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| 4 | Ex-wife engaged less than 7 months.My quote to the ex was “better him than me”. Let the air out of her tires real quick. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/01/25 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Lost interest in womenlol! 🤪 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever filed and had second thoughts?I’m wondering if there is someone in the background??? | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/11/24 12:34 PM |
| 4 | Admitting you got divorced because of a dead bedroom……..and you stayed with this monster? | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/24 01:21 PM |
| 2 | My wife just threatened separating.They seem to have to have a theme. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/24 07:39 AM |
| 7 | Half a fucking million.Ex Wives usually do better in the short term. But when all is said and done, she's broke and begging for money. The exh always does well in the long run. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/24 11:25 AM |
| 2 | This shits hardI agree! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/24 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t men go on “healing journeys”?That's good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/24 12:13 PM |
| 2 | They basically hide behind lawyers to disguise their true self. They hire pit-bulls purposefully so they can continue lying to themselves about being decent humans.Go on............ | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/24 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts now that I'm divorced and almost 'done' with her.Thanks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/24 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Wife Buying me out of MortgageWhy do I get the feeling she wants to avoid those expensive fees? Damn sure eat into the equity. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/24 12:07 PM |
| 6 | SBXW super friendly triggering meWith that said, do not get heavily involved with a rebound. Too early. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/24 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Honey Dostbx or ex doesn't get that benefit any longer. You aren't obliged or obligated to help her in any way less children. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/03/24 11:14 AM |
| 2 | What is the worst thing your ex ever did to you?"He works at ihop". Still laughing! | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/03/24 12:37 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts now that I'm divorced and almost 'done' with her.You are exactly right!!!!!!! RO immediately. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 11:44 AM |
| 4 | Thoughts now that I'm divorced and almost 'done' with her.Great post! Good to see you sticking to your plan. Question though, why isn't AP in jail? And why is she still in the house? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/24 11:37 AM |
| 3 | The removed this post within 3 minutes lol: "The chores lie"Yeah, what is "RA". | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/03/24 10:42 AM |
| 1 | How long have you guys stayed single?do share. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/24 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Going thought a divorceGreat reply! | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/24 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Going thought a divorceRiding the carousel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/24 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Going CrazyThat's funny. True, but funny just the same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/03/24 12:19 PM |
| 3 | What I love about being divorcedAh yes, now she's AP's problem. Here is hoping you are having your best life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/02/24 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Ex thinks I hacked her. I wish she thought I was this capable when we were married!I bow to your superior intellect. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/24 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Wife and lover not working outNicht! Nein! Nay! Noh! Nyet! No! Absolutely not! | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/24 11:29 AM |
| 5 | Divorced, ex left, expects me to sell the houseWhen your son turns 18 sounds good. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/24 12:38 PM |
| 3 | My Son is giving my ex Wife absolute hell, and I kinda feel like she deserves itGood for your son. Shows you brought him up right. Oh yeah, is your ex one of those tiktok girls? | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/01/24 11:57 AM |
| 4 | Story is changingShe'll be on Tik Tok crying the blues too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/01/24 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Dating during divorce?{Laugh} Yes sir, very fitting indeed! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/24 12:02 PM |
| 3 | Move on is the only answerI would add a number 3 to your post: "Don't use the internet to find a woman". Those chicks are all used up! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/12/23 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Sexual FrustrationYup! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/12/23 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Men who pay Child Support - What do you pay per month?California? | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/23 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Could STBX force me to pay for BAC program?She wants you to pay for the baby sitter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Well, wife wants to go to the streetsI hope you are preparing financially because she damn sure wants you to fund her new lifestyle. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/23 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Is getting married even worth it?"Old ass boomers"? And you mean no disrespect? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/12/23 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Wife having second thoughts? Need to get your opinionsJust keep playing it cool. I know it must be nerve wracking, but it's best to let her make the first move. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/23 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Wife having second thoughts? Need to get your opinionsWe are of the same opinion. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/12/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Post DivorceJust be thankful you are out of that toxic environment. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/23 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Ex won't stop with lawsuits! what's the solutionThis is a great idea! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/23 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Major divorce battle setting up between Musk and GrimesDiCaprio has the right idea. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/11/23 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Anybody glad they divorced even though it meant not retiring and 5-10 years of alimony that took up most of your take home pay?Did she try to take you back to court? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/11/23 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Am I overthinking the consequences of getting married?You sir are being overly smart. Dating today is like walking through a minefield one wrong step and kaboom. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/11/23 01:07 PM |
| 0 | So my wife, idk what she is actually, wanted space and now we are taking a “break”Exactly!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/11/23 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Wife flipped the scriptSounds to me like she was looking for the excuse. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/11/23 12:25 PM |
| 5 | STBXW bashes me to her “dates”."Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other." – Al Bundy. Just though I'd this in there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/23 11:18 AM |
| 3 | Another Equitable Distribution ScenarioGo through mediation and get it in writing with her signature affixed to the documents(s). | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/23 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Shit get half of my stuff, I get what?Freeeeeeeeeedddddooooooommmmmm! (Think Braveheart) | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 02:10 PM |
| 3 | Shit get half of my stuff, I get what?Had you stayed married for years longer, you would have been in deep shit. Sounds like you got off fairly easy. Just dumped the gold digger and move on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/10/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Divorce Realization: Housework is really not that much 'work'That is great! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/10/23 01:57 PM |
| 7 | The Coldness AfterNo need to explain, as it's none of anyone business how your marriage broke up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/10/23 02:24 PM |
| 5 | She fucked another manI could put alot of words down to describe your STBXW, but I won't so I'll leave you with my best description. "Dillusional" | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/10/23 12:57 PM |
| 3 | My ex-wife finally found a boyfriend on a dating app, and I can't stop laughing at the ironyWhat I am curious about is that she uses a dating app. If she has all that going for her then she should be able to find someone without the use of app's. Hmmm! Just a thought. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/09/23 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Wife comes cleanGood on yeah brother! | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/23 12:32 PM |
| 5 | Reasons for sudden change in wife behaviour?Hopefully, you owe a debt of gratitude to your wife's friend. Just go with it but keep and eye out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/09/23 12:30 PM |
| 3 | My ex wife ain’t shitI hope you didn't accept that as a valid response? | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/09/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Wife refuses to disclose whereaboutsFile on whatever form of abandonment is allowed in Texas. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/09/23 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Financial Abuse?Seems to me if you divorce her, you'll better off financially. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/23 01:41 PM |
| 6 | Divorce Finalized in April and she announced her wedding date in November.Child Protective Services! Schedule an interview with them and brief them on everything you stated here. Start the ball rolling and get it on record. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Just a quick rant. I’m going through a divorce…Save all those conversations for your lawyer. She will try to run you through the ringer, but if you show evidence of her prior planning it may not go well for her during the divorce. At least you won't be paying her for the rest of your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/23 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Divorce in Australia"SMSF"? | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/23 12:16 PM |
| 2 | Wife wants to keep IVF embryo ??The short answer is "child support". Suggest you demand the embryo's be destroyed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/23 11:12 AM |
| 1 | I’m dating a walk away wife 😬- what do I do?Off the planet! | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/23 11:34 AM |
| 1 | I’m 29 and feel like my wife is abusiveI do strongly concur with those that suggest getting the hell out of that situation. Stop having sex and leave. Don't walk........RUN like the wind! | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/23 11:01 AM |
| 1 | The best decision I've ever madeGood one! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/23 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Tiny Success StoryEx's don't like it when you are happy, especially Ex wives. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Pre served papers divorce advice.You might consider hiring an investigator. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/23 01:38 PM |
| 6 | If Your Getting Married In The U.S Remember These 3 ThingsI'm glad you spoke up. Good to know there are some decent women out there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Divorced; First loveAnd watch tv while eating bon bons. I had one of those, and divorced her as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/23 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Spouse keeps calling chain of commandOr, 1SG is looking for a little some some. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 12:59 PM |
| 4 | CAUTION: r/Divorce is NOT friendly to men!Men Going Their Own Way | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/23 12:34 PM |
| 2 | 1yr Divorce ruleThat's like letting the fox into the hen house. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/23 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Don’t worry fellasGood on ya! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/23 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Don’t worry fellasInform (pseudo) Prince Charming's wife. He's leading your ex on for the sex. My best guess is that he has no intention of divorcing his wife for a cheater. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/23 12:02 PM |
| 8 | Don’t worry fellasKarma is a bitch! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/23 01:40 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with her having a boyfriendYou might try having a conversation with their boss. If you do, don't act or make threats just explain the situation. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/23 03:14 PM |
| 2 | This guy knows: wife of soccer stars claims half his fortune, discovers all his assets are under his mom's nameExactly! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/23 02:15 PM |
| 1 | This guy knows: wife of soccer stars claims half his fortune, discovers all his assets are under his mom's nameAchraf is the man! | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/23 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Angry about my SBXWShe's a "lounge lizard's" wet dream. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/23 12:24 PM |
| 3 | Angry about my SBXWThat's what "cease and desist" letters are for. Get with your lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Angry about my SBXWMost likely her lawyer told her to do that. She'll revert back when it's not to her favor. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/23 12:17 PM |
| 2 | She wants the house!Are the kids yours, or did she bring them into the marriage? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/23 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Am I on track to get a divorce or are these just “typical problems”My thoughts exactly! :) | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Why is cheating/adultery not a crime?Good to know. Thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/23 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Why is cheating/adultery not a crime?Idaho has statutes on adultery. Up to 3 years in prison and a $1000.00 fine. Idaho statute: 18-6601 thru 18-6607. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/23 12:16 PM |
| 3 | The way I vet women after divorce is kind of coldYou should have dropped divorce papers on her stating: here's some more "stupid New Age bullshit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/03/23 04:43 PM |
| 1 | There is a horror movie being made about your ex. What's the name of the movie?"The Devils Party Guest". | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/23 01:12 PM |
| 8 | Ex finally popped up on online datingYou should reply: "I need to warn the poor schmuck". It's obvious that message was intended to hurt, otherwise why send it in the first place. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/23 12:42 PM |
| 2 | What is the drive to find another partner ASAP?Follow your brain. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/23 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it extortion?Get a new attorney. This isn't right. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/23 01:05 PM |
| 1 | marital propertyLOL!!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/23 01:02 PM |
| 2 | DoneDid you ask her the name of her boyfriend? Cuz nothin here makes any other sense that that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/23 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Meeting ex’s new boyfriend.Before you start spending the big bucks on a PI, you might request the police do a welfare check. Based on your ex's reluctance to give his name and your children feel uncomfortable around the douche, there is a very good chance of the police stopping by. Besides, it won't cost you anything. Seems to me there might be something your wife doesn't want you to know about said "douche". Could be a convicted felon. I think your lawyer gave you some bad advice. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/01/23 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Wife changing her mindSo she says. She can easily call AP later. Time to go NC except for the children only. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/01/23 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Men, Marriage and Michelle ObamaIn their minds, you are a member of the patriarchy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/12/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Taking my mailThat's good!!!!!!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/12/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Anyone thinking of dating a single mom?Do tell? | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/12/22 11:08 AM |
| 1 | So my ex wants to bring her boyfriend to mediation...Mediation is between you and your STBXW. Tell her you will request he be excluded from the mediation. Let your lawyer know what her plans are and insist that the POS be excluded from any and all of the divorce proceedings. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/11/22 01:30 PM |
| 5 | My wife is divorcing! ( main reason: she got no feeling for me anymore) Need some advice…You are waffling!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/11/22 01:17 PM |
| 4 | After nearly 4 years, Karma finally pays that B!#%H back big time.There is a special place in hell reserved for your ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/22 12:31 PM |
| -1 | Am I wrong for rejecting a request for ex to have breakfast with our daughter and her boyfriend without me for child’s birthday during sports trip.You are not wrong and totally within the custody agreement. Looks to me as if your ex is trying to shove you out and insert POS bf in your place. Stay strong, stay steady, and stay the course. Tell your wife if she wants to have breakfast then it's without the POS bf. Just the three of you only. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | My SO states that they would just like child support, and maybe some cash assets, nothing else. Thoughts?And, who is they? | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/22 11:43 AM |
| 3 | MacKenzie Scott (Jeff Bezos exwife) fill divorce from second husband.Yeah, to herself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/09/22 05:07 PM |
| -1 | Best Mom Ever!Let the boys determine their gender orientation and tell the #@&^% to knock it off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | The EntitlementI think the fact that you are in California says you are fucked. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | You can't make this shit up.The good guy wins!!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/22 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Guy who got divorce, is life better?The longer you wait to leave, the harder it's going to be. Worry about the good times later. I can tell you from experience that it gets better, much better. Could be the reason you have a dead bedroom is that she is getting it elsewhere. If you decide to divorce, use a mediator, as you both don't have many assets to declare. Good luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Guy who got divorce, is life better?Do share! | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/22 12:24 PM |
| 3 | My dads ex came from Russia and has nothing to her name and is expecting 75/25We've been warned for many years of eastern European and Russian women. Time your dad changed lawyers, or do a few more consults with other lawyers before making any more decisions on divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/22 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Her lawyer offers to dismiss TRO if I agree to joint custody with her being domiciliaryReport that lawyer to your states bar association. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/22 05:19 AM |
| 4 | How do you avoid the rage?The only way I can see is focus on yourself and take it one day at a time. Go totally NC except for the obvious communications such as lawyer and children. Sorry to see you are going through this, it sucks. My ex did the same after 22 years of marriage. It was painful for sure, but I survived. The jerks are still together, but fight all the time. My children told the ex not to bring him around for all activities. She is effectively banned from all of her grand children's activities. Karma!!!!!! … | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/22 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Don't know if I should divorce my wifeWhich are you worried about the most? The drinking or your retirement? Seriously, try to get her to start the 12 step program. She may relapse several times, but keep encouraging her to continue the program. Your wife is the only one who can stop. As far as your military retirement is concerned, she is entitled to half of the number of years you are married to her. If you divorce at 10 years she gets half for only that 10 year period. Talk to JAG as they should be able to help you out on that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | My wife wants a divorce because different views on spending, am I better off just letting her spend rather than get screwed financially by the divorce anyway?You said it all my friend, "Peoples Republic of California". | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/22 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Laid off and can’t pay alimonyHow long do you owe the blood sucker alimony? | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/08/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Will I even get a chance to defend myself?Get your lawyer to file a separate defamation lawsuit against her. Apparently, she has already gone on record so she owns it now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Financial PTSDThis is a conversation you need to have with your girlfriend. Present it all just like you did here in this post. She'll appreciate you for it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/22 03:30 PM |
| 1 | STBXW framed me to take my kids. Please help me find sanityCheck to see if there is a police report for the time you called the cops on her for abuse. Just because you didn't press charges doesn't mean there isn't a report. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Stop working before Divorce.Let her be the one to file first. If you had a good year or years that's to your detriment in divorce. Best to document all assets (everything including house cars etc), and it couldn't hurt to check for an OM. Consult a lawyer, but don't file. Personally, I wouldn't deactivate because the system usually looks back a predetermined number of years so quitting now won't do you any good. Divorce is a bitch! Good luck! G | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | I hate the feeling of having an enemy living in my house with meJAWOF | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/22 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Harassment by YellowFever46YellowJacket is another in a long list of internet trolls. You see them on all social media. If you respond to it's crap you let it take control of the narrative. Me, I just ignore the stupid fucks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/07/22 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Is your work history part of the divorce process???Yes, divorce is war. Be your own general! | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/07/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Is your work history part of the divorce process???Tell your wife to pound sand! Check with your state as I've heard that 5 years back is becoming standard for divorce. If she wants the info, make her and her attorney do the leg work. Seems to me that she wants to extract as much money out of you as she can. What does your attorney say? Hope this helps, and good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/22 02:43 PM |
| 3 | wife says not only would she know, but I would also be cutting my own throat if I served her papersIn my opinion, it's a bluff. Also, you haven't given enough information such as children, financial situation etc. If it were me, I'd have her served. She is trying to take control of the situation and narrative. Could be she has plans in the works and by you having her served, it would throw of her timeline. Best of luck and hope to see an update. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/22 12:12 PM |
| 3 | Divoce After 15 YearsGet out! Get out now before she starts to think the situation over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/22 11:59 AM |
| 4 | Divoce After 15 YearsWhat is a divorce coach? | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Wife’s financial bombshellMake sure her spending habits are documented. If there is a way to get primary custody then go for it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | I realize the advice that will come from this, but I'm just ranting.You might consider asking Child Protective Service to do a welfare check on the residence. Married huh. Inform his wife that he is shacking up with your ex. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 4 | Im not playing gamesIf you are in the US, have a Sheriffs Deputy present when you serve her......Then haul ass on out of there. Good luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | California business owner looking for pre divorce adviceWhat is the reason for divorce? | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/22 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Late night battleSeems she cares more for the dog than her children. I'd go to child protective services first for custody. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/22 10:27 AM |
| 23 | Fixing your marriage, what did you try to do?I fixed my marriage by loosing 125 lbs. I divorced my wife! | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/06/22 11:01 AM |
| 3 | Finalizing DivorceTo be honest, that is one huge red flag. The real question is what do YOU want? I won't allow it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/22 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Back to AP"She attempted to talk to me about a reconciliation and I just could not do it!" For me, it should have read: She attempted to talk to me about a reconciliation and I said "NO EFFING WAY". She see's you as her Plan B! Check with a lawyer and see if you can include AP in the divorce petition. If so, lover boy will most likely cut-a-chogey out of there. You are at war man, don't let her out general you. Good luck! | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/22 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Cheaters In My HouseRecord all conversations w/bitch Call CPS and request they do a welfare check of home. Notify police of bf alcohol and drug use/abuse in home, and threats by wife. If she is running her mouth by phone then tell her to contact you only in person or by social media. That way you have a record of the conversations. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/22 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Trap? (I'm calling a lawyer anyway)Hear them out, but don't sign anything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants divorce. Moved out, wants to sex’s still whenever she wants.Just looked up gray rock method: When dealing with malignant narcissists, psychopaths, sociopaths, borderlines, drama queens, stalkers and other emotional vampires" LOL!!! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/22 11:56 AM |
| 4 | What Am I Looking At?First off, who moved those stocks into a shared account? Your wife has no legal rights to inherited stocks, properties, or monies unless you specifically authorize in writing. You either didn't provide enough info her or something is fishy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/22 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Bad/Glad situationYou handled the situation very well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/22 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else have this happen?Not enough to go on. Did this happen to you? Are you male or female? Or, are you just curious? | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/22 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Seeking answersPersonally, I think she is trying to pipe smoke up your ass. But then again there are other variables such as, are you both working, who has the larger paycheck. Is there a trust or inheritance involved etc. If you don't have one as yet, get a good lawyer. Your lawyer will be much better equipped to help you. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/22 06:04 PM |
| 2 | 1 yearYou see and hear about so many cases where mommy dearest tries to eliminate the children from their father life. Patience is definitely a virtue. They, your children, are already seeing past her BS and opening up more. Bitches be crazy! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Separation child visitation "offer"Don't mean to rain on your parade, but did you think of getting a paternity test (DNA) before you sign the birth certificate. I know the courts make the assumption that the husband is the father, but it good to make sure. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Men deal with narcissism as much as women. My ex is a covert narcissist.Narcissists also do not like to loose and/or be told "NO". | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/22 12:54 PM |
| 4 | I experienced depression for the first time at 43 years old. I know some of you are experiencing situational depression and I wanted to share my story.Fantastic! | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/22 10:46 AM |
| 3 | can we make our divorce settlements public?I thought all divorce proceedings are public record in all US states. That is unless the record is sealed by the court at request. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/22 10:39 AM |
| 8 | Im getting divorcedGet the fuck out of Dodge. Go back to your family. If you don't have the money to fly back to the states then ask your family for the fare. There are two songs that come to mind here and those are: "50 ways to leave your lover" by Paul Simon and "Whats live got to do with it" by Tina Turner. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | She told me she doesn't love meNeed a lot more information here. Children, length of marriage, financials, etc. She is using you. Stop the boo hoo and feeling sorry for yourself and go proactive. You are just a source of income for her and she needs you to continue the lifestyle she has become accustomed to. Sit her down give the divorce talk using mediation rather than a full blown divorce complete with lawyers and judge etc. Big thing here is to give in detail, a full account as stated above. She is using you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | My STBX has a restraining order against me and she decided she is now living at my apartment.This whole thing sounds fishy! | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | What does one do when you’ve lost everything?Stay in contact with your children even if it's text, email, facebook or other means. Cards and gifts for holidays and birthdays. Your wife is the one that chose to end the marriage and you are not at fault in any way. She'll get Karma in the end. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/05/22 11:07 PM |
| 1 | (29M) My spouse and I (29F) had a “surprise” pregnancy right before I’ve started the divorce process. I’d appreciate any adviceYou might request a paternity test. You never know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | So, I got banned from divorce sub.Femme Nazi | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/22 02:16 PM |
| 2 | I caught my wife cheating two months ago after we just got back together last year. I filed for divorce now she’s saying she doesn’t want a divorce. It’s really messing with me.Correct me if I am wrong, but I suspect that she wasn't doing well financially when you met her. My guess is that she was really looking for a stable home and you provided that for he. Was she married before? If so, what was the reason for her divorce? She wanted you to put a baby in it because she could hold your feet to the fire. Sorry dude, but she was using you for a stable life and has no intention of staying doing the happily ever after with you. Get out now while you can! | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/22 01:01 PM |
| 4 | 8 Mistakes Men Should Avoid During DivorceI agree with all 8, especially #8. My brother went for the jugular during the divorce and came out of it in decent shape. I think the divorce laws here in the states encourages women to divorce. If you stick to your guns, you won't get taken to the cleaners. 24cce57a...I hear ya man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else read r/divorce and see a ton of toxic women?Thank God I follow the beat of my own drum. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/22 08:28 PM |
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