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FYI, unless you are in one of three specific states in the usa, none of this will matter. And even in those three states, it matters a lot less than you think.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 12:35 AM
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And, now you know why your mom got the boob job.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/26 10:48 PM
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If sexting is happening at all, then more is on the horizon, or has already occurred.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 02:33 AM
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I'm going to need some help with the Michael Jordan reference.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 12:58 AM
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No you didn't man. You're not the one doing this shit. She is. Pick yourself up. Realize something: the very answer to your question in your own post. What is she doing when she leaves the house late at night? She's getting railed. Do not allow yourself to feel love for such a person. Take that emotion and turn it into what it should be. File tomorrow. And don't you leave that house. Don't you dare.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/25 08:24 PM
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If you actually are going to divorce, I cannot think of one good reason to telecast it before the fact.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 07:40 PM
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You should never, ever say this to a woman unless you are already at the very brink of jumping off that cliff. If you actually put this into words that you vocalize with your mouth in her presence, you only make yourself look stupid if you then do not follow through with it. Why say it at all, honestly? Are you looking for some kind of change? If that is actually what you are seeking, then say that.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 07:20 PM
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Meanwhile, the "really good looking Chad type dude" is the last in the world that will be faithful. Or for that matter, even look at the average woman for any longer than necessary to cash a check at a bank teller.
/r/Divorce_Men29/09/25 07:16 PM
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I know how you feel. I always picture it something like this. https://imgur.com/a/jVZAzxx
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/25 10:16 PM
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It can absolutely help, if you actually do it.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 02:31 PM
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Absolutely. She didn't get boob jobs for the guy she's with now. She set up advertising for the next guy she's planning to get.
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/25 02:29 PM
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Don't pester your attorney with every detail. Google, or ask here about specific issues so you don't bog down your attorney. Questions are fine, just realize that even something like an email starts a counter for your retainer, so it will help a great deal if you have a better idea of what to ask about when you put something in front of your attorney. Write down incidents as they happen to document. Maybe keep a note in your google calendar. The more specific you can get, without emotional nonse…
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/25 04:16 PM
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If you find you are like most men here, you will learn sooner or later that she has already taken on someone, even if she says there is noone else.
/r/Divorce_Men25/08/25 04:34 PM
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She IS done with you, but everybody here is glossing over one detail that is crucial: she says she doesn't want a divorce. It isn't worth your time to seize on this as a "she still really wants me" moment, because that isn't true. What she wants is to be a boil on you for as long as possible. You need to treat this boil by getting a lance and puncturing it. Tell her in no uncertain terms that you're either in or out, not half way. Consult with an attorney yesterday and weigh your options. This i…
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/25 03:32 PM
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Make sure you know the laws of your state. Many states require both parties to be aware of and consent to the recording of a conversation that they may otherwise reasonably assume to be private. So if you record conversations without her knowledge you could be committing a crime. Ask your attorney, don't assume because you need to be sure.
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/25 03:23 AM
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Screwing around and being unfaithful, lying, fighting, creating issues out of thin air, all because someone wants to get out of a relationship, yeah. Absolutely, that's not just a woman issue. However, quite frequently during a separation or divorce, it is the woman who has less, because she put her career on hold, maybe she put her education on hold, maybe she did the stay at home thing, maybe she did absolutely nothing at all, but for whatever reason she has less when the guy has more. So they…
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/25 09:14 PM
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So she's verbally abusive and things aren't going well, you're recovering from a surgery and she is angry that you don't help out more around the house. And she wants a divorce on top of all this. Best advice to move forward? Move forward! Consult with an attorney yesterday. File immediately, before she has the opportunity. I know you don't know the particulars, like how much support you will have to give, how you may need to divide any assets, etc but you need to do this now. The longer you wai…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 04:30 PM
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LOL
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/25 06:21 PM
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Why do I feel like shit? Because, I'm going to take a wild guess and say that she ran the show. Pick yourself up and embrace your new freedom. You've earned something very valuable. Accept it as the gift that it is.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 01:35 AM
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Things can vary by state. In mine (Florida) any inheritance of any kind and of any value at all is not a marital asset--unless you make it one. Meaning, if you get a windfall of money and deposit it in a shared account? It's now a marital asset. If you run out and buy a house with it? Congratulations, you just bought a marital asset. Even if you keep it in a separate account but use it to pay rent or mortgage, or food, gas, electricity & utilities, etc. support the family in general, it can be a…
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 08:32 AM
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You don't have to put up with it. That's why this subreddit exists. Not putting up with it, is the best way to put up with it actually. You're not just going to just change her mind, so your options are very limited.
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/25 03:01 AM
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So, tell them about the previous investigations? Or have your representation do this?
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/24 06:54 PM
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So uh, a little confused here, are you two divorced yet or not?
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/24 08:27 PM
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I don't think you understand the root of your problem. Your wife doesn't respect you anymore. There could be any reason for this, or more than one, but whatever it is that has set her off, she no longer respects you. I'm not a person to believe that you should never forgive someone after infidelity. There can be good reasons to try and turn things around. For instance, if there are kids involved. However, for men, I almost never recommend it. Now that your wife no longer respects you, which is c…
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 12:42 PM
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You're new at this, aren't you?
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 12:37 PM
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Unless you know that it is not illegal to record someone without their consent in your state, do not take this suggestion. In many or perhaps most states, both parties to a conversation must consent to a recording. The surefire way around this is simple: show her that you're recording the conversation. You can tell her that you want to record it so that it will be on the record that you're not threatening her at all.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 03:35 AM
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No, no you're not an asshole. But, do you two have kids?
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/24 10:32 PM
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Guy needs a divorce from his entire family!
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/24 06:02 PM
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A lot has been said here already that is sound. Don't blow up about it. However I have some disagreement with at least one point of the advice here. Some say "talk with her about this if you can." We are getting very little from you but it seems to me as if this may be well past the "let's talk about this" phase. If this is so, then you should file before she does. If you're unsure if you want to divorce, ask yourself: do you want someone who will record you because you had a disagreement about …
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 07:49 PM
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He means just what he said, don't give a crap about her hissy fits. Make light of her insecurities, slap her on the butt and take her to hooters.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 02:12 AM
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Asking (not due to infidelity reasonings) honestly eliminates most of the users in this sub.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/23 01:46 AM
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That is literally the opposite of the definition of scorched earth.
/r/Divorce_Men29/08/23 08:56 PM
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That's just the bullshit right there. You caught her. Her only comeback is to claim that you're "controlling."
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/23 04:31 AM
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Getting married isn't the problem. Get a premarital agreement. This will protect your property and assets, and if written properly, can govern your management of these and other things during the marriage. And of course it removes the decision making process of the division after divorce. What it doesn't do is keep you from being responsible for kids and child support.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/23 04:25 PM
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Just wondering, did this woman cheat on you? Those are the truly entitled ones.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/23 07:00 AM
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File. Do it as soon as the day breaks. Make your consultation, tell the attorney you're ready to proceed. Trust me, if you do this, right now, then you will feel like a million bucks a lot sooner, rather than like crap for months on end.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 11:12 PM
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Gonna frame this.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/23 04:50 AM
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It may be seeds planted by her mom, but this is why you have to be the adult in the room and show her how her mom is wrong. Running your mouth won't do this. Stay calm. Be persistent, and be consistent. She'll come around.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/23 02:34 PM
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News flash: kids with happily married parents say shit like this too. It's way more to do with the fact that she's 14 than with you being divorced. You're no longer your wife's husband, but you're definitely still your daughter's dad. Buckle up and live up to your role. She'll come around.
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/23 05:49 AM
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My comeback: live with me if you want to come.
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/23 03:55 AM
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