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Just remember that if OP has more kids, the government will INSERT itself in the matter if she leaves.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 12:29 PM
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Been there, done that, bought the t-shirt. You're also ignoring the "f that guy for betraying me" part. It's perfectly natural. Even though it goes against the narrative of "noble victim" in terms of optics, this is a huge part of "retaliatory cheating". Agree 1000000% with your last sentence.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 12:13 PM
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Too many guys can't do more than 6.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/26 11:11 AM
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Because media exists to sell goods. Which demographic is the most easily influenced by media programming?
/r/MensRights28/07/26 11:00 AM
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Though what you said IS true, her sexual psyche is getting off on the [revenge] backstabbing that is a product of his backstabbing.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 10:43 AM
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What do you mean "mistake"? Dropping a pair of pliers or accidentally knocking over a glass of milk is a mistake. She willfully committed a series of actions not just to cheat, but to deceive you. You have to address reality before you can do anything. If you're still making excuses for her treacherous behavior, your head isn't right. Not even close to right. Es tut mir leid, Bruder... It sucks. But you have to look reality in the face and realize that those tears are for getting caught. Not for…
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/26 02:28 AM
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Even better? OP seeing HIMSELF rebuild without a care for her whatsoever.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 11:51 PM
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And to OP: There's nothing you can do about it. The way I dealt with it? Lean into it, mentally. Because I took the high road expecting reciprocity for playing fair (dumb mistake that almost did me in), I saw myself as the "good guys". So when the character assassination was in full swing? I said "The hell with it" and 3-D printed a little figurine of Kruschev to put on my desk. I belted out the old Soviet Union anthem like Nikolai Volkov standing next to the Iron Sheik, and completely assumed t…
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 11:50 PM
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Phew....
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 12:50 PM
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Do you have children?
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 04:50 AM
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You're in no mental or emotional position to be dating right this second, brother. Work on yourself, starting with some therapy. Preferably an older male who has seen some shit and understands the male struggle from experience, not a book.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/26 12:10 PM
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Wait… Did I read correctly that you bought stuff for her kids but only saw her three times???
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/26 12:12 PM
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Simpleton men allowed such behavior instead of having the stones to say “Hell no!!” and walk away from crazy demands or disrespectful behavior.
/r/Divorce_Men01/07/26 12:06 PM
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Luta Livre is better anyway! 😁
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/26 10:31 AM
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This is the best path.
/r/Divorce_Men24/06/26 10:30 AM
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“Accepting awful” was probably the biggest turnoff for her, FYI.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/26 09:33 AM
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No. YOU took that decision away when you agreed. No one can force sterilization.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 11:30 AM
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Only if you bend the knee.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 11:29 AM
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Given the divorce rate and the prevalence of dead bedrooms, I question the anchor’s strength against the violent tides of secularism, degeneracy, and a conflict of interest via Title IV-D.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 11:21 PM
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This is the biggest thing. Zero accountability. EVERYTHING is the man’s fault. Nothing is her fault. It’s comical.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/26 09:26 AM
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Stand-up mofo right here!!!! Well played!
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/26 09:24 AM
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I like this! It's not too confrontational but serves the purpose!
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/26 02:54 PM
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Traps. I had mine in my 40s. This is the only way. Don't go hardcore with punji stake pits or Siberian tiger traps. But definitely the one where it loops around the leg and holds them upside down... That got me through the toddler years!!!
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 10:20 PM
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Truer words have NEVER been spoken. That said, by and large, a HUGE chunk of men earn money with their bodies. 15+ years really cuts into the window in which a man can work such jobs without severe impact on their health. Back to your point, though? It's crazy to find old photos (3-5 years ago) and see how quickly time moves.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 09:53 PM
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And whatever you have been running from, fitness-wise? Lean into it HARD. Skipping leg day? Then do Stronglifts 5x5. Pudgy around the middle? Rowing machine, treadmill, and burpees! Pain and discomfort is what you need to embrace. It will make you mentally tougher, resilient, and hard. This helps you break away from the warm safety blanket of your memories and lonely, weepy heart. Good luck, brother. Be born again hard.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 04:18 PM
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Better yet? A family app like OFW or similar.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 04:10 PM
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This is 10000% the way.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 04:08 PM
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All costs? In terms of a code for living, it beats the temple of self-worship or (worse) simpleton hole worship. I don’t care which belief system it is, a code based on love and service beats selfishness, mercurial and ephemeral tee-vee programming, and vanity.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 04:06 PM
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Contract work, getting help from relatives, regular job with an overseas company…
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 02:43 PM
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Wrong. The states are compensated for each dollar of child support collected. This conflict of interest forces a NCP situation to the higher earner.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/26 02:38 PM
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Good advice. Got any tactics for choosing a mother? 🫥
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/26 12:21 PM
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This. If one cannot control the little head and allows it to make the decisions, another entity's bigger head WILL take charge. Years of monk mode (and, admittedly, age) have made my bigger head the sole decision-maker. Life looks WAY different than the 20's when little head held the veto pen.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/26 01:42 PM
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Oh, but she IS. The mask merely slips.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 01:15 PM
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Focus on improving your situation and that of your kids. Myopically focus on both.
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 10:12 PM
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Monk mode for nearly 9 years. I disagree vehemently.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/26 04:11 AM
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The left is the party of the elites now. It isn’t 1989 anymore.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 03:57 AM
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They do in a woman’s case. If she decides she doesn’t want the responsibility, she can literally and legally put the baby in a box, push a button and walk away Scott free.
/r/MensRights28/04/26 03:54 AM
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Not one mention of the kids and you collective duty to them….
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 10:37 AM
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Tell this to women, not us.
/r/MensRights22/03/26 09:06 AM
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Communism won’t help you because of simpletons who worship the hole. They will be the “comrades” who are more equal than others. Make your own destiny instead of having the state make if for you.
/r/MensRights22/03/26 09:05 AM
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Wedding? Hell, dowry!
/r/MensRights22/03/26 09:02 AM
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Petition??? This isn’t a HOA or the elementary school PTA. They don’t care about a bunch of signatures. Loudly boycotting every advertiser’s product? That’s where it hurts em.
/r/MensRights22/03/26 09:00 AM
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Yes! Bust him in the mouth. Get arrested. Go to jail. Spend more money on courts (since divorce didn't wash that taste out of your mouth). Degrade your ability to provide and parent your kids. Model the best way for your kids to handle some cocko. -OR- Put your DUTY to your children first instead of your fee-wings. The good news? You haven't cold-cocked this jerk who likely deserves it. You came here to vent. You didn't come here for advice. Because unless you're 12, you know the answer to this …
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 02:14 PM
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Yes. It’s begging.
/r/MensRights11/01/26 11:17 AM
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How much do you love yourself vs your like of women?
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/25 01:41 PM
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They need you more than you need them. If a fella has t grasped this, he ain’t ready to date. Full stop.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/25 01:40 PM
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For twenty-somethings? Sure. YOLO, as the kids used to say. For a grown-ass man? Better to figure out why you are uncomfortable with being by yourself. Why? Because after the ephemeral experience of the hole is over, you still have to answer the question (or have it answered for you).
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/25 01:39 PM
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Exceptions DO prove the norm. This isn’t nonsense, but how outliers work. I may not agree with the rest, but he ain’t wrong here.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 10:06 AM
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It's about raising children. Though it is easily the most fulfilling task I have ever undertaken, infants, toddlers, and teens have a fantastic way of sucking happiness from certain periods of one's life (as we unfortunately must do to theirs). Like any task, it's all in the game. Not bottled up. Mature enough to understand that life is filled with one vile task after another, punctuated by normalcy, and spiced up by some really great moments. But only a dopamine addict would think that life is …
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/25 11:47 AM
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Doesn’t sound like he first loves himself…
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/25 04:11 PM
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OP, do you have children?
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/25 08:20 AM
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With children? It most certainly is NOT. If marriage is nothing more than the secular (state) institution of playing house until we get bored and she gets an annuity? Sure. Anything works. Whatever, right? If marriage is about putting our hedonistic needs second, and instead creating a favorable environment in which to raise children into capable and successful adults? Duty comes before happiness. An increasingly foreign concept, but... If marriage is about the original religious sacrament and p…
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 05:00 PM
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Florida had it too. Don't know if it's still on the books. You can call it "indefinite" or whatever flowery legalese that makes it sound more pleasant. You're paying her until further notice. And that notice could take you to the grave. Full stop.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 02:52 PM
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When you realize what child support really is, you should NOT be ok with it. It is "called" child support, but has nothing to do with the child.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 02:51 PM
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I thought the same. If he's lucky? Easter.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 02:48 PM
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Hopefully OP will realize that the ones who stay here to help have been through MIG alley a time or two. Some dumb bastards, three or four! My stepfather? Sigh... He died on #6. Anyhooo... between the red mist and ChatGPT hallucinations, OP must recalibrate. That lawyer sounds like one of the guys who hears a guy who THINKS he knows the game. The lawyer simply says "OK, dude. Whatever you want. Your wish is my retainer." 50K later.... Y'all know how this movie ends. And it isn't the way OP think…
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 02:48 PM
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HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!! Oh, sweet summer child! Do you think family courts and Title IV-D give a rat's ass about fairness, righteousness, best interests of the child, or any of this sugar cookies and butt-blugs fantasy that "GPT" has provided? Yes or No... If anything other than 'NO', here's how this works: Who is the higher earner? This person will be designated as the NON-CUSTODIAL PARENT (NCP) and will be the one that gets financially fucked because the State can extract more from that parent …
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 02:45 PM
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Are you dealing with "should" or "is"? I agree 100%. But in reality, please list what legal and effective measures OP can take here (sans abuse). Go ahead. List 'em. I'll go discover a cure for gout while you list them. I guarantee that neither of us will finish! I’m going to disagree that this is normal behavior in the west. Based on what data? Dude, that behavior is all but CELEBRATED in the West. CELEBRATED, I say! Did I mention CELEBRATED? You're right about 'Good women' and 'good parents'. …
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 02:09 PM
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From OP: We had a very high-conflict divorce. That was not my choice. I had to fight just to stay in my son’s life. Talk about what?? LOL!!! High-conflict divorce throws "just have a talk with her" out the window. You actually think she's going to respond with logic and reason and say "Y'know...you're RIGHT. I shouldn't do what the hell I want to do in my home as a legally divorced woman!" The only talk is what the separation agreement states. From the sounds of it, everything else should be han…
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 01:32 PM
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The State cares not for how good a father you are. The State cares not about what is fair or just. The State cares not about your morality, religion, or creed. The State cares not about "the best interests of the child". The State cares only to be fed--with YOUR money.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 01:28 PM
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It's not a "random dude". If he's coming over, she has a new boyfriend. Your turn has ended, as brutal as this sounds. If you feel any sort of way about that statement, you still have some work to do. This is what divorce means, bud. Whether you utter it three times or go to a North American courthouse. Your turn has ended. This means that whatever legal activities occur in her house are beyond your control FOREVER. This includes decisions at her home with your shared child. That's what divorce …
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 01:10 PM
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But wouldn't that also apply to men? Or does only one side of the equation matter? "Cheaper to keep her" wasn't written by a woman.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/25 02:23 PM
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Hey man, it ain't all barbed wire and Bouncing Betty's, either. But the risks are far different and exponentially nuttier than our prime time. Stay frosty!
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 02:50 PM
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How long do you you think your heart/main gun will be functioning at a proper cocksman's level? No, we DON'T have a lot of time. We got more years behind us than in front of us. That's a fact. This person is correct. You WILL waste it on dating apps. "What's a "pro"?" I'm getting more and more nervous with each of your posts. Do you really understand what it's like out there? Foodie Calls? Spurgling? The counters for each of these moves? North America dating stopped being an amateur's game about…
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 02:34 PM
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It's good for you. Takes a few weeks to become enjoyable. Imagine being stretched by medieval torture devices, and you will be murdered if you pass gas. I took an intro week the first time. I still shudder when I think about that blackish-green death cloud the poor woman behind me caught. That damn downard-facing dog is no joke.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 02:16 PM
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Start going to in-person events that draw compatible women (and not just a pretty smile and fake boobs). Online is going to heavily skew a certain way. Your 23rd "No Trumpers/No MAGA" profile on Bumble should have tipped that the fuck off. LOL! I don't believe in echo chambers. However, I'm a political (militant-)centrist and a cultural conservative. So I avoid places with women who follow movements that are opposite of my desired outcomes. I believe in the family. Though I've had my own and hav…
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 02:13 PM
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You need to be VERY careful dating. It's closer to the "look out for the reavers" Firefly galaxy than the old halcyon days of the utopian Star Trek dating environment. Let me ask you a question. Who is the prize? You or her? Answer with the gut. Don't overthink it. Go with your first feeling.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 01:40 PM
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Where in the vows does it mention "happy"? NO. You're NOT supposed to be able to break a lifetime contract and destroy families simply because you're not feeling it. That's not how it works or was ever supposed to work. Was your selection criteria or vetting process poor? It probably was, just like most of us. But my happiness is not the linchpin of keeping the family together. This is the problem with the secularization of marriage and why the two institutions (state marriage vs. the religious …
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/25 01:34 PM
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Obviously the rational and reasonable thing would be to swap over this year, so I have her Christmas week and she has her New year week. Simple yeah? What does the divorce/separation agreement state? Without one, you complicitly agree to play 6,575 hands of Zimbabwe Hold-Em at the "Casino of Her Mind". And if you think the house always wins at the Bellagio or Wynn Macau? Hahahaha.... Because you said it, I'll throw the obligatory reminder. The 2nd WORST thing a man can do is to apply a masculine…
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/25 11:57 AM
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That programming is a mofo, ain't it?
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/25 01:21 AM
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/r/Divorce_Men25/11/25 01:00 AM
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There’s a matter of quantity. Yes there’s good ones, but they are increasingly shrinking in number compared to the alternative.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 09:20 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 12:02 PM
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It started well before social media. A combination of no-fault divorce and government programs that literally pay women for breaking up their marriages.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 08:49 AM
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A lawyer tells you something and you ask US”is this true?” That and a few repeat posts look really suspicious…
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 12:11 PM
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...and when you start dating, NEVER lose yourself. She isn't the prize. YOU are.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 07:15 AM
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You're getting downvoted to hell, but I dare anyone to perform a simple experiment. Get panuchy together with your wife. Decide against paunchy. Tell wife "Paunchy bad. Let's fight paunchy together." Wife says 'no'. You fight paunchy alone and begin winning. In the OVERWHELMING MAJORITY of cases like these, the sabotage begins.All of a sudden, she becomes Betty fucking Crocker with the chocolate ganache cakes and sausage, cheese, and extra sausage and cheese casseroles.. She'll wanna screw again…
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 07:12 AM
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It's that last bit. Trying to earn more and more. That's what's killing the attraction.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 07:05 AM
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Women do not care whatsoever about you working, cooking, helping with the kids, providing financially, or buying her things. These things do not rate in female sexual attraction whatsoever. They only care about how you make them feel. And contrary to what they tell you and what they complain about? Kowtowing actually lessens their attraction. They want a leader to lead, not a "Yes, dear!" thing that they can boss around. That is incredibly boring to them and (piggybacking on this person's post,)…
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 07:01 AM
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Denial stage. Went through her phone, she was pissed, he was crying, and then back to "I feel she has some type of connection with someone at her work." More like "I do NOT want to believe she has some type of connection at work." It's tough. Many of us have been there, so OP has no right to feel shame. That is, unless he stays in denial.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 06:57 AM
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LOL!!! I will also help pray for your Prince Charming!!!
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/25 01:11 PM
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Did you have hobbies and interests before you met her? If there are ones you discarded or tossed away when you started getting serious with her, let's talk about those first.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 01:36 PM
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Yeah, we're BOTH on our best behavior at the start. But here are the consistent differences: Here's where men screw up. We apply our template of logic and logical analysis to her. WE ARE NOT THE SAME!!!!! Her decisions will be heavily weighted on how she feels AT THAT MOMENT instead of analysing the situation as you would. This means that when she felt you were the one-and-only, she showed you who she was.. at that time. The difference? That "who she was" was based on how she felt at the time. L…
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 01:33 PM
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In most cases? She was exactly who she was. Our lonely weepy hearts and thirsty pee-pees filibuster to get you to believe: "That won't be THAT big of a deal..." Things will get better...." (They rarely do) "My looooooooooove will fix her..." "If that's her only problem, I think I can handle that." As that urban poet Oscar the Grouch would say, "Heh, heh, heh...."
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 12:59 PM
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Sigh… a bouquet of ad hominem attacks and feminized shaming language. Both ineffective in 2025.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/25 05:38 PM
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Accountable??? Are you a vampire or other occult-powered figure who will live forever? No? Then the answer won't apply to you. You'll die first.
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 03:57 PM
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Are you "valid for having these feelings?" We're MEN. Not women. Our feelings don't validate us. Are your feelings normal? Absolutely!!!!!!!!! As for him, he's either a net positive influence or a net negative influence. If you're in your feelings, you can't properly evaluate. The first thing to remember (that someone should have beaten into your head during divorce) is that there are many things that you will not be able to control or even influence. I don't know about you, but I find few thing…
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/25 09:38 AM
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Everyone knows about "Foodie Calls". IF not, you've been living under a rock. What kind of woman is he asking out? The same women that everyone else does. And guess what? OP isn't wrong. We even have proper studies on the matter. BTW, the mechanics of self-reported studies suggest that the number in this study (and others you will find) is at least 50%. So OP has roughly a coin-flip chance of finding one. So THAT'S what type of women he's asking out. Don't agree? Post your own facts, data, and p…
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/25 09:12 AM
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The quickest way to get used and abused is to lead with your wallet. Your time is just as valuable as hers. Beers, coffee, Boba Tea on the first date. You are vetting HER, not performing like a little trick poodle. You're the prize here. Don't agree with that last statement? You have zero business dating. Get back to working on valuing yourself by building value. Finding it in a woman is how most of us ended up here.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/25 08:59 AM
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From OP's language, I'd be worried that OP will conflate coochie with girlfriend material.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/25 09:23 AM
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Poor analysis of your first question is why so many of us are here.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/25 09:20 AM
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You need to re-read the writings of the orator, businessman, and poet, Marcellus Wallace. He had a short treatise on 'Pride' that fits here.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 11:46 AM
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Hopefully not many. But sadly, I"m sure the reality is more.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 11:45 AM
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Can social media make YOU do anything? Can ChatGPT make YOU do anything? Last I checked, women are voting, legal adults with full agency. Therefore, you're going to have to come to grips with something painful. They make their own decisions. No matter how batshittedly stupid these decisions seem to you, they were wilfully made by an adult. Naturally, admitting this opens up a whole 'nother world of hurt, because we can no longer make excuses for them, cover for them, or ignore the possibility pr…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 02:05 PM
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Dude... Late toddlers and pre-teens/teenagers. You may as well cut out the middleman and give the ex a listening device!!! LOL!!!!!! Yeah, I hear you loud and clear! In that situation, there can be no expectation of secrecy, can there?
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 10:55 PM
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Disagree with the first sentence. If your validation depends on a woman, you’re in a terrible spot.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 03:18 PM
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Be merciful and leave her out of your drama until your drama is settled. Relationships end the way they begin. Ready for another mistake???
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 11:46 AM
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This. Why drag her into your chaos.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 11:45 AM
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No, they don't. Only if you're an idiot who posts everything on social media or can't keep your mouth shut.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 11:45 AM
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Yes. Treat yourself well by not allowing poor treatment. Sounds goofy but men should observe how she treats others before getting physical.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 03:27 PM
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Yet, she figured it out for the rest of the family and herself…. Crazy, that…
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/25 03:24 PM
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You care because she will be co-raising and co-influencing your kid. Family courts think much differently.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/25 07:29 AM
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For a good answer, you probably should have posted just the last sentence. Yes, it gets easier.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 01:03 PM
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You're not completing the equation and probability. So, if 90% of women were cheaters, asking "are men attracted to cheaters" is indeed irrelevant, since the prevalence makes it where you'll end up with a cheater even if you're not "attracted" to one. If 85% of parachutes failed, we would be nuts for asking if skydivers prefer bad parachutes.
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 01:02 PM
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Your onus is misplaced. The proper question is "What percent are cheaters?" If the number is low, your question has merit. If the number is high, math says that anything else is irrelevant.
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/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 11:06 AM
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How can I ever trust her again? You do not. She's gone.
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/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 11:03 AM
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Please don’t glorify Title IV-D like it’s anything noble. It is a family-destroying welfare recovery program and a barbaric cash grab for the states. It’s not even for the children. That’s the saddest part.
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/25 09:53 PM
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Check with the attorney before selling anything. Walk the line. Also, do not leave the house unless advised by your attorney.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 04:39 PM
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Yeah, on the endcaps (baby/toddler<---->funky/dirty/smelly/nasty-ass teen athletes), there's daily showers. Maybe even a high-pressure hose down on the right end. That said, the left end ain't immune. That first "formula shit" after the bliss months of aromatic "breastmilk shits" requires MOPP gear (CBRN for you younger lions). That first bottle of "emergency formula" produced a smell that is orgasmic to trash pandas and Oscar the Grouch. In the middle-ages? I agree there's not much need for dai…
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 04:38 PM
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"I figured it out sooner" It sounds good, but that phrase loses all of the magic if I tell you the truth. I was a few years behind you. And I mean a FEW!!! Funny how that works, ain't it?
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 04:28 PM
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That is because you're making the most common male mistake. You cannot analyze her actions and thinking from a male template of logic. We are NOT the same. They do not think as much as they feel. We are NOT the same. What they feel NOW is reality. Full stop. When she said what she said on the way to the restaurant, it was a test. The wrong answer involves mushy, nebulous boundaries. The wrong answer involved arguing. The wrong answer involves word-vomiting feelings. The wrong answer is apologizi…
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/25 08:59 PM
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And this, my friend, is the key. Who were you before marriage? Were you the average thirsty little drone who lived life for a whiff? Most of us were to SOME degree. Overwhelming so. But who were you? Pretend women never existed. What did you do for you? Answer that. Whatever it is, try returning to your roots and forget about the hole for a bit. There's a new one born every second. I assure you that one will be there. "Well, I'm too old/fat/broke/softened for weights/tennis/auto-racing/boxing" N…
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/25 06:35 PM
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Outside of seein' AP's willy, I'd watch this all day!
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 04:54 PM
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Was afraid that you meant the OTHER cousin.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 04:51 PM
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Or, the opposite. It hasn't been corrected by anyone strong. From birth.
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/25 04:25 PM
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Wanting to be the other man still relies on a woman as your fulcrum of validation.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/25 12:08 AM
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Are you not enough? If not, why? Answer that question directly and honestly, for it is a serious tuple of questions.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/25 09:06 AM
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Kentucky has default shared 50-50. Naturally, divorce rates have plummeted, as women can't use divorce and children as an annuity in these situations.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/25 08:23 AM
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Yep. Don't pull out that thang unless you plan to bang. Talk about your "issues" together, but never bring up "D" unless you're ready to file by morning. It's more of a tactical matter than anything.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/25 08:21 AM
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Here's the kicker. Over half the guys that you formerly (and likely derisively) referred to as "Red Pill"? Just like you. Don't forget. In this day and age, any man who does not bend the knee (or dares to question the fariness/symmetry of the dynamics) is red pill incel my-soggy-knee enemy. Unfortunately, you cannot unsee what you ultimately see. Many men never put on those glasses like Rowdy Roddy Piper from They Live.
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/r/Divorce_Men27/09/25 08:33 AM
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People are going to have to be honest with this kind of thing. It's delicate, it's painful but the truth is the only way forward.... The waning attraction has stemmed from a lack of exercise on her end. If she looked like a prime Mila Jovovich or Hackers-era Angelina Jolie, I doubt that a "lack of exercise" would be your true beef. How much did she weigh when you were first dating hot and heavy How much did she weigh at marriage? How much now? I'm asking the ugly questions so that you don't have…
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/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 11:27 PM
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And looking at the stats, they aren’t divorcing because of abuse. Overwhelmingly “Irreconcilable Differences”. And she can still divorce, so she isn’t trapped. She should not lay with, have unprotected sex with, or decide to carry a baby to term with an abuser. SOME responsibility is required.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 08:44 PM
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That something "deep down inside you" is your lonely, weepy heart and your thirsty little pee-pee. I promise. You're applying a male/masculine template of logic and reasoning onto the situation. This is a grave mistake. I know you WANT to believe otherwise, but you're in deep denial. Deep down represents your last vestiges of hope. Hope will get you fucked the fuck up at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 12:46 PM
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She was confessing, brother. I promise.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 12:44 PM
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Fueled by lots of cocaine. Food service is no place for old men (or marriages, really....)
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 12:44 PM
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We are so misaligned when it comes down to religion observance and where we want to start a life/raise a family. Just curious (and more as a cautionary tale to young men of often snoop in here), why did you marry her then?
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 12:53 PM
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The ex saw a photo posted of myself and the other girl out and about one day And where, pray tell, would she have seen this? This is a huge chunk of problem right here. Playing in 13-year-old girls' playgrounds and wondering why we see 13-year-old girl stupididty.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 12:50 PM
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If she quits her job over your protests, this is the equivalent of that early warning Iceland radar station somehow becoming unresponsive. When this happens, odds are high that The rest of you's NATO countries is about to see some atomic medicine most haste. ..
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 12:44 PM
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This stuff needs to be done BEFORE marriage. It's a coin flip that you will divorce. Begin with the end in mind.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 12:38 PM
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Credit card debt is also considered joint. Generally hard to prove that this is "mine" with most purchases. So they consider it joint. There are both defensive and "kinetic" applications of this.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 12:37 PM
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If you ever saw the movie Ronin, you know immediately which character I'm thinking of here.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 12:35 PM
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Unless you're dealing specifically with privacy coins like Monero (or dodgy services on the dark web), crypto is easily traceable these days. Software has been around for a decade or longer...
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 12:34 PM
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Thank YOU as well!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 08:24 AM
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It will only happen if WE speak out on social media.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 08:22 AM
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Respectfully, where are you getting this information? To my knowledge, California never had a shared bill. It is one of the WORST states in which to marry and divorce. As of today, California has no such initiatives or active bills.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 08:20 AM
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Child support and alimony are separate in the US. Child support is used to recoup welfare expenses. The states are compensated by the federal government for each dollar of child support they collect. It’s a family-killing conflict of interest that has nothing to do with “the best interests of the child..” This is how it works in America.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/25 08:16 AM
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“Money-making machine”???? You misspelled “dirty f’ing Immoral racket” Common English error, brougham. .Don't beat yourself up too badly over it! 😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 10:50 PM
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It begins to do so, as your state’s child support worksheet is based on custody time. Now, until there exists full (Title IV-D) family court reform, large income disparities will still sting. But, the first step is to abolish the concept of the NCP. 50-50 not only accomplishes this, but it removes the core component of the calculation that screws the higher earner. I consult and write policy for a living now. The term “incrementalism” sucks, but it represents a cold, immutable reality in policy …
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 10:47 PM
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This on top of this, covered in a generous layer of this sauce. The most disgusting, panty drying thing that a man can do is to throw away your masculine bearing for her. It’s the quickest path to contempt, disrespect, and maltreatment. Respectfully and lovingly? You’re in zero place to even consider “someone new”. You gotta first square away your own issues. And you’re gonna need some help Drop the ego and come to terms with this. Forget the lessons of your father on this particular subject (un…
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 10:02 PM
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You saw the therapist bill? This my be her side piece talking. That said? Understand one thing NOW. Be it therapy, court, or friends and family. Her side of the story will be 0.000000% flattering towards you. That’s at absolute best. Expect a slander campaign last month.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 08:18 PM
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Trust but verify
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/25 08:15 PM
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Draining financially?? Are you paying for dinners???
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 09:38 AM
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Watch "Divorce Corp" first. Here is an appetizer to tide you over until the main course. Why the homework? So you can kill any childish, naive thoughts of logic, fairness, Family court has one of these. Except for a handful of enlightened states, Title IV-D exists to get money from the highest earning spouse. If that's you? Guess what? Lawyer up, choose your battles, but once chosen? Attack with the force of a tiger. She will show you neither mercy nor quarter in this fight. Again, YOUR RIGHTS T…
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 09:31 AM
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She's likely spinning an abuse story to keep them on her side. Someone over there knows what's up.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/25 09:25 AM
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It's just money. Took me until my forties to understand this.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/25 10:58 PM
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You're asking US, but your third sentence tells you exactly the next step. If you own a late model Porsche (and you are neither a mechanic nor a degenerate racing driver), do you park that bitch under a shade tree and attempt your own repairs and maintenance? Of COURSE you don't! Unlike Ferdinand's old models, these new ones have sensors, doo-hickeys, and all kinds of complexity. Sure. You can go diving in with your Dad's Craftsman tool set from nineteen-dickety-doo. You probably won't make it t…
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/25 11:52 AM
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There's a box inside of a box here. Careful unpacking required!
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/25 10:05 AM
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Roughly the same, but no longer bitter. Rebuild. It’s all you can do.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/25 09:22 AM
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Excellent!! Good on you!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/25 09:20 AM
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I know that it’s a mute point at this point to say this... Moot point, brother. It is my duty to always make you look brilliant. The word is moot (rhymes with "poot"). I agree with pretty much everything you say--especially that last paragraph. A woman can make you a millionaire. But only if you were already a billionaire. Protect your assets BEFORE making the plunge. In poker terms, you have a COIN FLIP chance of divorce. Knowing this? Begin with the end in mind.
/r/Divorce_Men27/08/25 11:49 AM
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NO!!!!! This is a TV tactic that will get you kickfucked in real life. Guess how a judge will view this action? Better said, guess how a FAMILY COURT JUDGE will view this action? And if anyone's response is "I don't care", "It doesn't matter", or "It SHOULD blah, blah, blah.."? Then they have zero real experience with family court. For men? There is no logic, morality, reason, or compassion. It is about how much money the state can extract from the NCP (higher earner).
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 01:19 PM
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Now.... So much bad advice is thrown at men going through the hell-train. This does NOT fall into that category. This man is spitting Tennyson-like prose right to the end. Because guess what??? Men and women are NOT the same. Men get so wrapped up in chasing (and pleasing) skirt that they forget to be MEN. They forget to be the rock that sometimes soothes her, sometimes pisses her off, and sometimes even ignores her antics.* Guess what? That's what attracted her. Not making endless concessions a…
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 10:46 AM
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Thank you very much for this.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 01:31 PM
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Fella's gotta think about cramps at this stage of the game!!!
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/25 10:47 PM
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Doubtful. We are past the point where they can simply ignore and try to hide this. I saw the green shoots around 2010. Men are no longer "shutting up" and letting bad actors determine the definition of a good man. Even the dullards are realizing the Streisand Effect that they create when the "Bad Mawmmy" path of denial is chosen. And many men will accuse you of "victim blaming". Not I. Once one has been shown the way, they are at fault for continuing on the same path. But even harder? Having to …
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/25 07:44 PM
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Not gonna lie... I was so annoyed when I hit this phase. I wanted SO bad to be angry at her, but all I could muster was the same pity that you described. That's how I knew I had moved beyond the anger stage.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 12:26 PM
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No fault divorce and weaponization of Title IV-D. How about the government paying women to have no men in the home (and even spot checking in some locales to ensure compliance). Think that's nonsense? Read the Moynihan Report. Read that shit twice. Don't ever vote for anyone who supports such policies. But the other factor? The afforementioned thirsty pee-pee and lonely, weepy heart removed the ability to say "NO!!!!" from a lot of men. A lot of this is OUR fault for not standing firm. Don't mak…
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 12:24 PM
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Not the same concept and meaning of "organic". The M14 guys were carrying wood and steel. Both "organic". M16? Plastic is made from oil. LOL!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:47 AM
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Thank you for the honesty!!! If you're in this position, you're in no position to be dating. Otherwise, you're in danger of being taken advantage of.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:45 AM
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THIS!!!!! Are you focusing on the desired outcomes for your children and moving to accomplish those? If not, you're wasting time on nonsense. She's gone.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:35 AM
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Because he threw his entire life into her and disregarded his own life. Many men make this mistake.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:34 AM
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And don't jump into another fantasy. Focus on qualification and vetting if you DO decide to do this again. But this advice above (no matter how painful) is spot on.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:33 AM
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Anyone complaining is asked to go to the gym????? Not sure it works this way. What I will say is that being a mushy, breasted, skinnyfat ass is the absolute worst condition for a man going through this kind of stress. I was there and can vouch for it.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:14 AM
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Not so. Don't forget. There are a TON of advanced providers who did that. Hell, I was one (although we broke up before marriage). Not even my father warned me about single mothers. Jerry Macquire said they were cool, so.... LOL!!!! Believe it or not, most men of a certain age don't see this.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:12 AM
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But it's part of the stages of loss. He'll get there on the path he's going.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:09 AM
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If you're looking for strength, download the Stronglifts 5x5 app. It won't make you look like some Adonis, but your body will get harder than a rock and you'll be in the peak of Dad Strength. Even in Uni, I NEVER was able to do 225 for reps. With Stronglifts, I eventually yoinked 4 wagon wheels for 5 sets of 5. I almost cried after finishing, as such a weight seemed like a dream. (Ok. Maybe I did cry....) I'd throw in MyFitnessPal for macros and calorie counting.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:09 AM
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Mastering the art of fighting without fighting.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:05 AM
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I'll say this. The "sugar-free" sweetners have become insanely good over the past decade. I remember when they tasted like a chemical spill and despair. I had a can of Fanta Orange Zero and was blown away.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:05 AM
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But it's incredibly common. Happened to me in a relationship. I stopped being a skinny fat dude and decided to (re-) commit to getting jacked.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:03 AM
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The only winning move (until they change the rules) is not to play....
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/25 07:47 PM
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That isn't the perspective. You're the prize here. Not her. No matter what the tee-vee and propaganda tell you, this is the case. It's about THEM. Dating is dead because if you're taking the responsibility of raising a child as a sacred duty? The majority of modern examples won't qualify to become a part of your family and life, potentially. Well, the youngers and pre-Simpletons will say, "Well, I'm just tryin' to smash!! I'm not trying to wife her." Such a comment is only valid when birth contr…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 12:06 PM
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NEVER, EVER, EVEREVEREVEREVEREVERRRRRRRRRRRRRRR.... ...underestimate the toxic influences of the bitter divorced friend. When you're vetting a woman (instead of doing anything for her approval), evaluate the friend group with Sherlock Holmes' magnifying glass. If you see a bunch of single or divorced bitter broads, initiate Option PS-75: Slip out the back, Jack. Make a new plan, Stan. You don't need to be coy, Roy Just get yourself free. Hop on the bus, Gus You don't need to discuss much Just dr…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 11:37 AM
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Well, after months of her telling him how abusive, violent, and unpredictable you are? Can't say I blame the guy! LOL!!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 11:32 AM
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...and you'll be that guy as soon as your utility ends. See you in the clubhouse shortly.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 11:29 AM
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We have the technology. We CAN rebuild him....
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 11:28 AM
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Yeah, that was rather brutal.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/25 11:28 AM
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Your attorney can determine if this has any legs.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/25 09:51 AM
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And potentially affect your custody situation in a negative manner. You don’t want that.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/25 02:13 PM
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A man who lives, moves, and acts in a manner deemed to be traditionally feminine as opposed to masculine. I can’t speak for them, nor do I know the “clinical” definition. But by a little of that English comprehension? I don’t think I’m that far off.
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/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 01:59 PM
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Uhhhh, no. Some us here were alive when women were different.Theor desires aren’t currently linked to courteousness . Otherwise, the bad boy arcetype wouldn’t be so popular. It’s a simple risk-reward and cost-benefit analysis. Is the he juice worth the squeeze? Today, most men have determined that the answer is a resounding ’no’.
/r/MensRights20/07/25 10:40 AM
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This . She’s playing chess and OP is playing checkers.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/25 10:19 AM
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Not until you're ready to act. Your hardest job will be to pretend that everything is the same, so as not to arouse any suspicion. If she finds out that you're acting first, the wrath of a thousand gods will be upon you. Check your ego and fee-wings. Even though you know that there's an exit plan in progress, you must act like the EXACT same guy as before. "Making her transition as difficult as possible" is ego shit that serves nothing more than to make it 100x harder. Don't. Focus on the missio…
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/25 08:46 PM
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Dont video the kid without first talking to a lawyer. Some judges have VERY strong opinions against this.
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 10:47 AM
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Chemical warfare…
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/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 08:01 PM
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Hmmmm…. I was married twice. If you need a Cardinal, my second ex is a prime candidate! 😂😂😂
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/25 02:17 PM
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This is how MEN think, but not how the majority of women work. He's right to set a hard boundary on something like this. Doing so is attractive to her, as counterintuitive as it sounds. But this one sounds silly enough to test it. OP has to go Denzel Washington in Glory if she does. That said, if she does? She was gonna anyway. You're not wrong about the moves. But the move isn't "showing her that she's wanted as much as you can". It's about managing her attraction. Has OP made himself attractiv…
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 07:17 PM
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She wants attention. His? Debatable.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/25 07:10 PM
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If he thought self-sacrifice (AKA "f__k me...I don't matter in this marriage")was the way, she's already exploiting.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/25 09:23 PM
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Funny. I'm a tweener. Started off on the technical side and switched over to sales and consulting. But unlike some of my fellow sales droids, I use the technical to keep things focused and logical (as a counterbalance to my ego, lonely heart, and persuasive penis that can filibuster like Strom Thurmond with an 8-ball.. I also survived the financial part of my divorce through poker (before the Americans killed online). So, SHAL (Structured Hand Analysis) often guides my decisions regarding probab…
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/25 03:39 PM
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It will as long as the simpery fuels it
/r/MensRights17/06/25 06:02 PM
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Thanks for the homework!!
/r/MensRights10/06/25 09:17 AM
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It has NOT always been this way. At least, not in practice. The dynamics you describe have been. No argument whatsoever. The 80-40 rule was always there. That said, there were societal guardrails that kept this dynamic in check--at least as much in check to have a functioning society. And this was not unique to one particular society. Every high-functioning society has had stratified rules and restrictions on this kind of behavior--as early as written language could describe it. I also agree on …
/r/MensRights05/06/25 05:27 PM
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Damn right it is dismissive. If you toss yourself away, you've done the dismissing. I'm just reading the article in the newspapers that recaps the crime. We all have drives. I have the drive to eat fast food, chase bad (but oh so succulent) women, and screw like money came out of my ass everytime I did it. Guess what? I must master my urges. Full stop. (I'm also learning that a LOT of men never got this sort of advice from their fathers, uncles, and grandfathers. Most of what I hear is woman wor…
/r/MensRights05/06/25 03:03 PM
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Then that person's parents failed them. Full stop. We were raised to be productive and use our talents to the fullest (and hopefully make some dough while improving our communities and country at large). We were raised to be good men and to help other young people develop into upstanding men and women. We do that by modeling these behaviors. Should young people fall under our care (parents, teachers, etc.)? We model and transmit these behaviors and values. All of the men I remember had cars or b…
/r/MensRights05/06/25 02:54 PM
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If your validation and purpose is based around a woman, that’s the first mistake.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 08:28 PM
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It’s shaming language that too many men are still susceptible to.
/r/MensRights04/06/25 02:11 PM
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What are you’re desired outcomes for your child(ren)? Think of them as adults. What do you want to give them that carries into their 49s?
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/25 04:04 PM
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Good mom!
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/25 07:40 PM
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And that’s super hard to do when we have built up a fantasy version of this perso.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 07:30 PM
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Same way you lived before her. The feelings are normal, BTW. Therapy, exercise, and avoiding bad stuff. That will form a solid base for moving on.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/25 07:02 PM
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OP said every time he hears about her past, his heart breaks. Why? Because he has built a pedestalized picture of the woman beforehand.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 05:53 PM
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Hakimi?
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/25 05:50 PM
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If you come across one? Do NOT allow her to leech your time. If your intentions are romantic? Pop smoke and extract the moment you realize that she does not share the same feelings. I’m not saying to be rude or untoward. I AM saying that you shouldn’t waste your life on her at that point. She is not entitled to your time, nor will your time somehow “win her over”. Protect your time. There is no more valuable resource on earth.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 05:45 PM
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I think 5% is aggressive as an overall number. You make an incredibly high estimation on my SMV. That said? There is a (disturbingly high) percentage of women who are about that 5%. No one can argue with you here.And yes, it is growing.
/r/MensRights27/05/25 05:41 PM
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Some of that comes with kids. I’m generally grizzled, but many of the thing you mention try to squeeze a tear. It’ll be a part in a movie or an old song that I loved, but you immediately get hit with the sadness that “those days are gone forever, over a long time ago”. I’m on TRT (and That said, do a hormones panel at your next doctors appointment. Just to be sure. Part of it is that you’re likely Dadding right. You’re thinking and feeling. The other part? You’re getting old and soft. Luckily, y…
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/25 12:43 AM
1

OP: My old man was a ruffian and a poet. He never went to university, but was extremely well-read. Yet, he spent years in lumber camps in places like Medicine Hat. As a result, he gained wisdom from hard men who lived through generations of hard times. Throughout the years, he threw out a ton of (not very politically correct) advice. I ignored a lot, as most young men do. But as we age? That shit surfaces like last nights' whiskey. One of his favorites? "Son, you're still a young man until 35. H…
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/25 02:19 PM
1

No more of a nightmare than any other time in human history. The stories my grandparents told us about the Great Depression, WWI, WWII, and the Dust Bowl make all of this seem like nothing. That said? Under the current family court ruleset? You ain't 100% wrong. I'm pro-fatherhood and pro-family. But until they fix family courts, I cannot fault any man for acting rationally.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/25 02:11 PM
7

Yup. Unless OP believes that he is the first and only one to go through this shit. OP's focusing on the man. But unless that guy forcibly made her do all those things? He doesn't want to address the true culprit. If he "gets rid" of this new guy, the ex will somehow turn into the rainbows and sugar cookies fairy and all will be rosy? Fuck no! She's gonna go our and get some other dude. OP: She's gone man. Letting her destroy you mentally and spiritually is a pure victory for her. Do not allow it…
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/25 02:08 PM
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Neo-indigenous Americans? Correct. Overwhelmingly so. Everyone else from immigrant stock? Not so. But the question is moot without knowing your vitals. Height, weight, body fat. In today’s market, if any are below standard? Dock 2-3 years off that acceptable age difference.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/25 10:04 PM
3

Do you really want the long story? ADC (now TANF), Title IV-D, a certain feminist lobbying group, the rise of Divorce Incorporated/Wicked Family Courts after no-fault was passed.... Those are your bigger driver for the weaponization of marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/25 07:48 PM
1

The only way this will end is if women begin to feel this pain. Sucks, but that's reality. That said, if you think this can end with the goodwill of women? I have a beautiful Florida property to sell you in the picturesque swampland of Pahokee.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 05:55 PM
0

That's bordering on shaming language. I get what you're saying. I do. However, family courts are a slugfest that will rob him at the first opportunity. Also, his ability and means to father his children are what's at stake. If you're going to war for your kids and someone offers you a SAW or a M9 pistol, whatchoo gonna take? All that pride and honor bullshit means ZILCH in a fight that is highly stacked against fathers. Use that as leverage to negotiate a fair settlement that (again) protects yo…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 05:54 PM
3

Hyper-respectfully? You're in denial at this point. ETA: I say this not to rub it in, but to try and begin the "cold water to the face" you're going to need if divorce is in the cards. I'm damn sorry this happened to you remarriage, brother. But the quicker you get your head in the game, the easier this process will be.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 05:48 PM
6

Female cop, nurse, flight attendant. -EV
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/25 05:47 PM
9

“What’s your favorite TV show, darlin’?” “Gunsmoke!”
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 09:22 AM
5

Exactly the way you have to take it. Position before submission.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 11:15 PM
1

Knowing they'd be co-raised by that kind of woman? That's where your anxiety needs to spike the hardest.. At that point, you're knowingly throwing your kids into the fire.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 10:54 PM
1

At the current state of the contract with the state? Both contracts have -EV.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/25 10:53 PM
1

Once you get back on your feet, buy a copy for the next man who is suffering
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/25 04:04 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men07/04/25 02:25 PM
0

Eh. If she’s truly interested , she’ll propose alternative days on her own.
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/25 04:08 AM
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You just named one thing that is ephemeral at best and another thing that men care nothing about. Money doesn't benefit us one bit, so we don't care. Do you think a Western woman is going to share that with you? On top of that, money makes a lot of Western women absolutely insufferable (if not tyrannical). As for beauty? Big deal. That's a commodity like pork bellies or bananas. Every country has beauty. It's table stakes. Are they cooperative, friendly, modest, and raised by a strong, masculine…
/r/MensRights04/04/25 05:28 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 02:00 PM
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It comes out of my mouth because I operate in reality instead of the way I wish the world to be. I WISH it was the way you're describing. But it ain't. The power of the vagina is stronger than almost anything you can imagine. Definitely so when it comes to some other guy. That's reality. STOP TRYING TO CUT, ABRIDGE, TAKE AWAY FROM, WIPE OUT, ERASE, MITIGATE, WATER DOWN the actual father's influence in their life. The mother did that and IS doing that. You ignoring this is quite telling.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 07:41 PM
6

It removes accountability and agency. Basically makes them responsible for nothing.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 07:35 PM
5

StrongEST in women
/r/MensRights02/04/25 07:33 PM
5

They're batting above .500 lately when it comes to teachers abusing students. Nearly every story that involves a teacher raping their students seems to be a female teacher.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 07:31 PM
1

I hate to say this, but she doesn't seem to care. She does not like men at this point.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 07:29 PM
8

and agency.
/r/MensRights02/04/25 07:29 PM
2

as any normal functioning man would defer (If he's living with another man's kids) to their actual father. No. Most "normal functioning" men will defer to their mate/wife. He doesn't give a rip about OP past the point that his ex does. Strange things happen when some men start having sex with a new woman, most feel the need to want to conquer everything regarding the relationship, including kids that aren't even his. There's nothing at all strange about it. THAT'S WHAT THE MOTHER WANTS!!! We cou…
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 07:16 PM
5

Who cares? Is it helping your daughter? Could this place her in a position for scholarships? Too many stepparents lead their kids into foul behaviors, promiscuity, drugs, and worse. This evil sumbitch is leading her deep down the path of..softball. Your ego is hurt. As is natural if you’re a good, caring, involved Dad. Good! These feelings mean that you give a shit. At the same time? Reality is reality. You don’t have to like him or the situation. But it looks like you have an unforeseen ally in…
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 02:02 PM
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But statistically, the two are neither equal nor the same. The estrogeneous“logic” that says exceptions disprove the rule is irrelevant to men (and frankly the world). Most of us ended up here by following emotive thinking. “I can fix her” and “ she’s different” are tropes grounded in “B-b-but not alllllll” feelings. We deal in reality’s language of data and probability (as opposed to anecdotes and possibilities).
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/25 10:45 AM
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Sigh.... You understand that men generally deal in probabilities and not possibilities, correct? If 80% of Skittles gave you tummy trouble, would it be logical to base your movement off the 20%?
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 10:53 PM
3

Don't feed the trolls.
/r/MensRights31/03/25 04:22 PM
3

You put yourself there. Throughout thus process, you will need to become intimate with harsh truths. May as well start now.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/25 10:30 AM
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Never attribute to maliciousness that which can be attributed to laziness.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/25 10:22 AM
2

... je ne sentirais pas mon enfant en sécurité à sa présence !!! D'accord. C'est vrai!!!
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 01:43 PM
2

If she feels "trapped"? You're absolutely right. She won't be a great mom. She's about having fun. OP should let her go have fun elsewhere if she does not find enjoyment in the glorious duty of parenting.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 01:36 PM
4

More about that last bit. The men who pedestalize them and allowed bad behavior share a piece of the blame.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 02:16 PM
3

Resonate with one of those for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 02:04 PM
0

You’re soooooo close. Inches away.
/r/Divorce_Men19/03/25 02:03 PM
1

"Being vulnerable" is not the cause (and actually causes more problems for men). We are NOT the same.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 02:41 PM
2

If you can't manage to pull a 5-lb trigger on a 16-gauge, life may be too complicated for you after all.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 02:40 PM
1

No one is saying it is a "competition". We're saying that the two are not equal.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 02:39 PM
2

Two kinds of troubles in this world. Living...and dying.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 02:38 PM
1

Attempts are cries for help. It's 2025. Morbidly speaking, anyone who can't push a goddamned button ain't at all serious about the affair.
/r/MensRights10/03/25 02:38 PM
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A woman can turn you into a millionaire. (But only if you were first a billionaire)
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/25 02:06 PM
7

Alimony has nothing to do with children.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/25 02:05 PM
2

As long as you understand that family courts care not about any of that. Who is the highest earning spouse that the state can extract money from? Family courts care not about contributions unless they can steal them.
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/25 01:42 PM
5

You think so? One does not have to sign the government slavery contract to have the government come after you. Having kids is enough.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/25 04:14 PM
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No it isn’t. You’re just being all teste about it. I was wondering if someone had the smarts to make a cas deferens crack. Way to study hard in A&P!!
/r/MensRights06/03/25 04:12 PM
1

Christ. The superhighway was Hitler's idea and Pol Pot drank fucking water. Doesn't mean I'm going to reject either because of who delivered it.
/r/MensRights04/03/25 10:40 PM
3

What you have seen is not in-line with the rest of the population's reality. The Duluth Model is evidence enough.
/r/MensRights04/03/25 10:39 PM
14

Many of us have hit the "Y'know what? Fuck this!" phase.
/r/MensRights04/03/25 10:37 PM
3

Fair.
/r/MensRights04/03/25 10:36 PM
1

Sell it and buy yourself something nice.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 10:10 PM
1

Wow. That's low down.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/25 10:10 PM
2

I don’t care for it, but I also saw how incredibly difficult it is to change one’s name. She ain’t got my blood, so we at least know that. Otherwise? If a (wo)man wants to be called Muhammad Ali? Respect her wishes and call her Muhammad Ali. (Behind her back though? If her mama named her “Clay”, I’m gonna call her Clay!)
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/25 01:21 PM
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All discussion does not have to be some grand, "human rights" topic. One of the reasons to avoid is how family courts currently work. That's worth discussion here, as father's rights and stepfather's rights (along with family court reform) are indeed Men's Rights issues.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 04:45 PM
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FLEE
/r/MensRights25/02/25 04:44 PM
20

Terrible plus five.
/r/MensRights25/02/25 04:43 PM
0

Brother... Do you think you're the first one here who let the lonely, weepy heart and the thirsty little pee-pee filibuster their way into ignoring all those red flags? It's tough, nasty medicine, but that person is partially correct. Yes, she is a POS. 100% sounds that way from your description. No arguments there and I'm sorry you and your child are having to face this. That said, the road to recovery starts with introspection. That may be realizing that "Eh, that [behavior or red flag] won't …
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 03:57 PM
1

Dumber than a bucket of shit with no handle dumb.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 02:26 PM
2

And some of these responses are blind to many of the realities of the current dating environment—particularly if OP lines in a “metropolitan” city. But forget that aspect. Don’t drill down to ask questions. Pile on OP. That’s the move!!! /s
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 07:42 PM
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Loading up the ammo for a night hog hunt! My Valentine’s Day ritual is giving my kids gifts and having morning cocoa. Afterwards, a nice warm bath with unscented candles and a self-loving scrub of ScentKiller soap and shampoo before unwrapping a bouquet of .300 Win Mag flowers and a heart-shape box of 10mm as a backup. Electric socks, thermal scope, and nothing but the peaceful meditation of the night woods. No bitching, no complaining, no craving the company of anyone. Meditating on everything …
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/25 07:34 PM
3

That should work too! (Apologies to the good folks at the olde Springfield Armory)
/r/MensRights04/02/25 07:39 PM
1

Six of one…
/r/MensRights04/02/25 11:35 AM
6

Nothing short of 45-70…
/r/MensRights04/02/25 11:32 AM
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So, let's pretend you are Trump (or any other President). How will you, as POTUS, convince the states to give up the millions of dollars in "subsidies" that they receive from the federal government? Once you've answered that, then question number two is "How will you convince lawyers and judges (the most effective collective lobbyist group on earth) to willingly torpedo the most profitable racket since the pet rock and kiss $50B goodbye? Answer those two questions and the problem is fixed. This …
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 07:03 PM
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We tried the policy of appeasement and "looking good". How's that approach worked out so far? There are mechanics of modern dating that are real. Calling them out may make someone feel uncomfortable ("optics"), but that's generally because they're on the shit end of the ol' problem-solution axis. Nothing said here is incorrect. If so, logically call out the inaccuracies. If it isn't some knee-knocking, few-wings-based, emotive position? You'll probably teach someone a thing or two.
/r/MensRights31/01/25 06:41 PM
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I know plenty. However, they aren't your neo-indigenous white or black Americans. They're immigrants who don't play that. Shit, most of my Mexican colleagues and friends stand knee-high to a cat's ass in height. And they're pretty much all married or in relationships. Same with my Asian men.
/r/MensRights31/01/25 06:37 PM
4

Honor?!?!? Zero BRAINS.
/r/MensRights31/01/25 06:35 PM
3

That A. Lange & Sonne Model 1 ain't gonna pay for itself, pal...
/r/MensRights31/01/25 06:33 PM
1

It ain't after they're DIVORCED. Until then....?
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 07:10 PM
3

Yep. Your turn has ended.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 03:48 PM
1

This is life or death. Literally for some men, given the possible consequences.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 09:34 PM
2

Best move in this case? If it means that much to her? Cool! Let her wear exactly what she wants. OP should NOT make a fuss. Instead? He should grab a radio and say the magic words: "Steel Rain, this is Sierra Tango Bravo X-Ray. QUICK SMOKE. Grid UG086304. Over. Hoe Line 150 meters, 1200. Duration 9 minutes. Over." You'll hear the friendly voice say something like, "Shot out." At that point, gather your things and slip out the back, Jack or hop on the bus, Gus. Egress, leave her for the streets, …
/r/MensRights28/01/25 09:26 PM
1

It looks like I have two German shepherds wrapped around my legs and have Buckwheat in a headlock. Should I go ahead and buy pink hair dye now?
/r/MensRights28/01/25 08:52 PM
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Fuck!!! I think I'm a feminist, then!!!!
/r/MensRights28/01/25 08:35 PM
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Shows the true colors. Violence and ill-will are at her core.
/r/MensRights28/01/25 08:34 PM
2

Aposematism.
/r/MensRights28/01/25 08:33 PM
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Not likely. They're likely male-dominated because <GASP> men and women are different on average and enjoy different things. Your company tried to engineer biology, which always fails. Sack every idiot involved with that decision and apologize. I know it won't happen, so the answer is likely, "You can't." In traditional male-dominated fields, showing those stats and saying "Y'all dun goofed. Up your game!!!" would be sufficient. However, the concepts of agency and accountability isn't exactly sym…
/r/MensRights28/01/25 08:01 PM
3

The biggest mistake men make is attempting to apply our templates of logic and fairness onto a woman and expecting even somewhat of a fit... But yes. I know what you mean. Logically, I would expect the same. But... The quicker men realize that we aren't the same, the faster the peace cometh.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 05:10 PM
1

That last sentence contradicts the first.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 04:59 PM
1

Step one to heal: Get the hell off social media. For most men (especially those in the stage you're in), that shit is cancer-flavored poo-poo. As you yourself have said, the effects are more negative than positive. Do you have children?
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 11:28 PM
1

How old?
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/25 04:21 PM
1

We have shared debt payments of about $4,000/mo from our life together that is all on me. Why????
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 06:59 PM
2

How do you know they post on social media? (This is a koan)
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 06:38 PM
1

Hahaha! Great analogy!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 06:05 PM
3

Better yet? Don't place your self-esteem and sense of being in "the hole". Get off the booze, get fit, and beat the guy who first got married. Become a better version of him. It's gonna take hard work, therapy, and humility. But you can do it.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 05:58 PM
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Once Nike started charging over 100 bucks for Chinese plastic and pedestrian leather? I quit buying those shoes. Instead of focusing on the marketplace, perhaps an examination of the goods is in order...
/r/MensRights24/01/25 05:47 PM
1

I'd be as felonious as Billy the Kid.
/r/MensRights24/01/25 05:42 PM
2

You shouldn't really be trying to ingratiate yourself with the Mawmmmy crowd anyway..
/r/MensRights24/01/25 05:31 PM
0

I completely get OP's point. Cheating at least gives you a focal point for the feelings. You have a clear villain and a justified reason to be hurt and upset. The fizzle is what catches so many men and puts them in a permafunk. It seems irrational or even impossible to some. They're left with a feeling of "why???" that likely will never be answered. Different kinds of hurts for sure.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/25 05:25 PM
3

No such thing as a woman being involuntarily celibate. Google 'Pig Woman Experiment" for proof. InSpin is the female equivalent, as the SMV and genetic imperatives are completely different.
/r/MensRights24/01/25 05:22 PM
2

Same as 'racist' or 'creepy' or 'Nazi' these days.... Nothing to do with the meaning. It simply means "something I don't like and isn't dancing to my tune" They have bastardized these words beyond the meaning (as 'incel' means "involuntarily celibate"
/r/MensRights24/01/25 05:21 PM
10

But not symmetrically due to the degree of difficulty variance.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/01/25 04:08 PM
3

And men without the ability to tell them 'no'.
/r/MensRights23/01/25 08:02 PM
8

Feminists NEVER wanted equality. If they did, the suffragettes would have fought for the equal RESPONSIBILITIES that came with the right to vote. Feminism has always been a push for asymmetric treatment and asymmetric rights without all of the corresponding responsibilities.
/r/MensRights23/01/25 08:01 PM
0

On the sexual marketplace? It most definitely is. Make no mistake. On the sexual marketplace? A man's value is defined by his ability to provide resources. The difference? You don't hear us crying over it.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/01/25 03:01 PM
2

I’d say they know more about biology than the group that told us that men can give birth.
/r/MensRights23/01/25 10:53 AM
1

You think you're not gonna get judged in Sweden?
/r/MensRights21/01/25 08:20 PM
1

Men have the same pressures regarding family. Particularly so as he moves up in the work place. As for being judged? We're all judged by the older and peers. No real thing unless your goal is to be a bum or tart all about the place. Then guess what? Though allowed in a free country, neither path moves society forward. Both are hedonistic and selfish paths. Again, you're more than free to take either path (and I wouldn't want to live in a world where you couldn't). But this concept that "no one s…
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:43 PM
2

Men don’t have to be hyper vigilant about their surroundings in fear of being raped when they’re “out and about” at clubs or whatever. The data disagrees. Men are overwhelmingly higher victims of violent crime. The IWB holster and defensive blade industry aren't built off the backs of women.
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:37 PM
2

eh, Society? No. eh, Gravity!!! I've been to bra-resistant countries where, by 39 years of age, many-a-woman is kicking 'em when she walks. If you're fine with pa-pa titties* down to your kneecaps, then this is no concern. Otherwise, bras fight math: F = (G * m1 * m2) / d^2 - m1 is the teat. m2 is the earth. *ECOWAS regional slang for "slipper titties"
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:35 PM
1

What superficial burdens are you referring to?
/r/MensRights21/01/25 06:27 PM
0

Not punished your whole life for having children. Put the problem exactly where it is. Punished for intentionally raw dogging the wrong one. Step one. Stop raw dogging or get a vasectomy if your discipline and self-control isn't strong enough to perform the former. This isn't a joke, brother. This is life-changing, life-killing money and legal ramifications. All because "no condom" feels good???? I'm 1000)% with you that the system is totally fucked. But YOU are the one responsible for who you b…
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/25 07:17 PM
3

The biggest mistake men make is to apply their templates of logic, thinking, and behavior onto women. We are not the same.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 05:41 PM
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Your turn has ended.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/25 05:39 PM
1

Liberals: Fuck men!!!!
/r/MensRights17/01/25 05:37 PM
2

Huzzah!!!!
/r/MensRights17/01/25 05:37 PM
1

Correct. Because the average adult chimp would kickfuck us into next week...after ripping our faces off.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/25 05:19 PM
2

In case someone wants methodology for one such study, here ya go....
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/25 05:08 PM
1

Let's not sugarcoat the headline: Eagles fan acts like an Eagles fan and abuses another fan. She was a Packers fan, for goodness sake. Calling her a "fucking whey-smoking cheesehead" would have gotten the point across. Right or wrong, 'cunt' is similar to 'ni**er'. Unless you drink a lot of tea and cook bland food, 'cunt' in North America is uttered right when the left hook is connecting OR when the Uber is driving off. It's not particularly a close-quarters word unless you want some SERIOUS smo…
/r/MensRights17/01/25 03:42 PM
4

You're right. The left has become the party of rich elitist liberals. The whole "only people on the right are rich" trope ended with tech bros.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 03:10 PM
1

I live in the South now and frequently drive Atlanta's I-285. I'm VERY familiar with the word. My point stands. They'll rubberneck over a Ferrari before a rock jaw. We are not the same.
/r/MensRights17/01/25 02:48 PM
2

I didn't mention evolutionary adaptation. In fact, I specifically mentioned societal standards. So despite the same "evolving together" we saw incredibly divergent paths. And yes, I agree with the buckling down on adversity together. I always have. But the a disturbing of women who are left to choice are choosing another path. And yes, those are social drivers. Yet, few have the stones to have an honest path about that. as agency and accountability are utterly terrifying for some.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/01/25 02:42 PM
1

There’s “loving” and buying shit for Valentine’s Day—a day for LOVERS, not the strawman of “people we love” I can love someone and not waste my resources.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 10:38 PM
0

However, a parallel path does not necessarily equal symmetric results. We are bit the same, nor are we held to the same societal standards. If you saw women charging from the trenches and braving mustard gas and machine gun fire in the Great War? Tell us about it. I've changed my mind before....
/r/EverydayMisandry14/01/25 10:31 PM
3

Enjoy your peace, brother.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/01/25 10:24 PM
3

There are also “monk” style MGTOW that will avoid women. Six year monk here. Logical, structured analysis was the reason. Nothing to do with "hating women" or "spite", or "my soggy knee". Between risk/reward, cost/benefit, and opportunity costs of time? Dating fails every single analysis for me. Being an involved Dad, saving for my endgame, exercising my body and brain, hobbies, and being involved with community and charitable activities are all 10000% more fulfilling and rewarding to me. Now, i…
/r/EverydayMisandry14/01/25 10:23 PM
2

It is when she has clearly demonstrated that she doesn't want you. My word. Self-respect, lads.
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/25 10:03 PM
7

Usually over resources. They don't want to marry doctors because they need fucking tutoring in organic chemistry. I promise you that.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 08:00 PM
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Women don't shut down male-only spaces. MEN shut down male-only spaces due to pressure from women and an inability to say "No!!!!" and ignore their ranting.
/r/MensRights13/01/25 07:56 PM
1

"initial here to decline anal..."
/r/MensRights13/01/25 07:53 PM
8

Political Science - The concentrations are International Security and Health Policy (with a few b-school classes this program allows me to take). That undergrad C minus in organic chemistry was just good enough, it seems.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/01/25 05:01 PM
16

I'm in grad school. The environment is hyper-feminized and ranges from neutral (at best) to outright hostile to men. ETA: It is merely an extension of K-8, where male teachers are virtually non-existent in the younger years and increasingly rare after 5th or 6th grade.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/01/25 04:26 PM
21

THANK YOU!!!!! Stop fucking caring, no matter what your dick says.
/r/MensRights06/01/25 07:54 PM
5

“Allowed” by whom? What the fuck are they gonna do? Mobilize an army? If you have the stones to say “no” and ignore the stomping of their little feet, no one can take it away from you. Too many men are slaves to wanting to be accepted by women. But many of us have the steely spines to stand our ground.
/r/MensRights05/01/25 11:06 AM
1

I’m more nervous around the men who allow it.
/r/MensRights03/01/25 05:59 PM
1

Survival of the fittest. If you aren’t fit? Gonna be a tough slog.
/r/MensRights02/01/25 04:48 PM
6

You did not get his point. When you hear the abusive ex story, stop fucking listening to your thirsty pee-pee and lonely, weepy heart. Flee, flee, flee!!!!
/r/MensRights24/12/24 05:52 PM
1

Why? I have every intention of keeping them so. Women have a pathological need to invade male spaces. Young men need a safe space to learn and develop among ourselves.
/r/MensRights24/12/24 01:03 PM
1

I’d rather lose the fantasy of a fabled “great woman” than the reality of everything I’ve worked for. Math isn’t your strong suit, is it? Because if it was, you would understand the difference between possibility and probability.
/r/MensRights24/12/24 12:58 PM
15

Problem avoided. Not solved, sadly.
/r/MensRights24/12/24 02:01 AM
3

Don't marry. Only way to be certain.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/24 07:17 PM
46

That in-group bias isn’t based on empathy as much as a self-preservation instinct. Safety in numbers.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 01:29 PM
6

Incel means INvoluntarily CELibate. I don tire think that’s the case here. These men are eschewing your pie in the sky fantasy in favor of a rational risk-reward analysis based on actual data and real-life data. The best thing a man can find in his life is the self-love and self-confidence not to need a woman. Your post is about how to treat her but not how she should treat him. This is exactly why men should avoid the current crop.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 12:57 PM
4

Yep. Murphy Brown era is when I saw a massive spike.
/r/MensRights21/12/24 01:50 PM
1

Just because you don’t know any, it doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Your experience doesn’t define the larger reality.
/r/MensRights20/12/24 04:57 PM
12

I'm more concerned with academic outcomes. Views on the other gender should be dealt with at home. My concern in schooling is an environment that fosters fair and focused education. What is your desired outcome? Rasing adults who have the tools compete against the global community or kum-bah-ya with women? Because guess what? You can raise your kum-ba-yahs. The moment they get hit with misandrist family courts? They'll chomp those red pills like M&Ms. But no one can take Calculus away from them.…
/r/MensRights19/12/24 05:01 PM
-2

Feminists created the rules? If I were you, I'd dig into your history books and Congressional record. And no one is stopping you from marrying. That "right" exists. You can marry at any time. Show us one mandate, law, statue, or otherwise that prevents you from marrying. I'll wait. It isn't marriage you have a problem with. It's the mechanisms that happen after the marriage terminates. Which legislators were responsible for this? I'm asking you a solid question here.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 04:56 PM
1

You couldn't be more wrong. SSS dot gov. Vietnam wasn't 10000 years ago. And the JCS were discussing contingencies if the Surge failed in the 2nd Iraq war. It very much exists.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 04:46 PM
11

This tracks with the national averages in the USA. And gaming the numbers like that reflects what happens in hyper-feminized environments without balance.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 04:35 PM
1

You can add USA to that list.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 04:30 PM
1

Asking the right questions. Bravo!
/r/MensRights19/12/24 04:30 PM
-9

Hold them accountable for what, exactly? Playing by the stated rules of the game? Because guess what? The rules are written in paper and free for all to read. If you decide to play after reading them, that's on YOU. But you can't get mad at people for jaywalking if jaywalking is perfectly legal and stated in the rules. And if you don't understand "ANYTHING" in my comment, you may not be mature enough for adult relationships.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 04:29 PM
12

Sure. But to be fair? They're playing the game as the game was designed. The ONLY way things will change is if the rules and parameters change. As for the ones that sing the praises of marriage? As MGTOW monk as I am, I also understand that some married couples actually work for both. Survivorship bias is a thing, but if something works for a couple? It works. Full stop. In the end? You're still mad about the system (as most of us are). To your point, the system places SIGNIFICANT pressure even …
/r/MensRights19/12/24 04:18 PM
3

But what happens when only one group faces something? How can you NOT focus on stopping discrimination on one side? Make your comment make some sort of sense.
/r/EverydayMisandry19/12/24 04:07 PM
69

Elementary school is hyper feminized in the US. We're talking 90% of teachers. I'm older tha man here, but when I grew up, there was WAY more of a balance. Now? Elementary education is filled with women who get angry when boys don't act like girls. I'm very much a fan of segregated schools until a balance returns.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 02:46 PM
26

My latest philosophy is "Don't Hate the Playa, Hate the Game". We must hold the government accountable for creating such a system.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 02:39 PM
1

Is it the gym or the actual lifting of weights?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/24 06:55 PM
3

Toooooooooooootally off topic here. I had no idea they could screen for congenitive heart failure that early. Nor have I ever heard of "Maple Syrup Urine Disease". Wow. TIL
/r/MensRights17/12/24 04:33 PM
2

It's not about "not voting for a woman" It's about "not voting for a woman who was so shitty of a candidate, she placed absolute last in her own primaries the previous term. It's about not voting for a woman who refused to answer a straight question and fled from the press so she wouldn't have to discuss her positions" You sound like one of the numbskulls who thinks "qualified" is enough. Hell, she was barely that. I know you think a vagina bestows some magical power, but it doesn't. 'Qualified'…
/r/MensRights17/12/24 03:45 PM
3

PKU, Tay-Sachs, Sickle-Cell.... It happens already today.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 03:42 PM
30

More like "want to flee from any agency and accountabiity)
/r/MensRights17/12/24 03:41 PM
10

This take is dumber than a bucket of shit with no handle. Especially so if you understand policy. The weaponization of Title IV-D and feminist drives like preventing family court reform and shared parenting are performed EXCLUSIVELY by the left. The NOW, the largest feminist organization, spends millions fighting against mandatory DNA tests, family court reform. Guess who their funders and benefactors are? Hint: Not Republicans. And no, there does not need to be a database. You take the test. It…
/r/MensRights17/12/24 03:41 PM
44

If they are banned, MGTOW is pretty much the only way to be safe.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 03:37 PM
31

If the goddamned media would stop making celebrities out of these fucks, there would be far less incentive.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 02:41 PM
7

If it's up and you want it down? Put it down. If it's down and you want it up? Lift it. It's not some Herculean strongman activity where I'm lifting a 200 lb boulder onto a platform. Nor do you require NVGs (NODs for you younger folk) to figure it out.
/r/MensRights16/12/24 08:16 PM
6

Yep. 100% legal. There are even taxpayer-funded vehicles to allow for abandonment.
/r/MensRights16/12/24 08:14 PM
8

Violence.
/r/MensRights16/12/24 08:13 PM
1

I'm not sure I said a single aspect makes one a woman. If you want to wear dresses, fine! Vaya con Dios! I do not suggest that abiding by a single aspect makes you a woman. That said? Dresses are traditionally and historically associated with women in Western culture. Just like makeup, stiletto high heels, fishnet stockings, and bras. All of the "we should have no rules" sentiments on earth do not change this. Should a woman choose not to wear these (or a man choose to wear these)? Fine. Live yo…
/r/MensRights16/12/24 05:57 PM
1

I just love Hedobot that much.
/r/MensRights14/12/24 07:52 PM
12

She has the choice to be on several types of birth control or have a hysterectomy. So what?
/r/MensRights14/12/24 07:43 PM
2

Trump's win pretty much gave them justification. That said, I DO agree with you that the laggards (read: corporate cowards) finally came around when it was politically safe to do so. You're not one bit wrong about that.
/r/MensRights13/12/24 06:50 PM
0

Sadly, that's a hard thing for many men. They think the policy of appeasement is the way to acceptance. How has that strategy worked out so far?
/r/MensRights13/12/24 06:48 PM
1

Suicide "attempts"? Stop. We're days away from 2025. This ain't '29 when people scrounged and scraped for string and bits of metal. I hate to be macabre, but it's brutally easy to kill oneself. Even my old nanny state of Canada allows anyone to purchase a 12-gauge or take the stairs to the top of a skyscraper. An "attempt" is a cry for help. Often, it's a cry for attention. Barring those? It says, "I'm a simpleton who can't navigate the most basic of modern tools." People who genuinely want to s…
/r/MensRights12/12/24 02:58 PM
0

It doesn't work like that. I love my old man, but he knows fuck all about the brain and how it responds. Therapy is woman-centric. So stop trying to get your male problems solved by a woman.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 02:50 PM
2

Monk mode for over 6 years. Best decision I ever made.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 02:48 PM
1

Yeah, but the "engage less" still stands.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 02:47 PM
1

The problem is that many men can't throw off the brainwashing and buy into the "a female therapist will be more nurturing/intuitive/in touch with my feeling/some other nonsense. Then? They end up discussing foot pain with an earthworm. Therapy is quite beneficial when you're talking to someone who can relate and help you. Downvoting someone for asking if OP considered therapy is exactly why men suffer.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 02:47 PM
8

Why let something stupid like lethality get in the way of a good chance to virtue signal?
/r/MensRights12/12/24 02:39 PM
36

From what I hear, that place is overrun like India.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 02:37 PM
8

As well as child support. Don't feel one bit bad over taking it, for it does two things: It can be used for good schools now or later. Accepting it ultimately abolishes the child support racket. When enough women get hit with it, they'll put an end to it.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 02:36 PM
1

And that point is?
/r/MensRights12/12/24 11:55 AM
3

Uhhhh no. It's the way the world works. Public companies are controlled by shareholders. Other people's money. Other people's decisions. Private universities depend largely on donors. Other people's money. Other people's decisions. Small private institutions rely on outside donors, grants, etc. Other people's money. Other people's decisions. An organization funded solely by it's members and their own revenue (or simply in no one else's "pocket")? Your money. Your decisions. If you don't understa…
/r/MensRights12/12/24 01:23 AM
3

Claiming to be about equality, yet fighting to be free-riders.
/r/MensRights12/12/24 01:19 AM
-4

Not "if you have money" but "if you aren't controlled by someone else's money". It takes less than a cent to say "No."
/r/MensRights12/12/24 01:15 AM
1

Those things were in motion well before the election. Too many found the "go broke" side of the equation.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 08:09 PM
14

The State does a damn good job on its own.
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/24 07:14 PM
1

And those ancient civilizations are? By name?
/r/MensRights11/12/24 06:02 PM
2

And where are they now?
/r/MensRights11/12/24 05:55 PM
3

Wasn't even true outside of the US.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 05:45 PM
3

??? Soft GIRL lifestyle. This is what WOMEN are doing. It's a result of the smarter women realizing that men like you will stay away if there is no value prop in dating or marriage. Men simply won't play the game anymore.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 05:38 PM
4

You asked how everyone would react. That article outlines one such movement that is reactionary to the changes OP mentioned.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 05:34 PM
8

Already happening. Human nature is predictable.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 05:21 PM
20

And the Democrats who support it pretend that they don't know what's going on....
/r/MensRights11/12/24 05:20 PM
3

Because cultural norms, values, mores, and traditions state that dresses generally signal that "this is a woman." I lack the desire to be a trendsetter or a woman.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 04:48 PM
62

We already have such rights. Too many modern men have become too whipped to exercise them. As long as you're privately funded, you can make whatever men's/boy's club you wish. You simply have to have the stones to be able to tell the invaders 'no' when they try and destroy your organization through infiltration.
/r/MensRights11/12/24 04:45 PM
16

Harsh take here. Know who I blame here? It's in your second paragraph. Last sentence. There's a million places where I believe modern (radical) feminism has hurt society and men. However, men need to be able to utter the shortest sentence in the English language: "No." No court forced BSA to integrate. There were separate institutions. But the Girl Scouts organization wasn't half as good. So instead of fixing their own organization, they complained to be let into the BSA. I remember the original…
/r/MensRights11/12/24 04:43 PM
82

Model strong, positive masculinity, make zero apologies for strong positive masculinity, and do not compromise strong positive masculinity. It's like my idol Hedobot. When it comes to being a masculine father? I apologize for nothing! As for not passing on your beliefs, why not? YOU are the parent, not the school. You are the father. Not the mother. Get some help from a pro about the headspace. It's too important. Because yes, the hyper-feminized Western world is trying to purge masculinity (not…
/r/MensRights11/12/24 04:32 PM
1

Baking and reading are fundamental!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 07:58 PM
68

There's no virtue in this kind of suffering. However, the non-Christian half of the family's teachings apply here. Don't for a second think you can avoid suffering. You won't get a medal, but it is a large part of the human condition. - Heavy deadlifts or squats--particularly when you've taken some time off OR are going for a PR. - Reading dry white papers or painful man pages to understand a topic. - Cardio. - Going without eating ramen and living in a room just so you can save up for a paid-of…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/24 05:38 PM
1

What do you mean? Every single scene pictured will happen today.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/24 03:29 PM
3

Who else is gonna do 'em?
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/24 03:28 PM
4

The in-group bias is so strong, they wouldn't care. "We're all playing make-belive together!"
/r/MensRights10/12/24 03:18 PM
4

And doing more than the bare minimum. That's projection at its finest.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/24 02:56 PM
16

Sigh…yep. Usual suspects.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 02:33 PM
0

Student Loan Forgiveness. You're asking poor people and struggling blue-collar men to pay for affluent women's college. But what you tried is a pigeonhole strawman. I don't have to name a single policy to say know that one of the DNC's pillars is black women (who haven't voted less than 88% for a Dem candidate since LBJ). With such figures, one can easily use words of estimative probability instead of emotionally manufactured figures and terms. Given their asymmetric voting over black men, you'r…
/r/MensRights07/12/24 01:52 AM
3

Men care because of how quickly "civilians" jumped on that trend and rode it with glee. Not just the radfems. Not just the crazies. I'm talking about the ones who silently stood by in complicit approval whilst their more vocal sisters yelled "BEAR!!" from the top of their lungs. That wasn't a "matter" per se, but the cherry on top of the optical sundae that showed where we stand with most women. And yes, I say 'most' because the voices that should have spoken out (or at least called them nuts) w…
/r/EverydayMisandry06/12/24 09:23 PM
5

It isnt 1980. The She-N-C is the party of free shit for women and rich elites. They haven't given a shit about blue-collar workers (largely men) since Debbie and Donna took over.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 06:54 PM
8

I had the problem until about 7 or so. That first day back with me was like a "deprogramming" day. The theme? All of the little tricks and gadgets you use to make mom comply with YOUR program are useless here. The rules are simple and stated. Follow them for happiness, disregard them for unhappiness. Of course, they'd try to test it. Sometimes, there was kicking and screaming that first night. But by the end of the first night? They'd get the point and everything was cool. Then I'd hear they wou…
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/24 06:45 PM
24

At least Russian women provide some juice for the squeeze. The "sweatpants and house slippers" trend luckily hasn't infected Ivanlandia (yet).
/r/MensRights06/12/24 06:18 PM
0

Very few have to come home after an office job and soak.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 11:29 PM
3

I caught 30% of it! It wasn’t really at him. There are LOUD voices that skip the /s
/r/MensRights05/12/24 08:45 PM
1

(Bring out the Gimp...." *Cues Commanche
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 07:09 PM
18

I guess so. Who does all of the undesirable, dirty, dangerous jobs???
/r/MensRights05/12/24 06:30 PM
91

Victims?!?!?! They work fucking air-conditioned, comfy, safe DESK JOBS for the most part. Over half won't even cam the fuck up for internal meetings. How much easier do you want to make office work????? If you can't handle sitting in an Aeron running your mouth and typing, you don't need to be in the workforce next to men who die logging, working the oil sands, or risking balls and beaks up on a construction site. Until these numbers equalize, cry me a river.
/r/MensRights05/12/24 06:29 PM
2

One of my favorite words in the language next to komaru, and karoshi!!!! Good one!!!
/r/MensRights04/12/24 10:27 AM
-2

Ah... that must be it! Scotland Yard is definitely missing out, then. Perhaps even more than the village where you gained your local..notoriety. Tchuss!!!
/r/MensRights04/12/24 10:23 AM
-1

Read with nuance. The first half of the sentence is incorrect.
/r/MensRights04/12/24 09:12 AM
4

Look women have historically been property and systematically repressed that’s horrible. In the Western world? Bullshit. Absolute iron bullshit. They were repressed so bad, not a single one coughed a lung out of their asses from mustard and chlorine gasses in the trenches (in a war that they were drafted into). Being a housewife was not slavery. No more than the father that had to work in dangerous mines, factories, or construction sites to support his family. Y'know... the backbreaking jobs wit…
/r/MensRights03/12/24 10:03 PM
0

Exactly why the radical and not-so-radical feminists have improved their agenda by leaps and bounds, eh? You can be Alberto fucking Huygens-Fermi-Einstein. If you can't control your thirst (the combination of the thirsty pee-pee and the lonely, weepy heart), it doesn't matter. You may as well be the town idiot. Know your opponent. They're crafty and dangerous.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 09:56 PM
6

Call California Psychics. That's about as good as you're gonna get. Not sure what you want us to say. We don't know the guy, and <gasp> all divorced men aren't the same. None of us know him.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 09:52 PM
14

Men aren't the ones going full-regard "Meninism". We're speaking of the female response (or lack thereof) to radical feminism. Stay on target.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 09:48 PM
6

You said you hesitated. Why? Why did you ignore that voice? Little interest in exercise? Gets sloppy? Financial worries? Do you at least have a vasectomy or industrial-strength condoms?
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 09:47 PM
1

They should be moving heaven and earth to make YOU happy. If you feel uncomfortable over that, you probably shouldn't be dating yet.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 09:41 PM
24

The reality? Too many stayed silent in implicit approval whilst their “sisters” took the piss. They stayed silent and wagged nary a finger. At best? They muttered “everybody’s different, so I can’t judge’ or something like that.But overwhelmingly? Silence. No calling out the bad actors.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 08:02 PM
5

But the effects are coming to fruition NOW. I was in school 30 years ago. It was NOTHING like this.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 12:39 PM
6

Good heavens, yes. I thought it was all hot air until I re-enrolled for grad work.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 12:39 PM
3

Rights without the corresponding responsibilities, mind you. Never forget that one critical piece because it is essential. It was never about equality. Ever.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 12:36 PM
8

Only the POC who correctly bend the knee. An alarming number of progressives have uttered some equally alarming statements about the Hispanics who voted against Harris.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 12:34 PM
-7

Definitely not all Jezebels. That first half is nonsense.
/r/MensRights03/12/24 12:20 PM
7

There’s a reason you didn’t make with her. …and it’s still there.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/24 01:16 AM
4

What do YOU want? That’s what matters first
/r/MensRights02/12/24 07:40 PM
2

Yep. This right here.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/24 07:33 PM
3

Yeah, but most of that was spent on the home and necessities. Y'know..things that kept the wife "kept".
/r/MensRights02/12/24 03:39 PM
2

Go on.... (Straight male loving this glimpse behind the curtain)
/r/MensRights02/12/24 03:38 PM
1

Will she own a phone?
/r/MensRights02/12/24 03:37 PM
2

Because the ex-spouse is the subject here, believe it or not.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/24 03:36 PM
1

"eyed" is relatively gentle unless you speak that new jailhouse slang.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/24 03:35 PM
1

Yep. I’ve heard the saaaame story from many men. Exact same.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/24 02:40 PM
1

Was there no discussion about children early in the relationship?
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 08:04 PM
3

For all the above and other reasons, I'm basically about to give up on this marriage. We prioritized his needs early on in our relationships and I always thought that the implicit agreement was that things will change over time... I always thought... What was the discussion and agreement about moving and about kids? Specifically. Not what you THOUGHT. Not what you ASSUMED. What was actually said and agreed upon. together I'm going to ask this before I say my piece because there's a good chance I…
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 08:04 PM
19

You never invite them. The bad girl's profile is a series of disqualifiers. Instead of "message me," you tell them, "If you aren't all these, swipe left." You forgot the cherries on top: "My kids are my world." "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best." "Tired of the games" "No hookups."
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 07:04 PM
3

Wow! That's a helluva find. I'm definitely going to go over that with a fine-tooth comb over the holidays.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 04:21 PM
1

Same team Same Dream
/r/EverydayMisandry26/11/24 04:19 PM
3

Make sure you understand that it's about MALES being attacked. Do not let those bastards separate us!!!
/r/MensRights26/11/24 02:20 PM
24

I think the last election represented the first flames. I saw the spark as early as 2010. We're pretty much here already.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 01:27 PM
15

Black men can get together with a black lives matter banner Read the original mission statement (before Whitmer and KLB made them put up something more..palatable). BLM was never about black men. It simply used them as cannon fodder. When you omit men and fathers from your statements about family, your message is clear. Also, following the election? Black and white women have turned on them per usual. And Hispanic men? The same savior white women who were willing to lay down their social media l…
/r/MensRights26/11/24 01:26 PM
2

If you’re referring to me, you might want to check that post history. I stand by my position. Now…ask me when women mentally mature. 😉
/r/EverydayMisandry26/11/24 11:07 AM
2

As with everything, no?
/r/MensRights26/11/24 10:59 AM
2

Regarding the "lack the ability to reason" bit? Quod erat demonstrandum.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/11/24 09:52 PM
0

Stop using their language. "Transphobia" is the biggest crock in terms of language. If someone is against a race, they are....racist. If someone is against a gender (sex), they are...sexist. But the marketing teams got in front of things for the LGBTQ crowd and declared it 'phobia'. I'm afraid of a prime Mike Tyson. I'm afraid of the taxman. I fear God. I'm not scared of anyone or anything else. Definitely not homosexuals or trans people (who are simply people). Transist. Homoist. Sexist. Racist…
/r/EverydayMisandry25/11/24 09:51 PM
47

Here's a link with sources attached. Have fun.
/r/MensRights25/11/24 09:47 PM
12

See, THIS is how it's supposed to work. You walk in here hurting and then hurt. Afterward, you heal and then help other men to heal. Bravo!!!!!!! Glad you're seeing the other side of the tunnel. Thanks for being a brother.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/24 09:44 PM
134

The entire K-12 elementary system is toxic for males of any sort. On top of what you mentioned, male teachers face discrimination and suspicion (despite the abusers being overwhelmingly women). As our brothers see in nursing, women engage in their preferred form of violence in the workplace, which is career-harming gossip, social violence and ostracization, false accusations, and uttering the cowardly "I don't feel safe" anytime their views or accountability are challenged. To accommodate women …
/r/MensRights25/11/24 09:37 PM
1

35 if we want to be technical. 25 represents the bare minimum and 35 is when your "hara" is fully developed. Source: Age minimums for representative and president.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/11/24 08:39 PM
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Asymmetric "skin in the game". Do you know what triple s dot gov is? Betcha don't. There's a reason. Feminists talk about bodily autonomy and equal rights. Fine. I'm for both. However, only women have that sort of autonomy and also enjoy a right without the same responsibility that men carry and are held to. The right to vote was based on the responsibility of service. In economic terms, American women are "free riders" as they enjoy the right but do not share the responsibility. If you're a rad…
/r/MensRights25/11/24 08:26 PM
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Asymmetric treatment in family courts. The "tender years doctrine" is nonsense. Especially today. Every peer-reviewed study with proper sample sizes shows that a motivated father performs as good as a mother. When we look at outcomes? Fathers actually outperform. Yet, family courts screw fathers (and ultimately the children) by denying them equal access to each other. Guess which organization spent the most money fighting AGAINST shared parenting? Hint: It's the largest feminist organization on …
/r/MensRights25/11/24 08:17 PM
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I apologize, but I'm going to use your post as a bit of a case study. So there's my little story. I'm glad I had the brains and willpower to see between the lines and do a complete 180 and dip out before I got involved. Hay-Zeus kickdancing Christo. If more men had this bit of DNA in them, we'd be in much better spots. This is the Way. And you illustrated things perfectly. Lately she's been having a pretty rough time. Mainly her personal life, but, it has slowly effected her work life as well. S…
/r/MensRights25/11/24 02:40 PM
2

Gettin' while the gettin' is good.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/24 08:07 PM
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Correct. She didn’t cause you to break your AirPods. You chose to break them.
/r/MensRights24/11/24 11:40 AM
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No. It is NOT normal. This is why we had men's spaces and why they were so important. There's a video that I wish I could find. It was in a high school weight room, and one of the smaller guys was doing a clean-and-jerk Olympic lift. His teammates were shouting, yelling, and hyping him up as he navigated the weight. He stalled, and the guys got louder. When he finally hit it, everyone went apeshit. Here's a variant of the video I'm talking about. This happens in gyms and weight rooms across the …
/r/MensRights23/11/24 04:33 PM
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There are two sides to the coin. I frequent two subs that focus on divorced and single men. Many of them self-report lousing--up their marriages over gaming. By their description, they are in a proper addiction and chose gaming over familial duties (including Dadding). Sorry boys, but this is wrong. On the other hand? Replace gaming with classic cars, duck hunting, ship-in-a-bottle building, or other pastimes. Far too many women will take umbrage at anything that detracts from "meeeeeeeeeee". Be…
/r/MensRights23/11/24 02:44 PM
3

Where can I find one of these prostitutes filled with cocaine? Asking for a friend, of course.
/r/MensRights23/11/24 02:31 PM
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Don't be a sexist ass. Seriously, man. It's 2024. They're getting more than "Gender Studies" degrees. You're blatantly and disingenuously forgetting Communications, Lesbian Dance Theory, Wymyn's Studies, Native American Queer Literature, and the ever-popular Psychology (a.k.a. "Take out a loan to better understand my crazy"). Do better. I know you're capable of it.
/r/MensRights23/11/24 02:30 PM
13

What is the nick fuentas?
/r/MensRights23/11/24 02:26 PM
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I'm in year 6 of monk mode, so I mainly speak for other (younger) men. My life became incredibly carefree when I stopped chasing validation from women and instead myopically focused on my career, interests, and family. Younger men, however, see this in so many fundamental, tangible ways. Dating, for example, is one such arena. Though I'm past my 40s, I still lurk in younger spaces to understand the "pulse" of my fellow men. The dating environment for them is gruesome. Entitlement and "hoeflation…
/r/MensRights22/11/24 05:52 PM
5

They lie about everything else....
/r/MensRights22/11/24 03:36 PM
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Agreed. That said? The Internet is the new medium. Does it distort reality? Sometimes. Does it reflect reality? Sometimes. Does it drive reality? Regrettably, the answer is 'often'.
/r/MensRights22/11/24 03:33 PM
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Anytime!!!!
/r/MensRights21/11/24 07:09 PM
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"But the designers, architects, engineers, and planners are based in logic.." --NohoTwoPointOh (2024), page 1
/r/MensRights21/11/24 01:28 PM
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Agreed. But logic isn't their first go-to weapon. It's emotion. Even they will admit this.
/r/MensRights21/11/24 12:02 PM
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Coded into it FTFY
/r/MensRights21/11/24 10:07 AM
1

Hate for NO reason?
/r/MensRights21/11/24 09:49 AM
2

Everything but that first sentence.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/24 09:44 AM
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Most of the ones I meet who majored in psychology did so to try and understand their own crazy.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 11:14 PM
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Nothing in life is a guarantee. That’s an artificially high bar that smells of “well, I’m not PERFECT”. It’s sophomoric language meant to try and invalidate a point. Though it may not be a guarantee, there’s a thing called probability. In poker, your aces might get cracked three times in a row. In no fucking way does it invalidate the numbers. Out of 100 times, you will win eighty something. The last woman who genuinely put herself in a man’s position and experience killed herself. The male expe…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 11:12 PM
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Why are you seeing a female therapist anyway?!? I don’t consult snakes about high-heeled shoes…
/r/MensRights20/11/24 10:48 AM
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Stop. Enabling “foodie calls” screws it up for everyone. Don’t pay for shit until she’s earned it.
/r/MensRights17/11/24 11:47 AM
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Everyone forgets this bit.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/24 03:03 PM
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Very easy.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/24 03:02 PM
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/r/MensRights16/11/24 03:00 PM
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And I'm like nah, guys, she's way out of shape (6'1 300lbs) and is a total mess all of the time. Google 'Pig Woman Experiment'. You will NEVER make such an assumption again. The thirst is not only real, but insurmountable.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 05:54 PM
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You ignored my point completely.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 11:05 AM
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I’ve been monk for 6+ years and started following the movement since ‘09. MGTOW men aren’t born. They’re made. This is the error of your last sentence. You’re confusing the classic and literal definition of incel (INvoluntarily CELibate) with MGTOW (which is a conscious, deliberate choice and lifestyle). You mention “bad interactions”. Marriage (and the subsequent split) is a massive driver. How does a man get married? Walk us through it. This ain’t the third fucking world with forced marriages.…
/r/MensRights14/11/24 11:04 AM
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The fact that you threw “every” in there as an artificial qualifier shows the plane of your logic. If you don’t understand statistics, probability vs. possibility, or words of estimative probability? There probably isn’t much for you and I to discuss. Hint: Some humans are born with one leg. This fact in no way invalidates that humans have two legs.
/r/MensRights14/11/24 10:30 AM
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Those are basically 5 cent gumballs of benefits. Imagine not being able to sit around and peacefully think of absolutely nothing. Not being able to common tasks easily, knowing you can't defend yourself against half the population.... Nah. I'd take prison first.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 09:08 PM
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Not sure this level of granularity would happen on a date. That said, you don't want the woman who exploits the pyramid scheme. If they don't find it amusing? Good. you dodged a bullet. Remember. YOU are the prize here. You're qualifying her.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 09:06 PM
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Pretty much this. r stroke deadbedrooms is full of stories just like yours. The time I did date after divorce, I was fine mentioning it as a warning. A lot of women do the ol' bait and switch and I made it clear that a "no sex zone" was terminal.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/24 08:45 PM
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What you describe is nearly every country, not dystopian cyberpunk. Most of the world has some form of compulsory service. Even "let's hold hands" Sweden. And plastic surgery reflects developed country vanity (although, to your point, Korean men outspend American women on beauty products. Shiseido is making a kings fucking ransome over there). I saw fake tiddies during my last trip to West Africa. The only thing cyber about South Korea is cats dying from Starcraft. Otherwise, they're like so man…
/r/MensRights13/11/24 07:57 PM
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1000000000000000000000000000% It's exactly like Japan's herbivore men. Less MGTOW and more about seeing the Shinto-ethic drive their dads into heart failure, alcoholism, a sexless marriage, and an early grave via karoshi.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 07:54 PM
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Masculinity is used more there. It isn't demonized and treated as a wasting disease in these countries. Men don't bend the knee to every whim and refuse to say 'no'.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 07:49 PM
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It isn't hormones. It's being raised with no fathers and being raised in a society where no one tells them 'no'. How many men do you know with the stones to tell a woman 'no'? Probably not many. Accountability goes for both of us.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 07:48 PM
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MGTOW guys don't want to be chosen. And when you look at the movement, it's usually guys with something to lose from savage and misandrist family courts. Guys with something to lose are precisely who gets chosen. If you don't have shit, you're generally the first one to jump at a slavery contract.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 07:45 PM
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Just like feminism, that's EXACTLY what will happen. Why? Because so many women stayed silent in either complicit approval or cowardice when your batshit sisters tore everything up. The smart and brave ones will realize how that path worked out the last time and perhaps speak out against such women. The rest will get lumped into the masses. Sucks to hear, but...
/r/MensRights13/11/24 07:42 PM
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Equal rights, equal lefts.
/r/MensRights13/11/24 05:17 PM
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No it's NOT generic. Words mean things. Both of the terms are an established (albeit junky) set of principles. "Uniform of the cult". Yeah. I'm stealing this. It's about as concise as it gets!!! For humans, aposematism still applies. Frogs don't wear jackets or have hair dye kits, but the brightly colored warnings apply. Lime green hair? Beware. Piercings in the nose? Avoid those. I still like "uniform of the cult" the best, though...
/r/MensRights12/11/24 07:34 PM
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Yeah, I would pass on this if your reflexes or defensive skills are lacking. I'd even start the bob and weave as you're midway through the sentence.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 07:31 PM
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Cut out the middleman and ask her weight.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 11:15 AM
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Not quite. Physiognomy was based on immutable body characteristics. Beady eyes, sloped forehead, etc. septum rings, brightly colored hair, or camouflage caps fall into none of these categories or would even be considered in the junk science of physiognomy. The word you seek is Aposematism. All of the mentioned characteristics are elective styling choices meant to signal to others.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 12:47 AM
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Enjoy your Federal Massage!
/r/MensRights12/11/24 12:42 AM
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How has the policy of appeasement and bending the knee worked out for us so far?
/r/MensRights11/11/24 05:00 PM
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Or Ellen G. Ripley
/r/MensRights11/11/24 04:57 PM
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I love my black part of the trauma, often. Did your therapist address this piece?
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/24 08:27 PM
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“yellow Aryans” ring a bell? No. We’re seeing who the brown shirts would have been.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 10:51 AM
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Lethal injection.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 10:50 AM
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They don’t care. In-group bias is strongest among women. Ask this sub about mothers that totally fucked over their sons.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 10:48 AM
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They don’t care. In-group bias is strongest among women. Ask this sub about mothers that totally fucked over their sons.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 10:48 AM
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Tate has nothing to do with MGTOW.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/11/24 08:47 AM
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This take sounded crazier than a bucket of shit with no handle. At the very least, sexist and apologist. Why is denying all requests a “good decision “ by default? Why assume he isn’t capable of any of the things he asked for? Please answer this. As for the gender war? If the recent years (if not months) haven’t exposed this, not sure what will. Man vs Bear? The hashtag killallmen…. MGTOW didn’t grow out of a vacuum. Oh, and guess which activist group spends the most money and effort fighting fa…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/24 08:12 AM
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Monk doesn’t mean you can’t jerk. Of course I do. When abroad, I might even see a pro to clean out the pipes. But day to day? I’m the master of my genitals, not the other way around.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/24 09:17 AM
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No, you asked for data. There’s a piece. Logically refute the asymmetry or continue to display your disingenuousness.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 09:01 AM
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Your 1st paragraph declacribes the brown shirts to a tee. You may not like the association, but that’s exactly the state of mind that created the fascists. Considering you never heard several of the bad things they’ve said (including the “you ain’t black if you don’t know who to vote for,” or Obama’s “Nobody cares if you’ve suffered some discrimination “ line) there’s a decent chance that you have been getting your news exclusively from the same echo chambers that created these types. I PROMISE …
/r/MensRights07/11/24 08:58 AM
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sss.gov There’s your data
/r/MensRights07/11/24 02:16 AM
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Black male voters are the ones they hemorrhaged the most. To put it in perspective, slightly over 70% of black men voted for Harris (for a total of ~86% of the black vote). That's down from Obama and Biden getting between 95-92% of the total black vote, respectively. A drop of that size overall is notable. But the black male voters fell off the cliff. Can you blame them? The DNC's so-called plan to uplift them was "Hey you losers, here's some reefer, a Bitcoin wallet, and more loans to keep you …
/r/MensRights06/11/24 03:22 PM
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Policies over personality. Choosing the candidate the other way around is a feminized way of governance.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/24 11:54 AM
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Smart lads
/r/MensRights06/11/24 08:54 AM
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No, you can’t “always”. Once it is set, most states loathe giving up that juicy Title IV-D money. Many have 2-year waiting periods.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 09:48 PM
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Not a bad idea, given the timelines.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 09:46 PM
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Exercise. I’m going on 6 years of monk mode. Burpees kill any craving. As does meditation.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 09:39 PM
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This is the same party that created the “Deadbeat Dads” narrative (and bill) for votes and as a welfare recovery program. Forget that the real homewreckers are the ones who initiate ~80% of divorces and are the gender least likely to pay ordered child support.
/r/MensRights05/11/24 09:23 PM
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Some things never change
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 01:10 AM
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The Democrats have proved time and time again to NOT be on the side of black men. LBJ ring a bell?
/r/MensRights03/11/24 08:43 PM
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They demonized black men when LBJ broke up the black family for votes.
/r/MensRights03/11/24 08:41 PM
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I returned to defense for precisely this reason. When someone would screw up, we'd call you a glazed fuck up. Everyone would laugh and pitch in to help fix the problem. In meetings, "horse shit" was frequently uttered when a figure or fact was seriously off base. It was always aimed at the figure and never the person. We all understood this. Try that shit in a feminized environment. By and large, women suck fun, enjoyment, relaxation, and organic camaraderie the fuck out of the male workplace. I…
/r/MensRights03/11/24 01:56 PM
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/r/MensRights02/11/24 10:40 PM
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This IS the way.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 12:36 PM
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And so what if you are? What scares you more ? Losing her or being alone?
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 12:04 PM
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Stop having girlfriends. More pickles.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 11:58 AM
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Men who were raised in male spaces get this regularly. The problem is the erosion and voluntary surrender of these male spaces.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:58 PM
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Nonsense. It isn’t 1254 or even 1854. Childbirth is infinitely safe in the developed world. Every statistic proves this and refutes your hysterical, emotive position. There’s no burden when you put the baby in a box and dip. Nor is there a burden when you have the abortion upon which your sisters base their entire political platform. Carrying a child is voluntary. Women are the only ones without a forced burden. Men have no such luxuries. It’s 1 if 2 places where debtors prisons exist.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:49 PM
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The team is a component of a company. Do you think teams operate on vacuums? Serious question.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 05:43 PM
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but I know if I say anything about it I'll immediately get mocked or ridiculed. And? We've got to stop letting that control our behaviors. Because guess what? You'll get mocked for whatever you do. Wear it with honor and pride.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:03 PM
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InSpins. No such thing as a femcel.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:02 PM
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Because of the attention they get from men who enjoy anime. That much power corrupts absolutely.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 04:02 PM
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Is her "team" the entire company? Do you not understand how companies work? There are other people who sit on the same floor, have lunch together, talk together, gossip together.... If you worked, you would understand how this works. I'd stick to opining on pink hair and saying "SLAY QUEEN" unironically. This is a grown-up's discussion. Come back when you can articulate the meaning and impact of "capital gains."
/r/MensRights31/10/24 12:43 PM
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Accidents happen, but you knew that was a chance from the start. If you do not see someone as fit to raise children with, don't sleep with them. If you never want children, but want to keep having casual sex, go get a vasectomy. Why is your accountability asymmetric? That would be my only question. Even after birth, a woman can decide she doesn't want to be a mother. She can put the baby in a box, press a button and walk away Scott-free.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 12:42 PM
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And scorn from bitter female colleagues.
/r/MensRights30/10/24 09:39 AM
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Ain’t no “probably” to it. Sadly, your turn has ended.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 09:27 AM
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This is the Way. The Iron god heals all wounds.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/24 09:26 AM
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Splendid post! Thank you for this. Very insightful.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 09:02 PM
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We wouldn’t consume like that anyway.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 10:08 AM
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I don’t. Object all you want. Trust but verify.
/r/MensRights29/10/24 09:32 AM
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Because you weren't raised among enough men who regularly showed platonic love. This is one of the reasons why team sports and fraternal organizations were so encouraged among men. See how this works?
/r/MensRights28/10/24 09:04 PM
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Because in the interests of pandering for votes, politicians have made it so to rile up their base.
/r/MensRights28/10/24 08:49 PM
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You could still pander to women and push them to be more tolerant of men. You'd alienate them by doing so. In-group bias is strongest in women. Every scientific study shows this. Your comment about "pick-me" proves the point. Find the "Han Solo season on campus" meme. This expresses this in words. Because of high agreeableness and the "safety in numbers" conformity dynamic, you get exactly this kind of herd behavior.
/r/MensRights28/10/24 08:28 PM
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Pandering for votes and money. They vote more and have more voters. There's also in-group bias. Lastly, they are a target market that is the most "consumerist" and the most susceptible to marketing. If you're a politician or selling something, why WOULDN'T you pander to them?
/r/MensRights28/10/24 08:04 PM
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Not 'decide'. Are you ignoring what I wrote on purpose?
/r/MensRights28/10/24 02:44 PM
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I was referring to contractors. You must manage them, stay on top of them, and constantly check and re-check. In terms of mechanics? Of COURSE you have it's easy for you. They generally won't screw around with guys (unless you're wearing the "I don't know what I'm doing" flag). Not that way with women.
/r/MensRights28/10/24 02:03 PM
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Bollocks. Making sure you select the right one, making sure they aren’t ripping you off and making sure they’re doing the job properly is a job in itself. Mechanics love when a woman walks through the door. That isn’t a cliche by any stretch.
/r/MensRights28/10/24 12:27 PM
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Did she sell it while you were married?
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/24 08:01 PM
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If it weren’t for the title, I’d agree totally. Take the gay movement, civil rights movement, and the aforementioned movement of our Vietnam vets (who were ignored and abused by the same crypto-brown shirts disguised as “flower children”). These groups all had to develop a narrative in order to tell their story. Not only tell it, but craft a story so powerful and convincing that the average Joe couldn’t ignore it any longer. Matthew Shephard dragged from a truck… Images of racist Alabama cops tu…
/r/MensRights26/10/24 04:53 PM
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If I may ask, what were the unrealistic expectations?
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 09:13 AM
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No it isn’t. It’s about offspring regardless if you’re married or not.
/r/MensRights23/10/24 02:32 AM
1

Purple goo is people, maaaan!
/r/MensRights23/10/24 02:31 AM
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I hope her IG photos were worth it!
/r/MensRights23/10/24 02:30 AM
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The #1 reason that your comment makes zero sense in the modern, real world. Here's a pop quiz. Do you think child support is about: A. The best interests of the child B. Helping the other parent to raise a child C. A welfare recovery program for the states where the federal government compensates the states for every dollar of child support they can collect, causing an insane conflict of interest, creating a reason for automatic denial of modification from the state family services offices (even…
/r/MensRights22/10/24 01:54 PM
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Correct. Also among Black American women. With college-degree holding women, stats show they actually divorce less than non-degree holding women. That said, when it DOES happen? 90% of the time, they're the ones who kicked it off. With demographics changing, we may see changes in certain locales. For example, New York sees younger women outearning men. If you can make a male equivalent to "cheaper to keep her" that also rhymes, you're on to something!!
/r/MensRights22/10/24 01:46 PM
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How are our new theories working out?
/r/MensRights21/10/24 08:40 PM
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This , right here is the problem. Eons of knowledge of human nature gets ignored because someone thinks “I’m smarter because I just got here.” Ignoring lessons of old is exactly how societies and civilizations fall.
/r/MensRights21/10/24 08:39 PM
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A bit lower than that overall, but the point still stands at 70-80%
/r/MensRights21/10/24 08:36 PM
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Laughs in Title IV-D
/r/MensRights21/10/24 08:36 PM
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They absolutely should. Unfortunately, you have a currently inseparable state entity which overshadows any of the things you mentioned.
/r/MensRights21/10/24 08:35 PM
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Does one particularly need to speak to a majority of female therapists to understand that they have no personal experience with many of the issues that are unique to men? My issue? If we flipped this around and talked about male therapists' understanding of certain womens' issues, no one would say that you need to talk to a majority of male therapists to have such an opinion. I'm not needling you as much as it sounds like. Merely pointing out a general issue....
/r/MensRights21/10/24 08:24 PM
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For Men's issues, the overwhelming majority of female therapists are useless. They may be easier to talk to, but it's like discussing ankle pain with a snake.
/r/MensRights21/10/24 02:48 PM
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The effects are significantly diminished given the videos that have finally been released. But again, let's drill down on actual policies.
/r/MensRights21/10/24 02:47 PM
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"Aged like bread" is also synonymous. I mostly agree with you. Is it the normal wear and tear that Father Time puts on us all (with particular attention paid to women)? Cry me a river, dude. That's life and part of marriage. Now, if it is self-inflicted (for example, obesity or lack of self-care), it puts SIGNIFICANT stress on a marriage because the other spouse may see it as a lack of caring, respect, commitment, etc. I don't buy into the "physical is irrelevant" game under a certain age. It's …
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 02:45 PM
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Agreed… mostly. That “if it’s weight, go to the gym together “ is iron bullshit and a feminized cliche meant to dodge agency and accountability. You can’t outrun the fork. It’s where six-packs are made and lardassery is forged. The decision and work to stay attractive to your partner is 99% on the individual. Therapy is almost always heavy lift when someone becomes obese. That said? Laziness is a factor. It’s non-pc to discuss so bluntly, so again..the topic is hidden by nonsense like “he doesn’…
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 08:10 AM
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Father Time is asymmetrical.
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 07:57 AM
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Is this supposed to be an edgy version of “I don’t know what that means?” Pretty clear to me. English wasn’t even my first language…
/r/Divorce_Men21/10/24 07:54 AM
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But Trump’s “insanity” rarely goes beyond sound bites and personality. When you compare policy to policy? Totally different story.
/r/MensRights21/10/24 07:52 AM
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On what? That children in two parent households have better outcomes than those raised in single parent households?
/r/MensRights20/10/24 01:54 PM
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Completely false. Saying that “two-parent households don’t matter” is the same as advocating for it. And when popular art and culture explicitly says “I don’t need no man,” you’re pretty much advocating for it. Murphy Brown ring a bell? I remember the vitriol around that debate. Even then, these voices spoke loudly.
/r/MensRights20/10/24 01:53 PM
2

Hope is not a strategy, sadly.
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 03:19 PM
1

Who cheated? How did YOU fail specifically?
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 02:50 PM
1

Probably not what you want to hear, but cheating and hiding it for 2+ years?
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 02:49 PM
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So yes, it’s possible. Probable, even. Could be anything from indecisiveness, cold feet, not wanting to feel like/be seen as the “bad guy”, regret… Should he? A different story, perhaps. Depends on the situation. Cheating is different than the proverbial 7 year itch.
/r/Divorce_Men17/10/24 02:47 PM
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Numbers. They make up a higher portion of the electorate—especially now with many of the younger voters being “single issue voters” because of abortion. Most susceptible to marketing. There’s a reason tee-vee ads are aimed at women (particularly black American women). Ever wonder why 7% of the population appears in nearly 100% of commercials? It’s because it works. We’re talking significant numbers. This reasearch article is dryer than a popcorn fart and as long as the Joker’s rap sheet, but it …
/r/MensRights16/10/24 06:25 PM
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Call 911 and wish ‘em luck.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 03:28 PM
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This may be true. But again, refusal to play exempt one from many of their games. Family court? Only applies if you marry or impregnate a woman. Don’t sit here and say that we have no choice here. Allowing safe spaces for men to go co-ed? Again…a choice. The BSA could have said ‘no’. Shame still works on way too many men. Things are slowly changing, but sadly thus weapon still has effect. At some point, we do have to take agency and accountability for our piece of this puzzle. There’s no other w…
/r/MensRights15/10/24 06:51 AM
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Reality is a cruel lover
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 09:06 PM
5

Nothing is stopping them from enlisting in their nation’s armed forces…
/r/MensRights14/10/24 08:24 PM
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Oh, I wholeheartedly agree on the last point. Very much so. In terms of the "what are they supposed to do now?" question? NOTHING. This is the price for ceding and not standing your ground. As for the education system, I'm afraid that all-boys schools need to return. That, or starting new schools with men and women who care for the well-being of both and realize that boys and girls learn differently and have different needs. That, or having the stones to run for board positions and change it the…
/r/MensRights14/10/24 06:47 PM
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Bullshit. Tell me about the female armed revolution that “took” power. When was it? Or… weals power ceded by men who were unable to say “No.”? The Biy Scouts is a perfect example. There was no court mandate that made the accept women. Of course, the Girl Scouts don’t accept boys because guess what? They know how to say “No.”
/r/MensRights14/10/24 06:23 PM
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Not correct. Opportunity costs and interest rates can make a case, as might your living plans over the next few years. Always work the calculators.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 04:54 PM
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Understood. But it’s a lot less than most think. Amazing what the word “No” can accomplish.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 04:39 PM
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This is exactly what people don’t understand. Violence is unpredictable and triggers unpredictable responses in humans. Best way to avoid it? Don’t be violent!
/r/MensRights14/10/24 01:16 PM
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Good. Then stop caring what they think about you!
/r/MensRights14/10/24 01:14 PM
1

“Free Riders” is the political term.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 12:48 PM
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Why shouldn’t SHE?
/r/MensRights14/10/24 12:47 PM
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Helluva jump you made there…
/r/MensRights14/10/24 12:45 PM
2

This is the reality of this war.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 12:41 PM
1

Central African mercs have been spotted among the dead.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 12:40 PM
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Except for the colors on the can and everything else on the video. You may have misspelled ‘Zelenskyy’.
/r/MensRights14/10/24 12:37 PM
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$10K
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 12:36 PM
2

Houses change. Sometimes cities, states, or countries.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 12:35 PM
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A woman too busy with her “own affairs “. The data around social media usage finds this position curious.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 11:59 AM
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If my dick would cooperate with this strategy? I would.
/r/MensRights12/10/24 11:57 AM
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Luck isn’t the best of strategies, but ok…
/r/MensRights12/10/24 11:57 AM
1

Long dated calls on Purina and Franzia futures! No way it can go tits up!!
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 11:55 AM
1

Do you mean the ones you swipe on or the average Hingeista? Because there's more 209s and 210s than anything (unless you live in L.A. or somewhere similar).
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 03:58 PM
1

Agree 100%!
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 02:51 PM
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There are too many divorced men who receive salvos of "statements" after the fact to "take the piss". On another thread, we're discussing Gottman's Four Horsemen. When all four ride in? Terminal.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 02:33 PM
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May I ask how you came to learn about Gottman's Four Horsemen? More men need to explore resources to understand these mechanics!
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 02:32 PM
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Why is that bizarre? If you understand women, you understand that they think and operate differently than we do. The worst mistake men make is to apply a male template of logic onto a woman's way of thinking (and expect that template to make sense). By and large, women are emotional beings. They thrive on feelings (which is why "good vibes" is such a commonly heard theme). How would a pushover keep her excited? They have a multitude of boring-assed simpletons who agree with everything they say a…
/r/MensRights11/10/24 02:28 PM
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Harsh delivery. Sweet medicine. How many "fuck you, dude" statements will you require before realizing she's gone?
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 01:47 PM
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And for those unaware, the four horsemen are Criticism, Defensiveness, Contempt, and Stonewalling. Once 'Contempt' rides in? It's pretty much done.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 01:45 PM
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Indeed. It's an entirely different experience. There's not much a North American woman can do for me except ask if I'm checking this bag or not.
/r/MensRights11/10/24 01:12 PM
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No you won't. That's nonsense. Be polite and professional, but aloof and disinterested.
/r/MensRights11/10/24 01:10 PM
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I'm in my early fifties. I experience the same regarding delusional 50-somethings who think Price Charming wants a two-week-old banana. Hoeflation is out of control. There's a zillion simpletons out there who will play their game, so there is no impetus for them to change. These guys are okay with being "foodie calls" because the tee-vee says that you're supposed to buy them expensive dinners on the first dates.
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 01:07 PM
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But when men play along? Nothing changes.
/r/MensRights11/10/24 02:04 AM
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Well, this IS the group that thinks “qualified“ means an automatic win.
/r/MensRights10/10/24 11:13 PM
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That winning tactic is the strongest by definition.
/r/MensRights10/10/24 11:12 PM
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There is no such thing as an informal discussion with HR.
/r/MensRights10/10/24 11:10 PM
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Lot lizards also bring sandwiches…
/r/MensRights10/10/24 11:09 PM
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That’ll make her try even harder!! Put a photo of you tenderly holding some hairy bear mofo. Extra points if he’s significantly larger than you and has the “boring out the small block” grin of a muscle car enthusiast. If she doesn’t get the point then? Just marry her and enjoy the samitches… Good luck man.
/r/MensRights10/10/24 09:56 PM
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Women never ask men out. Its a ludicrous loophole . Easy way? Never pay for dinner unless you’re dating. Do NOT be that chump who forks out a pricey dinner. Coffee or a drink. She hasn’t earned the privilege of dinner with you yet.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 06:04 PM
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You think that’s nuts? Look up ‘vaccine’ in that old dictionary and compare it to the current muddled definition. Changing dictionary definitions would make Here Goebbels proud…
/r/MensRights10/10/24 09:22 AM
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Or he’s trying to woo coeds.
/r/MensRights09/10/24 08:20 PM
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No, the person had it right. Fascism. The (often) violent suppression of political opponents. I’m not a fan of communism, but it is more of an economic system than it is about lining up people and shooting them. I wonder if this professor understands that Kamala being a woman isn’t the impetus behind the dislike for her candidacy. She’s about as useful as bicycle reflectors on a pair of testicles when it comes to running a country. Anyone who runs from tough questions has no business running for…
/r/MensRights09/10/24 08:19 PM
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Measure twice cut once and buy one cry once. Get the BEST attorney you can find for this process. There can be no missed steps, otherwise it's null and void.
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 05:34 PM
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One of the tarry pitfalls of modern society. We have conflated possibilities with probabilities. But, gotta put numbers less than 1% on the same plane as 99%. This is where we are now, I guess.
/r/MensRights08/10/24 04:55 PM
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Should men have the same right?
/r/MensRights07/10/24 10:37 PM
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But it only works if you decide to play along.
/r/MensRights07/10/24 10:27 PM
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There’s your problem. Get off that shit. If anything is “feminine”, it’s social media
/r/MensRights07/10/24 10:25 PM
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Outside of rare anomalies, what women DON’T have two X chromosomes???
/r/MensRights07/10/24 10:10 PM
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Lawyer the fuck up. There’s something else going on. If not? That’s a real piece of work.
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 08:52 AM
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Look who cams up on work and who doesn’t.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 09:00 AM
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I’m sorry? What about what? Sometimes an empirical statement stands on its own.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 08:41 AM
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You mean those crazy folks who say that men can’t give birth?
/r/MensRights04/10/24 08:26 AM
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You misspelled‘votes’
/r/MensRights04/10/24 08:22 AM
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Whilst liberals want you to be subservient.
/r/MensRights04/10/24 08:21 AM
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She has already lost respect for you. She’s gone, man. And stop watching tee-vee. That ain’t real life.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 08:06 AM
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But it does imply that women ARE the greatest factor in divorce
/r/MensRights03/10/24 06:44 AM
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It shows that men aren’t the sole reasons for divorce (as so many women claim). Also shows female propensity for divorce.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 06:42 AM
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Not necessarily. 68 pages may exceed the maximum allowable questions in OP’s state. May not. He needs an attorney to answer.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 06:23 AM
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Some states have a limit on the number of questions . Thus isn’t a job fur anyone here. Lawyer!!!
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 06:19 AM
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Google ‘Duck penis’ for an interesting rabbit hole
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 02:29 AM
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To ignore probability and logical analysis is equally silly. Divorce and family court stats don’t lie. I’ve done therapy and am 155 away from the Thousand Pound Club in my fifties.I’ve been monk fur a while and love my life. You aren’t talking to a child. I also understand environmental concerns, which you seem to ignore in favor of fewings. Hope is not a strategy and the house wins more often than not. How else did my current state collect a few dozen million of Title IV-D money? Through fuckin…
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 02:27 AM
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Depends on the action become. If it’s free? Sure. But I’m folding as SOON as they’re action in front. And you’re proving my point. The odds of an unopened BB where someone isn’t limping in with a disguised monster ain’t very high. So sure, I’ll play, but with the knowledge that it’s a -EV move. This gives me the discipline to fold. But how many men play off hope? They think this hand has a whore’s chance in hell (which it doesn’t).In real life terms, they try and “save her” or turn a ho’ into a …
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/24 02:20 AM
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Dude. Please listen to yourself. “Smack it out of his hand with a knife????” No, muthafucka!!! She tried to stab that dude. WTF are you doing?!?!?!?!? I’ll bet you paid for dinner, too… Snap to, brother!!! You’re not even close to being rational or looking out for number one!!! I say this with love. You have zero business dating right now. Work on Jizzaldo until Jizzaldo has the spine and sense to nail on obvious ref flags.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 10:09 PM
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Wait.. what’s the “assault “ thing????
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 09:57 PM
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Then you’re definitely not ready to date.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 09:56 PM
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Careful in western Europe. The contagion is spreading.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 09:26 PM
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If it flies, floats, or fucks? Yeah.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 09:23 PM
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But there’s also numbers. J-2 offsuit as a pre-flop hand wins some of the time, right? But what are the odds? Just because “it doesn’t always lose, does that classify it as a playable hand? I swear..the concept of possibility versus probability seems to be a lost cause these days.The environment plays as much of a factor as just “women”. A paid annuity is a hard thing to fight for many.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/24 09:23 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 09:43 PM
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Why are you afraid to be alone? Answer that first. You’re probably going to need some help. Therapy, spiritual leadership, maybe both. People who love themselves aren’t afraid of being alone. Yeah, we all get lonely from time to time like any human. But afraid? Different story. Lean into that answer. Get some backup to achieve this. Until then, hydrate, exercise, and keep busy focusing on your future. YOUR future. Not the future with someone else. Thus sucks. I’m sorry you are going through this…
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 02:50 AM
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Finalize current mistake before worrying about your next mistake.
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/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 05:44 PM
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And in the ultimate of ironies? This is the only way the system will change. When they experience symmetric treatment by family courts.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/24 02:52 PM
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Didn’t read the article, eh?
/r/MensRights29/09/24 01:55 AM
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Anytime some chick tries to engage your protective instincts with such a story?? FLEE!!!! It’s the reddest of red flags. And guess what? The hose types know their targets. Protect no one who hasn’t demonstrated at least 6-8 months of stability and normalcy.
/r/MensRights28/09/24 11:46 PM
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Hopefully the men who are unmarried notice a common theme. You cannot fix her. Too many men arrogantly think their love can fix a broken person. Arrogance is exactly what this is. If she isn’t already deep down the path of fixing herself, there is no logical reason why she will. See #1. YOU CANNOT FIX HER!!!!!!!!! Hope is not a strategy. It only gets worse. At best? Things stay the same. No matter what the propaganda says. You are NOT a bad person for deciding not to make permanent arrangements …
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 11:40 PM
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Or? This is the cost of MARRYING a bad person. Hell hath no fury, as a certain book reads…
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/24 10:15 PM
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Three main reasons. No one likes relinquishing power. Anything that further reduces anyone's power (even if that reduction ends in parity) is generally shunned. In this case? Demonizied. The more maladjusted you are, the more likely you are to demonize anyone who does not follow your agenda in lockstep. A recent study with children and political views shows this masterfully. Because many of the previous MRMs have either been ineffective (taking the "high" road of appeasement) or have not focused…
/r/MensRights27/09/24 03:19 PM
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Nope. Feminism has always been about asymmetry. Rights without responsibilities. Take voting, for example. Do you understand why women could not vote? No dancing or deflection. State the reason to the best of your understanding.
/r/MensRights27/09/24 11:58 AM
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Then why are modern women so bad at it?
/r/MensRights27/09/24 11:56 AM
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Which of these fucking women knew any ancestor from Ancient Greco times?!?!? Oh, in those days, MEN were also property for the most part. Go to sss.gov for your evidence that this hasn’t changed.
/r/MensRights27/09/24 11:55 AM
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They’re rooted in biology. Know why? I guaran-fucking-tee that when that “bump in the night” occurs? She ain’t grabbing the gauge to investigate. When that yard needs fertilized in spring? She ain’t yoinking 35 or 50 pound sacks of seed and 7-7-7. I’ve men married twice and have been with many women. Not a single one has done a brake job, replaced a faucet, pushed a dead car, done hardcover landscaping, set foot on a roof, set foot on a 10’ ladder, evaluated our defensive posture for light and c…
/r/MensRights27/09/24 11:53 AM
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No clue
/r/MensRights27/09/24 01:52 AM
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No need. 8-Ball Jacket and an ushanka is all you need
/r/MensRights26/09/24 09:00 PM
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There's your roadmap right there. Best shape you've been in since 15 years ago??? BRAVO!!!!!! 14 months of working out!!! BRAVO!!!!!!! Making fathering your purpose??? DOUBLE BRAVO!!!!! As for finding the answers yourself, do you work on your own car? Or do you enlist a professional that does this shit day in and day out? You've obviously got some bugs in your ECU. It's what happens after the car crash of divorce, man. Many of us were either too scared or arrogant to go down that path. But from …
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/24 08:36 PM
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Therapy. Your head is not in a great spot if she's in YOUR head like that. Grab thyselff a male therapist and put in the work. In the meantime? Do things that build YOUR confidence. How's your phyiscal fitness? What' an honest, emprical assessment that isn't something nebulous like "I'm not perfect" or "Could be better". Where do you currently stand? Can you run a mile? Walk 3? Bench/Squat/Deadlift your bodyweight? Half? Quater? None? People will tell you it's "bro science". But when you can yoi…
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/24 08:15 PM
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Based on everything we’ve seen in the West, are you sure?
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/r/Divorce_Men26/09/24 03:01 PM
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I’m sorry your Google skills (or more likely, digital work ethic) aren’t up to this task. I just typed it in and the first result hit. The overwhelming majority of men I mentioned this to got it instantly. If you want to learn about the nature of life? Gumption is the only currency.
/r/MensRights26/09/24 11:53 AM
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Should be self-explanatory, then. There are no femcels.
/r/MensRights25/09/24 07:33 PM
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Child? That’s your ADULT at that point!😂
/r/MensRights25/09/24 10:01 AM
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Google ‘Pig Woman experiment “ You couldn’t be more wrong about being ignored.
/r/MensRights24/09/24 07:06 PM
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Did you Google it?
/r/MensRights24/09/24 06:54 PM
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Which factors imply worth?
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 06:00 PM
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Wdym wdim?
/r/MensRights24/09/24 10:28 AM
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There’s no such thing as a female. Google “Pig Woman Experiment” for confirmation. Inspin? Now those exist.
/r/MensRights24/09/24 02:02 AM
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It minimizes “streams of consciousness “ emails that have zero bearing on your life and are disruptive in nature. Allows for grey rocking and keeps a paper trail when the emails start getting wacky.
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/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 11:35 AM
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Profound.
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/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 01:05 PM
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I’m not being obtuse. You don’t seem to understanding the difference between needs and desires. What is this sewer that doesn’t overflow? Speak plainly.
/r/MensRights17/09/24 04:01 PM
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I would love to hear OP answer this. Not for judgement, but to understand the thought process (as I see this from a number of men).
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 02:14 PM
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I don’t think you fully understand what is in front of you.
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/24 01:13 PM
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Want. Need implies a lack of functionality without. Way too many MGTOW monks for the position of “need” to be true. 5 years here. On vacation, I might clean out the pipes a time or three each year. But I don’t need it. Nor do you. Want. Desire. But not need. Food? Oxygen? Water? Vitamin D? Needs.
/r/MensRights17/09/24 12:59 PM
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I hope 2025 brings you joy, brother!!
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 10:32 PM
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I am in agreement that this is overwhelmingly the best way. But regarding social media usage, your variance won’t be as great as you think. Its epidemic at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 01:10 PM
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I’m not necessarily against apps. If you live in a metropolitan city with a long commute? Time becomes an issue. If you look at the numbers of the app users on major cities? The population is representative of the real population. If you just pick random women, guess what? Most will be glued to IG or Divorcebook.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 01:03 PM
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It’s why heavy social usage is a disqualifying trait for me. Not a red flag. Disqualifying. As in, “Bey, I had a great time, but I’m just not in a position for a relationship right now.” Now, the “with you” is withheld. But…
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 12:40 PM
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My uncle called it “Divorcebook”
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 12:38 PM
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Want.
/r/MensRights15/09/24 12:05 PM
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Nope. The only winning move is not to play.
/r/MensRights13/09/24 08:49 AM
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She’s gone, man. Forward is the only direction that matters.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 08:26 AM
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Ain’t your problem anymore. Not your monkey, not your circus. Move forward with your own life.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 07:54 AM
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So stop giving fucks about what “they” think.
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/r/MensRights12/09/24 06:50 PM
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Depends on how much you crave the acceptance and approval of others. If you’ve ever watched pro wrestling, you might be familiar with the concept of a “heel-turn”. If not, it’s where a “baby face” good guy flips to the bad guy “heel” side. Depends on how much you love yourself. If you put your well-being and survival above wanting to fit in or bend the knee? You have a chance. Depends on your capacity for logic and rational reasoning. Of the programming is strong and you were raised without stro…
/r/MensRights12/09/24 04:06 PM
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Answer? The programming is strong.
/r/MensRights12/09/24 01:59 AM
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Dumbest thing men do is to apply our template of logical thinking onto a woman’s thinking. It does not work that way. We are not the same.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 10:25 PM
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Closure is a vaginal, lifetime movie word with zero meaning. Closure happens when you stop giving a fuck and start living for YOU.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 10:23 PM
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Yep. It’s almost always a 2-way street. But too many men throw their entire identity into her and forget that their needs are also important.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 10:16 PM
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Don’t marry. There’s your fix.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 09:57 PM
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What brand of mayo? Let’s ask the real questions…
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 11:07 AM
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Visible tats are hard no. Definite judgement concerns.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 10:56 AM
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Guess which side most men err….
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 10:55 AM
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Golden words. It’s one of my hard criteria. Yeah, it eliminates 90% of women, but guess what? They need me way more than I need them. I will not compromise my standards just to make my dick or lonely, weepy heart happy. That’s what leads to divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 10:52 AM
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Saying that the opinions of high school and twenty-something girls is misandry? Against an opinion that says get off social media and go actually create value (which none of those TikTokers do)? Gotcha. Life is TikTok. LMAO!!!
/r/MensRights10/09/24 09:03 PM
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But as parents? The belief in something greater than ourselves is what inspires us to greater heights. I’m not even talking about religion here. Picturing our toddlers as adults in the future, wanting to improve our schools and communities (and the lives of the people in them)… These are all things that lift us past our own selfish desires. In turn? They make US better. If you feel you don’t need these things? Fine. But many others strive for more. I repeat my original question. Why shit on them…
/r/Divorce_Men10/09/24 11:07 AM
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Get..the..fuck..off..TIKTok. Best thing you can do for your mental health and trajectory. That vaginal platform doesn’t represent the real world and will only bring you misery.
/r/MensRights10/09/24 10:57 AM
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I’m sorry in advance. 😩😩😩
/r/MensRights10/09/24 10:55 AM
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That’s something that YOU need to overcome. Let me ask you a question. Why don’t you think that you have the right to be a pain when you need to be? Because guess fucking what? YOU MATTER!!! From one man to another, you are important. The masculinity inside you built everything around us. It keeps society running. It creates order from chaos. Once you remember these things and stop letting others (particularly women) define your existence? You will find the stones not to let others take the piss…
/r/MensRights10/09/24 10:55 AM
10

TikTok. Sigh…
/r/MensRights10/09/24 01:04 AM
30

More like InSpins. Too many thirsty chimps for Femcel to ever be a thing. Don’t believe me? Google ‘pig woman experiment.’
/r/MensRights10/09/24 01:03 AM
1

But if you do? First realize that you can’t fix her. If she has no initiative, doing shit for her won’t magically provide or instill it. Such actions only make her lose respect for you.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 06:39 PM
35

It perpetuates mostly because men accept it. Stop doing that. Be a pain. You gain nothing by doing nothing.
/r/MensRights09/09/24 06:34 PM
7

Too bad Hamas doesn’t want them to be “free”.
/r/MensRights06/09/24 09:38 AM
1

115 pounds is fucking AMAZING!!! I had to drop 30 and it was very hard work. I can barely imagine 115. That took a lot of work and you should be proud, OP!!!! Bravo!!!! Congratulations on becoming closer with your chosen faith. I don’t care what you believe in. Helping others and following a moral code is a good thing. I wish you the best!!!
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 09:35 AM
2

If that’s what gets the man through his struggles and provides a belief system for him to believe in something greater than himself, why shit on him? Seriously. If raised properly, this is one of those examples where your parents (should have) taught you that if you can’t say anything nice (or at least constructive)? Don’t say anything at all. This is especially true, given the nature of this sub and what our brothers are going through. Imagine being so insecure in your own belief system that yo…
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 09:31 AM
21

More importantly? I love the beauty of masculinity. I love how it is the energy that creates order out of chaos and structure out of formlessness. It has the power to kill with one hand and heal with the other. Masculinity has the stoic seriousness to overcome adversity but still laugh at a fart. When you help your fellow man or offer a kind word? You never doubt that genuine look he gives you back. The sincere handshake of such a man is warmer than all the hugs in Titlandia. When we work togeth…
/r/MensRights05/09/24 04:35 PM
31

Badge of honor, bud. It’s like your Purple Heart.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 04:23 PM
8

I went monk over 5 years ago and have had a wonderful life ever since. Amazing what happens when you stop searching for validation, fulfillment and purpose via the most unstable element since cesium.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 08:46 AM
8

Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/MensRights05/09/24 08:44 AM
1

Pain shopping. I like this term. Closure is a vaginal, tee-vee that never does what it implies. OP is the only one that can bring closure by beginning to live his life and move forward instead of backwards.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 08:43 AM
3

Juice ain’t worth the squeeze.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 08:24 PM
17

Because the DNC has been “the party of free shit for women” since LBJ.
/r/MensRights04/09/24 07:57 PM
8

Right? Japan has “karoshi” in the dictionary for a reason…
/r/MensRights04/09/24 07:34 PM
3

Focus on the daughter. Do it for her and grey rock the ex.
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 07:32 PM
4

Reach above your head. Find black and yellow handles. Pull down toward your face. Eject! Eject! Eject!
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 06:56 PM
1

Smart man! Eyes on the prize!!🏆
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 04:07 AM
2

Why do you find abuse acceptable? Nora rhetorical question. I’d like to understand..
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 03:52 AM
8

I definitely wouldn’t say everyone. Plenty of us have decided to look forward and savor the opportunities ahead. I would rather be a destitute pauper than to be rich and live my life pining for someone who gives zero fucks about me.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 03:51 AM
1

No, you won’t. It’s about getting US banned (which they so want to do anyway).
/r/MensRights31/08/24 06:14 PM
3

That is a great idea!!!!!! Many, many thanks, brother!!!
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 06:13 PM
9

“M-m-maybe she’ll take me back and things will be like when we were dating again!”
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 06:12 PM
10

To be fair? Who enabled it? We stopped learning to say “No”
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 06:10 PM
6

Well, time for a lesson in logic. It looks like she never studied for this exam.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/24 06:10 PM
4

The point is to grey rock. Triggering an emotional response just adds fuel to the fire.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 09:15 AM
10

Nope. Don’t ask her shit. Lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men30/08/24 08:47 AM
2

Don’t trust it one bit, seeing what’s come out lately.
/r/MensRights30/08/24 08:43 AM
4

Not really. “Irreconcilable differences “ is the overwhelming reason when women leave.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 11:29 PM
1

Totally!
/r/MensRights29/08/24 11:22 PM
6

Exactly the hubris that gets so many men in trouble. There’s always a younger, faster receiver out there.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/24 10:00 AM
15

I think we can discuss policies like adults. Besides, some days one party will get things wrong and other days they will get it right.
/r/MensRights29/08/24 09:56 AM
2

No!!!!!!! Self improvements are for SELF. OP needs to fix his shit first his own benefit. Doing it for a woman is all wrong and is why men find themselves in such a position.
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 03:44 AM
2

Harsh but accurate
/r/Divorce_Men28/08/24 03:39 AM
1

Who fought for decades against civil unions that were not called marriage?
/r/MensRights26/08/24 12:50 AM
1

I don’t think you get it. Without subbing out the human? We’ve reached peak safety at many of these jobs. Waves still swallow iron ore freighters and fishing boats. You can’t OSHA your way out of a burning hi-rise. These jobs will always have an element of danger.
/r/EverydayMisandry26/08/24 12:49 AM
1

Because those groups aren’t usually part of the nuclear family. Part of a family? Sure. Part of a loving family? As possible as any. But outside of election year, dictionary edits? Those groups overwhelmingly did not fit into the traditional definition of a married mother and father. Funny thing? No one really fought against the government recognition of civil unions, which would have provided the same benefits and privileges. I think that should be the only government recognition of any union, …
/r/MensRights23/08/24 04:02 AM
3

Family court is the absolute worst chunk of the split. I’ve divorced twice. Once with kids and once without. Guess which one was cheaper, faster, and a cleaner break? Family court cares not if you’re married or not. Child support also gives no fucks. And? Title IV-D gets involved, creating a conflict of interest where the state comes after your money because the government pays them to do so. Unlike alimony, there’s no way out. Every human rights charter decries debtors prisons. Yet, one exists …
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/24 03:45 AM
4

Because we know that unions can’t do shit to make most dangerous jobs any safer than we have. What? Can OSHA tame the fucking seas or make a burning building more stable? At this point in human history, you’re more likely to fill the pockets of union execs than to make these jobs safer.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/08/24 03:35 PM
23

And deadly ones.
/r/MensRights21/08/24 02:29 PM
1

Again, there exists no duty to throw yourself away and abandon who you are. Provide and protect? Sure. Those are duties. But abandoning things like your hobbies? Self-respect? There is no duty to do any of those things. Self-love generally erodes when there was none to begin with. Seeing a woman as a goal instead of a compliment to your goals, for example.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/24 02:04 PM
1

How so? Let’s hear your thought process.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 11:09 PM
0

Her eyes, maybe? She’s largely correct. Most white knights are thirsty straight men.
/r/MensRights20/08/24 10:56 PM
6

It’s not a sense of “duty”. It’s a lack of self love and self respect. There exists no duty to abandon yourself and make any woman your sole purpose and focus. No matter how noble it makes you feel.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 03:26 PM
6

Who is the prize in a dating relationship at our age? How you honestly respond will tell a lot.
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 03:22 PM
1

Of course not. We are not equal.
/r/MensRights20/08/24 01:37 PM
3

Na agency or accountability there. The best indicator a woman will be a good mother is her commitment to mothering skills.
/r/MensRights20/08/24 01:35 PM
1

Yep.
/r/MensRights15/08/24 11:56 PM
16

Usually these female child rapists get ultra-lenient sentences if they’re attractive. Lenient if not.
/r/MensRights14/08/24 02:38 PM
2

This. Many men choose a woman therapist for this and have poor results.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 05:36 PM
20

Ol' Mr. Plan B is waffling, eh?
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 05:14 PM
17

So, a 0.00000001% probability. Gotcha. Fir everyone else? High risk, low reward. A woman can make you a millionaire. But only if you were already a billionaire.
/r/MensRights11/08/24 10:24 AM
2

It’s beautiful and beautiful. Gorgeous scenery and a playground for a fella that needs to clean out the pipes. Tell the lovely ladies at the Del Rey Hitel “Hi”.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 09:56 AM
7

Costa Rica.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/24 12:51 AM
2

Kenjataimu
/r/MensRights10/08/24 08:01 PM
0

The majority of the world is closer to centrism. The left has gotten so far left that anything barely to the east is regarded as right wing.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 05:25 PM
3

That's PUA you're referring to. And again, who really cares about them?
/r/MensRights10/08/24 05:24 PM
2

These are the same mooks that call a guy with a wife and 5 kids an "incel". How the hell would he be involuntarily celebate with a veritable offensive line of fuck receipts in tow?
/r/MensRights10/08/24 05:23 PM
1

Disingenuous to answer a question with a question. Many may call it rude. I'll split the difference at 'slippery'. Child rearing: Single fathers are the fastest growing demographic in North America. And, when you look at outcomes? Marginally better, as single father-led households have outcomes that aren't that far off of two-parent households. Can't say the inverse is true. So there's that. The main reason, though? We're doing the high-paying jobs that women eschew. Ask most women why they work…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 05:16 PM
5

Oh, 100%. Absolutely on your last point. But, watching a one-sided L is visceral as OP stated? Whole different story. We fancy ourselves completely detached from the ol' lizard brain. But in reality? Eons of programming don't get wiped out because we want them to. Luckily I'm old enough where fights don't happen. Far different from the "old man BJJ" where survival is the goal (or tapping the hapless shiny new blue belt every now and again). Even an impromptu "play fight" has that life-or-death e…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/24 04:35 PM
2

Can you type? Drive a truck? Count boxes of ammo? Read a radar screen? Be a dental tech? Inspect galley sanitation? Operate a radio? Read a computer screen? Cook? OK. Possibly a stretch on that last one. But over 70% of military MOSs are non-combat. Also, nations like Israel have compulsory military service for both genders. Are you trying to tell us that American and Canadian women have some genetic or physiological differences? Those women seem to handle it just fine (as do the women who enlis…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 04:17 PM
8

I do not agree that losing a fight in front of your girlfriend or any girl will make her lose attraction to you. I've been in wrestling, boxing, JJJ, BJJ, and a year of kendo. I've seen this loads of times. there is definitely truth to it. In your examples, I wonder if they ever actually SAW you take a big (one-sided) L.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/24 03:46 PM
13

Should be “happy spouse, happy spouse” For you guys looking to remarry? Never forget. Your happiness is just as important as hers.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/24 11:03 AM
9

I’d rather not live.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/24 11:02 AM
1

You dodged the question again. Let me add that I’ve been married twice and grew up in a house full of women . I have a masters-degree-level education in the entire arsenal of shifty, sleight-of-hand discourse. Not one such tactic has any effect on me. They are as transparent as a glass of cool Zermat water. You came out here guns a’blazin but now get quiet and shy when I ask a simple question? I even avoided the ad hominems and strawman arguments to keep things above board. Show some integrity a…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 10:53 AM
3

Won’t fight back
/r/MensRights10/08/24 10:13 AM
18

Not so much for you, but in divorce? The road to poverty and ruin is paved with "I just want this to end..." Until there is substantial policy reform, it will only end when the state can no longer extract money from you. Once you enter the ring, the hell with Miyagi-do Karate. Sweep the leg. Because you're not just fighting her. You're fighting the state.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 09:49 PM
4

However, you and I are both grown. Possibly even somewhat close in age. Using construction as your example of altruism and conveniently omitting firefighting, rescue work, military, and policing could easily be called disingenuous by someone old and wise enough to see through it. That might work on the youth, but I'm probably close to you in age. Want to take another shot in good faith this time?
/r/MensRights09/08/24 09:38 PM
3

Sitting in front of a computer at your desk or behind a counter or something like that is simple, too. However, when we consider the "sweaty and greasy" jobs in which modern society would collapse if they were not performed? The story is quite different. Like every single one of the 9/11 rescuers that died saving people, men pretty much do all of these jobs. And when I say "pretty much" I mean over 99%. I guess my question would be why women don't apply for such jobs? The old "men try to keep us…
/r/MensRights09/08/24 09:04 PM
2

I have made this worse by being very emotional whenever we have private conversations. What does this mean, exactly?
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 08:11 PM
2

And for the rest of human history before that? Were men not making test?
/r/MensRights09/08/24 07:38 PM
1

The evil beast of Title IV-D doesn't care if you're a man or a woman. It only cares how much money it can collect from Uncle Sugar.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 07:35 PM
1

That "precedent" is easily guessed by how much of that juicy Title IV-D money your state collects. OP mentioned "Deep South". Georgia, for example, is one of the worst places.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/24 07:34 PM
2

Until that number is zero. Then? Very much a number. r stroke deadbedrooms details the horror of not actively keeping up the sex life.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 07:25 PM
10

I encourage every man to head over to r stroke Divorce_Men or r stroke DivorcedDads and just read. Each and every day, you'll see the horrible results of men who eschewed loving themselves and instead, tried to find purpose, meaning, and a sense of self in a woman. The results range between tragic and depressing. But for the rest of my brothers here? Read those posts and let that shit BURN in your heads and hearts. If you do not love yourself and put yourself first? There will be no salvation to…
/r/MensRights09/08/24 03:42 PM
4

One of THE greatest vehicles ever made by BMW or any other manufacturer, for that matter. Despite the lack of electronics and features versus today's models, I still hold the E46 in the highest regard among its competitors or even modern contemporaries. Men across the world would give their left nut to be able to rev the accelerator in that classic.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 03:25 PM
8

Laguna Seca blue??? E46?
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:02 PM
19

Too many men put women on a pedestal. It's the beginning of their end.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:02 PM
3

I don't. Why in the hell would you grant them the pleasure of a response???????
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:01 PM
-5

Many men will poo-poo it, but if you keep yourself in good shape, iron your clothes, polish your shoes, brush your teeth, comb your hair, walk tall, and otherwise take pride in your appearance as a man? You'll stand out in spite of your height. We knew a SgtMajor who was 5'3 and that dude pulled more ass than a toilet seat at a Taylor Swift concert. The combination of self-confidence and "squared away bearing" made all the difference. But, I have a serious question. How many men here had a fathe…
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:00 PM
17

That's low-grade shaming language. The amount of downvotes should tell you that OP's experiences in North America are incredibly commonplace. Hell, a cursory glance on YouTube should tell you that OP isn't looking for women in some musty box near his home.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 12:40 PM
20

Funny you say that. I'm a bike and car guy. Been that way since I was a tyke. In OLD, I would post pictures of me on/in bikes/cars because it's such a huge part of who I am. Never again. You're absolutely correct.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 12:37 PM
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As long as this does not mean a degradation in your self and standards (in that order), fine. For too many men, they throw these things away, get serious, and later wonder why they've lost half their shit in divorce court.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 12:36 PM
1

Hit the gym. You’ll see real camaraderie among gymbros.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 06:59 PM
4

THIS!!!!!!!!! There always exists consequences for us. I can’t slap a man because he hurt my feelings.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 04:57 PM
19

And destroy those sweet virtue signaling points??
/r/MensRights08/08/24 03:42 PM
1

Yes because the government replaced the man..for votes. However, the thesis of that men weren’t needed is disproven when we examine the outcomes of children raised without fathers. Every measurable metric sucks in single mother homes.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 02:08 PM
1

By choice. There was never a compelling external force. Ever.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 02:04 PM
1

Women have the power we chose to surrender and give to them. There are zero historical examples of women taking power by force.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 10:53 AM
6

Yeah. Way too much energy spent on this. Those are cycles that could have been spent on improving the kids’ lives.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/24 03:09 AM
26

Read the moniyhan report. The US census bureau started keeping stats in the late 1800s. Until LBJ’s so called “great society reforms “ the black family was the most intact among all demographics. So verifiable statistics and history versus your prattle. You’re the unstable one.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 02:55 AM
41

Or..the party that paid women to kick fathers out of the home and destroyed the black family in the name of votes.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 02:12 AM
12

You're 100% correct. In my final days of health policy work, we were amused to find that the "average American woman" shrank by an inch. Our junior analyst was thinking something like osteoporosis or malnutrition in poor areas. Our Peruvian born colleague laughs and says "No, a bunch of us..." We had a good laugh. If a bunch of Dutch immigrants flooded North America, it would swing the other way. I'm average height, but feel like Wee Man every time I visit the Netherlands.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 07:04 PM
5

You mentioned finding “your person”. That person is you. Until you find that person? Do not date or otherwise get involved with any woman.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/24 05:57 PM
3

You mentioned finding “your person”. That person is you. Until you find that person? Do not date or otherwise get involved with any woman.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/24 05:56 PM
4

MOST liberals only champion feminist causes and positions.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 10:21 AM
3

But OP is still putting his self-esteem and purpose in a woman. Regardless of who she is, this brings disaster on the end.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 03:48 PM
3

Learning to love and cherish yourself removes this sentiment.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 03:47 PM
4

Worse. An orbiter
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 05:37 AM
2

Not payback. Symmetry. Not sure why that's such a hard concept for you to grasp. You're the one adding extra.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 10:47 PM
4

Not sure I understand the ultimate question. Also, what does the mental load look like professionally outside of the home?
/r/MensRights04/08/24 04:24 PM
5

Where did I say any of that? These are coming from your mind. My logic is simple. We currently have an asymmetrical system. No one wants you to pay for anything. If you remove the subsidies, you remove the incentive for people to have babies that they KNOW they can't pay for. A child's understanding of human behavior and markets should tell you that.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 03:04 PM
7

Asymmetry.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 11:09 AM
7

Are you trolling?
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/24 11:07 AM
2

Even though I went monk years ago, you keep up your attractiveness by staying in shape.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/24 10:37 AM
8

But she can put her newborn in a box, press a button and walk away with zero consequences.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 10:31 AM
2

They’ll divide by zero trying to a answer that. Almost better than the “Islam is right about women” meme
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 07:37 AM
2

Because it’s the best thing I ever did.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 07:34 AM
1

How much of that influence goes away with the utterance of the word’no’?
/r/MensRights03/08/24 12:06 AM
2

/r/MensRights02/08/24 03:42 AM
2

State your position and stfu. I’m not arguing or convincing her of anything. She can come to the bargaining table or not. Her choice.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 03:40 AM
3

Of COURSE thirst overrides self-love. More so on the front end. When you choose a big butt and a smile over the attributes that make a good mate? You’re doing exactly that. When you take shit during dating ( and not enforcing boundaries from a scarcity mindset) because you don’t want to lose access to a warm, wet hole and cuddles? You’re doing exactly that. “Just break up” advice minimizes nothing. Of course it’s fucking hard. But courage is hard. True love (off yourself) is hard. If the person …
/r/MensRights01/08/24 05:43 PM
2

Then why would we care about the opinions of anyone who cannot work a simple Aristotle-grade syllogism? Seriously? Answer me that.
/r/MensRights01/08/24 03:21 PM
5

It beats the alternative. When things start smelling twitchy enough where “false allegations” are possible, buy a GoPro or clandestine recording device Your life is now at stake. As a man raised by strong proud men, I’m starting to wonder if “Love and respect yourself “ is no longer being taught by the fathers of young men. I’d love to hear honest feedback. Am I wrong? Or have men simply let thirst override self-love and self-preservation?
/r/MensRights01/08/24 03:19 PM
6

I’ve been married twice and divorced twice. I am a leader in a men’s group and mod one of the subs for fathers. Trust me, I know. The ultimate price is YOU. Your life on this earth. Being a man isn’t easy, no should it be. Nothing worthwhile is easy. Especially loving yourself and enforcing healthy boundaries. Because the next place is deep depression, and even self-deletion of too many men. Your goddamned LIFE depends on you ability to say “no” when a boundary is crossed.
/r/MensRights01/08/24 03:15 PM
6

If a spouse withholds attention because they didn’t get their way? That’s abuse. Anyone who loves themselves should realize that abuse is wrong and that no spouse deserves abuse. You can accept being abused or have the stones to call it out. You say “making them feel bad”. Again, the onus for our self-esteem and well being lies on us. The other bit? The quickest way for a woman to lose respect for you (and continue to disrespect and abuse you) is to throw away your spine. Someone convinced moder…
/r/MensRights01/08/24 03:10 PM
13

And the difference between that and the domestic variant? At least one is honest.
/r/MensRights01/08/24 11:37 AM
33

Yep. The only insanity is caring what “they” think.
/r/MensRights01/08/24 11:36 AM
13

You’re using the wrong words here. Couldn’t? No. Wouldn’t. Respectfully, you decided these things. Somewhere along the line, some men decide to stop being people and become a twisted, soulless proxy for their woman. As if your life is somehow irrelevant. Your life didn’t HAVE to change. You put her first and yourself below last. The opposite of loving yourself. It’s not only ok to say “No”. It is right and just.
/r/MensRights01/08/24 11:28 AM
4

Because the tactic of “going to the extreme to try and nullify the norm” has been seen 1000 times.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 05:24 PM
3

Less.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 05:23 PM
3

And makes up such a tiny portion of abortions that the very mention in a debate draws scrutiny.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 05:22 PM
5

This is fair. Women of the past were smart enough to understand that raising a kid alone is stupidity. That is..until LBJ started subsidizing them for votes.
/r/MensRights30/07/24 05:19 PM
2

Oh, but didn’t those “got no money fur bed frame“ days produce some of the nastiest, most enjoyable sex? Flee, good OP! Fly, fly!!!
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 02:00 AM
2

You’re on the right track!!! I wish you the absolute best!!! Bb
/r/Divorce_Men29/07/24 01:46 AM
1

You can’t survive with shit kit. Water and walks. Baby steps. Start with A 20 minute walk every day. If your kid is with you? You’re taking it with them. Talk about the birds. The leaves. Brands of cars and insignia. Planes. Smells. Concrete markings (blue = water, orange = data, white = power). Teach all of these things regardless how young. Tell old high school and war stories. Play ABC song games or the 50-state song. Work up to 30 minutes, 2x per day. As for hydration, be honest here. What a…
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 01:32 PM
46

In-group BIAS will get you more academic results
/r/MensRights27/07/24 11:27 AM
3

What are you doing to improve yourself?
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 02:54 AM
1

Not to mention the state as a 3rd party
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/24 02:37 AM
3

Why even invite this when the answer is likely to be false? It’s not about “growing a pair .” He’s asking us to decipher the truth (which a direct question won’t provide as you think it will). To paraphrase that Okinawa poet, Mr. Miyagi? “Best defense? No be there.”
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 10:43 AM
2

Yup. Have her sign a dead-hand post-nuptial agreement with her and your lawyer involved. If not? No way.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 10:30 AM
1

Damn. Thanks for this. Many men (particularly OP) need to read it.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 10:28 AM
5

In divorce proceedings? Fuck no. Tell her nothing.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 10:26 AM
2

And if he knocks her up? Then what?
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 10:25 AM
4

And AP for cold feet…
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 10:23 AM
3

Outside of the odd science-fiction, the overwhelming majority of my library is non-fiction. I don’t need to fantasize when history gives enough drama and cliff-hangers. To each their own, of course, but we are not the same.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 10:21 AM
0

Harsh for this sub. Mostly true, sadly. But there is the flip side of the coin. You can see it here with men supporting other men. There is beauty in this world, too. Jimi Hendrix’s Castles Made of Sand comes to mind. You are the only foundation upon which to build anything permanent. Once we build on someone else? Falls in the sea eventually.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 04:30 PM
3

I hope yours does too.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 04:23 PM
5

This. Although I’d hold off on dating until OP squares himself away first. Lot of work to do.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 04:23 PM
3

Abolish Title IV-D
/r/MensRights23/07/24 03:56 PM
0

Fringe, 0.000001% example in 5…4…3…
/r/MensRights23/07/24 10:18 AM
5

The real racists
/r/MensRights23/07/24 10:16 AM
0

If an independent man sees value in counterproductive behaviors, of course those behaviors can be criticized. Especially if said behaviors achieve no results (or prove to be counterproductive over time). It’s more of a MLK vs Malcolm X difference on ideology. I believe self-reliance and independence is the way forward. The policy of appeasement has been tried. How’s it working out for men? On the contrary. I know that I have power. And it begins with the ability to say ‘No.’ and stand behind it.…
/r/MensRights21/07/24 03:49 PM
8

Sorry. These kinds of men are the primary reason that things are so jacked up. Calling a simpleton a simpleton isn’t sexist.
/r/MensRights21/07/24 04:01 AM
13

Because men stopped with the consequences. Hell, the bulk of us refused to even say 'no' at their crazy.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 09:26 PM
13

Only if you fall for the manipulation.
/r/MensRights17/07/24 09:25 PM
1

A gf is the last thing he needs.
/r/MensRights14/07/24 11:46 AM
2

Mods need to step on on this cat. Smells like the tiki torch and khaki brigade.
/r/MensRights14/07/24 11:46 AM
1

Why? People from Argentina can't think of other places????
/r/MensRights14/07/24 10:59 AM
6

Ask here for COFFEE. Don't pay for a dinner for someone for someone who hasn't shown reciprocity. Too many simpletons providing them with a steady supply of foodie calls. If she balks? She wasn't for you in the first place.
/r/MensRights14/07/24 10:58 AM
11

Never? Power simping is a relatively new thing in human history.
/r/MensRights13/07/24 08:31 AM
1

What laws? Cannot lawmakers vote ‘no’? The reality (and accountability) that many of us dodge is simple. Unlike American independence, abolitionist against slavery, and even desegregation (which all used force or the threat of), any right that women “earned” was given to them by men. It’s an uncomfortable truth, for sure. But zero fucking suffragettes stormed the beaches or crossed the frozen Deleware for the right to vote. By word or vote, men have the power to say ‘no’. We simply are too afrai…
/r/MensRights12/07/24 10:15 PM
44

Social media, lie,, eat hot chip.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 10:21 AM
1

How do you expect to be paid then?
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/24 10:14 AM
1

Because we all know the intent. It’s a variant of “who hurt you?” Ineffective. Try another trick.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 10:13 AM
5

Absolutely.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 10:12 AM
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Bottle it up but release it on the weight pile, track, rowing machine, burpees, pull-up bar, heavy bag or elliptical. Vent to your therapist or other men who were raised by men or are otherwise traditionally masculine. I come from a family full of cops and servicemen who saw action. Half died from not releasing properly. But ultimately? I kneel before your point. And regardless of what you said, I’m also sorry this happened to you and wish you the best of lives!!!!
/r/MensRights11/07/24 01:16 PM
3

Many of have been alive for some time. We’ve heard it for decades. It’s stale and sophomoric at this point. Try another trick.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 01:06 PM
12

Shaming language worked a few decades ago. Not now. Try another trick.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:32 AM
1

Too many men getting paychecks garnished for that to be true.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/24 10:15 AM
2

It’s a 2-key system.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 10:12 AM
17

It was indeed Disney.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 03:19 AM
1

If you don’t begin with the end in mind? You are correct. Especially so in joint property states. However, there are legal mechanisms that offer protection. But only if a man has the stones to stand his ground.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:34 AM
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And that statement will 100% be part of discovery and the financial affidavit.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 08:55 PM
1

Or not… but stand whatever ground is necessary to protect your future.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 08:18 PM
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I’m salaried with direct deposit. By law, ADP (or whoever handles your payroll) provides a pay statement that lists benefit costs, deductions and deposit accounts. If you get paid cash? Cool. But direct deposit statements (called paystubs in North America) WILL 100% be requested as part of the financial affidavit. You’ll be held in contempt if you don’t provide them. If you have children, the state calculatior is As for “bud”? Bad Canadian habit. Imagine the shit I get in the South. No offense i…
/r/MensRights10/07/24 08:11 PM
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And when the lawyers ask for paychecks? I’ve been through this twice bud. Financial affidavits ask for check stubs.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 06:54 PM
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“This is a dealbreaker for me to protect things that existed before you. If this is a dealbreaker for you, we can continue to date or stay friends. I love you but this is where we are.” Fuck her waterworks. Men need to return to the steely spines of our forefathers.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 06:53 PM
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On with the END in mind. One must have the ability to look forward.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 06:49 PM
2

Or, learn the shortest sentence in the English language and liberally employ it.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 10:32 AM
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Did the women use force or the law to change this? Nope. An inability to tell them ‘no’ is the modern man’s weakness.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 10:31 AM
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During financial discovery in divorce, this means nil. The trust idea is solid, though (IANAL)
/r/MensRights10/07/24 10:21 AM
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Good. Then this is just a formality between our lawyers.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 10:20 AM
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Begin with the end in mind.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 10:20 AM
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Know what? I normally would have downvoted you to hell. But I actually did some research. You’re not wrong at all. As for the topic of the thread? It should be named “Why do men refuse to stand their ground regarding pre-nups?” Make it a deal-breaker and stick to it. With an abundance mindset (understanding that there are millions of women out there) it isn’t so difficult. If a woman wanted to peg you up the ass with a dirty porcupine as a condition for marriage, what would you say? ETA: No disr…
/r/MensRights10/07/24 10:19 AM
1

You dodged the question.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 05:14 PM
1

So in your post, you did take liberties in assuming the reason has to do with our so-called “bad experiences with women IRL”. Did it ever occur to you that the reason may be that few female characters are written well? The Pollyanna trope is sadly strong in movies and television. Male characters largely must face hardships and become the hero we can relate to (as we all must do the same irl). A character like Rey, on the other hand, just becomes competent and proficient. This kills relatability.…
/r/MensRights09/07/24 02:48 PM
2

Ellen Ripley (!) Laura Croft Motorola Kusanagi
/r/MensRights09/07/24 02:12 PM
6

It’s her TrAuMa!!!!
/r/MensRights09/07/24 01:48 PM
6

Make sure you’re putting in the work to be congruent.
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 01:46 AM
11

Men are better at ignoring what we don’t want to see. The flags are almost always there.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/24 02:28 AM
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Cue “Now you a single mom” song. Get the diapers ready!
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 11:29 AM
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Small reason? 1 in 3 men who take the test are raising another man’s child. It’s why France outlaws paternity testing. Can’t have the government on the hook for that many fuck receipts, can we? I’d hardly call that small.
/r/MensRights03/07/24 11:14 AM
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Stats show that men work longer hours in tougher jobs. What are you on about?
/r/MensRights02/07/24 07:26 AM
10

Avoid marriage and relationships. Focus on self-improvement. That’s what MGTOW is. Given the broken and asymmetrical nature of family courts, what is wrong with such a premise?
/r/MensRights29/06/24 01:53 PM
11

Refute his statements with facts instead of sophomoric shaming language. Let’s hear it.
/r/MensRights29/06/24 01:52 PM
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You think it takes a “charge” to ruin a fella?
/r/MensRights29/06/24 11:48 AM
1

I can get behind this.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/24 11:33 AM
1

This is NOT putting the kids first. Vaginal behavior at best…
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/24 11:31 AM
1

The gym is the temple of improvement. Peacocking and gossip does nothing for gains.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/24 11:29 AM
1

Living well is winning. Everything else is letting her live in your head rent free
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/24 11:25 AM
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/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 11:01 PM
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This. It’s a choice. I wish they would own it. I don’t HAVE to do shit. Especially not “prove” myself to someone playing the game on “recruit“ mode. Why would I do that? For an ephemeral hole where I wasn’t the first and won’t be the last??? Non serviam.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 03:28 AM
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5+ year monk. Best thing I ever did.
/r/MensRights27/06/24 03:22 AM
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This IS the way
/r/MensRights27/06/24 03:21 AM
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Not giving a rip about dating. Not letting my lonely heart and thirsty genitals control me.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 02:53 AM
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therapy or couples counseling?
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 02:52 AM
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I'm a fan of Stronglifts 5x5. It will prep you for a hypertrophy workout afterward and make you strong like ox.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 02:51 AM
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That, and Title IV-D
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/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 04:49 PM
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The rules. As long as Title IV-D exists, hard ‘no’ from me.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/24 04:46 PM
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Cooking?!?!? Hahahahaha!!!!! That’s rich, pal!
/r/MensRights25/06/24 02:18 PM
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One must be brutal in qualifying on the front end. A lesson I also learned the hard way. It will rarely get better. Sucks, but this also applies to motorcycles. That 1982 Bimota just needs love, I said… 😂😂 I wish you the best in the future. To the rest of guys reading? The meme is grounded in reality. Don’t be so arrogant to think your love can fix a broken person. It cannot.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/24 08:37 AM
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But you can’t. It’s still “I can fix her” in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 03:29 AM
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Even worse! Yikes! I’m sorry she went through that. Truly.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 02:17 AM
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What kind of something?
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/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 09:46 PM
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Understood. Do you think that the parents don’t matter?
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/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 09:43 PM
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English?
/r/MensRights18/06/24 09:41 PM
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I see so many stories by men about why their ex "went bad" or such and such. Your comment gives me hope that at least one man won't tread down that path again.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:56 PM
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This is the mindset that gets men fucked up. Do you actually think you're on a 13th-century battlefield with fellow men in armor?
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:50 PM
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Both. A mature man knows that "I can fix her.." is a fool's errand and pretty much a meme at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:48 PM
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Some clarity, both of her parents are/were drug addicts and either died or fell into a gang. Knowing that fact, why did you decide to MARRY her? This question is 20% for you and 80% for the men who may be considering marriage. It sounds accusatory, but really isn't. I'm relatively sure I know the answer but let's get it out in the open so we can discuss it and help you and other men avoid this mistake again.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:47 PM
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And what percentage do the "non-women exempt from the draft" make up? We're talking nearly half the population versus what?
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/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 07:25 PM
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Nope. Go to SSS.gov and read. They covered that loophole.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 12:19 AM
2

Yet, so many men think they are smarter than the ancients.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 11:48 PM
2

Glad you’re with us!!!
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/24 11:23 AM
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Yep. That’s exactly where I expected we’d end up. Microcosmic fringe cases. FWIW, I’m for those Safe Haven boxes. It’s way better than the historic alternative of the back alley. Especially with fragile newborns. I’m just asking for symmetry of responsibilities. Such symmetry will actually do more to deter unwanted and unloved babies than any measure currently in place.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 09:14 PM
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Most state laws DO allow for both. But from birth, walk us through how that would work. It will lead you to a series of questions.. Can the man do it without a woman’s permission? Can the woman do it without the man’s permission? We have established that women CAN absolve themselves from motherhood in every respect. If a woman decides to keep the baby, can the father do the same? Or does he face jail and confinement to the country? A woman’s body is her choice. I’ll agree there. But also a man’s…
/r/MensRights12/06/24 08:46 PM
1

Ouch, You’re not supposed to use shady language against the shady!!
/r/MensRights12/06/24 07:17 PM
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BULLSHIT!!!!! A woman can place a baby in a box, press a button, and walk away Scott-free. Not only is it completely legal, but it is paid for by the taxpayers. You’re as wrong as wrong can be!!!!
/r/MensRights12/06/24 07:17 PM
1

But that didn’t address the question. How does 25 years of age imply pedophilia?
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/24 06:36 PM
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And I’m allowed to comment on your opinion. That’s the cirrrrrcle of life. Looks like I was correct in my assessment, ey? They always resort to personal attacks and shaming language. Fortunately, neither are effective. Try something else.
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/24 10:53 AM
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Yepperz. Can’t have your primary weapon deemed illegal now, can they?
/r/MensRights10/06/24 10:51 AM
2

Raised by boomers. It’s their way of rebelling against stability. Sound familiar!
/r/MensRights10/06/24 01:45 AM
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Good man!! Good luck to you!!
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 07:09 PM
2

The last sentence contradicts itself.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 07:05 PM
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I haven’t the patience for most 20 somethings. But I am confused on how 25 implies pedophilia when it well passes the age of consent in the strictest of nations? Maybe having lived outside of the US has something to do with my confusion around your statement. In a LOT of countries, a father wouldn’t dream of entrusting his 22 year old daughter to a 25 year old man. And not just impoverished 3rd world countries.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 07:04 PM
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You’re either an American or a woman. Possibly both. I’d put cash money on it.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 06:47 PM
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If I brainwash someone into believing 2+2=4 or saying that women are oppressed in 2024, are either valid because they say it? One of the WORST mistakes we make is to play along with this nebulous word dancing that destroys the meaning of well-defined words. It’s like the popular saying “my truth”.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 02:54 PM
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You know. You don’t want to (like so many of us didn’t). But you know. It hurts to even think about. But denial gets men hurt even more. Might be time for therapy.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 02:51 PM
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No shit. Dude must be a poet in his native language.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 12:17 PM
8

My money is on “irreconcilable differences”
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 12:16 PM
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What do you think she’s doing out of town on the weekends? Bible study, perhaps? Tiddlywinks tournaments?
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/24 12:14 PM
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Besides, “creepy” is one of those nebulous, vaginal words that has no real meaning other than “I didn’t feel tingles”
/r/MensRights09/06/24 12:12 PM
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The National Organization for Women The largest feminist organization on Earth
/r/MensRights09/06/24 11:56 AM
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Strange game. The only winning move is NOT to play.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 01:06 AM
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Guess which organization spent the most money fighting recognition of parental alienation and even bragged about it on their list of accomplishments?
/r/MensRights08/06/24 08:43 PM
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Size - 12 military aged males Activity - Moving east on MSR Lincoln Location - Grid… You get the point. There was also that gay men’s clothing catalog (that as a youth, I had no idea was for gay men). What was it called? Oh yeah… International Male. The CDC has no problems with it. We’re they referring to humans or animals here? A must-read, best-selling book by author Richard Reeves is titled “Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do about It” Hmm… I he…
/r/MensRights08/06/24 08:30 PM
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Yes to all. I intermittently fast to keep my weight in control and avoid unnecessary snacking. I drink alcohol or eat sweets once a week. This ability came from meditation and desire. And no, sex is NOT like food. You will NOT die without it. I guarantee it. But three or so weeks without food? You will die. The two aren't comparable. Sounds like the answer is 'no'. If you're younger (early 20's), this is understandable. That said? As a man, you MUST have mastery over your urges OR they will have…
/r/MensRights08/06/24 11:43 AM
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That wasn't the question, friend. I promise this isn't a trap. Be honest with yourself. Are you able to 100% control your urges?
/r/MensRights08/06/24 11:33 AM
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6U rack mount? I’ve seen the exact same thing.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 10:31 AM
2

And if he got her pregnant?!?!? Thinking with your dick has dire consequences.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 10:20 AM
3

Are you a slave to sex? Not the insult it sounds like. Answer honestly.
/r/MensRights08/06/24 10:19 AM
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Your mind cannot be a rock if your body is porridge. Even if it’s a long, slow walk each morning (on an empty stomach), start dropping the fat. If beer and wine are the reasons? Limit it to one drink a day (at most). If it’s junk food? STOP!!! Lifting weights is the best physical outlet for stress, but with a rapid weight gain, baby steps.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 10:14 AM
3

Because it was never about "what's right for the child"
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 01:10 AM
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I don't know how true the lady's claim is but, why do this when your man is at the end of his career? Uhhhh... that goose ain't layin' no more golden eggs.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 01:10 AM
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If you respond, you're a mark. Ignore and block. That said, if you find someone who had a happy, long, fruitful relationship offa Reddit drive by? I will change my tune.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 01:06 AM
2

You might want to watch Divorce Corp. It's an entire industry.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 01:02 AM
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The bot beats the mod team to it 99 times out of 100. I assure you that no one is sitting there with the finger on the button, twirling the ol' mustache and waiting to nuke your post because you said a dirty word. It sees the word and instantly takes action. It's often (at minimum) a few hours before a human sees it because of real life, jobs, and stuff. Now, all that said? I'd be hurting so bad without my dog. I root for you to pull through this.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 01:00 AM
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FYI, r/divorceddads has an automod that triggers on naughty words. I assure you that one is manually deleting swear words unless you're aiming it at someone in anger. Your culprit over there is a few lines of code.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/24 11:58 PM
3

You'll keep feeling defeated unless something changes. Contact lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/24 07:59 PM
2

I would love to hear the answer here...
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/24 07:59 PM
1

When I would glance at the Red Pill crowd's posts, one of the things they would recommend is to approach xx number of women. In sales, it's the same as cold calling. It feels like ass to get hung up on. But after a few dozen calls? It's like swatting a mosquito or sneezing. These things thicken your skin for sure. And yes, women have always been attracted to courage. Remember the kids who would put a note in the girl's bookbag? Those were the ones that never got results. Fortune favors the bold.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:59 PM
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Vast majority of MEN. The ones saying this are projecting. By and large, women shun the possibility of rejection (which is why they rarely initiate). Want an experiment? Ask a female friend to "pick you up" as if the roles were reversed. The majority will squirm, mostly because they have no experience putting themselves out there because of that fear. Want to take it to the full course? When a man is rejected, we say, "Oh well..." and move on. Reject a woman and see how it goes. I suggest wearin…
/r/MensRights06/06/24 02:39 PM
4

Don’t move out unless you have explicit guidance to do so from your attorney. This is vital to your life.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/24 11:53 AM
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I love the spirit. I only wish it matched the reality.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/24 09:01 AM
1

So, by your words and those of OP, if she takes control of all the money, how was op “wrong”?
/r/MensRights05/06/24 08:44 AM
10

The same CNN that once covered the Azov battalion but now has swept that under the proverbial rug?
/r/MensRights05/06/24 07:52 AM
1

How does “not letting her take control of ALL (keyword) the money” equate to deceit and “controlling “?
/r/MensRights04/06/24 06:28 PM
1

Happened to so many of us. I keep my fatass photo on my mirror as a reminder ever to return to that state.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 05:57 PM
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There’s fatter fatasses than you could ever become. They’re working hard and gym bros give them props. The gym isn’t just for physical improvement. If you don’t have the courage and mental toughness to get in a gym (that has cameras like every other business), then a modern woman will fuck you up like you stole something from her grandma. Screw everyone else. Get in there and build the man you were meant to be. The Iron god will quickly cure that fragile ego and replace it with mental toughness …
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 05:56 PM
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Also bullshit. Not making women pull their weight when it comes to rights vs responsibilities, exempting them from the social norms around violence (even when they themselves are violent…). Protecting them at all costs.. Venerating mothers…. What mistreatment are you talking about (that men did not themselves face)??? You’re buying into a feminist narrative that simply does not jive with history. Not one bit. Such an argument is nothing more than Color Purple and Handmaiden’s Tale bullshit.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 04:53 PM
3

You just 100% answered own question right there. Great work!
/r/MensRights03/06/24 08:32 AM
9

Or (more likely) an aggressive mom.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/24 08:31 AM
1

So the norm or exception?
/r/MensRights03/06/24 08:12 AM
5

When did men hate women based on their gender? Show us where in our history this occurred.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 08:07 AM
11

By who’s rules? Feeling obligated to say something like that means that their brainwashing is working. No, not ALL women. Just like men, only the ones deserving of respect. They aren’t fucking gods.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 08:04 AM
6

Chain of custody.
/r/MensRights03/06/24 01:55 AM
5

Wow. Serious gaps in comprehension. OP said "In my TOWN". What would that perhaps imply?
/r/MensRights02/06/24 11:00 PM
5

Generally, that's a committed, monogamous relationship or marriage.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 10:57 PM
2

Best of luck to you. Hang in there!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/24 10:36 PM
1

Would you consider that the be the norm for cats or the exception?
/r/MensRights02/06/24 10:35 PM
3

Settling implies higher value. Titty tattoo ain’t the prize here. No siree!
/r/MensRights02/06/24 06:37 PM
13

Balls to that noise. Screw cats. If I want to come home and be ignored in my own home? I’ll get married again.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 05:22 PM
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