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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	20+ years of marriage, last year was tough, now found out about infidelity When people show you who they are, don't waste years trying to prove they are someone else. subscribeme!	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/26 12:29 PM
3	Can’t stop the tears How is she responding to this? Has she at least acknowledged that what she did is what made you feel that way?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/26 02:06 PM
2	You guys were right… remindme! two days	/r/Divorce_Men	04/05/26 02:34 PM
3	How long did you wait to be intimate again? Just do it. You.dont.need to look for anything serious. It can be a massive confident boost. Will help you move on for sure.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/03/26 01:07 PM
2	I head back today So sorry mate, but things will get better after you get through this stage. Question: you have a dog right? A Labrador? Where is he staying?	/r/Divorce_Men	25/03/26 09:22 AM
3	Hi I’m back, confirmed she cheated. Just wanted to thank for all the input. I shouldve not ignored the signs. Now what? When a snake bites you, you do not ask her why nor try to explain to her you did not deserved it. Just focus on your healing and moving forward. Subscribeme!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/03/26 10:11 PM
3	Gave her a 2nd shot. Blew up in my face. Once a cheater that's really though and you did not deserve it. stay strong and true to yourself subscribeme!	/r/Divorce_Men	12/03/26 02:11 PM
2	My wife is leaving me again. Ultimately you can always move the communication to a parenting APP 😄. Besides avoiding anything and everything to do with her affair How so? 1 year later is it relevant anymore? Has she tried to get closer to you again somehow?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 12:47 AM
2	My wife is leaving me again. Right, makes sense. You look like a really good model for your kids. They need at least one stable parent. Your ex doing alright in that department? How co parenting is going overall?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 12:40 AM
2	My wife is leaving me again. Tks mate. Yeah not your rodeo anymore. You feel that an year later you're ready to get out there, or have you done it already?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 12:36 AM
1	My wife is leaving me again. Can I ask you about your WW? Like, after her last A did she carried that relationship forward or was it something just to have some fun, while tanking your marriage and your kids life's?	/r/Divorce_Men	13/01/26 12:31 AM
3	New gf and enforcing boundaries about kid time Why is it that yours kids off time is not enough then?	/r/Divorce_Men	29/12/25 03:10 PM
1	Complete mind F today by my ex. She’s keeping you warm for now. She monkey-branched to him, and if things don’t work out, she’ll try to swing right back to you. You should seriously consider switching to a parenting app and blocking her everywhere else. That emotional rollercoaster of hers is only going to damage you and your personal life. You need to move on. Your kids will actually benefit from the emotional stability that comes with that decision. If you do this, be prepared for her reaction. In extreme cases, it can even …	/r/Divorce_Men	22/12/25 01:54 PM
12	Complete mind F today by my ex. On one of your posts you said you were cordial. What you think is her reasoning to sending you that? She thinks you are palls now? Buddies? Has she shown any signs of any type of mental illness, like BPD? That's was insensitive as hell. Remindme!	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/25 06:18 AM
1	Talking to the kids about the breakup Came late to the party. I'm curious now. How are your kids behaving after they know what she did and how was your ex reaction to you telling them and is she retaliating somehow?	/r/Divorce_Men	15/12/25 10:28 PM
3	Guys, I really need some strategic advice Incredible and unbelievable... Meanwhile I've been reading some of your posts and comments. You seem to be having a great time dating and enjoying life and you keep cracking me up with your humour. That post about when safe to fart in an relationship is hilarious. 🤣 Cya around 👍	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/25 09:48 PM
2	Guys, I really need some strategic advice So just straight in limerance with the guy and not even tried to fight for you two? And, using you conjoin account to charge hotel rooms - she not the brightest of the bunch...	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/25 08:44 PM
2	Guys, I really need some strategic advice Hi mate, a bit late to the party, in know... They way you describe it makes it look so fast and emotionalless. I know you inside was hurting like hell for sure, but what about her? When she got caught and right with the separation agreement, you got no Picchu face? No denying? She didn't even tried to apologize or even probe you if you were interested in reconciliation? In the least she was losing her comfortable live, her home and kid's. Tks	/r/Divorce_Men	04/12/25 07:33 PM
3	ED out of nowhere Toxic guys. She seems toxic also. Carefully to not get yourself in that kind of relationship, especially after what your ex put you through. Wanna bet that she will treat you better if you start treating her like shit?	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/25 07:18 PM
2	ED out of nowhere That's a major red flag and probably is like that in other issues. If your relationship keeps progressing she will reveal herself. It's like she gets a high on it? Why would she do that? To make you less confident than her? That's why you need to get to really know someone during the dating stage.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/25 07:01 PM
3	ED out of nowhere Bah, as was expecting. That's fucked up and you're in a lose lose situation. Because if you confess if makes you look unconfident (same think lead you to have ED) and if you don't it's harder to overcame this. Im no especialist. I've made a querie about this with AI and got and interesting response on how to address this with her, using and alternative approach. Focusing on the lack of connection due to the comparison and not the ED itself. Going to PM you the full response. If your already in t…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/25 06:51 PM
3	ED out of nowhere You know best but maybe talking to her about it can help. It's important to share and be truthful with your partner. Otherwise this will pile up and blow up with worst consequences	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/25 05:02 PM
5	ED out of nowhere She could've said that in so many other ways.... "I still liked intimacy with him"; "he was not bad in bed", etc. If she expressed like you said here is like saying he was the best of her life... It's like telling you that you have to step up. When you want a partner to step up in bed is through flattery and slight hints..not pointing wrongs and give examples of other partners amazing performances	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/25 05:00 PM
2	ED out of nowhere vasectomy does not affect sexual performance, orgasm, erection quality, or libido. The procedure doesn’t touch the structures responsible for erections, so no impact there. The nerves and hormones that produce orgasm aren’t affected, so climax feels the same. Testosterone levels stay normal. The testicles continue to produce it and it’s absorbed into the bloodstream as before. So, lasting longer that’s usually due to psychological relief or confidence and not any physical change in arousal or ej…	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/25 04:48 PM
5	ED out of nowhere TMI ffs... Not smart for her to tell that kind of stuff. It's the fast way to condition the current partner performance. No matter what your size or habilities you'll always have that in the back of your mind messing with you. Is she like that also with other issues? It looks like a possible red flag to me.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/11/25 04:39 PM
1	Yet another question: Ex-wife not agreeing to get passports - Next step? UpdateMe! Remindme! One month	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/25 11:22 PM
4	When to fart in new relationship Like, celebrate it with her because your relationship just leveled up! 😅	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/25 01:09 PM
10	When to fart in new relationship Well, when she does it first!	/r/Divorce_Men	27/10/25 12:40 PM
1	Wanted to provide an update to the post below: Things were so much worse than I thought. I hope things get better. wish you the very best! subscribeme	/r/Divorce_Men	22/10/25 12:39 PM
1	Hold Strong UpdateMe! Remindme! Two months	/r/Divorce_Men	15/10/25 10:13 PM
1	Why is she rewarded for blowing up our family. It's got to stop. UpdateMe!	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/25 10:54 PM
2	Divorce coming-Update from post from almost 3 weeks ago. When a snake bites you, you do not ask her why nor try to explain to her you did not deserved it. Just focus on your healing and moving forward. Subscribeme!	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/25 07:39 AM
1	Is there a good way to make my wife hate me enough to want to expedite the divorce process Hi mate. Any update on this?	/r/Divorce_Men	18/08/24 12:29 AM
2	Married for less than 5 years Yah man, when you remove the drama life gets easier! Meanwhile if you find a good chick with a good head on her shoulders it might help managing the drama coming from their mother. It's important for them that you make good choices on that department. And with that said ... good luck with all. Stay strong 😃	/r/Divorce_Men	13/08/24 09:41 PM
2	Married for less than 5 years It is so sad to think that in the next years she will probably be going from new boyfriend to new boyfriend and you'll have to spectate that since you still have to co-parent. That is a typical behavior from people like her... Never satisfied with what she has and in this case, had. And your kids will have to live and grow during that... Even with the best co-parenting that will probably influence to some degree their future relationships. She needs fucking therapy! For their sake! Staying toget…	/r/Divorce_Men	12/08/24 01:04 PM