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Certain-Line-6351/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 04:43 AM
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Certain-Line-6351/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 04:34 PM
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Go meet him be friendly. Chances are he might be a really good guy. When I met my ex wife’s new boyfriend, he’s a bit of a dork, but overall is a pretty nice guy. He treats my ex-wife very well and my daughter has yet to say one bad thing about him. If the guys a good guy who cares it’s just another positive male role model for your kids
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/23 04:08 AM
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They’re always a POS at the end. Move on man. Nothing you can do.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/23 10:25 PM
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It’s normal. You still have a connection to your ex. It’ll pass brother. You’ll feel dirty or guilty subconsciously. But in reality you aren’t doing anything wrong. Just when you feel that way remind yourself, you’ll are over. You aren’t doing anything wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/23 04:43 PM
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I’ll humor another woman telling me she loves me. But I’ll never trust it and I’ll never truly trust her. But I can put on an act an just enjoying the next ride knowing it will end at some point.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/23 10:24 AM
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Omg she cheated when you separated!?? No one here is even remotely surprised.
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/23 07:24 AM
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I just met my ex wife’s new guy about two weeks ago. And I treated that guy like he was my bro I haven’t seen in a while, so no I know everything he heard about me he’s second-guessing and on top of that acting like we’re good friends in front of my ex-wife and seeing her all disgusted about it… I felt so fucking good.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/23 07:09 AM
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Who are you protecting their basically adults. If they know Mom’s been a cheater for four years that script going to flipped real quick.
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/23 07:05 AM
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Change is always scary. But you’ve tried for years and your unhappy and nothing is changing. Sometimes throwing in the towel after years of trying isn’t a bad thing.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/23 09:44 AM
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That’s what every woman does. They front just leave blindly. They find some fool to take them in 1st.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/23 02:15 AM
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Women from bars…. You sure about that?
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/23 03:19 AM
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I get you want revenge and to tarnish her image but, people aren’t stupid we can smell that relashionship was an affair. An remember she’ll lose him the exact way she found him.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/23 04:09 AM
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You just described a narcissist. To the public they look great… behind closed doors they’re shady manipulative motherfuckers.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 05:42 AM
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My daughter makes fun of her moms new BF says he’s a short bald goober and just an odd ball. She made my dad and didn’t even realize it. But tbh, the new guy makes my ex happy and treats my daughter well when he is around. I can’t complain it could be way worse. At least I know he’s a decent dude, just kinda weird apparently lol
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 05:16 AM
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I don’t mind dating long term. No marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/23 02:21 AM
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She’s so far ahead of you now. I moved in silence until the last few weeks.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/23 03:07 AM
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Really I left my wife and now I can’t believe I ever thought she was attractive. Once i saw who she really was she just seemed ugly.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/23 07:15 AM
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Sounds like it’s not your 1st rodeo. Way to hold your boundaries and kick her ass to the curb.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 03:15 AM
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No fault $350 online fee. No assist split no money exchanged no child support. Painless other than the heartbreak lol. I will say I didn’t take anything from the house I let her keep everything.
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/23 01:18 AM
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That’s what mine is doing
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/23 11:32 AM
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Just remember you’re not the one putting everyone in that situation she is
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/23 01:12 AM
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Dude let it go. When a woman cheats it’s fuckin over. That’s why the second you found out she bailed she didn’t care anymore bro. She was using you for security and resources.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 06:23 AM
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I don’t have a bitchy cut of an ex-wife making my every day a living hell anymore. I can wake up calmly put on TV super cup of coffee and hang out with my dog no questions asked.. I eat what I want when I want I don’t have to run it by anybody. I can go out and do what I want with who I want no questions asked. The only downfall is I don’t see my daughter every day anymore. That’s all.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/23 06:21 AM
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No affair. 😅😅😅😅 They always monkey branch. You just don’t know about it.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/23 05:04 AM
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We’re all divorced we’ve all been put through the ringer by someone we loved and trusted more than anyone. It’s only natural that we’re super hesitant and on edge and high alert going into a new relationship. Anything that reminds us of the one that broke us is an immediate red flag and starts to put a bit of doubt in your mind. I myself have already ended two relationships fairly quickly and early on into them because the red flags shot showing and I’m not dealing with that again so I have no p…
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 08:34 AM
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The next relationship never lasts after divorce don’t sweat it brother. That was just practice your guard still up everything is perceived as a red flag. Have every right to have your guard up.
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/23 05:29 AM
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You got understand most people aren’t stupid and most relationships and the exact same way. People who know know what she’s doing and just choose not to care or get involved in anyone else’s drama. Just get through your break up is clean easy as possible if you still want those friends reach out if they choose her fuck it you know they weren’t worthwhile friends anyway
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/23 04:22 AM
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Lawyer up and serve her ASAP before the 10 year mark. Do not get stuck paying alimony till your dead brother.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 03:59 AM
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Block her from direct means of communication your phone text message what’s up. On your social media restrict her. So you don’t see her or her post on social media. But keep doing stuff keep having fun going out seeing people taking pictures and post all that shit to your social media because you know she’s watching.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 03:55 AM
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She thought the grass was gonna be greener she went out and played the field. she’s realizing all these guys only want to sleep with her and no one actually cared for her like you did. So now she’s starting to panic and start to try and Hoover you back in because you’re the only person who ever cared. Don’t forget she already tossed you aside like you weren’t worth it shell do it again.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/23 03:51 AM
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I’m waiting for that to play of in my life atm. Have my popcorn ready.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/23 08:21 AM
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There’s someone else bro. You can beat around the bush all you want but they all operate the same.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/23 09:25 PM
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Yeah that’s the whole thing. Women are all trying to be independent and become the men they want. They’re just getting divorced now because they think in a hive mind and it’s trendy and they get rewarded for it. All these boys have seen grandpop dads uncles brothers get absolutely destroyed in divorce. An we are starting to not commit to women. Look on the other side of Tik tok they’re all complaining no guy is taking me serious everything is a situationship. Blah blah blah.
/r/Divorce_Men05/08/23 09:53 AM
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Betrayal sucks. You’re constantly reminded of it because you have to coparent. Go talk to a professional buddy. Did wonders for me they would make you think about a situation a certain way and your whole mindset will shift towards healing. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 05:32 AM
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I got into boxing. Def go do it.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 04:12 AM
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You got a remember most of these women that were talking about in these comments are late 30s. They’re going through their midlife crisis hoe phase they’re just gonna make a ton of bad decisions over the next few years. Just realize they didn’t have the ability to control their own emotions or impulses. And if you can’t do that by the time you’re almost 40… I’d say count it as a blessing because that woman Just proof she has the temperament of a child.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/23 04:10 AM
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Same exact story bro except my daughter is 11 and she’s been telling me all about it. Literally a month after I moved out she was in a “committed relationship”. Funny part is they’re still all hush hush because they’re affair partners. So it’s like all done in secrete. Like come on a cheater an a man who fucks married women. I can’t wait until they go public so I can let everyone know when an how they met.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/23 08:15 AM
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But he is a douche bag who fucks married women.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/23 06:41 AM
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He was fucking a married women. He’s a POS bro.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/23 06:41 AM
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Coparenting with a woman who regressed to teenage like behavior and neglects my daughter to be with her new play toy simp bf.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/23 12:19 AM
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You learn. Don’t fall in love just enjoy the ride.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 09:36 AM
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We all cried. It’s normal. Men love way harder. Break ups hurt way more. You’ll be good I promise it’s just fresh. Go gray rock with your ex.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 08:21 AM
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What you need to understand is when women want to leave they’re usually half a year to year ahead of us on leaving the relationship. And they normally have another man to monkey branch to to avoid all the negative emotions and repercussions of a break up. The new guy is nothing but a distraction from her self. She’s not gonna work on anything that she needed to that she did wrong in the marriage or things that she needs to change and become a better partner. She seems super happy right now becau…
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 08:07 AM
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15 mins with my Ex is about all I can handle. An my interactions consist of. “Cool” “That’s cool” “Ok” “Whatever” “That’s fine” “No” An that’s about all she gets out of me these days. I don’t engage in conversations. I don’t look directly at her. I give my daughter all the attention when the ex is around and get us out of there as fast as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/23 07:41 AM
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Are we the same person. Just read my story. Hang in there brother. Hugs.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 08:36 AM
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It’s fresh relax. It sounds like she doesn’t really know how to break up with someone and doesn’t really wanna hurt your feelings. even though she has a new boyfriend she obviously still cares and doesn’t want to hurt you anymore. Or she’s just gas lighting you as a backup in case new guy bails. As far as recovery time that’s different for everybody Boss. I’m seven months past leaving my ex-wife the first four or excruciating depressing and suicidal. Now I could give a fuck less about that bitch…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 06:19 AM
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They’re not gonna be “better” with the next person they’re with or their affair partner. That relationship most likely started in secret with one being a “cheater” and the other having “no problem fucking a married person.” Sure let them date they might sit in Limerence for a year or three.. but it’ll all come crashing down because they’re both terrible people. Women don’t heal after relationships they monkey branch to the next one so they are literally the same person. every downfall they had w…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 03:25 AM
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Oh I can’t disagree the person my ex-wife has turned into in the past seven months I can’t even recognize. I understand our marriage was over and it was time to MoveOn which is cool. But the sheer selfishness and the regression she’s having in her personality and her mothering ability right now is embarrassing. Mutual friends grandparents and our children’s friends parents have all said at least one or two things to me about the bullshit that my ex-wife is pulling. This year difference in who th…
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/23 03:18 AM
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You’ve been betrayed. So your guards is up. It’s normal, you’ll know when yo are ready
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 10:19 AM
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Even worse. Second and third marriages for women are up and like the 80% failure rate within the first year or two
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/23 03:17 AM
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Also breathing teq can help ease anxiety. Do this 3x. Take a deep breathe until you can’t breath in anymore. Then take 1 more little breath in an hold it. Exhale slowly.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 06:54 AM
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anxiety mix with a mild panic attack because what you perceive as reality is being uprooted. Youre subconsciously on high alert almost like you’re in a fight or flight mode. You need to exert some energy go work out go for a run hit a heavy bag. Doing something and staying active will ease your mind. Sitting around in your house that you share with your soon to be ex-wife is going to drive you nuts.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 06:52 AM
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You just describe a Narcissist. They always monkey branch to the next relationship they’re unable to be alone.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/23 06:42 AM
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Feel that.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/23 02:58 PM
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Go talk to a therapist if the majority of your marriage is good don’t throw it away. If she’s a little mouthy and that’s the worst part you made out like a bandit.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/23 10:05 AM
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They all do it man. Just realize now she’s a POS. Her value is now gone.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/23 04:35 AM
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I’m 8 months in an I’m past missing her an more annoyed now I wasted soo much time with the CC wrong person. It’ll get better man.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 10:50 PM
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I never gave up she did.
/r/Divorce_Men21/07/23 11:11 AM
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It’s not that you’re being mean or you hate her. That woman would not be in your life in any form whatsoever if you didn’t have children. You have no obligation to write her back answer her phone calls or help her with anything that doesn’t directly involve your child I need you immediately. She decided she didn’t need you and you weren’t worth it so if she reaches out to you go cold go ghost. And then she does confront you about it and ask you about it she’s no longer your responsibility she ne…
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 08:40 AM
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I know she played her part. And I know I played mine as well. But if she could just be accountable for her lack of things she needed to be doing in our marriage would be great closure to realize that she just finally figured it out and excepted it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/23 08:35 AM
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Being a man is really shitty in the low parts of life. No one cares.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/23 07:13 AM
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Lock all the doors. She can find somewhere else to stay tonight or the foreseeable future.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/23 07:10 AM
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Sorry your feels are hurt. But the sooner you come to terms with what reality really is. The sooner you move on an heal.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 05:48 AM
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I have a similar picture frame so if I miss an event my ex wife will upload pictures an I’ll see them in my living room. It’s actually a nice little window into your kids life when you can’t be there.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 03:40 AM
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Seeing them with someone else should break that last chain holding on. Of course you loved your wife. An remember those good times. But never forget who she really was at the end, that’s who she is now. This new guy is getting the damaged flawed version of your Ex, an when they get with their affair partner it’s a cheater an someone who is cool with fuckin someone else’s wife. Let’s see how well that ends up.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 03:26 AM
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Listen closely. Time. Hobbies. Gym. Fuckin other women. Your old life is over. Start enjoying your new one.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 03:10 AM
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Reality isn’t always pleasant but chances are if your wife or girlfriend decided to break up with you or going to divorce. There’s already been a dude hovering in the background waiting to take your place.
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/23 03:06 AM
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She’s still married. So you’re fucking around with a married woman. Let that sink in an how that feels being the dither guy. Personally you never fuck around with another man’s woman regardless of their situation.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 10:40 AM
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It’s because they monkey branch. They slowly break up with you for six months to a year of getting a new man and have 1 foot out the door then when I leave suddenly there’s a happy safe ever been with some new person and you’re blind sighted in Fucking crushed and can’t figure out what happened. That sounds about right?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/23 10:35 AM
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Well sir sorry to say you have just discovered the true nature of women. They don’t ever give a fuck about you it’s just your turn and what you can provide and if they can upgrade to better looking or more money they will do it nine times out of 10.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 04:02 AM
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My wife got with her affair partner weeks after we separated. Now she says they’re official. But they’re scared to post anything. I said. “Oh, why because now everyone will know you’re with your affair partner. You’re a cheater an he has no problem fucking someone else’s wife.” “I can’t imagine why you’d keep it a secrete”.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 04:00 AM
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Wouldn’t say you’re hung up you probably feel a slight sense of guilt because you were with your wife for so long. Once you’re with a person that feels right that guilt feeling just isn’t there anymore you’ll know.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 07:52 AM
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She wouldn’t happen to be named Megan would she lol.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 07:51 AM
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I’m trying to date. An honestly for how fun it can be. I just have absolutely no trust what so ever for women these days. So really it’s just fleeting and wasting down time I have nothing else to do. I refuse to trust and be broken again. So I’ll just use these women when needed.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 07:44 AM
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It’s never easy I apologize. When you and your person that long just grow apart it’s devastating especially if it’s amicable which it seems to be. You’re gonna end up splitting up but not really having any major issues. I feel like that almost makes it a little bit harder it’s easier to break up with someone when you hate them. So now you’re going to go to this weird grief stage like youre morning someone’s death because you’re gonna have to let go of your best friend of the past 14 years. you’l…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/23 02:11 AM
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That’s cool be a hopeless romantic so am I and it’s cool it’s fun in the beginning of relationships lol. Your ex fucked up. it’s not important anymore move on. Better yourself you’re physique your health your friendship everything. Become the man that she would’ve never left.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 09:50 AM
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You’re young. So I’ll tell you this. At least you’re learning young. Never ever marry again. Once you do it’s a power grab for the majority of women. Don’t ever put a woman on a pedestal, they need to want you more than you them. Be direct. Make plans. Take the lead. Be confident. Keep the majority of your emotions to your fucking self. The more mysterious you are the more she will stick around. If a woman ever act like she wants to leave or starts acting in a disrespectful manner to you tell he…
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 06:29 AM
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Her relationship is fleeting it’s a younger dude hooking up with a milf to get some free easy pussy because she’s so consumed with her children that when she does have two days to fuck around she will that’s when he uses her and then goes her until she’s free again until she gets bored of it.. Divorced single mom is nothing but a red flag that screams I’m in capable of staying with anyone including my husband and who I’ve had children with. If I can’t even stay with him who is any other man. And…
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/23 05:52 AM
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Games are cool at night when going out isn’t an option. Also playing online allows you to stay social as well.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/23 08:40 AM
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That 1st day you no longer care about the past. Is the best. It’s the start of your future. Congrats brother!!
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/23 06:53 AM
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Don’t every by things with both your names number one. My dad was married 4 times (I know dumb ass). He told me don’t evvvvvvvver. Shares loans or CCs with a woman.
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/23 08:52 AM
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I’m in pa we divorced no problem this way spit everything between us agree to no support. An life goes on.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/23 03:03 AM
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Women put up a guard when talking to you at first. Need to come off of smooth and not fucking creepy. Once that happens you need to set up a date quickly they’re getting hit up by 500 other dudes daily. You gotta work fast lol. Or just be really good looking.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 02:14 PM
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I always sleep 4/5 hours. Plenty of time in the morning to wake up an work out an start the day feeling strong an accomplished.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 04:26 AM
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20 mins atm an I’m only getting weekends every 12 days. I’m currently moving back to the same town to get closer to 50/50.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 04:24 AM
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You’re in control now. Just say after the divorce we can 1 more time for closure. But not until it’s completely over. Than just ghost her. Lol.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/23 04:22 AM
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To start sleeping with other people? About 4 months after separating an the day after we signed the divorce papers.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 11:49 PM
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Realizing other women want you is a good thing. You’ll feel dirty after. But that’s normally you still feel committed. But really you aren’t.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 07:57 PM
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Gym. Sleeping a lot. Fucking other women.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/23 07:55 PM
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Are you happier? Not at 1st. But that’ll pass an you’ll do better. I’d say focus on 2 or 3 things in your life you aren’t happy with an focus on changing them. You’ll feel better about yourself and more confident.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 08:21 AM
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Well that’s hard to say. Does the regret go away. If you love someone an it ends. You’ll forever regret what could have been. But, you can’t control or change the outcome. So, The regret of a lost love does go away. What helps is realizing why you were upset an unhappy to begin with. Don’t just think about the good times. Because your situation got you to the point you wanted to leave. Now my ex wife. I love her to death she’s my daughters mother. She will forever be important an I’ll always car…
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 08:18 AM
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It’s easier to break up with someone when you place the blame completely on them.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 06:52 AM
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Of course. But it’s not like she did anything to help or make it better.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 06:47 AM
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Completely different person after the wedding
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 05:44 AM
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Yeah I think a lot of us men figure out where we fucked up an fix it. Most women change nothing other than their man. An it’ll end in a dumpster fire because they never fix themselves.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 03:40 AM
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Try not to carry guilt we all fuck up in relationships. All you can do is reflect on who you were in that relationship and what you didn’t do right and the reasons why your woman left you. Your best bet is to realign your life to become the person she would’ve never left. One will be a better version of yourself happier and then a better place. And to the next woman that comes along into your life it’s going to run into a much better version of yourself one who is much more suitable for a longer…
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/23 05:02 AM
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I ended up sitting with my best friend for a few hours drinking some beer by a fire relaxing. While my kid was texting me her mom took her to the beach with her bf. It was windy and traffic for hours coming home. My day sounded way better lol
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/23 10:37 AM
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Don’t leave anything as a man you control whether or not you’re in a relationship if she’s into you. She knows you went through a divorce she knows you’re probably on the fence so if you play cool I can just hang out and you guys still are into each other after a certain period of time and you want to move forward go for it. If you don’t put a label on it and she’s into you still gonna hang out for a while to see if she’s girlfriend material.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/23 02:30 PM
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Tbh she checked out a while ago an has been wanting to be with someone else for a while. If anything be happy she waited until you separated. Stop talking to her at the point and go no contact. Staying in contact an hearing that shit is gonna drive you nuts.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 11:25 AM
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Every time I go to try and drop my kid off or pick her up starts to try and small talk to me and talk about her friends and her family and I just looked off into the distance and gave her a lot of CC “no way”. “Cool”.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 03:53 AM
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Just acting like yo don’t give a fuck will drive her nuts. Her knowing you’re around other women will drive her nuts too.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 03:47 AM
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You need to take accountability for being an alcoholic and work on your problem. You being an addict is making her feel like she can’t rely on you keep that in mind. Go see your therapist together she obviously still cares go talk to someone and figure out your shit. If you’re both still in love and she’s on the fence put in the work show some effort for her. Don’t run away to your parents don’t pick up a bottle. Go to therapist find out your issues fix them and quit drinking.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/23 08:12 AM
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They’re all about saving their good girl Image. It’s why we’re all abusive controlling Narcissists.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 10:25 AM
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Seems that’s the same path my ex wife is currently one. Be weary of the company your wives keep. Other women are terrible influence.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 10:22 AM
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Men.going.their.own.way
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 09:25 AM
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Be careful what you post. You can say you’re divorced and you’re upset and life sucks at the moment but be careful because people will turn on you.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 04:43 AM
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All I know is this dude is a total goober and she’s probably playing him for some reason.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 03:45 PM
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That’s what I did in Pennsylvania it was pretty straightforward go to the courthouse tell them you want to uncontested divorce they’ll print you out the paperwork show you what the sign was the check give it to your wife she will then sign it turn it back in and you should get a court date to finalize it. Cost us about $400.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 03:43 PM
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Yeah that’s pretty much what our entire conversation was about this morning. She said I can’t tell her what to do. But I said anything that involves my child I definitely have a saying and I’m not OK with him being around my daughter yet.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 07:23 PM
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Yeah I was over there this morning and that’s what we were doing. I told her my concerns and she needs to make sure our daughter isn’t involved until you know it’s serious. My daughter said she didn’t like him because he isn’t me lol
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 05:37 PM
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Yeah it is. I honestly don’t care she’s dating someone. I just think it’s to soon to involve my child she has barely come to terms that mom and dad aren’t getting back together.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/23 04:40 PM
6

I just made mine locked so they aren’t public. My kid might want those pictures one day.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 09:58 AM
3

I’m pretty newly divorced after a 15 year relationship at one child. I love the shit out of my wife but we had mixed matched libidos and love language. On top of that she changed her career and wants to be a boss bitch so ultimately we just want it different things. It’s strange for two years very limited if it any intimacy wore on you I’m worried about losing her my family friends everything you’re complaining about. I’m not quite 40 yet I’m 36 still in decent shape got my hair decent job etc. …
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/23 06:56 AM
45

You’re comfortable and familiar to her. Things still remind her of you. And if you allow her to be your friend she’s going to continue to do those things and you will be an emotional tampon
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/23 06:26 AM
2

It’ll never last with the fems and simps on Reddit.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 05:26 AM
1

I’m 36 and just recently got divorced my wife is 38. I’m not a stud by any means but I am easily a seven in good shape with great hair and beard think a Viking with the swimmers build lol. On top of that I’m a pretty smooth talker. The sheer amount of women from 28 to 50 calling me a dreamboat and the googly eyes they make when I talk to them 😍. just makes me realize how shit most men must treat these women. The instant switch from being ignored and not good enough for my wife. To being absolute…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/23 05:23 AM
0

When guys get comfortable in a relationship we tend to idolize our partner and bend over backwards for them. We tend to lack boundaries and pretty much act like a beta. You have to keep women in their place despite what they say they do like to be told what to do and put you in a power position in a masculine position.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 05:35 AM
2

100% my guy. I had a similar pen pal issue with my ex. Something about the fantasy of it all they love. I’m juggling quite a few at the moment for fun. An you can tell the ones that will do anything for you. Keep dangling a dollar for them an just enjoy life an free attention an sex. An who knows one day we might meet a girl worth dating, but remember keep it dating only.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 05:32 AM
3

My ex-wife is still pretty good looking. But the entitled personality and masculine features from being a boss babe make those luxe not matter in the slightest on top of being a single mom just keep her sliding down the sexual market value ladder.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/23 05:26 AM
1

I haven’t had to deal with that yet so I’m not sure what to tell you. I’ve told me ex I don’t want strange men around my child she better vet these man an deal with them if an when she does while I have my daughter so she doesn’t see it. She agreed. She may be my ex wife. But I’d still unalive a MF for hurting my kids mom or my kid.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 06:08 AM
3

She’s lurking, but that’s fine she made a post relevant to the topic without trying to cause a scene that’s fine by me.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 06:06 AM
1

Exactly they’re always around until she’s in the free an clear. Then they always back off because they never truly wanted to commit they just wanted to smash.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 06:00 AM
1

I don’t wish ill will on anyone’s ex. But the majority of their Disney fairytales isn’t going to happen. the best revenge of sorts is just better yourself so you can have that wonderful feeling of seeing her realize she fucked up by not sticking it out.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 03:57 AM
2

You put her on a pedestal. She gets bored because you were wrapped around her finger. You’re able to do everything for her and you need to remember “you’re” the prize she’s not. We need to be on board with you that in the driver seat. You lost control when you’re idolized her.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/23 03:55 AM
3

It’ll burn for a few months. You’ll be alright. Learn from it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 05:34 PM
12

You need to post that when it happens lol
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 02:31 PM
6

Sounds like she settled for whatever she could get to be honest. Because everything you described is exactly what they typically don’t want.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 11:28 AM
8

100% a simple search on YouTube will find you endless videos of depressed lonely divorced women that no one will commit too.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 11:26 AM
18

He will probably back off heavy once he realizes she is single and a threat to his actual marriage. If he’s married and having affair he most likely just likes the free attention and easy access to sex. It’ll most likely end very quickly. An if not and they do end up together. They are both cheaters and willing to leave their marriages how well do you think that’ll go 😂. Talk about trust issues.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 11:01 AM
20

Look a lot of guys here are depressed an just like you most of us struggled and tried to save our marriage for years. I did for 2 myself. I’ve went thru all the stages and I understand what you’re saying. But ultimately if you do a deep dive on this sub Reddit you’ll see the majority of these divorces were the women calling it quits. So by winning, I mean the best thing we can do is become the best version of ourselves with physiques aesthetics career a father etc better than we already are. By …
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 09:59 AM
17

Exactly. It all comes full circle. An I bet rejecting her trying to come back was the absolute icing on the cake. I know you went home with the biggest smile laughing the whole way.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 07:47 AM
2

She’s been preparing for this for months. She’s already grieved and she’s already cried it’s not new for her it’s new for you.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 06:59 AM
6

Who said anyone here wants to go thru the façade that is marriage again. I told these guys to focus on themselves and having fun. Not once did I say go get in a relationship with younger women. You are not going to convince anyone of anything in here. You should do what you said and lurk and be quiet if you want to go voice your opinion go voice it in your own sub Reddit for women.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 06:39 AM
1

Depends on the state. If you agree to no alimony and no child support. You should be ok. My ex wife an I split and we get along well. I don’t want to fuck with her money and she doesn’t want to mess with mine. If you’ll are actually on good terms that’s awesome. You can always contact a lawyer for like a free hours worth of consultation to answer some questions you may have to cover your ass.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 06:37 AM
9

You’re missing the point. Divorced single moms are RED FLAGS. It put you at the bottom of the dating pool. Are there guys who will commit absolutely. But they are low value an normally only dealt with to help lift a Financial burden.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 06:29 AM
10

You should go join the divorced_women Reddit.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 06:21 AM
32

Yeah, I just tell my ex wife “I’m here for my child if she needs me. You an I are not friends, do not tell me about your day, your problems your friends ,your family or guys. I really don’t give fuck. The only reason I talk to you is because you’re my daughters mother. If we didn’t have a child I’d never speak to you again.” On top of that I’ve put on about 10lbs on muscle grew out my hair an beard and have that viking look. 😏 I’m just gonna keep building my physique an appearance an focus on ha…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 06:19 AM
9

Say “it’s not my problem, I used to take you out. But I wasn’t good enough remember?”
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 05:18 AM
2

Your son is 12 he definitely notices or something wrong with the relationship. You don’t have to get into incredible detail about what’s wrong with the relationship. You can just say mommy and daddy tried for a long time and we’re just not as compatible as we used to be and we see it is in our best interest to separate so we can both be happy. Reassure him it has nothing to do with him and both of you have his best interest in mind.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 04:53 AM
11

It’s simple bro women won’t stick it out with you when you’re at your lowest. When you struggle they realize you can’t provide for them anymore and they start to look for a better match and they monkey branch to the next guy because I don’t think you are worth it in the long run anymore. A lot of women always have the next guy in line before they leave their current guy. I understand this is a long relationship and the majority of your adult life. But once a woman decides she’s not into you she’…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/23 04:50 AM
9

Because that man is able to gets packs of women. Why would he simp?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/04/23 04:35 AM
1

I’m about to be divorced. An I have absolutely zero interest in women my age (30s) an even less interest in the younger super dim self centered feminist of GenZ. I’m trying to fin happiness is things that used to bring me joy. So far it all seems pretty bleak and boring but, I’m sure something will spark my happiness again sooner than later.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/23 04:00 AM
4

They’re both cheaters. So basically there is already a trust problem between the two. It will inevitably blow up in their face at some point. An normally one affair partner doesn’t actually want a new relationship they just enjoy the free attention.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/23 03:39 AM
0

I’ll probably just eat a bullet before the end of the year
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/23 05:47 AM
15

All my alone time shows me is that at my absolute lowest not a single soul has reached out to me family or friends. Apparently I don’t mean anything to anyone 🤷🏻‍♂️.
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/23 10:29 PM
4

1st thing. The literal majority of (single) women are garbage these days. The ones who are good women have long been married. You’re are left with the Single moms divorces feminist female fuck boys all carrying their own BS drama. Treat them as recreational use only. The ones who actually like you and you might have a chance at a wholesome woman will chase you not the other way.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/23 07:04 AM
3

Pardon my spelling errors. Speak to text blows sometimes.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 03:10 AM
16

Here’s what happened something was going on with you two. so she met this guy online or is a friend who now lives out of state. He was an emotional escape they would talk he would butter her up get a bunch of nudes and sexy texts. If she ever went away they probably met up on some trips blah blah blah. U2 separated she said OK I’m single we could be together now. He never wanted a relationship he was just using her to kill some time and see you some nudes etc. she created a whole better man and …
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/23 03:09 AM
2

It’s most likely associating sex with being intimate and close to someone and you’re so used to it. It’s a mixture of anxiety and I guess guilt. I’ve always found it easy to get laid when single but with the wrong person end up feeling dirty or not really into it as you thought you’d be.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/23 05:18 AM
3

PA is no fault. An if you have proof of infidelity Alimony is off the table.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/23 07:25 AM
1

She thinks she’s getting a pay day. But that’ll just be the lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/23 05:11 AM
1

I still want to. I didn’t have a strong family unit growing up an an only child and now with one parent passed the family I made is all I have left. An if I don’t at least try to make it work I’ll regret it for the rest of my life.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 07:58 AM
2

So you kept the 2 most toxic social media apps? Snapchat is shady AF an designed for cheating. An IG is basically a dating site for women.
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/23 07:55 AM
16

That dudes been around for a while
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/23 09:56 AM
2

I’ll see her every other day before school an have her on the weekend.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/23 08:11 AM
12

Normally I pick my kid up for school. (Separated atm). I’m just gonna skip the whole morning routine. I don’t want to see my “wife” today.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/23 10:43 AM
2

If you have kids. A long time. you’ll see her constantly. My dad divorced my mom 30 years ago an I can still see the look in his eyes change when we talk about her. On the bright side they co parented well an had a great “friendship” after the marriage despite all they went through they would constantly have each other laughing or smiling or smirking. It may not be romantic love but it was still love for one another. They both re married, but you could always tell they still cared deeply for one…
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/23 07:53 AM
2

I’m separated. Good terms. Went on a few dates together. Had fun. Don’t feel “right”. I love her. But somethings off. It’s different. I hope it’ll change….but ultimately I just see it ending in divorce at this point.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/23 09:14 AM
3

I don’t think OP necessarily wants validation. I think what he’s looking for his reassurance that women still find him attractive or want him. He’s not chasing anything he just wants to know he’s still worth something to females.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/23 04:46 AM
2

Getting married again was the 1st mistake. You didn’t learn from the 1st one. 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/23 10:11 AM
18

Modern women are just inherently unhappy. Would you live with a woman at some point some thing you do will make them resent you. The luster and excitement of being with you goes away once they’re with you all the time. When they’re single all they want is a man. And they have a man all they want is to be married. When they’re married all they want is to be single and do what they want. They’re always inherently unhappy no matter their situation they find a negative and woe is me.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/23 02:23 AM
9

100% since she been in the gym she’s been fucking other dudes. She’s going through her mid life hoe faze. It’s becoming so common with modern women in their 30s. An you were such a pushover she did whatever she wanted, gobbling dick then kissing you goodnight 🤦 Finalize the divorce quickly an get TF out with your savings an what dignity you have left. block her number and on all social media, don’t be the fool who takes her back after she’s run thru 100 plus guys and realizes no one wants anythi…
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/23 05:46 AM
6

They always reconnect. WhatsApp, FB, Instagram, Kik, Aim, Snapchat etc etc etc.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 08:31 AM
11

Same, I stuck around for 4 more years to build up my career and saving (that she didn’t know about) and have an iron clad exit plan. That’s the only reason you stick around.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 08:26 AM
10

The only reason she changed her attitude is because she found out she’s not getting a pay day. An the guy fuckin your wife doesn’t actually want to date her because she is unfaithful. Call it a wrap, move on with your life. Don’t ever take a cheating woman back. They cheat emotionally an once they do feelings for you never come back. your kids will be fine.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/23 08:23 AM
1

Society always sides with women. They never had to be accountable for anything in their life since they were children. they always gotten a free pass. Just think about growing up how bad behavior was disciplined between the little girls and the boys. And the fact is nowadays modern women are never happy. When they’re single all they do is complain about they don’t have a man and they want a relationship. When they’re in a relationship it’s not good enough and all they complain about is how they’…
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/23 08:41 AM
1

I see you’ve taken the red pill. Welcome brother.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 06:01 AM
4

Exactly stay away from long term. These modern women aren’t worth the risk. Pretty sure we all see that now lol.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/23 05:54 AM
17

Start banging some new chicks an you’ll feel better. We as men def take break ups worse than females because it’s not as easy for us to find someone new.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/23 10:59 AM
10

I just moved out this week. I did everything I could an should do but it was always something. I came to realize I can’t fix how she feels. But I can fix how I feel so I told her I’m out. she’s still in shock but it’s her own doing an I’ve been feeling great knowing it’s not something I need to worry about anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/23 07:02 AM
1

You didn’t fail. She gave up. Beautiful thing is you can rebuild your life if you’re between 30-50 you’re in your prime. Her on the other hand is post wall an most likely a single mother. You’ll be highly desirable as a hard working man. She’s just used goods at this point. Women always think it’s greener on the other side leaving their marriage only to end up miserable for the remainder of their lives. I’d suggest, enjoying your time alone do what you want, stay in shape and just worry about ma…
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/23 06:58 AM
5

So be alone. Set ground rules. You don’t owe her anything , an you already saw how easy it was for you to find a new woman.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 04:31 AM
1

The only reason is if you wanted to start a family an have kids. But, it’s so hard to pick a ride or die a girl who’s actually gonna follow through and stay interested and still have genuine desire 10+ years in. Most can’t do it. most start to miss the excitement of starting a new relationship An will destroy your family to do so.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 07:14 PM
30

If I can suggest anything is don’t live together. That is the death sentence to most relationships. Staying apart makes seeing each other a treat and more exciting. The occasional sleepover or long weekend is cool. But don’t cohabitate.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 07:21 AM
18

Problem with this type of woman is they are normally a feminist non submissive and combative. Basically a manly women no matter how “pretty” she looks. Good luck tho.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 03:27 AM
1

Course she doesn’t want you to get divorced. No child wants to see their family split apart. But it’s much better to see you both happy and bitter and resent each other and that’s the model of relationship she’s going to think it’s normal. My parents divorced when I was three years old but got along extremely well and coparenting extremely well and there is nothing but love from either of them and it worked out just fine.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 01:59 AM
2

My wife chose a career over family and friends over her husband to the point we are roommates. Lack of romance sex etc. I was to the point where I’m annoyed just being around her. Only reason I’ve stuck around these past few years was my daughter being young and the whole covid crap. Now that the dust is settling and my daughter is about to be a teenager I’m out the door. I’ve told her why. Said you’re an awesome mom and a great friend. But I didn’t sign up to be your life long roommate/friend. …
/r/Divorce_Men09/12/22 08:18 AM
1

Of course there are. Just some women lose desire after kids/marriage/time. I’m moving out at the end of the month after 13 years. I’ll never live with a woman again. I think once you live together the luster an excitement wears off. There’s a reason all older men tell you marriage sucks.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/22 06:08 AM
2

Sounds like you’re dwelling on how the last one ended in fear this will turn into the same thing.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/22 06:10 AM
2

It’s 10 years. Of course it hurts. That’s a big chunk of your life you’re letting go. Let it out grief passes in time. No shame or judgement here.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/22 10:14 AM
5

I stopped caring an being nice to my wife an about 2 weeks from moving out. An I can’t even tell you how much she trying to text an talk an be cute. Sending pictures etc. An it’s funny because her bestfriend is getting married and starting to ignore her as well. I can see her sanity and realization setting in about how much her life is about to cha he for the worse. About to be a single mom 7 years past the wall in 2022 😖
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/22 11:11 AM
2

Single girls don’t put in the work to talk to you because they get endless complements all day on IG Tinder FB etc. The have no need to chase a conversation because they literally just fall into their laps daily. If a women truly likes you’ll she’ll make an effort to show it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 05:12 AM
5

Child support ends along with alimony. So while she might be living the good life for the next 10/12 years. She’s not going to manage her money she’ll treat your contribution as income an base her finances off that like it’ll never end. Once it dries up an it always does there’s a time line. She’ll be in debit an cash short and miserable as fuck because she’ll lose everything. Can’t afford the car or rent or mortgage. no more nails or hair appointments. No more carefree shopping. An pushing her …
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/22 02:17 AM
2

Have proof though. 🫡
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 12:25 AM
5

If you can document all of it. If you have screen shots, emails, phone records of said cheating. If you have her on audio or video admitting it is golden. Play it cool don’t get mad just go cold and short. “That’s cool”. “ whatever”. “Not my problem anymore”. Focus on you again an not your girl the best revenge is her seeing you with other women. Get in shape up your fashion a bit keep your hair/beard on point. An go start getting attention. Have fun you tried the marriage thing go back to being…
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/22 12:23 AM
7

Let’s just call it what it is women in general are just unhappy. alone unhappy they can’t find a man. Dating unhappy the man will not commit. married unhappy because they are a wife or life become more mundane and less exciting. They will always find a reason to be unhappy.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 02:14 AM
9

$600 for your life and peace of mind is a fucking bargain.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/22 05:51 AM
4

No stats are still factual despite your own experiences. I’m not denying your marriage was abusive but the majority aren’t.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 04:30 AM
7

Statistics show 80 to 90% of women leave relationships and marriages men aren’t the ones leaving y’all are the ones giving up and monkey branching to the next guy. (Not literally you btw).
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 03:19 AM
3

Pearl is pretty on point though. An shits on women regularly for their double standard BS. The girl has 7 brothers. So most def respects men an the shit we deal with that most girls ignore or are to ignorant to ever notice.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/22 03:14 AM
8

She’s as right as you can be.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/22 04:14 PM
4

I’m 35 heading towards a no fault divorce. As soon as I have my own place ( we rent an don’t have shared finances, my father was married 4 times and told me from go don’t put your name on anything together outside of rent) Also I’ve waited until she has out earned me by about 15k. With my work schedule I’m not able to do 50/50 with my daughter because I work 3rd shift, but I’d be able to get her on the weekends. I’m hoping because she out earns me and because of my work schedule CS and Alimony a…
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/22 04:40 AM
1

100% red flag Hook up destinations plus alcohol plus lower ambitions leads to bad decisions. Asking for trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 07:37 AM
1

Looks like I just got the apartment as well today fellas. Waiting on the confirmation tomorrow 🥹 I’m so happy. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/22 03:02 AM
20

Congrats just talked to my wife today. We agreed we just became friends at some point. Going to go 50/50 no alimony and no child support. I’m looking at a place this weekend. If we stay separated for a year it’s a no fault divorce. Wish you’ll just as much luck!
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/22 11:33 PM
6

Hysterical bonding they want control. You’re about to uproot their life And only they want to make that decision.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/22 01:02 AM
4

Take every penny you can get off her she’s cheating. The. Show her the cool motorcycle you bought with her money 😎
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 09:36 AM
5

5 year mark is when they normally bail. Also she out earns you so she doesn’t respect you anymore. Best bet, act like you don’t give a fuck say ok and leave. It’s not coming back.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 09:34 AM
7

If your kids are little don’t bother dating. Just have a few female FwB in the same situation. (But don’t tell them that lol).
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/22 02:50 AM
1

Your kids will be happier to see you happy. I never resented my dad for leaving my mom. They may not completely understand everything but they’re kids. It all makes sense one day.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/22 03:24 AM
3

Marriage isn’t worth it anymore. Chances are you end up heartbroken an robbed of everything you’ve worked for.
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/22 12:59 AM
0

It doesn’t count if you got some random thot pregnant tho. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/22 12:39 AM
5

You’ll never not love the mother of your child. She will always be special to you. An you’ll never think another man is good enough for her, an you will worry for her well being. It’s natural. My dad was married 4 times (fool yes I know lol) but forever talks about my mom an only really ever caring for her because it’s my mom. It’s a special bond. I love my wife, I always will. But I don’t want to be with her. But I also don’t want to ever see her with someone lol. It’s an odd feeling. But ultim…
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 11:19 PM
5

Most women are that way.
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/22 07:25 AM
1

No they can not 😂 why do you think so many girls hitting mid 30s now are freaking TF out an can’t seem to get anything but pump and dumped. Lol.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 11:48 PM
1

People in a long relationship. WhatsApp, Snapchat. All cheating apps.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 11:46 PM
2

Also, be strong be quiet. Say very little she will eventually start rambling on trying to bait you into an argument. Let her get worked up. Give a lot of nods. Okays. That’s cool. Alright. She will most likely end up telling on herself out of frustration. Let her speak it’ll all spill out.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 01:25 AM
2

I agree. Download WhatsApp put in her number to see if she has an account. If she does…. Sorry bro. Also if she’s all over Snapchat or endlessly on IG it’s a wrap. I guarantee if you snoop your gut instinct will be dead on. The sad truth is Almost all modern women are 304s
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 01:18 AM
12

She didn’t fall outa love. She’s falling for someone else. Also if she’s mid 30s she’s hitting her wall/midlife crisis and they go straight hoe phase girls nights etc. once you do some research you realize how all to common this is in modern women. But even if you’re hurt, you’ll win in the end. No man with value wants “used good” or to raise someone else’s children. She may think she’s hot shit an the grass will be greener. It will be for you not her. We always win in the end.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/22 01:14 AM
3

An the police prob laughed.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 10:02 PM
1

Hold on to it. Wait for concrete proof. Get out. It shit gets bad after then release the dirt to family and friends.
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/22 05:08 AM
1

Don’t sweat it with her work ethic she won’t make it two years before she ship broke living on the street. Work on yourself focus on your kids if you got an just forget you ever knew that woman
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/22 05:06 AM
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