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| 1 | After this I can just tell when another man hasn't been truly hurtAre you sure about that, see what I did there. You cannot judge others by the pain you're feeling, if you met me you'd be absolutely sure that I've not experienced anything like divorce but I'm a child of divorced parents. Walked into my room one day, saw my father holding my rifle with the muzzle under his chin, asked me to walk away and I refused. Said I was going to stay and he will make me watch. Saw my mother who blew up her life for a dick head, then wreck it further and becomes a waste of… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/07/26 05:05 PM |
| 2 | It is so hard to be the asshole...That last line, right there, thats what we need from you, that's what you need from you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 02:05 PM |
| 2 | It is so hard to be the asshole...Then why allow yourself to feel like the asshole here, you'd just be enabling her shitty behaviour and shitty choices. She did that to you and you're in no way responsible for her anymore, you have to let go, she isn't your problem. She needs to become, in your mind, a car crash that you see in TV in the morning. It's sad and it happens but it's not your fault, not your responsibility and nothing you can do anything about. My advice then is to not even look at where you can help her, you should … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 01:57 PM |
| 2 | It is so hard to be the asshole...The trick is to help those who deserve it. Fool me once... Let me ask you this, let's see if we can change your thought process. If you were to help her, would she be grateful and sort herself out, or would she, as I have the feeling here, take your help and inevitably make poor choices again and at some point come back to you for more help. Here's another way to think about it. If somebody begs you for money today, you give it because that's the right thing to do, then later on you see that per… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 01:52 PM |
| 9 | It is so hard to be the asshole...She cheated, she moved on with the guy she cheated with. She chose this, not you. You are in no way responsible for her choices and you are absolutely not required to find her life when she walked out of yours. You're not an asshole for saying no. For having the boundaries you couldn't have while being married to her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 06:05 AM |
| 1 | She filed and it’s a poor reflection on her.So here's a few things You listen to your lawyers, don't buckle, don't give up and give in to end it and let her have what she wants. Let your lawyers dig and let them expose her bullshit in court. You also fight to remain in your kids lives and remind yourself that eventually they grow up, as a child of divorce, they will remember who did what and how each of you behaved. As for looking at her, you don't, simply put you don't, you don't deal with her, you don't talk to her, you don't have anyth… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/07/26 10:05 PM |
| 10 | Final court dateThat seems to be the number one regret for a lot of women who ask for a divorce, they have a bunch of problems that they blame their husband for, start the process and, in a twist that shocks nobody, the same patterns repeatedly pop up only this time the new guy isn't accepting the blame. Usually it quickly gets to the point where the new guy walks and they are out there regretting it all. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/07/26 05:35 PM |
| 13 | UPDATE: Just had the talkYour ex wife is either high or retarded, you're renting so irrespective of you renting from your parents or any other landlord she has no legal claim to the property or any equity in the property as that belongs to your parents. It's not a community asset. Yes the mortgage payments have come from marital funds but paid as rent. This is what she doesn't get. The car if she takes her name off it then it no longer belongs to her and you get to report it stolen. She's being a fool and throwing mud, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Wrestling Down Why I am Mad. Would love thoughtsAs long as you keep saying yes she gets the time she wants and you destroy yourself. Why are you allowing her to continue to destroy you when you're not getting anything out of it | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/07/26 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Joined the club Wednesday. Well at least we’re starting the process.Yeah I hear you loud and clear there, but you're right you only have control over yourself. Just know you have a whole massive community here who are going through the wringer as well. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 05:13 PM |
| 10 | In retrospect, are you ever just COMPLETELY baffled at how you ignored the red flags?How could you be so blind Pussy Just that, that's the answer to nearly all how did I, how could I and why the hell did I questions out there. If they didn't have those would we even bother, probably not. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Joined the club Wednesday. Well at least we’re starting the process.Dude you're saying and doing all of the tight things. My man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Joined the club Wednesday. Well at least we’re starting the process.Just getting out as clean as you can be is a win, let her go off and destroy her life, let her dig her own pit and watch you smile as you move on, remember though, if you get the chance to, thank the guy who took her. Something that has always puzzled me is the guys who get themselves a woman who cheated, its like, dude she cheated on him, do you not think she's capable of doing that to you as well. Do you really think your dick is that golden she won't do the same to you. My best friend though,… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/26 09:46 PM |
| 1 | When should I tell her I want to divorce?No totally, that's fair enough, you know her best and you have to do what is in your best interests | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/26 09:39 PM |
| 3 | When should I tell her I want to divorce?Yes move your things to the office. Here's what's going to happen She will Ask why you're doing this, play the victim and attempt to smooth things over Or she's going to push further, if you're doing that why bother why not just leave anyway, you clearly want to. Both are a manipulative tactic and neither of which you can win, don't play her game. Move your things. Speak with the lawyer before anything else. Pay the retainer and start the process and serve her. Start documenting everything. No i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/26 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Feeling exhaustedI get you and totally understand your position. Here's my point, she's painting you as the new Hitler regardless of what you do or don't do. It doesn't matter because to her you're the original sin itself. She's the perpetual victim and can do no wrong. For me I'd have to have the opinion that those who matter know the truth, those who don't don't matter and those who don't know either way will make up what they want, none of that is my business. I also get what you're saying about breaking out … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/26 10:22 PM |
| 5 | Feeling exhaustedAs long as you're doing that she has power over you. The opposite of love isn't hate it's indifference so be that towards her. Every time you try to be civil for the sake of your child you walk away exhausted, burned out and hating yourself a bit. Yes being mature and decent for your son is all very grown up and responsible for you but what's the cost and ultimately what's the lesson your son is learning from you. You see this is the underlying kick in the balls, we behave in ways we think will … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/06/26 02:42 PM |
| 9 | Felt like I was doing better, than saw a picture of my ex downtown...Ah yes the living my best life by jumping the fence for greener grass. You my friend are doing the right thing. Heal, rebuild and come back better, more settled and stronger. She's filling a gap at the moment and enjoying that sweet freedom but understand that freedom feels very lonely when the days get shorter and colder and those exciting men she's having fun with now are the same men who only want fun when she starts getting bored with it. Then she's going to crash, reality is going to pour i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/26 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Am I wrong to feel this wayTrust me when I say you're not alone. I think that most of the men writing in this sub would say, did say or do say the exact same thing. She was their everything. She is yours, was yours until she wasn't. They got or are getting through it and you will too. You've already proven to yourself that you can and will meet somebody else. That one didn't work out, take the time you need and you'll get there, you don't have to rush and my advice, for what it's worth, don't rush. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/26 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Am I wrong to feel this wayOk let's just out this to bed Your marriage is over, she wants to see the greener grass. You've played the field a little and are just not ready to move on yet. Yes you've got your life together but truth be told you're just not ready and might not be for a while and that's ok. You have to adjust to your new normal, which is doing the things you want to do without her. Surely there must have been things you thought I'd like to do but won't because of her, or can't because of her, this isn't a ba… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Joined the club Wednesday. Well at least we’re starting the process.Yeah it will change the outcome, you're absolutely right. It will also change her behaviour. She will get her lawyer to begin fighting for everything and outside the courtroom you'll find yourself walking into a bar and being asked if you're getting treatment for your dick not working and you refusing to do anything about it which is why she had to cheat, not true. Who cares it's will be by the time she gets through with you. Then back inside the courtroom you'll find restraining orders placed o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 10:22 AM |
| 3 | Joined the club Wednesday. Well at least we’re starting the process.Listen usually I'd say burn the bitch especially if she's cheating but in this case you're actually walking away with the minimum of fuss and minimum of damage that can be done to you. We all see this as a win for you so take it. If she was cheating, let's say she was, do you think it's going to change the outcome, it won't, let's say you find out and confront her about it, she will lie at best, at worst she'll admit it, nothing fully but you don't need to know that anyway or worse she'll say ye… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/06/26 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Can I save my marriage?Short answer no and why would you bother Longer answer is if he's dithering due to his mental health issues not only can you not save the marriage but you cannot save him and as long as he keeps hiding it he's going to eventually drag you down with him. You can listen, you can support but you cannot fix. That requires skills you don't have and if you did you'd be crossing ethical boundaries. In my experience people like this, male or female, do this to force you into making the choice for them, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/26 04:45 PM |
| 10 | Oh, Now she wants to deal...You don't negotiate with terrorists. Her chance was months ago she blew it now you go to court. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/26 08:51 PM |
| 10 | Ex Wanting IntimacyAbsolutely not. You need to understand this is a manipulative behaviour. She's scratching an itch and is using you to do it. She knows you'll give her what she wants because she's keeping you on a hook. You must, absolutely and without equivocation, must refuse her. You don't even need to be polite about it. Don't be weak saying it's causing confusion for you but do say you won't blur boundaries by letting it happen anymore. Remember that word because you'll be using it a lot because she will no… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/26 08:49 PM |
| 3 | I’m wreckedEvery issue will now be an absolute battle Here's why She expected you to take the shafting and roll over, using her friends husband was a conflict of interest in that regard but courts will allow it and see the attorney as a legal bridge between you two and the court. The court will ignore you being shafted if you agree just get it over with. You saying no to that was her first indicator that it wouldn't go her way. Exposing her insane relationship in mediation was her second. She knows if it g… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/26 01:10 PM |
| 8 | New woman, parallel relationship,anyone else been here?Ok you're oissing me off, you're ignoring the blatant red flags and asking us how to get clarity. Here it is, hey dickhead wake the f up. You're either side guy or the hold over until she gets something better. The love bombing is your first, the second is the intimate moments she recalled being in other locations, sweet you were there. Let's give you another example you can work off. You're watching a movie, she says we've seen this already, you know you haven't, so the question is who did she … | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/26 11:32 AM |
| 2 | When is it time to give her what she wants?Yeah but be meaner, you have something on her she won't like being public but you're being a gentleman, fuck that noise burn her. She likes a bit of weed on the weekend in a state that doesn't like weed, that becomes public. She likes to file expenses claims that aren't fully true, let that become public knowledge and let her company find out. Yes you want to fight over frivolous crap then let's fight, yes the lawyers get the house, yes I'll walk away cover d in blood but I'll make damned sure i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/26 11:22 AM |
| 6 | When is it time to give her what she wants?Scorch the earth. A good lawyer has only one job, protect you, but they can only legally do what they are instructed to do and only go as far as you allow them. If she's doing this for frivolous reasons then instruct your lawyer to be an absolute twat and scorch the earth, Brum her down and everything around her. Let your lawyer lose to rip her to bits, attack her reputation, image, previous statements everything. She's counting on you buckling because the divorce for whatever reason but the cou… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/26 01:10 PM |
| 4 | Lots of arguments with my wifeOk let me ask you this question You said you think about divorce often so answer this. If you picture yourself actually divorced from her and you saw her with another man how do you feel. If you're angry at that thought, jealous then I would suggest you both go through counseling first. If you think she's his problem, thank fuck it's not me, poor bastard. Then your marriage is over because you've checked out and the only thing left to do is file and be done. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Wife Says She Doesn’t Know If She Wants the Marriage, Says Nothing Has Changed After a Month. How Long Do I Wait?Why are you waiting My experience when people do this stunt, it is a stunt, they want the other person to do usually one thing. Beg, they want you to beg and reduce yourself to their power because it's a power trip. Don't beg, don't debase yourself, if she's dithering then call it and pull the plug yourself. Yes kids, mortgage all of that bullshit which we tie ourselves to makes this extremely difficult but extremely necessary, so call it. Sit her down ask her what she wants to do, you'll get on… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 04:42 PM |
| 5 | What would you guys do?Why not start another business, get a job more related to your level of knowledge and experience, then use that to bang more drums. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/26 01:06 PM |
| 7 | Ex-wife's boyfriend causing problems.Don't crack him but play into it. Not allowed at the house anymore cool, child exchange happens at the police, sherifs office. Change the handover agreement that he's not a biological parent so handover is between the parents only. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/26 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Is there a judge out there that would give one parent 93% of all assets?Everyone thinks the mediator is there to get a fair settlement. Bullshit, utter bullshit, they are there to get you two to agree and they will always take the oath of least resistance, they identify who is the most combative and always shift their focus to get the least argumentative to agree. If that's grossly unfair to you they don't care, they just want you to agree. So you have to protect yourself and operate in that manner. The hope is that in session 1 the ridiculous demands will come out … | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/26 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Going from having a wife and helping raise her kids to being 31 and single..........I'd have e to start messing with her Ok so she's posting photos, this is just manipulation and you have to see that for what it is. She's telling you she's moved on but at the same time posting memories about you two is a skanky way of keeping you emotionally tied to her. Nice place to be when she gets bored and the latest chad thundercock tells her they are her kids not his and he ain't paying for them. When he's had his fun and dips for something more suitable and she finds herself alone in a … | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/26 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Questions.You are your own worst enemy here, you're stopping yourself from moving on by holding onto what you had and what you thought you were going to have. What you just do is take some time, don't date because you're not in the right mind and you know that. If you have to get therapy but you cannot continue in this way, if you have to join a boxing gym and have some big fucker best it out of you twice a week but do something to let her go. She might have been the most amazing to your being the most sh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/26 01:41 PM |
| 8 | Good experience with female lawyers?I've known of both sides, female lawyers who were absolute sharks and scorching the earth to protect their male clients who were cheated on, abused etc. I've also known of male lawyers who were fired by male clients because they were just taking the money and doing nothing else but encouraging their client to sign and take it in the arse with a smile. It's about you and your interests and if your lawyer isn't operating in your interests then fire them and find another. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 06:24 PM |
| 9 | Mediator is suggesting that I accept 6.8% from the total marital estate.Ask the mediator how much they are getting as kickbacks from your ex wife and watch their head explode. Then tell them they are in your view either incompetent at their job or abusing the system and you'd like some capable of doing their job or it goes to court for the court to decide the asset split. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 06:09 PM |
| 8 | Separated and now she is pregnantYou can get a pre birth paternity test done, swab for you and blood drawn from her and it's every bit as accurate. You can force that situation by court order to ensure you aren't added to any documents relating to the child due to presumed paternity. This of course depends on her being with the father or not, if not and there's a question over the paternity then it won't speed up the divorce, in most cases it will slow things down further until paternity is proven. If you get that proven then t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Why Re-marry after Divorce?I'm still married but I can tell you if I got divorced there would never be a second marriage. One divorce is brutal enough why would I want to go through that again. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/06/26 06:18 AM |
| 4 | Told my wife..Cool she just showed you who she is and how she truly sees you. Accept that and start to distance yourself. It will take more than a few days but no more touches when you pass her, no more coffee left ready for her etc. When she asks why you just tell her how needy she is. While you're doing that you begin to build a life outside of her, begin to reduce your availability for her and her access to you. Come home straight after work. Not any more, 4 days a week you're in the gym after work. Eat to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 09:59 PM |
| 18 | Before you swipe right, know the new rule: Women aren't just Googling you anymore. Your ex is your new background check.Have to be honest here and ask why she thinks marriage is on or even anywhere near the table. Sheeeeeit you actually dodged a bullet there if you think about it, she's ditching you because you keep your friend group small, quality over quantity every day of the week but for her a large friend group means bridesmaids, do you realise she would have been divorce number 2, skank wants the ring without the role. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 09:54 PM |
| 5 | Did your (ex)wife’s friends lead her towards divorce?That old tale of single bitter angry women keep women single bitter and angry. It's not a new phenomenon we've known about this for years, in fact it's one of the biggest red flags for men. If your relationship is gossip for the friend group then she's not your queen. She's not your queen because the queen doesn't discuss the kings issues with the peasants. Keep that in mind. Let me just ask you, we're your friends saying your husband should be doing more while they didn't have a husband, couldn… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Physical Health Wrecked from Divorce?I hear that so often, If only I had a buck each time. You're in the funk, you don't have the energy to do it, that's emotional speaking, you get yourself out there. That's how you start, it won't be easy and it certainly won't be pleasant in the beginning. You start on day one, any day can be day one, even today. You just go, that's the hardest part is just going. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 05:24 AM |
| 0 | Just a little annoyance...She's supposed to be paying support to you, your kids. It's court ordered and the department is ordered to execute the court orders. It's that simple. They are negligent in their duty, if they are losing the documents they are proving negligence by their actions. There are material damages that can be proven here. Namely the support your shove getting from her which you aren't and that is putting financial hardship on you and your children risking their home and health. Regardless of your though… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Physical Health Wrecked from Divorce?What you're going through is fairly common. You have to remember men know divorce is shit and expect it to be brutal and impact their health, wealth, emotional stability and mental stability for some time, while women expect it to be a fun time and a line of dick. Her revenge happens on day one, her crash will happen after six months and if you take the advice seriously you'll get the better revenge. Now it doesn't have to be revenge but it must be an aim to live better without her than you coul… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Just a little annoyance...First try to remind yourself mediocrity is the choice of the government employee. As is incompetence and general fuckwittery. Go back and this time tell that woman you won't deal with any more as the tasknshe gets paid for is clearly too complex for her to handle and you now have no choice other than to speak to her manager or supervisor if that's not possible then you have no other choice than to involve a lawyer and direct actions against the department itself. Go from there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/26 09:17 PM |
| 1 | In my new place. Hate my life now.To be fair most days we think the same regardless of marital status | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/26 11:38 AM |
| 1 | In my new place. Hate my life now.You good men need to understand your kids need you as much you need them, the world is losing honourable solid men too fast to wicked greedy women and if I can say something that makes a good man hold on for another day then I will because I was a child of divorce who saw his father put a muzzle in his mouth and I stood there telling him if he's going to do it he's making me watch. He didn't follow through, I didn't look away then and I won't now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Wife divorced me, we have two children, I wanted to have a Godly family but she didn’t want that with me, now she has a boyfriend whom she is on fire for God with and I feel like this is all a slap in the face. Anyone else go through something like this?Yes basically, now you want to know how I know I'm a child of divorce, my father was never not around, he was always there and especially when I needed him, more so when I needed him to be a father. You know the stern hand, the guide and role model. My mother remarried and I fall him dad but I've never bonded with him beyond a typical male friendship or typical male respect. This is the same for all kids of divorce that I know and the multiple studies I've read saying the same thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Wife divorced me, we have two children, I wanted to have a Godly family but she didn’t want that with me, now she has a boyfriend whom she is on fire for God with and I feel like this is all a slap in the face. Anyone else go through something like this?Trust me they will bond over time, but it will be like a respectable relationship as though this is the guy who married my mother. Kids only ever bond with a step father on that way if the actual father is useless and never around. If you keep that in mind you'll always be their father and nothing will change that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Wife divorced me, we have two children, I wanted to have a Godly family but she didn’t want that with me, now she has a boyfriend whom she is on fire for God with and I feel like this is all a slap in the face. Anyone else go through something like this?Keep your head, remember it's a marathon not a sprint and you'll come out smiling | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 05:31 PM |
| 12 | In my new place. Hate my life now.Are you seriously telling us that you'd take yourself away from your son and condemn him to grow up wishing you hadn't. No you're not going to do that, you're going to take one day at a time, you're going to slowly adjust to your new reality and you're going to get your life together, you're going to be there for your son because he needs you and you need him. You're going to start hitting the gym, getting your diet sorted and focus on work, outside of that you're going to start doing things for… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Wife divorced me, we have two children, I wanted to have a Godly family but she didn’t want that with me, now she has a boyfriend whom she is on fire for God with and I feel like this is all a slap in the face. Anyone else go through something like this?Yeah he's thinking a ready made family, he's thinking he's landed and got a diamond. He doesn't realise he's going to take a backseat to your kids, he doesn't realise that eventually his money is only that and it can't make up for you being the actual father to your kids, he's always going to be second place. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Wife divorced me, we have two children, I wanted to have a Godly family but she didn’t want that with me, now she has a boyfriend whom she is on fire for God with and I feel like this is all a slap in the face. Anyone else go through something like this?I'm one of the only lucky ones you'll ever speak to, I'm married and only once. It might seem weird to you, why am I on a divorce sub, it's because I hate seeing good men get ruined and if I can say something that will give just one man hope enough he doesn't eat the pointy end of a bullet then I can live happy. So no it hasn't happened, yet. Of course she thinks she's upgraded, they all do, very few actually have and fewer are prepared for the tradeoff they have to accept. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Wife divorced me, we have two children, I wanted to have a Godly family but she didn’t want that with me, now she has a boyfriend whom she is on fire for God with and I feel like this is all a slap in the face. Anyone else go through something like this?Let me say yes I totally agree with you, what made me laugh was this only a very stupid person would test the grass on the other side of the fence. Line up most women who walked and ask them why and there's your answer, they thought the grass was greener and yes only a stupid person thinks that, which is why they left in the first place. As for the stepdad role, yeah doing that is, what do they call it, cleaning up the mess left by somebody else. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Wife divorced me, we have two children, I wanted to have a Godly family but she didn’t want that with me, now she has a boyfriend whom she is on fire for God with and I feel like this is all a slap in the face. Anyone else go through something like this?Well let's see what the op says. There's always a reason why wives leave especially when they are leaving for the same as they already have. Your argument why would a richer better looking guy stick with a single mother assumes that all men with looks and some status behave the same way, mine is that men don't all think the same and don't all behave the same. That and I've seen too many wealthy guys with a line of options go for a single mother because deep down they don't value themselves overa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Still goes on…Shit dude I've said for years men must before getting engaged speak with a lawyer in their country to find out how divorce can hammer them and what they can do to protect themselves. Some guys are lucky, myself included and marry an actual good woman and have a good life but let's face it getting married is like the worst russian roulette game, half the chambers have blanks and the other half are over powered rounds. One leaves a burn mark and the other obliterates your head. In my country a pre… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 04:42 PM |
| 4 | Wife divorced me, we have two children, I wanted to have a Godly family but she didn’t want that with me, now she has a boyfriend whom she is on fire for God with and I feel like this is all a slap in the face. Anyone else go through something like this?It's going to be one of or two of these things Better looking than you More money than you Here's the kicker, what she's doing is for show, it's a mask, you should know that because its going to be either or both of those things, making her a raving hypocrite and sadly barred from any version of heaven. Here's another one to make you smile, she's only going to be able to wear that mask for so long. Eventually she's going to be faced with a biblical rule that hits home and she's going to have to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Discernment therapy, couples therapy, or just give up?You need therapy to accept she's a Trainwreck and you can't fix her. You said it yourself the house was in better shape without her, the only way, the only way the house could be in better shape without her is if you were in a better place without her, a house cannot be managed if the manager is in chaos. Something I want to, need to address here is this you just have to accept her for who she is. If you don't like it, what are you going to do about it?" Are you blind or are you just trying to n… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/26 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Handling Ex ContactGood man. Make her a stranger and live better without her than with her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 04:42 PM |
| 24 | Handling Ex ContactHere's my take on it Nearly everyone, read most of all women, have this crazy idea that their life after divorce is going to be awesome. Mostly men know it's going to be miserable for a long time, hence the self exit rates. These people, women, have this idea that bills magically pay themselves, money somehow appears in their accounts, the latest chad thundercock is going to magically appear and be the latest captain save a 304 who's going to be desperate to save the Becky and fly her out to Bal… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Wife abandoned me what to doFirst off a marriage should not be a battleground. If you're having fights more than what would appear to be normal for a married couple you have to ask yourself if it was toxic. Most likely the answer you're looking for is yes. So she left, good, let her go and fix your issues. Next bit is the legal advice you asked about and others are better placed to answer that bit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 09:55 AM |
| 8 | Ex wife still makes me feel guilty - how to deal with itI think if you went and ordered the biggest dildo you could find on Amazon and sat on it without any lube you'd be fucking yourself far less and far less painfully than you are right now. Why are you trying to get empathy from a person with the emotional depth of a puddle. Why are you letting her make you angry, as long as you're emotionally invested, anger, love it's all the same to people like that, you're on her hook. Lawyer up and get your shit sorted, if her parents are buying her the house… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 09:34 AM |
| 7 | Crazy number?Thankfully what she wants and what she gets are two different things. Most states are starting to default to a shared custody model. Something I find interesting to see the feminist's fought for it but when it means no child support because both share the costs equally they went super quiet on shared parenting. If shared parenting is not an option thenost of the time it is worked out on a percentage of the income, some places go before tax and some after. Alimony is also case by case depending, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 09:11 AM |
| 1 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.Being married does not preclude me from being able to give advice to men going through the wringer. Being a child of divorce and a contentious mother and watching my father get to the point of eating a bullet, being the one in a group of 30 friends who is the only one remaining married and watching divorce utterly destroy them. Not being a nice guy, not being the kind of man who will sacrifice everything to make it work, being the one who can and will walk away if my boundaries are violated rega… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/06/26 09:03 AM |
| 8 | Ex proudly claims life is so much easier / better nowYou have no idea how much I'm smiling reading what you've written because it sounds like her entire life is ego and cope. You should be smiling yourself, she's made your life easier and calmer and way more peaceful by ending the marriage. You only have a few things to focus on, first is you, your child and making your life look how it should So a nice clean house, nice furniture and nice interior, make it minimal and easy to clean and keep clean, of course don't be afraid to post it. It's for yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 08:17 PM |
| 2 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.I don't see hate for women, I see a rational response to observations made. If you think that's hate then it might be something you need to work on, it might be you're the problem especially if you refuse to hold women accountable as much you hold men accountable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 06:06 PM |
| 8 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.Honestly I see a lot of comments from people who seem to be very upset that you worked out the rules of the game long before they did and they are upset. Yes you highlight American women, well guess what, I highlight American women too, I'm from the UK and can say hand on heart if sooner given a blow job to a glock than marry an American woman. You all seriously need to consider American men are leaving the USA to find a quality woman but there isn't a single instance of a man going to the USA t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 06:04 PM |
| 7 | I have a lack of empathy for any man willing to marry at this point.You are exactly the problem. Somebody looking around at the field before them and choosing not to walk onto it is far from an incel but a wise person, you on the other hand are the very kind of person he's talking about. To put it another way, you are going to claim if you were to go parachuting and be told your chute opens only 50% of the time but is more likely to not open fully, even when it does. Everyone else will say no thanks, you on the other hand would blame everyone else for choosing t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/26 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Controlling narcissistic wife tricked me into living together again.So why don't you call the police to remove her first. Your name is on the lease, at best then she's a guest there, if she doesn't pay half for the place then she's a guest, check that to be sure but most places she would be considered a guest and she's overstaying her welcome and the police are duty bound to remove her as a trespasser | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 10:07 PM |
| 2 | She’s erasing the years we had togetherI knew it would be asked for, here you go https://youtu.be/iLDn60UnxLE?si=AQuM04fhqSIpwmRJ | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Reasons to get divordedLook I'm not going to say quit andove on because you clearly don't want to do that yet, you're clearly not at that point. So here's my advice, put a hard stop on it at a future point in time. If things aren't getting better, if she's not looking into why this situation is going on, if she won't take steps to fix it or at least be open about what's going on and why. Then yes pull the plug. Of course it means you have to keep trying to get to the bottom of what's going on. Let's say six more month… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 09:09 PM |
| 4 | She’s erasing the years we had togetherDid you watch that video on the link I posted for you. Did you pay enough attention. She's rewriting history to paint you as the bad guy, pardon the pun, to justify her actions and behaviours and to control the narrative so nobody questions her why she left a good marriage. I had a girlfriend do this to me, we were together for a few months and breaking up the entire relationship changed to me being abusive and controlling and Hitler's younger brother. To say I was shocked was an understatement.… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Does one have to date ?You went through a divorce, the claim is losing a child is the next traumatic event worse. Think about that, do you really wonder given that you have no desire to date yet. I'd argue you're fine and you should take the time you need, if it's a year, ten years, whatever. It doesn't matter. So stop wondering if it's normal, it's normal for you, that's all that matters, on time you might feel different, if you do then I'd hope you don't ignore the red flags and I'd also hope you don't feel like you… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Does one have to date ?What's normal for you is weird for me. Do you feel broken beyond repair or do you just feel like you couldn't give a shit about dating especially right now. That's what you have to answer for yourself, if it's broken beyond repair then therapy. If it's meh then just do the things that make you happy and if in time you want to get back out there great, if not great. It's your life to do with as you want. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Does one have to date ?Who said you haven't moved on. When you think about her with another man what happens to your internal world. Do you get angry, sad, laugh. Or do you just not care anymore, if you laugh then it's because he's taking one for the team, maybe she was just exhausting and trapped in repeating patterns of her own choices she'll do to him as she did to you and he's thinking he won, which makes you laugh or... Do you feel nothing at all, like you don't care what happens to her as long as she's nowhere n… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 12:30 PM |
| 3 | The equity in the house was worth more than my freedom.Of course that happens, find a link and post it where somebody has said it never happens, you won't because nobody ever has and nobody ever will make that claim. In fact social media itself is littered with post after post about how a woman was told no by somebody and she went on a tantrum about being abused but you and they will absolutely fall silent the moment a woman is shown to be the actual abuser, or worse you'll climb from under your rock to publicly and loudly defend her actions and bla… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/26 12:24 PM |
| 5 | The equity in the house was worth more than my freedom.Yes it is despicable in reverse, the question to ask though is it as common for men to make false allegations, is it as common for men to blindside their wives, is it as common for men to allege abuse to keep the wife out of the home. If it were the feminists would fight tooth and nail for laws to stop it so no. However what isn't despicable but in truth good sense and good business is to spend a few hundred bucks on a lawyer before even getting engaged to understand what you can do as a man to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/26 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Anyone ever experience this?You did the right thing and your wife was spot on laughing her arse off over it. She must have been shaking her head thinking the absolute bloody audacity to make that call. Let's play this out though, let's suppose, for the sake of argument you said ok. You'll go along to the session and it will be how you failed her and never understood her, never supported her and we're always judgemental and controlling. Which is exactly why she made so many mistakes, because cheating and passing the salt in… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/26 08:58 PM |
| 18 | The equity in the house was worth more than my freedom.Yeah far too many men never truly understand they don't know who they got married to until the divorce filing has been made. Men need to understand deeply understand that when a divorce starts it's not separating two people from a shared life it's actually a war of attrition. Those things you were absolutely sure she couldn't do or be willing to do even to her worst enemy are the very things she will do happily during a divorce and those things are the baseline. I honestly think if more men were… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/26 08:44 PM |
| 7 | I know nowA friend going through a divorce said he was told by his therapist that he needs to look out for the therapy speak. When all other indicators of an affair seem to be missing it's the therapy speak that is the giveaway, he says he was told women will use it as a way of sowing confusion in you to throw you off balance while making you the bad guy to justify their behaviour so I totally agree with what you're saying here. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/26 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Anyone notice huge mental swings and mental issues with wife on GLP-1?Ok so one thing here, for you it's abusive and abhorrent behaviour, for these people it's just another day. They don't even notice their behaviour. That will change though but it takes time, they will one day say shit my behaviour was actually piss poor, it's no wonder why they left. The kicker is though they'll also blame you and those who left for being too weak to stay. Stop beating yourself up for this, there are so many men I know of around the world who have been with women like this and t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/26 03:56 PM |
| 8 | Hardest thing for meShe's not yours it was just your turn, soon enough she's going to be somebody else's headache. Women don't change their behaviour they simply find new ways to blame the new guy for the mistakes of the old guy. She wants out, pack her bags and hold the door open for her to leave and let her know no matter what she will never be allowed back in your life. Watch her go, move on and make your life better without her than you could ever have with her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/26 11:03 PM |
| 7 | Not sure what to doYou are willfully being stupid. You need to get yourself into a boxing gym and ask somebody to kick your arse to wake you the hell up. The promises you made her on your wedding day exist only as long as your marriage exists, the day divorce is filed and started your promises cease to exist because she also made promises to you and she isn't keeping them. You are living in a hero complex trying to be the honourable good guy. Let me let you in on a secret here, a good guy, a truly good man is only… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/26 10:59 PM |
| 39 | I can get "good girls" but not "bad girls"Dude no, just no. Never put your dick in crazy. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 09:40 PM |
| 4 | Vacation IssuesNot sure but I will only bend the knee before god, the rest can go fuck themselves. So then my question to you is why are you doing her the favour. Why aren't you playing hardball and sticking to the parenting agreement. You know she's not going to allow flexibility for you but capitalise on it when she wants because she believes two things.. First the courts will always side with her, they won't And second, you lack the balls to go back through the courts to enforce the order when she plays gam… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/26 09:37 PM |
| 11 | Dating in your 50’s kind of sucksSo far you've told me you're doing everything right I want you to think about this and maybe change your perspective here. You're getting dates so that's not the issue, you're not really clicking with anyone, which is where things are actually good. What does it mean, you're not bending boundaries, you're not chasing anything to fill a void. You're holding your own and making sure that you make the right moves. What does that mean, in the end you meet somebody who is actually right and will actu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/26 10:02 PM |
| 9 | UpdateI fu&&ING love this for you. I don't know you but man am I proud of you. You legend and the way you're moving on with your life, focussing on you and leaving her to whatever her life becomes is truly the best way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/26 02:19 PM |
| 7 | Nobody to talk with about this..You grey rock this bitch. She wants contact only about emergencies so do that, speak to your landlord about breaking the lease, try to arrange it so you move out and leave her with the lease, say nothing about it and let her find out on her own. Split any accounts and cut her access to anything she has with your name on it. Start doing your thing and leave her totally cut out. Eventually she's going to come to you asking you to back her up on the marriage ending, usually it involves you being th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/26 08:52 AM |
| 3 | Am I justified?You really only have two choices here She either admits she has a problem and gets help and you're there to support her Or She refuses to accept there's an issue and you have to decide if you are going to stay and possibly wake up one day to a police visit because one of her lies is going to put you in prison or somebody else or you decide you can't live with that possibility hanging over you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/05/26 08:39 AM |
| 4 | Everytime I get my daughter (3) she tells me about ex wife’s new bfYou're going to have to suck this one up but just know when you meet somebody and introduce her to your daughter the shoe goes on the other foot then. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone come across this situation and if so what did you do?You have the agreement that says she will take full responsibility for the house. That's your get out jail card but you'll need evidence to back up that she is being malicious or has malicious intent. A text message is writing and writing is written evidence. A court order to separate you from the mortgage, remove you from the mortgage or force her to refinance early. In this case if you aren't paying anything anyway. Judges try to be reasonable, not always true but mostly, but what they hate is… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 10:41 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys cope with the idea of losing your hard earned assets during a divorce?That's exactly the survivor mindset, shit happens you deal with it and come back stronger. It's a soldiers mindset that tells you that you can get through anything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 10:37 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys cope with the idea of losing your hard earned assets during a divorce?I like the way you think. This is a survivor mindset that is truly indomitable and unbreakable, love it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone come across this situation and if so what did you do?You're going to need a lawyer. If she is making threats to not pay try to get that in writing, text message is enough. Through your lawyer get your name removed from anything to do with the property. You said she's in full control of the property but if she has to refinance then your name is still probably tied to it, so your lawyer will be able to use the evidence as a malicious case and the court will order her within 30 days not the two years. However you can also do this without her even bei… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 09:06 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys cope with the idea of losing your hard earned assets during a divorce?Ok I see questions like this often so first thing Protect yourself and ask much of your assets as possible but you might have to accept a 50/50 split because marriage is a contract if shared interests and shares assets, there is no I only we. Now here's the kicker, studies shownon average men recover financially, physically, mentally and emotionally and in most cases five years after the divorce they are better off in all areas. Men report that they've recovered and thrived, that they are much b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with yearningYou'll still have that pain but as long as you hold onto her you're always stuck in the past, pain is meant to be learned from not stuck in. You need to learn how to forgive yourself and let go of it, move on from it and take the lesson so you don't repeat it. If you don't do that how do you think you'll ever be able to actually move forward with your life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Dealing with yearningAs long as you carry her photo you carry hope for her, why. Why are you hurting yourself further, you know it's over, you know what you want and what she wants won't work, you'll try to convince yourself, at night in bed just as you go to sleep but wake up again feeling like shit because reality hits and you know it wouldn't work no matter how you try to brainwash yourself. So why keep punishing yourself. You've got cleaned up, but you still cling to your old ways as though keeping her photo and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 04:46 PM |
| 15 | Wife has moved on-big timeCo sider yourself lucky that she's out there now getting her very own std to be proud of. It's becoming a massive issue that women of her age are showing up more and more at clinics with raging STDs, experts think it's because they've spent years in a relationship where the norm was monogamy and now that, in their minds society has changed they are behaving in this way for two reasons First to remain relevant, nothing damages a woman's ego than being invisible Second they get to have the strange… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/05/26 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Just when I think things can’t get any worse, they do!Yeah nearly all of my friends who went through a divorce has a similar story to tell. You really don't know your wife until you're going through a divorce. It's not a breakdown of a marriage it's a war of attrition | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/26 08:02 PM |
| 6 | New Relationship RuinedLow contact, kids handover through a co-parenting app, no discussions outside the app and everything kept purely to logistics about the kids, handover times and locations, school reports etc but nothing more. The more you allow this to happen the more she gets to make sure she is the only one to move on or keep you on the back burner until she decides she wants your safety net back. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/26 06:47 PM |
| 8 | Just when I think things can’t get any worse, they do!This is a common thing. The moment a divorce is spoken out loud here family will do as much as possible to make you the bad guy regardless of her behaviour and in many cases purely because of her behaviour Have you noticed how her family have enabled her behaviour, if not before you did today. Expect narrative control, she cheated because you weren't enough, she's trying to be mature about it but you're the angry one. Yeah you have every right to be angry but it's about winning the divorce. It's… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/26 06:36 PM |
| 6 | My kids basically begged me to stop the big weekends… so I said forget it and bought a $30 soccer goalThis one I needed to read today, after a totally crappy day this made me smile. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/05/26 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Whelp, didn’t think it would happen…You're looking into a blank future So write it as you want | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/05/26 08:30 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys deal with kids meeting the new guy?Fuck me this is a dream you don't know you're having at the moment. Has your lawyer said yet, don't react, don't engage just document everything. Check recording laws in your area, and if you're in a one party state get meta glasses or a pen camera and also install cameras in common areas of the house and record everything. Let her show the courts her behaviour is dangerous and irresponsible towards the children and let her show the courts that he's just as dangerous and irresponsible. Then you … | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/05/26 05:03 AM |
| 7 | ReconciliationThere reliant enough context here Who fucked up Who filed for divorce Why did they file If she blindsided you, love you but not in love with you, needed space to find herself or any of that garbage Then you haven't done the work you've soothed yourself with false hope when you should have been holding the door open for her to leave and making sure that she knew no matter what, the apocalypse could happen and you wouldn't entertain sharing food with her, letting her into your bunker or even going… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/26 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else spend most of their time with their ex like they’re best friends?You're wondering so then let me spell it out for you As long as you allow your situation to maintain itself in its current guise you will always be stuck, confused and wondering without ever moving on. Her on the other hand will happily drop you when another Chad thundercock pops up and offers her weekends away and exciting date nights and also won't tolerate such a close relationship with her ex. As long as you allow this to continue you cannot move on because any woman worth your time and effo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/26 08:27 PM |
| 7 | Where do we draw the line btw women independence and rights of a husbandGet out of this shit show right now, leave, run don't walk, never ever go back, never speak to this demon ever again. What she did was horrendous on a level I've never considered possible but here we are. She cheated and got pregnant and then had the audacity to decide on an outcome and claimed it was done for you. So what happens next time, she has a long term affair, burns through your money to fund it and destroys your reputation and she did that for you. Of course what I said is hypothetical… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/26 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Advice needed: Trying to date a divorced dadA good amount of time is when he decided you're trustworthy enough to meet the kids and he's sure you'd be a good influence on the kids. From the sounds of it you are, you seem open to being step mother and you're showing concern for them but of course also yourself and your relationship So my best advice here if you want it is to just go with it, obviously you have to be sure that the relationship is moving forward to and end goal but also you have to allow trust to build between you and him an… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 09:33 PM |
| 3 | Living separatelyIn most countries this is a yes and no situation, yes he has every right to be there because he's paying but also no because he walked out and she has legal claim to security by not having him there. What puzzles me is why he's going there to handle the lawn and hedges etc. if she wants the property she can handle what goes along with it. If he's left then get the property up for sale asap. Forcing her to either refinance in her name only and buy out his share or accept she can't and the house e… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 08:57 AM |
| 0 | Advice...I won't hold anyone accountable...WA State...contested divorce.Of she wants alimony she gets to pay you a share of the house she's going to. Fuck her and her alimony, that's there to help a spouse find housing and adjust. She doesn't need it because she works already and if she's not earning enough she needs to fix that not rely on you as the safety net. She wants out she gets out but she takes the consequences of her choices. She's been dropped as a difficult client great, let your lawyer go balls out on her and Rio her to bits, it's going to hurt both of … | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 06:02 AM |
| 5 | Am I wrong for staying hopeful?I have made sacrifices of my own family and friends for this woman. And I’m still not enough as it is. That should tell you everything you need to know. When are you going to realise that when they already have one foot out the door, no sacrifice you make for them is ever going to be enough, they hold in that limbo because they want you to end it and use your efforts as further justification that you were wrong. Let me explain. You cut off friends for her, she will say she never asked but she di… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/26 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Navigating the Notification: Informing Your Ex of a Divorce FilingText message welcome to single town population you. No idea why you want to be decent about it, the final filing just needs to be done, you've been separated for long enough to just get on with and your life, what she goes through, what happens to her now is none of your concern. Make it your concern and spend your life being sucked into her drama when you should be busy causing enough of your own. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Not divorced yet, but getting tired of playing the marriage game…So then why are you playing to her rules when you don't know them and the moment you think you do she changes the rules again. Time to start playing the game your way and letting her figure out she either gets in board with your plan or gets herself off the train, you'll be fine, you'll hurt for now but you'll recover. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 08:47 PM |
| 11 | Not divorced yet, but getting tired of playing the marriage game…She's convinced that you can get her to feel something for you that she doesn't by reading her mind and being at the finish line before she gets the chance to move it again. Stop playing her game, get on with your life, start hitting the gym and focusing in work, take on extra responsibility in your job etc. start dressing better and eating better. Start doing things for you. My experience men who chase their wives lose them because the wife doesn't know what she actually wants, men who focus on… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 06:01 PM |
| 7 | Can’t stop the tearsFeels like crap no doubt but this is good. Wth dude, yeah but hear me out. You're grieving the end of the relationship now, not in six months or a year, not later on when it hits and you implode, you're doing the hard bit now. It will be like this for a few weeks, then you'll feel empty and then numb and then you'll feel better and you'll feel a little more each day. Here's the smiling bit, most women leave a relationship and go straight into another one, they all love to claim they grieved the … | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/26 03:39 PM |
| 1 | sold the house in 11 days so we could stop fighting about it lolA house is where you create memories but they don't live there you do. It's just bricks and mortar, wood and glass and nothing more if you make a profit great if not oh well. This is something a lot of men really need to learn because time and again I see men holding onto a box of bricks and beams for nothing more than sentimental value all the while they are wrecking their mental health and tying themselves to a place most end up hating anyway because of the memories. The sooner you can deal wi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/26 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Trying to get outA big out place is a bloody brilliant idea, if you can't stay any longer, love is gone and staying is just a prison then leaving is your only real option, having somewhere to go and if there is a support network there also that's a win | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 09:47 PM |
| 1 | New Wife moves dates for more her and I timeIt's just one month. The rest of the year you'll be back to your normal pattern because that's what works. Just for this period be flexible and go with it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Trying to get outYou have nothing holding you there except for your emotional ties and if they are gone enough then all you have to do is walk. You're on a lease agreement and if assume that either of you can leave without penalty as long as one is there to fully cover the rent. If you're both working and no kids then no alimony and no child support. Get your living situation sorted as that will make it real and force you to shit or get off the pot. Do that first so you have somewhere to leave for. Then file and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 06:38 PM |
| 3 | I don’t know how to do this?You're going to have to be brutal here and keep in mind her choices are not your responsibility, all you can do is be responsible for you and your kids. Meaning of she harms herself that's her choice and what you need to do is to see that in its totality which is that it's a manipulative behaviour which is abusive, it's making you a prisoner in your own home and relationship. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants more money so she can buy a house "she deserves"You're saying solicitor so you're UK based. Given that you have two options First is to tell her to go fuck herself, 50/50 split or let the court decide based on financial contributions to the equity and any joint accounts, assets etc. Second and this is one my friend did, sharp bastard as he is, he said yes and negotiated the settlement but added in that if she takes the agreement she cannot and will not come to him for any more money ever again. This has worked out very well in his favour, her… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/26 05:31 PM |
| 12 | SBXW Falling apart but seems happy?You ever heard of a coping strategy because that's what this is. Deep down she's miserable and wondering how she's going to make it through but she's trying to win the breakup and you're so hurt right now you can't see it. Here's something for you to think about, a woman gets her revenge immediately, men get theirs over time. What that means is she can break up with you today, be in a new relationship tonight and be looking better than ever by the weekend, you hit rock bottom and hs e to rebuild… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/26 04:56 PM |
| 2 | I think this was my 1st and last marriageI'm married and no plans to divorce but I can say it's something that I will never do again in this life or any other life. The opportunities that I've missed or sacrificed for my marriage I've lost count of. The life I live is good, I have to say that but it's good because I've had to always be the one prepared to leave first, to always be the one more prepared to end it. And I want you all to think about that, I only have a good life because I work very hard to protect myself against the thing… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 09:49 PM |
| 12 | I’m a lesbian and this sub is a breath of fresh airOk we get you're a woman but I'm going to post a link here for you to wander over to you tube to watch as I think it will fit your situation exactly and exactly the same as most men experience. https://youtu.be/iLDn60UnxLE?si=AQuM04fhqSIpwmRJ You'll find that there is a need for many women to win the divorce, if you fall apart they were right to leave because you were too weak to be what they needed, if you don't you didn't care enough anyway, it's psychotic to say the least but watch the video … | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/26 04:43 PM |
| 11 | Picked up the last of her stuff... with her new bfSo a man got with your wife while still married to you in your house with your kids in bed and both think they've won, how long do you think before he gets bored with her and she's on the phone to you telling you he cheated on her. Of course when it happens you are going to say a liar and cheater cheated on a liar and cheater, I never saw it coming. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Going back home first time after she leftOne step at a time, you got this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 10:55 PM |
| 5 | I wasn't expecting how few people cared about me.Yes you feel low right now, walking alone is often the cross many men have to bear, it seems that regardless we're only thought about when we're useful to somebody. There is another way of looking at this though, you have nobody to thank, you will get through this even if it's alone, you'll come out stronger than you know because you are stronger than you know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 10:54 PM |
| 4 | Going back home first time after she leftSo you start by getting another job, having a reason to get out bed each day will help and working will if nothing else make you feel like you have a purpose. You don't need to rush the divorce, yes it is happening but at present you're separated and having no job means you actually have bigger concerns. Now the fact it's been 3 weeks and you're still grieving it, personally I've always been able to detach and within a minute accept it's done and grief stops at that point, you are not me but you… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Married 20 years but considering divorce. Would really appreciate any advice.So you've tried multiple times and she either shuts down, shuts down the conversation or basically tells you it ain't getting any better so suck it up. You're 45 and too old for games and for a relationship that feels like death is a better option. My advice would be to pull the plug, be prepared for her to switch up and suddenly find her loving side again, it's just manipulative and designed to get you to think she's woken up to how serious it is. If that were going to happen it would have happ… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/26 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Out Shopping for Mother’s Day…No you let her take the kids out to shop for mother's day. Just as she's would let you take them to shop for father's day. You're two strangers who happen to have e stayed together long enough to have children, after that all bets are off. You're two strangers, you don't impact her life anymore than she does yours, the only pathways where you two cross are what's in the interests of the children. Mothers day is not in their interest, it's her day and if she wants to celebrate it let her but let … | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 11:24 PM |
| 5 | The worst part is seeing them move on like nothing ever happened.No the worst part is seeing the guy she moved on with have bigger balls than you, decide sooner that he won't tolerate her bullshit and end things so she comes back to you saying you both made mistakes and you've both grown up and you could try again. Other than that you should be grateful he's taking one for the team and she's not your problem anymore | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Would you fix it if you could?Fuck yeah you are and it's long overdue time you started to think more of yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Still feel like shit that I had to do thisI'm going to say to you the same as I'd say to any woman facing the same situation You were being assaulted and your child put at risk of harm by the assault. Unless she decides she has a real problem and gets the help she needs to sort herself out you must know this, you cannot fix her, no matter how much you might love her it's not enough if she refuses to accept she has issues. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it the chicken or the egg?Good, like I said why does she get to move on and you have to stay in limbo. I'm not going to say you're the angel but I'm also not going to say she is either, what I will say is she doesn't get to enjoy a free ride anymore. She doesn't get to make nice with somebody else knowing a safety net is waiting. You like her have only one life, you must live it or watch it be taken from you by time you cannot ever get back. Sticking with the agreement is for you to have a life as much as her | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 04:03 PM |
| 5 | Is it the chicken or the egg?There's a very old saying, you will only ever truly know your wife when say no or go through a divorce. In my experience I've found both aspects to be very true. Not sure if you're after some side advice but here it goes. Ok so you know she's sleeping with somebody else, she's doing a bang up job of finding herself to be sure, if she means finding herself in bed with somebody else then yes she's right on the money there. So stop communicating with her, use a co-parenting app and restrict to pure… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Would you block a ex for peaceOk you have to see that they are dangling the carrot here and playing a game over your mind. Blocking is the only reasonable action. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Don't know what to doOk you're going through the same thing most men go through, I don't want to hurt my kids. Well, unfortunately, having to be honest here, what else do you think you're going to do, live in your current situation and hurt them because they grow up seeing a disfunctional relationship between their parents. There's no solution to your problem here only tradeoffs, the house is just bricks and mortar, wood and glass, nothing more. You can view it as the memories but you'll have those same memories whe… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 10:34 AM |
| 4 | Would you fix it if you could?You say you have the chance to fix it, what exactly do you mean by that. Do you mean she comes over and suggested that you both try again Do you mean you've been in therapy, she spotted some changed she liked and has stayed single the whole time and wants to see if things can work out. I'm asking because for every guy I know in your situation there's always an ex-wife behind it who hit the dating market thinking she's going to land a gold mine only to find out she dug up shit. It's a numbers gam… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/26 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Trying to hold it togetherOk I think you've done the right thing. This bs of will we or won't we is doing nothing good for anybody, I always see it as a stalling tactic or one where you're forced to accept limbo and suffering or be the bad guy. If you accept the suffering she does as she wants and shows you how little care or respect she has for you, justifies her shitty behaviour because you're too weak to do anything, so you become a disgrace to her and your family..or you pull the plug and become the bad guy because s… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/05/26 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Need adviceYeah this seems like a manoeuvre to force you to decide to move out. Before you do that speak to your lawyer to figure out how best to protect yourself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/26 05:56 PM |
| 6 | Fight Spending Sprees with Spending Sprees?Your lawyer told you pull half because that's your share of the joint account, if she willingly spent the remaining half that will be documented and she will get the remaining half in the settlement. The fact she already spent it is neither here nor there and an issue she will have to figure out as one of those strong and independent women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/26 05:52 PM |
| 5 | How does one actually become a better manBy being brutally honest with yourself and learning where you went wrong. Not easy to do but for argument sake you shut down before, accept that's an issue and learn to not be like that again You got aggressive, why, what caused it, what could you do better. Understand these things, accept your part in the relationship, be honest though, don't tell yourself you were an angel but also don't accept blame that truly doesn't belong to you. Set firm boundaries and make them non-negotiable. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/26 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Need advice . Wife agrees to go our separate ways and live apart for good , but still wants to fuck exclusively .It's easily the most blatant manipulation tactic there is. You could turn it around and after just drop her a twenty, when she asks what it's for tell her if that how she wants to behave that how you will treat her and view her from now on. The endpoint here is you'll be exposing her tactics and showing her you aren't falling for it anymore. Here's why it's important you don't. As long as you're allowing her to keep you where she has control over you then you will never be able to move on, never… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/26 12:11 PM |
| 8 | What Are These GamesShe wants the power of knowing you're broken and pining for her. Here's the twisted logic of many women, if you're broken about her leaving you were weak and her leaving was the right thing to do. Here's the other messed up thinking they do as well. If you aren't broken you didn't care enough about her and leaving was also right. You are always going to lose. Here's the better thing. If your life is better without her than with her, then it means she was the problem and her ego won't tolerate he… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/26 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Divorce is hitting hardThat's exactly the attitude you need to have, she's shown you who she is, she's shown you she's easily convinced, you take her back how long before somebody else does the same thing and you're right back to where you started. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/26 07:51 AM |
| 1 | How long have you been 'separated' if asked?Yes totally agree | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 03:33 PM |
| 3 | How long have you been 'separated' if asked?So if I can give you some advice It will be asked and you should keep it short, separated since whenever, she cheated and I won't tolerate that so there's no chance of getting back together. That's going to be the main reason to ask, to see if there is any chance of you getting back together and if you're worth investing their time and energy into. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Having “ the talk” tomorrow . Any tips?Why bother, it's something you want so just get on with it, file and tell her you files already. I see little to gain by having the talk, as you put it, everyone I know going through a divorce went into it with we agree and we'll be friends afterwards and always the wife gets a bee in her bonnet and it goes to shit for at least 12 months from that point onwards. Usually the husband meets a woman a few months into it and she gets pissed because how dare he move on so soon, forgetting she got bang… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 02:27 PM |
| 13 | The people who have hurt me most in life have been womenThe winning strategy is what I call the Matt Walsh strategy Kiss my arse, I will not bend to your insane rants, I will not apologise and I will not stop. You have to understand that you saying I won't date is scary to many women, regardless of what the crazy cat ladies say the rest get scared because of you won't date then other men are also doing the same which means they only have options from the players. It means that for every man who says no, it's a direct reflection on them as women becau… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 02:21 PM |
| 15 | My ex wife is says she is scared of me.My first question here is why is she claiming she's scared of you. You're going through a divorce, war, and she's already three steps in front. Claim victim status, poor abused and terrified. Sit in the courtroom and cry and play the broken wife and max out the alimony. I'd bet a years salary she showed you no fear during the marriage and was quite happy to stand her ground against you in any argument as well push any and all buttons she could, no good as a husband, crap in bed etc. Here's how y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 02:13 PM |
| 16 | Divorce is hitting hardThe jealous best friend is something that will always end so many relationships. Start to change your thinking on this, if she was that easily swayed to file for divorce then what else was she convinced to do you don't know about. If she was that easily convinced then do you want somebody like that in your life. Fuck her, let her go, let her go find out how dating and relationships work today, let her go out into the world on her own, let her face her bills and her housing issues alone. Let her … | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/26 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Can’t Stop Falling Into TrapsYou do realise that the filming is because she's gathering the evidence to show you as unstable. If she doesn't use it in court she will certainly be using it with her friends. No matter what she's done that is going to be her evidence to justify what she did. So what outlets do you have for your anger, what other things do you have that enables you step back from her button pushing and respond the way you want. The point I'm making here is she's laying these traps knowing you'll fall for it and… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 06:13 PM |
| 3 | You guys were right…Maybe that's the case but maybe it gives you leverage in any settlement negotiations. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/05/26 07:22 AM |
| 14 | You guys were right…Export the entire conversation and save it and back it up somewhere safe, don't confront but get legal advice and submit the evidence, file on those grounds. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/05/26 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Anyone gone through this with a pension?They calculate how much was paid in during the marriage and if she even has any right to claim any amount which she has to prove, she has to prove she contributed to your income through the marriage, so being a stay at home wife for example. If she was working herself then it becomes harder if not impossible to prove because she cannot support your career if she's managing her own. On the other hand she might also have her own pension going which you could, potentially have just as much right to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Trying to understand what this meansMy view on it is this, I totally get that you love her more than your own ability to breath, you still wake up and for that first few seconds she's still in bed next to you. That's not good for you at all, how can you sort your own life out and start to make your life look how you want it if you're holding a place in your life for her to fit back in. Far better to begin accepting she's not there, make your life look how you want it to, fill it with the things you want to do, become the man you w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 06:31 PM |
| 4 | Trying to understand what this meansSounds like it's time to cut the cord and go to contact through lawyers only. It really sounds to me like she's playing both ends of the keyboard and keeping you in limbo. From what you've said I'd say she's keeping you on a leash and not being fully honest with you, call me a conspiracy theorist but I've heard this behaviour from so many men and ultimately it just worked out the ex-wife wanted to play her options for a bit and if she gets something better she dips and if not she comes back arou… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/26 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Help figuring out what she meantThis all sounds like bottled chaos and pain. It sounds like she wants the roommate privileges without the wife responsibilities and then you saying you won't see other people, well that's just icing for her. She gets to play around and then in a few months she can get bored and tell you she wants to work on things now. No, you decide that if she wants to see others then she should do that but not as a married woman, so you're filing, will it hurt yes of course it will, will you heal and move on … | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/26 06:00 PM |
| 12 | Anybody else just feel crazy?She's winning the divorce She's out playing the game that she's having fun, enjoying her freedom and no responsibility and showing everyone she's better off without you while wonder who the hell she is and how she can behave that way. A study was done a few years ago asking divorced men and women five years after their divorce how they are doing mentally, emotionally and financially and it's surprising Overall men were better a year after and much better in all areas five years after the divorce… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Are female couple counselors biased towards wives?It depends That's wooly I know but truthfully it depends, a good one will listen to both sides and call both sides in their shit. If though from the off it's a she's always the victim and you're always the guilty one, where best intentions are always twisted to become something evil then yes that is a bias against men and there are enough professional ethical bodies and associations that the counselor can be reported to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/04/26 08:15 PM |
| 10 | Delusional thinking?Why would he, his relationship is with your ex and your kids not you. Are you being delusional in that regard yes, sorry to put it so bluntly but yes, the only time you and he will ever have cause to interact is if he does something to either of your kids and you have to take a finger off him. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/22 01:03 PM |
| 5 | Men are struggling. A new book explores why and what to do about itTrue, every word you've said. I think though it will eventually happen but it will take a lot more, the hate towards men will have to become open law, open discussion and mainstream. It's not there yet but it's certainly moving in that direction. Only when it becomes the mainstream will men above the critical mass wake up and walk away. Of course women lose far more than men, they've yet to understand that because the media machine is happily pushing their agenda and women are happy to be spoon … | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/11/22 12:43 PM |
| 10 | Men are struggling. A new book explores why and what to do about itFor me it's too little too late. The damage has been done and it needs to play out because anything that tries to correct the mess created by feminists will naturally be ignored by mass media and government. So it needs to play out, men need to walk away and allow the system to fail from the inside, men need to say no we won't go fight your wars, no we will not fix your buildings, won't build your roads or hospitals, we will not marry your women. We will leave and go elsewhere, we will provide o… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/11/22 11:06 AM |
| 3 | Wife wants divorce UK (Scotland) - advice neededThanks for adding to that, as I said I can only give UK, English and Welsh law because that's what I went through, I just read the comments and saw everyone using USA law and let's just be honest here, that's a shit show for men at best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/22 09:56 PM |
| 10 | Wife wants divorce UK (Scotland) - advice neededOk so UK law and a lot of the comments are ignoring UK law is very different to the rest of the world. Scottish law is different again so I can only give you the English Welsh law. No fault divorce is most likely the route she'll go down. Forget about Who did what, that's going to be irrelevant anyway with no fault. Speak to a family solicitor and clarify everything. You won't be on the hook for spousal support as we generally don't have that in the UK now, and not since she's working anyway. Wo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/22 05:39 PM |
| 5 | Is the patriarchy actually real?How can it be real, that's a serious question. The feminists view of the patriarchy is an overarching dominance of men who guide and control everything. In other words men set the rules by which all other men and women follow. I want you to think about that for a minute because you'll see that logically it doesn't make sense. Let's look at some facts Women control 80-90% of household spending. Women graduate in larger numbers than men. Women attend education in higher numbers than men. Women vot… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/11/22 08:37 AM |
| 2 | Divorcing at 37, wife cheated any suggestions on how to move on?You'll win in the end, she cheated, she started a relationship with somebody through illicit behaviour, he did the same. It's rare cheaters ever get into the cheating relationship and are happy because they know deep down they both cheated and that suspicion lives long, if she did that to him she'll do it to me, if he did that to her he'll do it to me. If you be brave, take the time to work on yourself and your goals, you'll get your revenge, not in a week or month but in a few years, because yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/11/22 08:11 AM |
| 8 | Divorcing at 37, wife cheated any suggestions on how to move on?Ok so you're hurt angry upset scared bitter and probably a few other emotions tossed in for good measure. Take your time and don't jump into any other relationships for a while. Anything you do now will be focused on revenge for what she did and you'll do that to the next woman in your life. Work out and exercise as both a way to calm your mind, control your emotions and improve yourself and your confidence. Look at your job, do you enjoy it, do you or could you be doing something that would mak… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/11/22 10:17 PM |
| 20 | How can I as a woman fight back against feminism?If you truly want to help, this is going to be extremely simple. Hold other women to account for their actions, hold men to account for their actions and judge both by the same standard. It's actually that simple. So you're talking to friends and they body shame somebody, hold them to account, why is it ok to body shame a man but not ok for them to do it to you, why is that ok when 99% of what's making you somewhat attractive comes off with water. Why is it ok for a woman to chase money but bad … | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/11/22 01:41 PM |
| 13 | Why do you guys hate feminists? Don't they advocate for equality?Yeah so you ignore the issues men face purely to fix issues women face that ha e already been fixed and ask why feminists are hated. Have you even looked at recent numbers from the CDC related to domestic abuse and violence, if you did then you'd actually have zero argument to justify the existence of feminism but I'll guarantee you won't do that. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/11/22 04:28 PM |
| 0 | What are the chances of a spouse changing her violent ways?I'll say this to you as I would any woman. It will end in one of three ways She recognises her issue and get the help she needs, not because you made her but because she sees she's at fault, you cannot fix her, you are not trained and not paid to do that job. She kills you You kill her That is the only 3 ways it will end The last way is for you to accept the first and get out, let her know clearly why you're going and keep it to that, allowing her to blame shift, divert away or anything other th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/11/22 09:01 AM |
| 3 | males do not experience mental traumaI wonder how the feminists are going to feel when they see the latest CDC data on domestic abuse and violence showing that men are overwhelmingly the victims often by more than twice that of women. But yeah men and boys don't face abuse. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/11/22 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Feminist complaining after they decided to not try be attractive to the opposite sex...Another classic case of accountability being kryptonite for some women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/11/22 10:31 AM |
| 1 | She wants to work things out, but she's seeing someone and doesn't know I knowAlways the very best idea, I'm a scorched earth kind of guy so wouldn't be able to hold it in, if you can though good for you, let your lawyer do what they are paid for. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/22 03:01 PM |
| 0 | She wants to work things out, but she's seeing someone and doesn't know I knowHave to be honest I'd scorch her, burn her to the ground at the therapists office, not directly or course but I'd play with it for about the first 15 minutes and then nuke her at that point and spend the rest of the session telling her that the sessions exist only to agree the terms of the divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/22 11:45 AM |
| 1 | My wife realizes she is going to lose the divorce she filed for. Can she withdraw it?It depends on where you live. In some places if she filed and you didn't counter file then yes, I'm afraid she can. Let's take the UK law, let's say it was a no-fault divorce that she filed under, this is very similar to any other place, then given that she can't, you'd have had to be legally separated for 20 weeks and the decree nisi filed, once the terms of the divorce are set then after that 20 weeks either party can file for the decree absolute and the divorce is granted regardless of who wa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/11/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Men, Feminist Women Are Unworthy To Protect & Die ForNo idea who Patrick Bateman is, perhaps if you use a reference from my time period it might land better. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/10/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Men, Feminist Women Are Unworthy To Protect & Die ForUsername checks out, so who hurt me, nobody, I'm impervious to emotional distress. Flipping it back then usually the only people who ask that question are the ones who found out about sex from their uncle and have since developed a incest breeding kink as a result of their sexual abuse trauma. So who fucked you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/10/22 10:20 PM |
| 20 | My STBX wife blames me for everything but wants me to keep "trying" to fix the marriage.Almost classic low level narcissistic abuse. If you want to know how you handle this it's super simple. Let her rant, let her be abusive in front of you and about you to the kids, document and record every interaction to build up a pattern of behaviour. That's what you do for you. Now what you do to break her is to simply laugh. She gets into her high horse, you laugh, she gets mothy you smile and she gets directly insulting you smile and laugh. People like this thrive of controlling and abusing… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/22 05:43 PM |
| 4 | going to do it.You're not scared of filing you're scared of the unknown, you're scared to figure out, to have to figure out what comes next. So let's outline it for you to make it a little less scary. You're going to hit seriously low lows, like really bad. You're going to have money worries and you're going to wonder what you do next. You're going to have days that you'll wake up and you'll be super hopeful for the future and days when you're utterly broken. Eventually that all ends, by then you'll already be… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/10/22 09:09 AM |
| 0 | Women don't have each other's backsThe study did record how it's risen sharply and put down a number of factors but yes it can be wrapped up as popular culture. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/10/22 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Women don't have each other's backsWell fuck that's my new nightmare from now on. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/10/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Women don't have each other's backsThanks for clarifying that I'll dig into it tonight but I'm already interested in learning about, again many thanks Holy shit I've just read through a small paper on the topic and it explains perfectly the narcissistic mindset of the modern day feminist If they suffered an injustice or perceived injustice it's important that the offender knows about it, if they perform an injustice it's important that those hurt know why and allow it to be justified. They claim the moral high ground even when th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/10/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Men, Feminist Women Are Unworthy To Protect & Die ForWell aren't you the dumbest in the room because I can guarantee that nearly everyone read what I said about the coffee and took that to mean daily luxuries you take for granted. As for children already born, why do you get to have a free pass but the father's get to die, I did expect it take a little longer before somebody got upset enough to demand equality when it suits but you've made it clear I am right in what I say and men should absolutely enforce equality both good and bad. Here's an arg… | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/10/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Men, Feminist Women Are Unworthy To Protect & Die ForAnd what makes you think that older members of the family can't or shouldn't take over, I mean didn't women want to be equal in society. If you want your morning Starbucks I think it's beyond time you step up and take responsibility for what you've been asking for. Aside from that there is always the option that women have to not have children, an option that men don't have, to date there is about 42 different types of contraception available to women and men have two. Take some responsibility i… | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/10/22 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Women don't have each other's backsOn both counts I agree with you first about the studies show. I never post links and always expect people to do their own research into a topic because I don't want to post a link which is going to back up what I say but actually be a link to a false or faked study, second I don't want to skew anybody's judgement, I hope that people are capable of reading and understanding for themselves and will find the information for themselves and come to their own conclusions. As for tiv I actually have no… | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/10/22 08:53 AM |
| 16 | Women don't have each other's backsYes there is a specific term called crab bucketing. When crabs are caught and put into the bucket any crab trying to climb out will find the other crabs will try to pull it back in and even kill it to stop it escaping. In women's social circles this applies in various ways. Throwing each other under the bus if two or more women are competing for certain men in the group, studies have shown women or friends of a woman in particular will go as far as to start rumours about a man, sexually aggressi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/10/22 09:53 PM |
| 12 | Men, Feminist Women Are Unworthy To Protect & Die ForI can't help but agree with you. In fact I'd say you're far too easy going. My view is maybe a tad extreme compared, in my view no man should ever protect any woman unless she is his wife or daughter. No man should ever offer to help or assist any woman, any woman asking for it should automatically be informed how she is a strong and independent woman who doesn't need a man. I also think that men should be enforcing true equality in everything, petition local and national government to have wome… | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/10/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on the Passport Bros?Why is it an issue. If it's is true as the feminists claim that these men are weak and useless then what do they care what men do. It seems to me that they didn't care as much about women who do the same, in fact a number of African countries have banned sex tourism by women because the numbers of women travelling there and doing the exact same thing to young men was far higher than the numbers for men and just as exploitative, but not one single feminist had and issue with that, nothing like do… | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/10/22 08:57 AM |
| 5 | If you have any thoughts of divorce, do it quickly. It is better to be wrong about ending a good relationship, than to be wrong about trying to save a bad one.Better to avoid it altogether and never get married, never put yourself at the mercy of a woman who will let you think she's something she isn't and a government who enjoys the easy transfer of wealth. If you must do something that stupid then always go with a prenup, if your laws are bullshit and a judge can throw it out then back to point one. If you don't do the prenup and are seriously that dumb then be prepared and make sure that you always have a backup, somewhere you can get to when you n… | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/10/22 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Divorce question 12 years Post DivorceThat's totally fair tbh | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/10/22 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Divorce question 12 years Post DivorceObviously it depends on what your local and national laws say but I'd suggest she could. However given that it's gone so long and you're sharing custody, bear in mind that shared custody agreements are meant that both share the costs equally so no child support is required. Child support only really applies in cases where custody is heavily towards one parent who then carries the greater costs of raising the child. In your case you carry those costs equally and have done for years, it's highly l… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/10/22 12:18 PM |
| 0 | So the Kenyan High Court just made marriage into contractual prostitution.After reading through that I am going to laugh my arse off next year when their government starts asking why marriage has dropped off a cliff. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/10/22 09:38 PM |
| 1 | one of the biggest reason's why men are going MGTOW!Unfortunately yes and the science shows that to be true. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/10/22 07:04 PM |
| 3 | Should I go back to controlling, manipulative wife whom I left …or pursue new life, love and romance after 30+ years together?Trust you are not alone, most of us here are here because we tried to please people who cannot be pleased simply because it needs to come from them. We either ended up burned out or just outright burned by the entire thing. Fix yourself, become who you want you to be, figure out that bit first, stop trying to forget who you are to please the idea you have of somebody else. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/22 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Wife demands I goto therapy for alleged child abuseThis is absolutely a gift for you. Number one your lawyer can petition the court to list her as vexatious, meaning that anything she says will need to be treated with care and attention, any claims she makes should be backed up with evidence. In your case if she does make any claim of behaviour while you were together the simple question of if she noticed that behaviour why did she ignore it at the time, if she were being honest why allow her daughter to remain in a dangerous situation. Her inab… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/22 11:41 AM |
| 5 | Should I go back to controlling, manipulative wife whom I left …or pursue new life, love and romance after 30+ years together?How has she changed to become a better person, the only thing she's lost is you not being there aside from that she's still got total control over you because you find her life. I'm at a total loss here, how are you able to focus on yourself and work out truly what's right for you if every month the lion share of your income goes to your ex. Let's say for sake of argument she has changed, how will you know, what about you, how have you changed over the same period, how are you going to ensure th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/10/22 06:16 AM |
| 4 | Ex Wife Wants Another Baby!If you hadn't said that I bloody well would have. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/10/22 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Scared of the unknown/ shopping for an attorneyYou say you e grown apart, so are you totally sure that divorce is what you both want or is it just easier than fixing your marriage. Big question but be sure it's right before you jump. If pulling the plug is the only way forward then what you should be asking is how they'll protect your interests and what you can expect to have coming out of it. What you can expect to loose and what you'll keep. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/10/22 09:14 AM |
| 2 | I wasted half my lifeCouldn't have said it better myself. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/22 02:50 PM |
| 2 | I wasted half my lifeYou're hurting now and I know because I've been there also The best revenge you can have on her is to not be the angry bitter man. Easier said than done, I know. But gray rock the shit out of her, bills, you'll pay half and so does she no exceptions. Where she goes and who she's with to you it just means she's making herself somebody else's problem not yours. Lawyer up and go after everything you can. Kids, be there for them, show them the kind of man you are and that they get to have at least o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/10/22 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Feminists who drag men down have no understanding of "equality."Ok so you need to understand who feminists frame their arguments, it's similar I'm ways to how democrats frame their bill names. Let's say they want a bill to fund a war somewhere, in that bill they'll add something for say helping a nature reserve for endangered animals somewhere. They then in turn make that the focus of the bill so any objections to the bill their responses are, "oh so you want the lesser spotted tit wobbler to die out". Naturally the implications of objection is that you out … | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/10/22 09:51 PM |
| 6 | How do you cope?You're not alone, that's the first thing you need to remember, most of us are going through it or have done or as in my case won't ever get to see them until they are old enough to decide for themselves. What makes you get out of bed in the morning, aside from your kids. Is it the gym, hobbies, getting out into nature, whatever that is do it. Hit the gym and make it regular and like a religious belief. Hit the hobbies and do them regularly. Do these things and you'll find yourself coping. Reach … | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/22 06:35 PM |
| 12 | "Kill all men" is a response to misogynyWow it really didn't take you very long at all to go to victim blaming, it must be so hard for you to contain your hypocrisy. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/10/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Second date - initially goes well but at the club she gets drunk as hell and starts grinding on other dudesNo did you didn't waste $100 you spent $100 to find out she's a loose cannon. It's my view that her crazy was well hidden until she drank enough alcohol, money well spent to avoid that bullet if you ask me | /r/seduction | 14/10/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | How long until it gets better?It took me a long time, daily breaking down and in tears multiple times a day. A few weeks go by and I start to become numb, less breaking down and accepting it, then blame, of her of myself of everyone and everything, and then back to being numb. Then bargaining, if I do this she'll want me back, went to revenge, if I do this she'll regret it. Finally despair, I nearly ended my life and dreamt of ways to take her with me, take half of society with me. A hell of a self destructive bent for a whi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/22 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Update from Girl BossLots to unpack here She basically tried to get you by the balls about your daughter and hold them by saying she can and will be with another man but you have zero rights to be with any other women. She also demands to have access to your therapy notes. No this is not going to happen, you make your offer and let it stand or she gets nothing other than what the court dictates. Strap in because she's a narcissist and she's losing her grip on her toy, these kinds of people get really pissed when the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/22 01:29 PM |
| 9 | Unusual Situation - What state to get married in?She will file for divorce where she is best suited. That depends on residency and not where you got married. She's from Poland so an EU citizen and she can get a work visa and leave to remain without the need for marriage. Don't do it, Eastern European women are heavily geared towards men being the breadwinner, don't make the mistake that she won't file for divorce and expect to take you to the cleaners. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/22 03:06 PM |
| 9 | Now she wants to work on it, lol.Typical she's not sorry for what she did she's sorry for getting caught. In her case she's sorry because she lost everything. I'd be sorry that I'm far too busy to give her another second of my time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/10/22 08:29 PM |
| 3 | About to go on a first date - should I split the tab or nah?It's a first date, agree early who is paying full or split. If you both want a second date then you'll get to see how things shake out. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/10/22 01:44 PM |
| 2 | about to file for divorce, wife is telling me my son isn't mine.File for divorce, force a DNA test, if your son is yours then get custody arranged to share parenting if not file to get your name taken from the birth certificate. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/10/22 09:43 AM |
| 2 | Today I was falsely accused! It hurts bad!!! Please advice me.So your manager is asking you to treat these women differently to how you'd treat any other employee of the company. Think on that for a second, speak with her and get from them how you're supposed to treat men and women within the company. They walk a very dangerous fine line there, legally you cannot treat men and women with any difference..let them trap themselves in their own words. I know that works because I've used it myself. If they tell you that you treat everyone the same then they are… | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/10/22 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Just saw my ex's tiktoks... feeling down asf.The girl you fell in love with was an oil painting. It was never true, the painting would stay as long as you were never going to slide from the image she created about you. A set of unrealistic expectations placed on you for which you didn't know about and an image of her you created which was never true. Life gets real and the oil painting runs in the rain. Trust that the following is also true, at some point her new tits won't be enough, at some point she'll hit the bars and clubs and find sh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/10/22 01:45 PM |
| 2 | I am angry and brokenYes I can relate, not exactly to your situation but can relate with the separation and the bullshit. Stop listening to what she says and watch what she does, women are masters of inference and will say they want to left and then turn right and what they mean is.. If I turn left and then left again and again.... Did I not add in those other bits... So what she says has no basis in reality and what she does matters. Now you're living under her roof, so she wants to go out and date others, fine it'… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/10/22 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Need some unbiased advisedRegrets and what ifs we've all been there. When that happens try to remember why you went through the divorce, yes it's hard and yes those what it's will always be there because a divorce is a failure and it takes years to see with any distance. Instead think of what moving forward looks like, you have somebody the polar opposite of what you had is that good or bad, better or worse than before. Only you can answer that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/22 01:47 PM |
| 4 | What are some green flags for picking a future wife?There a no green flags, don't fool yourself into thinking that there are any. Listen take sound advice from guys who thought they hit the jackpot of green flags. Just because she won't do that to you now, you have to realise women have a higher narcissistic tendency than men, they also have a higher in-group preference than men so just because she won't now doesn't mean she won't listen to the group later and believe when a friend gets divorced that she won't be better off and similarly file her… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/10/22 11:22 AM |
| 5 | What's the majority take on marriage here? Just stay away?Oh man Why on earth would you do it once, why in hell would you do it again. Give me a single irrefutable reason to get married, taxes, sorry but most of the western world has single tax payer status, even in the US the tax breaks are just not that great to justify marriage. Let's play this game You board a plane and you're given a parachute, just before you jump the pilot says the plane will land safely. You're then told your parachute will only open 40% of the time, divorce rates being as high… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/22 08:06 PM |
| 7 | Feminists Laugh At JP Showing EmotionDue to narcissistic personality traits being extremely high within the feminist ranks. Due to projection of their issues outwards rather than inwards and instead of being strong enough to actually be introspective and deal with their problems in a mature adult way it's far easier to blame the world and in particular men. In truth they are the very thing they claim to hate which is why they hate men because they know deep down they blame all for a few and they know they are the many mirroring the… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/10/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | so how do you do the final goodbyeFor me there was far too much I wanted to say and because of what she did I was far too angry. I chose to not say a word. Shame really because at the end when we went to the solicitor to sign the final documents she wanted a hug, what kind of psychopath does that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/22 05:15 PM |
| 11 | Woman jailed for more than five years for making 10 false rape claims against two different menOh but women don't weaponise false allegations. Sorry feminists but it looks like another one of your arguments is as much a myth as the wage gap. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/10/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys do with pictures?My advice is do nothing with them I still have the photos stored in the cloud of my marriage and myself with my ex-wife. I fully intend to delete them some day but at the moment there's no need to do anything with them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/22 02:50 PM |
| 18 | what do you guys think about the gender wage gap I don’t believe it’s realThe wage gap doesn't exist, sorry but to be blunt it doesn't exist, too many economists and psychologists along with mathematicians and statisticians have argued that it doesn't exist and there are very very good reasons why gaps do exist. Do gaps exist then yes is the short answer, why does the myth get perpetuated over and over again. Let's answer that last question first. The reason why it gets repeatedly perpetuated is because it fits a narrative, that narrative enables action without conseq… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/10/22 06:45 PM |
| 21 | I hate the way she touches meNo means no except when men say it. Sorry dude but you're going to have to be firm with her and your boundaries, try this instead though, say to her would she be happy with being touched by somebody if she had said stop. When she replies with no, hit her with, then why do you ignore me when I said stop more than once. If she doesn't listen or tries to wriggle out of it after that you're going to have to ask yourself if this friendship is worth the effort. | /r/MenSupportMen | 01/10/22 05:08 PM |
| 1 | women want to separate themselves from menOk clown | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Your thoughts?I think this is great and it should be encouraged. especially the single mothers bit. Although they are going to have to get used to single mothers saying they keep meeting men who don't want them but it's great. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 07:34 PM |
| 1 | women want to separate themselves from menOk clown | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 07:31 PM |
| 1 | women want to separate themselves from menNobody calls you a clown, nobody, you petulant childish clown. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 06:44 PM |
| 1 | women want to separate themselves from menAnd there you go again you're next step is to claim women are better than men and that women should be equal to men. Pick a lane because you're at best a clown and at worst mentally unwell and in dire need of help. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 05:22 PM |
| 2 | women want to separate themselves from menOk you're mentally unstable. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 04:15 PM |
| 2 | women want to separate themselves from menNo but in pet food and boxes wines definitely, along with IVF treatment and pharmaceutical companies. Can you guess why. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 03:12 PM |
| 3 | women want to separate themselves from menAs mgtow this is something I totally support and encourage, if a woman wants to get as far away from anything to do with men she should absolutely do that. She should be forced to not be able to work anywhere men might be present, not buy food grown, slaughtered or prepared by men, not allowed to purchase medicine or get any surgical procedures that involve or have involved men, not allowed to ask for help from men. Men on the other hand should be under penalty of long term jail sentences if the… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Why only homeless non - menIt's this kind of twisted thinking to say we're equals in an equal society but then go ahead and blatantly discriminate against men purely because they are men. These very same fuckwits are the ones crying about where the good men went, when their building start falling down, when their roads return to mud tracks and their houses fall down they'll again be the first to ask why men aren't stepping up to maintain their society. And I'm the evil fuck for going mgtow. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/09/22 12:17 PM |
| 7 | Full article for woman who regrets that she's missed the boatFrankly the article is a cope Don the sad about not having the very things you wanted just trust you'd be as miserable with a full life of family, just look around at all the happy women with their cats and alcohol addiction who tell everyone how they are strong and independent and don't need no man. Of course you're feelings are valid but you'd be totally miserable trust me. Of course you won't be happy if you had the things you finally figured out you actually wanted all along. Like I said a c… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/09/22 10:04 AM |
| 6 | Is masculinity a boundary to men?I'm mgtow my attitude is fuck society, I'm done with it anyway, I'll behave as I see fit for my own benefit and fuck any standards people wan to place on me, I live for myself and what makes me happy and could not give a fuck about anybody else and what they expect of me. In fact I'd go as far as to say whatever your expectations of me are you're going to be sorely disappointed if your expectations don't perfectly align with mine because I have no problems telling you to go fuck yourself. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Incredibly brave Feminist thwarts two (totally real) evil old, white, menE think you don't think enough, but each to their own | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Incredibly brave Feminist thwarts two (totally real) evil old, white, menYou're only saying that because you now understand that there is really no way to stop people doing the things they will do regardless of what you put in place. Let's take the Draconian measure We know women are more likely to use violence against men in the initial stages of an argument. Whether they are the worst off or not is out of scope, so to stop violence against men initiated by women, in order to protect women, we have laws which only work against those who wouldn't do that anyway, so w… | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 01:37 PM |
| 5 | Incredibly brave Feminist thwarts two (totally real) evil old, white, menWe can, it's called laws but you are ignoring the fact that there are certain people who lack impulse control, part of what enforced control in the past was a sense of community, shame and ostracism for transgression. Unfortunately we're now in a situation where shaming others for their behaviour is deemed bad and we are taught not to do that. Many people don't know their immediate neighbors, so we've lost that sense of community. Religion used to heavily enforce that sense of community and were… | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 10:55 AM |
| 3 | Incredibly brave Feminist thwarts two (totally real) evil old, white, menIt's funny, it's like you almost believe that if there were laws against this vile act then the act itself would stop overnight because you know criminals and people who do this will wake up and say oh there's a law now, oh well I'll start selling drugs instead.. People who do rape, sexually assault, abuse others do so because they don't care about the laws, believe the laws will never affect them. | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/09/22 06:21 AM |
| 6 | Incredibly brave Feminist thwarts two (totally real) evil old, white, menOh I don't know about that https://www.centreformalepsychology.com/male-psychology-magazine-listings/false-allegations-of-rape-the-true-extent-remains-unknown A good conservative estimate would place the figure at about 60% https://www.independent.org/news/article.asp?id=1719 Seems that I might be more correct that you'd like, either way I'm really sorry that it means you can't accuse at will for personal revenge and vendettas. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/09/22 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Incredibly brave Feminist thwarts two (totally real) evil old, white, menOf course you do because that means you have to have evidence, you don't like that because you can't go on your revenge attacks, hence the reason why fake allegations currently sit at around 60%+ but you don't like that at all because in your world women can't commit crimes like making false allegations. Yet if ore the fact that women are growing as a population percentage faster as a groups of sex offenders while the numbers for men is actually falling. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/09/22 08:45 PM |
| 7 | Incredibly brave Feminist thwarts two (totally real) evil old, white, menIf nothing else shows all of us how vapid they are Here's another some example No uterus no opinion Roe v wade goes pear shaped Where are all the men to stand up for our rights. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/09/22 08:22 PM |
| 10 | Incredibly brave Feminist thwarts two (totally real) evil old, white, menSo you're claiming that because I'm a man I can't see a scumbag and know that if he's done something as evil and damaging as say rape, that I'd put being men above that. What kind of world of fucked up twisted imagination do you people live in. While I might not condone rape let's be also similarly honest I also don't condone false accusations, let's also be honest here given women are more trusted around children and also women as sex offenders are the fastest growing prison group for most west… | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/09/22 08:20 PM |
| 15 | Incredibly brave Feminist thwarts two (totally real) evil old, white, menYeah, now you mention it you've raised a perfectly good point there that throughout their lives they've never once been in contact with a woman who has done something bad to them. Given that even women will tell you themselves they hate other women and openly admit they are in direct competition with other women and social gatherings aren't about having fun but about proving one is better than the others I find it extremely hard to believe it's only men who ever did things she doesn't like. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/09/22 03:41 PM |
| 6 | Incredibly brave Feminist thwarts two (totally real) evil old, white, menI'm guessing this is sarcasm, but yeah they do actually think we either pretend rape doesn't happen or that we all think it's a good thing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/09/22 03:39 PM |
| 66 | Incredibly brave Feminist thwarts two (totally real) evil old, white, menThings that never happened for 100. All she's doing is admitting here she lacks a sense of humour. Deep down she knows she isn't accepted by the people she works with and probably only tolerated by them because the first thing they did is look for a reason to have a joke and the first claim she makes is how sexism is rampant. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/09/22 11:51 AM |
| 4 | Why ?Truthfully she hates herself and lacks the ability of introspection so projects her hate and anger outwards. Personality disorders are fairly common within women, they have a high narcissistic trait which leads to higher percentage of mental issues like personality disorders. Does that absolve her of her responsibilities and her faults no because instead of expecting you to read her mind she could have at any time taken responsibility and got help as needed. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/09/22 11:11 AM |
| 22 | she wanted to eliminate every single male from the face of earthAnd yet according to feminists these are the extreme and not the mainstream of their movement but they'll happily subscribe to the extreme rhetoric these women preach. Make it make sense, go ahead feminists we'll wait while you sit quiet trying to avoid being held accountable for what you follow. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/09/22 09:52 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else get random DMs from people on this board?Karma fishing. New year's will start a conversation with people just to up their karma to allow them to post and respond. Happens all the time, the fact that women do it to men on this sub is an eye opener if you think about it, their intentions are to use you to further their own goals. When you understand that it's not making women look any better is it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/22 06:15 AM |
| 2 | If you were the one who was left, and the one who is heartbroken, how long did it take you to get over your ex?Yeah that going to be like asking a vampire to enjoy garlic. No wonder you were sick. Like I said it's my daily reminder, it weighs a hell of a lot more now than when I was married, something I now will never get used to the feeling of and I seriously hope it stays that way. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/22 02:58 PM |
| 7 | If you were the one who was left, and the one who is heartbroken, how long did it take you to get over your ex?You ask how long it took Honestly I don't think I'll ever truly get over it, hell I still wear my ring it's just now not a wedding ring but a daily reminder never to be that stupid again. I've dated and been totally honest that marriage is totally and completely off the cards and said no to marriage 3 times. It's coming up to its fifth year and there are guys who are 10+ years I call friends who are still not totally over it, still have some things pop up that hurts. None of us ever go into a ma… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/22 08:19 PM |
| 3 | I want divorce but my wife doesn't know.I experienced that too mate, when that happens the only route left is contempt, yeah it's done time to pull the plug. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/22 03:29 PM |
| 6 | I want divorce but my wife doesn't know.Ok so let's ask this question Is there anything left to salvage this relationship, so say you both went to therapy would you think that could save the relationship. The reason I ask is because I'd hate to see another one bite the dust if it can be saved. You said you aren't good at explaining stuff and I'm wondering if that is the real issue here, she is feeling left out and ignored and doesn't know what's going on with you. A communication issue at the heart of the problems. If that's a dead ho… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/09/22 10:26 AM |
| 4 | Visiting my child is staggering painYou got this dude, but if you need to talk, vent, rant, ask advice or share thoughts, you can always use this sub. You're going to be ok, trust that you've got this, you're stronger than you know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/22 05:35 PM |
| 26 | Visiting my child is staggering painStop, you're in pain at the moment and wondering what the hell happened and how this will work, take some time out to look after yourself and remember that kid needs you in his life no matter how small that time is. So follow the court order and be religious about it, keep in mind this is a court trust issue and yeah it sucks that the mother is automatically trusted and you have to prove yourself but prove it you must. You really need to think about it this way and see this as a small win, you'r… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/22 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Divorce getting you down and needing a release?Ok cool, I had to ask as I have no doubt you've seen many men who have experienced the very worst of women, that's not say we're all angels, trusting any woman becomes extremely difficult as a result and many men will still feel hostility towards women as a result of the legal system being what it is due to what they have fought to turn it into. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/22 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Divorce getting you down and needing a release?Excuse my pessimism but what exactly are you after here, what's your angle, is it just allowing men to talk or is there some motive behind it, are you trolling for something you can use later. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/09/22 09:12 AM |
| 2 | Normal feministI can only offer my heartfelt sympathy for you working through that horse shit. I'll consider it that you took one for the team, I have only read enough to know that she has an IQ far smaller than her shoe size but it puzzles the crap out of me why people still buy her garbage. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/09/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Any tips for getting a post-nup? Are they honored?It depends is really the best answer, your lawyer is the one to give you the best advice on this. In the UK we call them a clean break, which is effectively a contract that totally separates the husband and wife meaning that once the agreement is settled and the divorce is granted, child support etc is arranged. It means that if your career takes off, you win a gamble etc she cannot come after you for more money. In the UK they are totally worth it and I'd make that part of the entire divorce pr… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Normal feministYou've read some of her work then | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/09/22 09:12 PM |
| 5 | UltimatumI'd do for the fourth time what I've done the last three I say no, marriage is off the table and never was on the table and you accepted that, given that you've unilaterally changed the terms of reference with regards to the relationship, you have now effectively ended this relationship and as such I will wish you the very best and tell you to never contact me again. And then go out and show her how replaceable she is. Worse still is when you think about this, an ultimatum is abusive in nature a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/22 07:12 PM |
| 13 | Normal feministExactly that thing will turn her son into the very thing she claims to hate, I hope when that boy goes through therapy, hope he chooses therapy and not a gun and a school, he will make her see how much damage she has caused before he decides to choose himself and cut it out of his life. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/09/22 06:38 PM |
| 136 | Normal feministWhat everyone needs to remember about this vile cretin is it has a son, it is raising a son with this mindset, being taught all that he knows to go out into the world from this thing. I really cannot say woman because it is not, in my view, even capable of basic human decency towards men or anybody who doesn't share the world view of this thing. But it is raising a son and nonetheless will have to reconcile itself with the untold damage it is doing to that boy. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/09/22 12:32 PM |
| 2 | My wife insists she is done,This is where the lawyer comes in, her job, that isn't good for the children, being abusive towards him that's very poor, on those grounds she can be forced to live elsewhere. But the op needs to act with a lawyer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/22 06:11 AM |
| 6 | My wife insists she is done,She will leave when she's ready oh fuck no. Get to a lawyer, sort out about your child and full custody of the child and with your lawyer how you get her out of the house now. For me, I'd walk in with the papers, tell her she's done and she will be gone by the end of the week and the child is staying with me and my family where she is safe and cared for. That would be it, and if she starts acting up if he packing her bags and leaving them outside for her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/09/22 02:36 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle the mood swingsMake yourself too tired to get angry. Hit the gym, hit the heavy bags, sparring with somebody, work out hard. You'll be too tired to get angry but it won't stop the dark days it will make it easier to deal with them. Make something, something I found really useful and started me off was what another guy said to me, start by making a chair, then a table and so on, building something helps because you're actually making something and have to push the other issues away for a while. Don't know where… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Should I let my ex-wife fail with our 5 y.o. son?So you're saying take the hits and continue to take them, sacrifice his life to take the hits and continue to allow her to fail.. At what point does the straw break the camel's back. Inevitably something has to give and when it does the child loses out far more. It's better that the op be there for his child when he has his child. Let the mother fail, the op can still do his part. The child will still see who is there for him, the child will still know who stepped up and who didn't. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/22 06:40 AM |
| 0 | Should I let my ex-wife fail with our 5 y.o. son?She wanted the divorce, she wanted to do the single mom thing. Why are you stepping in to cover her failures, let her fail. Be there for him when it's your turn, let her learn to step up to the bar and handle grown up shit like a grown up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Why is this subreddit riddled with feminist trolls, when if any of us try to join or post on theirs we get instantly banned??? BAN FEMINIST TROLLS NOW!!!Banning them just confirms everything they think about the world, they never get to have their ideas challenged. Now we have to admit that Reddit is rarely a place where people go to have their ideas challenged but it's not about those who ha e already decided that they hate men and men are all evil, it's about those who are susceptible to being indoctrinated but want perspective. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/09/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | my wife left me for a 22 yr old from FinlandThe worst thing about is you spend your time making yourself that kind of man she needs and wants only to find she never truly wanted that good man but wanted the douchebag, then in order to fix your life you inevitably have to become the very same douchebag.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/09/22 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Wife basically told me she never intends on changing.Ok so stop the excess overtime. Speak to a lawyer first step after that. The rest is to follow the advice your lawyer gives you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/09/22 09:54 PM |
| 18 | Why are feminists so shameless?It's like that tick-tock video of that young woman showing how to be a rebel today. Saying get married, have children and look after your family, love your husband etc. You check the comments and see the feminists going bat shit crazy and outright attacking her. Why are they so shameless then, it's because controversy gets recognition, it's purely that simple, most of these women have serious daddy issues, like real daddy issues. Add to that deep seated self loathing. Most talk about abusive rel… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/09/22 06:35 AM |
| 2 | My wife is wanting to leave me. What do I do?Ok that gives a little more context, this is good, go the route of mediation instead, keep things civil but let me just say, make sure your arse is covered no matter what just make sure you've got yourself protected. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/22 03:00 PM |
| 4 | My wife is wanting to leave me. What do I do?Get a lawyer now, family law and the most expensive and brutal mother fucker you can find. For that lawyer nothing is off the table, nothing is a violation, let them be as evil as they want to be. You have to play being civil for your children but your lawyer needs to unleash hell. Even during discovery let your lawyer ask questions like did she always know she was lesbian, if she did it points to fraudulent behaviour. Paints you as the harmed innocent party in this mess. Now I must qualify this… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/09/22 06:45 AM |
| 20 | My wife is wanting to leave me. What do I do?Ok so you're still in denial about this and holding onto whatever safety net you can grab. Get this into your head, if it were another man, you'd have a greater history with her, you could do the pick me dance and possibly win her back by showing her you are the better man, although to be honest with you that's demeaning and God only knows why you'd want to but some men think they win. In this case you cannot compete, you're competing against her own inner world and the mystery of what life is l… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/09/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | More VisitationIf it's working for you at the moment then keep going as you are, save your money and at some point in the future you might want to clarify things. Remember though kids grow up and eventually decide for themselves, they'll always need their father and if she gets ahead of herself they'll eventually see the truth and she will lose out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/22 09:28 PM |
| 7 | More VisitationYes it is The agreement is set so that each has a baseline standard that they should follow, if you don't or she doesn't then back to court. If on the other hand you both agree to the baseline but then agree to something else which also works for both of you and more importantly the children then no court will get upset about it. Think of the agreement as something in place should either of you start heaving like dickheads. That gives a guidance for you both to follow if you cannot set aside the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/22 06:04 PM |
| 18 | Is it ok to track my car's location?Ok so you know she's lying, as far as you're concerned she's cheating. So why bother confronting her, she's going to lie, you're going to show her the trace results and then she'll turn it around on you and blame you and your lack of trust. Me, my response to that would then be, yeah well placed distrust which you showed was correct. You on the other hand will sit down, be quiet and feel stupid. Look she cheated before and taking her back was your first mistake. Putting a tracker on your car, we… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/09/22 07:36 AM |
| 5 | Every man has his breaking point. This guy reached his.Let's be honest, when you have a legal system that exists to screw somebody as painfully as possible, the outcomes are inevitable. I'm not sure he did the right thing but I totally understand his mind. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/09/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Divorce and TikTokWhen I was in the army we had a saying Women will watch the barracks burn and order the grass to be painted green. That should tell you everything you need to know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/22 03:42 PM |
| 6 | Divorce and TikTokDude before the internet the behaviour was commonly held within the friends group. It's the common reason why most men lose their friends during a divorce. Don't sweat it dude, she's whitewashing history to suit her victim narrative, claiming abuse, common patterns. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/09/22 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Amicable divorce?Yes it does exist in fact a few of my friends managed to do just that. In their case though the wife earn as much as they did and they were smart enough to, if not fully protect themselves before the wedding, force an equal relationship throughout. So shared costs equally and shared expenses equally, heavily reduced the wife's ability to claim she needed any form of support during the divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/09/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Divorce with young childrenOk thanks for that context is there, all I can say is pull the fucking plug. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/22 11:53 AM |
| 6 | "Reddit proves prepping is sexist."There you go applying logical thinking to a problem and finding the best solution. The problem is deeper than that, look at what they are actually saying here. In the event of an apocalypse happening, they won't be out playing katniss everdeen but instead playing street walker for beans and cash. They are admitting that when they truly think about how things will shake out they'll actually have nothing to rely on other than men and their vagina. That's why the concern, most women who already hav… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/09/22 07:43 AM |
| 2 | my wife left me for a 22 yr old from FinlandYou're going to be ok. Remind yourself of that when it gets hard. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/22 05:11 PM |
| 2 | my wife left me for a 22 yr old from FinlandWe've been there and there is a hard road for you for a while, hit the gym, don't drink alcohol to excess but exercise, lean on friends and family. Eventually you'll come out the other side and smile again but you've got a rollercoaster to go for a while. There will be days where you'll hate her, hate yourself, hate everything and then days when you'll swear you're going to die without her. Then one day you wake up and realise you don't miss her, your life is better and aren't concerned about he… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/22 05:08 PM |
| 2 | my wife left me for a 22 yr old from FinlandThis is going to sound so brutal but she did that because she knew she could and there would be zero consequences for her. We've been there dude, trust me I know. You try to be the good guy, the one she needs and try to be patient and caring and through all of it you forgot who you were to be what she thought she wanted, you built an image of her only to find out she was never that and you now don't know who you are. First off get her out of your life, get the divorce started and get her out, sh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/22 02:17 PM |
| 10 | "You gotta love my 3 kids MORE than you love me."Holy fuck the lack of self awareness is truly off the charts I didn't choose the mum life, fuck off with that bullshit, yes you did, you chose it three times you fucking clown. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/08/22 10:27 AM |
| 13 | "Reddit proves prepping is sexist."Their biggest whine was about how getting pregnant during an existential crisis wasn't a good idea and how that post was removed because it only applies to half the population. Reeeeeeee sexism, okey dokey then, well I suppose if you stretch your imagination far enough then yes it is, it's also sexism to focus solely on the one group when say dealing with nuclear war, at the same time we should not be surprised to find being prepared for the worst but hopeful of the best is usually something fem… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/08/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Another question, if I’m still married and buy a house in my name, can she still take half the funds or the house?Usually yes, because you're married and share income as well as accumulated wealth through a purchase. Now the tricky but, it depends on where you live, if say you're legally separated, a decree nisi is filed and accepted by the court and you're in a legally separated phase of your divorce then again you can purchase a home for yourself and that will be deem d by the court as a necessary purchase and under separation will most likely not be touched. But you need to be careful, if you declare ear… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/08/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Well I made an account so I guess I'm here.So you owned the house before you got married, speak to your lawyer to see where you stand on that, in some places it would count as individual property and some it becomes community. If in your location it's individual, speak to your lawyer and see what can be done to get her to leave. It might be that you have to file a motion with the court to evict her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/08/22 10:26 AM |
| 6 | Guy who got divorce, is life better?Eventually yes, and without a partner. I won't do marriage again,.learned my lesson and don't need another class, I date so that is what works for me. Am I happy, yes, I am very happy with my life. I really work super hard now to make sure that it stays the way it is now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/08/22 06:23 PM |
| – | Might have made a disasterous mistakeYou know she will. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/22 08:51 PM |
| 4 | You can't make this shit up.Nobody does crab bucketing like women and nobody more so like sisters. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/22 06:33 PM |
| 9 | You can't make this shit up.Dude you need to get on your knees and thank god for her then take her out for some shrimp and bang her until she can't walk she did you a solid gold favour there and I seriously doubt she did because she can't keep her mouth shut. She did it because she most likely didn't enjoy seeing what her sister was doing and still getting the alimony from you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/22 05:55 PM |
| 8 | Found this post in a particular toxic feminist subYeah, what I'm surprised about what the writer saying that most of the girls in the class said true, there is some hope left after all. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/08/22 05:50 PM |
| 10 | Found this post in a particular toxic feminist subSo the pat was copied from somewhere else which is just a whole rant about how women are still the perpetual victims. What it seems to me is that she's complaining about some men treating some women like crap. Then doing what all feminists do which is to take their tiny set of experiences and apply that to all women and all men everywhere for all of time, past present and future. A full on strawman, let's take sex trafficking for example, she blamed men for it, but totally ignored that in every … | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/08/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Might have made a disasterous mistakeSinging a note during the heat of an argument doesn't count as it's not legally enforceable. At best it's a starting point for negotiation but not a legally binding contract agreed and most importantly witnessed. Speak to a lawyer, waiting is foolish because waiting gives her time to think about what she can get from you or you from her, she will always want more regardless of whether or not you do, she will, it's just her nature. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/08/22 06:25 AM |
| 1 | My single mother trained me to hate and fear men cuz “they’re all bad”You simply tell her enough, that you're not listening to her bs anymore, that you have had other experiences and that out of the many who could have damaged her she has done the most. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/08/22 09:19 PM |
| 2 | what can we do to people who deny that feminism has caused harm?You cannot reason with these people, you cannot change their mind. Their beliefs ha e been long since tainted by money and victim hood you cannot change that because their identity is wrapped up being being a victim and feminism is the safety net. When you're dealing with that kind of mindset you need to recognise that changing their minds is not going to happen, it won't happen because fundamentally they are lazy, to change their minds requires huge amounts of personal work and growth, they won… | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/08/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | My single mother trained me to hate and fear men cuz “they’re all bad”You are not her, you are stronger than you know. Live your own life, enough of her running it for you. Enough of her damaging you with her beliefs. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/08/22 09:07 PM |
| 1 | My single mother trained me to hate and fear men cuz “they’re all bad”Ok so step back from this for a bit because it's obviously very raw, she didn't for a few reasons First self preservation, making you hate men means she gets to keep you for longer. Second pushing her beliefs onto you, not fair but she probably lacked the ability and accountability to not do that Third she may have thought she was protecting you from the shitty men, but instead she damaged you against men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/08/22 06:24 PM |
| 6 | My single mother trained me to hate and fear men cuz “they’re all bad”Ok so it's true, there are bad men out there, but from your experience there are also plenty of bad women out there too. Try to remember that when you're unpacking what she's done to you. Try to remember people will treat you as you let them, man or woman. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/08/22 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Hi, im a woman, and anti-feminist (some ppl don’t think we can exist), AMA!Yup I know that feeling all to well. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/08/22 01:17 PM |
| 21 | "Women are trained to settle for bad men."Worse still men are shamed if they refuse to accept bad women and keep looking for the good ones. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/08/22 10:07 AM |
| 6 | Hi, im a woman, and anti-feminist (some ppl don’t think we can exist), AMA!Welcome, so my question is then obviously what made you decide to go against the grain For me it was experiencing first hand the destruction wrought by feminists to my family and many others. Seeing good men and bad men alike lose their lives by their hands or the hands of women and see and hear these feminists defend these women but demonise men for far less. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/08/22 08:19 AM |
| 6 | Ever notice how anything that effects men is brushed off by feminists as "that’s just the way it is" but anything that effects women needs to be thoroughly analyzed and changed?It's not hard to understand that having a perpetual victim mindset means that they can continue to demand free things from tax payers without having to provide anything for themselves, it allows them to continually raise funds for their maintenance as a victim. It's about money, equality was achieved many years ago, if equality was truly what they wanted they'd have dropped the charade years ago. Feminism has absolutely nothing, any more, to do with equality. To ignore the issues one group in so… | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/22 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Genuinely curious…Could advise to follow mgtow and validate yourself, set goals and strive for them, make yourself the kind of man for whom women add to your life but are not the focus of it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 2 | I'm An Anti-Feminist Femboy, Am I Welcomed Here?The only thing that matters here is that we are against feminist ideology, that's fundamentally different to being against women's rights. I don't think I'm speaking out of turn here by saying that at least nearly all of us, agree that rights for men and women should absolutely be equal, we can do that by taking anything related to gender out of laws and laws having no distinction between a man and a woman, each crime being fully sentenced based on the crime and gender being no part of the sente… | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Woman eloquently explains why Feminism's dumb ideas about masculinity are hurting menNo but I'll happily tell her that the only good feminist is one that gets pushed off a tall building. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | The fight for equality ended long ago…Yes as long as you keep working on yourself. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/22 09:15 AM |
| 1 | The fight for equality ended long ago…Yes it's all projection. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/22 09:11 AM |
| 15 | Woman eloquently explains why Feminism's dumb ideas about masculinity are hurting menNo true Scotsman, it's about equality until you have to do things like register for war. Actually fight alongside men and die with them. It's about equality until you get the shitty but if equality that men are expected to put up with. Do us a favour, stop trying to tell us what it's about when every single feminist out there has already shown us what it's about. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/22 08:06 AM |
| 1 | I'm An Anti-Feminist Femboy, Am I Welcomed Here?I can say with a smile you're a walking bag of contradictions and also say nobody here cares about any of that and will welcome you with open arms. I could probably go as far as saying you'll be an important voice and a funny weapon against feminist ideology because you will be extremely difficult to argue with. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/22 06:24 AM |
| 2 | The fight for equality ended long ago…A clown emoji is the best you get simply because you are a clown, I didn't address the sources again simply because I don't need to. I don't need to because the facts remain the same, in the west women who had their own source of income could get their own bank accounts and cards. You're just upset, triggered if you want, because all of your sources say that women found it difficult to obtain these things, and at the same time ignore the fact that their ability to obtain these things related on … | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/08/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | The fight for equality ended long ago…🤡 | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/08/22 08:56 PM |
| 2 | The fight for equality ended long ago…Why do you think I'd be tired when I'm far from wrong, within the UK, within most parts of the USA a woman who had her own money could absolutely get credit, loans and cards, the fact remains your but hurt because many women didn't earn their own money, yet again you expect a situation where you get to behave as you'd like and expect men to pay for it. The fact remains women who didn't have any income aside from what their husband provided could not have cards because the debt was not theirs but… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/08/22 08:55 PM |
| 3 | The fight for equality ended long ago…Let's see you're using a tabloid rag that never lets facts get in the way of outrage bait and claiming it as facts because a fact checker, read feminist clown, said so. Perhaps you need to go back and graduate kindergarten. Actually learn to use Google. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/08/22 04:49 PM |
| 2 | The fight for equality ended long ago…I can't help myself I know when you drop those facts they usually go quiet, tell their own reflection how triggered they are and then blame all men for their daddy issues. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/08/22 04:48 PM |
| 4 | The fight for equality ended long ago…No sweety women with money could always get loans and credit cards, sorry to shatter your illusions, certainly in the west, in fact it was common place for women to own their own property and slaves at one time along with running a business. In fact there was actually a BBC series set during the industrial revolution called gentleman jack, you may want to check it out, that's long before the invention of credit cards darling so you might have to look beyond your kindergarten feminist literature. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/08/22 04:47 PM |
| 9 | The fight for equality ended long ago…Yeah that's true but then again they also now have the largest amount of personal debt. You're also forgetting that for the longest time they couldn't because many didn't have any viable income to pay the debt besides what money was brought in by their husbands. As well as the debt rules being extremely simple, if you can't personally afford to pay money back you can't borrow the money in the first place. So while your statement is true, it's actually a lie by omission because you made a stateme… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/08/22 03:29 PM |
| 4 | Genuinely curious…No true Scotsman fallacy, they'll support each other, parrot each other even when nobody challenges them but claim the person originally making the statement is not a true feminist when they get called out on what they said. They have consistently shown themselves to be liars and hypocrites who will happily throw each other under the bus if it means they can walk away without being held accountable. Ask yourself if you see that behaviour do you really think they ha e the best intentions and inte… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/08/22 11:24 AM |
| 5 | Genuinely curious…It's a good an valid question My journey to utterly despising feminists is as follows Grew up in a typical nuclear family. My mother started a job in a factory and met a bunch of women who started to change her. She became toxic towards my father and myself. In time the family broke down, my father became accused of abuses that never happened, was prevented from ever seeing myself or my sister, was deemed a threat to us even though he'd never raised a hand to either of us, eventually the legal c… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/08/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Serving papersI'll say this and so will everyone else but it bears saying because we say it so often and always get the clown who won't listen. Speak to your lawyer, follow their advice, listen and really hear and understand what they tell you and follow it to the letter. They are paid by you to get the best outcome for you but they can only do that if they can say to the court when you were told to turn left you turned left. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/22 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Serving papersYou do not serve her yourself, you either hire a process server or it goes through the post usually in recorded delivery that she needs to sign for. The document will itself outline reasons for divorce such as abuse claims to give her a chance to contest them or counter file. Now the next bit, what do you say to her, this depends on the following, are you living in the same place, if yes then what you do is record everything and keep it as civil as possible. If you aren't living together then I … | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/08/22 10:13 AM |
| 3 | As a women i’m tired of this movement (feminism)Personally yeah, it's taken many years to undo the work they did to me but I'm good, I wish you the best also | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/08/22 08:42 PM |
| 7 | As a women i’m tired of this movement (feminism)Welcome to the sub, the members of this sub are not against women but we're all more than happy to call out stupid shit, don't panic we'll do that for men also.. Aside from that were all pretty set against feminism, mainly because you cannot solve the problems in society by only focussing on the issues of one group. That and the fact that most of us have actually had horrible even horrific experiences done to us in the name of feminism. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/08/22 06:19 PM |
| 22 | RIPBut the patriarchy, yeah it's a sad thing when one of your biggest voices takes their own life because they found the cold hard truth for themselves. She did a lot of good work in the end, I recall an interview about her story and what she found out and how she thought things were going and getting worse in particular for men and how sad she was for what has been done. I hope she's found her peace, nothing more I can say. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/08/22 03:19 PM |
| 1 | What should I say?There are two ways to handle this First is accountability What this means is to hold her to account for her words, if she truly believes all men are the same then she believes you are the same and your father, her uncles, grandfather are the same. That just open a logical fallacy to her. Of course she is likely to say of course not all men are the same, if she does ask her to explain the disconnect, either all men are the same or they are not, it's a mutually exclusive argument that she is makin… | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/08/22 09:08 AM |
| 8 | Why do they always find a way to make things a gendered issue?It comes from one of the fundamental concepts of second wave feminism, make the personal political.. What that means is to take a personal experience and extrapolate that to the whole of society, by doing that you can view the world through a gendered lense and apply that to any situation. What these feminists were, was wealthy middle class white women who often had academic fathers who were very remote and aloof, so they took the stand that all father's were distant and aloof. In that regard th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/08/22 09:04 PM |
| 15 | Sad musings of a single spinster, who took her man for granted and now wishes he'd consider taking her back. My guess is that he probably won't. | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenShe's talking about her new credit card isn't she. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/08/22 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Sore losers staking up to get absolutely rekt. It's like the smell of rain, all this. Thank you Johnny :)It's because they see her and recognise themselves. Yes they are abusers and yes they are all likely to take shit in your bed. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/08/22 08:09 AM |
| 2 | How do women think? just with emotions?You can either love women or you can understand them. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/22 01:51 PM |
| 4 | What makes you remarry?Consider yourself lucky brother, myself along with many others in this sub are lucky to just get out the other side alive. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/22 06:29 AM |
| 6 | What makes you remarry?There is nothing in this world or the next that will ever make me want to marry again. You said about women moving on, they do move on easier for a few reasons. Better support network, men often love friends when they get married to focus on the marriage, so they lose friends, women don't. Women are incentivised to get married and then divorced, so trapping the next victim is easy. A marriage comes with a hell of a lot of perks for women that don't exist for men. Divorce also comes with a hell o… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/08/22 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Local support structure. is it a factor?It depends like most tung's where you live and what the laws are. It could be that you actually get a fair judge who starts custody as default 50/50, and her local support network bears no difference on the outcomes. It might be she makes the argument for full custody with the local support network but then the age of her parents will become a factor. At the end of the day you tell your lawyer what outcome you want and it's their job to secure that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/22 07:49 PM |
| 4 | How do women think? just with emotions?Do they think with emotion, yes they do sadly. Often they'll go down the route of asking for a divorce because they want to see you fight for the marriage, they think emotionally that's what they would do so it's what you will also do. Then when you say ok, they get hurt, for two reasons First, agreeing to the divorce to them means you didn't actually care enough about the marriage to fight for it Second you didn't actually care enough about her to fight for it. What they often fail to understan… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/22 09:55 AM |
| 1 | "Culturally Framed As"Are you seriously trying to tell me that there are feminists who care about men and the issues men face, sorry but you need to go back to a feminist sub and try there. Are you trying to tell me it's about equality, bullshit, feminists don't want equality because you clown already have it, there isn't a single law or right I have as a man that you don't have as a woman, I can name at least ten rights or privileges you have as a woman that I will never have as a man. Best I can say then is the fol… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/08/22 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Wife actually smacked meOk so the recent Depp Heard case might work in your favour here. Aside from that, she hit you and you didn't retaliate so she knows that she can do it again and trust me it will get worse from here on out. She will be calm for a while, she will then start back in with attacking you as a man, and then when that isn't enough go back to the physical attacks. The only way to fix it is for her to see what she is doing is unacceptable, to accept she has an issue and get help for it. Do not think you c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/08/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | "Culturally Framed As"The core principles of the nazi party was socialism, in that regard they are exactly the same as any feminist living or dead, of course dead they do the world a favour but unfortunately feminists tend to forget the academics of the movement hated women and girls as much as they hated men. In that regard then, no we cannot agree that the principles are good, we cannot agree because you're using one argument to justify your behaviour but deflecting when you get held to the same standard you apply … | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/08/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | As long as we harm you a little bit less, misandry is good.What has it done to you, on then It has told society that a woman can abuse a boy and be given a sentence that is paltry and not even worth handing out. It tells women that sexual abuse of boys is ok. It has ensured that in many parts of the world men don't get due process for accusations. It has caused over 2000 men and boys to end their lives on nothing more than spiteful attention seeking and told women that it's ok. It has caused the deaths of thousands of boys from savage mob beatings inclu… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/08/22 09:10 AM |
| 2 | "Culturally Framed As"Ok so using your argument then there were some really good Nazis who were just over shadowed by the rest. Of course you agree with me because it's just the same argument you've made with a different group. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/08/22 05:44 AM |
| 79 | Imagine if the roles were reversed- she got 60 days in prison for admitting 3 years of sexual abuse of a child.Society enjoys female pedophilles, that is the only conclusion one can draw, that's not a healthy society is it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/08/22 11:01 AM |
| 3 | Thank You For Sharing Your StoriesAfter enough experience as much as I don't want to, I have no choice but to totally agree with you. Any man dumb enough to let his dick think for him and to agree to marriage is by definition a fool singing his own death warrant. I can say with absolute clarity, it doesn't matter if he's a good man or absolute shit head, they all think she'll never do that to me, only to find themselves getting reamed in the divorce court. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/22 10:31 AM |
| 6 | "Culturally Framed As"You know, you raise an interesting point there and I don't believe that has actually been studied, do men who would live longer regardless live longer in a marriage. It's a bloody good idea to look into and I'd love to see the outcome of that. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/08/22 09:38 AM |
| 7 | How will I get attacked?She's asking for full custody so the attacks are going to be thick and fast and brutal. A smile you gave her one time where your teeth were showing scared her and made her feel like she's under threat. That one time you walked into the bathroom, touched her butt and kissed her neck made her feel like she was your property. It's all designed to make Mary Poppins look like jack the ripper. Your lawyer, if they are worth the money, will see this coming a mile away and use it to their advantage, thi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/22 08:40 AM |
| 3 | :)No originally it was used to describe the kinds of men who create a coup to take over a country. Feminists read the word in a book and used it as a good way to describe anything a man does which doesn't benefit them directly. An example, a man holds open a door for a date, he can be described as being mysoginistic and displaying his strength to her and assuming she isn't capable of opening the door for herself. He's displaying toxic masculinity because of his own insecurity about the date he's w… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/08/22 08:07 AM |
| 8 | "Culturally Framed As"Emeline Pankhurst, interestingly during world war 1 she and her crew of "feminists" who campaigned against the war and said nobody should be sent to die, were promised a debate in parliament after the war if they assist in the war effort. They toured the country finding young men and regardless of the condition of those men would give them white feathers. The universal symbol of being a coward, now I say regardless of the condition of those men, because it was well known they'd hand them out to … | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/08/22 07:33 AM |
| 9 | "Culturally Framed As"You're right, the feminism that fought for the right to vote used firebombing and terrorism in their campaign. The feminists of today just openly hate men and want supremacy over men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/08/22 07:22 AM |
| 29 | "Culturally Framed As"Married men live longer because they take less risks, that is then in fact a benefit to the wife, who gets to enjoy the continued income from the husband, it's not a benefit for the husband and should not be seen as a benefit of marriage. I mean given that on average women live longer than men and that itself is clearly evidenced when in relation to marriage it would seem that if we're talking longevity it's a greater benefit to women than men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/08/22 07:20 AM |
| 2 | Give it to me straight fellasOk so here's the general case She's never worked, you're going to get fucked, think dick bug enough to make an elephant wince. Second if she moves she can argue that 2 hours isn't a big deal, if you had them for a week, a 2 hour travel isn't that big an issue. You can try for shared parenting, that of course depends on your work life balance. Financially, yeah that's going to make you weep no two ways about it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/22 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Dating Deal BreakersI really don't see what the problem is here, your list just shows what you're not willing to tolerate. You've learned to have standards, that's a good thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/08/22 08:21 AM |
| 15 | Fake accusations are on the rise, please be very very very careful when interacting with a woman. Google “pence rule”Oh but it's rare this will happen... Yeah as if he gave a fuck how rare it when it happened to him. The only way to protect yourself is to follow the pence rule to the letter. Oh but doing that makes you a mysoginist. Ok then fuck off and cry about it because it means you cannot take me down with lies. Sorry everyone but that is a typical conversation you'll have with any feminist regarding this, now you would have thought that given they shout about fairness and equality they would be holding o… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/08/22 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Do people, relationships, come with an Expiration date?Ok so how can we sort through this. Last century women relied on men, meaning they had to keep their true nature under wraps. That's not the case anymore, government subsidies encourage women to torch any relationship. Social media and women's in-group preference encourages women to torch any relationship. Social media encourages women to be as toxic as possible towards men. Social media encourages absolution for women of all things they do wrong and shift all of the blame onto men When you comb… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/08/22 04:56 PM |
| 64 | The same video has been shut down on feminist subreddits, calling her Femcel and pick me…It's hardly surprising she would be getting attacked for her views, it's always the feminists who claim to support a woman's right to choose, but will savage any woman if she chooses different to what they expect, better yet, what they demand. To be honest at this point I'm sure feminism is another heaven's gate cult of self destruction. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allWell then if you don't want to get pregnant keep your legs closed. I fail to see why you think you now have any right to expect men to support your issues when you made very sure men didn't have a say before, but in truth you don't want men to have a say unless what they say is agreed upon by you. For the rest of your rhetoric you do know that nobody is forcing you to get pregnant, you are choosing to have sex with the implicit knowledge that sex leads to pregnancy and as such carries a very rea… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allNo you don't get to sit on one side and say no uterus no opinion when you think you've won the argument and then demand we support you when you've lost it.. The statement that it affects everyone is utter bs because it clear doesn't, that statement alone shows how incipit your argument really is, you are doing the very same thing all feminists do, silence others when you can and then use hyperbole when it suits and hope that nobody spots your hypocrisy. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allOk so yeah definitely stupid, I cannot understand where you got insecure from, but I think it's a typical case of projection on your part, accountability being kryptonite for any woman, so it's hardly surprising there. Yes please let's be done with this because honestly you've told me all I would ever need to know about feminists. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allRight you're either lying or stupid, you own words, perhaps you should take some time to read what you write and try to understand that before you post.. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 01:02 PM |
| 22 | FDS advice on Femcel and see the first response (the reality)How to stop being a femcel by a sub that turns them out by thousands, you can't make this shit up people. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 12:38 PM |
| 1 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allBut then you admit now you expect men to support women regardless, as long as it aligns with you. And you see no hypocrisy there. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 12:36 PM |
| 11 | " a rich man will marry a waitress. But a rich woman will never marry a waiter".Data shows what I'm about to say The statement is true to enough of an extent that this is the rule, of course there are the exceptions that prove the rule but they are rare. We can talk about the dating thing of 80/20, but suffice to say or even argue that women will choose to be shared by a select group of men who have everything rather than have a man to themselves but that man doesn't have the material things. On the flip side Reddit itself is littered with women over 30,40,50 all stating th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 12:34 PM |
| 1 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allIt might well be made up, without proof do you then discount that it's highly plausible that it did happen and requires outrage and further investigation or do you sit in your hands and say oh well, it's on a particular sub so must be made up. Again then I ask why do you think that but get upset when men apply your own logic to a woman making a claim against another man regarding a crime that she claims happened to her. Would you say oh well she posted on a sub so it must be made up, or would yo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 12:03 PM |
| 4 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allLegitimate gripes, well thanks for showing us where you stand, that's very magnanimous of you, we should probably all be grateful that somebody having their life destroyed by a lie is considered a gripe, in the spirit of equality I'll use that word for all of women's gripes. Thanks for the feminist input. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 09:54 AM |
| 4 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allAnd your point being, your point being then that we should care about the issues women face but ignore the issues men face because they are rare. That's exactly the reason why nobody will ever trust a feminist, simply because you claim equality for men and women by ignoring men and pushing women up, but only those who agree with you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 09:34 AM |
| 4 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allWell yes you are, see how that works. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 09:28 AM |
| 6 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allSo you're admitting you blow things out of proportion or you're admitting you have a right to self protection. Which is it. If it's the first thing then obviously you need to stop locking your doors at night, if it's the second thing then why is it only you get to feel safe. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 08:55 AM |
| 4 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allThe post is clear evidence that no it's not. When an allegation can be made and the worst somebody can expect is to walk away from it with a minor impact to their life but utterly destroying the life of the person accused then no. Let's flip it, do you lock your doors at night, even though the risk of you being raped in your own house by a stranger is extremely rare, do you lock your doors. Aren't you blowing things out of proportion doing that for that reason or are you doing it because you hav… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 08:50 AM |
| 6 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allNo you said it's being blown out of proportion, I said if that's true then how exactly is that being done, what I see here is people caring about an incident, so explain how it's being blown out of proportion. As for comprehension you're clearly the one lacking that ability, are you saying we should care about it but not as much as issues women face, are you saying we should care but let's have some perspective, which is another way of saying care about issues women face more.. Exactly what are … | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 08:23 AM |
| 5 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allOh so you need to pick a lane here because your hypocrisy is showing. First off rape is rare, as I said even with the expansion in the definition of rape it's rare and falling as a crime across the west. Secondly if we shouldn't care about the victims of false allegations then how exactly is this being blown out of proportion. As for your link, that goes to data where crimes as eye rape were counted, thought rape and dream rape, if you're going to try to provide data at least use proper data sou… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 08:19 AM |
| 7 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allAs I said, how is it being blown out of proportion when the people who go through this really don't care about the data. It should be easy to explain how it's being blown out, you can't though without reducing what that boy experienced to nothing more than saying he should suck it up because it's rare. Well in the same vein rape is rare, so women should suck it up because it's rare, and stop blowing things out of proportion. See how that works, you cannot diminish one thing for one group without… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 08:12 AM |
| 8 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allAnd again for those going through this how much do you think they care about the data. So using your position on this issue, you'll of course agree with me, the next time anybody hears a woman was killed by somebody they knew in a domestic violence incident or raped, we can all just say, hey it's rare, here's the stats, we don't need to care because it rare. Always grateful to get the input of feminists to show us the way. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 08:06 AM |
| 6 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allOh this should be good, in what way are things being blown out of proportion, assuming that you're aware you're doing exactly what feminists have been blaming men for since the 60s, exactly what way is his life being wrecked blown out of proportion. Please explain, let's use a feminists ultimate spank fantasy of rape, seeing as that is their go-to I'm now at the point of total belief most fantasise about it, given rape is rare and falling across the west as a crime even with the scope of rape in… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 07:57 AM |
| 15 | All from fake accusations, yet feminism denies that this is an issue at allDo you seriously think that kid gives a single shit about how rare it is or even might be or that, what you're saying is, yeah it's bad but at least he wasn't raped. This is always one of the points of false allegations, regardless of how rare they are the people making them also rarely face anything, in this case the daughter was effectively disowned but not ruined, her life goes on easy enough, in fact better, she got moved elsewhere a fresh start and ability to reinvent herself. That kid has … | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/08/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Future proof my next marriage?Normal citizenship can be obtained without marriage. Sorry but that isn't a reason anymore. It might have been at one time but nearly every country has access routes to citizenship without the need for marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/22 06:24 AM |
| 4 | Future proof my next marriage?You're a family person I get that now give me a reason, irrefutable reason why you cannot have a family outside of marriage. Let's ask you this if ten horses were lined up but only 3 would finish the race, if you bet on the wrong horse you lose your stake, your house, family, current and future earnings, would you place a bet. Even optimists know the difference between positive thought and stupid ideas. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/22 09:59 PM |
| 10 | Future proof my next marriage?First don't get married Here's a way to talk yourself out of it. Give me one reason that cannot be refuted for marriage, any one reason be it social, legal, moral. Trust me, as a deep thinker there isn't one. During a discussion I heard a woman say medical, so if you're in an accident they'll not let her in, I called a nurse friend of mine, she said that was bs, you can name her as an emergency contact, doing that gives her the same rights of access. Of course she loses the right of control, but… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/22 07:23 PM |
| 9 | Ready to file but wife has threats over my headYou know there comes a point where you have to say to yourself do I go onwards regardless of what happens in between now and the end Or Do I remain as I am terrified of what might be and stay as I am in this current disaster. It's your choice dude but my advice would be to follow what your lawyer tells you and file. As for recording things, well let's be honest here, if every man got married in the knowledge he will be getting divorced at some point two things would happen First all interactions… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/22 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Wedding anniversary todayYou feel however you want to feel, it's perfectly valid if that's anger, sadness whatever. Just focus on you and do you. It will get easier and in time become just another day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/08/22 09:44 AM |
| 5 | How do you feel about your STBX or Ex?Sorry for her I did hate her for a while I was angry at her for a while I felt totally indifferent towards her for a while Now after enough time has passed and I've stood by and watched as she's burned almost everything in her life, I just feel sorry for her. Would I help her, no, she did what she did and for that she burned our marriage, she chose to make sure she has no right to get any help from me for anything. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/08/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Feminism has always been a man hating female supremacist group that wants supremacy and control over men. They have never wanted equality. They used the word equality to fool people.You should read some of her work, it's fucking scary what would be common place for girls if she got her way, think gallead on steroids | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 02:52 PM |
| 15 | Feminism has always been a man hating female supremacist group that wants supremacy and control over men. They have never wanted equality. They used the word equality to fool people.Let's not forget Simone debouviour who advocated for selling girls and boys into sexual slavery, girls more than boys because, without proof, I'm sure she was a predatory bisexual with a penchant for young girls, argues that it was good for them because it taught them their place at a very early age. She is held up as a shining light of academic feminist thought. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 02:31 PM |
| 4 | Here are some screenshots in regards to my ban from MensRights. I reported the modThat sub has nothing to do with men's rights or men's issues. Everything there is about a problem men face from a woman's perspective, so if circumcision is an issue it's always how it's an issue that men have to live with because the majority of women prefer it, regardless of any damage done to a male in the process. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 10:22 AM |
| 7 | Just came across this article and thought how this could not be possible, how do they impose that so many women have been raped but only 1.5% of men have ever been raped? Can anyone link the real statistic as my searches lead to different responses, ex, 1 in 3 women or 1 in 7?Debunked, if the definition of rape includes instances or things that happened in a dream or eye rape then the entire article, study or discussion is counterfeit and false. Let's be clear here, rape itself is an horrific crime and nobody, male or female should ever experience it, but crime happens. The shame with this how broadly they define rape and how generous they are with their facts, how they make statements that go against the true facts that we are seeing all over the world which that ra… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if I should divorce my wifeOk so let's ask you this. You've talked to her about it but how much have you talked to her, have you told her that her drinking is damaging the relationship between you two. Have you asked her to get help, have you asked her if she knows why she drinks so heavily. If you've gone through these things and can't see any other way out then yes, you can use her drinking as a reason if that all there is even if that's all there is. My advice would be to sit her down during a sober time and to say tha… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/08/22 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Indoctrination is not coolAnd, the difference here being that I'm not jumping up and down about it, I well aware that I am doing it, the difference here is you think you're winning an argument by calling me out for it and then doing exactly the same thing, but trying to claim the moral high ground. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Indoctrination is not coolWhere did I say that it's an issue, I don't care if anybody is reliant on medication, it's an indicator of happiness of a population if there are large groups reliant on specific types of medication, it's impossible to claim women are happier now than they were if a very large percentage are reliant on medication for their own happiness. The issue isn't reliance on the medication, although you're making a blatant false equivalency here, comparing antidepressants with cancer treatment, the issue … | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 09:16 AM |
| 2 | Indoctrination is not coolYou aren't making an argument now just massively over generalising again, a crime you accused me of doing.. Again a you issue not a me issue. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 09:07 AM |
| 2 | Indoctrination is not coolYou seem to be so sure that your argument is the one and only narrative to follow, I called you stupid purely because that is a stupid stance to take. If that upsets you then you need to look at why that upsets you, it's a you issue not a me issue. As for the common denominator being me, again you say that like it's a me issue, I'm well aware that in any discussion I have with anybody I'm a common factor in that discussion, again it's a stupid argument to make that somebody wouldn't be. As for b… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 09:05 AM |
| 3 | Indoctrination is not coolAs for commenting on your points, what points did you make Women feel hard done by when they have to do housework while men don't. What comment would you like me to make, given the greater majority of women are living single lives why should I care, they are doing housework like men are, the difference is that men don't whine about it. In fact it's then easy to say the following, even when given the freedom to live alone as they wish women will find a way to feel oppressed even when they are the… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 08:18 AM |
| 3 | Indoctrination is not coolOf course it's an extreme generalisation, what part did you not understand. As for stalking your profile no, no need, I'm smart enough to spot it a mile away, along with a bunch of other issues you claim to have. As for your intelligence, I mention it purely because you assume it matters, that your intelligence trump's anything, because of your intelligence only you have a valid experience, because of your IQ only you are the authority to speak on a topic, that your word is law and there are no … | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 08:15 AM |
| 3 | Indoctrination is not coolDo you need to mention your IQ, really that's entertaining to me because it's always women who deem it an unfair judge of intellectual capacity when somebody mentions anything to do with IQ. As for languages, ok go ahead, do you really think that's going to impress me, I speak more than English myself, I think you'll find aside from your autism diagnosis for which you'll no doubt touch upon at some point because you think that makes you interesting, nobody cares how many languages you speak. Sha… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 08:05 AM |
| 0 | What do you think about abortion?My thoughts are what they have always been It should be safe, legal and necessary The necessary part should fall into the following categories Crime Risk to life Anything outside of those is done for convenience and should not be accepted. I'm sorry and I'm well aware that this is a hot topic but there is nothing wrong telling women to keep their legs closed if we're going to tell men to keep it in their pants. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 07:41 AM |
| 3 | Indoctrination is not coolSo you're doing a classical tactic of taking anecdotal evidence from personal experience and extrapolating that to apply to everyone, make the personal political is at best a dumb move and signifies stupidity on a grand scale. Your experience is not indicative of the wider world. Would it be useful for me to tell you growing up, I saw many husbands beaten by their wives, thrown out of the house for the slightest infraction of unwritten rules, hit with pans, had glass thrown at them. So from my e… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Indoctrination is not coolAre you really that stupid, are you really going to try to claim all women were abused during that time, are you really going to try to claim abuse was widespread and normal. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/08/22 06:14 AM |
| 6 | Indoctrination is not coolWhat will happen next. I'll tell you because we're already seeing it.. Women being forced to undertake roles they neither want nor have the ability to simply because men will and are refusing to, think about what happens when your car breaks down. Now imagine calling for help and being asked if you're a lone single woman, then being told the guy coming to fix your car will be wearing a body camera or being told that no man will be there so you're going to ha e to wait a few more hours while they… | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/08/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Man On TikTok Conducts Social Experiment On Husbands, Wives, and CheatingJust more proof if it were needed that marriage is the worst deal possible. | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/08/22 08:38 AM |
| 2 | My wife wants a divorce because different views on spending, am I better off just letting her spend rather than get screwed financially by the divorce anyway?You're really asking here are you better off letting her spending drive you into an unmanageable debt and bankruptcy or face the shorter burden of the divorce but ultimately protect your life long term. Think enough said, if she won't manage her spending then get the divorce and trust that within a few months she'll burn through any money she has and will be forced to face the music but at least you won't go down with her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/08/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | When to give up?Ok so you don't stop fighting, I can tell you this if you do your kids will be seriously fucked up. We're talking years of therapy to get the stable if at all. How do I know, because my son made contact with me after turning 18 he now lives with me full time and is a balls out broken young man. God only knows what my daughter is going to be like when she hits that age because she will have years more time without me being present. Like you I married a BPD woman, and it broke me beyond belief, so… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/22 04:51 PM |
| 6 | The family and divorce laws in India are the worst. 🔻Men have least chance to win any case. Men will end up paying alimony and maintenance even if the wife is abled and educated. 🔻It is now called "Alimony Industry". 98% of cases are fake.The only logical answer to this problem is for all men in India to outright reject marriage, to go to their families show them this and say if you try to force a marriage this is what you condemn me to, I refuse to comply. Enough men doing that the law changes. Otherwise people have to accept the fate they are forced to. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/08/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | What to do…What would I do Let it go, you said it yourself she doesn't love you, at least not the way you love her, if that's true then it means you're going to spend your life chasing something that truthfully doesn't want you. So why is she coming back, could be any number of reasons She met up with that guy and he heard she has three kids and doesn't want that in his life She met up with him and figured he's actually a gym rat and she wants somebody who hits the gym but doesn't live in the gym She figur… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/08/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Really looking for some advice…You're not lost you're afraid to take that leap. Here's what you do, you accept that your wife was sleeping with other men while the separation was going on and keeping you as a safe harbour because she knew you would be. She knew that if things went shit for her she could always pull you back, that's not love that is a secured income for her, you are the secured income. You now tell her that you've met somebody else in work and you'd like to see how it goes, and as far as you are concerned you'… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/07/22 06:42 AM |
| 5 | I think this sub needs backup incase those angry "feminists" come at us.They always come after this sub, every so often like a rite of passage for any wannabe feminist. They'll come here and get onto a post and believe that if they say it's about equality enough times we'll all accept that and this sub will vanish. What they don't understand is that we've all either been feminists and got out of the cult or we've been abused by them enough to know that being equal actually has nothing to do with feminism other than a cloak they'll use to escape being accountable for… | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/07/22 04:35 PM |
| 14 | Feminism made her angry and lonelyI read the article, joker talked about it also. The thing that stuck for me above all others was that she knows she has been brainwashed. So this is why men, and women should stay away from this type of woman. No matter what you do, no matter what your intentions are behind anything you do or say she will always view you through a particular lense. She will always default to you being the bad guy, she will always remove responsibility for her actions and choices from herself. She cheats, you're … | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/07/22 04:25 PM |
| 7 | ☕️☕️☕️Well now that's a hot button question isn't it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/07/22 12:41 PM |
| 2 | If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility.You're right there of course. What matters is how you deal with it though, not sure about you but I'm tired of dealing with their insanity, I've found that they really do drive themselves nuts when you respond the way I suggested purely because everyone knows they actually have no power. It stops when you say enough. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/07/22 12:39 PM |
| 2 | If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility.Of course but the entire post itself is purely opinion. While I personally don't argue either way, if a man works to provide for his family, it doesn't make him a good man, it just makes him a man, if a man decides he's done with society, walks away, rejecting any ideas of good or bad and what it means to be a man, also doesn't make him a good man worthy of celebration not does it make him a bad man worthy of condemnation, it just makes him a man. The issue here isn't opinion but the blatant dou… | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/07/22 12:00 PM |
| 3 | If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility.Who said anything about bitches, I really have no idea where you got that from, I simply said it's applied double standards, it's the same mindset from the same people who will say a woman aborting a baby she helped create purely because that right for her, should be celebrated but a man walking away from a pregnant woman purely because that's right for him makes him a loser. Where you went after that is beyond me, I'd suggest you take some time to think about things before allowing your fingers… | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/07/22 10:45 AM |
| 3 | If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility.Careful your double standards are showing | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/07/22 10:35 AM |
| 8 | If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul-destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility.The very same mindset who says a woman aborting a baby she helped to make because it's right for her is the very same mindset of people who are critical of men walking away from a pregnant woman because of what's right for them. It's penny and bunn I'm afraid, always absolve yourself of your own responsibility in your own demise. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/07/22 09:01 AM |
| 1 | genuine question but how do you personally treat women you’re not attracted to?I treat them as they treat me, simple as that. Most men do the same, data shows that the women men aren't attracted to are either treated the same as any other friend, acquaintance. In most cases women who are complaining that us men are cold to them is perception, they perceive that we are cold to them, don't open doors for them etc but have a total lack of self awareness. Why would I open a door for any woman I'm not directly attracted to, haven't women been saying for generations now they an … | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:38 AM |
| 1 | r/WitchesVsPatriarchy is tired of males, hmmmfantastic, another set of people removing themselves from humanity by their own actions. they'll solve the climate issue for us. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/07/22 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on how not to fucking explode?Hit the gym and buy a punch bag, hang it up somewhere and beat the living shit out of it. Make yourself too tired to care about her. Grey rock the absolute fuck out of her, get out with friends and start dating casually again. Only this time don't be afraid when they post on social media and tag you, let her see you're getting on with your life too. Many women leave but want to know that their leaving harms you in some way, sometimes it revenge for past misdeeds by you, other times it's revenge … | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/22 09:06 AM |
| 5 | We should all get vasectomies in solidarity!!Question what are you as a man going to do Answer, nothing, no uterus no opinion, I see no reason why that rule should change simply because you lost the argument. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/07/22 03:42 PM |
| 5 | As a woman, I don't want to hear about other men's genitals from my female friendsYeah my first but if advice is to change your friends, I get it's difficult when you're an adult, I appreciate that but surely it would be better to have none than have these clowns. That aside, nobody wants to hear about the genitals of others, maybe young teenage boys who think about sex constantly but grown adults as far as I know that is the furthest thing from their minds and the last thing they want to hear about. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Just checking up real quick, y'all know that feminism means equivalent genders right?Some quotes for you Men who are unjustly accused of rape can sometimes gain from the experience. Men are rapists, that's all they are. All sex, even consentual sex between a married couple is an act of violence perpetuated against a woman. When a woman reaches orgasm with a man she is only collaborating with the patriarchal system, eroticizing her own oppression. Under patriarchy every woman's son is her potential betrayer, and also the inevitable rapist or exploiter of other women. The male is … | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/07/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Just checking up real quick, y'all know that feminism means equivalent genders right?You are a clown, right from the first iteration of feminism terrorism was always part of it. That and selling you g girls into sexual slavery. If you really think it's about equality then you really are a fool. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/07/22 05:37 AM |
| 3 | My wife asked for a divorce in the beginning of June.Ok so you are burned right now, lost in the pain of watching your life fall apart. Those dreams of the future, the pictures you created, that's all they were, pipe dreams and fantasy pictures, accept that and get angry. Use the anger, speak to a lawyer and get the process started. Stop doing things for her, she wants 50/50, give her every bit of it, only pay half the bills, only pay half the food, everything. She now gets nothing. Order food for you and your child, she pays for herself you don't… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/22 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Rise of the Soyboys simps!Let's be honest, are any men in this sub feeling in anyway threatened by him, I'll guarantee that is a big no. Now, do any women here, or would any woman here feel threatened by him, probably, because he looks like the kind of cretin who hangs around outside apartments watching from the bushes. Then again I'd also put money down that any of the women in this sub could also easily take that clown in a fight so make of that what you want. | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/07/22 07:21 PM |
| 8 | A feminist called me a rape apologist. They throw that term around so loosely not caring about the actual weight of it.There was no point, that was the point, I just showed you exactly what you were doing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 05:55 PM |
| 5 | A feminist called me a rape apologist. They throw that term around so loosely not caring about the actual weight of it.So what's your point then, to post outdated links or to play whatboutism, because that's exactly what you're trying to do here. So what's your point. Do you even have one. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 12 | A feminist called me a rape apologist. They throw that term around so loosely not caring about the actual weight of it.Yes and men are actually now experiencing domestic violence more than women are, so what's your point there, is sexual assault less or more damaging. A recent data graphic was published in the state's showing 2.3 million women were victims of that but 4.2 million men. So what's your point. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 04:29 PM |
| 11 | A feminist called me a rape apologist. They throw that term around so loosely not caring about the actual weight of it.It is terrible, I agree, but then what is now your point, women have it worse than men. Great, let me show you the numbers where women have it much much better than men and benefit purely because of men. Do you really want to play that game. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 04:08 PM |
| 11 | A feminist called me a rape apologist. They throw that term around so loosely not caring about the actual weight of it.Yes and I gave another argument to destroy the term male gaze. It makes no difference if you said it or you quoted it, I said how to deal with those terms. Part of the issue that people face today when dealing with those terms is knowing how to handle them when they are used against you. They are used purely as a way to shut you up, to stop you talking, because your speech makes sense while theirs is hyperbolic and often insane nonsense. Do some women have terrible experiences, yes, do all women… | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 04:03 PM |
| 15 | A feminist called me a rape apologist. They throw that term around so loosely not caring about the actual weight of it.I don't care who was talking about whom. You said male gaze, define it, define it in a way that all find acceptable with a metric by which men you find attractive and not so can be measured. You see the problem with that term is it's acceptable if you find the man attractive and not if you don't, what time length counts, is five seconds enough when studies show that if a man is found attractive to a woman five seconds is nothing, but if he's not attractive three seconds is too long. So then the … | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 03:55 PM |
| 38 | A feminist called me a rape apologist. They throw that term around so loosely not caring about the actual weight of it.When that happens this is how you respond Rape apologist, a person who relies on evidence and due process not the court of public opinion. They do that to shut you up, like shouting incel at men, they do it because it's an adhomenim attack, take it that you said something logical and sensible and they actually don't have any valid response so they go to cowardly attacks. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/07/22 09:13 AM |
| 10 | Sugar Baby Experiences PleaseDon't do that, there are plenty of women who will get with a man who offers nothing more than a casual thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/07/22 02:09 PM |
| 5 | There's this post about "how women can't enjoy the things they want without being made fun of." Like bruhTypical feminist Midwest, make the personal political. Take an experience that happened to them extrapolate that to apply to everyone and always blame the entire gender opposite yours. Of course they'll ignore that statistically speaking women are more likely to bully other women than men are, we can't account for children simply because they are children. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/07/22 02:40 PM |
| 10 | Separation questionReading through your replies I ha e this to say RUN Do not think about reconciliation, get a paternity test done, this will not be the first time she's bean cheating on you. Don't worry about boundaries during a separation period, they exist to ensure you play by the rules not her. Accept your marriage is toast, if she was banging some other guy at 9 mths pregnant she absolutely does not want to fix your marriage. Get in touch with a lawyer, get the DNA test done asap. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/22 04:53 PM |
| 7 | feminism has made my life worseYou don't have to be good at everything, you are a woman, that is a power all of itself, it's a compliment to men, men should be a compliment to women, you have skills that men often don't have or are weak in, men have skills that women lack or are weak in. Neither is right or wrong, neither is better than any other. Perhaps you don't realise that feminism is nothing more than half truths and propaganda spread by media during the 70,80,90s to convince young women and girls to go against their bi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/07/22 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Misandry Compilation from a account calling itself a feministDon't focus on what they say focus on the women agreeing with it, they are the ones to avoid. They are the ones who by virtue of agreeing with this should be left alone shunned by all men and rejected. Know who they are so you know who to avoid. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/07/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | one of the biggest reason's why men are going MGTOW!Yes but that is a major change, the small few pounds is nothing, here though we're talking going from a few pounds to obese, that's really not good for anybody. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/07/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | one of the biggest reason's why men are going MGTOW!It doesn't matter, yes of course there are, there are also men who are fathers, husbands who have not let themselves go, it doesn't really matter if you do let yourself go a bit in a relationship, it's just normal change. The problem is the propensity for society to tell women not to change, while condemning men for the exact same thing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/07/22 04:42 AM |
| 14 | one of the biggest reason's why men are going MGTOW!Well we do know men and women let themselves go after marriage, let's both accept that is a fact, what saddens me about it is the woman who has let herself go is told don't change, don't settle, you're prefect as you are, he's wrong, he's a lazy bum. Recently a bunch of studies were published showing fat and obese women felt it their right to be with a good looking healthy man but rejected any idea their weight or massive overweight should reduce what they want in a man and they openly said they… | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/07/22 08:54 PM |
| 4 | one of the biggest reason's why men are going MGTOW!Thanks for adhomenim | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/07/22 01:43 PM |
| 6 | one of the biggest reason's why men are going MGTOW!I'll check the rest of them out, thanks for that. And yes I'm also sorry I got married. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/07/22 10:14 AM |
| 7 | one of the biggest reason's why men are going MGTOW!Seen that a while ago and truthfully I just agreed with everything the men said, it's why I will never do it again. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/07/22 09:39 AM |
| 58 | one of the biggest reason's why men are going MGTOW!Yup.and it gets worse as you get older. A few simple things A woman late 40, still with two young children, has the shape of a circle expecting a Greek god, you think I'm being hyperbolic but trust me I'm very much not. Her dating profile has things like, I can't be tamed, accept me as I am or walk away. We have a society which enables, celebrates and encourages shitty behaviour from women, in essence to behave like the shittiest of crappy men. This is somehow empowering and boss bitch, but what… | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/07/22 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Is your work history part of the divorce process???She's trying to do an Amber Heard, she's thinking if she can make you look like a scumbag then the courts being biased against men you're name is going to be shit and everything you say she will just be able to claim abuse or a reaction to abuse. In this case financial abuse, claiming you've hidden your true income from her since marriage. It's not a bad approach, you're over thinking it, in fact it's the simplest most direct tactic to use to sue for higher alimony. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/22 04:52 PM |
| 6 | An anti-feminist lesbian speaks out for men on TwitterMuch respect to her and the comments supporting her, they will of course get shit from the twitteratti but they are doing good work | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/07/22 08:05 AM |
| 3 | Is your work history part of the divorce process???Yeah she's trying to play that you're earning more than you state and that you always have earned more than you've let her know. She will then file with the court to increase the amount she claims from you and increase the value she gets from your pension etc. Don't give into it. Follow the advice your lawyer gives you and do as he/she says. Provide the information they tell you and only that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/07/22 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Liberal feminist men are getting vasectomy’s.There is a god and justice after all, they'll take themselves out by their own actions, this is a good day. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/07/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | First of all, women also do that and second of all, 51% of the world population are women so this is incorrect.Penis envy They forget they are the larger group between men and women They forget women have a larger in-group preference than men, they forget they'll attack other women sooner than men will with other men. Ultimately feminism is a movement of deranged little girls who physically but mentally never matured into fully fledged adulthood, with rampant daddy issues that require a lifetime of heavy medications and an often early miserable death. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/07/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | How long would stbx have to work at a higher paying job before it's seen as the "norm" for her earning potential?Make the arguments that she needs to earn more and actually use her education. How exactly that's done depends on your legal system but I've hard of it happening before in a few places. I even read here, long time ago of a lawyer making the argument to a court, that she is a strong independent woman who's educated to not be dependent on a man for her life and income and should be viewed that if the court doesn't uphold her to those standards, the same that they are doing for men then the court i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/22 05:43 PM |
| 8 | Woman wants to sterilize all men because she doesn't want to deal with the consequences of her own choicesIt's funny, I'm not allowed to kill children anymore so I'll just end the human race instead. Let's face it, call it what you want abortion, termination, it's just window dressing to end a life. Now there may be justified reasons for it, crime, abuse etc and each to their own in where the comfort level lies but ultimately it is still ending a life, regardless of where you personally believe life begins. The fact remains, vasectomies are not temporary, in most cases they absolutely are permanent … | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/07/22 12:14 PM |
| 4 | Thinking of joining the military; any prior/current service members have insights into how child custody goes if you enlist AFTER being divorced?Speak to the r/military sub that will be a good source for you, deffo ask there, if you do join though get out as much as you can do everything, it's an amazing life. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/22 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Thinking of joining the military; any prior/current service members have insights into how child custody goes if you enlist AFTER being divorced?I joined the British army late and left at 27 ish, so a few friends in there joined after divorce, got married way to early in life. It depends where you are, your country etc, what your custody agreement is. Your military record will be looked at, and if you are doing well there you'll have a good military record and you'll have senior officers willing to speak up for you which helped my friends out a lot. Best advice I can give you is to speak to people over at the military sub, and speak to a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 4 | Divoce After 15 YearsOk so you take full custody and sue the crap out of her for children support and full custody and deny her visitations rights if she isn't interested then she cannot be trusted to safeguard the child. Sue for the lion share of the property to safeguard the child to ensure that he's protected and has a place to live. Now here's where it starts to get funny. Entertaining for you at least. She lied, you have no reason to love or care about her, she doesn't know what she's walking out into, the shit… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/22 02:30 PM |
| 3 | wife says not only would she know, but I would also be cutting my own throat if I served her papersThe fa t she said those words is enough to serve her alone. If you really want out then serve the papers or have them served and deal with the fallout. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/07/22 07:25 AM |
| 6 | Views on tradwives? Coming from red pilled women groupBecause some of us in this sub really don't care what people do with their lives, it's their life they live it exactly as they want, what pisses us off more than anything is when people have the freedom to do exactly that, regardless of the choices they make they'll blame somebody else, usually men. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/07/22 07:03 AM |
| 5 | Views on tradwives? Coming from red pilled women groupAgain don't care, when I said I don't care I mean I don't care, I don't about anyone wanting to be traditional or not, as I said you are free to choose, you aren't free of the consequences. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/07/22 07:00 AM |
| 12 | Views on tradwives? Coming from red pilled women groupIf you're not happy with your life, you don't blame the rest of society for what you chose, you accept you made that choice, you either change it or live with it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/07/22 06:26 AM |
| 10 | Views on tradwives? Coming from red pilled women groupDon't care, you are free to choose, you are not free of the consequences. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/07/22 06:19 AM |
| 4 | Do you guys really think false rape allegations are really that common ?A recent report showed that men are by far the biggest group suffering from domestic violence and by far the biggest group facing repercussions from it. Last year about 2.5m women versus 4.2m men, let that sink with all you know given the amount of media you've swallowed regarding domestic violence. In one state alone just 10 years ago the incidence of false rape allegations was about 40% of all allegations, they were revenge attempts, executed by women against men, in a few cases the sheriff's … | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/07/22 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Gets Crapped on by a kid who’s hasn’t hit puberty.I wouldn't be surprised if she meant she actually went to a McDonald's at Harvard bought a big Mac and that's her claim to fame. As for your genetics lecturer, I'd agree, the only data relevant that I could find was bone marrow transplants and in babies the results are less than stellar, that not to say it doesn't have some success. | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/07/22 06:16 AM |
| 3 | Gets Crapped on by a kid who’s hasn’t hit puberty.I think we can all agree she's a moron If she did go to Harvard we can only pray she fails residency or that is what the USA has to look forward to for their medical professionals. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/07/22 06:26 PM |
| 9 | Jazzy laying down the lawAgreed and the science on that has been proven more times than I can count | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/07/22 05:55 PM |
| 39 | Jazzy laying down the lawWhat gets more under your skin here is two things First, just how funny they found it Second, a man had to tell them just how it isn't funny To me that shows just how little women have any empathy for anyone other than themselves. To the women on this sub, that was an audience full of women laughing at a man who is a clear victim of abuse, is he perfect no, is anyone, but remember other men see this, other men see how women behave towards men when they are in a crowd, do you really think you des… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/07/22 03:37 PM |
| 4 | The line between good enough and divorce readyWhy are you thinking of divorce, you said your relationship is good enough, hell that's better than most men can ever expect. You sound like you've hit a crisis, maybe that's true and maybe not, but if it is then ask yourself, if your marriage is good enough then can you not put more energy into your marriage. You said she's changed, I'll bet she could and would say exactly the same about you, so while there is a chance why not find out about the person she is now, why not teach her about who yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/22 03:11 PM |
| 3 | DISCUSSAccounting for the drop in marriage rates the prevalence of this being the case for men is actually increasing. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/07/22 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, what makes you visit the r/antifeminists?How does it affect women, tldr I'm a man so this is perception only with some anecdotal experience. In the first primary most important way it absolves women of agency, men are always the scapegoat for all the ills of the world and the lives of women. Here's the problem with that, you cannot ask for equal treatment and rights and consistently blame others for your mistakes. You either have the equality or you don't, you don't get to ask for equality and ask for traditional values. If men are alw… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/07/22 07:59 AM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?Not for now, I broke up with one a few weeks ago so I'm taking time off. So show me where I said I want to be alone Refute anything I've said with counter arguments and as I said I'll change my view. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?So show where that means I want to be alone, exactly where. Don't parrot my own words back to me, make no attempt to refute anything I say and claim you've beaten all arguments with your own logic when you've done nothing but copy and paste, how pathetic and how sad, you haven't even been able to show me where I said I want to be alone, you've done nothing than project your own inadequacy and inability to make a counter argument. Ok I'll give you a chance here Show me exactly where I said I want… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Cheaper to keep her?I only wish I had that evidence in my case. Unfortunately I walked in and saw them, CE la vie, let her be her own downfall. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?Show me where I implied that, show me where I actually said that. You can't because I didn't, you can't because you assume I meant something other than what I said, when I really didn't. Who's projecting now. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?The only one projecting here is you, show me where I said any of what you implied. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Cheaper to keep her?Let her get so deep into it that she can't see the reaper as he swings the blade. Let her get so caught up in what she's doing she forgets all about the world, you document everything, record it all and upload it to a cloud. Let her damage herself, let her move out, let her figure out she's just a fuck. Let her destroy herself, she's not your problem anymore. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?Ha you've been using darvo right the way through, as for questions, you've asked none other than to make assumptions, about nothing I might add. It's really laughable, how far on the ADHD scale are you exactly, to not be able to distinguish between making an argument and having an argument is telling. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?Darvo is never a very useful tactic. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?Nobody's arguing with you, simply pointing out a few things. Your ability to make a reasonable argument is as flawed as your assumptions about people. Your emotional outbursts are entertaining. I'm enjoying showing you for the clown you are, and you're the one getting upset by it. I can drop a few other points but we'll leave it there for now. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 06:10 PM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?Back again getting ovary-motional, tell you what I'll take a break when you can make a good argument, how does that sound. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Cheaper to keep her?My advice is this If it's cheaper to stay married to her, she's not living with you, so you're separated, she's paying her own costs and you're covering yours. Stay as you are. If you meet another woman you have a ready made excuse why marriage is off the table, you can easily explain that costs for divorce and family law make getting a divorce impossible unless you want to be bankrupt. Now if you do meet somebody she can try to file for adultery but you can counter file that she cheated first c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/07/22 06:03 PM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?Keep proving my point, no need to ovary-act, it's just a debate. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 10:24 AM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?11 days and not able to counter with any reasonable argument. So to throw a little more salt into your wounds, if you'd rather just be alone then be alone. That's a clear strawman, you're now arguing that it's better to have shitty people, abusive people in your life. That's like choosing to sleep with homeless drug addict and then complaining that this person is a homeless drug addict. And the blaming the addict for doing what an addict does but absolving yourself of the consequences of your ac… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 09:05 AM |
| 4 | just had my sister get triggered at me for being in support for the overruling of roe v wadeHave any of us had experiences like this. Duuuuude, that's the reason why were here because we have had and still have those experiences | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Lesbian HatersNothing says hatred of others different to you than the tolerance of the left. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/07/22 06:18 AM |
| 5 | "No Hate"There little in this world that is more enjoyable than to point out the pentagram they use and claim is ancient and a pagan symbol is actually a symbol of Christian protection against demons and earliest recorded use is England around 1600. That gets right in their spell book. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/06/22 08:07 AM |
| 1 | It is over, it is doneThis is easy to explain Many men going through a divorce, in fact in the UK alone rates of claims of abuse by wives has increased 400% as the definition of abuse, one sided by the way, has been expanded and the list of indictable offenses has increased. The end result is that it's extremely easy for a wife to claim abuse, courts will often side with the wife in these cases, my own experience testifies to that, they will often ignore evidence of her being the abuser. The end result is that many m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/22 07:11 AM |
| 41 | Do you believe in a soulmate or that a happy lifelong marriage is possible these days?No, I've not seen any evidence that it's true. If you take into account that women don't need men for financial reasons anymore, it begs the question was it ever true to begin with. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/06/22 06:00 AM |
| 4 | Divorce or grounded?A house, you mean a few bits of brick and wood that others will pay for or buy off you. A house is a house, it has and holds no more meaning than a book, a car, an umbrella, it is just a thing, do not be attached to things. A home is where you are because that is where you feel safe, welcome and able to create memories. That can be done anywhere. You said you want to keep the house, fine, so does she, I'll put my own money on that. Sell the house, you'll start over much easier than she will trus… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/22 08:22 PM |
| 13 | Divorce or grounded?Ok dude this is a mental game and you need to be smart about it. She's already been thinking of divorce for a while, she has probably already spoken to a lawyer and I guarantee at least three of her divorced friends who have convinced her the divorce will be easy and she'll be set for life, you'll be an onhand baby sitter, she'll get all the dick she wants and get to choose the very best man out there and you'll be paying for the pleasure of it all. Now you need to remember this, women generally… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/22 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Imaginary sex strikeOk so yes and the stupidity has spread to the UK where some women are saying that they are going on a strike. It's laughable really when you think about it. A woman in the UK being that insane to think that her behaviour can have any effect on US policy is laughable. Second and let's be honest here, the women who are doing the strike are the kind of women nobody wants to have sex with, the chances of any if them getting pregnant are remote to say the least. Lastly it's highly laughable because a… | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/06/22 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Need some guidance on my situationOk so the divorce is happening. The trip down and to Disney, they should not, if she wants to go then that's her choice but you get to choose something else and she wants the divorce she doesn't get to be upset if plans change. Don't go, it will be worse for you than her, she's mentally already out of the relationship and probably has been for a while, you know that already so let's not beat that horse any longer. Tell her outright you aren't going, you don't want to and won't go. Ignore what sh… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | In light of recent events are you guys pro-life or pro-choice? And why?It was always a debate I tried to stay out of, mainly because I didn't think it was fair to either side and nobody goes into that debate without at least getting emotionally attached to something. But something about the ruling rankled me and it wasn't the ruling itself but the way the blue haired mob behaved after it. I mean calling in men, claiming a real man stands with women, that it's a man's duty to whatever. I just thought what bullshit is this, when you thought you were winning you took … | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/06/22 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Do feminists honestly think we won’t notice their contradicting demands?I saw another sub where some clown was demanding men go on strike to support women in this matter and couldn't help myself. Within a few hours I got, some of the laughs below You hate women No uterus no opinion, nobody truly believes that anyway Just because you don't have a uterus, you can still support women's rights. Of course they banned me from the sub. Another badge of honour. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/06/22 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Is There Any Real Way To Marry the Right One?Abso fucking lutely. We are a reflection of our six closest friends, if you don't take into account her friends group as well as her relationship with her father then you deserve everything you get. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/22 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Is There Any Real Way To Marry the Right One?I'm definitely not the voice of the manosphere, it's just experience talking, a little knowledge gained after divorce. It is what it is, I don't blame women for their behaviour it's programmed into them, given the same inputs we'd develop the same mentality and drive towards the same outputs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Trap and neuter cis men. I'm pro choice but what the fuck is wrong with these feminists? 25k upvotes.Well the entire premise of roe v wade is a total lie anyway https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2021/09/jane-roe-v-wade-baby-norma-mccorvey/620009/ The baby was not aborted to begin with, hey leftists you love the Atlantic this is their article. The supreme court agreed that there is nothing in the constitution to protect abortion and that responsibility needs to return to the states. The decision to allow it was done in a partisan manner the supreme court recognised that and rolled bac… | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/06/22 10:20 PM |
| 7 | Is There Any Real Way To Marry the Right One?Listen dude, you've been fed a mental diet of Disney bullshit. Women want the wedding but not the marriage. If they did divorce wouldn't be as high as it is and climbing. Accounting for the fall in marriage divorce is sky rocketing. Do you know that as long as you're fit and healthy and working and always higher socially and financially than your spouse you stand a chance she won't divorce you, the moment your health gets bad, the moment she gets a promotion even if she is earning less than you … | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 03:12 PM |
| 10 | Top 5 reasons your marriage failed and who initiated the divorce?Top five, I don't think that I have that Cheating, her Mental illness, her That's it, she cheated, I walking in and caught her right in the middle of it, she blamed mental illness, me, her mother everyone except herself. I filed for divorce. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 07:15 AM |
| 6 | Ex Wife is going out with female co workers, but she made it a challenge to find out. Why?You doing it to yourself, you're pain shopping and of course she talks to her friends who will tell her this, and of course they'll have a good chuckle over how easy it is to wind you up. In future keep it to the following For an emergency how can I get hold of you. And there's nothing more after that. You don't ask, even if she is offering, you don't want to know. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/06/22 07:06 AM |
| 10 | a female colleague sent me thisI think you should take that to her, tell them she is pressuring you into going along with her political ideology and you feel uncomfortable with this and do not want that in the workplace as you feel it creates a toxic environment, that you don't see men as the enemy, men have issues like women do and ignoring the issues that one side has to fix only the issues of the other side does not benefit society as a whole. Then watch her implode and watch as you become a hero to all of the men in the o… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/06/22 09:14 AM |
| 18 | Anyone else just laugh at the advice given in other subs?Reddit, says it all really | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/22 08:26 AM |
| 24 | this has to be a troll...right? the sad thing is I'm not entirely sureBecause I grew up without one That's the truth right there, it's about revenge for hurt feelings, anything else said is just smoke. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/06/22 08:25 AM |
| 11 | Trauma experts say how Amber Heard emoted on the stand doesn't, in itself, indicate she was lying about abuseOk so they are saying she might be telling the truth about abuse. So what. Yeah she was a victim of abuse, let's say that is the case, she was also the abuser and in many cases worse for what she did. She was also caught out on nearly every single claim of abuse that she was lying and doing it in extremis and that was proven. So while some of what she said is true, going by our agreement earlier, it was also proven the majority of her claims were lies or setup to make Depp look worse than needs … | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/06/22 04:22 PM |
| 3 | What advice would you give to a single 20 year old man for his eventual future relationship and marriage with a woman?A happy lifelong marriage, that like looking for a very specific grain of sand on a very large beach. Understand that there is no legal, social or moral argument in favour of marriage that cannot be utterly destroyed. The only reason women want marriage is to ensure that they have an income regardless of who they are or how they behave. Avoid it like the plague but if you must put yourself through the wringer make sure that you have a fast iron prenup in place for at least a year before you get … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/06/22 06:22 AM |
| 33 | I'm a single mom of two, here's your essay assignment-- Entertain me!With 2 kids she's making far too many demands | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/06/22 12:45 PM |
| 31 | feminsts are now mocking male victims of suicide! how is this allowed?I spent some time there a few years ago, it utterly blew my mind how men are viewed there, what was worse was how many women will openly tell you how much they hate men and these very same women will tell you how they are desperate to find a man. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/06/22 08:14 AM |
| 51 | feminsts are now mocking male victims of suicide! how is this allowed?It's Australia and they have been considering men as less value than dogs for years, it's honestly a wonder how any Australian man will even bother with any one of their women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/06/22 07:31 AM |
| 5 | why the word "mansplain"?I order to explain this you have to understand the mentality of the people you're talking about. These are the kind of people who cry about being treated equally as all others and then cry sexism when their choices go wrong, cry discrimination when they fail at something that a man finds easy. These people whine about equality but don't actually mean equality they mean equity but not actually mean equity they mean equity for themselves. Here's an example, they want to live in a world without men… | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/06/22 12:27 PM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?A partner, so what happens when a man doesn't need a partner, as for friends, what do you offer when a man already has plenty of them, especially friends who do have your back. Let's remember that as far as a partner goes the data shows that women are more likely to file for divorce than men in fact around 80% of cases are filed by women, women are more likely to leave a man if his financial situation changes for the worse. The data itself shows that as for having your back and caring about your… | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/06/22 07:10 AM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?Ok so then explain what else a woman is good for when all other things are taken care of. I'll wait. | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/06/22 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Women with "Woke" or "Toxic Feminism" mentality - Is it worth the effort to date these type of women?NO please for the sake of all that is good and right and your own mental health stay a million miles away from these women. They are perpetual victims, you will always be at fault, she gets drunk and you refuse sex you're at fault. You denied her something, she will happily forget that she couldn't consent. She gets drunk and you don't you're at fault because she was drunk and couldn't consent to sex. And that mindfuck is just one subject. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 05:05 PM |
| 2 | New to thisDon't hang around, don't wait any longer. You know that divorce is happening so why wait just speak to a lawyer and file and start the process. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?Trolling somebody who doesn't care is a waste of time. And if you could read and understand at more than a kindergarten level you'd see I've actually backed up my first point, try again. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/06/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?So you're saying you take the view of drunk men at bars seriously, and you also probably think you don't need some therapy too. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/06/22 10:01 AM |
| 4 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?It took you all that time to spew a bunch of collegiate bullshit and still fail to make a good point. Women and men are definitely blamed for their own rape. Prove that women are blamed for it, of course, your only retort here is to say, what was she wearing she was asking for it, an argument used by lawyers and drunk men in the bar, used by lawyers it's a defense albeit not a very good one, are you going to say a lawyer should not defend the accused, you do know what happens then. Men get blame… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/06/22 06:20 AM |
| 54 | surely I'm not the only one who see's this double standard right?Your problem is that you went in with logic, facts and a reasonable argument showing them a double standard they hold and calling them on it. They don't like to be reminded how hypocritical they really are. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/06/22 10:42 AM |
| 2 | My StoryYou need professional help for abused spouses, I'll guarantee that if you stand a mile back you'll notice things she did through the relationship which could easily be classed as abusive towards you. That is why now you're holding on to something that was never there or only there conditional on your ability to provide something of use to her. In time and with help you will get through this, you ha e to keep focusing on what you want your life to look like now. At the moment you're still in a da… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/06/22 08:24 AM |
| 16 | got banned on r/feminism for saying this. SMHMike dropped and a peace out. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/06/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | This is hardly a fair comparison when men are taught by society itself NEVER to show any emotions. And now that mental health for men is just NOW getting recognition.What I find funnier than the bullshit in the meme is how feminists will actually use their period as a way of justifying shitty behaviour. A woman stabs a man, they will argue that emotions run high when a woman in on her period, yet when a woman acts out behaves like a shitty person, they will argue that she's expressing her emotions in a healthy way and it has nothing whatsoever to do with her period. They really are the very epitome of hypocrisy and really speaking they need to pick a side he… | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/06/22 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Just found out about "bumble" the dating app that only lets women start the conversationYes that's true bumble only lets women start the conversation. Either can select but only women can initiate. What I find funny is that using that app, they ha e shifted the power dynamics to the hands of us men. Think about it for a second, typically men approach women, men have to open up, take the risk, be witty and intelligent and funny and etc. Typically it's women who do the selection of mates. With that app though that typical behaviour has been removed, yes it's a clear indication of the… | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/06/22 11:21 AM |
| 8 | She said she was on Birth Control?She just recently left but I was wondering if I made the wrong decision not to go in raw? I swear some guys won't be happy until their dick rots and falls off. Of course you made the right decision. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else find it hard to be around their married friends?Just wait, you won't be the only one. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/06/22 06:45 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else find it hard to be around their married friends?How old are you. How old generally is your friend group. I ask because within a few years you'll be the centre of the group, as more get divorced and come to you for advice on anything, lawyers, courts, custody and visitation child support etc. Sad but I have to say this, it does get better, but it also gets worse as you see more of your friends go through this same thing you are now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/22 06:29 AM |
| 5 | She left yesterday.What do you do. You change the locks, bag her shit and leave it for her. Contact a lawyer and file that she's abandoned you both. Start child support claims and file for divorce. That what you do, grieve the end of the relationship later but act now. It really doesn't matter if this is some tactic to get her way, if this is some brain fart that she's using to get space, it's truly unacceptable to just walk out like that man or woman. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/06/22 06:14 AM |
| 6 | An old article, but proof she’s a man hating kvnt: School walkout on feminist Clementine Ford after she refuses boys’ questionsYou're right but I have a very sad feeling he'll be running a stabbing rampage in some school some day. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/06/22 06:57 PM |
| 12 | An old article, but proof she’s a man hating kvnt: School walkout on feminist Clementine Ford after she refuses boys’ questionsI think we can all agree she's a toxic cunt who should not be allowed to breed. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/06/22 10:05 AM |
| 3 | DIYYes and it can be done at any time until you are actually divorced. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/06/22 09:16 AM |
| 2 | It is over, it is doneThe only way, the only way is to get our stories out to young men, to convince them it might not happen to them but do they really want to take that risk. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/22 09:13 PM |
| 16 | Congratulations, seamsánaí beagmhaitheasach! This is your reward for mindlessly buying into feminist horseshit is living like a man from age 16 to 30! Now, go adopt a cat. I hear that works for many a lonely lady!She's got a 1000 cock stare, she damages every man who stays longer than a night and she needs serious therapy. Absolutely no thanks | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 09/06/22 03:16 PM |
| 5 | It is over, it is doneYeah I re-read it and just thought fuck, not going to jail, or being homeless from a divorce can be considered a win for all men and might still give some hope. How fucked up is that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/22 03:11 PM |
| 21 | It is over, it is doneDo nothing, certainly for a month, take the time to let this sink in. For the ring, put it in a box or on a shelf and come back to it in a month, but for now do nothing, just take some time for yourself, this is major You've won, you got out without facing jail time or being homeless, that's a major victory for all men, so just take time, have a beer, go running, hit the gym, see friends and family. But do nothing, don't act on anything at the moment as everything will still be very raw and you'… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/22 08:02 AM |
| 7 | Why do feminists think every issue can be solved by dismantling the patriarchy?Their latest boogyman, the patriarchy supposes that the world is controlled by a cabal of men, that all men everywhere are signed up to at birth. It's an easy way of shifting blame for everything and anything without ever having to be accountable for your own actions. It's very similar to what we saw in America politics for the last few years with the Russian collusion hoaxes, it got that bad that if a democrat voter fell down some stairs Russia was getting the blame, the same idea prevails here… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/06/22 06:35 AM |
| 31 | What are the essential "Husband Habits" to break? Which ones did/do you struggle with or didn't recognize until it was "too late".Appeasement, should have learned from history lessons that it never works, trying to fix everything, trying to make her happy. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/22 01:02 PM |
| 6 | Is there something wrong with women?Agreed, science has shown us that women have an in group bias and will listen to friends even when the advice is bad. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/22 06:08 AM |
| 3 | Is there something wrong with women?Well there's a fundamental difference here, you say cheaters cheat down, what's your data for the number of cheaters who form long term stable relationships with those they did the cheating. In most cases cheating is an offense, to the marriage, of opportunity, so it's more anybody will do to feed my narcissistic personality. In most cases one or both are married and as the marriage breaks down so does the cheating relationship, oftentimes due to stress of the marriage breaking they cannot maint… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/22 04:42 PM |
| 10 | feminists always say "we want equality" but then completely ignore men's issuesthe advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. That is the given definition of feminism. It's in the wording, how clearly they have no end to what they want and how clearly that it has nothing whatsoever to do with actually being equal. Take the definition itself, the advocacy of women's rights on the ground.... Let's stop there, it means that anywhere there is the perception that women are disadvantaged in some way then there is a systemic system of oppression that w… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/06/22 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Is there something wrong with women?Yeah I think we've all been through that phase, the anger, hurt and pain, asking why and being left with only the answers you can conjure up. It sounds like you're really struggling though, can I suggest you speak to your doctor about antidepressants, yeah I know also you probably don't want to take them, but it's for a while, I found they did help to calm my brain and stop my own thoughts from overwhelming me. I stopped taking them after a while because I didn't need them anymore. I said focus … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/22 07:33 AM |
| 18 | Is there something wrong with women?Hypergamy That's your answer, check out briffaults law and you'll understand hypergamy. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Briffault Basically hypergamy states that women will always date or marry the higher level guy, when she does, she then feels she is at that level and her hypergamous nature then tells her to seek the next highest man. Men tend to date and marry down because women tend to date across and marry up. Depending on how high up the social or economic scale that guy is, one ste… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/06/22 06:36 AM |
| 5 | I gotta ask, does it ever get better? The hate for your ex wife?Does it get better, yes, no, yes but not in the way you're thinking. It just sort of goes away, you get to a point where hating her is like walking in front of a bus and expecting others to die. Eventually you just sort of give it up, you just sort of stop because it's pointless carrying on hating her. It seriously helps if you're getting on with your life. It seriously helps if you're making a good life for yourself, if you're busy and becoming happy, that really does help. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/06/22 09:05 PM |
| 5 | 3 Years and still dealing with Bitter and Angry ExYou have a few options Understand this is a targeted attempt at controlling you and letting you know she still has power over you.. First let her go for it, don't reply or respond to the emails and letters, let it happen for the rest of the year, she's burning her money not yours. Play nice, pick up your kids as ordered by the court and drop them off. Keep the emails and letters, text messages everything. Get a pen cam, record any and all interactions with her, be a grey rock, keep it to the kid… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/22 10:36 PM |
| 4 | Obese princess demands that you be tall and control your sexual urges when addressing her.Jesus, that is it, I'm taking my eyes out, I really can't see this insane shit anymore | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/06/22 10:23 PM |
| 4 | Why do feminists use "incel" as an insult?Feminists are the quintessential meme for hypocrisy, rave about judging a persons value through sex and use an adhomenim attack by placing a persons value based on sex. If they call you an incel just take that your argument wins because they have no counter argument so go to cheap insults. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/06/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | a clowns view of women, this is the feminist allyNo worries, I was assuming, wrongly, that you understood that the clown was trying to paint the picture that whom he was talking to was mentally challenged, his word was retarded, which is one of the reasons why I used the title I did. Their best allies, consider women as bitches, used in the sexual sense a bitch is purely a fuck toy, worthy of no more respect or consideration than a flesh light. As for people with developmental issues, he is happily referring to people as retarded, personally I… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/06/22 07:07 PM |
| 58 | SmhSo the feminists are now admitting they advocate war bloodshed and violence, but still refuse the draft. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/06/22 09:04 AM |
| 1 | a clowns view of women, this is the feminist allyNothing, why, does a username need to have a meaning | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/06/22 09:03 AM |
| 3 | Moving outIf she truly wanted the marriage to work she would be sticking to you like glue, not like a cheap Chinese suit. No she wants to move out because given the choice it would not have been you, you know it and she knows it. The fact then is he chose his wife, she knows she was used but he probably thought it's a bit of fun for the two of them and that's as far as it will go. She still chose him when it all blew up. Remember that, she didn't choose you. You love her yes, she has mental issues yes, bu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/06/22 06:10 AM |
| 11 | stuck-up feminist thinks men are privileged and is offended by mrasYou can ruin her whole argument by saying Taking the 1% of 1% of men and using that as both a representation and make up of the whole male gender is both a strawman and an outright lie. For the Afghanistan argument, there are many, first ask who she voted for, blame for the situation lies there. Second if it's such an issue for her why is she complaining about to you why not doing it there where it will make a difference. The abortion, why do you care about children in schools but not in the wom… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/06/22 10:54 PM |
| 2 | It seems feminism is great for dating..she is having a grand timeI read that post too and I absolutely know that the men she's taking about did not say those things, they may have said something like it, but then she's either embellishing it to make herself the victim or if they did say those things they aren't really men. What do we have then, truthfully a woman who is utterly insufferable, a nightmare to be around and wholly unfit for any form of relationship playing the victim to absolve herself of any blame for that fact that men might find her attractive… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/06/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | a clowns view of women, this is the feminist allyMaybe but the clown lastly followed up with saying how he spent hours reporting every single post on this sub. I honestly didn't know that wanting true equality, truth and honesty was such a dangerous ideal. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/06/22 06:05 AM |
| 8 | When is divorce an acceptable option?If that's truly what you want then nothing we say is going to change your mind. It sounds though as you're just exhausted and fed up with being taken for granted by your wife. Why are you letting her do it. That's the question, why are you doing the cooking and cleaning etc, why is it not shared. I have a friend who was in the same situation, a really good guy but being taken for granted by his wife. One night after work he got home, the house was messy, dishes not done, waiting for him to cook … | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/22 04:19 PM |
| 0 | Men who are fathers, i implore you, please pay attention to what the world is teaching your kids. It is not pretty at all. FeminismGun control is needed, let's be honest about that, what isn't needed is banning everything just because, doing that papers over the real issue as to why somebody would do something so stupid in the first place as to take a gun into a school and kill the innocent. We have the same issues in the UK, we have some of the strictest gun control anywhere in the world, yet we still get drive by shootings. Stabbing happens almost daily. Ban guns, yeah we effectively have that, but they get smuggled into … | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/05/22 06:19 AM |
| 12 | a clowns view of women, this is the feminist allySorry but the clown is still crying about it and still trying to get people banned, so no it's very much not satire. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/05/22 06:14 AM |
| 4 | Men who are fathers, i implore you, please pay attention to what the world is teaching your kids. It is not pretty at all. FeminismSo I bet you'll claim that reducing people to the value of their sexual organs is actually a bad thing. So you're now the very you claim to hate. So I'll now use your argument in the same way you do. Any woman with a body count higher than her age is be definition used up with a busted vagina. Cry some more. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/05/22 09:49 PM |
| 6 | According to feminists, If you want a house wife then you are very toxic and misogynistic.No, nobody thinks you're actually a man | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/05/22 09:47 PM |
| 2 | According to feminists, If you want a house wife then you are very toxic and misogynistic.I'm also deeply deeply racist, all of my black and Asian friends agree, my girlfriend says I'm massively mysoginistic, my gay friend says I'm rampantly homophobic, my trans junior says I'm a transphobic red neck and my love for trump was so strong I was almost calling him daddy. What else you got because you don't have an argument except for whiny tears. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/05/22 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Men who are fathers, i implore you, please pay attention to what the world is teaching your kids. It is not pretty at all. FeminismThat is the weakest argument of all, you claimed I made a straw man but can't even argue why I did, the laws are clear in Chicago yet it has the highest rate of gun crime in the entire USA, oh yeah solid gun control works. Are you actually that stupid you can't see any nuance, can't understand the fact that somebody who doesn't care about laws will go to a place where it might be easier to get a gun and take that back to a place where guns are effectively outlawed. You are clearly a product of y… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/05/22 09:44 PM |
| 4 | According to feminists, If you want a house wife then you are very toxic and misogynistic.They are projecting, the post is a cope. No sane man, would want to marry one of these subhumans so what do they have besides clown hair and body odour to offer anybody. Nothing, so they have to publish these copes because they know they are essentially walking Darwin awards and nobody on this earth is going to miss any one of them. I say let them have their cry, let them shed their tears, I have not one shred of pity or sympathy for any of them, so let them write and rant and rave, let them do … | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/05/22 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Men who are fathers, i implore you, please pay attention to what the world is teaching your kids. It is not pretty at all. FeminismExactly my point. You see people who want to cause hurt and carnage will find ways to do it, take away one thing and they'll find another. What next ban anything that can be used as a weapon. Ok then we have to ban magazines, pens, razor blades, knives, cars, airplanes, buses, trains, plastic bags, pretty much anything you can think of can be turned into a lethal weapon. Now of course you're limited in the damage you can cause but then I'd argue what's your number, as in what's the allowable num… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/05/22 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Men who are fathers, i implore you, please pay attention to what the world is teaching your kids. It is not pretty at all. FeminismAnd what about those who take a car and drive into a crowd of people, do we restrict access to cars. Ban them too. What about knives or poison. You see all you're doing now is playing the distraction argument, let's slap a bandaid on it and call it a day because it makes us feel better and then we get to forget about it and go on with our lives. What do you do when somebody runs head first through a crowd with a sword. A set of kitchen knives. Ok so we ban them as well. Then what of the next ina… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/05/22 02:50 PM |
| 15 | Men who are fathers, i implore you, please pay attention to what the world is teaching your kids. It is not pretty at all. FeminismYeah this is where school shooters come from, best be prepared for a lot more of that as these young abused boys grow up hateful and angry at women and then explode with rage at younger children. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/05/22 01:28 PM |
| 3 | How do I vacation, alone?So my first one was just a few days away but in my own country. My next one was a meetup with other hikers to hit a big trail for a week. It was really strange but by the second day we were like family. The way to do this is small steps, know that you're allowed to enjoy your time, you're allowed to be miserable, you're allowed to travel and just take time to relax.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/05/22 09:07 PM |
| 10 | She told me she doesn't love meShe told you she doesn't love you. Good, that means you owe her nothing, you don't have to pain shop and try to remain friends while she gets out and gets banged like a drum every night, you don't have to care and you certainly don't have to share space and bills with her. You don't have to be there for her when her life goes to shit, which it will, sooner or later because it always does. You don't owe her any of that. Time to focus on you and now your life has changed what you want it to look l… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/22 05:25 PM |
| 2 | IrritatedYou need some serious therapy, time away in the bush doing man's stuff, why in the hell are you being captain save a hoe for an exwife who wanted her freedom. Try practicing this statement That sounds like a job for a husband Stop enabling her behaviour. She wanted the divorce you owe her nothing more than you're legally required. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/05/22 07:13 AM |
| 12 | What's that aura that some guys project which makes others instantly show respect ? And how do we get it, or is it for some people only?It's a physical and psychological approach. There are a number of tutorials covering that on YouTube. Basically it boils down to that inner confidence that comes from a position of authority, knowledge ability and most importantly competence. Think about it for yourself, how do you stand, where is your head and most importantly your eyes, where are your eyes directed, towards the floor or straight ahead, is your head up, exposing your chin or down hiding it, what about your shoulders are they ba… | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 02:30 PM |
| 17 | Pain, sadness = weightsWeights, running and a martial art. Weights for the self confidence, running for the health benefits and a martial art to not snap in court and rip her head off. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/22 06:50 PM |
| 33 | Girl has crush on taxi driver. Interprets his every move as flirting. Reddit then calls him a pedo because apparently male service workers can’t be nice to their customersWhat's the bets, she will try something he'll say no, she'll decide all men ain't shit and be back on Reddit whining about how she's now a victim of actually nothing but him being professional. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/05/22 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Look at your own life, Do you honestly think your life would be better if you were a woman?Overall probably not, I'd most likely have issues that I'd have to deal with as a woman that men don't have to deal with. Here's the difference though, the men and women of this sub are intelligent enough to recognise that women have issues and men have issues, sometimes they cross over and sometimes they don't. It doesn't take away from women to talk about men's issues but it does take away from men if you make the claim that men cause their own issues or men don't have any issues to begin with… | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/05/22 12:23 PM |
| 28 | What do you guys think about this quora post claiming that Feminist organisation supporting Johnny Depp against Amber Heard?Shallow relevancy. They are using this case as a way to keep themselves relevant by pretending that they gave shit about Ken's issues all along. There isn't a single feminist out there, including men who call themselves feminists who give a seconds time worth of thought to men's issues. These are no different they are just looking for more useful idiots. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/05/22 11:52 AM |
| 6 | Banned for asking “What is a woman? 🤦🏻♂️Well isn't that a little hypocritical, if you cannot define a woman then you cannot define mysoginistic behaviour or attitudes. Clowns gotta clown. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/05/22 09:51 AM |
| 5 | I’ve been called a “pick me” beforeListen you're dealing with people who make themselves look as ugly as physically possible, then get attracted to men who fit the conventional standards and get upset when that man doesn't find them attractive. They are literally eating their own tails, they rage against heteronormative conventional standards, we can use their words to laugh at them, of beauty, and claim to be free of them and do as much as they can to reject them and then get upset when they find a man attractive for the very re… | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/05/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | What's it like walking away from your kids?Was he a father though, or did he just pump and dump. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/05/22 06:24 AM |
| 5 | What's it like walking away from your kids?Yeah you're right, I don't know any fathers who chose to walk, certainly not by themselves, they were pushed to the limit and left with no other choice, like I said though father's, the men you talk of, I don't consider them men and certainly not father's. But yeah I don't know any, because I only allow to be around good men maybe that's why. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/22 08:09 PM |
| 18 | Reconciliation rant…Yeah don't be that sucker for a second time, let her go off and kick rocks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/22 06:48 PM |
| 16 | What's it like walking away from your kids?The question itself is wrongly worded. Nobody I've ever known who has gone through this has walked away from their kids, nobody chose to. People walk because they have no other option, bankruptcy, lawyers or eat, fight the ex-wife and the apparatus of the state just for a few hours of time with them knowing at any moment it can all be pulled away or refuses altogether and nobody will lift a finger to ensure your rights are maintained. People, let's be clear, father's don't choose to walk away, t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/05/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Absolutely disgustingThe reviews and comments slam the book and a few pointed out this is why you cannot ever believe all women. There seems to be some debate over the gender of the author and that's fair, if it were written by a woman though, then all I can say is well done women consistently throw each other under the bus for a few dollars. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/05/22 08:20 AM |
| 24 | Age withheld (guess her age) because at this point in life she is done with CASUAL relationships. Commitment oriented men who are into leathery tits only.Eye of a 1000 cock stare, post wall but running twice as hard to avoid facing up to that fact, doesn't want anything casual but hardly surprising as she's probably been laid more times than a town centre highway. I'll take a very hard pass. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 7 | I think..Yeah it does make sense, I say to men all the damn time, put yourself first, you are no good to anybody else if you're falling apart. That sounds selfish but it truly isn't, you have to take care of yourself, you have to put your needs at the top, in order to deal with everyone else's needs, what good are you to your kids if you can't even feed yourself. We often, in the height of our pain forget that we need to take care of ourselves, and we try to fix the broken things without seeing that we a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/22 08:23 AM |
| 0 | I don’t see an issue…with killing children inside or outside the womb apparently.Just be grateful biology will remove these clown eventually. | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/05/22 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Shit feminists sayYou argue this stupidity by calling her out for justifying violence. You can say, ok then so if a poor man rapes a rich woman it's not rape because she's more powerful than him because of her money and status, that a good one to watch their heads explode But it's far more effective to keep it to the here and now by saying you've just stood for violent behaviour as long as one can claim greater victim points than the other. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/05/22 05:28 PM |
| 5 | "I can already imagine myself having fun convincing IT scrotes of what a good little docile trad wife I am lol" - a FemcelThings that never happened I work in IT and I can tell you from working in many countries that IT people just aren't like that, so either this is totally made up by the fantasists or an example of somebody saying good morning to her and her taking it that she's being hit on. Most women who work in IT actually remind us straight guys why some men are gay so there is also that. Never happened except in her own fantasies. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/05/22 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Can my partners ex request him to pay full price for dentist visits if she’s refusing to use the benefit program that she qualifies for, to cover the costs?It depends on where you live and what the laws are, in some or even many cases yes she can, in others it can be that he will have to pay and amount towards the treatment. Funny isn't it how these laws are the very laws women fought long and hard for and they are only an issue when it affects you personally. Hey ho reap what you sow, sorry but I have zero sympathy this is a system twisted and abused by women for the pleasure of their own abuse. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/22 09:28 PM |
| 5 | You need to accept and kill any hopeAcceptance is key, the sooner you can accept it regardless of how painful it is the sooner you're able to begin to think clearly and deal with the reality of what is rather than the fantasy of what you wish it were. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/22 09:14 PM |
| 30 | Amber Heard (AH=Asshole) VS Johnny DeppIt's not just the Feminists that's the issue it's her male supporters who would literally pay her to shit in their bed, so what can you do, feminists have a stranger danger relationship to reality and there are plenty of turkeys who will vote for Christmas. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/05/22 11:44 AM |
| 2 | They want us to accept them for who they are but then they also wanna hold us to their ridiculously high standards. I'm convinced that there will soon be a huge mating crisis.To all the ladies hanging around this sub, take a good look at what you get blamed for, take a good long look at this garbage, Think for a minute, do you really get to lower your standards and still claim you have the right to expect high standards from him. Take a good look at what others are saying in your name, remind yourself when you are nothing than a plaything for men, when we don't commit to you, when we don't offer to help you, when you are in the bar being ignored because the men of yo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/05/22 09:52 AM |
| 3 | What’s keeping me from asking for a divorce?What's stopping you is that you haven't reached the bottom yet. When you do hit the bottom you won't just ask it will be more likely that it explodes out of you rather than a calm sit down and talk about what's going on. This is because deep down you still have the hope that it can be fixed, that you will be able to do something that turns the light on and she sees what she's doing and how much she is damaging everything. Let's be clear here, that won't happen, it won't happen because as far as … | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/05/22 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Asking for car payment instead child supporthave no loan under my name and clean credit scores. You won't if you agree and sign, please don't do it, please don't be the white knight and please don't let your heart and desire to make sure she's ok overrun your head and good old fashioned common sense. That what she will play on and you know that deep down so don't do it, better yet get a hot iron and hold that against your own hand ever time you think of agreeing to it. Better to lose a few fingers than your home because you allowed her to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/05/22 12:05 PM |
| 10 | I hate her, how can I forgive?It's down to choices, when you choose to stop giving a fuck you'll stop hating, that takes time. When I caught my wife cheating it took me a long time but eventually I said to myself, she chose to do that, she chose to burn it to the ground not me. When somebody makes that choice I can choose how I deal with it, she chose to do that and I chose to stop giving a fuck about her. At that point I stopped hating her, it's really really hard to hate somebody you don't give a shit about. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/22 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Talking Directly to SBTX ..Stop for a second and think about this. She cheated and left the home and is asking for custody, spousal support and the home. No. Don't make the offer, she broke the marriage and abandoned the children, time to counter by demanding child support from her, your income is irrelevant she's the mother and she has a financial duty to those children as much as you do. As for the house, support, no, you don't support her, she damaged you and the family. If you're going to buy her out of the house you … | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/22 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Feminists have impossible standards for men and no standards for themselves.Agreed, however the issue isn't that they exist in every organisation, with regards to feminists and the movement, most organisations, most movements have the majority who are middle of the road, willing to ostracize the extremists and disavow themselves of the extreme elements. Feminism embraces them, holds them higher and pushes them to the front tells the world they speak for the rest of them because they do nothing while the extremists speak. The do nothing while the extremists write and pub… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/05/22 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Feminists have impossible standards for men and no standards for themselves.The old saying if feminists didn't have double standards they'd have no standards at all. The entire movement from start until today is one big exercise in hypocrisy. First wave, cretins of today claim and will actually have the temerity to claim it was an equalist movement but that couldn't be further from the truth. It was universal suffrage as the aim, the right to work and earn money, but they also denied that women should be subject to male treatment such as same punishment for same crimes,… | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/05/22 05:40 PM |
| 11 | Western Men Going overseas to find a wife.That's also not to mention how drastically it sidetracks the plan to reduce the male population. Low tier men going abroad for a wife and showing everyone how happy and content they are makes the higher tier men question what is there actually for them, many of the women who are whining about it would never get a man in a dark room, so even the higher tier men are going abroad. The net result is the women who followed the plan, and it very much is a plan, are losing out and they have nothing but… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/05/22 06:18 PM |
| 21 | Freedom!!!!!Finally some good news for this sub | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/05/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Court Case 50/50Just having a quick look through case law there's not much that you can do here. Your lawyer can file and unreasonable behaviour causing delays and egregiously inflating the costs for the benefit of nobody but that would itself be costly and litigious and lawyers are loathed to try to sue each other. The only thing you can reasonably do is to either ask the court to set a firm date and breach of that be contempt, or ask your ex-wife to be firm with her lawyer to attend the court date. There is c… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/22 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Divorce with young childrenIf it were just BPD then treatment and medication. The fact that there is abuse involved, that's enough, don't wait. File and start the process because waiting is just going to make it worse. File and don't worry about the children, if you let your lawyer know why you're filing they will have a duty of care towards the children to ensure that you have access or custody. As for feeding them, it's super easy, many say that if they are on the breast then swapping to bottles causes confusion for the… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/22 06:14 AM |
| 2 | Divorce with young childrenWait, what is it you want a divorce for, has she been cheating on you. Is she abusing you and throwing things at you, is she tossing you out of the house when she gets upset or are you just finding being a parent hard. I'm asking because we're all her for men who are going through a divorce from a seriously shitty marriage, abuse is far more common for men to suffer than people let on, or even acknowledge. Men who have been the best father and husband and unlucky enough to love a really shitty w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/22 09:58 PM |
| 3 | Should my wife keep my name if she wants to divorce me?In the end it's just a name, if she wants to fall herself Stephen Strange, what do you care, don't think about it, don't get sidetracked on bullshit points if reference or you're going to allow yourself to get bogged down by those things and miss her lawyer shafting you. If she wants to keep a nam let her, you change yours back to what it was, she won't be welcome at your family, she won't be getting gifts or calls from your family and if any do want to talk to her be sure to let them know exact… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | What changes would need to be made to marriage for you to consider marrying again?Nothing, everything. It really doesn't matter anymore, it's way past the point that it's something I'd ever consider again. Change the laws, good for you let's get married and I sit and watch as they quickly get changed again. No fucking thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | How do I protect myself?Exactly and I now use my friends argument, give me one legal, moral or social argument that I cannot refute and I'll get married, so far nobody is able to. Guess marriage is a bad idea then. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/22 09:37 AM |
| 3 | How do I protect myself?I have a good friend who says this, give me one, just one social, legal or moral argument that cannot be refuted and I'll get married. The truth then is you can only protect yourself so far, keep everything separate, hell, live in separate houses if you have to. Get a prenup, a good lawyer will cost you dearly but a divorce will cost you a lot more, a good prenup will take care of future earnings. Pray that your prenup is accepted in the court when you eventually get divorced. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/22 06:09 AM |
| 5 | Best case scenario maybe?Ok so stop contemplating it, she's abusing you with that threat. She knows that she doesn't have anything else to use against you so she goes to that because it's every man's nightmare, she wins because she holds that power over you. She's also a but dumb, as a rule you've not mixed anything so untangling everything will be so much easier. I know that's reductive but it makes zero sense to anybody, a marriage where everything is separate is always easier to go through a divorce. So what do you d… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/05/22 06:39 AM |
| 2 | I really envy you guysYou mean to say that you don't yet. You haven't yet found the bottom. You think you have but you're still saying to yourself if I do this she'll change and things will get better. There will come a point at which you'll be saying I've done everything, there is nothing left to try and no matter what she won't change because she's happy as she is and my pain is her enjoyment. At that point you'll leave. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/05/22 04:04 PM |
| 4 | I follow r/feminism just to see what's going on there, sometimes it makes my brain hurtYes but your issue is that you've taken a rational approach to the subject, they don't like that. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/05/22 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Feminists, thank God for cats.Turn up with a sense of humour and dropping truth bombs and wonder why you got banned. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/05/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm feeling Schadenfreude over the Roe v. Wade decision. I honestly don't really care about abortion. But I love seeing the tidal wave of angry comments from women about how their government has let them down.If there is one thing I've learned more than any other since joining Reddit is those who argue with balance and are prepared to call out the bullshit of others usually gets voted down, mainly because those doing the down voting are the very people I'm referring to. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/22 09:09 PM |
| -1 | I'm feeling Schadenfreude over the Roe v. Wade decision. I honestly don't really care about abortion. But I love seeing the tidal wave of angry comments from women about how their government has let them down.I'm on the fence, here in the UK we've had abortion as necessary for a good few years, largely though most women are against it as a right or the kind played in the USA is a form of healthcare, most women see it is something that applies only in extremely strict circumstances. I do think that it's funny, only a few months ago these were the very same people shouting at everyone that it's not your body and not your choice so get the vaccine and wear a mask. I also think it's funny because these a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/05/22 03:22 PM |
| 1 | these people are so deluded it kinda makes me laugh 🤧This post is brilliant and we should encourage it. The more of this the better. Of course everyone is going to be like wtf, why would you say that but allow me to give a thought here. They out themselves as cretins, totally undateable and unlovable such that men don't want to share a room with them let alone a bed and rationale women don't like them either. So let them speak, let them shout and rant within their own bubble and hate men as much as they want, inevitably they are walking Darwin awa… | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/05/22 09:05 AM |
| 7 | I hate TikTokWhy the surprise is beyond me, if boys are labelled abusers from cradle to grave simply by virtue of being boys and nuance and context is ignored for the ideology then this is the inevitable result. Mentally ill individuals who are extremely easy to manipulate will inevitably carry out acts like this and they will do it in the name of feminism, so to any feminist lurking here, yes their deaths are your responsibility, their deaths are because of you. This is what you stand for. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/05/22 08:29 AM |
| 5 | What are some not so obvious red flags us younger men should look out for?Relationship to family How she talks about her exes, a clear one but bears reminding you. How she treats others, especially those who are serving her, or too busy to serve her straight away. Watch how she behaves when you say no, her behaviour to this word should tell you to stay or run. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/22 03:33 PM |
| 3 | FSW all you can do is move the goalposts; it's pathetic Feminists view Depp getting justice as some kind of 'loss' of equality...Classic, equality feels like oppression to the privileged | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 29/04/22 10:21 AM |
| 2 | I caught my wife cheating two months ago after we just got back together last year. I filed for divorce now she’s saying she doesn’t want a divorce. It’s really messing with me.Your post is exactly why marriage should be abolished, even men who think they control their lives actually sacrifice too much of themselves to make it work. They give up too much of their own stake in their lives for the sake of a marriage and family. Most of the time without realising they've done it. Don't get me wrong here I believe in marriage, both the institution and the vows being sacrosanct, I just don't see it as being compatible with modern life and the way most women behave today. Th… | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/22 06:16 AM |
| 4 | I caught my wife cheating two months ago after we just got back together last year. I filed for divorce now she’s saying she doesn’t want a divorce. It’s really messing with me.Why is it messing with you, why is what she wants a problem for you, shouldn't what you want be the issue. Shouldn't what you want be the driver here, not what she wants. You need to look at yourself here, I can tell you deep down why she cheated is because she has no respect for you, take a look at your post and you'll see why. She do any respect you because you don't decide your life for yourself, she leads you. Now that divorce is becoming reality she knows she's going to lose her doormat, he… | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/04/22 06:06 AM |
| 9 | A little thought experimentYou're assuming this has never been done before, men will do what they e always done which is to accept the world is a big place and go somewhere else. The eventual outcome is women will vote for their own mysoginy, they will opt for it because they lose more in the other case. A few examples then, ancient Rome, the Roman army paid it's generals and captains in land, the men were paid in gold or silver. They at some point enacted laws which protected wives and children from being thrown out of t… | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/04/22 09:48 AM |
| 2 | If you get married you’re a fucking IDIOTI totally agree with you dude. The vast majority are shallow selfish creatures grifting. I can't do monk mode so respect to you for that, but marriage again, I'd sooner cut my own balls off with a rusty knife than take that risk again. No woman, no matter how nice she plays the game is always playing a game, the only trouble is you never get to know the rules. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/04/22 05:47 PM |
| 2 | She Filed, what are my next steps?We both desire to be amicable and equitable I’m the process. You mean you would like it to be amicable but I absolutely assure you she will go directly for the jugular and rip both your heart and intestines out and parade them to you. She will not be amicable, if she wanted that a 50/50 custody agreement would be a given and a formality. Suggestion has been thrown put that we use the same lawyer. No shit, she's already told them a bunch of shit which makes jack the ripper look like Mary Poppins,… | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/04/22 08:01 PM |
| 5 | HmmmmThey are advertising themselves to a Darwin award, surely they are aware there is a higher number of insanely attractive women out there who would be happy with a burger a beer and good conversation and couldn't give two fucks for a Gucci bag. So take note every man on this sub, in this case we should absolutely do as they say. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/04/22 11:51 PM |
| 10 | Lessons LearnedDon't get married Don't ignore red flags because you want to get your dick wet | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/04/22 06:22 AM |
| 3 | Gender role reversal and divorceYou aren't alone, I know of many men who when given the chance opted to be the stay at home one and watched as their marriage failed because the wife in turn resented the husband or viewed the men as less than men. So you aren't alone. Data and statistics show that the likelihood of divorce jumps to a very high number when the wife earns more than the husband. Think about this for a fact though. You cannot negotiate attraction, now think also about this, women outearn men now in most large citie… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/04/22 08:44 PM |
| 2 | She is giving hints that she misses me. Im not strong. Opinions? advice? help?Whatever you decide dude, you got it sewn up, you sound like you're handling your shit really well and that's good because it's all you now, you and your daughter's, and that's priceless. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/22 09:00 AM |
| 1 | United Kuckdom to discriminate against men when it comes to refugees.Would she go to jail, no, the law doesn't account for that. Is this something that remains on the books, no, it was introduced only a few years ago. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/04/22 08:37 AM |
| 2 | She is giving hints that she misses me. Im not strong. Opinions? advice? help?Dude you know this yourself, as you said it hut while typing it all out, you already know this, all you needed was outside perspective to make it crystal clear to you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/22 08:37 AM |
| 6 | She is giving hints that she misses me. Im not strong. Opinions? advice? help?It always makes me smile when I see a man get that penny drop and suddenly he knows his worth and doesn't run back into that trap. Yeah she's after steady dick, steady income and steady babysitting. You'd fill that role perfectly. Her current is having the exact same issues with her as you did and the penny is starting to drop for her, maybe she's the issue but if I get you back then I can't be the issue because you and I are divorced and you came back. She knows she's getting older, she goes ou… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/22 01:11 AM |
| 16 | I actually made a girl re-evaluate how she's treating men in her life. Small, but real change. I hope this inspires you all to keep at it.Yeah agreed, she also now has an explanation for why she does it and will happily brag to her friends, yeah I'm doing it as revenge for all the shit I've had to put up with from them. The op would have had a better result by saying the following, of course you know that you're doing it out of revenge for your past but do you understand that shit guys aren't born they are made, so what do you say to the next woman who gets treated like shit because of the cycle you perpetuate. You're doing this t… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 05:21 PM |
| 6 | had this conversation with a feminstI used to think the same until I spent time reading through their threads and watching their mods ban anybody with a logical conclusion or facts or even different set of experiences. As I've said they have already made up their minds, you won't change them, engaging with them is like smashing your head into a brick wall, you get a scar and the wall is unchanged. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 05:16 PM |
| 12 | had this conversation with a feminstI've always found any feminist will always take any data you give them and slant it to paint it as a woman's issue You'll say men die in work at higher rates than women They'll say Men choose more dangerous jobs but it's women who are left dealing with the impact. I'm my experience even the cretins who claim to be open minded and actually care are playing chameleon, they are doing it to get you to engage and give them attention, they take their daddy issues and project them to every man and ever… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 08:01 AM |
| 2 | United Kuckdom to discriminate against men when it comes to refugees.Absolutely no joke at all, and yes who determines what's looking and what's staring. Just as an extra, you can also be fined heavily for sexual abuse in the UK for calling a woman a bitch or any female associated derogatory term, so imagine you're in the middle of an argument with a woman and you call her a bitch, yup you can get the fuzz visiting you cuffs at the ready. Even if she doesn't press charges somebody else hearing it can and that's you getting reamed. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/04/22 07:13 AM |
| 7 | United Kuckdom to discriminate against men when it comes to refugees.Yes but if you think that's bad go through London, so called staring at a woman gets you fined £1000, the only thing here is there isn't a definitive point at which looking becomes staring and no rule that applies to all, so look at one all you want but catch the eye of another and you'll get picked up by the cops. Welcome to the ukistan | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/04/22 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Feminist murders husbandI have beratted and insulted you simply because that is the sum total of all you're worth to me. Claiming that because I won't do the research is because I haven't done it is another example of how you'll twist anything said to fit your world view. Address a problem, bullshit, you won't address anything unless you can make it an issue that affects women more than men, you are the classic women suffer more in war than the men who die. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/04/22 06:19 AM |
| 7 | Banned from menslib…Yeah you could have brought it forward in better terms but you need to understand that sub isn't anything about men's issues it's about how to feminise men and make us subservient to women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/22 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Feminist murders husbandThree search engines yeah sure. I don't care about the problems, wrong, I don't care about anything you bring up, your thoughts and opinions are worth less than your pu&&y. As I said, I won't do the research for you, I have zero desire to build any bridges with any of your kind, you burned them long ago, I care nothing for you and anything you speak about regardless of how you wish to paint it, I've been exposed to you cretins too many times to have any faith in anything you say or stand for. Th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/22 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Feminist murders husbandSuggest you stop using Google any search results they don't like or don't agree with their narrative gets blocked or removed, use a better search engine. As for your bias or lack thereof for cancer, again you seem so determined to get across to me how much you care while ignoring that there is no point talking to me simply because I couldn't care less about you or your family or the cretins that spewed you onto the earth, better they all die than have to suffer your insane bullshit. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Hello. My one and only(hopefully) divorce court date is in a couple of weeks. What type of attire should I come to court in? I was thinking 3 piece suit. Would that be too much and would that be frown upon on the judge? Thank youFuck me sideways I never even thought of that one, agree with you though if you look too good they'll think you've massaged the numbers and begin to look deeper and dig deeper and then slap extra on top. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/22 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Feminist murders husbandYou're assuming I want to work with you here, that I give a single shred of shit about you or your family issues or your worries, looking through your profile I can say you're a strong independent woman who don't need no man, why the fuck then would I give a single shit about you or your issues. Your right to expect anything other than the same shit in equal measure that men have to deal with is all you get. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Hello. My one and only(hopefully) divorce court date is in a couple of weeks. What type of attire should I come to court in? I was thinking 3 piece suit. Would that be too much and would that be frown upon on the judge? Thank youTrust me that unless she's the biggest clown out there she will be doing the same, it's about how others see you, turn up in your work clothes and they'll think you don't give a crap about how serious the situation is, you want to tell them through what you wear you aren't there to fuck around, that you know the full gravity of it all. A business suit or dark blue, gray, even black suit tells them that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/22 11:23 AM |
| 2 | we always hear about the divorce, but not often about reconciliation.There is a reconciliation sub not exactly sure what it's called but search it out. Read through it and you'll find may e 1/1000 posts and comments that are not filled with sheer and utter regret over deciding to reconcile. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/22 11:01 AM |
| 4 | Hello. My one and only(hopefully) divorce court date is in a couple of weeks. What type of attire should I come to court in? I was thinking 3 piece suit. Would that be too much and would that be frown upon on the judge? Thank youOk dude listen In some cases a pair of clean jeans and nice top and jacket is enough. This isn't it, you're trying to present yourself to the court as somebody who at least as far as clothing and getting dressed goes you have your shit together. Wear a suit, 3-piece, you can drop the tie, make sure it's well fitting and appropriate for the venue or you'll look like a clown and be judged more harshly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/04/22 10:58 AM |
| 5 | Ex-wife (39F) is going homeless. Our 2 daughters (4F & 6F) are moving in with me (33M) but I refuse to let my ex-wife move in to my house.Personally I think that he's right regardless of what others think, she wanted the divorce he owes her nothing his daughters are truly his only concern. What happens to her is her doing. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 13/04/22 08:23 AM |
| 2 | Emma Watson Goddamn! 🧔♀️Two things I think of when I see these photos First she's a raging hypocrite She claims that she doesn't want women values for their looks but probably spent hours in front of the mirror getting the hair and makeup just right to try to look just attractive enough to not feel like shit when she sees the photos in the media, rank hypocrisy Second, she really didn't age well, enough said. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/22 08:11 AM |
| 4 | Attempt to defend a woman who tried to trap and rape a guy because he rejected herThat's really messed up and the onus was on him to stay out of anything until he got himself sorted and wasn't going to repeat damaging cycles. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/22 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Feminist murders husbandI'm admitting to nothing, you on the other hand proved my point precisely, no matter what is said, no matter what evidence is provided your mind is already made up. The data you so desperately want is as easy to find as a Google search, it's out in the public domain, freely available for anybody but you won't do that because facts might make you question your own religion, and who will you be if you actually found men get it harder in some areas than women.. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/04/22 06:11 AM |
| 4 | Feminist murders husbandConclude exactly what you want, you're otherwise telling me that out of every feminist trolling this sub you're the I lay one who hadn't already made their mind up, we all know even if the evidence were stuffed full up your arse you'd still twist like a pretzel to deny it or shape it to suit your own religion. Fuck off time waster, go back to your daddy issues. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Apparently only women can feel like prisoners if they have a kidDon't rush, kids are hard work and put untold pressure on a couple and really test your ability to keep focused and remind yourselves that you are a team. It gets hard, sleepless nights, I thought I'd experienced them while in the army but not like with kids, after about three months I am sure I was hallucinating. Then there is the flip side, the first words, first time they say mom or dad, first steps, first tooth, first time they do the Christmas play at school, first time using the toilet pro… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 09:18 PM |
| 6 | Feminist murders husbandHey snowflake you're ranting at the wrong comment, not surprised Feminists usually get their wires crossed, no need to ovary-act though just try again, have another shot at it and try your faux indignation at the right person this time. Better yet why not wait until the training wheels have come off and maybe you'll be allowed to speak with the grown-ups | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Feminist murders husbandBreast cancer in men is an extremely rare event, so benefits both is a stretch and that's being fair. As for a source, do your own research, feminists love to claim they are great at that it shouldn't be an issue for you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 09:03 PM |
| 7 | Feminist murders husbandThen you perhaps aren't aware that prostate cancer kills more men per year than any of the variants of breast cancer, the only issue is that medical spending is 3/4 for women, so men only ever see 1/4 of the total amount spent, here's the kicker for you. A few years ago men tried to raise money for research, Feminists stopped it through the courts and made sure that the money going towards men's issues was redirected back. Here's the fun bit, in nearly all cases of prostate cancer if it's caught… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 05:54 PM |
| 8 | Feminist murders husbandi meant stereotypes about what sports is fit for men or women Nobody ever says that, if they do you're listening to the wrong people, change your friends would be my suggestion here. The boys like blue and girls like pink only existed because we gendering colors, THEY ARE FUCKING COLORS and we teach them which color is "suitaible" for them at such young age, isn't it a bit weird Boys like blue because they have been shown over and over again to favour darker primary colours, while girls favour m… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 04:32 PM |
| 7 | Can’t do this anymoreI was where you are my man, a bridge for me. It gets better, that feeling goes, in some cases it takes a little help, antidepressants if you're struggling, please speak to your doctor, they do make you feel numb for a while but that's also a good thing. Just keep going because it really does get better. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/22 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Apparently only women can feel like prisoners if they have a kidI'd like to say I'm surprised but truthfully I'm really not, personally I do have two even though I only get to see one now he's over 18. If one choses to not have children that's their choice, but that is their choice, they have no right now to say I never want kids and then whine later on when they do but nobody wants kids with them, for those that truly don't want them I say good luck and hope with all sincerity that your life works out as you planned. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 02:27 PM |
| 16 | Feminist murders husbandequal opportunity Already exists in the west, in fact girls have more opportunities than boys, so as far as a feminist goes you're pretty pathetic in meeting that first requirement. However to cover your own hypocrisy you'll rely on the tired old adage of personal choice, so explain why it's personal choice when it benefits women but not when it benefits men. boys and girls are being raised without pointlessly gendering toys, colors and sports Tried that, explain to the women who are losing out … | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 11:33 AM |
| 7 | Feminist murders husbandExplain what you mean by that exactly, because all feminists I've asked can't explain it, in most cases they actually want equality of outcomes so explain it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 11:08 AM |
| 5 | Apparently only women can feel like prisoners if they have a kidWe shouldn't confuse this with feminism, that is a child free sub so it's largely going to be an echo chamber of mostly women telling each other how horrible it is to raise a child. Most of them in that sub are, if you read their posts carefully, coping, secretly they deep down do want a child and husband or wife but it's never worked out for them so they use the sub as a crutch to cope because facing up to the reality of their choices is often too hard to bear. I think then this is the case, th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 11:01 AM |
| 27 | Feminist murders husbandSo tell me what are the requirements to be a feminist. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 10:03 AM |
| – | Anyone else getting a "red-flag" spidey sense vibe?This runs into a whole cycle of women's issues, with themselves. They'll pick the douchebag and then whine about how he treats her like crap, usually then following on from that is how they'll extend their personal experience to all men and by extension all women suffer the same. Now of course this isn't true, not all men and not all women, but the difference here is how they'll refuse to take responsibility for their choices. It's very similar behaviour that we see with only fans account owners… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Casual Misandry at my school today (part 2 -_-)Winner, look avoiding people is the fast track to a lonely life, I seriously do not advocate that, I also do not advocate for marriage, as much as I believe in it, the laws are just to one sided. Here's what I say to all men who begin to get pushed by their families to get married. You say this First find a woman worthy of marriage and then look at her social media, see what she says about marriage, family and children and most importantly divorce. Then understand that's the life you'll have me … | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 06:23 AM |
| 4 | had this argument with a feministMetoo. It's a common thing I see when discussing anything with anybody on Reddit, people try to intimidate others by claiming they are something they very much aren't. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 06:19 AM |
| 2 | had this argument with a feministWho said anything about that sub being full of work lazy people, it figures because she's obtained an education that means she's not skilled enough for anything other than stacking shelves and wants to earn a six figure salary for doing less than the bear minimum, I've also read that sub and have seen most of the posts there being along the following My boss asked me to work this Saturday, I said it's my day off... | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Casual Misandry at my school today (part 2 -_-)Obviously not in the literal sense, that's not possible, avoid marriage, short term relationships, don't cohabitate, don't raise another man's children. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/04/22 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Should I tell?I know because I've been there, I know she won't be honest and I know she won't accept the terms of the divorce, she's already going for the jugular as it is with her lies and bs, in my view the op is being left with two choices. Keep his mouth shut, lose his friends, family, community, and face life alone possibly having to leave the area and start over as a stranger. Out her with honesty, take the slings and arrows that will be hurled at him, out the church members who threw him under the bus … | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/22 08:24 PM |
| 8 | had this argument with a feministAn every day dunning-kruger effect, sadly we see that daily with Feminism. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/04/22 08:19 PM |
| 7 | had this argument with a feministFigures | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/04/22 08:17 PM |
| 10 | Should I tell?She will do that to the kids anyway, do you think she's telling lies now to save you or to save her. This isn't retaliation, it's truth, the divorce won't be anymore difficult because if that, she's laying her arse off as it is do you seriously think she's going to walk into that court room and be honest. Dude you need to find where she hid your balls, out the bitch and let everyone be honest about it, yes she will try to turn your kids but do you know something, kids are far smarter than we giv… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/22 02:33 PM |
| 26 | Should I tell?Listen dude truthfully you've already lost everything, your community, friends and family think you're evil.. You have only the truth on your side now so drop her in the shit be out and honest with everyone and hold nothing back.. You might get blamed more, fuck it that's alright happening to you anyway. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/22 02:18 PM |
| 113 | had this argument with a feministThat went about as well as I would have expected it to go, you dumped a load of facts on her and even though she claimed to have studied it for four years wasn't able to give you anything in return except for stating she just worked a 12 hour shift. That tells me two things Her education is useless for anything other than overnight shelf stacking and two She's really never had anybody question her view of the world | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/04/22 01:33 PM |
| 11 | Casual Misandry at my school today (part 2 -_-)Yeah look the whole of the western world knows that India is a fucked country as far as being male goes, you are just fodder for the whims of women and we all know how classist the women there are. Best to accept it and make your life as good as you can and avoid women, soon enough though you'll have that forced onto you anyway. | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/04/22 12:36 PM |
| 7 | ‘Not all men’ and the insane level of feminist hypocrisyYes I argues with one a few weeks ago over something, I generalised all feminists simply because they assign the group label to themselves and she could not see how it applies both ways around. The end result was for me to say in response, I'm sure some of the Nazis weren't all bad by her logic, funny how quiet she went after that. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/04/22 09:41 PM |
| 3 | "The more I stay with him, the more money I will get". My security camera recorded her words. My lawyer says this would not help in court.Shouldn't she punished, for what exactly, being a woman, doing what women do. Would you be punish for being a man. Why, the divorce is going to hammer you anyway, why are you thinking of revenge, you haven't even started the divorce yet. Speak to your lawyer, find out what you can file for, reject no fault if needs be and file for fraud and cite the evidence you have. That will count if your lawyer has enough balls to go down that road.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/22 06:27 PM |
| 2 | "The more I stay with him, the more money I will get". My security camera recorded her words. My lawyer says this would not help in court.So what's the problem, just go to your lawyer and tell him to start the process immediately, you know what her plans are so why wait when waiting for her to do it is going to be hell for you and even more costly. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/22 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Why is the public perception of a "good man" always "a man who is appeasing to women"?The public's perception if a good man is always one who is appeasing to women is because men are judged on their utility towards society and most importantly towards women. A man who won't risk his life for a woman is useless to society, a man who won't work for the benefit of women is deemed useless to society. Think of any man you know who avoids dating and relationships, doesn't spend his money or waste time on women, he might well be very financially secured and have a good physique but thin… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/04/22 08:16 AM |
| 4 | If TRAs could convince TERFs to stop hating men, there wouldn't be any more TERFs.There isn't a gender pay gap, unless of course you're willing to argue that one exists and should also be closed when it affects men. The latest data shows that in US cities more women out earn men, so in truth then if we're going to talk about closing a gap we now need to be paying men more. But wait, what about personal choice, hours worked etc, yeah as I said there is no gap, you cannot explain away the gap when it applies to men without the same explanation when it applies to women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/04/22 05:41 AM |
| 0 | If TRAs could convince TERFs to stop hating men, there wouldn't be any more TERFs.It's all projection. Life for a woman involves a lot of social violence from other women (as opposed to physical violence -- they are more likely to intentionally ruin your relationships with other people instead of hitting you), and they are conditioned from a young age (possibly by their mothers) that they need to fall in line or they will suffer. Agreed even Erin Pizzey stated herself in a very good open documentary it's where the phrase the personal is political came from, women usually whit… | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/04/22 10:07 PM |
| 4 | If TRAs could convince TERFs to stop hating men, there wouldn't be any more TERFs.It's all projection. Life for a woman involves a lot of social violence from other women (as opposed to physical violence -- they are more likely to intentionally ruin your relationships with other people instead of hitting you), and they are conditioned from a young age (possibly by their mothers) that they need to fall in line or they will suffer. Agreed even Erin Pizzey stated herself in a very good open documentary it's where the phrase the personal is political came from, women usually whit… | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/04/22 10:07 PM |
| 22 | If TRAs could convince TERFs to stop hating men, there wouldn't be any more TERFs.You might be right but let's take a step back because this is going to get quite funny. I don't think in reality many of us in this sub actually have any care for any woman who runs with the terf label, furthermore when you understand that they've actually done it to themselves you can't help but hold onto a sense of irony. At least five years ago they were very hard pushing that there is no difference between men and women, that women can do anything a man can do, and by anything they meant any… | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/04/22 08:21 PM |
| 3 | Im just ready for the next part alreadyOk so first, she wants the divorce not you but you are giving that to her because there's not much else you can do. Second her mental illness is not your concern now, only your child's welfare. Her mental illness is for her to deal with. This speech about being soul mates and her person is bs, it is keeping you close so when the shit hits the fan she has a safety net, you will suffer while she gets through it all and then blames you for it at the other end, don't allow yourself to be in that pos… | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/22 08:02 AM |
| 3 | it astounds me that so many men are feministWhen you have feminists jump into social media and say I have a scan tomorrow I don't know whether it's a girl or an abortion it's not hard to see why so many men are the proverbial turkey who votes for Christmas. Then of course there are the scum bag men who say that purely because they think it will guarantee them access to a woman. | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/04/22 02:43 PM |
| 2 | FSW 4th Wavers "protesting natalists" by not having children really isn't the big middle finger they think it is; no sane person wants a 4th wave Feminist responsible for raising a male child anyway.On balance they do have some points Men and women are fodder for taxes, true. Women are the only ones of the human race capable of giving birth, also true When the environment is below acceptable levels an organism does not breed, also true. Aside from that it's mostly man hating and insane one sided views as in their experience applies to all women everywhere. | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 06/04/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Time is of the essence, confused by feelings.Stockholm syndrome and trauma bonding. What you're feeling now is valid and normal, it's because you're inner whiteknight is telling you to protect the mother of your kids because she's their mother and you loved her once. It takes a while to work this out and to be able to remove it, keep focussing on the fact that your kids are more important than her. You're a man so this bit will be easy for you, do the maths here, they are more vulnerable than she is, she is the adult they are the children … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Stories about prenups working?I've lived in the UK and the USA and I k ow they can work I've heard from lawyers who claim they can but personally I've never experienced that and I've never actually heard from anybody who had one that it worked. You get married if you want, speak to your lawyer and get their advice on the prenup, your lawyer will tell you how likely it is to work in your area, as that's what law gets applied to it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/22 06:02 AM |
| 2 | insurance for kidsI don't think so, she chose that as a cost herself so she doesn't have any right to demand you pay half. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/22 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How is to verify Zelle payments ?Payments like that can be worked out in a few ways. Each pays half to the recipient, each has a trace of their payments made. An amount to be paid, usually half, is agreed upon and paid by you to her or her to you and either you or her pays the recipient with copies of receipts sent to the other for their records. The half amount is added into any child support and paid from that total amount, as long as the child support is paid in full and on time the person getting the child support has no ri… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/04/22 11:03 AM |
| 14 | Posted to a Feminism subreddit... is the event depicted accurate? Or is this another "Feminist facts" circle-schlick moment?Basically no it's bullshit https://www.news-medical.net/health/Cesarean-Section-History.aspx#:~:text=The%20history%20of%20caesarean%20section,had%20died%20while%20giving%20birth. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/04/22 07:06 AM |
| 4 | Is there really a 50% chance of this happening?Is there really a chance of fucking course there is, the data is out there so why would you think that you are any different. It depends on where you live and what the laws are of course in some places it can be higher than 50% in others lower but it averages out at 50%. You say you've spotted red flags, so don't get married to this one, simple, in fact don't get married at all. There is no legal or moral imperative to get married today anyway. It's just a cost, a single day costing thousands fo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/04/22 07:00 AM |
| 8 | When I should I report cheater to HR?This is an extremely dangerous game you'd be playing just for empty revenge. Let's say you speak up and tell HR, what's to stop your ex playing her own game, and saying to HR that you beat her but only in areas where bruises won't show and the other guy was a shoulder to cry on. Let's say that she doesn't say that, let's instead say that HR turn to you and say so what, staff private lives has nothing to do with the company. In both cases you look like an asshole out for petty revenge, totally un… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/22 02:21 PM |
| 6 | Meet Lainey Molnar, Vapid Feminist Cartoonist Who Holds Low Standards for Women, Very High Standards for Men, and is By All Means a Bad Influence in the Culture and on Young Women (Last two are a parody)Frankly this just encompasses the entire mindset of feminists, vapid and without logic. If a relationship that ends is a short successful relationship then by definition no relationship either long or short is a failed relationship. If that's the case then there is nothing for either party to learn from and nothing to improve themselves for, no failure remember, so no need to improve, no need to grow and learn. Similarly if there is no failure then there is no need to work at a relationship beca… | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/04/22 08:51 AM |
| 1 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentExactly, that would be the consensus for pretty much all in this sub. They just don't get that if you ask for something and you get it, you got what you wanted. They really are a joke. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/03/22 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentEquality feels like oppression to the privileged. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/03/22 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentYou assumed I knew who you were talking about when you're adding a comment to my post, ergo "you" references the person making the post not the person in the original post or the person making the comment as referenced by my post. Stop with the emotional outburst, it's immature and adds nothing.. Instead you, you yourself could have easily said a female only gym can be built, under the law change that would have been clearly wrong. You, you yourself could have said, what do I care if a female on… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 08:46 PM |
| 11 | Young women earn more than young men in several U.S. cities (Should this wage gap be fixed?)I guess that dating now means she has to pay. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentPoint missed totally. Actually just ranting through emotions and providing nothing of benefit other than essentially reeeeeeee feeelings. Funny that you assume I'm a woman though, proving your rant is just emotional bs. Try using logic and reasoned argument instead. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentI don't know of anywhere in the entire UK or the USA where there are men only gyms, or clubs or meetings or anything. I'm happy to be corrected but so far I don't know of any, this change just ensures the fact that if men are not allowed any then equality is as equality does. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentYeah I noticed that too, another irony that they missed. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentOk I'm not really sure what your point is here, are you saying that it's ok to have equality when it suits and preferential treatment when it suits. Because at the moment that's what it sounds like you're saying. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 08:22 PM |
| 4 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentOk so what the hell was wrong with male only gyms, nothing but feminists wanted to end that in the name of equality, equality it seems finally has started to work both ways. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentWell yes that's exactly what it is, exactly as they claim to want | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 08:19 PM |
| 6 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentThen you're missing the point, at least five years ago there was apart from genitals absolutely no difference between men and women. The irony is that every single space that caters only to men is or has been sued to either extinction or very near to allow and admit women. They have fought through the courts and won over and over, gyms, men's clubs, men's mental health services, have all been forced to admit women, often at the expense of the men using those services as the services are forced t… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 05:48 PM |
| 4 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentAnother brilliant point there and again something they reap what they have sown | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentWell that's another issue they rant about, the thing is that at least five years ago feminists were shouting about being inclusive, that there is no distinction between men and women, that apart from the outward genitals there is absolutely no difference, now they are getting creamed in sports and woman of the year is biologically a man they want their spaces and gendered bathrooms. And still they wonder why they get laughed at and called clowns | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 05:15 PM |
| 5 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentYou reap what you sow. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 04:09 PM |
| 6 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentBingo | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentTrue but we already know that, it's highly likely these comments are coming from people who've never actually seen the inside of a gym, the issue is first they want inclusive spaces and entry to mens areas and now they have it coded in law they want their own spaces again. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentYes exactly, they got what they wanted and now they still aren't happy. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentI remember seeing that on the news, what the true issue was though if that toxic clown had shut up long enough she would have understood they aren't insured to cut wens hair only men's, hence the sign, nothing to do with sexism and everything to do with skills and costs. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentWouldn't we all. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 04:03 PM |
| 9 | Oh the irony of the post and the commentI was thinking, as you've probably guessed, they sue and argue to get entry to male only spaces and now whine when female only spaces are banned. But you're point is both funny and true and something I didn't think about. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/03/22 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Grab ya 🍿 boys, the shows not over 😈😈Exactly and that's my point, you've proven why you get shouted at, instead of being the open minded feminist you claim to be I put a few things into your hands. Instead of taking the time to read and understand you run away, proving that you too want to be able to shout at everyone, scream at us not all feminists but proving that yes all feminists. You especially do not even want to consider that there are two sides, there is your world view and your experience and that must be true of all peopl… | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/03/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Grab ya 🍿 boys, the shows not over 😈😈Here to learn, that's easy, it's about accepting facts, if you make a statement, for example regarding domestic abuse and then overly generalise it, you can expect two things first people will get pissy about it because you are the one showing bad faith and people will throw facts back at you and you can also expect that, you opened the can of worms. One of our favourites is "feminists want equality" yet not one is able to explain why when something is male dominated they want entry but when som… | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/03/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Grab ya 🍿 boys, the shows not over 😈😈We could yes but most people want to shout at others and ignore any evidence that challenges their view, even when the evidence is presented to them. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/03/22 08:51 PM |
| 4 | Hahaha! Wait what?This is what's puzzling me, that very sub was raging for days when a woman was raped on a train in braid daylight and nobody stepped up, where are all the good men, this just shows men are scum etc. Now when a man does, this just shows men are scum etc. As far as I'm concerned they just continually announce to the world that they are just children and Feminism is a shit test. Tell them no and they'll go off quietly. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/03/22 04:08 PM |
| 33 | Grab ya 🍿 boys, the shows not over 😈😈Yeah they do that because they've read your argument decided you're correct and they have nothing to argue with, you can unsubscribe from getting those, but just know if you do get them it's because you're right. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/03/22 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Check it out boys 😎🚬 Out of nowhere all of reddit will hunt me since I’m “Anti-faminist” 😂 I love being the villain.Yeah I had that today as well, couldn't help myself but reply to the mod team that they've banned me from a sub I didn't know existed. I'm assuming they mean this sub but it's pretty pathetic banning people and they can't event get the sub right. | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/03/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Need some advice from some wise menShe said she wants the hie phase of her life and you said bye. I salute you for not begging her, which is probably what she wanted, I salute you for having the balls to take notice not what you've read here and decided that you are going to learn before hand. Look you did more than your fair share of the work, you did ignore the red flags though. That's ok you're waiting for her to grow up, inevitably she showed you she can't and you made a better choice, and for that I also salute you. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/03/22 10:25 PM |
| 7 | I am a gentlemen and I am shamned for it.Yes but we aren't talking about men treating other men, it's generally implied that if men treat other men like crap a fight breaks out. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/03/22 08:38 PM |
| 38 | I am a gentlemen and I am shamned for it.I used to be exactly like you, now I reserve that behaviour for women who show they deserve it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/03/22 01:43 PM |
| 2 | why antifeminism is necessary for gender equality.So you're claiming that even though they say they want equal treatment they are really right wing, I agree what they truly want is supremacy but even then that does not make them right wing, just an extreme end of left wing, unless of course you believe that the left cannot have extreme elements, if that's the case then it's you who are acting not in good faith. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/03/22 08:27 AM |
| 1 | why antifeminism is necessary for gender equality.Wow that's a lot to ignore that feminists, and again depending on your flavour, terfs etc, are highly progressive enough to the point at which they literally end their own argument, an example they demand inclusion for everyone into everything and then when a man wins the trophies they realise they got what they wanted and don't like it, this makes them mostly if not absolutely progressive and by the very nature left wing. Whether they use marks ideology, idiocy is a better word here, or not, th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/03/22 08:05 AM |
| 2 | If you were cheated on in your marriage what were the signs your wife/ex wife gave before you found out.Following red flags Resentment towards you Comparing you to other men she finds attractive Deflecting attention away from her behaviour Displacing her guilt and blame shifting it to you The things that told me she is cheating was the phone, she's hiding or protecting her source of the affair. Going through your phone is her way if looking for something to blame you for so she can be guilt free and justify her actions, if she sees you are cheating then sauce for the goose. Very common behaviour. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | why antifeminism is necessary for gender equality.Are you going to claim it's right wing or even apolitical. There are very loud extreme elements within it but it's certainly not right or center of politics. Modern Feminism is highly influenced by Marxism and communist theory, communist ideas so in that regard yes it very much is left wing. I'd love to hear your assessment as to why it's not. | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/03/22 07:16 AM |
| 6 | Things are getting tougher for the feminist scum.Well given that he's won more than the other candidates so far it's quite clear he isn't a loser. Think on that one | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/03/22 09:47 PM |
| 4 | why antifeminism is necessary for gender equality.Don't get me wrong here I'm not saying that there cannot be independent thought within a group, the fact is that there usually is but it's hidden in favour of group acceptance. Especially within the left which is exactly what that sub is. It's just very unusual to see anybody on that sub argue against Feminism | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/03/22 07:39 PM |
| 4 | why antifeminism is necessary for gender equality.I can't tell if that's satire and giving argument to an anti-feminist stance or the left eating itself. I mean why would leftists who largely endorse their own slavery and abuse now turn anti-feminist. Then again it's radical to be monogamous so maybe the pendulum is starting to swing back. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/03/22 06:52 PM |
| 8 | Examples of sexism against menMedical spending for women is 3 times that for men, prostate cancer kills but can easily be detected and treated if caught early enough but the money for research isn't there as it's directed to breast cancer. So as a man you're more likely to die from cancer than a woman. Education, title 9 etc there are sponsorships only for women even though women are now the largest group attending college and university. So as a man you're likely to be less educated also. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/03/22 09:23 AM |
| 7 | Majority or MinorityIt's irrelevant if they are or not, they speak for the majority and for all women as long as the minority stay quiet and all women, even those who aren't feminists, don't call them out publicly. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/03/22 07:29 AM |
| 2 | How do y’all feel about ever getting married again?Cold, lime being touched by the hand of death. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/22 06:46 PM |
| 2 | But we need to blindly believe the victim because patriarchy.Good, men need help and support, when I went through my divorce nearly all charges listed against me were outright lies, the worst part was I had evidence, medical and photo of times she had abused me, physically of course, the court just ignored that in favour of her allegations. Nobody spoke up for me, nobody cared, if just one did I probably wouldn't have gotten so low. Of course I'm not saying I was an angel here, I had me faults like anyone, so he careful, help those who need and deserve it… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/03/22 07:27 AM |
| 30 | But we need to blindly believe the victim because patriarchy.Reading the comments is an eye opener for mass stupidity. Everyone saying sue her, the op is in Australia, a country that openly hates men and wants men removed from the earth, he's lucky he wasn't lined up against a wall and shot. So adding to that she will face zero consequences because muh mental health, she's like teflon. She won't face any consequence. Sadly this is actually becoming a common thing in Australia, it's why the news reports if it happening are getting smaller or being ignored … | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/03/22 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Welp what was she expecting even if it was a analogy or a jokeI just looked up the phrase fuck around and find out. Her image was the explanation. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 21/03/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | How long did it take you guys to get over your divorce? It's been 2 years of separation wanting to keep my marriage, now we've finally filed and made it permanent. I'm extremely heartbroken and I'm hurting again.Two kids and yes she is a mess, that's all I know about her, it's been a wild ride but I'm better now than I have ever been, calmer laughing more and all over happier. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/03/22 07:10 AM |
| 3 | How long did it take you guys to get over your divorce? It's been 2 years of separation wanting to keep my marriage, now we've finally filed and made it permanent. I'm extremely heartbroken and I'm hurting again.For me it was fairly quick, I caught her cheating and within a few weeks was about to jump off a bridge. That was my lowest point, and it was good because I couldn't have gone lower so after that the only way was up. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/03/22 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Interested to hear some anti fem opinions. Thought I could gain some new perspective. I am a feminist and major in cultural anthropology. This is an experiment through discourse.Religion through history has always held women far higher than men, the Catholic faith for example, holds the Virgin Mary as the highest exalted of all women, pious, meek, mild and worthy because of those qualities to bear the son of man. Feminists talk of the Madonna whore complex and apply it to men, there are a number of statements around this and each is a direct attack on men in some way, truthfully though the Madonna is an ideal, the ideal woman that men should seek out, the whore to be av… | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/03/22 10:14 PM |
| 8 | i seriously dont get these people (yeah i know i was a bit mean too but people like them make me mad)Think about it this way, why should I apologize for behaving like a monster, nobody apologised for making me this way. Or another thought, you can only hate something for so long before it begins to hate you back. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/03/22 05:37 PM |
| 7 | i seriously dont get these people (yeah i know i was a bit mean too but people like them make me mad)Your best answer to that would ha e been, if you don't see men as people you have no right to whine when they harm women, when you dehumanise an entire group you have no right to cry when they behave like animals. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/03/22 05:33 PM |
| 7 | Advice for our kids?No, I'm now building a relationship with my son after a few years of not being allowed any contact, he reached out to me because he's 18 and nobody can stop him. Every day I drill it into him that marriage is a mistake and not one anybody should do, that anybody who wants to get married is a clear indication of the kind of person who shouldn't be allowed to get married. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/03/22 03:51 PM |
| 10 | Based women standing up for menImpressive she both jumps out of planes and speaks the truth, she should be celebrated. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/03/22 12:26 PM |
| 30 | This article reads like some Chad rejected the writer after telling him she has gonorrhea from her blianta leadhbógach!Simple response Yes it does, it absolutely does, you've taken miles of dick and I have no interest in your broken clam shell | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/03/22 10:34 AM |
| 2 | According to OECD Data only 33.1% of women world-wide have a full-time job, this means 66.9% of women (unemployed/part-time/not paying taxes) world-wide can't sustain themselves and need men to pay them money (directly or via welfare = male taxes) ... we are practically SLAVES of the MATRIARCHYI can't argue with you on your points, I totally agree, equilibrium will be achieved simply because there is no other way to go, that or total collapse of the establishment and established order, the inevitable outcome is equilibrium of society. Of course it means very hard times for all women, whether their desire is to be traditional or modern it becomes irrelevant, we don't care, women are all equal to us, not above nor below and as such we offer no help, strong and independent remember. We a… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/03/22 07:14 AM |
| 5 | Double StandardsYou can still be mgtow and live to be with women, Jesus I'd go stir crazy if I avoided women, just being mgtow I have a few default settings that I apply to make sure I guard myself first and not let my dick rule my brain. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/03/22 07:18 PM |
| 2 | According to OECD Data only 33.1% of women world-wide have a full-time job, this means 66.9% of women (unemployed/part-time/not paying taxes) world-wide can't sustain themselves and need men to pay them money (directly or via welfare = male taxes) ... we are practically SLAVES of the MATRIARCHYOf course it will, that's a consequence of taxes, it's a consequence of buying things, we ha e to accept that. The difference here is that I remove spending power from a woman who would be a wife, I don't pay for her, we're equal she pays for herself, if she wants something she pays, if she wants to go somewhere she pays, she is equal and not entitled to expect anything from me. It's actually something that I really enjoy, treating women as equals, I don't have to please her, don't have to sacri… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/03/22 02:44 PM |
| 6 | r/MGTOWA is now a thing!Mgtow of which I am one Men going their own way It is the crystallisation of a single word No No we will not serve in your wars and commit acts of violence against another to support your way of life No we will not assume the mantle of role model for your child expected to raise your child with the responsibility both emotional and financial but have no say in their behaviour. No we will not allow the government to intervene in a relationship so marriage is rejected. No we will not assume the ro… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/03/22 11:44 AM |
| 23 | Guys this woman is now coming and attacking/harassing me in DMs coz I just reported her for trolling here and she got banned. (Plus she posts Feet pics lmao and says I am the one uncivilized lol) I am just gonna block her...They do it because you're an easy target. I've said a number of times be directly, wish direct harm on them as a person, do everything in public, they hate that more than anything. If they try to pm you, don't respond but go back to the forum and ask why they are scared to debate you publicly, the only reason is because they know they are lying and will get exposed. They do it because they know you'll bite, they love nothing more than attention, in fact the entire feminist movement from the 1960… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/03/22 10:48 AM |
| 3 | According to OECD Data only 33.1% of women world-wide have a full-time job, this means 66.9% of women (unemployed/part-time/not paying taxes) world-wide can't sustain themselves and need men to pay them money (directly or via welfare = male taxes) ... we are practically SLAVES of the MATRIARCHYI sincerely hope they stay around forever, the more they post the more red flags they give me to watch out for. I don't need to learn vetting techniques as long as that sub exists, I just need to read through some of the shit they post and things they say and terms they use. I'm good enough at it I can spot an FDS member a mile away. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/03/22 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Male Role Models Vs Female Role ModelsWell if you look at any media now, the question is, what role models do men actually have. I recall growing up as a child and seeing a plethora of male archetypes, from the Arnold Schwarzenegger type to the stay at home dad who knew his shit in who's the boss. We had the toxic fucker that everyone hates and nobody I ever knew wanted to be that guy, to the strong silent type who loved his family and worked his ass off for them, he was well respected and valued. Now what do boys have, a caricature… | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/03/22 10:17 AM |
| 16 | According to OECD Data only 33.1% of women world-wide have a full-time job, this means 66.9% of women (unemployed/part-time/not paying taxes) world-wide can't sustain themselves and need men to pay them money (directly or via welfare = male taxes) ... we are practically SLAVES of the MATRIARCHYYeah, that and they didn't like it when guys vented their anger at a corrupt system. Since going my own way life has never been better, more money than I can legally spend, less drama than I knew possible. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/03/22 07:29 AM |
| 31 | The story of how feminism put me in prison when I was 17 years old.I sympathize with you but unfortunately as long as men live in your country and interact with women laws like that will be abused by women. Best you can do is avoid any and all contact or leave. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/03/22 10:09 PM |
| 1 | in California is child support pre or post tax. If it's post tax then is it tax deductible?I have a few friends in California, so I can say what's their case. For them then it was post tax and tax deductible because of dependents. Now I don't know the law, I'm not a lawyer but that is the judgement they got, I have to stress though, the child support they are paying is extraordinary, based off potential earnings taken from what their boss earns. Now they like me are in IT so they are earning a fair amount but their bosses are earning a heck of a lot more and they have to get two level… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/22 09:29 PM |
| 40 | Do you think it's okay to lie about circumstances to protect yourself from gold-diggers?Listen dude, I seriously don't give a flying fuck if it's morally justifiable or not. I'm in the exact position you're asking about and one thing will always remain true, nobody and I mean nobody will ever know exactly how much I have. Some might guess and some will be close. But nobody will ever truly know unless I tell them and I'm not doing that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/22 06:13 PM |
| 5 | We are hugging a lot in advance of divorce and it feels so strange—So grey rock her, only communicate via email or your lawyer. Don't put yourself in the position where you know it will only hurt you more and she gets the validation out of it. You must realise by now that is all it will be, validation for her that she is still attractive enough for somebody to want to have sex with her, if you do then, her logic goes so will somebody else. Don't be that man, you know doing that will hurt you more because the divorce will go ahead anyway so why allow yourself to… | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/03/22 05:05 PM |
| 8 | [39-F] mom has more damage than age, but still waging war. Just to let you know that not all women are made of sugar: some of them are made of brains, tequila, adventures, and sexThe red flags just run off this one | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/03/22 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Workplace for some young menThank you for your kind words, karma has sort of caught up with her, neither myself nor my sister have any contact with her, she has no knowledge of her grandchildren. She gets to miss out on all of that. In some areas women have more privileges than men and men have more in other areas. Some women play a game because they know they'll get a win from it regardless of what happens but some men do that too. I said what I did simply because I wanted to be honest with you and let you know that yes t… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/03/22 07:17 AM |
| 7 | Workplace for some young menOk you asked so strap in because this gets hairy. There have been lots of time in my life when I've been bullied, by far the worst was by women, boys as a child I could deal with by fighting where needed but you can't physically go fighting. As a child I did experience bullying by boys but that could be considered normal bullying and nothing out of the ordinary. As a teenager the worst situation of my life happened and it is down to feminists. My father ended his life when my mother filed for di… | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/03/22 11:55 AM |
| 7 | Is there any good country to life where they don't treat man like idiots?Sorry to break this to you but none in the west. I'm being blunt but true here, there isn't a single country that hasn't been damaged by feminists, simple as that. Every country you look at in the west it's common for women to openly hate men, pushed by media and boosted by social media. Whether this is by accident or design I don't know, I do know long term women will lose more than men and women will eventually have to force the pendulum backwards the other way. I also know before that happens… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/03/22 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Why is this trend to become a feminist?Because it's a safe statement to make where you don't have to do anything, you will get recognition for it and praise for it without having to do anything. On top of that you can then be a despicable person and still get all the praise, so for a celebrity it's a win win. It's like celebrities saying things about mental health and later we find they got caught wanking over little girls. They can claim to support an issue and get praised for it but don't actually have to do anything and then later… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/03/22 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Just posted an hour ago… this is the feminist mindset you have to deal with (and a solid MGTOW argument)… oh, she better be looking into her cat standardsI never said that it wasn't. I more than anyone wish that men would raise their own standards and chose with more care who they sleep with. That isn't the issue though as I've said, the issue is when a man does raise his standards, demands and expects better because he knows he is worth more, rejecting women who themselves cannot meet the standards they impose on others. That is the issue. It's something that we've said now for years has been caused by feminists mindset of refusing to be critica… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/03/22 08:44 AM |
| 2 | Happy Women's Day 2022I'm well aware of certain perceived problems with feminism The problems are not an issue of perception if it were feminists themselves could change their pr and those perceptions would vanish like mist. The problems we have are that feminists want rights without responsibilities. They want society to coddle them and at the same time tell them they are capable of anything. Feminism claims that it's for women, in truth it's for women who do as they are told by feminists and those women who think f… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/03/22 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Just posted an hour ago… this is the feminist mindset you have to deal with (and a solid MGTOW argument)… oh, she better be looking into her cat standardsI heard somewhere something similar. The argument was women who have nothing to offer often claim to have the highest standards and make ridiculous demands because they know they are starting from an ultra weak negotiating position, so they claim the higher ground. If they get somebody who meets even a few of their demands they win because it's actually better than they expected. If not then they always have the cope of, my standards are too high and it's men's fault for not meeting them. So I'd… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/03/22 07:07 AM |
| 59 | Just posted an hour ago… this is the feminist mindset you have to deal with (and a solid MGTOW argument)… oh, she better be looking into her cat standardsPersonally I have no issue with women having high standards in fact I'm all for it, that's not the issue though, and it's not the issue that men have standards, although it very much is for some women. The issue is that often these women claim to have standards but most often don't meet or can't meet the basics let alone the standards they claim to demand of men. The bigger issue that I've always found is that these women claim to ha e high standards but get upset when a man they find attractive… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/03/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Being begged not to divorceNo don't question yourself at all, this is a power play and she was winning, your actions have taken all of that power away from her that is why she's now behaving the way she is, it's not about fixing the marriage, the relationship or anything other than getting power back and getting back in control. If she wanted to fix the marriage, she's had 3 years to decide at any time when she will start the work, she hasn't because through all of that time she held power, as long as you didn't do anythi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/22 08:26 AM |
| 4 | Just admit you’re into snuff porn, good lord…Well that's a dumb statement because there are loads of those sits and every time a woman is doing the heating you can guarantee she's getting paid more than the men. Oh shit we've found a gender pay gap where men are worse off, come on now feminists where is your equal pay hand writing now. Sex work is work remember. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/03/22 10:21 PM |
| 10 | You get what you deserve...Cry me a fucking river, have zero sympathy for this clown | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/03/22 06:38 PM |
| 2 | the comments are on our sideYeah it does, so you're point being that you have no grasp on relating data to the real world. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/03/22 04:59 PM |
| 12 | the comments are on our sideIs it true. No, the 50% rate was applicable about five to ten years ago, now the number is somewhere nearer 60%, depending on your country or state and applicable laws. Now here's the kicker, if you quote that you will often get told it's not true because the divorce rate is falling, yes that is true it is falling but it's falling because the marriage rate is also falling and therefore accounting for that the divorce rate is actually rising not falling as some who can't read simple data would li… | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/03/22 11:28 AM |
| 4 | Oh no! Pageantry Princess can’t keep Chad interested. Must be anybody and everybody’s fault but her own. With so much to offer why can’t she just find a nice guy™️? Must be the patriarchy.That actually made me dumber for reading it, she actually made me dumber. One massive cope | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/03/22 08:21 AM |
| 26 | WWIII BeginsIt reminds me of a Twitter post a woman did about sex robots. Robots won't cook your meals, clean the house. Somebody responded by saying, because of sex bots you're now saying your place is in the kitchen. They just consistently prove they want rights without responsibilities. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/03/22 07:27 AM |
| 39 | They don't understand what we go throughAnd good women wonder why men have zero trust for any of them. All brought about by Feminism, laws produce the results we see, Feminism pushes women to behave like shitty men and long term it's women and in particular good women who suffer because they are left alone. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Little tip for winning a debate against feministsI don't see any debate topic as controversial, using that word in such a way shows inability to apply rational thought to any topic, any topic of debate is open to being debated, any argument that it should not be is an attempt to control the discussion. We're already seeing the benefits of that now with cancel culture brought about mainly by the feminist movement who themselves have fought long and hard to cover truth and facts. In most cases taking to court the very women they hold up as icons… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/22 05:42 PM |
| 8 | Little tip for winning a debate against feministsFor anybody saying anything about winning an argument with a feminist during a debate, no that's wrong. You ha e to remember you are debating with them but they have already made up their minds about you. You should always aim to win, always also remember that you aren't aiming to change their minds but sway those who are undecided. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/22 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Little tip for winning a debate against feministsSo you're saying to keep an open mind but admitting in certain cases you most of all don't have an open mind or would enter the debate without the ability change your mind or perspective, a closed mind in other words. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/22 05:35 PM |
| 3 | women losing their wayWild whaminz | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/22 04:35 PM |
| 5 | women losing their wayYeah just don't waste your time with these things. Just don't waste your time with them, don't help or offer to help, if asked refuse and give no more attention. My personal favourite.. In a bar ignore them, if they talk to you cut them off, you don't owe them anything even decency, you don't owe them that so why bother when you won't get it from them. You can always spot them as they colour themselves brightly enough to give off the warning signs, you just ignore them, if they speak to you dire… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 12 | Thought you guys may get a laugh from thisAnybody else get the feeling straight after that she looked in the mirror called herself a fat pig and cried for about two hours while chugging down a large chocolate cake. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/03/22 07:25 AM |
| 5 | Do women treat men with no confidence like shit in general?I'd say yes. I think back over the last ten years and when I started as a junior developer, I have to be honest and say I truly didn't know shit about developing software, a degree but that's about it. I recall that to many of the women in the office, yes I was recently out of the army and had that going for me so there would have been a sense of capability there but consequently I was viewed as incompetent at my current job, so thinking back the treatment while civil was pitty, I can say I sort… | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 10:27 PM |
| 7 | All women evacuation flight from Ukraine. Umm where are the men?Well done you've proven my point entirely. Feminism being rights without responsibilities, you want equality but only when there is a benefit in all other cases you're happy to whine about being oppressed, you are truly nothing more than coddled children. Yet you have the cheek to complain when men treat you as children. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/02/22 06:03 PM |
| 21 | All women evacuation flight from Ukraine. Umm where are the men?No one including men should be forced to fight in a war. You're right but wars still happen, recent events show that to be true. Feminism isn’t forcing people to be drafted Again you're right but then again, feminists claim to fight for equality, one of your favourite sayings is that women hold up half the sky, so why are you not holding up half the sky now. men shouldn’t have to stay back and fight if they don’t want to to either So please explain how you maintain freedom, from a truly oppressi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/02/22 04:19 PM |
| 34 | All women evacuation flight from Ukraine. Umm where are the men?Stay and fight alongside the men. Demand that they be conscripted alongside the men. You know basic things like prove they are equal to the men they expect to die for them. Yeah feminists have been very quiet since that all kicked off. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/02/22 03:36 PM |
| – | BREAKING: Gender No Longer A Social Construct Now That War Is Around The CornerSo now then Feminists, war has broken out in eastern Europe, now is your time to shine, now is your time to prove you can do anything a man can do. Now is your time to protest and demand that you be allowed to join the military and fight to free a country from a truly oppressive facist. Oh now you've all gone very quiet, wonder why. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/02/22 09:23 AM |
| 6 | Mod of P_M_C does not understand humor and warns against this sub, calling us "disgusting enablers of hatred directed against men"...To be honest I'm quite speechless. Their claim is that members of this sub laugh about men being drafted, I have never ever seen that show itself to be the case. Generally people in this sub say either or, either men and women are drafted into military service equally or nobody is. We also say if a woman wants to opt for s traditional society and traditional relationship based on traditional values then that is also fine as it's her choice and she should not be looked down on for that, as long a… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/22 02:39 PM |
| 108 | When war begins, feminism takes refuge in the kitchen.Feminism stops when they might actually have to put the money where their mouths are. Sorry sweethearts but you wanted equality it's about time to put up, you had your chance to shut up long ago and you blew it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/02/22 02:09 PM |
| 12 | I can assure you ... the next step of fascism ... uhm ... I mean "feminism" will be to demand "male ghettos" or "men-free zones" ... uhm ... I mean "female safe zones" in cities ... where no men are allowed ... enforced by a special kind of "police" of courseYeah but then you see you're one of those normal we'll adjusted women who walk down the street and take responsibility for yourself and absolutely scare the shit out of coddled feminists. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/02/22 09:53 PM |
| 77 | I can assure you ... the next step of fascism ... uhm ... I mean "feminism" will be to demand "male ghettos" or "men-free zones" ... uhm ... I mean "female safe zones" in cities ... where no men are allowed ... enforced by a special kind of "police" of courseSo she's saying a friend who knows her and doing the normal things that friends do has suddenly turned her into a victim. Please feminists explain to me how you haven't enabled every single woman to be a perpetual child demanding to be coddled. At this point the women who don't view all men as pure sex crazed evil world dominating tyrants, have respect for men and at the same time are strong enough to cope with the big bad world and cope with normal people doing normal things like saying hello m… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/02/22 06:52 PM |
| 7 | I feel like I'm moving in the wrong direction with healing.That makes a lot of sense, why and how could she do that to you, more importantly how could you have been so foolish. You aren't alone there dude I guarantee it, at some point or another we've all been through it, so know you aren't alone | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/22 06:28 PM |
| 10 | I feel like I'm moving in the wrong direction with healing.She's blame shifting, absolving herself of the guilt of the marriage by blaming you for the affair. Easier than holding herself accountable for her failures. Why are you listening to her, is what I want to know. Have you properly processed what has gone on, have you done the healing to bring yourself back to a state of balance, to accept your failures and to see hers. It really sounds like you're still stuck in that dark pit and not yet out in the sunshine. Have you got somebody to talk to or ma… | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/02/22 06:06 PM |
| 11 | Automod is finally set, so I am unlocking the sub for everyoneAlready off to a good start. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/02/22 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Erotic Dreams of Post-Divorce Life?Yes and I was told it's normal. Here's how it was explained to me. Your brain is telling and helping you to move on, part of that is allowing possibilities to open up within your own mind. Fear begins in the mind and shuts you down physically, the erotic dreams are a powerful motivator and often open us up to new ideas and new challenges. The erotic dreams are a way of your subconscious mind removing or lessening the fear and doubts and motivating you to get out into the world. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/22 10:34 PM |
| 68 | Women of Antifeminists. WWYD if you found out your son was a victim of paternity fraud or your daughter committed paternity fraudI think I'll grab me a beer and wait for the answers here, just out of curiosity you should extend this to the feminists who lurk here, I'm sure their answers would be just as interesting, but I guarantee not one will take any form of responsibility for the system they created and endorsed. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/02/22 08:59 AM |
| 3 | Am I doing well as a mod? (Feedback)This | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/02/22 04:53 PM |
| 2 | BruhOK but a simple response to that is not one of use here, even those who like myself are MGTOW agree that should ever be the case. Kind of destroys that argument. | /r/AntiFeminists | 20/02/22 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Important AnnouncementBoth but it depends on the post, I might comment if I have something that I think can add to the conversation. I also will be posting from time to time. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/02/22 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Important AnnouncementNo probs can I get that approved user status. Have a few essays planned on debating with feminists that will help the sub and members when they get into it with the cretins. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/02/22 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Feminist trolls are coming here pretending to be men, posting disgusting shit to make our subreddit look bad and put our subreddit on the risk of being banned from redditYou're right with regards to snakes, feminists trolls are less than that, they certainly aren't human and at least snakes have a purpose. | /r/AntiFeminists | 19/02/22 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Something I have noticedYeah you're right, people get pissed off and strike and a few days later the government gives just enough to make people go back to the way things were before. That's the problem, people get what they want and then let things go back to how they were before. What if that changes, no political aim, no negotiation, strike without end. What do you want Nothing Go back to work No What can we give you.... And that's where it changes. Let's take the recent example of Canada, protest lawfully and ask f… | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 08:31 PM |
| 33 | The proper responseCry | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 07:27 PM |
| 20 | Feminist trolls are coming here pretending to be men, posting disgusting shit to make our subreddit look bad and put our subreddit on the risk of being banned from redditJust please don't engage. Don't apologize but don't engage with them. We all know what they are doing so why give them the ammunition. Check the account of the post, simple, it it looks like trolling from a trolling account it probably is. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Feminism has passed stage 6 and we are now entering stage 7 of "the war on men" ... favoritism for women and quotas concerning job opportunities (especially big tech), women proudly announcing "going to sonography to find out if it’s a girl or an abortion"I thin that you might have misunderstood what I meant. I don't think it will run along gender lines either, it will be like now, the masked and unmaksed. We'll have the feminists and their allies against those who oppose their twisted ideology, let's get a few things straight, equal rights apply to everyone along with equal responsibility. What we'll see is men and women who stand with men being punished and pushed out, those men who willingly go along with women will gladly do their bidding, th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Of course you don't. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 08:56 AM |
| 2 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Never want you to kill people, you're correct I don't want to kill people, feminists aren't people, subhuman, at most. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 08:52 AM |
| 4 | Feminism has passed stage 6 and we are now entering stage 7 of "the war on men" ... favoritism for women and quotas concerning job opportunities (especially big tech), women proudly announcing "going to sonography to find out if it’s a girl or an abortion"If you think the vast majority of people won't go along with whatever they are told them you haven't been paying attention to anything for the last two years. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Not sure why you think I'm in middle school, don't even know what that is unless you're American and think the entire world works the way the USA does.. As for working out issues I don't think so, I actually really enjoy hating Feminism and feminists, the only good feminist is a dead one. Why would I want to like something so disgusting. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Oh please don't go I'm sure you can embarrass yourself more with me and others who enjoy doing nothing more than letting you know how much you're actually hated.. I mean a real visceral hatred for feminists who aren't even people, I mean I don't consider you a human so watching a feminist die to me is no different to seeing roadkill. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Ok then whatever helps you sleep at night. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 08:35 AM |
| 18 | Just got permabanned from fourthwavewomen lolA badge of honour | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 08:34 AM |
| 2 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Why would I do that, would it change your mind, would it have any impact, no, we both know that it won't so why do you think I'm going to bother trying. As I've said clearly more than once the only good feminist is a dead feminist. I don't want to change your mind, I really don't care to so why would I bother to give you my sources. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Yeah you've just confirmed you're a fucking idiot. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Google it, I'm sure with your superior intelligence you can find the data. You're a strong independent woman who don't need no man so why would I do that for you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Another idiotic statement, I know the USA and UK has an acceptance rate for feminists and in particular women who call themselves feminists being around 14 and 8% respectively, most women then in both countries despise what feminism stands for, when asked they view feminists as dirty unwashed man haters and very much whine about rights women already enjoy. You're wrong society very much has an opinion then. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...It makes little difference what definition you rely on, we know how feminists think so we know you'll default to the dictionary definition whenever you get called out on anything and lack real or accurate data to back your idiotic claims. Other than that what's now your purpose here, you know that you're not going to convince anybody to join your cult, you're despised more than a trump supporter at a CNN conference what do you seriously think you'll achieve. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...You really spend a lot of your time talking a lot of shit. Are you still hoping that you'll convince some people that feminists don't hate men and only want equality because you're going to fail. | /r/AntiFeminists | 18/02/22 07:07 AM |
| 11 | Something I have noticedPosts like this pop up often. Generally speaking women are interested in people while men are interested in things. Now there are outliers which cross the genders but they are exceptions to the rule not the rule itself. However you'll never get a feminist argue this is correct, regardless of what the data says they will always default to sexism, men are to blame etc because admitting truth in the face of facts means that their argument is bs. By the way though India is considered pretty well fuc… | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/02/22 07:19 PM |
| 6 | Wtf. Feminism continues to encourage this.That's a very long way to admit she's a prostitute. She's selling herself to the highest bidder, there's really no other words for it. Yes feminists keep encouraging it and yes weak shitty men with money to burn keep endorsing it. The point here is the wealthy men don't care because it's just money, the women who get eventually damaged and used by this don't care at the time because it's money.. A symptom of a fucked society, makes me look forward to its inevitable demise. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/02/22 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do women’s rights bother you guys so much?Why do you waste so much of your time gaslighting people and making false claims. Your claims are factually incorrect to begin with. Your assertion that we are against women having rights is patently false. Your claim that feminists don't hate men is a direct lie. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/02/22 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Sub attacksYes you're right, every now and again it will happen because this sub deals with fairly contentious topics and trolls are little shits who love nothing more than getting attention from others, usually because of neglect by parents and abuse by family members. Don't give then your time or attention, don't give into it, report the post, block the poster and take a five minute break. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/02/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | A woman strategy ro earn MoneyWhy are you all giving this cretin any of your time, it's like wrestling with pigs, you get dirty and the pig enjoys itself. Just let the clown do her thing, she thinks she holds some view on the world that interests others, she can't grasp, through narcissistic personality disorder just how messed up she really is. Leave her to her claims, she's a gnat, of no value to anybody, stop giving this clown what she wants. | /r/AntiFeminists | 17/02/22 08:26 AM |
| 0 | A lighthearted giggleBecause she could have been tweeting about me and because I fucking hate feminists. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 20 | MSM SucksSo some women work slightly longer hours, and most men work longer hours but women are still he victims. And people wonder why men are checking out. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/02/22 01:05 PM |
| 0 | The stupidityThe irony of it is that it coddled women not allowing them to grow as people and learn to handle mistakes like an adult. Feminism then is harmful to women more than it helps women when women start going down this route. The other impact is of course men rejecting helping women, if women are always right this implies men are always wrong. Sooner or later a woman will, inevitably, make a big mistake and find nobody willing to help or advise because she is always right. | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/02/22 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Look At All These Bozos Justifying Misandry. And These Are The Same Group Who Keep Complaining About When Misogyny Is Going To End. They're Their Own Worst Enemy.The comments are yet more examples of the stupid taking in large part 1% of 1% and extrapolating that to the entire gender. Heyho it's how it goes, it doesn't bother me that women hate men, my view is this; The more the merrier, the more women who are open and honest about how much they hate men the better, incidents like what happened to that woman on the Philadelphia train will become more common as more and more men check out and leave them to it. The UK is a prime example, the majority of wo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 16/02/22 10:50 AM |
| 12 | Over 30 yr Old Thot Crying About Getting Pumped and Dumped (Again). Poor Girl Is Now Forced to Lie About Wanting Kids To Keep Her "Miss Independent" Image GoingSo she's admitting that she tells people she doesn't want kids, she'll get herself into a relationship with a man who also doesn't want kids and then she'll switch and then break up another relationship because she lied to begin with. The irony of it is totally lost on her, she is one to stay well away from. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/02/22 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...This has not been my experience of antifeminists. How do you feel about, for example, an overweight woman who works on OnlyFans, has children by multiple men, and then trolls tinder for new paramours? Pretty fucking negatively, I'd guess. I actually don't give a fuck what other women do to their lives, I neither have to support it nor agree with it but it's her life and her choice, she doesn't get the right to expect me to date her nor want to date her but that's how it is, you decide what you w… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/02/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Show me exactly where I said you're abusing me, exactly, where is said those exact words. Where... You can't because I never said that, you're also desperately trying to change terms of reference because again you know you cannot win. You've not actually answered a single question posed, all you've done is deflect and obfuscate any point by shifting blame and using fantasy. You might think that you have but in truth you have not, so let's go back why do you hate the pickme women, other women, wh… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/02/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...It can be if you chose to see the world through a particular lense. It's actually a lowbrow debate tactic, most often used by cretins calling themselves feminists or otherwise known as fucktards and feminazis. And here you are doing exactly that, poorly using darvo and now claiming in a poor switch that it's a behaviour of an abuse tactic. Still not answering the questions, though, still attempting to deflect and bring any conversation over to your frame of reference. Ok so I'm a rampant mysogin… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/02/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Accusing you of abuse. Where and when have I actually done that, using darvo again and poorly. Still not able to answer the questions huh. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/02/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Deny attack victim reverse offender. Yes you're doing exactly that, derailing the conversation, trying to bring it back onto your terms, playing the victim because nobody accepts you're in a relationship, you aren't, playing as though you don't hate the pick me women, you surely understand that the term itself is what you'd class as hate speech. But I'm sure that doesn't apply to you. So explain why then you hate the pickme women so much, what is it about them that bothers you to such a degree, … | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/02/22 12:16 PM |
| 3 | How are you incels spending your Valentine’s Day?Who hurt you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/02/22 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...There is no attack other than to say you try to convince me too much how happy you are, if you're actually that happy pointing out the pick me women you clearly hate on so much wouldn't even feature on your radar. Sorry but that alone, is why you're actually alone. Try again, or grow up and stop larping at having a significant other. I'm just not buying it. You still haven't yet explained why you think I like to put people into boxes, when you're openly doing the very thing you accuse me or, emp… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/02/22 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...In a happy relationship Sure you are, I believe you believe you are. I'll just leave it at that, nobody as bitter and angry at women who enjoy and like being with men is in a happy relationship. Only miserable lesbians who hate themselves more than they hate other women. You talk about colloquial language use, what you mean to say is you throw around words you got taught at psyche 101 and now leave those words as meaningless and useless as calling somebody racist. You're a bitter angry person, f… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/02/22 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Woke feminism for youThe subtext of this is because valentine's Day is only 1 day it's ok to destroy your relationship and make yourself miserable and unhappy just like the rest of us. | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/02/22 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...I will disregard everything you've said, simply because you think you have the skills and education to dictate when something is pathological, like throwing the word abuse or narcissistic about you think because you've read those words in Cosmo you're now more knowledgeable than Freud. The fact is you're bitter and angry, bitter at women who manage to make a man want to be with them, angry because you are attracted to the type of men who you know will never want to be with somebody like you. It'… | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/02/22 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...But you are shitting over a woman's choice. In order for a woman to be wife and mother if that's what she craves then naturally she's going to crave the attention of men, in order to achieve what she most craves which is being a wife and mother. A woman who doesn't seek approval from men but at the same time wants to be a wife and mother isn't going to get very far, most likely to find herself stuck consistently in the friend zone while watching others get the ring and the child. I said pick me … | /r/AntiFeminists | 15/02/22 07:14 AM |
| 9 | Happy mgtow day to all the refugees from the nuked subredditWhy thank you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/22 07:00 PM |
| 12 | British woman, 26, with severe allergy who was kicked off American Airlines flight to New York because she demanded the entire plane had to be nut free describes herself as an 'intersectional feminist'The entire plane needs to be nut free, so they kicked her off the flight. She got what she wanted. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 14/02/22 06:01 PM |
| 19 | How to respond to a feminist woman asking "Are you saying this because I'm a woman"?Two ways and they depend on your mood and your reaction to how went about her shit test. Yes Or Do you want me to to say yes. Now the second one is a blatant trap, if they say yes then they are playing a victim, aiming for victim points and you aren't playing that game. If they say no, then your response is simply congratulations you got judged by the same standard as a man, what more do you want. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/22 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Ok so you're saying that a woman who wants to be a wife and mother and does what she has to in order to become a wife and mother is insecure. Wow, way to shit all over the choices of other women, I think it very telling about feminism when the claim is that's its about choice and then shitting on women if they make a choice that you don't like. | /r/AntiFeminists | 14/02/22 07:15 AM |
| 6 | Does “The woman you marry is not the same woman you divorce” ring true for you?Yes, a thousand times over. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/02/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...I'm throwing them around because you're reacting like the retarded child you are, so I'm going to keep doing it until you either fuck off and go back to tumbler to whine about how badly you've been abused or you pony up and explain why you got so triggered by me saying feminists are self owning because a pickme is exactly the kind of woman a man like me would pick, precisely because the pick me women, know how to behave like women, are attractive and are very nice to be around. In contrast the a… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Ok then so you're doing a really poor job of derailing the discussion, and by the way showing your lack of ability to engage with any discussion besides trolling. Quite pathetic really, I was at least hoping the feminist cult would put somebody forward with an IQ larger than their shoe size but then again the fact you're trying to argue for the feminist movement tells us all we need to know about your intellectual capacity. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Ok then so explain why you got upset over me saying a woman being called a pickme is actually a self own for feminists simply because I said a pickme woman is called such because men would actually pick her over a feminist, the kind of men even the feminists say they find most attractive, of course I'm talking in a general sense here. I mean if you want to be with the kind of male who cries over a falling leaf and can't decide what shirt to wear without a woman's input that's your choice. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Yeah ok then so let's play that game, not all Nazis were bad people either, see how that works, your lot of cretins live to play the group Identity when it suits and then cry about I when it gets thrown back. Fuck the lot of you, all feminists are evil and the only good feminist is the one tied to a steak and turned into ashes. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Feminist turned anti-feminist (rant)I view this as less of a rant and more clarity of thought. I have never met, known nor worked with any man who would actually stop any woman doing anything she wanted. The proviso being you choose and you live with that choice. You choose but you don't have any right to expect me to accept nor support it but ultimately it's your choice. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 10:04 AM |
| 9 | Oh lovely. Look at this message! So, because of one of my replies on my last post, I got a message from an admin saying that I was "promoting hate". The other image has the high-lighted reply on which I was "promoting hate". What a fucking pathetic screeching liberal this admin is!! 😂😂😂😂It's something I find entertaining, think about it. A non-binary person admits that only two sexes or two genders exist, they just claim that they exist outside of that. That's fair enough, you do you, but a thought then, if you claim you're non-binary then by process of elimination you create a binary system of binary and non-binary. As a result they become binary again. Bit of a self own then really. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 08:48 AM |
| 1 | DisagreedNo idea, but I'm getting to the point of thinking were way past that turnoff, best thing we can do is strap in and wait for it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | DisagreedRoad to hell is paved with good intentions. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 08:39 AM |
| 1 | DisagreedDude, I ask myself that same question often. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 08:35 AM |
| 6 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Ok so aside from the childish rant, explain why you think I'm putting people in a box then. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | DisagreedI don't think so, they created it to kill YouTube, to get content creators off YouTube where they have to fight for scraps, they built the app so creators could be free and away from the arbitrary and loosely applied rules from YouTube. It was never meant to become the thing it is now, also when the owners of the app tried to kill off the porn content they faced a massive backlash from the account owners. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 08:32 AM |
| 1 | DisagreedTry to remember, they are selling photos and videos of their most intimate selves, they are selling and interacting with these men to be able to sell more and earn more, it's cut throat for sure, but they have to make themselves hard to it and not care about the men buying their images, some can, most can't. For most of these women, it's a way to earn extra money but they have to sacrifice a lot of themselves to do it. These sad men who pay for it get to feel like they have somebody who cares. F… | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 12:15 AM |
| 18 | seriously??Yeah I think we can safely say that never happened. | /r/AntiFeminists | 13/02/22 12:06 AM |
| 2 | DisagreedI agree with you, call it what you want but in my view it's just another form of prostitution. I do know some women who have creator accounts with of, I've spoken to them about their thoughts on the men who pay and it's not good. The best view I got from them were these men are sad pathetic wallets. So when you take that into account, you have a circle of patheticness. Sad when you think about it though. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/02/22 11:58 PM |
| 2 | DisagreedNo idea, could be a good thought experiment. It's important to remember that it was meant as a subscription YouTube, content creators would immediately start getting paid for their content if they gained subscribers. Sadly though, when women started posting, simping men started saying post nude content and they'll pay more. Women started posting nudes and spicier content, media picked up on it and began to push it and extole the high incomes some women were earning. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/02/22 11:51 PM |
| 2 | DisagreedYes it is, it's stacked to the rafters full of clowns. It makes no difference though if a young girls idea of a future is attending colleges where they hold courses on how to make it work on the platform. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/02/22 11:44 PM |
| 6 | 'Mother' made her daughters believe that their father SA themBut but but when never lie about things like this... Sorry what.. video shows they do But but but, why can't I find a good man. See the video Where have all the good men gone... Let me refer you back to this video. Ladies, try to understand, we don't hate you, we love women and want to protect them, we are killing ourselves to give you the best that we can, we fall short, we fail and still we'll try. We fight wars to maintain the way of life and levels of comfort you are used to, we die in huge … | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/02/22 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Dear females of r/antifeminists...Not a woman, I think by now I've said enough that most in this sub know that but I find then as a man the term pick me extremely funny. It's really, in my view, not the burn feminists think it is, if they do want to call an anti-feminist a pick me then fine, there's a very good reason why traditional, masculine men pick these women, it's usually because those women aren't horrid, toxic, angry, mentally unstable feminists. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/02/22 09:23 PM |
| 4 | DisagreedHe wrote that at a time when the ideal for a woman was to be considered a lady. We live in a time when the ideal for a woman is to be top content creater on only fans and brag about getting railed by as many men your phone can hold in its contact list. So then a bit of history but that's all it should be considered as. | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/02/22 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Why I no longer support feminism or women's issues.Yes the evil patriarchy, the same patriarchy that still says women are equal but a protected class when it comes to defending their way of life, the same patriarchy that said women and children first while the men were expected to accept drowning or dying of hypothermia when the Titanic went down. Feminism is an exercise in hypocrisy. They are the first to whine about gender roles and the first to argue to keep them when it suits, the first to cry about sexism but watch them twist like a pretzel… | /r/AntiFeminists | 12/02/22 06:45 PM |
| 7 | She's a "different bread", and she has something to say to all of you guys who are "intimidated" by single mothers such as herself. "I'm not easy, so see if you can please me".....A single mother who's not like other single mothers, not a hint of ironic idiocy there then. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 12/02/22 07:09 AM |
| 7 | Hypocrite in the name of "Gender equality"Woman, I was raped Man, goes to jail for minimum of five years Woman, oh I made it all up for attention and revenge Man, gets released and now has to rebuild his life, reputation and relationships. Woman, faces zero consequences and gets a book deal and speaking tour. Women around the world, women don't weaponise allegations like that, if they do it's rare and you should just suck it up for the things men have done in the past. Without a hint of irony, they say allegations like that are not weap… | /r/AntiFeminists | 11/02/22 04:07 PM |
| 13 | At this point they're looking for shit to complain about 🤣🤣What she's saying and what all of the comments are saying is that they are puritans in a cult and they make themselves insufferable to be around. What puzzles me more is why these men keep letting these women into their groups, why not just simply say thanks but we are happily enjoying ourselves and we'd like you to leave.. That seems a far better way to deal with these women than shut up and not say those things around her. I mean the worse thing is she openly admits she no better, so then she'… | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 05:30 PM |
| 13 | Her body count is a strong predictor of infidelityBrilliant post, women sell themselves and then whine when nobody wants to buy broken used goods. Show me a market where more use bring greater value, you can't. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 04:12 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.As I showed you in the quotes they are feminist icons, people you claim are extremists when the fact is they very much are not and very much are the academics of feminism and icons of feminism. Do I have to talk about the time a bunch of academics rewrote mein kampf removing the words Jew and Nazi and swapping them for men and women. The book was very well received in both the USA and Australia and even after the academics went public the book was defended by feminists and is still on the study … | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Look you're so determined to make me believe you have a boyfriend, I'm sorry not sorry but I just don't accept it, I'm sure you believe it, but nobody I know, nobody I've ever known would sit next to a woman calling herself a feminist, so no you don't have a boyfriend, at best you have something that I wouldn't recognize as being a man simply because that male has no self respect.. I'm sure you believe you have one but then it's only you who does, what makes me laugh is you're telling me you're … | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How to prepare to get divorced when I have a 5 year old girl and married to someone who is most likely going to feel like a victim and raise hell (narcissist) when I finally file for divorce?Ok so first some good advice here but let's be real, first things first speak to a lawyer. Tell him or her what you expect your ex to do and they will advise you accordingly, they might recommend you leave or they'll tell you to stay and separate. You won't know until you know what the law is going to do and how it's going to apply. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Is that seriously the best you've got adhomenim attacks which make you look like the petulant princess you really are. Remember you showed your face, do I have to get personal with attacking you and you mental illness, I can very easily, instead I'll choose to laugh at your lack of maturity because all you e got is throwing your toys from the pram and whining to daddy that the grown ups won't play nice with you. Go tell it to your shrink, they are paid to care I'm not. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Nope your a coward, you hide behind your claim it's about equality and want only equal rights when there's a benefit. You're a hypocrite and a coward because you'll stand behind those you call extreme when they say something you agree with and throw them under the bus when you get called out. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 12:55 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.No true Scotsman fallacy all over again, you really need to learn and understand what you're talking about, and still trying to change my views, I think it's really cute, a little childish and seriously immature but you keep at at it darling. I'm sure I'll break one day.l, until then the only good feminist is a dead one. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Wow you just have to have the last word. Still being a hypothetical though. Still showing that clear than anything else. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | I am writing to men that are post divorce because I am humbly asking as a woman for insight. I did not ask for my marriage to end. I am not attempting to take from my stbxh a pound of flesh or parental time. It’s best that you read my post history to see where I am coming from. I am not an enemy.I'm in the UK and it comes up fairly soon after starting dating. I find being honest is best, admitting to my faults and being honest about hers. I'm careful not to paint her as the crazy ex, she is by the way BPD and a bunch of other things, but I try not to paint her as such because it's not really fair, she doesn't get the chance to defend herself. As a result I also follow that by saying what my red lines are, what is and isn't acceptable. I state clearly that marriage is not an option for m… | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/02/22 07:32 AM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.And still you can't stfu, typical teenage girl who thinks her thoughts are important. I'm not running out of words here sweetheart, I'm running out of patience, you seem determined to convince me that feminists are good people, you have zero knowledge of the world or how it works, you've said yourself you believe in gender roles, only when you choose them. So you really mean you believe in them only when it suits you, otherwise you don't, when it suits you they are forced into others. Typical fe… | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 07:24 AM |
| 8 | Swedish Equality: There’s not enough female victims. Let’s classify violence against men as violence against women. Zero male victims? Guess they won’t be needing those sheltersOh but, not all feminists..... Yeah sorry, you'll say that now but where were you when this was being passed, enjoying that sweet supremacy. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 07:20 AM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.As I say feminists are the world's biggest hypocrites, you've proven that by your own words. So I'll say this again, the only good feminist is a dead one, do you still think you'll change my views. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 07:15 AM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Ok I'll just say the following, the only good feminist is a dead one. Do you still think you'll change my view. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 07:14 AM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Fantasy spwewd out again, you must be a child, your writing shows you talk about things but hold zero understanding of them, you really need to learn to think for yourself. | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/02/22 07:13 AM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.And still you hit the keys like a crazy woman, I must really he getting under your skin. I'm enjoying myself by the way, nothing pleases me more than to see a feminist crumble. What I want to know now though is this, does your fictional boyfriend follow gender roles, you claimed he's very masculine, so doe he stick with gender roles then or is that something you've had to come to terms with, because I'm puzzled, if he doesn't then he's not very masculine and if he does how badly does it stick in… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 10:07 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Oh poor crazy baby, you just can't stop yourself, I'm living in your head rent free.. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.No she is an academic giant of the entire feminist movement, next you'll try the no true Scotsman fallacy, sorry but I'm going to play your logic out in a new and shiny way. According to your logic not all Nazis were bad people, there was just a small minority. Here's another one for you Under patriarchy every womans son is her potential rapist Andrea dworkin. Another giant of feminist academia. Another central pillar of the feminist movement, what I find surprising is how I know more about the … | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Can't give it up so have to continue to project your issues onto the world, ok so you believe everything you say, I'm sure your therapist has a diagnosis for you.. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Ok I believe you, I'm sure you believe it too. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Ok then, when she comes out you'll stick with her though right. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.This is the movement you are aligned with https://www.vice.com/en/article/5gkkj5/is-reducing-the-male-population-by-90-percent-the-solution-to-all-our-problems Tells me all I need to know about your idea of equal rights. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Do you do each others make-up. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.If I wanted to know what you though I would ha e asked you, so it's a bit presumptuous to think anybody cares what you think. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 08:21 PM |
| 0 | RantI have a problem with your use of the term oppression with regards to women of the last century. Ok let's face some facts, in some places a wife was property of the husband. She lacked certain rights in society, she had certain expectations over her. That's true yes but not all women would say they were or felt like they were property. Yes they lacked certain rights, but they also didn't have certain responsibilities either. A wife who could cook and clean and keep a nice home was often extremel… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.I never said an entire group is incapable of finding love, I never said an entire group is evil. I said no self respecting man would be in a relationship with a feminist. I said feminists are lower than garbage. Stop projecting, it's really telling of the therapy you surely need. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Wtf, word salad spewed onto the page is a clear sign of insanity. As for the equal genders bit, no sorry that's not what feminism is about and not what feminists want. Try again, I'm sure there's a feminist echo chamber you can join. Oh before you go there, yes I don't consider feminists as human, sorry not sorry, you label yourself as that you're lower than garbage. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.I don't know why you thought I was triggered, I think that's you're projecting again. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 07:58 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.No you're right, I don't believe you and nobody else in this sub does either. The only reason a male would date a thing calling themselves a feminist is if that make were not firing on all cylinders, in that case it's just abuse by the feminist thing. So no, nobody believes you. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 07:10 PM |
| 2 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.Riiiiiight the boyfriend. Sure, yeah. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | This is also a traditional gender role that needs to be rediscovered and taught to young men.My boyfriend yeah you mean the one you wrote about in your fantasy novel, the one that never gets published about the boyfriend from a different country who doesn't get to travel very often which is why your friends have never met him. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Sure... Just give me examples...Worse still is they created the situation they are now finding themselves in. I mean they essentially say we want equal treatment and special treatment. We want to reject traditional roles and traditional roles are stupid and nobody should be held to a traditional role. Then they do the exact opposite by saying men should court women in the traditional role.. Wtf. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowersYou said it yourself, a woman who wants to be taken care of, know what else wants to be taken care of, a child. You also said a fantasy of taming a beast, a fantasy. So in your own words, women are fantasists and children. Now to be honest I think you got emotional about what you read and your response, quite embarrassing for you, I suggest you carefully read the post, check the usernames and then check the username of whom made the post. You'll see my response was nothing like what you're tryin… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/02/22 07:22 AM |
| 2 | First time got banned from any Subreddit. ( Was I wrong, if yes plz correct me)Ok not bye because I ha e to ask you. Do you believe in gender based social roles. I want to hear your answer to that and the other point I raised, purely because we all want to be able to laugh at your destroying your own argument. So what is it. Yes then you're against women's rights, no then your argument is just a whine from a child. You're against the rights of women because if you accept gender roles then she should not have been out drinking at that time without a chaperone in the first p… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/02/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | First time got banned from any Subreddit. ( Was I wrong, if yes plz correct me)Like I said a truly slimy pos, nothing else to argue just more bitchy slime, say hi to your boyfriend for me. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/02/22 05:42 PM |
| 2 | First time got banned from any Subreddit. ( Was I wrong, if yes plz correct me)Rape apologist yes, racist trump supporter, Joe Rogan fan. What else you cock sucker, I can throw insults about too. It's easy to do that, what's harder for you though is making a decent argument that doesn't involve swallowing a dick.. Try again. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/02/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | First time got banned from any Subreddit. ( Was I wrong, if yes plz correct me)Your post history tells me all I need to know, you really are a shitty person, polyamoury wow that was a shitty thing to do. And you have the brass neck to shout about being a decent human being, you've got a long way to go before you're even half way there. | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/02/22 05:20 PM |
| 2 | First time got banned from any Subreddit. ( Was I wrong, if yes plz correct me)Oh poor baby, ok while you're shouting and sat there shaking into your latte, just know that I'm pissing myself laughing at your blatant white knighting. Tell me then, let's we if you can explain this to me. If I'm not entitled to anything from anybody, do you agree with me... Then answer why do you think I would owe anybody anything and why do you think anybody is entitled to anything from me. Now be very careful how you answer that because if you're saying it's being a decent human being then … | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/02/22 05:17 PM |
| 8 | Subconscious emotional trauma?Always dude, best we can do is tell our story and hope that younger guys will stop thinking she'll never do that to me. Listen you younger men who are currently thinking of doing something this stupid, we all thought she'll never do that to me and she fucking well did. It really doesn't matter if you're a shithead or god's gift to woman kind, it really makes no difference, we know that it makes no difference because do you seriously believe all of us on here are angels or demons, no we're neithe… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/22 02:03 PM |
| 7 | Subconscious emotional trauma?Been there so know well your pain and the nightmares. This is why men need to grow some balls and walk away from broken women, you don't fix them, they drag you down into their own hell. | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/22 12:37 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with feminists on this subYou raise some good points. My point is to let the feminists make their argument, we counter with logic and reason, with facts and rational discourse. As I said it's to the ones who have not made up their minds but then will be hearing the indoctrination and usual statements who will come to this sub and will inevitably then read the statements made by feminists for which they always hear anyway, the difference is that they will also be able to see the counter argument to the assertion, showing … | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/02/22 02:25 PM |
| 16 | So empowering!Another hypocrisy from feminists. They'll argue in this case they are claiming ownership of their sexuality and their bodies. The funny thing here is what is common to feminists, people in general but feminists more so than anybody else, they take the small segment of a group within a population and expand that to apply to all. What I mean here is at one time in a few parts of the free world a husband could rape his wife, she was considered to be his property, now we know that no longer applies … | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/02/22 02:09 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with feminists on this subWhat benefits are there, that's for you to decide, are you afraid of what they might say, do you have enough knowledge and courage of your conviction to debate openly and honestly with them or are you looking for another echo chamber. It's easy to decide but you have to pick your poison here, you won't be able to have both. Maybe if your argument is good enough you'll get some of them to at least think about things in a different way, if they'll do that maybe they'll see the toxic mindfuck that … | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/02/22 01:07 PM |
| 12 | How to deal with feminists on this subNo the sub was created to allow people, regardless of gender to discuss their issues with feminists and feminism in general. The sub was always open to allowing feminists to come here to give us their views on the condition they are aware their views will be challenged from other perspectives. We run the gauntlet here, they are scared little children, who most often don't know nor really have any concept of what they ask for and talk about, if we begin to censor them are we better than they are … | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/02/22 12:24 PM |
| 3 | First time got banned from any Subreddit. ( Was I wrong, if yes plz correct me)I don’t know how you feminism see this way, when chivalry is all we have ever wanted. Nope sorry, that's the exact opposite of what you want, stop ovary-acting, use logic instead of emotions. Part of chivalry is the protection and preservation of women and their honour, you wanted to end that, heres Ali k for you to read some more http://www.nerdyfeminist.com/2012/01/no-chivalry-thanks.html?m=1 What you are asking for or in fact trying to twist it into is a kind of respect. Again here you're fal… | /r/AntiFeminists | 07/02/22 07:33 AM |
| 4 | First time got banned from any Subreddit. ( Was I wrong, if yes plz correct me)No he never owed her anything, though I would take 10-20 minutes out of my day to make sure a woman gets home safe especially whilst she’s extremely drunk. You lack human morals like most of the people in this subreddit. You also can’t see that feminism wouldn’t of been a thing in the first place if men weren’t such dicks to women, ironic right? You agree with me in the first part and then go onto say essentially you want chivalry because you want it, ironic that chivalry is the very thin that f… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/02/22 11:16 PM |
| 5 | First time got banned from any Subreddit. ( Was I wrong, if yes plz correct me)You call me disgusting but you rant and rave and ignore that I owe you nothing, the person in the original post owed that girl nothing and she actually had no right to expect anything. Call it disgusting all you want, but you really mean, men should out themselves into harms way for women and in fact coddle them and let them shout about being equal. Why should any body believe anybody who claims they were raped, evidence is what matters an accusation, a statement is irrelevant. All you're doing … | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/02/22 10:17 PM |
| 5 | Feeling guilty, emotional about decisionI thought the same about my ex-wife too, until I got home early from work ill and she was playing pony with a long time mate, he still walks with a limp. Fuck him anyway. You have to understand, the cheating isn't so much an action deliberately to hurt you, but for them to feel something, anything,it doesn't matter it's just to experience something outside of the hole they are in now. You see being in your shoes, you can see something is wrong, you want to fix it and move forward with your life … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/22 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Feeling guilty, emotional about decisionDude I know where you're coming from here, my ex-wife has BPD and borderline personality disorders.. Everything you've written could have been written by me. So here is the game as it plays out, stay with her and eventually she will cheat, as long as she refuses to get the required help she needs she will continue along this path. You are feeling guilt because people with a mental illness do still have lucid moments where they can actually see the damage they do, for you this is a nightmare but … | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/02/22 07:15 PM |
| 13 | Uber just accidentally proved that the Gender Pay Gap doesn't exist. Their algorithm has no information about the gender of the driver but pays men more at average because they work harder, take longer trips, drive faster. It is a PERFORMANCE GAPYes we know. The fact is this if given the same inputs and the same outputs along with quality then if women do earn less than men employers would only hire women because they maximize their profits for the exact same product or output. An interesting aside was a few years ago Amazon used ai to screen candidates for employment and in most cases found that men were being selected over women purely on performance and data points.. They don't use the ai anymore. | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/02/22 05:00 PM |
| 16 | First time got banned from any Subreddit. ( Was I wrong, if yes plz correct me)Well to be honest here it was your approach that was off. You see instead you could have pointed out the following. She said no, men are told after a no is said it's a no, any further interaction after that point is harassment at the least. Also she made choices, she drank alcohol to the point where she was not in control of her own actions, that's not anybody's fault other than hers. Unless of course we're willing to say that she wasn't capable of understanding that drinking to excess is danger… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 3 | I guess feminists were serious when they said "I'm sick of hearing about male mental health" definitely a ban-worthy comment.Exactly, and I left it there hoping somebody would expand the conversation a bit, you see what often happens is they show their own hypocrisy again and again. You talk to any one of them about issues men face, the first default answer they give is that men should campaign on their issues there's nothing stopping men doing that. What they don't say is that the moment men get together to talk about their issues feminists will come out in droves to protest, issue death threats and close down any di… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/02/22 02:44 PM |
| 3 | I guess feminists were serious when they said "I'm sick of hearing about male mental health" definitely a ban-worthy comment.Their argument is that it will take focus away from women's issues. The idiocy here is the assumption that society can be fixed by only focussing on the issues from one side of the gender divide. What you have to understand here is that feminists ideal of a utopia is a society were men are either subjugated and enslaved or no men at all. The issue is that women, read feminist, do not have the capability of managing and maintaining a society to any degree where they can achieve the levels of comf… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/02/22 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Hi I just subbedThe people in this sub expose the hypocrisy of feminism and feminists. The people in this sub either want true equality, meaning everyone is treated equally before the law, no exceptions for gender. Some people want to follow a traditional path, without being criticized for that choice by feminists and they see nothing wrong in their choice, it is their choice after all. Some people just want to laugh at feminists usually because they are often stupid people who shout about nuance but fail to un… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/02/22 09:40 AM |
| 1 | A reply to people calling people on this sub incelsDoes it count for what exactly. Yet again though we have another open display of hypocrisy, next this clown will be saying she, it, whatever their pronouns are this week doesn't want violence but preaches violence as long as it's against those they deem viable targets. The frustrating thing here is just how cowardly these things actually are, equality when it suits, violence when it means they get to arm the person but as long as they don't have to pull the trigger or get their hands dirty. This… | /r/AntiFeminists | 06/02/22 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowersPoor attempt to derail the topic quite honestly, the subject is the series or the characters and frankly I couldn't care less about it or them. The point is the blatant hypocrisy on full display, they want women in the top jobs which they have in the series production team but still find something to be offended about regarding the characters and the behaviour of said characters. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/02/22 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowersYour entire argument makes the premise that the women who were involved in the writing did nothing more than sit in the room and have zero say. My advice here is to stop making stupid arguments that make no sense, check the credits of the crew who did what, you'll see your argument is baseless and false given the scenario you've painted above with reference to the series. Unless of course you're actually willing to claim the women in the writing team were only tokens, you're claim is because men… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/02/22 06:26 PM |
| 5 | Buyer's Remorse - ReduxA list for what. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Ramblings about Feminism, how do we progress past feminism?Can you, I don't know anybody can, were arguing here about these topics constantly and always skirting the edge of being banned outright and having the sub shut down. You're arguing against the machine here, feminist rhetoric is endemic to government, schools, industry and business. Then there is the fact of youth, youth rarely if ever listens to the older more experienced generation, you're going to ha e to get past that. That's not to say that yous shouldn't attempt to do it just those are the… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/02/22 09:33 AM |
| 17 | Buyer's Remorse - Redux304s trying to sell themselves as housewives. Vet long vet hard and always be prepared to walk away. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/02/22 09:05 AM |
| 1 | "A male stranger acting alone most often responsible for unwanted sexual behaviour in public"More cope and more deranged bullshit. History shows when women are in leadership roles they'll default to violence sooner, wars last longer are more violent and more extreme.. Youre argument is also deeply flawed because you ignore women warriors and female gladiators, you really should check your history before you make a statement of total ignorance. You also ignore that in domestic violence incidents a lesbian relationship has a higher rate of violence than a gay or straight relationship. You… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/02/22 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowersI've heard that it's a discussion piece mainly. I've not watched it, I just found it extremely funny that women were at every level in the process of making the series yet men are still blamed. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/02/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowersYou can ask but why then are you blaming men for it when women were also writing the script. Isn't it also fair to say then that women can have fantasies about sex and being naked as much as men. The common trope is men think about sex ever five seconds but there is actually nothing more than anecdotal evidence for this and it's never been proven, yet here's the paradox you now have to explain.. If women are equal to men, if women enjoy sex as much as men, why then hold to the idea that only men… | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/02/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowersGot no answers for you on that one sister. | /r/AntiFeminists | 05/02/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowersFair assessment. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/02/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Hate women after divorceYes it does but again it only gets worse as long as you out up with it, you can always walk away. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/02/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowersYeah that's certainly part of the problem, as long as they are allowed to hold their views then you cannot have a discussion with them. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/02/22 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowersI have no idea myself. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/02/22 05:25 PM |
| 10 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowers🤣 | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/02/22 02:44 PM |
| 31 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowersOh no I'm totally banned from that sub, it's my badge of honour though. What got me involved in that discussion itself was the sheer insanity they were displaying during the discussion. Blaming men for the series when women were every bit as involved through every level of the production. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/02/22 02:24 PM |
| 10 | Ok so facts seriously upset these fragile little flowersExactly, it's like what is it they actually want then, women at the top, well now they have that, but it's not good enough because they aren't the right sort of women, so how does that work exactly.. They epitomise the feminist hypocrisy we talk about daily here. | /r/AntiFeminists | 04/02/22 02:20 PM |
| 10 | Feminists call for female superiority, not equality.Some feminists do actually claim that they would agree with these points and they are arguing that men should have the option to enter into teaching younger children. However there are words used there which hide their true meaning, the words should have the option. What they truly mean is they get to shout about an imagined societal problem and still keep their privileged position as women in society. What this statement hides is that men, certainly in the UK, do have the option to follow a car… | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/02/22 10:55 PM |
| 5 | Do you have any advice for men that haven’t been married?My advice is just don't get married. If you really must do something that stupid then live together, let her change her name legally, draw up you will but do not get married. Would do it again no and 3 times I've said no. I will continue to say no from now until I die. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/22 04:11 PM |
| 11 | I’m (29M) considering divorcing my wife (28F) due to her failure to contribute anything to our marriage financially. Yes, I can support her and I make a pretty good living. My problem is that I should not need to support her at the level that I am, due to the context of our marriage currently.Well it's 2022 and you have every right to expect and even demand that she get a better job and contribute to the home. See no reason why you should put up with it any longer, take the time to separate and speak with a lawyer and see what your options are. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/22 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Just when you thought you have seen it all.Boundaries are a thing gentlemen have them, keep them and don't break them for anybody or this will your next interesting story at a dinner party. | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/02/22 01:02 PM |
| 7 | FDS is now going after non-feminist woman, nothing special here.It's the original crab bucketing sub. What they do on this sub is effectively reduce the field of competition, convince other women to behave in a shitty and toxic way thereby reducing the number of women who are suitable for a relationship, they then either change their behaviour to the "pickme" in order to get that man or go the other way, misery loves company. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/02/22 01:01 PM |
| 16 | So there's a new movie trailer outWell if you look at each feminist movement and trace their rhetoric through you'll actually see that each iteration has moved closer to an outright attack on men, regardless of behaviour good or bad is irrelevant. I've said often the next iteration has nowhere left to go, the nuclear family, well we have the results of that playing out now. Working and obtaining the top jobs, yup we're seeing men fired from their employment to offer the same job to two underqualified women, check court documents… | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/02/22 12:28 PM |
| 13 | This is the kind of things that many women think when they see men fighting for their lives.Yeah the argument uses here is this Women attempt suicide more and have greater occurrence of mental illness. Yet still men opt for suicide at four times that of women and die from suicide at that rate, that alone should tell you there is an issue that needs to be addressed. Whataboutism, the two things are not mutually exclusive, men's mental health is being raised simply because the facts remain men attempt suicide less but are more successful at suicide, one part of me wants to say even when … | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/02/22 10:20 AM |
| 0 | Where do some women get this idea that the men they date are doing “the bare minimum”?Ah that's her come back to you for you having boundaries and saying no to being messed around. The bare minimum is doing things like cooking and cleaning or parenting the children, other things apply usually when a woman has decided she is of a certain value amount without proof of that amount. What that means is this entitled woman has decided for herself she's a 10/10 without any proof that she is, just her own value judgement, which is fine but if that truly were the case she'd be seeing the … | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/02/22 09:27 AM |
| 3 | "A male stranger acting alone most often responsible for unwanted sexual behaviour in public"Not only is that outrageously sexist it's also stereotypically stupid and extremely reductionist. Men are no more programmed to use violence than women, the only factor is that men being the stronger and larger animal is perfectly built to use violence. Being built to use violence does not mean a propensity to use violence however, also violence can be used for good as well as for bad, so your claim right there shows a lack of any nuance, a child like thought process from an undeveloped mind. Ju… | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/02/22 07:37 AM |
| 6 | A reply to people calling people on this sub incelsThis right here ladies and gentlemen is a perfect example of the feminist version of the no true Scotsman fallacy. No true feminist hates all men, we just want equal rights, but please don't pay any attention to those feminists over there shouting killallmen and also please ignore the fact that I agreed with it. | /r/AntiFeminists | 03/02/22 07:17 AM |
| 2 | What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)?Oh yes there were many times it was pay the CS or eat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Feminism summed up in a single imageAnd that is a fair point. Thanks for keeping us on track. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 10:11 PM |
| 9 | It's sad we are at a point like this, when a woman says she is sad everyone bends over backwards for them but if a man says he is sad "man up"So you accept there are a reduced number of male therapy specialists, no shelters, men have fewer friends on average because they do what you have done and have cut out those people who take but never give back so now what do you suggest for those broken men who are forced to live in their car because the family courts leave them with nothing, or just enough to pay child support, what do you say it those men who search and find therapy to be too costly because of the lack of specialists, or to t… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 10:10 PM |
| 10 | It's sad we are at a point like this, when a woman says she is sad everyone bends over backwards for them but if a man says he is sad "man up"And while I can do the get a therapist when you need one, I can do out of my own pocket or through my company whenever I need what you've forgotten about is the fact that most men absolutely cannot afford to do that. Many men don't have the access to do that simply because there isn't the number or the required levels of support, the required types of support isn't there for men. All you're now doing is saying men's problems exist and they deal with them alone because it's men's issues, in reali… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Couples therapyPrepare for war! I have to be honest and say, get a large bottle of baby oil because her, her lawyer and the family court are going to go prison gang on your arse and you're going to have to accept getting reamed and told it's all fair and about what's best. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 07:52 PM |
| 17 | It's sad we are at a point like this, when a woman says she is sad everyone bends over backwards for them but if a man says he is sad "man up"ah yes and for all us men who have to get on with things we can pick up a unicorn and a few pixies on our way to the utopia of people giving a shit. The reason why most men have very few friends, why most men don't have good relationships wit others is precisely because as men we have usually already done the work of cutting out people who don't give a crap about us and then meet other people who also don't give a crap and so we just go on with our day | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 07:49 PM |
| 46 | It's sad we are at a point like this, when a woman says she is sad everyone bends over backwards for them but if a man says he is sad "man up"It's not like the men there are lying though is it. My sister saw this and asked me, I don't have tick-tock so didn't see it but my answer to her was, not a single fucking person because I'm a man and nobody gives a shit. She laughed and then cried. She said after that it just hit home to her to see somebody she knows who makes things look easy who actually has struggles and has nobody to turn to. Most women, so it seems, think men cruise through life, that we never have issues and if we do we c… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 05:08 PM |
| 6 | Pink brains and blue brains?True, but it's also unfortunate that a lot end up as feminists. The science has proven it I'm afraid. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 04:52 PM |
| 3 | Pink brains and blue brains?Absolutely taking my life as an example I as a child lived to pull things apart to figure out how they worked, I loved gums and playing soldiers which probably explains why I went into the army, I love fixing things and probably explains why I went into the engineers in the army it probably also explains why I enjoy working with computers so much and why most women I work with in it are project focussed rather than technical, why most women join the military and chose to follow medical professio… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Feminism summed up in a single imageIf they don't report it then two things arise first your data is false and second I'd argue that it is reported, if a woman goes to the hospital to get a rape kit done then it must be reported by medical staff to the relevant people, so not only is your assertion false but your premise is also false. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Feminism summed up in a single imageYour claim of rape culture is also totally asinine and false, first rape is an horrific crime that nobody should ever have to experience let alone live with afterwards, second any man accused of rape is crucified through two courts, first the court of public opinion and second the court of the land. Your argument bases itself on the false premise that evidence should not be challenged in an open court, evidence or the bar of evidence is too high. But you have no solid acceptable arguements that … | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 02:20 PM |
| 7 | Pink brains and blue brains?So you're going to try to argue that boys don't gravitate in larger number towards toy cars, guns etc and girls don't gravitate in greater number toward dolls and people centred toys. You're now also going to claim in societies that are more equal the gap between male and female grows larger not smaller. Yet the science and the studies you so desperately want are out there, explain why Scandinavian societies which are recognized around the world as being the most egalitarian have the largest gap… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Feminism summed up in a single imageBut it's not rape you fucking moron stop trying to compare the two | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 11:58 AM |
| 14 | Pink brains and blue brains?What is the point of answering a question that science has already answered and the entire rational world already knows, of course there are differences, it affects our whole lives from what we identify as to what we chose for ourselves in every day scenarios. It's why women tend in greater numbers to choose people over things and men choose things over people. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 11:51 AM |
| 9 | Feminism summed up in a single imageBeing harassed and even assaulted is not being raped, fart rape is not rape, eye rape is not rape, rape proven in a court of law is rape fucking moron. If you knew half of what you claim you'd be at least half awake, sadly you rely on studies done where there is no peer review, psychological studies where self identification is the gold standard meaning not one shred of evidence out forward can be counted as reliable by any stretch of the imagination. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 11:48 AM |
| 13 | Pink brains and blue brains?Depends on who you speak to and what branch of feminism they subscribe to. The insane shouty retarded types believe anything written down by dworkin because she's just as fucking retarded, sorry for using that derogatory word but it fits to these things. Some who are more middle of the road know there are differences and accept them and hold the view that we are equal and different which is a gift not a hindrance. They are often shouted down by other feminists, I won't say feminazis because ulti… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 11:37 AM |
| 13 | Feminism summed up in a single imageWhat a crock of shit, every single claimed privilege in there is nothing more than assumptions and probably wrapped in a bunch of maybes none of which is actually a privilege of any sort. Let's take just one of the so called privileges, not being raped, bullshit, rape as a crime for women, something women suffer across the western world for the last 10 years has been falling, while for men and boys being raped or sexually assaulted by both men and women is rising and rising in some areas it's th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 11:02 AM |
| 3 | “Men are the more emotional ones”Holy fuck, this cretin is allowed to be around men with mental health issues or anybody with mental health issues while she is a walking mental health issue herself.. | /r/AntiFeminists | 02/02/22 09:30 AM |
| 16 | What’s the longest you’ve gone without seeing your kid(s)?3 years, my son turned 18 recently and turned up at my door asking for the truth, he stays often now and we're building a good relationship. Still not seen my daughter, she's young only 8 so let's suppose another 10 years before I get to see her. It depends though because my son has been arguing with his mother and telling my daughter the truth and he's told me she has started telling him how much she hates her mother.. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 08:51 AM |
| 25 | Couples therapyMost of the time it's mainly for men to accept the fault is theirs and vindicate the wife that her shitty behaviour isn't actually shitty. Instead my advice is to use it as a way to figure out if the marriage is worth fighting for, should be able to get that nailed in the first two sessions. Any after that are to agree how to split without too much fuss. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 08:28 AM |
| 3 | Hate women after divorceWhat you feel is normal and most of us have gone through it, letting it go is key here. Remember the following facts, women treat men like crap because men allow it, if men walked away, showed some balls, grew a backbone and walked, said fuck what society says I'm done. The women would change, they'd have no choice other than to look at their behaviour but men won't until they have been burned so badly they begin to feel like you do now. Find a way to let go of that hate as it will only ruin thi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/02/22 07:43 AM |
| 2 | Is it wrong to just want to be single?The if that's what you're sure of I wish you well. Speak to your lawyer first and follow their advice and pop in from time to time to seek advice, ask questions and drop thoughts. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Women and feminists are not synonymous with each otherI think we can say there yes. I don't think anybody in this sub is against women having rights, having equal rights and equal standing. I think more so people are against hypocrisy of one side when having to confront the hypocrisy of the other. I think people are against equality for the benefits and blame for everything else going to everyone else.. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/02/22 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Women and feminists are not synonymous with each otherYou're right there is no place for that in adult conversation, I will attack feminists though mainly because they default to the exact issue you are complaining about. You might think it's misdirected but the issue is that feminists are the ones who behave in the very ways you are complaining about. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/02/22 11:39 AM |
| 6 | FSW you can't make the simple human empathetic connection that people don't like being scapegoated constantly.So the preachy feminist who runs around all day whining about how she hates men has been told by a man how he hates her kind of feminism. She's got her stupid turned all the way up, if she didn't see that coming. | /r/FeminismStopsWhen | 01/02/22 09:20 AM |
| 3 | Is it wrong to just want to be single?I've been divorced now four years and would never get married again. If single is what you truly want then pull the plug and bear the consequences. I'll say this though, same as I say to women, be very careful what you are asking for here. Is this what you truly want, is it just a down swing in your marriage, a trough instead of a peak. You said she's a great woman, surely there must be something that you loved about her that made you want to be married to her. You say therapy is just delaying t… | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/02/22 08:45 AM |
| 8 | Women and feminists are not synonymous with each otherI agree, most women actually don't like feminists and feminism and most women actually don't want to use the word because of what the movement has become. On the flip side most men hate and actually feel revulsion at the thought of a man raping a woman. We really can do better, make sure that we are clear who we point out, make sure that we are only attacking feminists or feminism. | /r/AntiFeminists | 01/02/22 07:43 AM |
| -1 | DIY DivorceYes even in that shite hole | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/01/22 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Men don’t have a prayer when “simps” gonna “simp” for feminist approval…Keep exposing their hypocrisy, it's how they silence themselves, when you show the world how they truly think about women, what they truly think about women. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/01/22 10:45 AM |
| 8 | Yo I try an open up on the malementalhealth sub about how im tired of feminists tellin me my struggles ain't real cause I'm "privileged" and this clown thinks it's his job to lecture me about how I'm wrong cause they ain't using "privilege right. Just found this sub. Think Im gonna like itYou did the right thing there by asking for an example and sticking to the point. People like that, feminists and white Knights love to derail by going outside the lines of discussion when you keep them to the argument they show they have nothing. Remember you aren't trying to convince them of anything their mind has already been made up, it's those who still think for themselves that you are talking to. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/01/22 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Some women are genuinely living life on stupid mode, whine about being protected and whine when nobody will protect themTruth bomb dropped. | /r/AntiFeminists | 31/01/22 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Some women are genuinely living life on stupid mode, whine about being protected and whine when nobody will protect themAnd still you judge all people ls value based around sex, the worst kind of feminist. The kind who claims to support women and then gets upset when they don't sleep with you. Projection much. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/01/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Some women are genuinely living life on stupid mode, whine about being protected and whine when nobody will protect themIt's interesting that you place a person's worth on their ability to get a woman for sex. I find it interesting how you're most likely the kind who says they support women's rights, I do too, you're also most likely the kind who says women and men are more valuable than just as objects of sex and we should stop sexualising everything. And in that one statement you make me a man a sexual oppressor and my only focus in life should be about how I can obtain women purely for sex, without doing so ma… | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/01/22 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Some women are genuinely living life on stupid mode, whine about being protected and whine when nobody will protect themA comment that is the usual insane ramblings of a simp doormat, ok then Mr white knight keep playing that game let's come back in ten years and see where you are. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/01/22 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Some women are genuinely living life on stupid mode, whine about being protected and whine when nobody will protect themI would have thought so, like I said they are the first to whine when they pick a shit man who does the pump and dump, so this is just beggars belief. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/01/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Greyrock needs helpHere's a simple word for you to use in these situations No Text can we chat About what... Oh things, stuff, you know No But but but No Well you.... No Rinse and repeat until she gets it, you don't want her back, you don't have time to waste on her and you need to stop letting her waste your time. She's doing it because she has no drama, no men chasing after a single mother who the court deemed isn't fit enough to ha e her kids most of the time, she's alone and knows it and is feeling it. Do not … | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/01/22 11:58 AM |
| 13 | Dated a closet feminist, got arrestedDo not get back in touch with it, trap your dick in your zipper each time to teach yourself to stay away from these things. At least with a feminist who is clear about it you can stay away from them because they make it clear you should, the closeted kind are just mentally sick worse than the other kind because they hide it so well. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/01/22 11:33 AM |
| 5 | I have nothing to sayYup, the brighter the colouring, the more toxic the animal. | /r/AntiFeminists | 30/01/22 08:00 AM |
| 51 | I have nothing to sayThis is actually a good thing and I think we should both realise it and encourage it. Realise it's a good thing because the more they feel comfortable the more likely they are to out themselves, leaving the rest of us to point, laugh, and then call out the politicians who support their ideology. Second it means that others will wake up, take steps to avoid them. It also means they won't be left without a choice, they won't be able to live with their hatred and still call on men for support when … | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/01/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]A truth bomb right there. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 06:55 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Only real advice I can give you here Don't ask fishermen how to catch fish, they are also trying to catch the same fish. Don't ask fish how to catch fish they are trying to not be caught. Listen to the tips here General rules of thumb Work out and eat right Sleep Work well at your job and build stability Wash and shower daily Wear good well fitting clothes Learn to talk to women It's a numbers game. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 06:01 PM |
| 10 | Got downvoted for spitting some truth, apparently very few people like the truth 🤷♂️🙆♂️The bigger truth is the response you got, which said how many women see it purely as a way to ensure an income. How's that working out for you when marriage is falling and nobody wants to do it anymore. My suggestion is the non-feminist women really need to get off their arses and take the fight back otherwise you've got a whole life of working for a boss who doesn't give a shit about you, watching your true dreams vanish and sat alone in some shitty apartment asking yourself where it all went s… | /r/AntiFeminists | 29/01/22 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Q4All: what are you doing for Valentine’s Day?Getty Ng drunk off my arse probably | /r/AntiFeminists | 28/01/22 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Was I mislead?My understanding of us law is limited but generally alimony is only payable if the other person isn't working or had no other form of income or skills that can apply in the marketplace. She may be entitled to something but it will by no means be the hight of what you were told to expect. Speak to another lawyer and see what they say. | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/22 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Don't know if I'm allowed to post this but If I can't, feel free to remove this post modsYes but if I'd said we aren't a hate group, I would have had any number of people saying back, that's exactly what a member of a hate group would say. What I've done instead is invite people to argue with me and show why wanting to be left alone to live my life as I chose how I choose, not hurting anybody is hateful or harmful to others. | /r/AntiFeminists | 27/01/22 02:54 PM |
| 5 | Don't know if I'm allowed to post this but If I can't, feel free to remove this post modsI made a post to better explain mgtow. People live to see us as a hate group, yeah we do get those types but they are usually in the rage phase, their relationship has failed and they are being reamed by the courts and they find out nobody gives a shit, that does tend to make people angry. We generally band together to help them vent and then figure out other ways to live their lives and find happiness. Usually you'll find after that passes mgtow to be quite a chilled out relaxed bunch who just … | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/01/22 04:32 PM |
| 15 | Don't know if I'm allowed to post this but If I can't, feel free to remove this post modsOk so for anybody who is interested in what mgtow is, this comes from somebody who is mgtow It stands for men going their own way We only have a few rules, which to be fair aren't hard and fast rules, each man choses for himself No marriage No cohabitation Do not raise another man's child Do not support women with time or resources You are the sovereign of your life, in control of it and responsible for it, success is by your hand so is failure, you are not a victim. These rules apply in a very … | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/01/22 04:30 PM |
| 9 | Don't know if I'm allowed to post this but If I can't, feel free to remove this post modsSorry but that's an incorrect understanding of mgtow. I know because I'm mgtow. It means mean going their own way The basic rules are no marriage and no cohabitation Outside of that you decide for yourself what it means, what life means for you, what success looks like, what being a man in today's world looks like. That's it, no leadership, no followers. You control your own life, you take ownership of your life you carry the blame for things that go wrong. It's formally crystallised into one si… | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/01/22 04:16 PM |
| 7 | As a woman, I totally need special treatment and segregation from men eventhough most men in shopping malls just want to do their own thingIs it just me or do you all laugh at the sheer hypocrisy, some women have fought hard and won in every case to remove a segregated space where women can enter into a male dominated area and now they have that they fight long and hard to have women only spaces. It's really like some of them actually have no idea what they truly want. Like kids in a candy store with a wallet full of cash. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/01/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the streetOh right so let's take it on face value because he didn't say he thought he was or wasn't but yeah let's cause controversy just because. Dick | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Today I made conversation with a random stunning girl I approached on the streetGood work, listen if nothing happens it doesn't matter, what matters is you broke the ice, weren't creepy and went for it. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 09:27 AM |
| 3 | Even tho im a "feminist" WHAT HAPPENED TO EQUAL RIGHTS??? i got banned from r/feminism cause i said that men should be able to defend themselves against women and that they should definitely slap girls back and that "rule" is sexist. For both men and women.Let's all say this together, feminists want superiority not equality. Feminism has nothing to do with equal rights. If it did they'd have stopped when they got those equal rights | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/01/22 09:24 AM |
| 3 | Oh no… imagine father showing her daughter’s dildo and going “and he has been showing this fake dick to her little pussy”This isn't anti-feminist it's just abusive and trashy done for social media clout. Skanks gonna skank but that's about it, at least we know why her son is shooting up his local school or why the kid went nuts and put her in the hospital. Yes the lack of self awareness is astounding but given the nature of things at the moment this shouldn't come as a surprise that bullying abusive behaviour like this from a mother towards her son is glorified in the name of likes. | /r/AntiFeminists | 26/01/22 08:29 AM |
| 4 | Single mom with 2 kids and ready to settle down! Tired of all the games!She is exactly why women can't have nice things, no dik | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/01/22 07:29 AM |
| 8 | Why aren't men talking back when they match with this lovely, young and eligible woman?Who in their right mind posts a picture showing their biggest red flag right off the bat. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/01/22 06:59 PM |
| 5 | Do antifeminists believe the patriarchy doesn't exist, or do they believe it exists but for good reason?What does it mean to me personally then. A nuclear family where the father is the somewhat head. He takes on the responsibility for protecting and providing for the family but not ruling the family, he should be working with his wife for the good of the family, he has certain traditional roles and so does she. Neither is superior but both bring their respective skills to the family. What happens after the children have been raised is that both he and she gets to experience a second dating period… | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/01/22 04:03 PM |
| 7 | Do antifeminists believe the patriarchy doesn't exist, or do they believe it exists but for good reason?I've read your comments and can see what you actually mean by patriarchy and in the sense you mean it no we actually do not believe the patriarchy exists in your sense... A contingent of men hold power and through that oppress women. No it's not the case, you're taking a subset a 1% of 1% and extrapolating that to represent the whole of the male species of humanity. The world doesn't operate in that way, you cannot take a fraction of a fraction and say see that applies to the group as a whole, i… | /r/AntiFeminists | 25/01/22 02:32 PM |
| 15 | Other subreddits using your post history to slander.I actually love it when somebody shouts youreee an incel at me I have a few comebacks which always shuts them up Yes I am, I'm also a racist trump supporter but you will always be a fat unwanted feminist, the kind where only your cats eating your face after you die and spend a week waiting for you to stick up the place enough for somebody to phone someone to clean up the last mess you've left behind and then shoot your feral cats. The other one is a bit more highbrow and morally superior You cal… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/01/22 05:58 PM |
| 3 | What would have happened without that picture?But but but women never file a false allegation /s. Yeah sure they don't, so then explain this one. Oh uhm the patriarchy, you mysoginistic bastard. Oh yeah I forgot that one. | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/01/22 12:40 PM |
| 5 | Feminism is about equalityYup and I can't wait for the next iteration of the movement, each iteration has gone closer and closer to direct attacks on all men and each iteration has gone a step closer to seeking superiority over men, the next one will actually show their true desire as that is the only place they have left to go and because nobody except China and Russia has put a stop to it they know they can cross that Rubicon without any consequence. We can sit here and say yeah try it but they will and their army of s… | /r/AntiFeminists | 24/01/22 09:20 AM |
| 10 | What happened to equality?I encourage men to read through the things they post and when going on a date listen, actually listen to women, put your dick away and use your brain to listen to them and they'll tell you exactly the kind of woman they are. Splitting the bill is in my view way down the road, a first date should always be nothing more than a coffee date or drinks, a second date or third date is where you split the bill, it's where you find out what she really sees in you, are you a food call, a safe port, a back… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/01/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | What feminists don’t realize when men say “if we’re equal, does that mean I can hit women?”I'd go further and argue what men mean by this statement is twofold First it means if you attack me then all bets are off and I get to defend myself to the fullest extent that I can, if that means hurting you in such a way that you are left with a permanent injury then so be it. Secondly it means that I treat you as I have been treated, as all men are treated, you do not get the tight to special consideration, women first is a historical idea, now it's every person for themselves, if you fail th… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/01/22 12:05 PM |
| 18 | Feels good to insult these bitches.Here's a few quotes that apply, because feminists love to use them but actually have little intellectual capacity to understand them. Why should any man apologize for being a monster nobody ever apologised for making him that way Tupac said, she broke up with me for being too nice, women don't want nice guys they want assholes. Men are not born assholes it takes a woman to teach him to be a good man and another woman to teach him how wrong he is. | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/01/22 11:38 AM |
| 54 | What happened to equality?FDS is a cesspit of female insanity, the women on this sub post what the post because they are larping at bein dateable, the entire sub is a cope.. Man sees woman behaving like a total shit and walks away from her, it's because he's low value and she's a kween. Man sets expectations and boundaries and enforces them, woman knows she's not good enough to meet those standards, so he's low value and mysoginistic, or even funnier mysoginoir. The best thing you can all do is to read the sub and know w… | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/01/22 11:22 AM |
| 2 | From the Mag for 13+ Girls, that taught them the pleasures of anal sex, now comes the righteousness of sex work. Thank you feminism 🤡🌍.Feminists in this regard are directly responsible for creating their own misery, and increasing the misery of millions of women. Another example of the dangerous ideology that it has become. Do all prostitutes hate what they do, I suppose not, I suppose there are some who enjoy it, revel in it even but they are the exception to the rule not the general case which in my view invalidates their view when we know the vast majority of women do not like what they do, do not like what they have to do, … | /r/AntiFeminists | 23/01/22 09:00 AM |
| 1 | From the Mag for 13+ Girls, that taught them the pleasures of anal sex, now comes the righteousness of sex work. Thank you feminism 🤡🌍.Then sex work isn't work, and moral actions are applied, morality is in effect. The prostitute and the John are both immoral in the it actions. Or sex work is work, sanctioned by society and not immoral and no different to any other purchase, pick your poison here but you get one or the other but not both. The person paying for the performance, or massage as you've put it considers the person providing the service no more than they provide the service. If sex work is work then there is no moral … | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/01/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | From the Mag for 13+ Girls, that taught them the pleasures of anal sex, now comes the righteousness of sex work. Thank you feminism 🤡🌍.So you're actually claiming that I'm stupid but ignoring that I'm using English as used in the UK and you actually have no idea that any country outside of the USA exists, uses English and has its own rules for spelling and grammar, and you call me stupid. Wow such ignorance. I get it now, nothing of any value to add just general argument with little to no thought behind it. Playing at being an argumentative bastard because you got hurt by some skank in high school and still haven't shaken it of… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/01/22 10:12 PM |
| 0 | From the Mag for 13+ Girls, that taught them the pleasures of anal sex, now comes the righteousness of sex work. Thank you feminism 🤡🌍.Word salad trying to play the game but you don't yet know the rules, you're actually showing your liberal arts education here, guaranteeing yourself a lifetime of student debt and stacking shelves. Sadly for you the fact remains if I rent a prostitute then I'm renting her body for sex, buying or renting is irrelevant she is just an object, the object being paid for. You actually have no way out of this argument now, surely you must realise that you've dug your own way into it, I can see it and s… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/01/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | From the Mag for 13+ Girls, that taught them the pleasures of anal sex, now comes the righteousness of sex work. Thank you feminism 🤡🌍.I'm using a mobile so grammar is going to be a little off, I accept that and so do others, if that's your best counter then you've proven my point, back to tumbler or better yet stick around we like to laugh at the fat miserable feminists here. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 0 | From the Mag for 13+ Girls, that taught them the pleasures of anal sex, now comes the righteousness of sex work. Thank you feminism 🤡🌍.Ok then so explain the difference between buying a coffee, hiring a plumber and hiring a prostitute. According to you there is no difference, so I hire a plumber and see that person as a plumber, i see that person's value as a plumber, I hire a prostitute and therefore by your own argument have absolute justification on seeing her as providing no more value than her abilities to provide sex, therefore she is nothing more than a sexual object. Your own argument taken to it's logical conclusion. I… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/01/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | From the Mag for 13+ Girls, that taught them the pleasures of anal sex, now comes the righteousness of sex work. Thank you feminism 🤡🌍.Wow a blatant muddying attempt if I've ever seen it, no argument so you attempt to confuse and misdirect, poorly done as well, you have a long way to go if you're going to speak for any feminist group if you think your armature tactics work. | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/01/22 09:48 PM |
| 4 | From the Mag for 13+ Girls, that taught them the pleasures of anal sex, now comes the righteousness of sex work. Thank you feminism 🤡🌍.This is just another self own. Whenever you get this in any discussion you have now two arguments you can make. First if sex work is work then buying a sex worker is no different to buying a coffee or any other object, congratulations you've just enabled women to be objectified as sex objects. The second argument you can make is this, if sex work is work, then buying sex is no different to buying a sandwich, why get upset at men who are in a relationship and buying sex. You were the ones who fin… | /r/AntiFeminists | 22/01/22 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Finance question on mariageDo not get married to this person period. If you absolutely must be that stupid again then get a prenup sorted, if she lives you she will accept that you have your responsibility and she has hers, she will accept she cannot hold you liable for her debt. Sorry but after having that conversation with her the door would have been opened and she would have been asked, told to take herself through it. Instead you tell her this, you are a strong independent woman, it is 2022, I am no more responsible … | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Laws Ask Women to Go Against Their NatureWe all hear you on that one buddy. We all feel the same. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/22 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Laws Ask Women to Go Against Their NatureI get where you're coming from and I'm happy to apologize, it came across as angry, and rage based maybe against the system, and I felt that because I've been there myself, I've been to the lowest a man can go and it nearly cost me my life. So I know that anger all to well. I also know nearly no matter where you are the system is stacked against us as men. Does that mean we need to remain single forever, yes, no, maybe. I can't answer that for every man, for myself that is a hard yes, the system… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/01/22 06:25 PM |
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