own way.... wont be ever taken advantage of ever again... in 10 years I've paid 200k in child support when id gladly have 50 50 but my lawyer royally sucked and told me not to fight my sahm as I would lose in court. I agree always date and marry wi t h a woman who makes rhe same or more 100% or better yet keep it casual and never get married...
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 04:38 PM
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Waste of oxygen id say
/r/MensRights15/03/25 05:00 PM
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This question is for your lawyer...
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/25 12:47 PM
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Jeesus you did exactly everything wrong. Shoulda lawyered up immediately....you should be getting a portion of the house equity at least. But prolly nothing now of you signed an agreement. Never sign anything without lawyer advice. And 100% do not trust the other side!
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/25 02:18 AM
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Baby rabies is s thing... she cares more about having another child and will do it without your sperm. Says it all. Bail man
/r/Divorce_Men08/03/25 02:29 AM
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Flabby pussy energy more like it
/r/MensRights27/02/25 11:46 PM
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Single cause I can't deal with female BS any more... had enough to last a lifetime
/r/MensRights26/02/25 10:33 PM
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When you sign up with reddit you are bombarded by these reddit communities reddit wants you to subscribe too including 2x... ive gotten rid of that sub years ago.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 05:35 PM
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Ya I've realized that too... and I have 3 kids. No money to date anyway.
/r/MensRights24/02/25 03:37 PM
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Maybe he has a detachable penis like that old 90s king missile song... good ole ditty
/r/MensRights21/02/25 02:46 PM
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Saw all the hitched simps in the stores getting flowers wrapped and had one thought... what is she giving to them??? Prolly nothing. Glad I'm not them.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 07:07 PM
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Feminists will say it's post partum and women splain the murders away no doubt
/r/MensRights12/02/25 11:59 PM
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just let a woman do the hymlich or choke i guess? im not touching a woman no matter what and i have my standard first aid.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 08:35 PM
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1... no no no. You do NOT sign a separation agreement right away. That takes time with a lawyer on each side and negotiating for parenting time etc... separation agreement is signed when both party's agree and judge has to sign.
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/25 02:26 AM
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Manipulation 101 dude huge huge red flag
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/25 05:52 PM
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People.who.want to open a marriage will 100% cheat... huge red flag
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/25 05:45 PM
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Yup... mine pays her husband's child support with my support. What a loser
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/25 10:16 PM
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Just say no warm she gives you receipts and never pay them. She is being very petty... yes child support should pay for pajamas etc. End discussion and don't entertain giving her more money. If she dosent like it she can apply for an Increase through the courts.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/25 10:14 PM
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His moonwalk was legendary
/r/MensRights07/02/25 04:40 PM
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Put up cameras and catch her in the act.
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/25 11:40 PM
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Eric Menendez had a hair piece and omg the look on the dad and brother Lyles face when it came off... it's been proven women find bald men less attractive..
/r/MensRights05/02/25 11:36 PM
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Every other weekend and she moved over an hour away. Used to be more. My lawyer told me not to fight as she was a sahm for 8 years... and i wouldnt win. I got bad advice...
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 11:45 PM
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This 100%
/r/MensRights31/01/25 11:04 PM
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I'd suggest to see men psychologists and psychiatrists... women. Just don't get mens problems... case in point you experiences with female mental health professionals. They should encourage you! Not laugh etc. My psychologist was great and we talked a lot about dating and relationships.. etc
/r/MensRights31/01/25 11:03 PM
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Can't get in there brain man they just think differently period....
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/25 08:39 PM
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Don't waste any energy on her or her family. Concentrate on you
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/25 10:21 PM
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Easy... she cant stand you have your own life now and Cushing it. Most middle aged women are not happy... sounds like she's in that phase.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 11:47 PM
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17 years button ‐-----‐----------*** make it so
/r/MensRights25/01/25 07:30 PM
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Now is the time to learn how to be alone... women cant stand lonely needy guys. Work on yourself first
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 09:20 PM
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Gonna tell my boys to not get married. Especially to someone who makes less than they do. Vet the woman! Don't rush anything. Too many red flags and gonso. Don't be a simp
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 08:52 PM
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This dude on point and had great wisdom.
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 06:24 PM
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I'd fight it dosent seem right at all. She dosent deserve that money with 50 / 50
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 06:02 PM
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No offense but looks at stats for asian and short and what women's preferences are. Might wanna stay dating your own race. Women in general are picky as hell.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/25 05:14 PM
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I call that karma!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/25 11:47 PM
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Grey devices are the best dude... just don't get stuck paying her alimony!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/25 11:45 PM
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Talk to a lawyer dude. 100% they can answer this in one hour consultation. 300 a month is pretty cheap.for CS. I'd ask about the alimony and when that can stop.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 04:09 AM
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Wow if it was "I hate women" no way it would ever get published and the author would be banned by the southern poverty law centre.
/r/MensRights10/01/25 07:06 PM
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She will get the big P pass no doubt
/r/MensRights08/01/25 12:36 AM
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Ya jagmeet wants his pension though... he'll probably get it now
/r/MensRights06/01/25 11:42 PM
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Pierre Poliviere for the win! Can't come fast enough
/r/MensRights06/01/25 11:42 PM
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Bingo dude! I wouldn't trade my single life now with my miserable married life when I had sex like twice a year and got yelled at constantly. I'd be surely dead if I was still with her.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 07:05 PM
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Definitely no respect when she dosent communicate with him about anything literally. It's like her way or the highway.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/25 07:03 PM
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Without a wife or a relationship happy life
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/25 04:13 AM
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i used to be like OP. im 9 years out now and single and dont need validation from women one bit. i did lots of dating and most was utter ttrash. had a few short term GF and now realize i dont like my headspace when im in a relationship. and im old enoigh thsat no woman is going to change me. OP you just need more hobbies to occupy your time and youll be ok. i took up motorcycling and its a great hobby!
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/24 02:18 AM
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Make her fight for the minimum she dosent appreciate you dying on your sword.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 12:02 AM
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Yup gotta start with the NO from the get go or it all goes pear shaped.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/24 04:53 AM
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As soon as I started saying NO to my ex the marriage was over. I should of saying NO way earlier. Weeds rhe women out quick. Gotta take charge of the marriage and not let her gaslight you...
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/24 11:16 PM
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skip the christymas get together dude. dont wanna play house anymore when its over. dont torture yourself. shes the enemy now
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/24 01:50 AM
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Wow that's awesome! Usually the women want most of the patenting time so they get max child support. They don't want to give up that money!
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/24 02:02 AM
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Lawyer up... she's not going to agree. Have to likely fight it out in court... wish I did. I became a weekend dad as she was primary caregiver at home for 10 years so I didn't have a chance. My lawyer sucked.
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/24 09:15 PM
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I had to borrow to get enough for a lawyer... even to afford a retainer...
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/24 08:47 PM
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Financial disclosure is standard for divorce. It's how they figure out who to steal money from and give to the other party
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 10:26 PM
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They need to call a plumber Stat...
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 10:40 PM
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Attention....it's all about that period
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/24 12:33 AM
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Phillipines.sounds nice...
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/24 11:09 PM
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Once they get a new BF all the endorphins pumping and kids become last priority
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/24 11:44 PM
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Hell 👎 no
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/24 05:26 PM
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Nope she has a 3 bedroom.house... was a sahm for 8 years.. is working now and re married... guy was a huge downgrade and my kids dont like him
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 11:02 PM
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Just don't drink... little buddy won't come out and play...
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 06:42 PM
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We had no equity and neither of us could afford it so we sold it. Had to pay a 10k mortgage penalty. Ouch. She always wanted a bkgger house every 5 years hence why no equity.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 06:29 PM
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If I didn't get an inheritance I'd be totally screwed financially. Paid like 50% child support which went down a bit the last year. Been divorced 9 years and still living in a low rent apartment as it's all I can afford. No house in the cards for me as housing went up 200% in Canada during covid. So many people homeless now.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 10:43 PM
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Naw I had it done and nutted next day...
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 10:52 PM
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She must be a unicorn 🦄 if they exist 🤔
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/24 11:11 PM
3

Geezus... has she not have any scrupals? Morals? Like what a shitty situation. She moves the guy in while your still there? Like wtf? Dude needs to GO Like NOW. This will severely mess up the kids. He needs to go
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/24 12:52 AM
3

She should pay you!! Better yet keep your money and put in another account.
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/24 12:58 PM
1

She deserved it my man... you just exploded cause she pushed ALL your buttons. Your life with her is just a financial transaction it seems. She brought up money... she dosent get enough... tell her to get a job maybe
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/24 12:56 PM
2

I think.the porn thing some women have is due to there rigid religious upbringing. A little porn while she's not putting out never hurt anyone but her feelings apparently... it's a cop out
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 06:21 PM
1

She may get the baby rabies on you....stay weary. Think if you have a kid and divorce you will be almost retired before your done paying child support
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 01:24 PM
11

Just get a vasectomy and don't tell the women... control your biology
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/24 11:31 PM
11

as dave ramsay would say shes commiting financial infidelity. its a reason to divorce...you cant trust her with money. deposit paycheque in your own account and transfer a portion to the joint. puit her on a budget lay down the law or divorce
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/24 11:53 PM
7

What mother has time to hoe around with a one year old... man she's for the streets dude. Good riddance
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 06:50 PM
4

Sometimes saying NO osnthe right thing ro do.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 02:07 PM
1

Shouldn't only fools just ban her account as well?.seems like it would be more of a punishment for her rather than community service and mental health treatment.
/r/MensRights23/10/24 07:36 PM
2

Anything happening on your time don't communicate to the ex. I would totally voice your displease and enact your boundaries and say she was not wanted at that function.on your time... she needs to but out. Send her a legal letter or something.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/24 07:30 PM
14

Bpd dude get out now... and get custody of the kids
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 03:26 PM
5

it's just like any other dating site where they all say they won't do hook ups...
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 12:58 AM
15

Yup better find a woman to do this...
/r/MensRights16/10/24 11:14 AM
2

If she doaent respect you that's enough reason to leave...
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 07:17 PM
6

Walking on.egg shells takes years off your life man.... once you are by your self again without the constant stress you will feel much better but it's a process and it takes time.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 07:14 PM
4

Which means you got herpes... I've never gotten one.
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 04:20 PM
17

She's been planning this for years and had been unhappy for years. Will be impossible for her to get that loving feeling back. She's gone dude.
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 04:33 PM
13

Don't believe it for a second. Judge.her future behavior off of the last year. A leopard does not change its spots. Be weary. Go through you lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 06:56 PM
1

Don't listen to what she is saying dude. She is manipulating you to her will.. get a lawyer right away and get proper legal advice
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 01:35 AM
0

The old time P pass at work again. It's a thing
/r/MensRights21/09/24 11:25 PM
14

What ever you do don't put you dic in the ex wife. It will complicate matters. And stop sleeping in the same bed.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 05:11 PM
1

Sounds like an evil witch. Stealing marital money hopefully will.comr back to bite her
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 01:51 AM
6

Pissed... on the floor...
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 11:38 PM
99

Childless cat lady is such a mild insult compared to incell....just saying.
/r/MensRights11/09/24 06:33 PM
1

Lol what's with the waxing. 70s bush is where its at. Lol. All modern women wanna look like pre pubescent girls. It's crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 07:01 PM
8

Ew man. You let her come back when she was drunk. Not a good look. Just don't dont again.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 06:19 PM
3

Out of control is an understatement. She is completely wacko dude
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 04:03 PM
5

Gotta take the kids and run man... your kid dosent need to see you get beat up....you are giving her a huge pass... and yes she IS a shitty person the stuff she has said to you. She is not normal. Had major mental health problems and needs to be committed stop normalizing her behavior
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 04:00 PM
7

Getting herself waxed to fuck new dic when she never did that for you....totally gross dude. She's not wife material anymore.. she has crossed the line. She is not yours anymore. Learn to accept that
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 06:56 PM
2

That's her fault if she won't acknowledge it. Divorce only takes one person to accomplish.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 08:55 PM
1

Stop engaging with her and stop the small talk. Start with boundaries... you are not together as of today's date. Clearly communicate that to her.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 08:02 PM
1

If she's disturbing your sleep than she needs to go my man. Just go occupy another room without her and lock the door. You need your privacy. She's not yours anymore. You need to draw up boundaries.. for heavens sake stop sleeping in the same bed with her. Announce that you are officially separated as of today's date...
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 08:00 PM
1

A bpd will go to extreme measures to keep her supply in her life... its her number one fear... getting dumped. It's all a ruse bro. You know it to be true. Never look back. Ignore the suicide talk... she's manipulating you. Suicide is not on you. It's always with her and her choice remember that
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 05:36 PM
7

Someone called me an incel on reddit as I'm a member of this sub and a righty. Not a left wing nut job commie tho
/r/MensRights02/09/24 03:09 AM
7

Yes can comfirm all of that...
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/24 01:12 AM
7

The more money a woman earns the more they spend!! Prolly plastic tits, bum, cheeks, fillers. Etc etc
/r/MensRights26/08/24 03:09 PM
1

My twin brotha
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 02:00 PM
31

I'm over 6 feet and doing my part not to be available to the dating market for these women's. I'm not gonna be a check box they have to check. F THAT
/r/MensRights15/08/24 05:25 PM
2

Ya I couldn't imagine getting divorced now and having to pay inflated rents. I don't know how anyone paying alimony and support will get by now in ontario. I see a lot of men will likely not be able to pay there support and alimony due to no fault of there own.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/24 05:21 PM
4

Home ownership is not in the cards man. Not with that crazy payout to take over the mortgage. Gotta rent a low rent apartment no frills like the rest of us do that aren't independently wealthy.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/24 01:01 AM
5

Shows you what kind of person she is... imagine finding out after getting married.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 08:57 PM
13

I make 90% of what you do and have been divorced 9 years in ontario. I rent a low rent 2 bedroom apartment and just scrape by now that I pay support for only 2 kids. A house is out of the question as I have no spare monet as it is. I had no equity to fall back in. In your case you make more but the double whammy of child support and alimony will destroy toy due to the income imbalance. You will owe max child support and alimony. Even with using some of your equity for housing your Monthly budget…
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/24 07:52 PM
2

Don't worry as this divorce gets in the past and you get over it you will gain it back. I have! Lol
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 09:12 PM
9

So loose... can't feel a damm thing.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 05:31 PM
16

Marriage is slavery for most men. Prove me wrong? Your getting a glimpse of what the single life will be and it's glorious... no nagging, disrespect, can do what you want when you want...
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/24 11:03 PM
3

I was banned too..it's a badge of honour... fuc em
/r/MensRights25/07/24 10:33 PM
25

Haha that's aswome! I bet these women that get ghosted by you cant understand why.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 07:04 PM
4

Prolly thinks they are alt right radicals...
/r/MensRights24/07/24 02:00 PM
8

She has another man bit doesn't want you to have another women... it's like woman speak. Only they know there feelings and what they mean. Makes no sense to a man at all
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 04:36 PM
2

I've been guilty of giving the silent treatment to an ex gf as she took a tantrum on me for not being available 24 hours a day to text and I wasn't going to respond to childish behavior... guess I'm a bad boy. Lol lock me up yo
/r/MensRights02/07/24 07:08 PM
4

Not really... I find most women are not looking for exclusivity right away. The ones that are are a walking red flag.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 02:44 PM
2

Who knows she might be all.womderfull and everything. It usually is always in the beginning. but being up there in age as you said her bio clock might be after your baby batter... but it may be a risk you take so you can have kids... sometimes you have to make a choice and stick to it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/24 03:15 PM
6

Her actions have repeatedly crossed the line... where do you say enough is enough and cut the cord? She's a shit show dude and not proper wife material... she has a BF for peats sake and has repeatedly cheated on you. I don't know how you still want a kick at the can with her
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/24 11:27 PM
10

Yep they flip the script. They ALL do this. Do not listen to her drivel and Grey Rock. It's gonna be a long ride
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 01:37 PM
4

If she doesn't have geuine burning desire for you and you feeling the same way then why prolong the enivatable...
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 04:45 PM
7

Ya your fixated on her. Aka one itis.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 03:55 PM
12

You've got a case of one itis and it's bad... start the divorce process now. Do not wait. You are funding her life you say? Stop that now. Get a counselor and talk with them about your feelings as you need to learn to detach from her... talk to a counselor about why you need the validation of posting nudes... if your gonna do that might ad well start an OF. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 03:22 PM
2

U2 one always cracks me up... prolly about one itis or something or maybe a break up not sure
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 02:10 PM
3

You will bounce back. At least it's not a long-term marriage with kids etc like I went through. It's a bummer though when the other person flakes out like that I get it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 01:35 AM
8

Don't apologize for bringing in the bacon... someone had too. Everyone has to own their own happiness. And ya if you were mister sensitive all the time they hate that as well...
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 01:31 AM
20

Sorry dude she doesn't appreciate all you've done for her. They never do... it's all about her feelings bro.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 01:24 AM
2

Your health comes first before women. Gotta do what's right for you mentally and physically. Leave ifvyou have too. Sounds like you are miserable
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 11:43 PM
1

I was there with you 8 years ago... I tried to get her back... it's didn't work. I was pathetic... did like 5 years of counselling and changed my mindset... you will get there in time. But it takes time and lots of work.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 11:01 PM
7

one thing you must learn is that you arent responsible for making your wife or so happy. happiness comes from within... so keep beating yourself up!
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 09:48 PM
4

Such vanity... don't these women know how distasteful they are when they film themselves doing this? Totally problematic.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 02:00 PM
3

not everywhere
/r/MensRights10/06/24 09:12 PM
5

Dave is firmly planted in the blue pilled plantation and thinks every man should be married and his money is her money. Always suggests joint accounts etc.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 09:31 PM
3

Mom was hoeing around and had no remorse... need to ditch your family of origin.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 12:48 AM
34

Just a typical woman on Instagram and tik tok all the time. A few of my GF were totally glued to tik tok. Totally degenerate app full of whiney people.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 11:19 AM
3

Amen me too and I've only been divorced once
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/24 02:19 PM
8

Most men are blue pilled plantation types that yearn to get married again. That's the sad truth. Many men divorce multiple times in life and never learn their lesson! All you can do is speak the truth. If he doesn't listen that's on him.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/24 02:03 PM
4

Let's hope he uses lots of lube.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 02:59 PM
9

Sigh....them all alpha widows... don't they know they will never obtain Chad? And get him to commit?
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 07:03 PM
24

believe #men
/r/MensRights03/06/24 12:11 AM
29

To top it off she has no eggs... empty egg carton.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 05:08 PM
23

No family support... you were her family bro... don't let her manipulate you. Get a lawyer now and stop her move. You deserve to have the kids in your life. She wants life on easy mode likely to be a leech to her parents.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/24 05:04 PM
5

Funny think is men really don't care what a woman's status is on her job... looks and beauty make up the majority of a woman's value in the sexual marketplace. Women don't get this. Money and status is a masculine thing
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/24 04:02 PM
3

Don't even think about taking her back from the curb...
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/24 04:40 PM
8

Easy choice mate. She's not on your side and helping you see your daughter. Divorce seems like a good option foe you. She clearly has nonrepect for you and her step child.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/24 08:03 PM
5

My ex said of marriage... it's just a piece of paper... that's stuck with me. Never again!
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/24 07:59 PM
1

Not where I'm from. I always paid e transfer and no issues at all. I'm in Canada so our system is different. I pay myself and doesn't go through garnish or anything. If she disputes it then it had to go through a government agency
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/24 01:36 PM
8

Common theme on women's dating sites is no hookups.... and must be... long laundry list. No thanks I'm out
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 08:38 PM
12

Her bio clock is ticking my man and she's trying to lock you down. Only dating 1 year isn't enough time to really know someone. And if she won't sign a pre up take that as a sign...
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 08:26 PM
1

I don't agree to the don't give her anything without a court order. In many jurisdictions you commence paying child support from the date of separation. All based on number of kids and gross income. If you don't and wait for a court order than they will back date the support anyway to the date of separation.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 05:40 PM
6

So if I'm getting divorced and have to pay for everything still than she should be making my meals and sandwiches...
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/24 05:38 PM
5

If men did a strike all the power plants would shut down... all the sewer plants would stop, industrial output would diminish... of women went on strike most offices would be without admin support but most places wouldn't shut down.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 05:09 PM
6

I'd just stay off X completely. It's not a very positive place to be... I bailed from there years ago and am more peaceful as a result.
/r/MensRights25/05/24 04:27 PM
4

She's committing financial infidelity. She is not treating you as an equal partner.. strike first. She wont talk about estate and education as she doesn't want you to hold her accountable for her spending.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 09:37 PM
3

This is Ludacris... if my income goes up I punch my income in a calculator and pay the table amount. No-one has to modify or go to court.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/24 07:15 PM
6

limit calls to 5 to 10 minutes. no reason to have her calling longer than that during your time. you are still accomodating to the ex. its all about control. she needs to be put in her place and you need to tell your kid 5 to 10 minutes tops. its your time... he needs rules too
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 08:43 PM
1

I did it no probelm and I work public sector. They don't have to even know...
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 08:02 PM
2

Don't expect a woman to fill a void... you can still date someone casually and not live with them. Keep them at arms length when you have spare time without the kids as they come first.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/24 11:54 PM
6

Yikes! Lorena Bobbitt x100. Remember her??
/r/MensRights16/05/24 11:00 PM
1

For me I've been divorced 9 years with 3 kids. I would of thought after after a few years I'd be able to afford at least a townhouse, but no.. child support is over 45% of my income so I'm still living in the cheap low end 2 bedroom apartment last 9 years. For me it hasn't gotten better at all. Once the support goes down and the kids get older I'll only have a few years to retirement. It's quite depressing. She has a house and I don't.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/24 10:58 PM
10

This is Def the poster child.for do not get married and do not cross go and collect 200. Bottom line is you need at least min 2k a month to live and that should go higher depending if your in a High cost of living area. I payed 50% child support and live on about 2400 a month. That gives me a little cushion bit not much in today's high rent scenarios. Your cost of living for yourself should 100% come into play on this. This judge is fucked.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 01:04 AM
10

You can't live off of 1100 a month this is ridiculous. You must appeal this for sure. She's getting a bloody windfall. I'd not pay the spousal support it's ridiculous and uncalled for.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 10:51 PM
0

Sounds like you've divorced and still have a case of one itis... shes one of a million . Pick one. Pining on what could of been is futile... perhaps tell her your feelings if you can't get over it. You might not want to know her response.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 08:27 PM
2

Glad you cleared that up....keep up the good work.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 09:41 PM
2

This is the way. If OP reads enough in here he will know what Grey rock is and why it's important.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 09:10 PM
4

Maybe stop hanging out with your ex. It's kinda unhealthy. And her messaging you all the time is not cool and should stop. Need to set Boundaries and start to move on. The both of you. You have a weird dynamic going on. Love still pretending things are OK which they are not
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 09:00 PM
2

My ex has 4 dogs and 12 puppies right now. Its a freaking pet sanctuary lol. No way id ever look after them. Set some boundaries. Doesn't matter that she lives close. Lay down the law.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 06:59 PM
15

Yup that's about right
/r/MensRights12/05/24 11:39 PM
1

I remember the show my ex would put on before company came. I was the one that did all the deep cleaning while she cooked. All putting on a show. She never cleaned on a regular schedule and when we split the house fell apart as I was the one that kept it tidy her new place is a complete pig stye
/r/MensRights12/05/24 04:37 PM
2

Where I'm from you are designated as the payee her income doesn't come into the equation. You just pay what's in the table amount for CS and whatever your order says for spousal.
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/24 06:46 PM
7

Just have no expectations on spending time with her as her kids, the dogs, all take a front seat to you and you will always be last. If your OK with that then jump in.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 06:58 PM
1

Do that. Her taking a break and coming back is not crystal clear. Whi cares what your ex does. Get legal advice Pronto. She can work to make the money as well...
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 04:22 PM
1

My lawyer said if you can't afford schooling costs you don't have to pay... don't know why you have such a ruling. Maybe each jurisdiction is different. Geez just tell her to get a loan like most people who's parents can't afford it
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 04:20 PM
8

Do the right thing and call her bluff. Make the divorce happen on your terms. Can't walk on eggshells all the time. Will cut your lifespan living like that.
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 01:15 PM
1

Dude needs a job and get out of the house and stop playing fortnite. That's for Lil kids
/r/MensRights05/05/24 01:19 AM
4

Simp o sauros that slaps women's
/r/MensRights05/05/24 01:17 AM
8

Do not engage with women on these topics. It will get you know where as in male equals bad and women you go girl. Arguing with them is non sensible
/r/MensRights04/05/24 10:38 PM
6

She's using them as emotional tampons...
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/24 09:48 PM
10

When they start confiding in others and not you, the relationship is over bud. Time to make it official then. This is no way to live. On eggshells.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/24 09:46 PM
9

No risk to the public... look what she did! How can they say this.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 01:14 PM
3

I knew I spelt it wrong. Lol
/r/MensRights01/05/24 01:09 PM
5

thanks... now im getting a little misty
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/24 12:59 AM
15

nice senopsys... all true that and its maddening
/r/MensRights01/05/24 12:49 AM
6

You can always try to date younger and find a more fertile non barren woman.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/24 06:27 PM
14

most women's fist message is usually "hey" then it's in the man's court to start a convo...
/r/MensRights30/04/24 06:03 PM
3

She gonna get a real wakeup call....don't say anything to her and just let it all play out. Will be 100% karma.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/24 07:24 PM
3

Artificial wombs can't come soon enough...
/r/MensRights26/04/24 10:17 PM
2

Just rub one out when you get the urge. Then don't think about women... post nut clarity my man
/r/MensRights24/04/24 02:43 AM
9

Kinda like resting bitch face. They all got it one way or another...
/r/MensRights24/04/24 01:59 AM
1

You da prize man you da prize. Most men forget we kings.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 03:52 PM
14

We all know how they obtained those said houses... and it's disgusting.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 03:49 PM
11

Report her to her state licensing board...
/r/MensRights22/04/24 03:38 PM
6

Small pp is the ultimate woman comeback when they get brushed off... maybe we should say a woman has a huge amd loose vajajay if she doesn't want to sleep with us...
/r/MensRights21/04/24 07:43 PM
22

She did it to her ex and you are next if you go ahead with a relationship....you've got way more to lose. Don't do it. You will be her last priority after her kids, dog, goldfish... you get the idea. And it's so icky raising another man's kids...
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 02:05 AM
631

I'm a single dad and won't date sigle moms... Profit 😜
/r/MensRights17/04/24 08:42 PM
3

My psychologist always wanted to know about my dating life. It was funny. He knew my ex did a number on me.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 11:07 PM
6

Id identify as a women if caught..they can't do shit.
/r/MensRights15/04/24 05:34 PM
47

I'd rather have a man as a boss 1000% more than a women. I've had a few women bosses and they love to pull rank much more than the men do...
/r/MensRights13/04/24 09:55 PM
23

Naw I'm good. Can just rub one out when I get the urge and then post nut clarity... Never again
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/24 03:40 PM
1

Great to hear that man... Good luck! 👍
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 08:53 PM
1

Don't listen to her she's trying to get her way....time to put the foot down and shit test her... Will she stay by you or bail?
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 06:51 PM
2

You know what to do... Don't have her dictate your time with the kids.... Either she son your side or gtfo. Blood is stronger than anything
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 06:41 PM
3

You just have one itis and can't see the forest through the trees...
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 06:39 PM
1

This is the way ...
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/24 06:37 PM
3

Better a bear than a poor sap of a man... We hear ya.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 01:05 PM
70

Single moms priority is to find a beta bucks provider to look after there spawn as their own .... That's what they want. Wants the man to pay for everything.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 04:29 PM
6

I wouldn't that's for sure. I could t be with a woman who would end a human life. Just my morals and I'm not religious. Just not into kiling future humans.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 02:04 AM
12

That's rough man... Women that do that have some major karma coming their way in the next life I guarantee it. Like your choice didn't matter cause female privilege. Call it out for what it is...
/r/MensRights10/04/24 01:49 AM
1

I cannot understand the amount of women that want to have the right to end the life of a fetus... A potential viable human life. It's just bonkers to me that they want this power to end life all on their terms... Like I bet there is some karma coming to them if they choose to end a potential life... And men Have no say at all.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 01:47 AM
-1

I don't think a doctor that's a man would get away with only working one to 2 shifts a week. That's rediculous. Men are driven to maximize there money making potential...women are usually not wired like that at all.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/24 01:18 AM
2

Leave the Chad's alone to populate the earth...
/r/MensRights04/04/24 10:25 PM
6

Way to go man!
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/24 03:28 PM
8

Fit meaning she could literally see his Johnson through the speedo... Lol
/r/MensRights03/04/24 03:25 PM
22

Ya prolly
/r/MensRights03/04/24 02:11 AM
10

It's a cesspool for average dudes. I already tapped out years back. Just can't do it and have no drive to chat them up all for a whiff off poonany
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/24 01:03 AM
9

I was in a similiar position.been single 9 years and have had 3 short term flings. Currently not on dating sites and I'm the happiest I've ever been. Single life is all fine with me. No nagging wench, no fighting about stupid stuff, no expectations to meet. So much better
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 06:05 PM
9

She got new dic mental fog going on right now. And for the love of Pete. Stop sexting and doing simpiah behaviour.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 05:08 PM
8

She's got new dic and is in affair fog as stated..perfect time to act quick while her defences are down.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/24 08:55 PM
1

She's got new dic and is in affair fog as stated..perfect time to act quick while her defences are down.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/24 08:55 PM
1

She's got new dic and is in affair fog as stated..perfect time to act quick while her defences are down.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/24 08:55 PM
24

When the kids are in your care they don't need mommy! Do not contact the ex. Your a dad. You've got this! You need to disengage from the ex. She's blaming you for supposed alienation. Grey rock her she's just blaming you as your an easy target and she can likely tell you still love her... Learn to detach yourself work on that with a therapist.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/24 06:56 PM
5

Grey rock my man. Who cares what she says or does... Don't let it get to you. If you want more time with your kids get it officially from the courts. Don't let her dictate to you what amount of parenting you should do.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/24 01:09 PM
9

The script has been flipped. They always do this... Even if they are the ones that wanted the divorce. It boosts their own ego to blame you for everything. Just tell her her mental health is HER problem.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/24 07:05 PM
10

Yup most of the time women do a massive downgrade.... Hypergamy is a scam for them
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 03:00 PM
6

It's assumed you can be dating multiple women unless you have the talk and agree to be exclusive... Nothing wrong with that
/r/MensRights26/03/24 02:52 PM
2

I'm 6'2 and don't want any of these women that have a laundry list. Fuc dat. All I want is a women that's not fat and average looking is ok with me. Just don't be phat bruh
/r/MensRights26/03/24 02:46 PM
3

Ya it's sub comcious the reaction. Can't be a strong provider and protector if your crying all the time. Cave men didn't have time for that nonsense
/r/MensRights26/03/24 02:44 PM
6

Dries up there pussies right away when a dude crys
/r/MensRights26/03/24 12:40 PM
1

With my CS what she makes is irrelevant. They only take my income into account as payor
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/24 02:24 PM
5

Wow best not go on old sites ever against!! So many butter women who can't accept rejection with grace ...
/r/MensRights25/03/24 12:56 AM
43

Up to 30% of kids are not the father's... DNA test should be mandatory for all births. Can't trust women wmthese days.
/r/MensRights25/03/24 12:32 AM
1

They will prolly try to spin it as financial abuse or some shit. Crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/24 12:04 AM
1

There's usually a big form you fill out and that's it. I didn't have to go back that far with statements. That's rediculous. Major thing they want is your yearly income
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 06:15 PM
45

You know what man... Only woman in my life that didn't screw me over was my mom... Done with trying with women. They are never satisfied.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 10:30 PM
1

Naw I'm just plain done with online dating. Only match with post wall over 50 years olds not worth it for me.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 10:28 PM
9

Whoever stays home to.watch this shite...
/r/MensRights23/03/24 03:41 PM
420

First line women say on the app is Hey! Then let the men take the lead as usual
/r/MensRights23/03/24 12:49 AM
11

Everyone knows women at strip clubs are uncontrollable and way wore than the dudes..even though they play coy
/r/MensRights22/03/24 06:58 PM
4

Butter face
/r/MensRights22/03/24 01:18 PM
1

Hotdogs and chowda mac and cheese. And the odd salad
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 10:50 PM
7

When you start dating you should just concentrate on getting your dic wet. That's all. Your too fresh to want a gf yet
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 10:40 PM
21

I wanna go back on x and absolutely roast this woman in the comments....but I got away from X as it's a cesspool..
/r/MensRights20/03/24 10:15 PM
3

Nasty vile cunce she is. Glad the dude finally got away from her and hope he got the kids.
/r/MensRights20/03/24 10:03 PM
2

Low hanging fruit to get all the women to vote for him...
/r/MensRights19/03/24 05:24 PM
7

Drop the kid at the door and go back to your car and wait for ex to open the door and split... Don't even need to interact with her
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 11:24 PM
64

Men dont wanna leave their children...
/r/MensRights18/03/24 08:20 PM
2

Them crazy eyes... I've seen them before...
/r/MensRights17/03/24 06:01 PM
2

Their like focking elephants in that regard
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 12:54 PM
15

Apathetic and dismissive... Dosent call it cheating. Dude read the words you just wrote... This person is not the one you want to do anything with... Gtfo
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/24 12:51 PM
4

It's in a crackerjack box...
/r/MensRights16/03/24 12:49 PM
41

This is what Canada will be like soon with the new hate speech legalisation the liberals want to roll out.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 12:28 AM
1

That's kinda poetic...
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/24 01:30 AM
9

Prolly just jealous there hubby's don't step it up....women are always comparing there lives to other women and they hate each other...
/r/MensRights10/03/24 08:24 PM
3

Yes she was a great woman. Miss her on women's day.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 04:31 PM
12

Every woman in my life has been a total shit show except for my mom...
/r/MensRights08/03/24 02:34 AM
5

She's been online quite a bit with Paul Elam....in the past. Is a level headed woman who vouches for men. One of the few females that does.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 01:35 AM
5

I can't believe this... I picture middle age single women with hoardes of cats and boxes wine hating on life wondering where all the good men have gone...
/r/MensRights08/03/24 01:29 AM
5

Man you gave her sooooo many chances... As soon as she pulled.the gun that should have been your wake up call. But no you stayed. Keep grey rocking her and get the divorce done. And ya keep the dog.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 10:30 PM
28

Dog moms.... Are the worst
/r/MensRights05/03/24 10:29 PM
59

All they gotta do is show up.... Men gotta set the meeting up. Or it won't happen
/r/MensRights05/03/24 10:18 PM
16

The juice just ain't worth the squeeze gents... I've lost half my pension once. Not dumb enough to do that again...
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 05:18 PM
9

A woman is a man really without reason and accountability 😭
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 10:37 PM
3

Men killing them Selves while women most affected
/r/MensRights03/03/24 10:52 PM
3

There is no point and I'd never do it again. Ever
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 09:53 PM
3

You are who you are... Can't really change your biology... When I was married I was such a beta... Now I won't put up with things I once did. Gotta be a leader in the relationship. Women hate making decisions.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 11:34 PM
7

It's a myth women want emotional men...
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 10:34 PM
8

Yup it sure is... My ex said the marriage certificate was just a piece of paper. Remember that gents... A piece of paper.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 10:33 PM
9

Karma comes a knocking for her....she thought she had a sweet alimony deal for life likely.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 10:01 PM
1

Oh god... Can't be any worse can she? But she's the finance minister presiding over a country that has got out of control spending. Sh a hard NO
/r/MensRights27/02/24 11:42 PM
3

Can she even get man poon?? Maybe bottom 2% or something...
/r/MensRights27/02/24 11:30 PM
1

Canada if they got another female PM would still be one million times better than Trudeau
/r/MensRights27/02/24 09:22 PM
13

Sounds like you got a case of one itis....best way to get over that is to realize she was one of millions and not one in a million. So the work to get yourself unstuck.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/24 10:58 PM
6

Constant threats of divorce are a form of abuse. Makes you feel inadequate and that you are the one with all the problems. It's a form of gas lighting too... Good riddance I say. Don't need that negatively in your life
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/24 02:21 AM
2

So now just yelling anything to the wife and your an abuser....ya sure. What if you just raise your voice??
/r/MensRights25/02/24 12:17 AM
6

Kids won't really be as devastated as you think... I've been through it and they will still have 2 parents that care for them. Kids are very resilient. More than you think. Just call her on her bluff and file first. She obviously has divorce on her mind all the time. Time to give it to her
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/24 11:50 PM
9

Amen. A good story
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/24 02:29 AM
10

Just like Canada PM Trudeau... Even his wife divorced him and he is an avowed make feminist
/r/MensRights23/02/24 03:07 AM
17

Remember dude she was never yours... It was just your turn. There's millions of females in the world. Don't go dying over just one.. think about that.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 03:04 AM
17

Why bother... Stay single gents and stack that cash...
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 12:35 AM
1

Neat time to divorce is tomorrow... Do not delay
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 08:35 PM
11

Once she gets a taste of new dic she's a gonner dude. Never coming back
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 01:46 AM
4

They purposely alienate you from your friends... Mine used to make me feel Quilty spending time with them so I stopped seeing them. Stupid me. Should of told her to F off
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/24 10:50 PM
3

I made the same mistake in my marriage. Made the wife top priority and lost contact with all my friends.... Now I have no woman in my life but have my friends. I don't feel alone at all...
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/24 10:34 PM
1

They can't stand that a good proportion of men now that they have been through the divorce wringer have no desire to be with a woman again as they know the juice ain't worth the squeeze...
/r/MensRights18/02/24 09:53 PM
5

Man this is so true. Women are just men that Lack reason and accountability....all based on her emotional.state.. women have no emotional intelligence. It's all just a lie. How the hell are men and women even compatible in the first place??
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/24 07:08 PM
9

Mine said our marriage certificate was just a piece of paper...
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/24 07:00 PM
2

Your doing great man! Sticking your ground with your parenting time. Don't let her drama impact you. Have a dgaf attitude. Practice grey rock. Not much you can do about the BF
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 11:01 PM
3

Sounds like you need a lawyer to advocate for you and your wishes.. don't settle for anytyless than 50 / 50 which is your right
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 02:35 AM
-3

It means you subconsciously don't like her.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 04:47 PM
2

Skip the country my man..run!
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 01:35 AM
1

Yup! And never be her backup plan. That's for chumps.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 07:20 PM
1

Tell her what you just told us... Shut her down. Like your not buds anymore. You don't wanna hear the details...
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 04:34 PM
5

I don't need to give my kids cards and chocolate to tell hem I love them. Such a bogus holiday and has no meaning to me anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 04:28 PM
2

Once a lezbo always a lezbo..don't think you want her switching teams on you ever again..looks like your doing great without her
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/24 12:18 AM
2

I refuse to watch tik tok....some of my last gf were obsessed with it.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 04:06 AM
5

Just proves she was using you like a plow horse 🐎
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 08:37 PM
1

It's up to you...first relationship after a divorce don't usually work out anyway. But you never know... Who knows what frame of mind he's in.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 01:07 AM
1

If he's wants something more he'll let you know... As he was blindsided it will likely take a long time to feel somewhat normal again.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/24 12:54 AM
2

Strike first and serve her
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 07:45 PM
2

It sucks man to get divorced in Canada right now... The housing costs in much of the country is unaffordable... I couldn't afford to pay child support now if I had to pay current market rent... I suspect many men are defaulting on their child support as housing takes up a huge chunk of income now unless you are wealthy.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 07:22 PM
9

The classic monkey branch move
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 05:59 PM
4

Only one person needs to Initiate divorce... Her change is not really to be trusted. She's just doing it because her meal ticket is threatened. Don't buy into it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 01:13 AM
-1

Sounds like a cold fish who dosent initiate. I'd have a serious talk about it. If her hands are not all over you she dose NOT have genuine burning desire for you. One of rich Cooper's talking points. Shes using youas a beta provider and shes just comfortable. Prolly won't leave cause your providing for her
/r/MensRights10/02/24 01:07 AM
1

She sounds unhinged mate... Gotta pull the pluga and abort...
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/24 12:19 AM
3

Them crazy eyes....I've seen them before
/r/MensRights09/02/24 06:32 PM
12

Woman never respects a man that makes less than them.... And if they have a degree the divorce rate is higher
/r/MensRights08/02/24 12:01 AM
9

Once again....once the trash takes itself out....do not bring it back in the house... That would be so foolish
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/24 04:44 PM
5

Skip the country... Heard the Philippines is nice
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/24 09:45 PM
4

Take some pics with some random women. Lots of them. Get her confused as hell...
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 03:44 PM
17

Mine did that around Christmas ⛄🎁 wanted another chance cause she got Lonely over the holidays. I did a pros and cons list like any engineer would do and whammy she lost.
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 02:47 PM
15

Never bring back the trash once it's taken itself out
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 02:43 PM
9

They always need a man when something needs fixing... Never fails.
/r/MensRights02/02/24 01:48 AM
3

It's impossible to keep those feelings forever. Constantly courting a woman is exhausting
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 01:45 AM
6

Yea got the money 💰🤑 just not the drive. And don't wanna catch a disease yo
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 01:44 AM
6

I've done the dating thing for years. So many dates and lately they end up flaking on me or turn out to be bpd trash. Have no desire to get with modern women 😉
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 01:02 AM
7

They all say that....that they want to fall in love again like it's some magicall.unicorn type thing. My ex wife said that too....women like the feeling and dopamine of being in love and if they can't get that then they bail..totally work on the tingles. And butterfly's. Not real reality.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 12:48 AM
2

Yes! That's the mindset. If she can't keep up with you it's her loss...
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 12:41 AM
7

You can be like me and totally give up on women.... I have no faith in women what so ever. Every woman has left me in my life except my mom....here's to mom's! Being alone is Less painful then playing the relationship game. No punnany ever but that's ok. All I need is a quiet home and good kids in my life.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 12:39 AM
2

But all women want an ltr just based on there app..they all say no hook ups .. I bet they all lie. Just don't wanna look like a slut. They play mind games with men
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 05:38 PM
5

Only takes one person to divorce. No sense beating and berating yourself about what went wrong for her to end things. In time you will grow to accept it. No sense pining for someone who doesn't feel the same way.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 05:02 PM
9

So I'm sure your daughter blames you for the divorce. And good on you for sticking up for the BF. When girls get in packs they get vicious towards men. When they get older they will wonder where all the good men went
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 06:00 PM
5

She a zero buddy... No morals. Resorts to sex work to make money. They always default to the oldest profession. So you really want this type of women in your life? Manipulating men through sex for money. She's done it in the past she will do it again... Who cares what she calls you. Pull the plug on this mess
/r/MensRights28/01/24 06:00 PM
1

Gotta do the Keanu move around all women now a days. Never know what they will come back with. Best to go hands off from now on.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 05:38 PM
1

Ya totally
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 03:51 AM
19

Listen to what he's saying and take it for what it is. After a year most people are still a mess and there divorce usually isn't final. Sure it feels great to date and get out there but most people after a year just aren't ready.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 01:00 AM
2

Dude needs a grey divorce. Would likely be happier without the wench. She'll put him in an early grave. Not many men in nursing homes for a reason.
/r/MensRights28/01/24 12:55 AM
8

Well looks like you found a unicorn then... Very rare in this day and age.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 05:15 PM
1

Barbie was a girl power movie... How dare a man get a supporting actor award...
/r/MensRights24/01/24 10:56 PM
1

Glad you got out man
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/24 10:47 PM
4

Exactly! That's why it's investigated by professionals. Feminists don't agree with professionals if it goes against women. These rather just paint man = bad and no investigation at all of alienation...
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/24 02:37 PM
2

I saw that as well and it make me livid... I bet the majority of parents who practice this is from the woman's side. The feminists paint men as the ones doing all the alienating when women usually get majority custody. Something dosent add up... Feminists automatically assume it's the men doing 100% of all the abuse and 100% of all the alienating. I hope this doesn't get much traction...
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/24 02:35 PM
3

Way to go man! I'm hoping one or both of my son's will move in with me when they go to college.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/24 10:32 PM
3

Quagmire and tinder is gold. Lol luv that one
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/24 06:33 PM
22

Women do all that stuff to look better than other women they are in competition with...
/r/MensRights21/01/24 12:42 AM
12

Ya sure... Got herpes from a toilet seat. Ya right.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 12:38 AM
2

Me too exactly...
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 11:16 PM
11

Mostly men who have taken the red pill 💊 have been put through the ringer with divorce and do not wish to cohabite or even date any more due to the risk of losing another half of your stuff. Till the divorce laws get more onboard with men gaining more custody the system is broken
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 04:30 PM
4

Id rather be in a room full of killer bees than be in the midst of swifties at her concert
/r/MensRights16/01/24 02:52 AM
2

Geez that sucks. My ex was a sahm and I didn't pay her legal fees. I'm pretty sure her mother did. I did don't have any money after paying the mortgage and child support for 3 kids. They realized can't get blood from a stone 🪨
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 04:44 PM
8

Dem sum crazy eyes 👀👀 stay away peeps
/r/MensRights09/01/24 01:20 AM
5

Yup laugh at all the sub par men she will find online that don't hold a candle to OP.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 09:16 PM
112

Yup. Pin the tail on the donkey 🫏 and bulls eye
/r/MensRights07/01/24 01:13 AM
2

Dem crazy eyes...
/r/MensRights06/01/24 08:05 PM
8

If he owns half the house he should be able to be involved with the house selling process. She should not be fully I'm control of selling the house. Need a lawyer to push things. He likely is NOT fully divorced yet as the house is not sold. And the money is not split.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 07:51 PM
2

The CBC got a huge govermmentedia bailout and is funded by the leftie government of JT. Of course there is Misandry going on in there so called journalism. And yes men cannot be deprived or not advantaged group in Canada. It's all about women and children. Men don't matter one bit
/r/MensRights06/01/24 05:35 PM
22

Counselling is a waste of time and resources especially as she's around other guys. Just pull the plug man... If she was serious about working things out with you she would stop dating.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 04:35 AM
4

Just go into the relations with women now as a chance to get your willy wet. Don't plan on any long term commitments or anything
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 06:27 PM
6

If she can't accept you for who you are then you have a relationship problem. You look like Jesus for Christ's sake! She should worship you.
/r/MensRights05/01/24 06:14 PM
7

Some people go mgtow for a reason and a season... For some people they stop by for a bit and then move along. Others it's there default...everyone is different. Getting back on the saddle again can work if you have no expectations and have actual boundaries and stick with them
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 05:17 PM
7

Don't talk to her about finances at all. That's for your lawyer and you to hammer out. If you know she's gonna be unreasonable then there's no point trying to rationalize with her. Lawyer up. It's gonna be a ride. 4 years marriage and no kids should be fairly simple though. And OP do not listen to what she tells you about finances. Grey rock her
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 07:05 PM
4

She sounds desperate trying to contact you. Prolly saying to herself.wht did I do wrong? No self reflection. Ghost nation buddy you did the right thing.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/23 05:50 PM
4

Right. If there is no communication then it's her own fault she can't nut. Gotta tell the man what she wants. We're not freaking mind readers
/r/MensRights31/12/23 05:45 PM
4

If the women's can't nut it's their own problem. They have tons of toys for that purpose. It's not men's problems
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:18 AM
65

Right on .. me too....I'm never gonna be a second class citizen ever again
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:09 AM
2

70% of women on dating apps are phatt it's par for the course.. we've all dated a few phatties...
/r/MensRights31/12/23 02:07 AM
14

Women who make more.than there husbands statistically divorce at higher rates.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/23 09:51 PM
2

Good luck man..at least you only have one kid. No matter what it's gonna hurt as you have to support having your own household on top of paying for hers through alimony and CS
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 09:34 PM
2

Me too! Only lasted 4 months so glad it's over... Bye bye felicia
/r/MensRights28/12/23 09:17 PM
1

At least you know her rbody count isn't outrageously high...
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/23 06:17 PM
5

I could never be with a woman that would abort a baby...
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 03:01 AM
17

So seems like her default state is to hoe around. She did it when she had a baby that wasn't yours and she just did it again. Can't keep women like that in your life. Feel sorry for the kid though....women need to be held to account for having babies with other men and hiding it. Truly disgusting human to do that.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/23 02:57 AM
2

Pills aren't magic. People with depression have to change there whole lifestyle to be healthy. She sounds like a lost cause to be honest
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 11:12 PM
16

Always in bed... Dosent work... Posts alot on social media.... Ya she sounds like she's depressed...
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/23 01:25 AM
4

Move your pay check to a new account now! There's nothing to think about. Just do it! How do you have so little in 401k if you make 500k a year?? Lawyer up and hire an accountant asap. Don't let her get away with stealing money from the joint account. You e been abaent from your finances for too long. Who knows how much money she's taken as she's managing it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 03:34 AM
3

And a vasectomy for the win. And don't tell her. Control your biology
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/23 06:11 PM
3

She just wants new dic dosent care he has no job. It won't last anyway so who cares
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 05:45 PM
2

Fight for the kid. Let the wife GO
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/23 11:14 PM
2

Soory man. Canada sucks donkey 🫏 balls for child support
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 06:51 PM
1

Canuckistan 3 kids Weekend dad 100k me like 30k her? 1650 a month
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/23 06:46 PM
0

Cats... Lots of cats.. and Lotsa boxes wine.at Christmas 🎁🎄
/r/MensRights19/12/23 02:02 AM
16

My heart is black as coal after my divorce now gone my own way. Don't even think about women. Don't need to hate them just ignore them
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/23 02:44 PM
2

Wouldn't get to upset. Just a keyboard quarterback. Kinda infuriating tho.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 02:26 PM
3

Best not to engage with those subs where they have a negative view of men in general... The worst ones are the men putting other men down. It's a no win scenario
/r/MensRights13/12/23 12:23 AM
33

Never bring the garbage back inside when it takes itself to the curb.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/23 10:12 PM
11

I'm not rejecting women outright. Just choose not to pursue them. Not doing the online thing either as it's very stressful with little to show for it. Just living my life. If a woman wants to join and accompany me that's fine. I'm just not pursuing it at all. I think lots of men that have gotten burned by dating and divorce in general feel the same way
/r/MensRights12/12/23 10:09 PM
43

I just knew Leo would enter the conversation lol 😅
/r/MensRights30/11/23 08:55 PM
3

These western women have a fetish for BBC it seems
/r/MensRights30/11/23 07:05 PM
13

Glad I'm single and don't have to endure all the belittling and nagging. That's takes years off men's lives
/r/MensRights14/11/23 12:59 AM
5

What in the world would not nutting do for a guy accept get him all backed up...
/r/MensRights13/11/23 12:37 AM
3

Hence the reason never to get with a single mom. The stigma is real
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 05:23 PM
3

You know when he's old enough to move out of mom's house he will not have a good relationship with her due to all these shenanigans... You will be the parent he respects and will confide in when he's an adult. Just gotta bide your time for another 2 years.
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/23 05:21 PM
2

Prepare the lube bud cause it's gonna hurt. Been there and done that
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/23 12:01 AM
12

And Lotsa boxes wine 🍷
/r/MensRights07/11/23 08:28 PM
11

Anyone that puts there personal stuff on tiktok for the world to see is just plain not smart.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/23 02:04 AM
10

I got banned form world news for saying what if men took a day off... And they banned me for misogyny lol. Badge of honour that is...
/r/MensRights24/10/23 09:54 PM
8

Lawyer up now and prevent her from leaving the USA with the baby!
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/23 04:12 AM
9

Mine divorced me when I stopped being Mr nice guy giving into her demands. Once I said NO to her a few times it was all over. Men need to never stop being men and always exert their opinions and stand up for themselves. If that means I remain single than so be it
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/23 02:16 PM
3

Dude went to the bathroom and bailed ... So would of I!
/r/MensRights18/10/23 12:07 AM
33

If you know mom's a feminist do not engage...
/r/MensRights13/10/23 02:08 AM
12

My local university just rolled.out a mandatory racial discrimination training painting white men as having inherent racial bias inside just for existing. And blacks inside were told they harbour generational trauma from there past... I'm afraid if white men don't take the training they will be disciplined. Total clown 🤡 🌎 we live in where you have to worry about causing micro aggressions to visible minorities just for existing and being white ..
/r/MensRights12/10/23 05:07 PM
29

Didn't take a rocket scientist to figure this out...
/r/MensRights10/10/23 05:33 PM
1

She prolly beats her bf too if he dosent agree with her feminist bs... good call on getting off the train. That was a false accusation waiting too happen
/r/MensRights10/10/23 02:54 PM
5

Lawyer up don't listen to what she wants to do. Her plan isn't realistic. You don't get 3 years to pay you out. Once the divorce is final all the money and assets get divved up. Get a lawyer and have them write a few letters pushing for a sale. Run up debt if you have to. You have 400k equity ...
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/23 10:47 PM
3

At least you got a house from the sound of it...
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/23 11:49 PM
2

Still happy with no wife
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/23 06:12 PM
27

Monk for me... don't wanna risk my sanity..even average woman think they snagging a 9
/r/MensRights06/10/23 06:10 PM
58

And all a woman / girl has to do is say yes... that's the hardest part.
/r/MensRights06/10/23 05:11 PM
27

You are over thinking. You don't have a choice. Either she accepts you pay support or does not. Part of the problem for divorced dad's. I just choose not to date myself. Have no money to spend on a woman anyway
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/23 01:48 AM
6

Hence why I abandoned dating apps completely. Not finding the right kind of girls on there. I'd rather try my luck in real life. Either that or stay as a confirmed bachelor. Nothing wrong with that
/r/MensRights25/09/23 01:03 AM
2

Had to get off bumble constantly giving me emails and such saying there so glad to have me. Got so annoying 😠
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/23 01:31 AM
3

Your body your choice my man... if it was a woman's issue that's what they would all say. Why should we treat men's biology different
/r/MensRights21/09/23 09:26 PM
2

Ask Sandman... he's just waiting for this to happen.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 08:45 PM
7

Guys for sure a dirtbag and the ex wife knows it...
/r/MensRights20/09/23 07:58 PM
-1

. Enjoy living in a shack like me. Divorce bends over most guys. Get some lube it's gonna hurt
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/23 02:44 PM
3

AI wifoo
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/23 05:12 PM
8

Just don't think you're going to have more sex once you have the procedure ... you won't. Trust me
/r/MensRights13/09/23 09:04 PM
4

You need to disown her from now on. Those are disgusting words she said to you. Full apology or ghost her for life.
/r/MensRights13/09/23 05:14 PM
1

Contact her HR department. The will likely be very interested in This development 😃
/r/MensRights13/09/23 05:08 PM
1

Never bring back the trash once it's taken to the curb!! Can't live with a lier
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 04:54 PM
5

Gym membership is like 50 a month... she dosent work so has all the time in the world to work out. Heck she could even just walk 10k.steps a day and work out for FREE... sounds like she's trying to lose weight to monkey branch. You ain't having any sex anyway. She wants it from other men. Only reason she's doing this. Pull the plug my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 09:21 PM
3

Word of advice. Only marry someone of a similiar economic standing....and never let the wife not work!!! Inequality really does screw men In divorce. I'm paying support for 3 kids for 8 years already and have another 10 years or so too go! Have no house, can't ever afford to do anything. Don't be like me
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/23 01:54 AM
1

Remember your sleeping with the DNA from all the 30+ guys she's had and more from her 2 hoe phases.
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/23 08:27 PM
4

Up to 30 percent of kids aren't even related to the father....every man should have the right to a paternity test at every pregnancy. Should be law....like can't trust 30% of all women
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/23 06:48 PM
2

Prolly has fibro too and other mental illnesses. And she blames you for all of it. Nonseld reflection at all
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/23 05:05 PM
1

Post nut 🥜 hunger is a thing...
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 10:16 PM
1

Just try to try to see your married life as happening in some kind of idealized past. Once you accept that phase ofmyour life is over you can better navigate a new life without her. It takes time and distance and.you will get there. I had all those thoughts as well... They diminish over time
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/23 04:32 PM
4

Could be lust my dude... Rub one out and have some post nut clarity. Your fresh from divorce and so is she so just don't have any expectations. And don't think you know this person... Takes years to know someone. Just go into it to get your dic wet
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/23 05:22 PM
1

Release the hounds!
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 08:06 PM
1

Live a hoover... Lol 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 04:01 PM
1

If anything protect your wallet dude 😜
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 04:01 PM
3

At least men get post nut clarity... It's a thing
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 03:37 PM
2

Masterbated for hours....like who does that?
/r/Divorce_Men22/08/23 09:34 PM
8

Im 6'1 as well but bald and prolly average looking. Decided to go my own way. Sick of only matching with obese women with tattoos
/r/MensRights22/08/23 01:50 AM
2

Better bachelor roasts Jana regularly on his YT channel... It's quite satisfying actually.
/r/MensRights20/08/23 07:41 PM
1

Whatever you do, do not be her backup plan. Maybe file first get the ball rolling
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/23 05:43 PM
5

Cut her off dude.... You are still paying for the house?? Give her what the law mandates and NO more. You are being taken advantage of
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/23 06:04 PM
5

She belongs to the streets ... As they say
/r/Divorce_Men19/08/23 05:57 PM
4

Im at 100%
/r/MensRights17/08/23 08:52 PM
3

Your grieving dude... The loss is new and fresh. Only gets better with the passage of time. Don't even think of dating right now.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 01:44 PM
4

Just take yourself places. Invite her along and if she won't go have a grand time alone.
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 10:03 PM
1

Kids are resilient with divorce. Don't worry to much about that. Try to get as much custody as you can. Be the dad! You will always be their dad! No one can take that away from you
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 12:12 PM
4

After you uttered the words BPD....run my man. You will lose years off your life the longer you stay with her with that craziness. You said she's physical as well....double run to the exit. No remorse allowed no matter how she gas lights you
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 12:49 AM
5

Yup gotta exploit poor men to get the benefits... What's new.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 06:19 PM
9

Seems like they ALWAYS downgrade...
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 05:40 PM
3

I'd skip the country.so fast.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 04:17 PM
3

Yup those words hurt too
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 03:11 PM
4

Par for the course my man. I got off those sites as I was only matching with +50 and mordid obese while I'm an average dude. Rather be single than have that.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 02:16 PM
8

Yup always have to court women even after marriage to keep them. It must be exhausting... But like what does she bring to the table is what we should be asking...
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 02:14 PM
9

Getting blown out by you know who. Lol 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 02:12 PM
8

Mine said her vows were just paper. Didn't mean anything. Like I mean looking back at it now she was late for the wedding. Having second thoughts I heard later.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 02:11 PM
5

Mine was with me cause she said she was comfortable. You know didn't have to work etc and have me pay for everything
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 02:09 PM
2

No matter the mental heal.diagnosis it should not be a cover for being a real revolting person who does very crappy things period. Don't buy into that nonsense
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/23 12:02 AM
9

Word of advice. Never take a woman to a restaurant on a first date. Only go for coffee or something simple. If she sticks around for more dates then yes take her out for dinner.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 11:31 PM
2

I pay about 40% CS in Canada. So I had to adjust my lifestyle from a 4 bedroom house in a good area to a low rent apartment in a good area. Kids sleep on the couch and a cot when they are here. Can't afford more than a 2 bedroom apartment. Rents are now going almost for 2k a month where I live now. So I'm stuck in this crummy apartment. At least it's under rent control or I'd be for sure homeless.
/r/MensRights11/08/23 01:08 AM
2

Dosent work like that bud .. there is always a payee and a payer... No 50% crap you are spouting. There's a winner and a loser with child support. Usually the one that makes less gets all the cash and prizes...
/r/MensRights11/08/23 01:04 AM
2

Post nut clarity...
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 05:00 AM
5

Never dip.your d--k in the company ink...
/r/MensRights10/08/23 01:25 AM
12

She dosent work. Dosent cook. Dosent take out the garbage and had the audacity to send.you notes to fix things? My man you would be better of single. She dosent really bring anything to your life or even help you run the household.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/23 12:46 AM
54

Who cares what she says dude. Get a lawyer and stop listening to her. Grey rock her. Of course she thinks she's going to get everything but that's not how it works. Get legal advice.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/23 04:22 AM
2

Don't get manipulated by the sex after a fight... She focking with your mind and has you on a string.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 05:59 PM
2

All men really need is a woman to keep their balls on empty and there stomachs full... Like how hard is that? Almost impossible to find. After they get married sex drops off and they stop cooking.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 09:35 PM
2

That is rare indeed my friend.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 09:33 PM
6

Yup same with me. As soon as I said NO we can't spend any more money and she tapped out. Seems to be men get USED for there resources and as soon as that ends they want out
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/23 09:30 PM
0

Cleaning the house in the morning is pretty stupid. Can leave that for later in the day and weekends. I get you... I always found most women to be really irrational actually. They are emotional creatures after all. They do not know logic. Dosent compute with them or something.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 06:22 AM
10

She's keeping weird work hours. Why not start earlier and finish earlier to help you? A marriage is supposed to be each other helping each other out. Have you voiced your opinion about her work habits? Don't hold back. She deserves to hear that you are burning out.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 05:03 AM
1

One of my kids sleeps on the couch, another on a cot and the girl gets the bedroom. You pay for housing what you. An afford after child support or alimony. It is what it is you don't get expensive housing first than say oh well I have Nothing left for support or alimony. That would be a huge weight on you. Bottom line the system is totally fucked. I'd love in a better place if I wasn't bent over by the state every month. If I were him I'd pay the mortgage, and pay her child support based on publ…
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/23 07:33 PM
2

Wut? You are going to marry a new woman already and had a random hookup with another woman? Def don't marry any of the women you are messing around with if you don't want to get divorce raped again in the future. Didn't you learn anything about how men are treated in divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/23 04:24 AM
3

Why doesn't the women sign up??
/r/MensRights01/08/23 02:13 AM
4

Ya they all say they were in an abusive relationship that's part for the course. If she's bpd then she's attracted to abusers and can't figure out a nice guy if it got them in the head
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/23 11:19 PM
1

Good luck to you whatever happens 👍
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 10:29 PM
4

Ya man it does! My mental health and self esteem was wrecked by my ex. Therapy made me see the situation was abusive. Bottom line is you do not want to be with someone that's always knocking you down. You want to be in a relationship with someone that's a compliment to your life and not a drag. Even if that means divorce and being single.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 10:19 PM
9

You can't let her belittle you. I dealt with that in my marriage by just ignoring it. But have realized now that that behaviour is huge disrespect and needs to stop... It is a very good reason to divorce. Im enjoying being alone than being with a nagging and disrespectful wife. A woman should look up to and respect her man. You are doing more than your fair share over and above working a full time job. Don't blame you at all for wanting to pull the plug. The stress is unreal! I know as I used to…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 07:31 PM
2

Works the other way as well... I get hit up with messages from very obese women and just don't reply and ghost. Just means I ain't interested.
/r/MensRights27/07/23 06:13 PM
7

People who self medicate never actually solve their problems. Just mask it with destructive addictions. It's sad. She needs help.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 06:04 PM
7

Women are all going after the same high value men. And are even willing to share him. No way they want an average dude
/r/MensRights27/07/23 06:01 PM
4

Give them a day to get back to you. If not then delete convo or just ghost. No time for that. Move on
/r/MensRights27/07/23 06:00 PM
2

Fooyooo uncle.roger has entered the chat... She is mediocre like Jamir Olver and Gordon Ramsay can't forget him
/r/MensRights24/07/23 07:34 PM
2

Shoulda got like at least some extra time for the threat....I'm sure the kid is distressed about it. Sickening
/r/MensRights24/07/23 07:28 PM
14

Don't bring back the trash once it's taken itself to the curb. Don't be her backup plan cause her initial affair didn't work out. She did all of this to herself
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/23 09:49 PM
3

Question... Why did you even want to watch that movie?? I have no desire to see ken get cucked
/r/MensRights22/07/23 09:31 PM
4

My standards are have a good job and not be obese... And who do I match with online?? I'm out.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 11:30 PM
15

Mine left me when I was on strike from my job. Kept telling me to get a job while I was getting strike pay. I'll always remember that till the day I die
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 11:24 PM
6

And all it takes is one woman to spoil all the fun 😉
/r/MensRights20/07/23 07:47 PM
2

Don't feel guilty or die on your sword.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/23 05:08 PM
9

No eggs .. no eggs.. she doesn't have any eggs. Let's start a rap.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 04:59 PM
1

Only a sith deals in absolutes
/r/MensRights19/07/23 04:48 PM
7

Sorry no woman in the world is worth that much in CS
/r/MensRights17/07/23 03:25 AM
12

Come on....women love being cat called... But only if the guy is attractive... If he's not he's a creep
/r/MensRights14/07/23 11:29 PM
3

Monk FU gents
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 01:19 AM
2

Yup gotta tune her out. Sticks and stones stuff. Don't let her get you down. No shame in getting help for YOU and not be ause she demands it
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 07:30 PM
2

Go see someone of your choice and do not tell her. Your mental health is none of her business. Also try grey rock method with her from now on. Sounds like shes projecting. And trying to label you. Don't even respond to her threats.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/23 05:59 PM
4

Women cannot stand a guy that disengages after an argument or dispute. They can't stand a man going silent. Drives them absoluy bonkers. But that's what they deserve... They do not get my time or attention if they act up and are being unreasonable. Logic dosent work on them.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/23 08:50 PM
2

BPD is rampant...
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/23 04:47 PM
5

Hence why you prolly divorced her for her raging ways
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 08:48 PM
1

Mine had a huge list as well. Now that I'm single I don't have to worry about another woman critiquing me ever again.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/23 05:34 PM
4

Your're right. It's proven most men will swipe on almost all women. Women only swipe on top 10%
/r/MensRights24/06/23 01:35 PM
18

Are all men and women really all that shallow??? Seems like a big YES
/r/MensRights23/06/23 04:25 PM
8

Spinning plates is only for the top 10%
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 06:47 PM
6

Yup bpd is a bitch. Def my last gf had bpd. Constantly in some kinda crisis and could not cope with life. Her moods went from love bombing to visious. Never again
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 06:45 PM
10

You have absolutely no control over how she chooses to spend child support or alimony. We all know morally it's not good to blow it on tats and boobs but she can do what she wants and the law supports her. Better get used to it... I pay like 46% child support and I know for dam sure I'm paying for my ex's house while I live in a shack. It's all par for the course my man. No sense getting bent outta shape as it's never gonna change.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 01:08 AM
5

People do 50 50 all the time with a 40 hr week schedule. There are many ways to split custody. Don't give up man. Your kids need you! I'd love to of gotten 50\50 and I only get every other weekend. I got fucked. Make it work. Shift your schedule or get a more flexible job
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/23 12:07 AM
3

Holy crap dude. Marriage talk after 3 months! You shouldn't even be going exclusive after 3 months. That's a huge red flag you should not ignore. Sound alike the baby rabies...
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 02:54 PM
3

Monk fu my man
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 02:52 PM
27

Touching her and pushing her away when she grabbed him will be twisted around to be abuse. He's gonna have a hard time to fight this. I wish him luck but we all know man is considered bad. All he can do is listen and do exactly what his lawyer says.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 12:54 AM
27

I married an average woman. Waited for marriage for sex and she never initiated unless she wanted a kid. Divorcd 8 years now. If they aren't wanting to have sex with you they are not attracted to you!! And time to bail. Never again
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 12:38 AM
3

That's a badge of honour my dude
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 09:09 PM
183

Feminists do not want discussion on ANY of their talking points. It's their way or the highway.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 05:20 PM
6

I see the divorce forum is going after dad's today... Let's set them straight.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 04:23 PM
9

Most mgtow have given up on relationships as they realize the juice ain't worth the squeeze. It's usually not a life time commitment for some ... Most men who go mgtow do it for a reason, or a season. Or for life. It's a mindset.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 02:22 AM
7

Second opinion.. orthodontists are businesses selling braces. Of course they will say it's medically necessary. That's a major expense. I know I wouldn't pay it as I already pay enourmous child support.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 11:22 PM
43

Sit back and watch this dumpster fire burn to the ground. She's not a woman who you even want in your life. Much better women out there who don't cheat and have random babies with everyone.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 03:54 PM
4

In the scheme of things what does her feelings actually matter any more
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/23 02:54 PM
5

Don't be a such a douche and rub it in man... Sure you got whiff of poon from 80 women.... Big deal. That's not the measure of a man
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/23 10:11 PM
43

Oh man... You owe it to her to fufill .her wish of you to abandon her. She deserves it.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 10:57 PM
3

You know you've moved on when you picture your ex getting busy with AP and it doesn't bother you. You need to talk to a therapist.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 02:57 PM
1

From an outside observer of what you have written you have uncovered lies she's told you numerous times. She's definitely going to pull the trigger on divorce when you least expect it. Sounds like she is very untrustworthy. If I were you I'd pull the trigger first when she least expects it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 02:12 PM
20

She got the P pass...
/r/MensRights08/06/23 04:04 PM
16

Women are known to not be as good at negotiating wages with employers as they are more agreeable in nature. Dr Peterson talks about this as well..
/r/MensRights07/06/23 12:08 PM
1

There is never a good time to do this. Get the leavee to say the words. My ex had me say them and I broke down. Worst day of my life
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/23 11:30 PM
2

Who and what you leave to others when you die is not any of her concern. Big red flag... She wants it all. She's in it for the money. Not love. Run!
/r/MensRights06/06/23 01:40 PM
2

Ya she can call it what she wants but you were officially married. She's just trying to manipulate you... Women so this in divorce. And just cause she's asking for her lawyer fees to be paid dosent mean it's actually going to happen. If she has savings and works then all that will come out in financial disclosure. She's asking for the moon 🌙 but likely will not get that in the end. This was not a long marriage at all.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 08:05 PM
6

Geezus Britain is natively white and they have to destroy their own identity to appease minorities
/r/MensRights04/06/23 07:12 PM
20

Lawyer up dude. You did marry her so she is going after what she is entitled too..as it was a short marriage it shouldn't hurt you too much. You have no kids. Stop worrying so much.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/23 06:36 PM
1

Just like night court as well. Watched a few episodes and it does not ring with me like the original did.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 05:30 PM
52

Mom's obviously coaching the kids to say this and it's disgusting...
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 07:23 PM
4

No....in Canada you have to pay support based off tables and number of kids from the time of separation. If you do not pay till the divorce is final you will have to pay a huge arears bill on back support
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 07:21 PM
6

Eat his ass... Priceless.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 07:18 PM
8

Never take back the trash once it's taken to the curb....never. all she wants is her provider back ... Aka her former meal ticket... YOU
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 07:15 PM
3

You nailed it! Drama free... That's what it's like when you are single. Women bring drama with them. Like 99% of them.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 12:56 AM
3

Yup and with every new person you start the wild text game over and over and over. It's does get exhausting and eventually you will just say fuc it like I did.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/23 12:53 AM
2

Never alone with a doggo!
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 08:35 PM
1

It's been 4 years... Well past the time to cut her off and finally file
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 01:25 PM
3

I'd be having flashbacks picking kids up there as well. She can get stuffed
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/23 12:50 AM
1

Good god. Someones a huge prude ... If shes not servicing you daily and keeping your balls empty there is a need for men to watch porn to actually get off. We're not like women. We are visual creatures
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/23 06:51 PM
5

Cut her out like my mom did. Lol.
/r/Divorce_Men26/05/23 12:50 PM
2

Went from a 4 bedroom 2 bath house in a desirable area to a small 2 bedroom 🪳 cockroach and ant infested low end apartment
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/23 06:02 PM
17

The liberal government now looks at all government spending through a gender equality lens now... Every dollar in the budget. It's disgusting... Can't wait to vote them out.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 09:58 PM
5

56 matches... Must be Giga Chad or something. Way to go.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 07:28 PM
3

She needs to be confiding in YOU. Period. She needs to learn how to separate work from home life. Women going back to work can't handle attention from men. Happened to me as well ... If she truly is depressed she needs to DO something about it. Not talking to you or confiding in you is a huge problem. I'd give her an ultimatum. And say get mental health help and counselling or you are out.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 02:08 PM
2

You get used to being alone it's not that big a deal unless you are a co dependent type person
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 01:55 PM
5

Mom should have lots of clothes at her house. Calling from the kids phone is totally unacceptable. What a cuntce
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 01:24 PM
2

I've been there and pleaded and begged to get back and didn't do me any good. Just made the pain worse and get pushed away more. So comes from experience. Saves you making the same mistake I did.
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/23 01:57 AM
4

And women HATE it drives them insane cause they can't get a reaction out of you to feed their ego
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 04:35 PM
1

SHe bElLoNgS tO ThE sTrEeTs
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 04:30 PM
1

SHe bElLoNgS tO ThE sTrEeTs
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 04:30 PM
9

You will Push her away the more you pursue right now. Give her the space she needs to clearly think. I know it's hard but the worst thing you can do is smother her right now. She's done with you. Her feelings will not change over night. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 02:07 AM
5

I've never mentioned it to my kids unless they ask. They have asked why I live in a sub standard apartment and not a house and I tell them the truth when they ask. But I don't volunteer that information. They will know when they are an adult that I was a plow horse
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/23 09:58 PM
1

Cause they pussy whipped
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/23 09:50 PM
1

Just a plain NO to her will suffice. Your lawyer will get your own disclosure in good time.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 06:49 PM
1

Everyone I seen online says no hook ups... I bet they all say that to not look slutty.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/23 06:07 PM
8

Never bring the garbage back inside once it's at the curb...
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 07:55 PM
4

Stop trying to make women happy .. almost all of them are just never happy period and its on them. Not you.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/23 03:53 PM
3

New Chad is her new world... She belongs to the streets my man...
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/23 11:06 AM
3

I had a bpd Gf for a few months and my oh my what a roller.coaster... I would not want to be in any form of relationship with a bpd ever again.. especially one that's not medicated. It will shorten your life that's for sure
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 11:20 PM
2

Verbal agreements are just like toilet paper. And as soon as she talks to a lawyer her demands will change gaurenteed.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 08:13 PM
5

That hurts man. I just hope my kids come around when they are older. But not holding my breath
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 12:53 PM
12

Men pushed out by the system and a horrible ex who alienates the child and promts the child to hate the father. It's all so sick. These women will get judged on this in the afterlife. Prolly go to hell too
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 12:51 PM
7

Only way I'd move away is if I'd stop paying support. Move to Belize.start a new beach life 🏖️
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 12:38 PM
4

Better get out....she's got the baby rabies again...
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/23 12:43 AM
1

That's crappy dude. In todays society women face very little repercussions in the legal system.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 08:20 PM
3

Hiding assets is a crappy move and judges will see right through it. You usually have to disclose ALL your assets as mandated by law when you hire an attorney. It's like the very first order of business you have to do. It's called disclosure
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 04:30 PM
3

Don't die on your sword..get what you are entitled too..she sure will be... Ask your lawyer what you should do..
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/23 04:28 PM
11

Glad my parents let me keep my hoodie..who cares what the ladies think. It's natural. Good gave us hoodies for a reason
/r/MensRights16/05/23 02:40 PM
7

Imagine that! No wife and no woman period equals a happy life! Who would of thought that? I didn't fight my ex as my lawyer said it was pointless as she was a SAHM..So I got every other weekend. Sometimes I wish I fought more. But I prolly would of lost.knowimg what the system is like for men...
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 10:46 PM
1

I've never heard of this... I'm in Canada. Our laws are prolly much worse than yours. There is only a payor and a payee where I'm from and you pay the amount for number of kids and your income.from a published government table. That's it. You have no right to deviate from the published tables unless you get over 60% custody or make over 150k. Or unless you can prove undo hardship which is very hard to prove.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 08:29 PM
2

Everyone knows when the receiver gets child support they don't have to account for it and spend it on whatever they like. They do not have to tell the payor what they spent it on. And no court will ever enforce this... Waste of time. The system is broken. Yes in a perfect world this would work but not in the clown world 🤡 🌎 we live in.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 04:50 PM
2

Belize sounds great!!!.Walt wanted to go there as well.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 04:47 PM
2

Pay her rent or mortgage too... I'm sure I pay for my ex's mortgage while I live in the hood.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 04:47 PM
4

Ok know man... I'm the payer and I live in the hood of a good area on a cockroach 🪳 apartment while my ex is married and is the lower earner and has a house. Like wtf? Our lifestyles are not nearly equal..they take from me and give to her.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 04:44 PM
3

Ya it's the equalization bull shite... Bring up one parent and lower another. It's rediculous like the lower earner has no impetus to ever get ahead. The system is broken
/r/MensRights15/05/23 04:41 PM
1

Ya I know....inpay child support on my overtime as well which is extremely unfair.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 04:39 PM
2

Ya just don't go on those other divorce threads they are 90% women as women file like way more than men. Aonits skewed. Men get lambasted on there for sure
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/23 09:22 PM
6

Moms are greater than wives... They are always your mom! Wives can't be relyed upon in this day and age.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/23 05:40 PM
3

I always saw mother's day as for my MOM first. The lady that actually birthed me. But it always devolved into the mother of my kids.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/23 05:38 PM
5

Flee to Belize and profit.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/23 05:13 PM
5

Or another mans crotch spawn..
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 07:39 PM
6

Never take back the garbage once it's taken to the curb
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/23 03:00 AM
2

Glad I kept my hoodie...
/r/MensRights11/05/23 09:59 PM
1

Don't spread your legs then...
/r/MensRights10/05/23 05:51 PM
9

5k a month with no job is downright extortion by the family court industrial complex...
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 05:50 PM
9

Dude you know that you can talk to and see more than one girl at once until you make the decision to be exclusive. Until you have that talk you should assume she's seeing other people as well.... That's how modern dating works.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 02:24 AM
19

She's got that pycho look... Check ✅
/r/MensRights09/05/23 09:23 PM
1

She's already bouncing on chads you know what..time to cut her loose as she belongs to the streets. Never share a woman and allow her to keep you involved if you are not her first choice. Have some self respect!
/r/Divorce_Men09/05/23 04:18 PM
1

Wow such horrible excuses women have on that sub to justify their horrible behaviour outlying innocent men. It's disgusting. Just shows you nimble must be 90% women and the rest male white knights defending them..time to turn off that app!!!
/r/MensRights09/05/23 04:04 PM
2

Sorry about your mom... Only person you really can count on is yourself. I don't put any faith in other people period now.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 04:19 PM
2

Monk fu 😁
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 04:01 PM
2

I see it as all the women in my life have left me. Only decent woman in my life has been my mother and my daughter. Woman come and go but my bro friends are always on my side no matter what and so is this sub...
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 04:00 PM
2

I always saw my mom.on mother's day. Why celebrate my kids mom? My kids can thank her for birthing them.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 12:13 PM
1

You got a bad deal talk to a lawyer...
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 09:24 PM
1

A clean break is.what you want. Literally and finanvially. No entanglement of her staying in the house for 2 years assuming she will help.pay mortgage. Sell the house!!..assume she is not going to pay you squat.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 08:21 PM
1

She gives it to him.with a stap on? Pretty crazy ass stuff
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 06:25 PM
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You are the kids dad... Not him. He can't buy them happiness... No matter how he tries. They are always your kiddos.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 12:32 AM
2

Haha mine did that too... Oh... My hands are just swelled up....sure...
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 11:13 PM
5

She's just "that woman"...
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/23 11:12 PM
1

If she dosent find you attractive she will find you creepy 100%
/r/MensRights04/05/23 04:58 PM
7

Once she's not attracted to you it's over. You are just going through the motions now. You can afford it to divorce and if your kids take her side oh well .. they are adults and can make their own decisions. No real downside to keep a leech on the payroll...
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/23 04:20 PM
11

Ya they want time off work for that too...
/r/MensRights03/05/23 04:15 PM
1

That's a lot of money and it's over and above extra curricular activities. If it's not in the agreement to pay for private school I would not contribute. Sorry you got railroaded man. Just got to tell her NO from now on.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 06:14 PM
5

Why build a new home in retirement. That's unwise unless you can do it with no mortgage.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 12:10 PM
11

If you stay and have kids with her you will never have any more secs. Even less than now. That is gaurenteed. And if she's a laggard with the chores when the kid comes you will be doing 100% of the work. Like a no win scenario here.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 06:12 PM
2

Fixing a septic is just maintenance and shouldn't raise the value of a house as it's a necessary maintenance repair. Not like an addition or anything. Or something that might increase value like a kitchen makeover.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/23 06:04 PM
3

Who cares what she says dude....if she can't buy you out you gotta sell or you take over the house. Talk to your lawyer and don't take any advice from your ex
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 10:56 PM
2

I make that and I'm not happy cause I can't afford a house even at that income with all the child support I pay..houses have become unaffordable even for someone with my income. Living with critters in a low rent apartment as it's all I can afford. I was suicidal for a few years after my divorce but my job has been my refuge.... Always made it I to work if not to turn my Brian off from divorce stuff for 8.hours a day. Dude needs to start getting in mental.shape and apply for jobs. As long as tha…
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/23 12:30 AM
14

Yup looks like agraper
/r/MensRights28/04/23 12:45 AM
1

Women never actually do better. They just go for the downgrade.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 09:59 PM
1

Men with dad bods still look.100% better than all the ham beasts I see online with only head shots.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 06:52 PM
3

My doggo says hi
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 06:50 PM
2

Yup with women it's all emotions and no rational thinking or intelligence. Never again
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 06:46 PM
8

Stop giving her money! Your enabling her bad behaviour. If you have no kids it's easier to go no contact and cut the cord. File now. Quit dragging this out
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 01:58 AM
4

I hope you told her that her behaviour was not acceptable... But as you said you did all you could to make her life easy. It didn't get you anywhere in the end... Take that as a lesson to not be so agreeable with women... They take advantage of the nice guys like us....I was like that once as well..blue pulled to the core. Did everything the wife wanted. Moved numerous times to try to make her happy. In the end it all fell apart anyway. Big take away I learned is to live for yourself and your ki…
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 01:03 AM
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Seems like she was a radical feminist or something. Hard to live with someone like that once you have taken the red pill... In fact it's a repellent to most of us divorced guys who have been through the ringer. Wes rather be single than deal with a feminist and all her ideals.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 08:21 PM
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Past adjustments and accommodating a woman does not mean she owes you any kind of debt or gratitude at all. It's how women operate... Take take take and no give. Get used to it. You were used as a utility and still could not keep her with all the stuff you did to make her life easier. There is no rhyme or reason to this at all. Moving forward look out for number one first and your kids. That's it. If a woman wants to come along she has to be accomodated in your life as a compliment and not a foc…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 08:16 PM
1

Oh nO....you reproduced with her. Stiffs gonna get messy. Being a mom is no excuse for not reporting abuse!!
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/23 03:25 PM
5

She prolly DMs and is DMed by hundreds of guys if she gorgeous. Play very carefully with the insta thot.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/23 10:38 PM
2

Haha was waiting for this article to make the rounds here... The comments were something else
/r/MensRights22/04/23 10:20 PM
1

Thanks man..I wish Child support was capped where I'm from. I pay about 38% of my gross
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 03:34 PM
4

Having money after paying child support must be great. I'm not in that situation and each month is a struggle.with no woman spending my money. I'm just as broke as when I was married...
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/23 01:05 AM
2

Coulda called an Uber or something or even walked like normal people do
/r/MensRights20/04/23 05:41 PM
1

Don't have any expectations at all. Your just meeting another human. Soetimes you click but mostly you won't. Get used to failure with online dating. And don't beat yourself up. Get used to ghosting as well. And being stood up. It's par for the course.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/23 05:30 PM
3

Let the mind games begin!! Best to limit your conversations with her and grey rock...
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/23 02:35 AM
5

The woman you divorce is never the one you marry. And they all do the lying thing. Not sure why as it's not hard to figure out they hoeing around
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/23 01:29 AM
13

First Christmas after separation she wanted to work on things and go to marriage counseling.... shot that down quick..that's something you do before separation!!
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/23 01:18 AM
1

Ya better not... She will have all his DNA all over her
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/23 01:12 AM
0

Haha yes! They don't want no broke guys that's for sure and def no guys paying support or alimony as they are economically unattractive
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 01:14 PM
6

Win one for the gipper
/r/MensRights17/04/23 01:38 AM
3

You come in here telling us you cheated on your wife multiple times and expect any sympathy? Got no time for cheaters. If you want other women or more.than one get divorced and stay single. Simple. Sounds like you can't handle being monogamous. Hey it's not for everyone. Perhaps you are one of those people.
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/23 12:01 AM
2

No not a sub concious type of thing. You did this all with sound mind knowing you would hurt your wife. She forgave you multiple times. And you messes up again consiously. I know I would never cheat on someone I'm with. It's not a moral thing to do in my book. Obviously you think differently. Perhaps find a therapist and work through that. And let your wife go. You don't deserve her
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/23 11:36 PM
36

It's a boy not a man for Pete's sake
/r/MensRights16/04/23 03:10 PM
1

She moves es to be with him she gives up the kids to you. The kids didn't ask for this. And with her track record on men it's not at all in the kids best interest. Glad you are fighting it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/23 02:20 PM
2

Mine called me a loser too... Of all the things she could say that hurt the most. And I'll always remember that. Projection is a woman's best friend... She was the actual loser in reality. I finally know that now.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 09:14 PM
5

Hot women are a dime a dozen. No shortage of them. They are not special just because they have beauty. They might be a complete knightmare... I'd suggest learning to be happy being single before you try to attract a mate. Women can see desperation a mile away. Work on yourself first and then women will be easier to attract. That is if you even want to bother. Being single is a pretty sweet life
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/23 04:18 PM
3

Today's women most celebrated buzzword. and it's kinda no female equivalent surprisingly
/r/MensRights11/04/23 01:23 PM
1

Grey rock dude and don't talk to her about the divorce at all. What she thinks and what the law are, are completely different things. Just don't engage with her in conversation if it does not involve the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 09:53 PM
1

Ya I second that... And I'm in engineering
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 04:08 PM
3

Monk fu my man
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 04:07 PM
6

Women are like elephants... They remember everything and seem to always dwell on the negative events. Like they never remember any good times at all. All the marriage is reframed as bad and men=bad
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/23 02:19 AM
3

Blunt and to the point ... Ya she's a beetch
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 03:54 PM
3

Oh geez here comes da judge...
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/23 03:51 PM
4

Someone told me that once you have kids you forfeit the right to do yourself in....think about it... Your kids will be damaged for life if you go ahead with the bridge plan.
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/23 12:55 AM
2

Boss level dude! Way to go
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/23 02:59 PM
2

No eggs...
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 03:51 PM
2

Uber eats maybe? Gig economy. I thought of doing that on my lean months.
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 01:58 PM
4

Ain't that Infuriating lying about DV to gain sympathy. Disgusting
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 12:53 PM
3

If it was me I'd pay what I can afford full stop. Man's gotta live. I pay like almost 50% CS but I have 3 kids. And I'm barely getting buy living in a low rent welfare apartment and eating beans and rice. Fuc the system!
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 12:47 PM
3

Americans have a huge circumcision rate compared to Canada or Europe. Weird when you think about it. Like why?? Glad I kept my turtleneck.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 12:45 PM
2

Guess you won't be paying 2k a month. Rediculous they could go well over 50% of your income. Like where do they thinkyou are going to live and eat!!! Such a travesty. If I were you I'd get a lawyer to fight this amount. It's not right
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/23 12:25 PM
28

To feminists every man is a potential ra**ist
/r/MensRights05/04/23 12:30 PM
26

Yup you are right. No need to add gendered words to describe a process or outcome. And as engineers writing point form and to the point is more concise
/r/MensRights01/04/23 11:38 PM
7

Wah wah dude. Child support for one kid when you make 200k is peanuts and you can afford it. I pay for 3 and I’m fucked. You are far from it. Your top 10% man
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 09:30 PM
40

It’s cheaper to rent dude just pay for sex and get being a virgin over with. You need to at least pass that hurdle
/r/MensRights01/04/23 01:09 AM
1

No one cares how about taking care of mens
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 12:43 AM
2

Ya I had to do that as well. Get insurance to cover my child support if I die... they got you even in death
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/23 12:09 AM
5

Me too. I’m too practical and rational now to put up with female BS. Cause we all know they all have it as they run on emotions and not logic
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/23 08:38 PM
5

Tell her to keep her yap closed on how you parent on YOUR time. Even get a lawyer to write a letter to her stating this fact. She has no right to comment on what you do on your parenting time:
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 02:48 PM
2

She belongs to them Streets dude. Not behaviour befitting a real lady.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/23 01:44 AM
4

No ma’am
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 02:23 PM
4

Amen brotha
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/23 02:21 PM
1

I hear ya. I lived with my folks for like a month and needed to get my own place. The healing can begin when you start over:
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 07:46 PM
2

Living in the same house is HARD. Once I got my own place it was so much better. But don’t move out till you have a parenting plan set up. Like number one rule of men’s divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 05:23 PM
1

I’ve been their as well. Used to be so blue pulled and just took her bad behaviour with no consequences. I now know better and have learned not to put ANY woman on a pedestal. She has to jump through my frame and not the other way around. Wish they had all this content when I was young. Had to navigate the woman complex alone with no bro help. Men today have so much knowledge available
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 05:21 PM
1

Women fuck with your heads for sure. Both of them. And marriage is the biggest mind fuck of all.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 04:24 PM
1

Don’t even ask her... she is ready for a rude awakening
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 04:22 PM
2

Well selling the house is likely your only option with a large mortgage and little cash laying around. And lawyer fees will hurt a LOT. She will have to get an actual job now to survive once the dust settles
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 03:24 PM
2

Don’t engage in these conversations with her at all. Wtf cares what she tHINKS she can get. She hasn’t even seen a lawyer in person yet
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 03:22 PM
9

Do not discuss anything divorce related to her at ALL. She is your opponent now and not on your side. If she blurts out divorce stuff... walk away and grey rock.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/23 03:20 PM
3

The part about the golden retriever was funny AF. Just goes to say that men can really love but some women absolutely cannot love. And they are the ones that are supposed to have emotions... sure
/r/Divorce_Men23/03/23 06:41 PM
8

I borrowed money for my divorce then went bankrupt. Worked for me. Only one that won was the lawyers and their 400 bucks an hour
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 08:07 PM
14

And I’ve learned as men it’s not our responsibility to make her happy... that comes from within each person... not hubby
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 06:29 PM
15

My ex bitched me out for eons over me buying a 35 dollar raspberry Pi... now I can buy all the pi’s I want
/r/Divorce_Men22/03/23 06:27 PM
14

Holy dude your divorced and still talk to her about your feelings. That’s gotta stop. And she is trying to tell you how to think and feel. Think about that. And never be a woman’s second or third choice.!she’s still be with the other guy if things had worked out. And don’t apologize for sleeping with another woman. You are divorced man!
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/23 03:20 PM
2

It’s the age old argument his money is her money and her money is her money. Get the picture?? Women divorce at horrendous rates the more educated they are and if they make more money than their husband... so nothing new here
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:13 AM
5

She’s an alcoholic that chooses violence and booze over looking after a 4 month old. She’s not a suitable parent at all in this shape. Get all the evidence and make copies and go for full custody. Lawyer up dude and start the ball rolling. What comes out of her mouth when she’s drinking is what she really feels. No filter.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 03:08 AM
2

Didn’t listen...
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 01:26 AM
1

Talk about rich people problems...
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/23 01:26 AM
4

No wife happy life... men need to learn that... no we aren’t lonely at all. And we don’t need them in our lives to be happy. Happiness comes from within...
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 10:18 PM
14

And just bring male is being misogynistic in today’s society! I don’t care what kind of labels people put on my thoughts.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 04:19 PM
1

If it’s just you verbally lashing out can’t see what a judge would do with that. It’s physical violence that really counts. Dont escalate to that. Be stoic don’t let her bother you. That will drive her even more crazy
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/23 11:24 PM
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bUt iTs aLl aBoUt fEmAlE eMpOwErMeNt gUys
/r/MensRights16/03/23 02:00 PM
2

Must be Chad. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/23 08:24 PM
2

That's another reason to end things. Your not responsible for her mental health. She is... Remember that.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 10:02 PM
2

Holy crap dude. Too bad you can't just throw her outta the house. That's disrespect 100% no self respecting man should put up with that one bit....anything she tells you is just poppycock. Can't undo what she did. She belongs to the streets as Corey Wayne says... She's one of a million.noy one of a million.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 10:00 PM
3

Exactly. If it's man it's G-rape but if it's a women she having sex with an under ager. Society is focked
/r/MensRights11/03/23 07:47 PM
3

The thot from outer space 🌌🚀
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/23 07:36 PM
2

Great! Gotta shut down that feminist rhetoric once you hear it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 08:57 PM
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Tell her her position is just plain wrong and you will not stand for it one bit... Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/23 08:26 PM
4

Being economically unattractive to women is a huge turn off for them....they sit at the finish line and go after the winners.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 05:24 PM
1

Sorry had to down vote this...
/r/MensRights08/03/23 07:29 PM
7

DeVito got the leftover dna from Arnie... Lol
/r/MensRights08/03/23 12:18 PM
8

Karma's a beetch...
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/23 11:03 PM
7

These aren't real friends if they do not even attempt to get your side of the story. They are brainwashed in thinking women cannot lie. That's so far from the truth we all know that.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 08:59 PM
13

Use big words and if it's not in the parenting agreement just say NO and have a backbone. If she wants less time with them then document and get more time from the courts.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 08:49 PM
2

Right on....she needs to fit in your frame and.not the other way around ..
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 06:29 PM
3

Haha you said you are a lawyer so your likely economically attractive to the women's that rates almost as high as good looks. Hit the gay guy up in the comments. He might wanna date.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 05:48 PM
2

You must be good looking to have multiple women interested in you ... And every relationship is always good in the beginning! If you want kids you prolly have to move in eventually. Just make sure all the bills are 50% 50% at least. And pre nup .. eap if you go after the post wall lawyer... Tread carefully and protect yourself
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/23 03:42 PM
12

Oh no born again types are the worst.... Like you wont have sex till Jesus tells her too. Tap out dude.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 04:20 AM
3

Government is the worst to deal with period...
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 12:41 PM
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Asians have purple ones...
/r/MensRights02/03/23 08:32 PM
1

Yup and there's been studies on this....Reddit mapporn had a map showing racism worldwide and by far the rest of the world outside most first world countries were the most racist. North America amongst the least excluding mexico of course.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 11:29 PM
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Ya they HATE it when they blow up at you and you just ignore them... They are ALWAYS looking for a reaction as they are emotional creatures and not rational... I'd just ignore and when she says why are you ignoring just state till you treat me better I'm out. You need to train them that certain behaviour is unacceptable. If they don't get the picture then dump right away. She needs to get in your frame not the other way around.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 08:00 PM
1

Ethnic people are more racist to others than white people in general. That's why the whole world wants to move to the first world. Like no one moving to North Korea or Russia...
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 07:55 PM
1

Yikes! First red flag is not liking uncle Roger.... That guy is legit funny!
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 07:53 PM
1

Yup dude been there with a lady who live bombed me like mad and then flipped the script and got really angry at the smallest thing I did. Eventually we broke up....I'm sure she was BPD. If she blows up at minor things I'd say don't walk.... run! Life is too short to put up with angry people
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 07:52 PM
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You need to get inpedenent legal advice for you only and come up with how much your likely to pay or not. As she makes more than you it might go in your favour. You don't know till you get legal representation for you only.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 05:19 PM
3

I looked back and saw how little my ex ever did look and interact with my social media. Really shows she didn't care about me
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 01:21 PM
3

Men have all the pressure to perform and that comes up especially when new out of a divorce and a failed marriage. It takes time to get the mojo going. But seriously if your not attracted to her when she's naked then what's the point? Your Willy is telling you your not attracted. Your Willy is a barometer of sorts to how hot a woman is. Listen to it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/23 11:26 PM
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Crap man if she's having pychotic breaks with reality should of had her committed for a 48 hour stay at the Hilton.... It wouldn't look good for her getting any custody. I know that's kinda dirty but I wouldn't trust someone with pychotic episodes around my kids for their safety
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/23 10:21 PM
1

Ya he can at least ask! I know police in my city are so overworked they likely would not do that. Tell you to buzz off
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/23 10:18 PM
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She's prolly selling all your stuff on FB marketplace ...
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/23 10:04 PM
1

Remember dude. That someone's mental health troubles is never "on you" they have to take responsibility for their own mental health. You can't lead a horse to water. Don't beat yourself up over it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/23 06:56 PM
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She will need to get a job as she will now need to support herself... Don't worry about her! Worry about YOU and the kids.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/23 06:52 PM
1

"When this is over she won't be able to support them..." I suggest you read through this sub on all the men that get screwed I'm similiar situations to yourself. The state will make sure that she gets more than her fair share with max alimony and child support. As you have special needs kids the money demands might never stop... Dont. Worry about her ... but worry about yourself and your kids. That's what matters now.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/23 06:50 PM
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Prolly an emotional affair then... Of she's comparing yourself to other known men shes branching off or about to...
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 08:32 PM
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Yea 100% my ex did the same thing comparing me to how much fun she has with a male coworker. What a fucking pos.7 years later said she never cheated and I don't believe her... She was most likely emotionally cheating tho 100%
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 08:29 PM
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Wow my ex started doing that 6 months before she ended it. It was such a horrible thing to do and I just took it....in hindsight that's massive disrespect and I should have pulled the plug immediately. Good for you and for sticking up for yourself and not putting up with that abusive crap....
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 08:26 PM
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I wouldn't know how to go their as 99% of women online say NO hook ups and want LTR. Maybe SA or similiar whould be a better bet.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 06:31 PM
2

I got a hundred bucks gold value. Spend on escort
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 02:02 AM
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On Tinder watch out for the really hot crazy women... Been there and done that.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/23 01:37 AM
2

You need to get him away from her!
/r/MensRights26/02/23 12:50 AM
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Why even try to have a dialogue on Tik Tok of all places....your a glutton for punishment. Just don't engage. And life is much simpler. She will NEVER get your or any man's opinion so what's the point??
/r/MensRights25/02/23 01:15 AM
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Kinda like Optimus Prime on steroids
/r/MensRights24/02/23 03:40 PM
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No one is saying the real truth that most men are not economically attractive to women and if those that are women only swipe on the top 20% so 80% of men are invisible to them. Also so many men now skip dating entirely as they know the juice ain't worth the squeeze.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 03:37 PM
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In the end does it really matter? In like 5 years you won't be even questioning it once you've moved on. Life is life and stuff happens.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 03:24 PM
4

She liking dem streets...
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 03:23 PM
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Ya that was the hardest part letting the kids go on Sunday nights to there mom's and not seeing them for a whole 2 weeks. Totally wrecked me for the first year or so.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/23 12:52 PM
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She's gonna be found jumping outta a window now .. don't piss off the Russians.
/r/MensRights24/02/23 12:48 PM
8

Everything is all roses In the beginning...
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 01:32 AM
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Ok you got weak once and allowed her to cry on your shoulder. Don't let it happen ever again. You can't move forward if you got her using you for emotional support.. cut it off now.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/23 07:44 PM
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When I swipe I'm finding like 80% of women are over weight...
/r/MensRights21/02/23 03:47 PM
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She’s gone to you dude. Don’t look for any physical contact with her again. Do your own thing. Find a lawyer like now and figure out how much it’s all gonna cost you...
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 10:24 PM
2

Anything packaged has 5000 percent more sodium than cooking from scratch... I was the cook when I was married. My ex tried but gave up after a week of marriage. I always enjoy cooking. Especially when my kids come over.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 06:22 PM
2

All I can think is. EWwww
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 06:07 PM
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Biggest turn off is a woman that can't cook... Means she's lazy
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 02:34 PM
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Ya me either... Already lost half my pension. Don't want to lose any more to any future wife. Way to risky for me. As it is I will be pretty lean in retirement
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 09:45 PM
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Ya watch her men... My ex married a guy who verbally abuses my son... I told her to deal with it now! And she went to therapy with him. Don't think he's changed what a POS. And told my son he can always live with me. If your not blood you can't trust em... No way I'd want to get with a woman and help raise her kids. No fucking way. Ghost nation brothers
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 01:46 PM
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Sounds like she's lacking mg in accountability like all cheaters are. They rationalize their poor actions.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/23 11:48 AM
1

But most think they are ... Actual 4s thinking they are nines
/r/MensRights14/02/23 02:00 AM
1

Means your InViSiBle and a ghost....ghost nation...
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:54 AM
2

Yup hope so. When I drive by the area I think about her and hope she's rotting in hell
/r/MensRights10/02/23 11:02 PM
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I try not to Enflame the women's there... It's not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/23 06:36 PM
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Pushing someone is pretty much the same as hitting... You made physical contact... Don't do that you should know better... It's a trap!!
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/23 11:58 PM
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Who cares what she and her lawyer says! Look at her actions. Who cares if she has cancer. Stop helping her. She does not deserve it. How the hell can she be hoeing around with having cancer? Sounds like a nympho or something. Stop being her landing pad.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/23 09:16 PM
5

I rember that. I was 12 and.had a baby sitter give me a bath. Woody and all.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 01:39 AM
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I had a old nasty woman baby sitter lock me in her basement for literally hours. And she kicked my brother in the head for walking to slow... Another made my brother play with her pussy.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 01:38 AM
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Don't think there's a grass is greener scenario with a new women....they all the same. If you can't trust her then just end it man. It's added stress you do not need hence your drinking...
/r/Divorce_Men05/02/23 03:17 PM
4

Lack of men owning homes could be the fact that like 90% of men pay child support and can't afford a house cause the CS rates are so blooody high... That's my situation.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 10:35 PM
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Seeing guys peepees is I guess. Ok??? Imagine if a guy walked into a woman's change room.and .saw all there vajs sticking out...
/r/MensRights30/01/23 11:44 PM
6

I'm surmising you have to like dics all of a sudden...
/r/MensRights25/01/23 05:03 PM
3

Wow! A mother wanting to make a deal that benefits you and wants to move out of the country away from her kids... That's not normal at all! Most parents want to be in there kids lives .. she prolly has a lot more going on in that country than you know about...
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 05:02 PM
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Your just a softie that's all. Once your in your own you well adjust. I was a softie once as well and it got me no where
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/23 01:51 AM
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Why are you Listening to her words .. just watch her actions. They do not lie....
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 10:46 PM
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My ex stayed home for like 16 years with the kids and had to start from scratch. That's what child support is for and alimony if awarded. No need to feel sorry and pity her ... She will find a way to survive. The system will support her at the expense of you
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/23 10:44 PM
1

Maybe she's just going through the motions? How do you know?
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 07:27 PM
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"does everything I tell her" what did you marry a slave?? Obediant??? Sounds like you have the perfect wife that's not westernized...
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/23 05:20 PM
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Dude knockoff the acts of kindness crap from that love languages book... She's already checked out. Her girlfriend group are not helping. It's known that friends give the worst relationship advice. Stop thinking her as an object of desire as she dosent want to be near you with a 10 foot pole..ya you've got a serious case of one itis... It only goes away with time. And a more abundance mindset
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/23 10:06 PM
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Ya every day get these thots liking my insta posts... Why the hell would hotties be checking me out? Instant block as they want me to subscribe to there content. Fuc that... I'm not a thirsty dude
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 02:33 PM
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I've got this ad that plays on my local radio station says 50% of guys after 40 have trouble getting it up .. . God so now I know I got a leg up on 50% of guys with my hard coc. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 12:41 PM
4

After you lose another half of your pension
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 12:39 PM
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They all hit the wall dude... And you can't judge a book by its cover tho... I've seen like 9s on dating sites and still there years later...must be having just a hard a time as your average male. If there really hot they attract all the worst guys too .. in fact most guys swipe on every women! Inflates a 4 thinking they are a 9. Coach calls these women 49ers. And don't forget about the alpfa widow... Had an alpha once but never commits to her and she thinks she deserves an alpha even with her a…
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/23 12:31 PM
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Ya that's par for the course dude....borrow money if you have to. It's imperative to get a lawyer on this immediately
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/23 06:40 PM
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Ya totally not cool to be a house husband. It's emasculating actually
/r/MensRights19/01/23 05:10 PM
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When women were happier raising their brood. Women are NOT happy today with 50% divorce and filing way more often than men
/r/MensRights19/01/23 05:09 PM
1

Cold cash put it in the freezer...
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/23 12:42 PM
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Dosent have to be sex... I'd she provides nothing than she's a freeloader and he'd be better off single
/r/MensRights18/01/23 06:15 PM
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If she's getting free rent he needs something back in return... It's called reciprocity
/r/MensRights18/01/23 02:07 PM
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The woman you marry is not the one you divorce that's for hell sure
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/23 01:13 PM
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So women spend god knows how much time on insta and tik tok.for god sakes... They all waste time on there. How is that not counted as her me time??? And I couldn't stand watching her crappy relationship shows as they were all trash. They love the drama. They ALL do. Women are just not compatible at all with most men. That's the bottom line. Being single I can game and watch all the shows I want with no one telling me NO. You need to get a better balance and put her on notice that her social medi…
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 05:37 PM
1

It takes so many months per year to get over a separation.ao.for.24 years it's gonna be like 4 or 5 years to feel separate and detached again... Took me like at least 4 years to feel no I'll effects from my 19 years together. Takes time dude.. and every one is different.
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/23 04:53 PM
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Truth bombs in this... He should listen wisely.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/23 10:29 PM
1

Geez how honest. How did that go over?
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/23 01:19 PM
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Ya they don't know the struggle of balls in confined spaces... Our boys need room
/r/MensRights12/01/23 03:24 PM
5

Open your own account and put your paycheck into that pronto!!
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/23 01:08 AM
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She got the ma vagine pass sounds like....if a man did that he's be arrested on the spot
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/23 09:56 PM
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Ya I read that book....it's all bunk. So many people take it as gospel..
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 01:57 AM
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Yup in most of Canada shacking up is the same as marriage and just as dangerous.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 01:55 AM
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Yup it's called flipping the switch
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/23 10:44 PM
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Your so new in your relationship she's prolly hiding all her red flags. And relationships even bad ones are pretty good in the beginning. If you wife her up you need to see how she is with you long term. As stated earlier in the comments you are taking a huge gamble to get married. This coming from a guy with 3 kids paying 50% child support... Don't be like me. I'm screwed for another 13 years paying support and I'm 47. Don't make the same mistakes I did
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 06:41 PM
3

Business deal! That's exactly what it should be with NO emotions involved.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 06:19 PM
1

Chubby chasers prolly
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 06:15 PM
2

Sounds like you've came to the same conclusion that that the juice is NOT worth the squeeze. And ya being retired you cannot lose anymore of your pension if you don't wife someone up. It's partly a risk benefit analysis to be in a relationship with a woman or not. And the NOs ring out overwhelmingly in today's society.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/23 06:09 PM
1

Your basically the maid, cleaner, cook, etc etc you need a break!!
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 11:47 PM
2

Lay down the law... No more sleeping in... She needs to get the kids up and ready for school and have breakfast ready. That's the minimum she should do as she's not doing anything else important. Thing is you enabled this behaviour by allowing it in the first place. But an able bodied person like her needs SOMETHING in her life other than social media. She should be concentrating 100% on your family life. Id say that's a pretty big deal breaker with you taking on like all responsibilies. I know …
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 11:43 PM
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Learn to be single dude. I've been single 7 years and can tell you the mental clarity I have is real. And I have no relationship stress at all... For sure to prolong a man's life not dealing with women's BS. Everytime I'm in a relationship I looks for red flags and am gone before issues become big problems. A lot of people cannot be alone but solitude is one thing you have to learn. In fact I prefer it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 03:47 PM
3

When the stress builds in a relationship it's time to leave. I have like no stress being single. Just being in a relationship especially with the wrong person is stress you do not need.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 03:40 PM
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Dude having the mentality of needing someone to rescue you is a misnomer. Learn to love yourself and be self sufficient. Chalk all these relationship problems as a learning experience
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 03:16 PM
13

Ya and up to 30% of kids born are to different father's... The numbers are enormous.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 08:28 PM
3

Prolly women speak... For she can't be the problem
/r/MensRights02/01/23 08:27 PM
1

HaPpY wIfE hApPy lIfE
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/23 01:55 AM
3

Geezus man. She sounds abusive by all the things she's says to you. And verbal abuse is just as bad as hitting etc. She needs to change or you need to gtf out.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/22 11:05 PM
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Ya and she was in the same place as most men here... Preparing the lube to get divorce raped... Most women win all the prizes and don't feel our pain.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/22 06:25 PM
2

That's a great attitude to have. Good luck with moving day! It will all be over soon
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/22 06:22 PM
2

Exactly! He already did disclosure. I'd just send that. No need to dig up all the extra info she wants. It's all in the financial disclosure. First thing you do when you hire a lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/22 06:56 AM
2

Grey rock her dude and don't talk about custody. That's for you and your lawyer. Who cares what she's telling you. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 11:36 PM
1

Paul Elam had a video last week where he was doing a presentation to a group and wrote the word men on the whiteboard. And asked people in the audience to write down the first thing that came to mind... It was a derogatory stuff... Men are pigs, men are misogynistic....men are etc etc. When he wrote women on the board everyone said positive things. Women are empathetic... Kind... You get the idea. Men are disposable and everyone hates us.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 11:12 PM
2

Ok she's not a liar but pulled 30k out of you account? Dude you need a lawyer NOW especially in CA. Don't cheapen out. Borrow of you have too. You need a lawyer in order to get a somewhat fair shake or you will get divorce raped.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 07:38 PM
3

Notice it's about her feelings? And it's not really rational what she's asking either.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 04:51 PM
9

It's your house stand your ground. Have a beer waiting for the BF. What she wants to do in your house should be on your terms and not hers if it's going to be your house. Just plain say NO
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 04:04 AM
2

Ya I hear ya man. My ex just stayed with me cause I supported her ass and she admitted she stayed cause she was comfortable... A little honesty would of been nice instead of hiding her true feelings for years and years
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 01:58 AM
2

Yes and that's why women on a whole are so irrational. No rational thought ever goes through there brains. It's all about ma emotions and ma feelings...
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 01:55 AM
1

Women and there hormones bud... And in divorce they all PROJECT onto you....hence why your getting hit with the nastiness....they ALL do that and it's par for the course. Just grey rock... No need to communicate if you don't have too
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 01:54 AM
5

Help her move stuff on the trucks but as others have said that's all you do. So not help her move in..that's on her to find friends or family and or hire movers. That's a good dividing line. The help stops at the property line.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/22 10:24 PM
1

Yup seems like it. Spent all the money and always wanted bigger and bigger houses and stuff when married as well.
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/22 10:12 PM
2

Women are on dating sites and want to date men but that's a good point. None of them in there bios are looking for a hook up. I find most want to chat... Just mindless chatting till they get ma feelings. As they are emotional creatures more than men are. They all say they want a relationship. I've never found one ready to dtf right away. Even tho guys wanna shag right away...
/r/MensRights29/12/22 03:56 AM
2

Ya must have! Craziest women I've ever been with. I look out for all the red flags early on now... Or better yet just don't date period. So peaceful with no woman in your life to steal all your time from you.
/r/MensRights29/12/22 01:54 AM
1

Most separation agreements state you must have the current address and phone numbers to reach the children. And if it changes you are to notify the other parent. It's common courtesy. And I never answer numbers I don't know from outside area codes. Mostly scammers
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 10:58 PM
1

I don't get what makes some women to be so entitled....my ex is the same.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 10:55 PM
2

That sucks man....only can really rely on good bros or dogs in your life as the women's are all shit
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 10:54 PM
1

Ya I know but she dosent care. So entitled and says I make.way more money than her with no realization I give her like half my pay.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 10:53 PM
14

Exactly! I called my ex gf crazy and she dumped me over it as a previous bf said that to her and she was emotionally shattered. I was just telling the truth. She was focking crazy... Went all ragey on me for like 3 days cause I didn't text her for 3 hours one night... What a total abusive bitch. Hence why I called her crazy. I knew she would end it as she was emotionally weak and unstable. Gotta been BPD
/r/MensRights28/12/22 05:09 PM
2

Anything I say she dosent believe. Always been a very difficult woman. I could get a side hustle. But I'm starting a construction job where I'll likely make good overtime. And the hours are long. The problem with overtime is it gets counted as gross income and my child support goes up accordingly the next year so I have to save the majority of it for that. OT is never gaurenteed.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 05:02 PM
3

Every woman in my life had been a big dud except my mom...
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 03:04 PM
3

Canada is different. As long as In school I still pay support up to first degree or diploma up to 23...
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 03:01 PM
3

It's war dude..don't let fuzzy feelings get in the way. There's always a winner and a loser In divorce. You don't want to be the loser. If she makes more money she can easily find another place to live till you both figure out what happens to the house.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 02:33 AM
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Thanks. I don't know why my ex thinks I have so much money left over. It really bothers me. At least i told her NO the other day. I've got to stay strong. Already went bankrupt once to get rid of my marriage and divorce lawyer debt. I'm not going to take a loan out again if I can help it.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/22 01:19 AM
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Like it's very hard to predict a man killing his own kid... I'd assume it's extremely rare. And mother's do it too. But it's the men that do it that gets laws changed.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 11:51 PM
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She can have it on her day. End of story. Why should a cheater get any favours?? Follow the divorce decree to the letter of the law. Don't feel bad about telling her NO. You have nothing to lose. Other than her being pissed off which might make you a little happy...
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 09:48 PM
3

Just hope he's not on the hook for child support for her other 2 kids...
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 04:22 AM
3

Your paying the bills you still own the house. Exert your rights to stay in your own home. If she wants to leave she can...
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/22 02:32 AM
2

I get my kids today as well. Steaks and ribs sound delish!
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 03:51 PM
1

Sounds epic! Wish my government didn't take away handguns. :(
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 03:50 PM
1

Coke off a hookers ass... Lol
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 03:49 PM
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And cops never call you they just come to your door...
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/22 12:59 AM
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Ya my bros are good like that as well. Bros are much more loyal than women. Men friends are just like loyalty you get from a dog. Mans best friend
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 11:55 PM
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Haha great! I pay for Xbox game pass for the kids when they come ... But can't for the life of me get back into gaming. What game do you suggest?
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 11:48 PM
9

Hang in there bud talk to a male friend.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 08:57 PM
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Alone on Christmas today but thankful I get my kids the whole rest of the holidays... Had a pipe smoke, visiting my mom in the nursing home and gonna take myself out for Christmas supper! Stay strong gents!
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 07:19 PM
2

The divorce stats on women who make more is astronomical... They almost always leave. Can't be with or respect a man that makes less.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 06:49 PM
1

She I'm the same position as like most men in this sub. Maybe she can actually relate to us a little
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 06:21 PM
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Sounds like he monkey branched... Much like women do. Your better off without a cheater. They suck! And merry Christmas 🎄
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/22 06:18 PM
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Yup....that's why I have every other weekend so she gets max child support. Brings her up and brings me down. The system is fucked
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/22 02:38 AM
0

I got my ex a fancy 30 dollar box of chocolates
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/22 12:09 AM
6

Hmmm maybe she should pay for them herself 🤷
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 09:54 PM
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Tell her new Chad to finish paying it
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 09:26 PM
8

Cause there wives tell them to shut up and what to think. They are kept in line with her thinking...
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 09:02 PM
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Lotsa married simps dont want to talk I'll of the institution of marriage and are kept in line by their battle ax wives... Wife's are usually the ones that guilt trip you when you try to hang with your friends... They hate men going out with other men... Never again for me. My freedom is way too important
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 09:01 PM
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Her parents should refuse to look after the kids if it means you don't get to see them. They are enabling her atrousious behavior especially as you are available to be with you re kids on Christmas. Just document as mentioned and declare war with your lawyer ... Sucks man.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 05:54 PM
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Like number one rule of this sub almost is to not move out in the first place. You probably already know this. As you have no agreement and I assume you both own the house I'd have absolutely no qualms going in the house to retrieve your belongings. Who cares what she says. Pretend your a grey rock and you don't listen to anything she says. You have rights excercise them.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 02:28 AM
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It's like a hoe mode they all go into to sow their wild oats they should have stoked 20 years prior... Kinda gross
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 02:19 AM
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Man... Can't believe some women do this! And the mom covering is disgusting. Women are lacking in old fashioned morals....I'm so Leary of dating women now knowing this and that there notch counts are way higher than mine. Awalt! Sounds like it's true
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 02:17 AM
3

Stop talking to the other side. She's the enemy now. Grey rock dude and lawyer UP now.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 01:14 AM
3

I'm not a wino rather drink beer. Enjoy having a beer after a long day and a smoke in my pipe. Single life is for me... Trying to get into a relationship is not natural for me. All the online thing just seems forced... it gives me anxiety... And it stresses me out. I'm at my best doing my own thing sans woman. Simple life. Maybe I'll get a cat 🐈 and join the bandwagon.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 12:49 AM
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But are any middle aged women really hApPy?? They dump there husbands and ya but my happiness!! Then never actually find it... Go on antidepressants and raise cats and drink boxed wine wasting the years away miserable
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 10:33 PM
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Her not managing her money properly is not your problem. You can't hold there hand anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 10:31 PM
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FdS female dating strategies....that's place is cancer
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/22 10:28 PM
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Your mistake was tellig her about going out with other women. Once you are separated except religious it's accepted to start dating right after separation. No need to keep her in the loop of your goings on... as you were living in the same house it's good to be respectful though and don't bring women over etc. Shoulda been a Grey rock dude. Sure things won't be comfortable in hearing about dating etc that's why you don't tell her. And vice versa. She's not yours any more it was just your turn
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 05:28 PM
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You are correct sir!! I’m in the same boat. Lost half of my pension and pay CS up the yin Yang. I can’t afford to lose another half of my pension… gotta protect what I have
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 03:10 PM
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Well dude at least you know what ended the marriage and you got the help you needed to work on yourself and even you stated that it was just to LATE for her. So you now have to grove the loss of her leaving. And then in the future you will be more open to love with the next woman if you do choose to pursue woman again. Lots of us don’t pursue anymore as the stats on divorce for second and third marriages are astronomical… bottom line is you did finally did do the work you needed to do
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 03:02 PM
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There should be a monkey branch law that forbids the opening of the vagina to other men before they get out of there current marriage or else they get like a 10 to 90 financial split. Boy would women then change
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:42 PM
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Exactly! Happiness does not come from another person it comes from within… until women realize this they will blow through every man expecting them to make them happy. Life dosent work like that.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:35 PM
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Classic case of getting a manly chad then tiring of him cause he cant give her the emotional stuff but really pining for a beta provider… but we all know they never stay with a beta and always long for chads Dick but can’t get chad anymore as they are post wall… so they herd cats and drink boxed wine all mad at the world. We all know how that goes… she’s in the wrong sub to get any form of validation for her feelings
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:31 PM
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So you got a man’s man eh? Ya men like that woman are initially attracted to but you know you can never win with them and yes they will never change. Looks like you looking for a beta provider type… one that will cow tow to you and never say NO. Flip side is that you will fall out of attraction for him eventually as well. Just be single then and herd cats and boxed wine. No man will ever make you happy as happiness dosent come from another person it’s comes from within…
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:26 PM
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I don’t know about you… but I was matching with women 50+ on dating sites… never 20s or 30s… if you want them you usually have to get a sugar momma or are like a 10 on smv
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:21 PM
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Usually the man ends up in the crappy rental while the ex wife keeps the house or has enough cash to get a house… from a dude who live in a rental shack..
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:19 PM
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Cats… and boxed wine getting wasted every night cause she can… and don’t need no man
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/22 02:16 PM
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It's easy... She should Keep your tummy full and your balls empty. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/22 04:21 PM
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Your first mistake was thinking you had to be able to support her... Women today can support themselves or just don't marry them. I learned that lesson after supporting my ex for the whole marriage. All I can say is never again!
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/22 04:19 PM
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You need good LEGAL advice for all this and need to stop worrying about her feelings. Etc. Sound like she has you wrapped around her finger.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 11:48 PM
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A big NO. End of story don't bring it up again. Batter yet get a lawyer to write a letter and say the same thing. That the child can NOT leave the country. Time to play hard ball bud. If you don't your kids gone. And for Pete's sake stop paying for her stuff. Don't be a door mat. Read up on how to be more assertive with her. She wants to manipulate you.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 11:41 PM
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If it's tight now then you can't afford a household. That's the answer. Likely no house and a crappy apartment like the rest of us divorced dad's. On top of the fact houses are not affordable right now
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 10:36 PM
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Borrow borrow borrow that's what I had to do.... Lines of credit then credit cards then bankruptcy... All good now tho ...
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 10:34 PM
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Ya and so many women fall in love after having sex like it's some magic love pill. My ex gf said I love you after 2 weeks... Now I know that's a huge red flag
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 04:36 PM
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Wow a guy does this once and she's gone but a woman does this every week and we stay ... Why??
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 04:14 PM
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Sucks....don't do it ever again
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 04:13 PM
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Me too had a bpd girlfriend. That shit takes years off your life of you stay with them. I got the fuc out quick. She called me an asshole but I'm not. I don't put up with abuse of any kind.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 04:12 PM
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Haha mine didn't either. Barely cleaned but I took over the cooking after a week of marriage cause she sucked at it big time. Always made runny lasagne. Gross as fuc
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 04:09 PM
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You nailed it!!! Ii did all that too... Everything the wife suggested to make her happy... Forgive me I was a huge simp back then... Nothing makes a wife happy that comes from within... And red pill or bust now
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 04:07 PM
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Ya I saw that too… he’s not an alpha if he doesn’t mate guard his wife and tell her to stop orbiting male friend… needs to listen to rich cooper and read his book… dudes not alpha at all. And ya… real men don’t let there wives go on girls trips… nothing good happens on these trips. And yup she cheated
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 01:41 AM
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Hold on… Dosent pay a bill in 10 years and racks up 50k in credit per year… wtf dude your not financially compatible and she’s a leach. I’d ditch her for that. She’s not financially responsible and has a spending problem: just as bad as a drinking/drug problem. Not a good example for kids at all
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 01:40 AM
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My exs husband swears at my son and calls him names. He's a piece of shit... I told ex she has to deal with him and they were in counselling. He's 18 now. So I'm gonna suggest he live with me to get away from that POS. He's dosent even answer the door when I come over to get the kids.. think he's afraid of me. Ex did a huge downgrade and told me she might separate... The biggest abusers of kids are step parents!!!!the statistics are horrendous on this. Hence why I stay single. It's less complica…
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/22 12:35 AM
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Yes spend a bit and get legal advice. Good idea
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 10:51 PM
2

Eating cheese before bed makes you have crazy vivid dreams.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 04:36 PM
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I used to drive myself crazy trying to interpret dreams....I've decided that my dreams are all mumbo Jimbo and don't really mean anything at all. I dream of my ex all the time by it wouldn't want to be near her with a 10 foot pole. Just ignore the dreams.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 04:35 PM
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You can't lose half your house if you move out... You will get 50% it's a marital asset. Your kids are almost all grown... No downside to moving out and will be good for your mental health once you pull the trigger on separation
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 04:33 PM
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Set a court date....I bet she will be willing to settle when you apply more pressure. Going around in circles isn't working...
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/22 01:43 AM
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People without there dad's in there life growing up get massively fucked up... Big red flag
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 08:32 PM
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Fuc that. No one's taking my hoodie...lol
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 08:29 PM
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Fight fight fight and don't settle for any of her and her lawyers trifle... Good luck man
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 08:28 PM
4

Why should the company pay when they are separated?
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 03:21 PM
2

You need a physical address to show stability for your child. How are they supposed to go to school and have friends if your always travelling you need a home base pronto. Or you will likely lose custody of your child..courts like stability.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 02:14 PM
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It's not a simple divorce if you haven't split assets accordingly. Seems like it's contested. And you need a lawyer to resolve.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 02:10 PM
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Ya mostly men that's all why we are here. Had to acknowledge the other 1%. Lol. We all know the other gender dosent acknowledgeems struggles
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 01:39 PM
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Oh geez that sucks then. I'd get a good lawyer and fight to the end.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 11:03 PM
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Yup it's not just men... But the high earner that gets shafted
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 10:47 PM
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Mine pays for my exs house... While I live in a focking Shack...
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 10:46 PM
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How the hell can they make you pay college of you can't afford it? I've told my kids mom the kids are on there own for there education. I already pay 50% CS. Can't get more blood from this stone!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 10:43 PM
1

Geezus...
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 10:42 PM
3

Really good at bobsledding I hear...
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 10:39 PM
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If I were you I'd just skip the country... Kids are adults. She dosent dersve a penny if she got houses and gets to keep the rent. That's a rediculous amount to pay. Seriously skip the country
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 10:35 PM
1

No woman in your life....stack that cash
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/22 03:21 PM
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Typical man bad female good. That's crazy you got 70 recordings of her abuse. That she would do all that with you recording and have no reprecussions is alarming. I'd say you should dore your lawyer and find a lawyer who will go to bat for you.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 07:56 PM
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The hotter they are the crazier they are ...I don't trust anyone that bleeds...
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 03:06 PM
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Keep them 49ers away from me... Lol
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 03:01 PM
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Haha great one! She thought she was going to get a hold mine from you. Not worthless land in Arizona
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 02:02 PM
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Or crotch spawn for that matter
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 09:22 PM
1

Ya seeing someone every day is not interesting and I'd rather do my own thing anyway. Once or twice a week getting together would be enough for me. She should be a compliment to my life and not the focus. Like so many simps don't understand. Familiarity breeds contempt.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 09:18 PM
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Only way it could possibly work... Equality. If not stay single and protect your wealth 🤑
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 09:15 PM
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Ya stop feeding the narc....there's books on this subject. Hard to stop if you are used to tending to her needs.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/22 09:25 PM
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Grey rock dude... Grey rock... She dosent exist anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/22 09:23 PM
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Man what a disgusting thing to find. Like others have said just time and distance will stay to heal things. Your at the beginning of a new journey. Things will get better! But it takes time
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 07:50 PM
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Make her work bruh if you have to get married… just scroll through all the posts of men having gotten massively divorce raped to see why… Inequality in divorce will come out of your pockets… a pre nip likely won’t save you 20 years from now
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 03:01 AM
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Ya grey rock around her dude. Ya women can't stand it. As they can't desipher what your feeling. That's the point. She should not occupy any space in your head. Stoicism helps as well. It's a higher level of being... Women just won't get it as they are all emotional creatures
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/22 09:12 PM
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To be fair ya people go on dates all the time and let the older kids babysit the younger ones. I've done it a few times but it's definitely not a.weekly occurence. And if I had the choice I wouldn't use my kid time to date
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/22 02:20 AM
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Grey rock works well as well....
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/22 02:18 AM
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Shows you where her priorities lie that's for sure... Any women that would give up time with her kids is not a woman id want to be with...
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/22 01:46 AM
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Tell her to count calories and keep her self accountable daily! It's the only way to actually lose weight and not gain it. Weigh herself daily!!
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/22 06:27 PM
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Women get the absolute worst relationship advice from other women friends! Sure as shit one of her new friends is divorced and pushing it on your ex... They all do that! Women are like pack animals in that regard.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/22 06:13 PM
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This is epic! I love the three strike rule. And way to go dude! Got it all done with little drama.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/22 06:08 PM
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Do not listen or be swayed by her words or actions for that matter. Pretend your a grey rock....nothing can hurt you and you don't give a fuck about her drama cause that's all this is. Female.drama
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/22 09:04 PM
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If she's bailing to another country I'd not pay anything. Like when are you going to see your kid??
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/22 06:25 PM
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She will have to work once divorced. Unless she finds a sugar daddy
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/22 03:43 AM
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Better get some loob...
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/22 02:56 AM
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In my case child support for 3 kids is so much they didn't award alimony or I wouldn't have any money to live! Already pay 50% of my pay... And ya she didn't work... And my lawyer said no bother trying to get more custody as they would declare her the primary caregiver anyway... Word of the story...in hindsight. Never let the wife not work!!
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/22 02:54 AM
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Put your pay in a new account and only put enough in joint to pay bills... No law against this and stops her sneaky spending.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/22 10:42 PM
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Ya all she has to do is cry a bit and OP wants to cover her mortgage...
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/22 07:29 PM
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If it's in the parenting plan dosent seen like it's even enforceable? What's the dispute resolution for this in your agreement? Maybe do your own homework on her. Do a background check etc. Maybe that would ease your mind.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 05:05 PM
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That's great dude! Wish I got 50/50 but my province isn't into 50/50. And my lawyer said I had no chance so I didn't fight. I'm hindsight I wish I did fight. But my kids moved and hour away
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 04:28 PM
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Well if she didn't work she didn't work. Depending where you live this could be one sided in the custody arrangement. Fight for 50\50. She had degrees she will have to get a job now.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 04:16 PM
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Well of course divorce gets expensive... Your going from one house to 2 residences. Everyone has this problem. And if she can't refi the house then that's just to bad. Rent a crummy apartment like most single dad's do while paying support...
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 02:40 PM
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Sounds like you shouldn't of made a hoe a housewife. She was probably too young at 19 to settle down anyway. Still in her party years and back blown out every Saturday night stage
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/22 03:59 AM
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Felate a 12 gauge... :)
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 11:46 PM
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Me too! Numerous times. It's not a friendly safe space for men. Full of raging angry women. Men are different. We like to support each other.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 10:22 PM
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They all are totally blameless and we know we only get one side of every story on these Reddit's
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 10:21 PM
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Ya it's no way to live with threats and I'd never do that. It's like walking in eggshells not a fun stress to live with!
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 10:20 PM
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And it's acceptable in this society to hate men...
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 06:34 PM
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Haha ya I always senond guess myself posting there afraid to get pounced on and downvoted. So gynocentric
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 06:33 PM
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Geez man you make 185 k and she has a decent job. The hit for spousal won't be that long. Just take it and move on. If your not attracted to your wife no point in being married anymore. Especially if she isn't going to change her weight for you
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 06:30 PM
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Haha listen to people's actions more than their words... But I wouldn't put up with a woman constantly threatening divorce. It's real shitty if she didn't mean it. But tough. The words came out of her mouth and have to come from somewhere. Men can't read minds like women think we can
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/22 06:25 PM
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Who cares what she wants. Lawyer up and fight. It's no holds barred time. Kid gloves are off
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/22 03:21 PM
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Grey rock method. Do not let her drama get to you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/22 02:17 PM
1

Rember talk is cheap... It's actions that matter.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/22 05:24 PM
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Bottom line she's a huge CUNT. It's been 7 years and she's still being vindictive and manipulative. Like who does stuff like that? Only really fucked up people do ..
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/22 05:23 PM
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My ex said I was controlling as well. And I'm far from it .. it's just projection my man. They are Insecure and make shit up... Bottom line
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/22 05:10 PM
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Why would I want to take back the trash from the curb???
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/22 01:09 AM
1

Let’s hope she doesn’t fuck up the kids too much.
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/22 12:22 AM
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Haha yes! I'm not even American but watched football today and wanted turkey so I got some drum sticks and cooked them all up for myself. And yes I celebrate all the holidays with my kids with proper meals with turkey and all the fixings. I was the cook when I was married. Men... You got this!!
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 12:23 AM
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I'm in Ontario. Maybe it's different here. My separation agreement didn't mention who pays for higher education. I I know for sure I won't be able to contribute virtually anything as I only live in 2200 a month after support. So the kids are on there own. I will get a pretty good inheritance from my mom when she passes. So perhaps I'll gift them some money at that time.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 12:17 AM
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Yes I don't wanna create tension but my kids are all teens and ask me why I live in a substandard apartmemt and why I don't have a house. I don't tell them the amount I pay just that where I live right now is all I can afford. I think eventually I will tell them the actual amount. My daughter was asking for some winter clothes and I gave her a little bit of money but so badly wanted to tell her to ask her mom as that's exactly what child support should pay.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/22 12:13 AM
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Ya... Ward and June cleaver sure we're happy!!!
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/22 11:36 PM
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