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NanooNanooBot/r/Divorce_Men15/03/26 04:58 AM
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This sounds very familiar. I'm sorry that you are going through this. Hold your ground, if you can & keep on keeping your calm.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/26 10:33 PM
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https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0073692/?ref_=ext_shr
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 04:12 AM
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Isn't the 70s movie Shampoo about this??
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 04:09 AM
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I mean.... Who needs to travel a few hours for a hair appointment? Unless they live in Alaska or the Pilbara I guess. That's a massive red flag.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 01:50 AM
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That's not a metric, it's a subjective observation - of divorced men. By definition, many of us will have experienced unhealthy attachment in our core relationships.
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 11:02 AM
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I don't agree. Identifying the root of any issues is a step in fixing it. At any rate, what's your metric for this? Observation? In what way were men better 'leaders' in the past? & Leaders of what?
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 03:30 AM
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Well that's a very broad generalisation. Attachment challenges are an issue for a lot of personal. But I wouldn't state it as a judgement in this broad way.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/26 02:58 AM
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I'm not sure that it's 'the point' but definitely a common experience.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/26 11:26 PM
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100% I'm currently going through a time where I am evaluating whether I am going through burn out and, if so, how to manage and communicate it in a way that is minimally impactful.
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/26 11:25 PM
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No. I see a GP semi regularly & get some check ups. I've had high blood pressure a couple of times & high cholesterol for the past few. I was investigating this & heart things before the relationship fell apart & haven't had time since. I wasn't able to get complete bloods past time as they had a lot of trouble finding my veins and drawing it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/26 12:54 PM
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I hear you. I'm grieving still for the family I am raising being broken probably more than the relationship. I watched a new Netflix movie 'In Your Dreams' with the kids last night. Unexpectedly, it had a subplot of a declining relationship between the Mum and Dad.y 12 year old daughter shed some tears. It was actually really nice to share that as a bonding experience with her.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/26 08:49 AM
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Interesting and great point. One of the most difficult things that I have found is the return of waves of feelings of sadness from childhood trauma. My daughter is the same age that I was when my parents split. There were a lot of tears, a lot of yelling, no child support, living on no $, no reliable schedule of fatherly presence/support/parenting & feeling lost in those years & quite a few after. I have a relationship with my Dad now, based on low expectations & accepting him for who he is & I'…
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/26 02:05 AM
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Yes, that's part of it too! Meeting someone nice would be great. The end of my relationship was horrible. Agree about the apps though. After initially low expectations & feeling like they're actually not that bad, it is feeling like a waste of time and energy.
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/26 01:52 AM
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For me, I feel like I am one of the best versions of myself that I have been & I'd like to share that with someone before my body declines more & it gets harder. (I've had spinal & chronic pain issues).
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/26 01:50 AM
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Keep notes of everything. Try not to be too shocked if she tries to turn people against you. Take peace in reality, truth and honesty.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 08:13 AM
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The people I had known for 12-14 years who just cut me off overnight & didn't care to communicate or respond was shocking to me. It felt like an incredible level of fakeness that I hadn't fully appreciated, but suddenly I understood why I always felt drained after interactions with them.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/26 08:10 AM
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Ooof. This sounds far too familiar.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/26 07:24 AM
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I agree. Easier said than done (as I find that I have no spare time or energy myself, 6 months out) but a support group, therapist, journalling, & talking to a rotating group of friends might be a good mix. Take care mate.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/26 09:31 AM
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The truth is that it's always both partners, & if one is not open to that concept they actually might be quite toxic. This was my experience at least. Similar to yours in many ways, without the affair, as far as I am aware. But, the more I worked to open up to issues, the less response I got & I noticed a strong pattern from my now ex of always needing to position herself as a victim, particularly when some type of control can be gained from it.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/26 09:08 AM
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Lol, 😂 actually think that this is true of my ex wife.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/26 09:46 AM
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We are all more attractive when we are healthy inside and out & taking care of our stuff and ourselves. It's normal to take a bit of a hit afterwards though. I'm about 6 months out. When do I get my energy back?? (It doesn't help that I find even minor interactions with my ex to be extremely draining. We have 2 kids, so it is unavoidable).
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/26 06:55 AM
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