Something has been super off to me. She gets her hair done a few hours away, but today when I checked her cars location after her appointment to see if she was on the way home, it had been stopped somewhere for over an hour. None of her friends live in the area where the car was and something wasn’t sitting right with me.

I decided to logon to her Mac and check her text messages. Full blown fucking affair man. Back in February we were talking about getting pregnant and all of a sudden she stopped bringing it up. In the texts she told him she was going to try soon and asked if he had feelings for her as she would wait if he said yes. Fast forward a little bit and she’s telling him that he’s her person, they’re talking about taking baths together, etc. I feel fucking gutted man.

Part of me wants to bring it up, but I don’t know if that’s the right approach. Should I just start contacting lawyers and put it in the papers?